I like that positive look on it, your correct. You probably would have not stayed interested, and or you would have been mistreated by him either way. Because he really doesn’t want you.
I needed to hear this for re-enforcement. This is why I say he didn’t make you a placeholder…you kept yourself as the placeholder. Park them in the lot n drive on to the next destination
Listen here!! After a man ghost me and decides he wants to reach back out weeks later. I’m definitely not responding back. Bc he gone think it’s cool to keep doing that mess if u let him.
Fantastic video A month ago, my five-year marriage came to an end. I'm devastated that my real love chose to distance themselves from me. I've tried everything to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I try my hardest not to think about him, but I can't help but miss him and think about him often. I truly couldn't explain why I'm saying this. 🥺😞
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
I simply used your useful information to look him up online. Amazing I looked up Father Obah Eze online, and he seems like a sincere person. Again, thank you ❤
Recently after 3 or 4 months of dating and talking daily. Spoke Christmas Eve and texted on Christmas then ghosted. Two weeks later he reaches out asking if I'm still alive and I said "I sure hope so. Who is this". 😂 Boy bye!
*Everything MJ said is right on point...HOWEVER, after ghosting you, they should not circle YOUR block repeatedly or constantly stalk you 😤! For whatever reason(s), they chose to ghost you. So, they should keep it moving in another direction👻!!!*
Thank youuuuu!! Who we are unsure about and they are clearly unsure about us. Feeling anxiety in any part of the relationship especially in the beginning is not the goal. Peace and Consistency is. ❤
I was ghosted 2 weeks ago. But I found out that he got arrested and got out, but I still wanted to be his friend, but he blocked me so I blocked him back. He can only view my stories and see that I'm moving on. It hurts but this was his decision.
Thank you for bringing this message to me!!! I needed this message desperately.. My ego was why I tried to get him back when he clearly moved on. As a result, I turned down several dates with good men who were interested in me..
Whew I needed to hear this. This was at the perfect timing. I don’t think this was a coincidence but rather God wanting to make sure I received this message. I’m saying Amen and Ouch lol.
Yes, you are correct and so smart. You learned your lessons. But some people unluckily will do the same error again and again. No learning effect, or the guy was too handsome 😂
MJ, You always absolutely and unequivocally speak the truth!! .. You provide most excellent and truthful advice all the time!! .. Exactly Why We All Appreciate You!! .. You certainly know of what you speak!! .. In addition, you look very beautiful and certainly do inspire us to be as smart and lovely as you!! ... HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!! ❤❤❤
💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥Never allow a man to show you twice that he doesnt want you. Its my mantra for life. Also for people...Im not an option to choose from when you are lonely or bored💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
I needed to hear this because it happened to me recently I feel like I got played 😢but my cut off game is strong 💪 asf !!! PREACH MJ THANK YOU 🙏 You came in at the right time GODBLESS YOU ❤
All my favorite dating coaches speak as if there are loads of qualified candidates available today for endless "moving on" & dating new ones... I meet like one every few years and of course get disappointed when, after having enough shared values, he disappears... yes, I go out to events where like-minded people gather, yes I go out in public, yes I go where the men are. I don't have the most popular lifestyle, to put it mildly, and don't sleep with men quickly, so they don't resonate
I hear you-it can be frustrating when the dating pool feels limited. But I do believe that the options are far more expansive than we may think. Sometimes, we can expand our options by changing our “type” or by placing ourselves outside of our comfort zone in different spaces and places.
Me too. It takes me years to find someone who interest me so moving on is easier said than done. My girlfriends recently admitted that the pool at my age is small so the battle is not to let the scarcity mindset to set in. Faith does not worry and value doesnt beg so I wont devalue myself by begging. I will continue looking for my tribe
Haha snif snif, I'm good 😂😂😂 it happens so much with all the technology and modes of connections in this day and age. It's hard for people to stay focused!
Was ghosted by a guy who later came back and told me I make too much money to be a wife. I’m never dating again, I’ve haven’t been the same since, MJ 😢
You’re not alone, Queen. I love hard too n heartbreak is not easy but we always find a way to stand up again. Listen…I’m grieving a dude who introduced me to his mom n siblings after 4mths of dating n his dad told him to go meet my family. 6mth mark…I’m starting to grieve him like he died. His communication shifting…so I shift too ✌🏾
If it weren't such a hassle to change my number, I'd do it. 😅 It started with an email 2 years after HE told me his therapist said we shouldn't speak anymore- I shouldn't have responded!!!! "Can we move to texting?" 🙄🙄🙄 Then "...I have to tell you that I lied to my therapist about you. I was scared." Gurl, now he's on my blocked list. I can't.
