5 SIGNS SHE'S GONNA FLAKE ON YOU! (RED FLAGS)

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  • @AustinDunhamVlogs
    @AustinDunhamVlogs  3 роки тому +16

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    • @cesarrivera8626
      @cesarrivera8626 3 роки тому

      One chick flaked on me twice and she was the one to try and reschedule both times. I told her I already gave her too many chances and never messaged her back even after that wall of text she sent...✌

    • @kaniguiii
      @kaniguiii 3 роки тому +1

      @@cesarrivera8626 and now you want us to congratulate you go congratulation my brother you are an alphat confirms. get out of there bro

    • @cesarrivera8626
      @cesarrivera8626 3 роки тому

      @@kaniguiii just learning from these red pill masters

    • @kaniguiii
      @kaniguiii 3 роки тому

      @@cesarrivera8626 Not bad to go kisse I leave you

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +360

    Any time some woman whines "where are all the good men?", I always answer "they're with the good women."

    • @bscarter100
      @bscarter100 3 роки тому +4

      Word! Some she even left on “read” in her inbox 🤷🏽

    • @hexgrade177
      @hexgrade177 3 роки тому +16

      Stop spamming. Annoying as hell

    • @stoicg6970
      @stoicg6970 3 роки тому +4

      @@hexgrade177 I agree

    • @stoicg6970
      @stoicg6970 3 роки тому +4

      Hey man why don’t you stream your own UA-cam channel videos about this topic, since your knowledgeable about this topic.

    • @habbaticchio2468
      @habbaticchio2468 3 роки тому +3

      @@stoicg6970 yeah he’s always commenting lol

  • @jebroll368
    @jebroll368 3 роки тому +157

    No woman is more beautiful than freedom
    Stay strong kings⚡

  • @Kanfachan
    @Kanfachan 3 роки тому +42

    Guys, if it's not a hell yes, it's a no. Meaning: If she's not overly enthusiastic about you (to the point where she's annoyingly bothering you with communication), she's doesn't have high interest in you. A girl with high interest will damn near run through a wall to be in your presence. She'll bug you constantly and want to spend time with you all the time.

  • @jdkingsley6543
    @jdkingsley6543 3 роки тому +63

    For the average man, learning how to say no, cutting her off earlier and just walk away will take time. It took me years to build up the tolerance. Mostly because l say things from a scarcity stand point, even when my averages were decent. Nowadays its no problem to just keep it moving , all in all fellas dont kick yourself in the butt if you play yourself and get dragged along. It takes time

    • @cobraelectric
      @cobraelectric 3 роки тому +11

      Preach brother! Took me years to realize it to. Now, we are better for it. Don't accept any misbehaving women and these antics. If there is tension I address it. If they get emotional I leave.

  • @erikdekker1
    @erikdekker1 3 роки тому +107

    1: Vague responses ( inderect anwsers)
    2: Sparse communication ( Communicate 1x a day or less)
    3: Not follow up on the date of the day ( Don't waste your time boy's)
    4; She flaked on a previous date and you wanna reschedule ( Don't be a simp, stop it.)
    5: She tells how busy she is with her schedule ( If she likes you, she makes a date for you free)

  • @fedditpiccolo1642
    @fedditpiccolo1642 3 роки тому +44

    A simp and his money are easily parted

  • @dcrawley507
    @dcrawley507 3 роки тому +46

    It was these very reasons why I had stopped asking women out for 2 years 😂😂 I just be focusing on myself and minding my own business

  • @EmperorLelouchx
    @EmperorLelouchx 3 роки тому +34

    I shoulda known as soon as she told she me has a bad memory and keeps forgetting about the dates we set 🤡🤡

    • @k.dizzyy2110
      @k.dizzyy2110 3 роки тому +1

      Been there, my guy. LOL we know much better now

    • @Foreign84
      @Foreign84 3 роки тому +5

      Lmao who forgets about a date 😂😭

    • @Theboxingdungeon
      @Theboxingdungeon 3 роки тому

      😂😂

    • @EmperorLelouchx
      @EmperorLelouchx 3 роки тому +2

      @@Foreign84 right 🤣🤣

    • @Foreign84
      @Foreign84 3 роки тому

      @@EmperorLelouchx lmao like c'mon! I'll call her out on her bs then block her

  • @SK-hf2qf
    @SK-hf2qf 3 роки тому +11

    mane i needed this, i was a simp. i kept rescheduling and didn't realize. i needed this video man. preciate g.

