Things They Don't Tell You About - Being in a group of friends

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  • @vivianwothaya1294
    @vivianwothaya1294 2 роки тому +298

    I never want Over 25 to retire. Just imagine them coming on camera wakiwa 70😅 Yooh if this is the wisdom now. What of then😊
    pure bliss❤

    • @mytinylittlechannel
      @mytinylittlechannel 2 роки тому +14

      Oh my gosh... That would be a site to see. I wonder what the digital world will look like then...! T-minus 40 years girls

    • @kadzoandJoe
      @kadzoandJoe 2 роки тому +2

      True that.

    • @cessngesh9403
      @cessngesh9403 2 роки тому +3

      Best comment ever 😂

    • @Yvonne.anjeline
      @Yvonne.anjeline 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @melodykima
      @melodykima Рік тому

      Welp, you almost called it 🤧

  • @angelamwandanda8333
    @angelamwandanda8333 2 роки тому +167

    One of the things they don't tell you about friendships is the need, to be honest without being brutal. That the more you get to know someone and if you value their friendship (if), then there's a way that you have to be more intentional about practicing empathy and thoughtfulness - especially when you want to hold them accountable.

    • @lunzamubita478
      @lunzamubita478 2 роки тому

      Amen, amen and amen to this!!!🙏

    • @chainaasally158
      @chainaasally158 2 роки тому

      especially with 💰 since we are all not on the same salary... halafu kuna free loaders. Or Career progression, stagnancy. We need more honesty

  • @marylynnmonroe7133
    @marylynnmonroe7133 2 роки тому +92

    About friends who go abroad, mazee sometimes you feel mad FOMO when you see your friends at home hanging out and they sometimes forget to check in if you're okay😅 Please check on your friends who are abroad. Don't assume they're fine just cause 'they're abroad'. Sometimes they're really going through it and that one phone call or text would really mean a lot :)

  • @dennisgithua001
    @dennisgithua001 2 роки тому +53

    10:33 when Ivy giggles like a lil girl, oh so cute. I've repeated that part like 10 times already 😍😂

    • @ashleymueni4429
      @ashleymueni4429 2 роки тому +2

      I watched it too .. ha ha ..beautifull

    • @jeanivy3217
      @jeanivy3217 2 роки тому +3

      she's the cutest!

    • @ashleymueni4429
      @ashleymueni4429 2 роки тому +3

      I want a date with her for my birthday on March 25th.. a couple of hours for 123k won’t be too much

    • @clarissecladia6234
      @clarissecladia6234 2 роки тому +2

      10:32 to be exact. Such a cute sight.

    • @ashleymueni4429
      @ashleymueni4429 2 роки тому +1

      Its an obsession..Should be a meme

  • @malkiawaalego2552
    @malkiawaalego2552 2 роки тому +103

    At this point that jogoo is the 5th member of over 25 , add him to the group profile pic 😂

  • @NoneNone-qp3kj
    @NoneNone-qp3kj 2 роки тому +10

    i resonate so much with lornzie and i think everyone who watches this can resonate with each of the ladies based on their personality them together makes the perfect combo

  • @owenkariuki4438
    @owenkariuki4438 2 роки тому +34

    Such an awesome episode that kept me wholly engaged and laughing at the stories😂. My Monday is brighter 🙌🏽

  • @sparklemonkey3262
    @sparklemonkey3262 2 роки тому +17

    Y'all light up my Mondays, Thank you!
    Also your group dynamic is very beautiful and admirable. 💐

  • @DignaK
    @DignaK 2 роки тому +46

    I like how Chiko nods in agreement. It’s how I agree to things I’m never going to do😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kwarisiimac2511
    @kwarisiimac2511 2 роки тому +12

    I gain so much from this Channel!❤️ I love how y’all are able to have such open discussions. Also really looking forward to IRIP season 2!!

  • @monginamaua9111
    @monginamaua9111 2 роки тому +5

    This is such a brutally honest conversation!!! It takes maturity.... Telling your girlfriend the truth hata ukiwa na kiwaru🤣🤣

  • @fifthfifo8361
    @fifthfifo8361 2 роки тому +19

    Btw you guys can upload the over25 episodes on podcast. Some of my favourite YTubers do that, and it helps sana, coz i can listen while walking and doing other things rather than sit down and watch you.