I was wondering if something was wrong with me because after two business days I forget you existed and move on with my life. When my friends mention the name am like who is that 😅. No man will have me pining over them that’s why I would say I am never heartbroken I accept things quickly and move on. On to the next.
People make time for what they want to. If he shows you his color believe it! Stop trying to use a darker crayon to try to make him into something he just isn't. If he can't pick up the phone to communicate like a man and say Hey your nice, but just not the one for me. Because communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't have time to be.playing shreds with somebody's grown ass child! Some of you ladies also have to learn how to stop giving these men so much power over your life where your just walking around moping , not eating etc. Never give anyone that much power . Never depend on someone else for your happiness. That is your job to do and control. He's with that girl that knows who she is and how much power she holds. The female with the confidence that makes everyone heads turn when she walks in a room because she is oozing confidence.
I shared this Video the first five minutes i Listen to it. My friend needs to hear this. When soomeone Ghost her. She even starts stocking the person in all social Medias just to know why it didnt work for her. I find it such a waste of time
He’s right ladies 💯
Yess I'm not concerned about why he chose to ghost. All that matters is that he did and that I stay silent and move on.
Exactly! ❤
This..... This... This!!
And NEVER take him back!!!! 😘
Yes! That’s it. I don’t need to know anything else. You ghosted, stay a ghost. Casper the ghost. Lol 😂
Playing with souls is not good. Anyone can lose interest. But a respectful ending with dignity and grace is the approach of decent people.
Yes and they wonder why they don’t have any luck.. or why is happening they don’t understand
I was just talking about this earlier , you will never be good enough for the wrong person 👌🏾
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@@MJHarrisSpeaksRight on!!!
Yes! Choose people who choose you
Ghosting hurts low key. I’d rather them just say they’re not that interested.
If someone doesn't appreciate your presence, give them the gift of your absence!
I like that positive look on it, your correct. You probably would have not stayed interested, and or you would have been mistreated by him either way. Because he really doesn’t want you.
Exactly! ❤
I needed to hear this for re-enforcement. This is why I say he didn’t make you a placeholder…you kept yourself as the placeholder. Park them in the lot n drive on to the next destination
Listen here!! After a man ghost me and decides he wants to reach back out weeks later. I’m definitely not responding back. Bc he gone think it’s cool to keep doing that mess if u let him.
Fantastic video A month ago, my five-year marriage came to an end. I'm devastated that my real love chose to distance themselves from me. I've tried everything to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I try my hardest not to think about him, but I can't help but miss him and think about him often. I truly couldn't explain why I'm saying this. 🥺😞
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I simply used your useful information to look him up online. Amazing
I looked up Father Obah Eze online, and he seems like a sincere person. Again, thank you ❤
The unhealed version of me wanted to know, why. But now, I'm grateful, bcuz I'm not putting energy into something that's NOT for me!
Recently after 3 or 4 months of dating and talking daily. Spoke Christmas Eve and texted on Christmas then ghosted. Two weeks later he reaches out asking if I'm still alive and I said "I sure hope so. Who is this". 😂 Boy bye!
The 3 month rule is real.
The ghost of Christmas past
"Who is this?" Is a good one 😁
Love the playfulness in your message. Yea he gonna think you the one who got away..well, let get away
Hell ya! Did you ghost me? I hadn't noticed. Lol
Here's what you do: MOVE ON!
Amen I needed to hear this .
Their inadequacies are within them and NOT 🚫 within me.
Exactly !❤
Stop forcing things ladies it's not us or maybe it is but it's OK ❤
Ooh wee! I was JUST thinking myself in a hole.... this was RIGHT ON TIME! Thank you!
I'm so glad I could help! ❤
*Everything MJ said is right on point...HOWEVER, after ghosting you, they should not circle YOUR block repeatedly or constantly stalk you 😤! For whatever reason(s), they chose to ghost you. So, they should keep it moving in another direction👻!!!*
💯Truth! Im now at an Omarion level of unbothered lol. Grateful to have learned my lesson
Needed to hear this. any man that haven’t told me Happy New Year is left in last year. It shows that they don’t care or think about me 😅
Amen! 🙌🏽
Thank youuuuu!! Who we are unsure about and they are clearly unsure about us. Feeling anxiety in any part of the relationship especially in the beginning is not the goal. Peace and Consistency is. ❤
I'm in a happy healthy relationship and I've noticed so many people that I thought were my friends aren't really happy for me
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Very few people end a situation before starting another. Can’t be alone.
Have you ever been ghosted? How did you handle it?