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 3 роки тому +63

    I don't understand why girls who do this just tell the guy they're not interested or just block the guy? They'll be doing the guy a huge favour, do girls keep them around because they enjoy the attention, validation and chase? 🤔

    • @sheldon6307
      @sheldon6307 3 роки тому +23

      Yes

    • @nikhilpatil6247
      @nikhilpatil6247 3 роки тому +35

      girls hate confrontation and they dont want to make dude angry so instead they flake in a more indirect way

    • @DC-fb6ls
      @DC-fb6ls 3 роки тому +20

      Attention and validation my guy same way you feel good when she texts you vice versa but she’s got 10 you have 1

    • @nikmorales8624
      @nikmorales8624 3 роки тому +15

      Thats exactly why, sounds so simple yet so difficult for women. They do it to keep the attention supply full at all times, because she knows you will hit her back up giving her more attention asking her again

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 3 роки тому +1

      obviously

  • @civilgod
    @civilgod 3 роки тому +8

    Something I realized once I got married and not when I was single,
    Girls don’t necessarily remember their “time of the month”. So When I was single, a girl would flake on Friday. Only to “fully cooperate” the following week. Just thought I’d mention this possible scenario.

  • @myronsbrother7305
    @myronsbrother7305 3 роки тому +135

    We need to flake more on women. They seem to forget we are the breadwinners and the go getters.

    • @TAFProductions
      @TAFProductions 3 роки тому +5

      They forget because most men are on social media all day trying to f$$ while busting their nuts to porn.
      You cant blame them really and because its the majority most alpha males and go getters pay the price too....
      NOFAP FOR LIFE.

    • @kerryfirehorse
      @kerryfirehorse 3 роки тому +8

      Breadwinners, what century you living in bro 🤣

    • @365DaysOfBald
      @365DaysOfBald 3 роки тому +2

      Said the loser

    • @PylotGuy
      @PylotGuy 3 роки тому

      Yeah I always flake on women not on purpose I’m just too busy, I work 70 hours a week and hit the gym and I have friends I have to link with so I always end up having to cancel... I notice they want to see you more afterwards

  • @malik5835
    @malik5835 3 роки тому +70

    Met up with a chick from tinder who said she flaked on another guy to hang with me. Felt bad for the man.

    • @joshywashy3453
      @joshywashy3453 3 роки тому +26

      If you wanted a quick business meeting, I can see why you still rolled with it. Otherwise, she needs to be tossed aside.

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 3 роки тому +1

      @@joshywashy3453 Exactly!!

    • @solodolo_mma3971
      @solodolo_mma3971 3 роки тому +15

      She’ll do the same to you one day. Stay woke bro 👌🏼

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 3 роки тому +3

      @@solodolo_mma3971 👍👍

    • @twitchgrizz
      @twitchgrizz 3 роки тому +1

      Simp comment we never compete bro they for everybody

  • @c_rem6101
    @c_rem6101 3 роки тому +20

    I need Austin on the roommates podcast ASAP

  • @marcelchalobah7946
    @marcelchalobah7946 3 роки тому +64

    What day are you going on the fresh n fit podcast.

    • @fedditpiccolo1642
      @fedditpiccolo1642 3 роки тому +5

      2rd or 3rd of June

    • @EmperorLelouchx
      @EmperorLelouchx 3 роки тому +2

      @@fedditpiccolo1642 you mean June?