  • @TheNaisenya
    @TheNaisenya 2 роки тому +8

    True, I find it so annoying when restaurants combine the bill - they should ask first before combining it. Maybe best to specify separate bills right from the beginning and keep reminding the waiter/waitress

  • @cessngesh9403
    @cessngesh9403 2 роки тому +3

    The part Ivy giggled made my entire day and made me mias my girl 😂

  • @clarissecladia6234
    @clarissecladia6234 2 роки тому +5

    Friendship is such a beautiful thing. I love to see it.

  • @fionaaber2182
    @fionaaber2182 2 роки тому +9

    You guys got me hooked a whole lot. Almost not fair. 🖤
    Representing 🇺🇬

  • @sarahjuma1171
    @sarahjuma1171 2 роки тому +2

    Lornzie ; They should just split the bill, It's not like you're saving trees, we know that's not your cause🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @angebushe5
    @angebushe5 2 роки тому +3

    I love the real life experiences…you are blessed to be happy in a group of friends!!

  • @racheln7239
    @racheln7239 2 роки тому +2

    I split the bill for my friend group. They are always just like , you're the one who knows math. 😆
    But more often these days we just split equally and if someone has ordered something that's out of the average range price wise they just pay that separately. Generally someone will pay the equivalent of 3 to 4 dollars more or less than the others which is cool.
    Another thing we do is sometimes 1 or 2 people are ' balling' so they just pay an amount they predetermined and then the rest split the balance equally. 😊

  • @cee910
    @cee910 2 роки тому +5

    I can relate to all the sentiments passed I am circle of 3 and now I know better.Thank you so much .Enyewe maturity haikuji na guidelines.Now i know my faults and can easily work on them.

  • @pavinenyangao8056
    @pavinenyangao8056 2 роки тому +100

    Julia and Ivy have very similar personalities thats why the tu arguments are gonna be there. Both very strong personalities snd it’s okay 👌🏾

  • @zaynahrash
    @zaynahrash 2 роки тому +40

    I love how Shikie's earrings match Ivy's dress😍😍😍😍

  • @enwangechi7047
    @enwangechi7047 2 роки тому +6

    Excited to watch you guys. I'm still not over the fact that Lorna decided to openly show lol and support to a workplace bully. It speaks volumes about her

    • @mercyawiti2608
      @mercyawiti2608 2 роки тому +1

      How about you inbox her and tell her?

    • @enwangechi7047
      @enwangechi7047 2 роки тому

      @@mercyawiti2608 what's wrong with this? She publicly defended a work place bully showing love and support, I publicly call her ass out

  • @ruthaseneka8777
    @ruthaseneka8777 2 роки тому +5

    love you all and the friendship you all have. Julia you always make me laugh..

  • @m23120
    @m23120 2 роки тому +3

    I wish you ladies the best,keep this up ......I also love the different personalities,it blends nicely.

  • @bethsarahbethrah4882
    @bethsarahbethrah4882 2 роки тому +6

    Listening to you guys is so therapeutic! What a beautiful way to start a Monday!

  • @elizabethblaise9959
    @elizabethblaise9959 2 роки тому +3

    Whole channel is always giving sistas(on BET) vibes,love it🤗

  • @just__mjay
    @just__mjay 2 роки тому +6

    Lol you just talked about a podcast and it reminded me that I once wished that over 25 was a podcast so that I can just listen when doing chores.

  • @athanusmwathi9352
    @athanusmwathi9352 2 роки тому +1

    This looks amazing, let’s see what they do or who they impact in this case

  • @monicaoliveira7608
    @monicaoliveira7608 2 роки тому +6

    I Never notice anything about Julia and Ivy. Honnestly i was blown when thé épisode about their arguments aired. Ans for i was so related to that because i asssumed it was normal that Friends can have arguments. You guys are beautiful and very mature people , Beautiful inside out .

  • @paprika7930
    @paprika7930 2 роки тому +8

    Julia's facial expressions, lmao. Love it. 🙏🏾😅

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 роки тому +1

    Yay! I was cheering🎉on that intro. Very fun, and relatable topic kama kawa❤️😄.Ivy at 10:32 refreshing✨. If i could subscribe more than once I would. Road to #IMil subscribers kaendeee💃🏿. #Consistency #Friendships

  • @merciontita2308
    @merciontita2308 2 роки тому +4

    Emotional maturity for me menh really really working on it cause sometimes i find myself being extremely entitled kabisaa and i fell bad working on Being me lately best version first.