I’m dealing with this now but he stalking me online and liked one of my pics recently 😏
I was ghosted 2 weeks ago. But I found out that he got arrested and got out, but I still wanted to be his friend, but he blocked me so I blocked him back. He can only view my stories and see that I'm moving on. It hurts but this was his decision.
Took it as it was and never reached back out, I just accepted it as it was and kept moving on with life & healed from it.....
Yes... But, I didn't knife it was ghosting at the time.
@@chacaragibson5060Have he tried to reach out?
I don't want an unhealed man. If you're fresh out of a relationship, keep it moving.
Let him stay a ghost because its not worth the pain your causing yourself
Omg I needed this conversation thank you for posting this. Hunty you just gave me life!!
You’re welcome! I’m glad you found it helpful. 💕
I'm cool on ever dating ever tf again! once I recover from this injury,I'ma forever be chasing a bag! eff a man,child! I'm tired!🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for bringing this message to me!!!
I needed this message desperately.. My ego was why I tried to get him back when he clearly moved on. As a result, I turned down several dates with good men who were interested in me..
Whew I needed to hear this. This was at the perfect timing. I don’t think this was a coincidence but rather God wanting to make sure I received this message. I’m saying Amen and Ouch lol.
I needed to hear this ta-day!!!
😂👌
Yes, you are correct and so smart. You learned your lessons. But some people unluckily will do the same error again and again. No learning effect, or the guy was too handsome 😂
MJ, You always absolutely and unequivocally speak the truth!! .. You provide most excellent and truthful advice all the time!! .. Exactly Why We All Appreciate You!! .. You certainly know of what you speak!! .. In addition, you look very beautiful and certainly do inspire us to be as smart and lovely as you!! ... HAPPY NEW YEAR BEAUTIFUL!! ❤❤❤
Thanks MJ for the confirmation!!! On to the next … !!
You’re welcome! 💕
Gather us MJ!!!! 😩😩. You ain't said nothing but the truth here honey!!
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💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥Never allow a man to show you twice that he doesnt want you. Its my mantra for life. Also for people...Im not an option to choose from when you are lonely or bored💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
That part!
Right on time. Life too short. We aint gettin no skinnier! Or younger! 😂
I needed to hear this because it happened to me recently I feel like I got played 😢but my cut off game is strong 💪 asf !!! PREACH MJ THANK YOU 🙏 You came in at the right time GODBLESS YOU ❤
I love your videos Mj. You really never miss.
Speak your truth 👏 MJ.....always on point 👉 ❤
All my favorite dating coaches speak as if there are loads of qualified candidates available today for endless "moving on" & dating new ones... I meet like one every few years and of course get disappointed when, after having enough shared values, he disappears... yes, I go out to events where like-minded people gather, yes I go out in public, yes I go where the men are. I don't have the most popular lifestyle, to put it mildly, and don't sleep with men quickly, so they don't resonate
I hear you-it can be frustrating when the dating pool feels limited. But I do believe that the options are far more expansive than we may think. Sometimes, we can expand our options by changing our “type” or by placing ourselves outside of our comfort zone in different spaces and places.
Me too. It takes me years to find someone who interest me so moving on is easier said than done. My girlfriends recently admitted that the pool at my age is small so the battle is not to let the scarcity mindset to set in. Faith does not worry and value doesnt beg so I wont devalue myself by begging. I will continue looking for my tribe
You are 100% correct.
Going back to my original way of thinking.
It's good to be back on the right track! ❤❤❤
MJ....I feel & hear your vibration all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Let me buckle up and accept the reality...
Thanksssssss❤❤❤
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Wow thank you for seeing this video on time. We move🎉
You got this! 💪
I needed this!
Haha snif snif, I'm good 😂😂😂 it happens so much with all the technology and modes of connections in this day and age. It's hard for people to stay focused!
Was ghosted by a guy who later came back and told me I make too much money to be a wife. I’m never dating again, I’ve haven’t been the same since, MJ 😢
He sounds broken and insecure. Don’t let that fractured excuse of a man keep you from finding love. ❤
Please don't give up because of his insecurities. Move on so you can be loved properly ❤
What???
What?!? Omg, that fool sounds like Ikechi from "Married at First Sight " 😮. He's intimidated by a successful BW.
ALWAYS SPEAKING FACTS
Thank you this is all I needed today 😂
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OMG . MJHARRIS ! I LIKE YOU A LOT ❤❤❤. YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH 🙋🏻♀️
Love, love, LOVE THIS! SO empowering. Thank you ❤
And on to the next I go and I don't do the spin the block thing🎯
Nope! ❤
Woah... Hope he ain't one to comeback around. Because, they always do!