    • @danielmorris9018
      @danielmorris9018 3 роки тому

      He's going on this Wednesday, 2nd of June

    • @thabesttheris
      @thabesttheris 3 роки тому +1

      Hes a fly dude but he just became red pill like a year ago. I dnt trust ur game unless u been doing it for 5 years plus.

    • @marcelchalobah7946
      @marcelchalobah7946 3 роки тому

      @@thabesttheris red pill only makes sense in America Canada in Europe people are more rational and civilised to Americans. Society in Europe isn't extreme too

  • @kelvinmuza4356
    @kelvinmuza4356 3 роки тому +17

    Im from South Africa..I win here because of u..Respect my king..Respect

    • @thanyelaniramatsea5425
      @thanyelaniramatsea5425 3 роки тому +4

      Dawg 🤣🤣🤣 RSA too 🤝🔥 The dude helps a lot... it’s tough out here 🇿🇦

    • @fedditpiccolo1642
      @fedditpiccolo1642 3 роки тому

      🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

    • @siyatyeku3748
      @siyatyeku3748 3 роки тому

      - 🇿🇦🇿🇦More redpill G's in SA

    • @kelvinmuza4356
      @kelvinmuza4356 3 роки тому

      @@thanyelaniramatsea5425 real talk bro..its tough😂

    • @tysonwest67
      @tysonwest67 3 роки тому

      🇿🇦🔥

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 3 роки тому +13

    Never give these chick's free validation and attention 💯💯💯

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +35

    The one who cares the least runs the relationship. get with the girl that adores you the most. Not the one you breakin your neck for.

  • @LRK1990
    @LRK1990 3 роки тому +2

    Girl at one point chose to go to workout with a "gf" over chillin wit me..I ghosted her ass and never responded to texts. Bad behavior I won't tolerate.

  • @big.o5139
    @big.o5139 3 роки тому +4

    I like how you break things down and explain the scenario you're a great teacher and coach

  • @starxthacreator2152
    @starxthacreator2152 3 роки тому +9

    I remember when my ex kept doing that shit I wind up breaking up with her and never dealt with her ever again and she was also cheating on me behind my back and kept accusing me of talking to other females

  • @Jay-fv6xo
    @Jay-fv6xo 3 роки тому +9

    Right on time. 5 minutes ago Literally checked both youtubes to see if you posted

  • @hoodrichfem2wavyy294
    @hoodrichfem2wavyy294 3 роки тому +5

    I feel nobody else in My State gets flaked on more than Me🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️😭. So after watching this I hope I Never get flaked on again.. My 🖤 can’t take no more L’s.

  • @Roger-tv7sf
    @Roger-tv7sf 3 роки тому +3

    Damn #5 is true some nurse chick I met at the gym keeps on telling me she has night shift and her schedule is busy. I don't really care since I already got a fwb but it's annoying when she keeps on messaging leave it on read lol

  • @kingdid7625
    @kingdid7625 3 роки тому +2

    Austin that Tumbnail bro even before that Redpill Knowledge my Gut was telling me nah broooo she ain’t fucking with me.
    Also do a video is it over board to block females. Cause my homie seen my block list was like damn you block over 100 girls some will come back. But me I don’t have time for them waiting games. I had 9 trying to Smash ASAP even drop her Lo while this one girl that was 7 playing games so I block her

  • @Austinspence25
    @Austinspence25 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for the great advice king 👑

  • @devo9073
    @devo9073 3 роки тому +5

    She cancelled and didn’t attempt reschedule for a full week, I deleted her off snap and unfollowed her Instagram. Did I do the right thing?

  • @loverrboy
    @loverrboy 3 роки тому +13

    It's all about the abundance mindset. It doesn't matter if girls show these signs, I have dated girls that have hit me up with this bs but if you ask out 5 girls on the same day your chances get higher. Then you can just post a picture of your food showing the girl that did go out with you that night on Instagram and I'll bet you anything that the other girls that flaked you will go out with you cuz they will realize you ain't playing games around, you a fucking beast.