  • @chainaasally158
    @chainaasally158 2 роки тому

    we the abroad frendz miss our back home girlies because they truly get us #codeswitching, as in there are just jokes and expressions that make sense in your home language sasa we have time zones against us...actively checking in is the way

  • @nikkinyokabi6111
    @nikkinyokabi6111 2 роки тому +1

    Y'all saying"mmmmmmmmm"😂

  • @noelamadadi5731
    @noelamadadi5731 2 роки тому +1

    UA-cam reccomended this channel for me today, I'm already in love with your content, new Subby 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼.

  • @melphonejoan6410
    @melphonejoan6410 2 роки тому +1

    Have always loved how you "grouply" respond like mmmhh!!yaaaah!! ❤️❤️

  • @wanjikuchege1803
    @wanjikuchege1803 2 роки тому +2

    I love you guys❤your channel is so informative. As for your friendship goals❣

  • @bernicevictory9803
    @bernicevictory9803 2 роки тому +3

    All this wisdom...
    Thank you girls❤❤ I belong to a group of girls whom I love very much...
    And on behalf of my girl group,,, WE LOVE YOU ❤❤

  • @phennyodera6395
    @phennyodera6395 2 роки тому +9

    This made me so happy because I relate so much. Cheers to intentional friendships and growing together.

  • @cwmuiruri
    @cwmuiruri 2 роки тому +5

    Love the show and esp this topic. I’ve been a fan since Caroline Mutuko recommended you. You ladies are making good strides and everyone brings different values to your group. I am glad that you have found ways to resolve conflict within the group. Keep moving forward and kudos for the good job..cheers

    • @magdalenekamunya4124
      @magdalenekamunya4124 2 роки тому +1

      Actually yes, I also followed when Carol did a recommendation of channels to watch out for... and I got hooked!

  • @winniewangui9661
    @winniewangui9661 2 роки тому +8

    That was so fun, I completely understand the small issues that happen when you're in a group of friends, people with same personality especially the strong personality tend to differ sometimes but it's health as long you solve it coz even in a family set up siblings do have differences .

  • @nyawiranjuguna
    @nyawiranjuguna 2 роки тому +33

    Y’all are so lucky to have a gang of friends esp girlfriends,some of us aren’t that lucky with friends,anywayz you guys are always a vibe 💯

    • @brendamoraa1802
      @brendamoraa1802 2 роки тому

      Have a gift budget for your friends and spend time with them 😊

    • @Cikanyoro
      @Cikanyoro 2 роки тому

      I have two good friends and I think it was just meant to be .... because I can't explain how we met and became friends

  • @victoria2021
    @victoria2021 2 роки тому +3

    Audio Iko on point good job guys make my drive to work so entertaining 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kadzoandJoe
    @kadzoandJoe 2 роки тому +4

    I love you all. I've been following your channel since last year. Managed to watch most of your videos. I love listening to all of you talk and enjoy your content. Keep it up! You are doing a great job!! You are all gorgeous, stylish and unique. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @VGTV578
    @VGTV578 2 роки тому +12

    Ivy's facial expressions are the ishhhh! 😂😂😂😂I love me some Ivy.

  • @olphaonsare6030
    @olphaonsare6030 2 роки тому +3

    Ivy please be giggle for Lorna.
    We love the giggles

  • @mercymuthoka6267
    @mercymuthoka6267 2 роки тому +4

    You guys are such an inspiration to me honestly ❤️

  • @abbythequeenbee774
    @abbythequeenbee774 2 роки тому +9

    This energy is just irresistible.❤️

  • @kesa8953
    @kesa8953 2 роки тому +1

    This was great to watch. Patiently waiting for IRIP Ssn 2 💃🏾💃🏾

  • @jeanritahvegaroenah8271
    @jeanritahvegaroenah8271 2 роки тому

    😂😂AWW LORNZIE but ya that ka friend thing is there where one person hangs another group of friends😂

  • @misslinnah3772
    @misslinnah3772 2 роки тому +2

    Keep glowing and growing my sisters,I wish you the best this year

  • @christinewangui326
    @christinewangui326 2 роки тому +5

    WOW ivy and Lornzie I love your shoes

  • @chainaasally158
    @chainaasally158 2 роки тому

    hallo Over25. I love love your content 💛 very relatable, huku tuko 35 😌💚. Let me tell you about friend groups, ama the ka small circle of friends, and smaller as we get older, but we move. All of this is very true. The mission is to find your people, the ones that accept you for you.

