5 Ways to know you're UGLY

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 113

  • @starboy2079
    @starboy2079 Рік тому +74

    I’ve had people be attracted to me but their not the people I want to be attracted to me lmfao

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +31

      Who ever is consistently attracted to you that is your “current” dating market value. Meaning if you have only average people interested then most likely you are probably average looking.

    • @sabba6018
      @sabba6018 11 місяців тому

      Same. It’s not ugly people though. It’s just mentally ill girls.

    • @user-rf5lh5cn2d
      @user-rf5lh5cn2d 27 днів тому +1

      Me who never atracted the oposite gender in my whole life👍

    • @cyck460
      @cyck460 6 днів тому

      U have high ah standards

  • @Atlstreetpodcast
    @Atlstreetpodcast 8 днів тому +1

    It doesn't matter what you think about yourself...it boils down to how you're treated by the world... It's really that simple

  • @jojotention
    @jojotention Рік тому +9

    you’ve gotten much better at speaking JC, well done!

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      Thanks bro, I’m getting used to this long form content. It’s a different skill I’m working on.

  • @brettpatetto6847
    @brettpatetto6847 3 місяці тому

    I have the same problem. I have ones I would not even notice and yukkk that notice me... The ones I like don't.. even as attractive man. It kinda kills my confidence and roons my day .I feel u

  • @harvir6167
    @harvir6167 11 місяців тому +1

    ah yes just what I need

  • @sherlock7994
    @sherlock7994 10 місяців тому +3

    Excellent channel, its so sad i cant relate because im a girl,is there any channel like this giving beauty advice ?

  • @DavidMartinez-qy6sn
    @DavidMartinez-qy6sn 11 місяців тому

    I have naturally undefined features, however this was exacerbated by weightgain, henceforth I've had to take steps to slim down. I understand I will always have to stay on the slimmer side or put on a lot of muscle to compete. In either case I cannot exist in the chubby or fat category because in those cases I become sub 5. A fact of my life I always knew on some level but have now accepted at the age of 22.

  • @Gbril_
    @Gbril_ 2 місяці тому +1

    An approach i personally found much less stressful and complicated is to simply look around whenever you happen to be in fairly crowded environments, look at enough people and see how many look alike of you are around.
    They don’t necessarily have to resemble your features and proportions very much, they just need to look and feel similar to you.
    So then, the less look alike you’ll find around, the more you’re on the extremes, either in positive or negative.
    So to apply this method you need to be pretty self aware of your overall face and its individual features, what’s a weakness and what’s a strength.
    So then, it would be very easy to know where you stand looks wise, but you can do the same when comparing your style to majority of the people you see around, or even your body, especially during summertime or in warmer environments where it’s easier to see people’s figures.

  • @rhenardwalker3280
    @rhenardwalker3280 27 днів тому

    It’s over for me. I hit all 5 on the dot. It never even began.

  • @apmfer
    @apmfer Рік тому +2

    I’m absolutely gorgeous but in a pretty boy way and not a handsome man way maybe that will change when I’m older

  • @weidheriweider4298
    @weidheriweider4298 Рік тому +7

    Damn im fking ugly

  • @zentai-animetheoriesintel3087
    @zentai-animetheoriesintel3087 Рік тому +6

    if u have hollow cheeks, good jaw area, good chin but you have upper eyelid exposure eye bags and a huge and wide nose, be could u still be above average or are u average/unattractive

  • @Rpgmaniac
    @Rpgmaniac 2 місяці тому +1

    I get so many compliments from women I was told I was mesmerizing handsome sexy all that good stuff

  • @Kyle__K
    @Kyle__K Рік тому +5

    what if you used to get compliments but not anymore, like not for a year. Does this still hold true for older adults?

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      Then there’s possibly something that physically changed that you aren’t aware of or it could even be something in your personality that changed. You need to figure out what it is. If you need help DM me on Instagram if you are an adult.

  • @MrTalkFit
    @MrTalkFit 4 місяці тому

    Can I still get a facial analysis even though I'm below the age of 18?

