That already makes you a horrible role model. If you can’t even support your own kids then good look supporting other parents kids that ain’t gonna happen
Time ours teach children that there are consequences for unacceptable behavior. They are not about getting needs met. Everything isn’t about getting needs met.
I had this incident with two kids from a stranger at the airport. A 3 year old and his 7 years old brother. They both took to me and left their dad to sit with me then the todler started hitting his older brother, really hard and I tried to get him to stop as now both of them were fighting. Seriously, a fierce 3 year old against a 7 year old . I told tjr baby it was not nice to hit people and we can't be friends if he doesn’t stop hitting. He then turned on me and started hitting me. When I tried to male him stop by holding both hands he started screaming. Mind you I am the stranger they met during travel at the airport. I then tried to ignore him, then he started hitting my bag. When that didn't get the reaction he wanted, he then started hitting me again after a while those tiny fist began to hurt and I got tired of this little child's aggressive behaviour and lack of discipline. I was even thinking of putting him on my lap ans spanking his butt. But as he is not my child I couldn't. My fondness for the kid was gone, and I asked his older brother to drag him back to his father as he would not stop hitting me. The when he was at his dad, he started crying really hard. The 7 year old came running to my corner, but instead of coming to me he walked around me casually with his hands in his pocket. I did not call him. And both of them never came to me again. I do not have kids and have limited babysitting experience but I sensed that both kids, especially the older one felt that I had rejected them. I felt really bad for not knowing how to deal with the toddler's bad behaviour and just allowed them to get back to their dad feeling rejected. It was not my intention to scar them, but those little blows hurt 😊 What was the best way for me to handle this? I love kids, and want to learn for when I decide to have one. Thanks
My daughter pinches me as what I assume is just getting off extra energy or something. She’s emotionless when she does it and often times is focused on something else. But if I’m holding her it’s pinch pinch pinch
So don’t slap them? Lol My friend has no control over his kid and it was the most frustrating thing to watch happen. The amount of insubordination and the need for him to repeat himself to the toddler was outright concerning.
Nah man. Toddlers and babies r still tryna understand the world and how things work. If u start hitting ur child back and hurting them, thats gonna teach them that violence is ok, bc kids look up to their parents from birth, and they learn everything from the people caring for them. That's literally so damaging like dude what- I cant believe this even needs to be explained to u. I sincerely hope u dont hv kids. Instead of using violence, teach them *empathy* 💀
Yeahhh...no. If they see their parent or another person hit them, they will understand that it's ok to hit and bite when it's not. Teaching boundaries without hitting or biting back is much healthier in the long run.
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I don't think I'll ever have kids, but videos like this make me think I can support the kids of my relatives and friends in the future
That already makes you a horrible role model. If you can’t even support your own kids then good look supporting other parents kids that ain’t gonna happen
@jammerskank2849
You in pain?
@@jammerskank2849Dude what?
Time ours teach children that there are consequences for unacceptable behavior. They are not about getting needs met. Everything isn’t about getting needs met.
I did time out, I will do this! Thank YOU because I dont feel time out meets her emotional needs and it leaves some mom guilt too
I had this incident with two kids from a stranger at the airport. A 3 year old and his 7 years old brother. They both took to me and left their dad to sit with me then the todler started hitting his older brother, really hard and I tried to get him to stop as now both of them were fighting. Seriously, a fierce 3 year old against a 7 year old . I told tjr baby it was not nice to hit people and we can't be friends if he doesn’t stop hitting. He then turned on me and started hitting me. When I tried to male him stop by holding both hands he started screaming. Mind you I am the stranger they met during travel at the airport. I then tried to ignore him, then he started hitting my bag. When that didn't get the reaction he wanted, he then started hitting me again after a while those tiny fist began to hurt and I got tired of this little child's aggressive behaviour and lack of discipline. I was even thinking of putting him on my lap ans spanking his butt. But as he is not my child I couldn't. My fondness for the kid was gone, and I asked his older brother to drag him back to his father as he would not stop hitting me. The when he was at his dad, he started crying really hard. The 7 year old came running to my corner, but instead of coming to me he walked around me casually with his hands in his pocket. I did not call him. And both of them never came to me again.
I do not have kids and have limited babysitting experience but I sensed that both kids, especially the older one felt that I had rejected them. I felt really bad for not knowing how to deal with the toddler's bad behaviour and just allowed them to get back to their dad feeling rejected. It was not my intention to scar them, but those little blows hurt 😊
What was the best way for me to handle this? I love kids, and want to learn for when I decide to have one. Thanks
love your calmness... Can u be my mom LOL
if my classroom has pillows, i’ll try that method and let the toddler hit them ❤❤
My daughter pinches me as what I assume is just getting off extra energy or something. She’s emotionless when she does it and often times is focused on something else. But if I’m holding her it’s pinch pinch pinch
I serched this up for my baby cosine i don’t even have a kid yet I’m just 7 years old but my baby cosine is 2 years old I’m 5 years older than her
So don’t slap them? Lol
My friend has no control over his kid and it was the most frustrating thing to watch happen. The amount of insubordination and the need for him to repeat himself to the toddler was outright concerning.
Bite or hit them back. It teaches them that is not okay.
Lol
A child doesn't understand why they're being hit, though
Nah man. Toddlers and babies r still tryna understand the world and how things work. If u start hitting ur child back and hurting them, thats gonna teach them that violence is ok, bc kids look up to their parents from birth, and they learn everything from the people caring for them. That's literally so damaging like dude what- I cant believe this even needs to be explained to u. I sincerely hope u dont hv kids.
Instead of using violence, teach them *empathy* 💀
How does that teach them to find other ways to meet their needs?
Yeahhh...no. If they see their parent or another person hit them, they will understand that it's ok to hit and bite when it's not. Teaching boundaries without hitting or biting back is much healthier in the long run.
this is laughable honestly.
It's a cult.
Volley him. Job done