  • @kosgeyfaye772
    @kosgeyfaye772 2 роки тому +2

    Have really love you people over the years. I kinder relate with most of your personalities... Jules your such a vybe...... 😍😍😍

  • @mwerooouuu
    @mwerooouuu 2 роки тому +1

    The getting jealous part! For sure😂

  • @winnienjuru9269
    @winnienjuru9269 2 роки тому

    Julia on splitting the bill.....LOUDER FOR THE RESTAURANTS AND BARS AT THE BACK😅

  • @adisasifuna1329
    @adisasifuna1329 2 роки тому +7

    Lornzie's hair😍😍😍

  • @jcm_r
    @jcm_r 2 роки тому

    "zusamme oder getrennt" is a real ting!

  • @leahsdaughter1585
    @leahsdaughter1585 2 роки тому +5

    Such a beautiful and insightful conversation! Also congratulations on your silver plaque yay!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @margaretwambuimaina8798
    @margaretwambuimaina8798 2 роки тому +3

    Glad that you people are back on set.Kept anticipating for an over 25 episode and am so happy that you people are back .
    # CONSISTENCY

  • @violajemutai697
    @violajemutai697 2 роки тому +1

    I love the end credits!! ❤️

  • @coachgloriatz5541
    @coachgloriatz5541 2 роки тому +4

    This consistency 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @mojikhoi9245
    @mojikhoi9245 2 роки тому

    *after a valid point
    All say in unison: mmmh...
    😂😅Makes it even sweeter

  • @michellewairimu3392
    @michellewairimu3392 2 роки тому +1

    Uum this episode had really helped me a lot more about having a group of friends but i have a question though what do you do when you have friends who don’t like each other so they don’t want to be in the same group?Or during a certain time like in school you were close with one friend then after you become close with the other ❤️

  • @carolinemakena7243
    @carolinemakena7243 2 роки тому +3

    Glad to know am not the only one whole feels some typa way when my best friend has other friends 🤦

  • @mahindasportsconsultancy3914
    @mahindasportsconsultancy3914 2 роки тому

    Lorna: " It's not like they are saving trees, we know that's their cause"......DAMN!

  • @maggiewaiharo2619
    @maggiewaiharo2619 2 роки тому

    i love you guys so much like u made me a changed woman May God bless u always

  • @dorcasakinyi8474
    @dorcasakinyi8474 2 роки тому +5

    I can listen to you guys the whole day, you are always amazing gels

  • @misskanari
    @misskanari 2 роки тому

    this is so us aki am in a group of friends too .i love those ladies

  • @muziki79
    @muziki79 2 роки тому +6

    Honestly I've been in the state's almost half my life and I'm yet to meet a group of Kenyan women who can match this 25/25 women...you guys need a bigger platform on national television like the girlchat on daytime American TV

  • @annekshy9661
    @annekshy9661 2 роки тому +1

    i love this guys cant miss an episode

  • @victoriakarwitha
    @victoriakarwitha 2 роки тому +1

    😂😂 the podcast part. I can totally relate

  • @KJ-zt9yy
    @KJ-zt9yy 2 роки тому

    Yaaay....What a way to start the week 🤎

  • @antoinettemighulo4133
    @antoinettemighulo4133 2 роки тому +5

    I just get so happy to watch your episodes it's ridiculous 😂😂❤❤❤

  • @sharonmuraguri6022
    @sharonmuraguri6022 2 роки тому +3

    It's always nice to listen to you guys.. Your so fun and a nice way to start the week.

  • @barbraahabwe
    @barbraahabwe 2 роки тому +4

    Wow, great episode guys. You guys pretty much everything. The comparison of friends in a group part triggered me a bit, 😂😂😂😂 but, it is well.
    Thank you very much for always keeping us on our feet, making our Mondays brighter,and sharing your wisdom with us. God bless you, and we love you very much here in Ug.💕💕💕

  • @DanielKE23
    @DanielKE23 2 роки тому

    Quite ambient. Thankyou.