  • @sam1323123
    @sam1323123 Рік тому +2

    How do you know if you’re a 9/10 guy vs an 8/10 one? Outside a school/college environment

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +6

      Again whatever level of women that constantly say no to you that’s your ceiling. I don’t like number ratings, but if you have a lot of 6’s saying yes to you all the time but the moment you start talking to 7’s and 8’s it’s a “maybe” or “ghosts” or “you’re like a brother” that’s your ceiling.

    • @gonzalezdiego7622
      @gonzalezdiego7622 3 місяці тому

      you will know you are a 9 or 10 when you dont watch this kind of videos, those guys daily have evidence they are handsome like girls always smiling to them and always receiving special treatment

  • @garethmcl8
    @garethmcl8 8 місяців тому

    whenever i’d mention a flaw that i think hurts my attractiveness a lot to other people i know, they are always surprised when i first tell them. for example the smallish gap in middle of my top teeth i was talking to my barber one time 1-2 years ago & i told him i’m thinking of getting braces shortly & he said that “ i don’t you need them “ & i mention it to like family members and their friends and they all have said the same thing like “ your gap is fine it suits you “ or stuff like that , Is this a sign that i’m more attractive than i think i am? Because if they don’t say i’m fishing for compliments then is that a sign

    • @alfred0621
      @alfred0621 8 місяців тому

      Yes. And btw I always think it's a sign that you're at least somewhat attractive if one flaw bothers you. People who are average or even ugly often think their whole face is flawed😂

    • @garethmcl8
      @garethmcl8 8 місяців тому

      @@alfred0621 yeah my one bad flaw is acne atm other than that the rest isint as severe as the acne

  • @alishas7960
    @alishas7960 Рік тому

    Hey this is a bit unrelated but I watched a looksmaxing vid (one with Qoves) and u spoke about hollow under eyes from a lack of sleep. I apply vitamin e eye cream but I'm not sure this is enough when the damage is already done. Any advice?

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому

      Some people get a fat transfer to that area if the damage is significant enough, but that’s dependent on several factors.

  • @diegobrando6115
    @diegobrando6115 3 місяці тому

    The worst I've gotten is "Unconventionally Attractive" and my top one is "You have one of those perfect people faces, like a celebrity". first one was a 32 year old woman, last one was a 18 year old girl.

  • @rerega5934
    @rerega5934 Рік тому +5

    I was wondering, how would you rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 10 now that you had your glowup?

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      I don’t give numbers out of 10. Never done it even for a single celebrity on this channel. I’m actually going to make a long youtube video on my experience. However I will say if I go outside I where people don’t know me, I will get complimented at least once during the day while I’m out. Me with green contacts was a game changer for me.

    • @mvd3775
      @mvd3775 Рік тому +9

      @@jcthecatalyst Dude you literally rated people out of 10 in this video

    • @Iuffycs
      @Iuffycs 8 місяців тому

      he's too scared to do it XD

    • @Topsealguy
      @Topsealguy 6 місяців тому

      @@jcthecatalystbro you are weird ash

  • @youngman6355
    @youngman6355 Рік тому

    This might be the only video on this topic that doesn't spread all the 'attractiveness is subjective' bullshit I always hear.

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому

      Check out my other long form videos for more in depth videos.

  • @tahirrizwan6759
    @tahirrizwan6759 Рік тому +3

    I do have a question. I get complimented on by both men and women, and have been approached by men in public. Are there particular features I have that gay men are attracted to? I’m straight and sometimes when I go on tiktok live, it’s men that leave “interesting” bold comments. I accept compliments from anyone, but this always left me wondering. (If anyone reading this happens to be gay, pls feel free to chime in)

    • @verygay2374
      @verygay2374 Рік тому

      Maybe they think you’re gay and attractive

    • @Topsealguy
      @Topsealguy 6 місяців тому

      Stop lying

    • @tahirrizwan6759
      @tahirrizwan6759 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Topsealguy my friend, why would I be lying if I’m looking for genuine answers.

