I wanted to add lol, the people that do find relationships on there, notice how fast they move in their relationship (most times). Like you said, the basis of a relationship is friendship. When people meet on those apps, because they want to "secure" that person they like to get them off the apps to only focus on them, they don't feel they have the time to build that friendship first. It's like trying to hurry and physically take someone off the market, because that's what it is.
You're so right about how looking at ppl as products via a dating app creates distance. You have an incredible mind. I would argue that viewing people from the perspective of social media in any capacity, influences that apathy you talked about.
I think there's a lot of decision fatigue on apps too. We have soo many options as women that it can get overwhelming. BUT I do think you should try to go on a date 👀 lol a lot of people's real personality comes out when they're in person. And that's the only way to know if you vibe. I went on a date with this guy and we didn't hit it off but we did become friends bc we had so much in common, so it's possible.
Love the channel. Keep in mind, organic connections can be made anywhere - even on dating apps. I met my husband on Hinge four years ago. It was an immediate connection. That’s not to say everyone will find their person on dating apps, but it’s possible.
I’m so dead at this loooool honestly dating apps are the ghetto. It’s a great experiment but are honestly hated that time in my life. Love love your vlogs. Sending love from South Africa ❤
Dating apps are a scam. Back in the day they didn't use to be so money hungry. Also everytime someone says to me they successful met on an app, I don't know how they do it. I personally use meetup to meet people more so to do fun activities with strangers like game night or bar trivia. I always end up meeting a man of some sort. I don't go to meetup events in my area to meet men so it eases the pressure. If I do great, If I don't great. Now, I'm still single but maybe one of these days 😅
It shocked me to see subsciption plans on there tbh, I thought they were running adds to generate revenue or something but it seems like you gotta pay at to get good profiles, on Hinge at least. Keep at it, who knows who you’ll meet next? Not necessarily a love interest but a friend or work opportunity xx
Dating apps exit because it is hard to meet interesting people in real life - otherwise why go through this strange process talking to someone (who could be fake) on an app! The art of communication is taking strange turns - and if you happen to meet someone you like you are lucky! I call it the fire walking test - you probably will get burnt somewhere along the way But its always worth a try at least!
2:18 my sister is obsessed with Love Island! I get updates like she’s chatting about her friends 😂 I’ve only watched one episode but I definitely recommend if you like to see people from various perspectives being a bit of a mess.
Like for me as a bisexual woman. It is very hard to date women actually it’s really boring. Because women are not really romantic or make any romantic efforts. It’s usually the masculine presenting women or the non-binary ones who make the effort romantically. But the feminine women don’t really make the effort to even make conversation or ask you things about yourself. They kind of just wait for you to carry everything And make all the plans and spend time with them and everything. I do agree with the friendship thing. Especially as an Namibian I feel like relationships in Europe genuinely just move so fast. I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time and even before we moved in together, I waited a long time to get to know him. Because I think sometimes you get to know the fake person or the best version of themselves for about a year or two years and then you get to know the real person after that.
"A Mans Perespective" She looked mad and she didnt wanna hear any of that like most women nowadays Women are sometimes their own worst enemies, its starts and ends with their attitude.
I think you are placing your issues with women on this creator and video just because you are mad at women broadly. She was open minded enough to even put the man’s perspective and she was speaking to a friend. Yet you are characterizing her as mad… Based on what? She put it in the video and gave it attention. Then you go on to say women need to fix their attitude. At what point did she have an attitude in that part of the video? Why not use the comments as an opportunity to say something positive about men and your perspective rather than just criticize her based on nothing (it seems that you are upset about her facial expressions during a playful convo with a friend)?
I wanted to add lol, the people that do find relationships on there, notice how fast they move in their relationship (most times). Like you said, the basis of a relationship is friendship. When people meet on those apps, because they want to "secure" that person they like to get them off the apps to only focus on them, they don't feel they have the time to build that friendship first. It's like trying to hurry and physically take someone off the market, because that's what it is.
Wow that makes sense to be ‘competing’ for someone’s attention. I wonder how that plays out in how the relationship can even develop genuinely…
Sorry girl, but I'm still not over the Swede that was feeding you up at the bakery. Lol I was hooping for a Lovestory so bad 😅
Lmfaoooo… girl, all imma say is stay tuned for part 2 👀
You're so right about how looking at ppl as products via a dating app creates distance. You have an incredible mind. I would argue that viewing people from the perspective of social media in any capacity, influences that apathy you talked about.