  • @cynthiawangechi2115
    @cynthiawangechi2115 2 роки тому

    On that Splitwise point you can upload a receipt and sort it out later and every one has their own account so you can see who owes who how much

  • @missreche
    @missreche 2 роки тому

    I really enjoy all your episodes

  • @lindahmaya629
    @lindahmaya629 2 роки тому

    I just 😍 this ladies am inspired ....

  • @loisendungu9822
    @loisendungu9822 2 роки тому

    Gossh you gals are pretty,I love the way you blend well 💓 💓

  • @ilamanskin5891
    @ilamanskin5891 2 роки тому +2

    Probably the first from diaspora 🍁🍁🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @nyamburakiruru6706
    @nyamburakiruru6706 2 роки тому +2

    I look forward to all Mondays because of you guys. And especially today, I have related so much to this episode!!!!
    ♥♥

  • @zipporahakware
    @zipporahakware 2 роки тому +3

    I'm watching, while at work, and I'm thinking about how cute and O25 sticker would look on my laptop. ❤

  • @2009baglady
    @2009baglady 2 роки тому +3

    Week made🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thanks ladies as usual, entertaining and informative ♥️

  • @angeang4795
    @angeang4795 2 роки тому +3

    leo camera man.....heh we see what your doing😂

  • @puritywambui7197
    @puritywambui7197 2 роки тому

    Loved it!!!!

  • @sheneevents8522
    @sheneevents8522 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing episode 👏❤

  • @k3ygvrv
    @k3ygvrv 2 роки тому +6

    Started watching over 25 when I was starting uni now 5yrs later I'm still at it, it's kind of a guilty pleasure cause I wouldn't tell my niggas that I do, but you guys have very good discussions, I've learnt a lot about women from you guys, I wish people would start having similar conversations, mostly us men, different men from all walks of life, if had the funds I'd start that, I love conversations...

    • @lainaking6794
      @lainaking6794 2 роки тому

      Who’s your favorite over 25er?

    • @k3ygvrv
      @k3ygvrv 2 роки тому +1

      @@lainaking6794 I feel like all of them bring something to the convos, all of them are my favorite, but I love Ivy's and Jules' strong willed personalities, I also love how Shiko and Lorna bring a more chill vibe to the show..

    • @lainaking6794
      @lainaking6794 2 роки тому +1

      @@k3ygvrv Also you don’t need much to start what your talking about- I’d personally love to hear it from a males perspective on life over 25. There is definitely a niche there that needs to be explored, just pick up a camera(even your phone)one day whilst among your group of friends and do it. Good luck

    • @k3ygvrv
      @k3ygvrv 2 роки тому +1

      @@lainaking6794 people are super busy, I'm from the hood so here everyone is trying to make ends meet I don't think anyone would make time for my recording our conversations idea, but I'll see what I can do about it, thanks

  • @paulinembugua2034
    @paulinembugua2034 2 роки тому +1

    Love the content. Hate the curse words!

  • @perismwangi3425
    @perismwangi3425 2 роки тому +1

    amazing content as always

  • @janaleokesho8374
    @janaleokesho8374 2 роки тому +1

    Great episode 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @wacukakangethe4281
    @wacukakangethe4281 2 роки тому +1

    An awesome episode...I used to be in a group we were 4 and the dynamics were many but the similarities were there

  • @annkamau7733
    @annkamau7733 2 роки тому

    💕💕Such an awesome friendship....

  • @peacemakuza3934
    @peacemakuza3934 2 роки тому +3

    Huge love from 🇷🇼

  • @safiriwithdee
    @safiriwithdee 2 роки тому +1

    I pray I get friends like you ❤️❤️

  • @everlyneochieng3900
    @everlyneochieng3900 2 роки тому +1

    I love your energy.

  • @patriciakayamba9534
    @patriciakayamba9534 2 роки тому +2

    Y'all are beautiful in unique ways 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @shiromuita-saisi3554
    @shiromuita-saisi3554 2 роки тому +1

    I have learnt alot am soon coming up with a group of friends 😊🤣

    • @irene6213
      @irene6213 2 роки тому

      😹😹🙄 me too😭😹