    • @zay_kash
      @zay_kash Місяць тому +1

      I swear I seen you on tik tok

    • @tahirrizwan6759
      @tahirrizwan6759 Місяць тому

      @@zay_kash yes you have probably :)

  • @mrmapp6109
    @mrmapp6109 Рік тому +15

    I think I am perceived as above average at least, I can get away with a lot of stuff in general that other's cannot especially when it comes to women. I have treated and do treat some girls horribly just to see if I can get away with it and I do. They just brush it off but another guy they would curse out or give disgusted looks if they did the same thing I did. I think that's something you could possibly talk more about. A girl once told me " YOU can get away with a lot of stuff ".

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +23

      That it’s another indicator. However let’s try treat people with decency. There are still long term consequences to bad actions like yours its just you don’t see it until you hit 40+. I’ll probably make a UA-cam video about it.

    • @mrmapp6109
      @mrmapp6109 Рік тому +1

      @@jcthecatalyst I didn’t specify, I’m not a total and complete dick it’s just things I’ll do or say sparingly for reactions and mini experiments.

    • @svd4767
      @svd4767 Рік тому +1

      @@mrmapp6109 what things you did?

    • @z3ina349
      @z3ina349 Рік тому +1

      Lol as a girl i do the same thing like i will put on makeup or no makeup and ill see how guys treat me. no makeup they stare at my eyes and lips and joke around laugh etc. i use a little bit of makeup to make my eyes more almond ish and to make my lips something harmonious and highlight on my nose to make it more buttony and they treat me so good lol

    • @isisduncan4484
      @isisduncan4484 Рік тому +1

      @@mrmapp6109 So you manipulate people for your entertainment..?

  • @abdalhameedalkhumsan7943
    @abdalhameedalkhumsan7943 Рік тому +2

    Also add 6 ugly girls mean and try to disrespect you for not giving attention to them and aggressive to you and calling you gay

  • @darknature9716
    @darknature9716 Рік тому +1

    Fr I had an underbite but it’s going away with my braces

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +1

      Hopefully it’s minor. My chin was also weak and I wanted a more precise change and they couldn’t give that to me with braces plus I had a weak chin that needed to be corrected.

    • @darknature9716
      @darknature9716 Рік тому

      @@jcthecatalyst my orthodontist mentioned my chin stick out too much so I don’t think I got a weak chin. I see my face completely changing for the better.

    • @darknature9716
      @darknature9716 Рік тому

      @@jcthecatalyst I’ve also lost weight and take vitamins. I get approached more often, so pretty privilege is real

  • @MadameSummary
    @MadameSummary День тому

    I’m a girl and ugly asf
    Big forehead, wide face, uneven eyelids, big nose, small lips, broad shoulders 😢

  • @user-mn6li2yv4d
    @user-mn6li2yv4d День тому

    Oh dude …. lol.. buzz cut . Small eyes , braces , asymmetrical face due to Bell’s palsy …. Big nose . Light eye brows , protracted ears …skinny body … and vualaa … I look like an Alien .. I think in Mars I will be considered below average 😂😂😂 . This is what I have , take it or leave it .

  • @abdizeali1hunter856
    @abdizeali1hunter856 Рік тому +8

    Am first in class

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      Nice. 🔥🔥 Happy to see you here man.

    • @abdizeali1hunter856
      @abdizeali1hunter856 Рік тому +3

      @@jcthecatalyst man a always in live on tiktok and instagram I love you content but man can you make more video like this thanks 😊

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +1

      @@abdizeali1hunter856 definitely

  • @sb_2378
    @sb_2378 Місяць тому

    This is so brutal.

  • @Rohriem-tw6qu
    @Rohriem-tw6qu Місяць тому

    I think today I just realized I'm ugly and that's okay
    Funny how people treat you differently though

  • @joshlicew6691
    @joshlicew6691 Рік тому +1

    can you do an analysis about unconventionally attractive traits. alot of girls like lil dirk but he has no eye brows. hailey bailey's eyes are far apart. who ever that tall guy is who plays darth, hes not attractive

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому

      Sure I could do an episode on that.