Your message was much needed. Thank you ❤
KEEP MOVING THE ENERGY🎉
Love you. Straight to the point. Thank you ❤😊
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Love the new astheics of the channel the thumbnail and the background throughout the video 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you! I'm so glad you're enjoying the new look. 🙏🏽💕
Perfect guidance.
MJ this was one of your best videos I have ever watched. The delivery was on point and it sat in my lap life husky kid. Thank you.❤❤❤
You're welcome! 💕
I needed to hear this thank you!
You're welcome! ❤️
You are so Right. Thank you!!!
Excellent video as always best friend MJ!! ❤️
I'm so glad you found it helpful! 💕
Spot on ❤ thank you I needed this 😊
Thank you for this. It’s just what I needed to hear. ❤
Gem after gem 💎 whew! Thank you so much for this. Ladies, let’s take notes 📝
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❤❤❤❤❤thanks man
MJ is back with the great advice & self-love ✨️❤
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Thank you for this video
Thank you for this video.
You’re welcome! ❤
Straight 2 the point. I needed 2 hear this….Thank u so much ❤
You're welcome! ❤
I LOVE THESE VIDEOS!
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you are right and you are talking about me i love so much i do not know how to let go
You’re not alone, Queen. I love hard too n heartbreak is not easy but we always find a way to stand up again. Listen…I’m grieving a dude who introduced me to his mom n siblings after 4mths of dating n his dad told him to go meet my family. 6mth mark…I’m starting to grieve him like he died. His communication shifting…so I shift too ✌🏾
Truth all day 💯
Video on setting boundaries
I’ll be sure to make one soon! 💕
❤❤❤❤ Happy New Years everyone Blessings and Love 😍 to all family friends and subscribers Love in the house from Trinidad West Indies ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is good!!!!
You are amazing! BIG Thank you ❤
Thank you, love! 💕
If it weren't such a hassle to change my number, I'd do it. 😅 It started with an email 2 years after HE told me his therapist said we shouldn't speak anymore- I shouldn't have responded!!!!
"Can we move to texting?" 🙄🙄🙄
Then
"...I have to tell you that I lied to my therapist about you. I was scared."
Gurl, now he's on my blocked list. I can't.
❤❤❤ that sounds exhausting
Thank you and as always you are amazing and 💯 ❤😊
Great video! ❤
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Thank you! 💖💖💖
You're welcome! 💖💖💖
Leave the door open?! I think NOT!
First time shame on him 2nd time shame on you boo. Take it for what it is and reaction to his action.
Thank you king, I’m 22 never date but after your videos I’m ready to make them run
Go for it! You will do great ❤
Excellent!
Thank you! 😊
We need more of these tips MJ ! because wow after GOD fear MEN 😂😂😂😂😂😂 we're dealing with a bob the builder type of man or casper the friendly ghost
Amen, sis! 🙏🏽
Love you Mj ❤🇿🇦
Ps - Please can you cover a topic on how to "make a man grovel back to you" 🤭🫣
Powerful ❤❤❤
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so true
Not the “hey stranger “ 😂 MJ
You're right
Truth 💯
Literally loved this ❤❤❤❤ amazing so true!! Hilarious
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😘Thank you MJ
You’re welcome! 💕
That part 🎯
Exactly 💯
MJ I just need to focus on unbigging my back, cuz these men are draining 😅
Yup!!! We Only in your money and health and kids if you have them. I don’t so I be in the gym 😂
I was wondering if something was wrong with me because after two business days I forget you existed and move on with my life. When my friends mention the name am like who is that 😅. No man will have me pining over them that’s why I would say I am never heartbroken I accept things quickly and move on. On to the next.
That's exactly the right attitude! 🙌
People make time for what they want to. If he shows you his color believe it! Stop trying to use a darker crayon to try to make him into something he just isn't. If he can't pick up the phone to communicate like a man and say Hey your nice, but just not the one for me. Because communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't have time to be.playing shreds with somebody's grown ass child! Some of you ladies also have to learn how to stop giving these men so much power over your life where your just walking around moping , not eating etc. Never give anyone that much power . Never depend on someone else for your happiness. That is your job to do and control. He's with that girl that knows who she is and how much power she holds. The female with the confidence that makes everyone heads turn when she walks in a room because she is oozing confidence.
You had better teach that thing!
Agreed...
I shared this Video the first five minutes i Listen to it. My friend needs to hear this. When soomeone Ghost her. She even starts stocking the person in all social Medias just to know why it didnt work for her. I find it such a waste of time
Thank you for sharing this video ❤
I just love you