I think there's a lot of decision fatigue on apps too. We have soo many options as women that it can get overwhelming. BUT I do think you should try to go on a date 👀 lol a lot of people's real personality comes out when they're in person. And that's the only way to know if you vibe. I went on a date with this guy and we didn't hit it off but we did become friends bc we had so much in common, so it's possible.
Omg not you too!! All of my friends are telling me to push the experiement 🤠 but you right, I don’t mind making new friends
@jubiterr lmao well there you have it! Your homegirls won't steer you wrong, Can't wait to hear about it 🤗
Love the channel. Keep in mind, organic connections can be made anywhere - even on dating apps. I met my husband on Hinge four years ago. It was an immediate connection. That’s not to say everyone will find their person on dating apps, but it’s possible.
I’m so dead at this loooool honestly dating apps are the ghetto. It’s a great experiment but are honestly hated that time in my life. Love love your vlogs. Sending love from South Africa ❤
Ghetto indeed. Thanks girl 🌹🌹
Dating apps are a scam. Back in the day they didn't use to be so money hungry. Also everytime someone says to me they successful met on an app, I don't know how they do it. I personally use meetup to meet people more so to do fun activities with strangers like game night or bar trivia. I always end up meeting a man of some sort. I don't go to meetup events in my area to meet men so it eases the pressure. If I do great, If I don't great. Now, I'm still single but maybe one of these days 😅
It shocked me to see subsciption plans on there tbh, I thought they were running adds to generate revenue or something but it seems like you gotta pay at to get good profiles, on Hinge at least. Keep at it, who knows who you’ll meet next? Not necessarily a love interest but a friend or work opportunity xx
Beautiful vlog....Dating apps are not for me too but might wanna try them out oneday...who knows lol
I laughed so much watching this. Especially the story about someone chatting with a prisoner 😂
I’m still in disbelief actually 😮💨
Yass Willie Colón…. 🙌🏾 💃🏾
'The Hustle' is one of my faves. This lady has taste!
Dating apps exit because it is hard to meet interesting people in real life - otherwise why go through this strange process talking to someone (who could be fake) on an app! The art of communication is taking strange turns - and if you happen to meet someone you like you are lucky!
I call it the fire walking test - you probably will get burnt somewhere along the way
But its always worth a try at least!
2:18 my sister is obsessed with Love Island! I get updates like she’s chatting about her friends 😂 I’ve only watched one episode but I definitely recommend if you like to see people from various perspectives being a bit of a mess.
Ok you convinced me!! now i need to figure out how to get into peacock
@@jubiterr 🤦🏾♀️ oh yikes, I forgot that important detail lol
Hi Jubiter, I really enjoy your vlogs! Do you only film with your phone or also use a camera? If so, which one do you use?
Hey! I use an iphone 13 pro and canon m50 xx
Like for me as a bisexual woman. It is very hard to date women actually it’s really boring. Because women are not really romantic or make any romantic efforts. It’s usually the masculine presenting women or the non-binary ones who make the effort romantically. But the feminine women don’t really make the effort to even make conversation or ask you things about yourself. They kind of just wait for you to carry everything And make all the plans and spend time with them and everything. I do agree with the friendship thing. Especially as an Namibian I feel like relationships in Europe genuinely just move so fast. I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time and even before we moved in together, I waited a long time to get to know him. Because I think sometimes you get to know the fake person or the best version of themselves for about a year or two years and then you get to know the real person after that.
That’s so interesting. That adds so much layer to this conversation, thank you love!
Would it b ok with u if u speak in french to the camera wen vloging publicly n put English subtitles
Oh of course, will think about it next time ✨
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I’m about to get married to my fiancé from bumble 😂😂😂😂 I also did it for science 😂❤
Lmaoooo well, you didnt leave with nothing
I feel like overtime dating apps make people lower their standards
not that sounds like ChatGPT lool
Paris has so much eye candy on the dating apps 🤤 but I am a short girly so I can take the short kings hahahaha
No you’re right, i see fine men everyday ngl. Love to my shorties 😘
"A Mans Perespective"
She looked mad and she didnt wanna hear any of that like most women nowadays
Women are sometimes their own worst enemies, its starts and ends with their attitude.
I think you are placing your issues with women on this creator and video just because you are mad at women broadly. She was open minded enough to even put the man’s perspective and she was speaking to a friend. Yet you are characterizing her as mad… Based on what? She put it in the video and gave it attention. Then you go on to say women need to fix their attitude. At what point did she have an attitude in that part of the video? Why not use the comments as an opportunity to say something positive about men and your perspective rather than just criticize her based on nothing (it seems that you are upset about her facial expressions during a playful convo with a friend)?