    • @z3ina349
      @z3ina349 Рік тому

      hi as a girl this is my take -
      conventionally attractive traits is more simple and less unique than people think. the most beautiful girls/guys of any race all have small noses and/or nose with no bumps plump lips face framing or unique hair average to strong jawline, baby face or model face, and captivating eyes. the most beautiful girl in the world is Adriana Lima when she was younger, and the most handsome man in the world is Francisco Lachowski when he was a bit younger and Neymar Junior at most times. this is just my opinion but im sure the vast majority of people can agree. also being tall as a guy is very attractive and sort of muscular not arnold schwarzenegger muscular but not a really skinny guy yk. kinda inbetween and good style matters too and slicked back hair or messy ish hair or nice curls and long eyelashes

    • @doctorblackhole6982
      @doctorblackhole6982 Рік тому

      @@z3ina349 I always thought that guys with like completely straight noses like Cavill for men looked the best and ski slope noses looked the best for women. Other than that I agree.

    • @z3ina349
      @z3ina349 Рік тому

      @@doctorblackhole6982 my bestfriend was and sometimes is very insecure about her nose its very big and has a bump but she got a very attractive boyfriend who is the beauty standard of men 🤷‍♀️ i think shes very attractive and her nose suits her cause she has big lips and green eyes to balance it out

  • @slickysloth6685
    @slickysloth6685 6 місяців тому

    I got compliments from my friends some guys some females I still don’t feel attractive tho 💀💀

  • @gonzalezdiego7622
    @gonzalezdiego7622 3 місяці тому

    honestly i would say 5 or 6 girls have approached to me or told me im handsome, 2 girls were ugly 3 were slightly aboce average and 1 was so beatiful in my opinion(im actually kinda picky), at least from people i talk (basically classmates adn friends) in the last 8 or 9 months i havent received any copliment that i rememberbut sometimes i receive spcial treatment( i remeber a day in a discotheque a female bar tender forgave me like 1 dollar oout of a 5 dollar beer(im from mexico a cheap countrie btw)the other day a girl classmate also in a party gifted me a drink, when i talk to girl despite being kinda shy when ive asked them to go eat or to have a plan between us two they've never rejected me , i actually have a very low self-esteem but despite that i dot considere my facial features are shit, theyre not the best features at all but i think theyre ok, i have some acne but idk.

    • @HCforLife1
      @HCforLife1 Місяць тому

      you are attractive, most men get only compliments or things from other people at their funerals.You are the top percentage mate. Use it wisely

  • @omrohit3998
    @omrohit3998 4 місяці тому

    im 15 gonna be 16 in April 6th 2024

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  4 місяці тому

      So you still have time to work on yourself. Lift weights / chew hard foods

  • @drizzya.c8262
    @drizzya.c8262 23 дні тому

    Damn im cooked. dawg no one finds me attractive at all… every single one hit the nail on the head for me. I had one relationship but i got lucky with that 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @drizzya.c8262
      @drizzya.c8262 23 дні тому

      I think the hardest thing is having two attractive parents and you not being attractive…

  • @soumyaray6706
    @soumyaray6706 22 дні тому

    When I was in my early 20’s I might have achieved above average like 5.5/10 but now that I’m well into my 40 my looks have become a huge detriment and I feel that no amount of looksmaxxjng will help because not only do my facial aesthetic cause a gag reflex but people think I’m gay, super creepy, I have issues with anxiety and I m kind of a weirdo and people in general just don’t like me I’m kinda of am a unlikeable human being. It’s gotten so bad that not even prostitutes will sleep with me. Which leads me to another aspect. No matter how much I commit myself to hygiene I still smell bad. And I have this curse of getting dirty super quick. Like for instance I might have a brand new pair of Nikes on, by the end of the day they will look like I had them for years. I used to like this one girl and we saw each other over 4 years and in that time we never kissed made out and if I even tried to get close to her she would get offended and told me to keep my distance from her. That’s how you know your looks are so bad , in fact, my father once told me, you can take piece of doo doo and dress it up all nice but cologne to cover its smell but the end of the day it’s still a piece of doo doo. It’s gotten so bad that you would think one of my friends would help me out and convince a girl to sleep with me like had done for my friends back in the day, but no such luck and people wonder why I look at porn? Well it’s not because I prefer watching porn to having real intimacy it’s because no woman out there will have intimate relations with no matter what. And it’s funny because I do have one person who does try to help me and overheard him asking girls and it’s always “ewwww no way , anybody but that guy”. It’s humbling experience to say the least. So if you think you are ugly at least you’re not as bad as me. Everything I ve said is the truth no exaggeration. In fact , my ugliness is so bad I feel that I’m discriminated against because of my looks. The funny thing is I didn’t feel this way until I moved out here. Because prior to moving out to the hood I honestly thought I was average or at least not super ugly. And I thought I was better looking than a few dudes but it turned out I was wrong and that was a tough pill to swallow.