    • @NewEra0G
      @NewEra0G 2 роки тому

      So u add all the bitches u talk to on social media?

  • @jdkingsley6543
    @jdkingsley6543 3 роки тому +3

    The busy schedule is literally the biggest most annoying trick in the book. Immediately drop a chick if she says that. dont waste your time fellas then moment she says ahes always busy cut her loose

  • @FA9082
    @FA9082 3 роки тому +2

    The rule to remember is when it comes to women anything that is not a clear YES is a NO!

  • @D3vious38
    @D3vious38 3 роки тому +1

    Cant wait for the Fresh n Fit collab 2mmrw

  • @smeefyzeus7078
    @smeefyzeus7078 3 роки тому +1

    Austin keeps dropping gems..

  • @MiguelJohnsonJr
    @MiguelJohnsonJr 3 роки тому +2

    Homie on here looking like a super saiyan

  • @kekoadias3752
    @kekoadias3752 3 роки тому +3

    Everyone stay blessed!🙏

  • @J-Terrell
    @J-Terrell 3 роки тому +4

    Biggest sign is the woman gets back to you the last minute

  • @adamsultana8380
    @adamsultana8380 3 роки тому +1

    I find people in general do this now. I have friends who can't decide anything until the day or even the hour of.

  • @ItsTimeToo
    @ItsTimeToo 3 роки тому +11

    1. She's breathing
    2. She's a woman
    3. 1 or 2
    4. Still 1 or 2
    5. Read the above

  • @abdulsufi424
    @abdulsufi424 3 роки тому +2

    If you don't receive high interest from beginning to end consistently, drop her. Not worth it. Stop simping. Only deal with high interest women. Period

  • @smmp107
    @smmp107 3 роки тому +10

    Ima start living my own life
    Ive been taking so much “advice” on females when i could be doing something else more valuable with my time
    This shit is overwhelming and ruins any possible relationships
    At work i be spending hella time around females to know what to do and what not to do
    When i watch these videos it doesn’t help me advance anywhere

    • @Turtle-sz7sk
      @Turtle-sz7sk 3 роки тому +2

      Idk how old you are but these are 100% facts

    • @Los_Wolves
      @Los_Wolves 3 роки тому +2

      You're right

    • @leodicap9547
      @leodicap9547 2 роки тому

      You need to fuck more girls brow, go out get rejected again and again until you became emotionnally like a robot, no feelings, just say hi girl I like your hair it's sensual etc... and then you will understand true game, you will get it like an eureka effect, be a man, they will not kill you, they will reject you until you became a true alpha male and then they will begin to chase you or will send you more choosing signals, they genetically programmed to chase an alpha. Hope this helps, good luck soldier!

  • @gamerx30
    @gamerx30 3 роки тому +1

    I’m an older dude (43 years old) I feel bad for y’all young niggas because In the 90’s this shit was rare fam. Nowadays I just delete there information of rip...Done!

  • @montavio
    @montavio 3 роки тому

    Very solid info man Apreciate it.

  • @upnext1095
    @upnext1095 3 роки тому +1

    Big fax

  • @JoJo-vz5yh
    @JoJo-vz5yh 3 роки тому

    All facts in this video

  • @PrettyboiYT
    @PrettyboiYT 3 роки тому +1

    LOL Is that Snewj’s sister on the thumbnail?