  • @saltedbacon8793
    @saltedbacon8793 Рік тому +3

    I'm considered ugly, I think. My strong features, eyebrows and eye area and my jaw isn't bad .. I'm told I look like my bro and sis. My bro and sis are both considered attractive so I'm lost

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому

      I you calling yourself ugly or others are calling you this? (Not siblings)

    • @saltedbacon8793
      @saltedbacon8793 Рік тому

      @@jcthecatalyst I asked to be rated and the highest I've gotten was 5.5. I'd say the average rating in general was around a 4 not including my height. I'm 6'0-6'1 but it might not play in a big factor

    • @jfgghjdf
      @jfgghjdf Рік тому

      @@saltedbacon8793 photo doesn’t convey your features completely try recording your video not in selfie camera

  • @SuperRajno1
    @SuperRajno1 Рік тому +1

    So if I consider myself average but I get looks from girls where am I? You said ugly/average guys are invisble. I'm not attractive nor invisible

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      Then you might not be as average as you think you are. Do you have strong features?

  • @svd4767
    @svd4767 Рік тому +2

    I get compliments from my classmates and friends may be I am above average

  • @joeycassata6540
    @joeycassata6540 Рік тому +2

    Guilty pleasure, I come to these videos for ambiguous validation. Attraction bias is real and it truly is unfair

  • @petercroft1901
    @petercroft1901 5 днів тому

    I'm not attractive. That's OK. I'm not into people, therefore, their opinions mean very little to me. That's a fact

  • @namer5353
    @namer5353 5 місяців тому

    I'm both... ugly and unattractive

  • @yzerud
    @yzerud Рік тому +4

    second in class

  • @wisetree5322
    @wisetree5322 Рік тому +4

    Just look in the mirror bro also third in class

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому +2

      How you see yourself in the mirror 🪞 is not accurate. Use the inverted filter. That’s how others see you. It will make you see yourself in a different way.

    • @wisetree5322
      @wisetree5322 Рік тому

      @@jcthecatalyst Ik I was joking

    • @johnpohn3299
      @johnpohn3299 Рік тому +2

      ​@@jcthecatalyst mirror is accurate, buy a small mirror which one you can hold with hands and Look at your face from a distance of 2-3 feet while holding it by ur hands in different lighting, that's the accurate how other sees you

  • @maivnkauj2666
    @maivnkauj2666 5 місяців тому +1

    I think it’s sad to consider “average” unattrative and to perpetuate that thought 😢

  • @brettpatetto6847
    @brettpatetto6847 3 місяці тому

    Your not ugly dude... Don't judge your self on what you perceived from other people.

  • @rooftopfight6210
    @rooftopfight6210 Рік тому +2

    Im so bummed out bc i lucked out with my face but ive essentially been fat my whole life so i feel like im fucking worthless and invisible even tho often i look in the mirror and think damn girl nice face, but despite that im just invisible to everybody and even when i put on makeup and make an effort with my outfit i get zero feedback 🥲🥲

    • @jcthecatalyst
      @jcthecatalyst  Рік тому

      If you are an adult. I work with people one on one if you need a person to talk to about this stuff.

    • @zyyl1949
      @zyyl1949 7 місяців тому

      If you still have an attractive face despite being overweight then you’re probably in the top 5% if you lost the weight and revealed your bond structure. The obvious thing to say is get in a calorie deficit from now

    • @rooftopfight6210
      @rooftopfight6210 7 місяців тому

      @@zyyl1949 i am in the process rn, at least 10kg more to go, possibly even more for the best result