  • @AnthonyJosh
    @AnthonyJosh 3 роки тому +1

    I saw a video of you in an interview on TV from a year ago

  • @samwisegamkee8480
    @samwisegamkee8480 3 роки тому +1

    Made arrangements for a date. I sensed she wasn’t gonna come. I wasn’t sure, so I decided not to show up anyways. Then I texted her hours later. She said she was busy. Also, she said she couldn’t make it to the date. In my mind, I thanked myself. Acted all cool. We rescheduled; this time, we actually met😂

  • @thetruthis4750
    @thetruthis4750 3 роки тому +9

    MAJOR sign She’s going to flake, she doesn’t follow your directions

  • @spiritphoenix6336
    @spiritphoenix6336 3 роки тому

    good shit man

  • @Paul-pj5sz
    @Paul-pj5sz 2 роки тому

    Dude she messaged me after no contact saying she can’t stop thinking about me and asked me to go out for drinks. A few days before we were meant to meet her texts started slowing and taking longer. Then today she messaged me 2 hours before saying she has covid 😂 what a load of bull. Why can’t woman just say they aren’t feeling it so both parties can just move on 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @MRoss623
    @MRoss623 3 роки тому +2

    Unless she asking you to hangout she gonna flake.

  • @dockerytwumasi812
    @dockerytwumasi812 3 роки тому +1

    🔥

  • @blackberrycrush1
    @blackberrycrush1 3 роки тому

    Girls who flaked on me I just cut all contacts off with them and just start focus on myself they see how I improve and now they want to hang out and go on dates na it ain’t happening u fuck up your chance so you could kick rocks 🪨

  • @user-mv3ng8pp4b
    @user-mv3ng8pp4b 3 роки тому +1

    There are like no androgen receptors in my man's shoulders. That's where the femininity comes from.

  • @kelvinmuza4356
    @kelvinmuza4356 3 роки тому

    Thanks bro

  • @jewelsofuniverse2130
    @jewelsofuniverse2130 3 роки тому

    It really is a spiritual warfare I told myself and other soulful guys and vice versa if you one of those spiritual open minded individuals and always willing to evolve on some otherworldly never before done things
    Then otherworldly aura chosen one women best for you
    It’s best to just let the right ones come to you and with social media those women who have your futurtarian thinking and feeling gonna love you and not flake on you

  • @shawn-tae6492
    @shawn-tae6492 3 роки тому +1

    U remind me of Russel Wilson... Low-key, maybe it's the voice

  • @fairnxezgt99airbornejackei48
    @fairnxezgt99airbornejackei48 3 роки тому +1

    I still don't understand 😑😑😑😑

  • @brianpratt3672
    @brianpratt3672 3 роки тому +1

    💯💯💯💯💯

  • @magnopro4654
    @magnopro4654 20 днів тому

    Paloma mami en miniatura

  • @arrows2323
    @arrows2323 3 роки тому

    Yah the flake can happen to any guy out there. Even to superman. I had a girl like me so much that she painted me and told me she wanted to show me off to everyone. In the end she flaked on me. I kinda knew she would flake on me from the start because she is obsessed with Korean men and she thought I was Japanese. I am actually Black, Chinese, and European. One rule I had is if she is a Koreaboo/Weeaboo(Korean/Japanese) or show signs she is obsessed with any other race, then there is no point how attractive you are, that races she is obsessed with will have average mofos winning over you. I bet you if I told her I was Japanese, then she would stick with me. Matter of fact, most women that love Asians always check if I am Japanese lmao.

  • @better_man_2.0
    @better_man_2.0 3 роки тому +2

    Yo

  • @Retro-beat-em-up-games
    @Retro-beat-em-up-games 3 роки тому +1

    Big facts homie damn rip

  • @richardking342
    @richardking342 3 роки тому

    Weres the workout videos folks

  • @dmack1988
    @dmack1988 3 роки тому

    If she rescheduled she pays for everything

  • @upnext1095
    @upnext1095 3 роки тому +1

    Yo First one

  • @jairusbryant3229
    @jairusbryant3229 3 роки тому +1

    If you don’t wanna go out with someone, why don’t you just say it?

    • @leodicap9547
      @leodicap9547 2 роки тому +1

      If you find the answer then you found the keys of the Universe

    • @GangstalkingReality
      @GangstalkingReality 2 роки тому

      Free attention and free validation. They love attention and validation as much as we love sex

  • @izkmky2811
    @izkmky2811 3 роки тому +3

    "I'll let you know" my all life
    Edit for non english peopoe what does "flake on" mean ?

    • @SaintSoldierN9
      @SaintSoldierN9 3 роки тому +8

      When you make a plan with someone to do something, and they cancel the plans last minute

    • @Ashauni
      @Ashauni 3 роки тому

      @@SaintSoldierN9 That's really what it means, Amardeep, but it's more of them not having the interest in the first place and they play you on knowing it won't happen... Then when it's near time they come up with a flimsy excuse

    • @SaintSoldierN9
      @SaintSoldierN9 3 роки тому +1

      @@Ashauni IK, I tried to write it as simply as possible so the dude could understand

    • @javianjohnson8746
      @javianjohnson8746 3 роки тому +1

      Dude you have to call that out immediately. You have to reply "That sounds extremely vague" and she IF she responds. If she doesn't, you already have your answer without waiting for her to "let you know"

  • @vitortimoteojourney
    @vitortimoteojourney 3 роки тому

    What means Flake?

  • @william_159
    @william_159 3 роки тому +1

    Austin is getting bigger

  • @robertkhalilkelly237
    @robertkhalilkelly237 3 роки тому

    How y’all are you.

  • @icantpvp___3995
    @icantpvp___3995 3 роки тому

    Just a quick question. If I previously gave an open book that she can hit me up during a weekend to hang out and she didn’t- did she flake?
    Secondly, a week later she ask me when I’m taking her out and I gave her a date and she said yes but 10 minutes later she said she might not be able to get the day off for that day and I cancel it right then and there as soon as I felt like she flaked- did she flake? Is that a walk away situation?

    • @Turtle-sz7sk
      @Turtle-sz7sk 3 роки тому

      No to first question and yes to second

    • @icantpvp___3995
      @icantpvp___3995 3 роки тому

      @@Turtle-sz7sk yes to both parts of 2nd question? Coz I did walk away and haven’t spoken to her in months

    • @Turtle-sz7sk
      @Turtle-sz7sk 3 роки тому

      @@icantpvp___3995 yeah most likely, usually they’ll come back with something like “I have to work until 9 but we can hang after” and also what did she learn in 10 minutes that changed anything? If they wanna chill you’ll know it. The fact you haven’t talked to her in months tells me you made the right decision. She woulda hit you up. I’m sure there was another man involved and when she made plans with you she possibly checked with him to see if he could chill and he could so she cancelled with you. Go with your gut always

  • @pepis-world
    @pepis-world 3 роки тому

    Paloma Mami

  • @ahlkjess3004
    @ahlkjess3004 3 роки тому

    but i like cornflakes

  • @maljones1398
    @maljones1398 3 роки тому +3

    She only flakes if you broke

  • @nathanaelito
    @nathanaelito 3 роки тому

    Que me ha pasado 😔 δυστυχώς

  • @FOH45
    @FOH45 3 роки тому

    time for FnF 🔥

  • @stevengrandmaison5936
    @stevengrandmaison5936 3 роки тому

    why the fuck is it that complicated like this tired of this shit

  • @freddyeats6546
    @freddyeats6546 3 роки тому

    All these signs seem like common sense to me but to all the simps out there watch the whole video 👍👌💯 Jk im the biggest simp out there so if you ever in doubt that you're being a simp just remember I'm the biggest simp lmao😂😂😂

  • @StvyWavyTV
    @StvyWavyTV 3 роки тому +1

    Thumbs up if Austin looks like he got darker

  • @raphacooljohnson3469
    @raphacooljohnson3469 2 роки тому

    l

  • @maljones1398
    @maljones1398 3 роки тому

    Y’all are all betas lol.
    Stop asking chicks on dates and just be friends with em.

  • @Victor-xs7gf
    @Victor-xs7gf 3 роки тому +1

    Austin with the boulder shoulders 🔥