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10 DATING "RULES" I SWEAR BY! (EVERY GUY SHOULD FOLLOW!)
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Yeo how tall are you
I set up my 1 date and she sayd I can't because idk anymore so I never set up a date again we meet we stayd with one anather in even thogh she hed tach problems because of a trauma we sleept with one anather in a month and anather 5 times after than she cheated on me with her best frend
The 1 time we did it I told her I don't care what you do take a pill or abort if you remain pregnant my 1 time will be whitout protection I won't even care when I'm gane ejaculate and I did just that she took care of herself and she didn't remain pregnant after that I did it outside but the 1 time I wanted the full experience and that's exactly what I gat
It keeping making mistakes but I'm learning thanks for sharing this its very helpful.
1. Don't discuss your ex or past relationships
2. No phone calls longer than 15 min
3. If she is more than 15 min late leave
4. Don't discuss politics
5. She does most of the talking whoever talks more losses
6. Never talk feminism or gender rights
7. Never talk child support
8. See yourself as the prize
9. Never justify or explain yourself
How the hell do you even have the talk about those rules with her😅
@@SniperMike20 they are unspoken rules
Politics is a definite one to avoid. If they bring up feminism, don’t explain all the faults of it 😂😂
@@madams989 if they bring up feminism in a positive way . I’d cut and run
If they bring up feminism… *discard!*
I’ve only ever had 1 girl that had that 10 attraction for me and your 100% right. I noticed a huge difference in dating her. She messaged first, agreed to anything I said, always available to me, sex happened second date to which she admitted she wanted to on the first date but didn’t want to look like a slag lol. This advice is spot on. Only problem is most average guys never get this. I’ve had it once in 33 years!
exactly or if they get the first message its from an older woman you would not go on a date with
I could be wrong but i'm guessing this happened before social media ruined dating forever
This happens most often to men who are highly attractive or have great game. This is why your physique, hygiene and style matter so much
Damn cuh only once.
dont get into red pill or any pill just follow God and Jesus Christ.
Not going to cap every thing you said is literally my life right now. It’s crazy how much I’ve done to put energy into women and how little I actually should have been doing. Red pill changes you man… I wish I was on this when I was younger.
if you pretend to be someone you are not we always realize
@@Am-kg1ng lol the audacity of someone assuming a man putting effort is inauthentic to them… lol
@@teeh.4754 he’s right tho. You can’t be a poser. These changes better be your vibe from this point on
I can understand why you are tired of putting in effort and I'm sorry you had bad experiences. Looking back though, were you going after women who gave you cues that they weren't interested in you? Sometimes it helps to have a female friend decode a situation and let you know the subtle hints. If a woman likes you she'll match your energy.
Yo!, Make a Video on Self-Talk Mental obstacles and How to approach them in the mind, Discipline , specifically Self talk. and Maybe even prevension methods, when it comes to being undisciplined, etc.
Fr
Becoming the beast podcast, Jeff Logan
Live in the moment
But most importantly use ur mental energy correctly
Yo, it would be cool if Austin posts a video like that but I’d like to recommend you to search here on UA-cam “C0TT0NC4NDYTA mental analysis”
2:15 Men you should never take a girl seriously who takes pleasure wasting other guys time regardless of their social standing . It speaks volumes about her character 🗣
Facts
absolutely man. If I’m not interested in a girl, it’s just not happening. If she catching feelings and I know I’m not there, I’d rather just end it right then and there and avoid a headache
This. I had a ONS with girl who loved to tell me about all the guys on tinder and that she would waste their time for fun. Left her on read the next day.
Lots of women like to play head games with men who aren’t so attractive also you must have game
@@ghosthuslerYou a real one
Austin, you’re my guy. But please start saying “womEn” instead of “womAn” 🤣 one is singular and one is plural
some people pronounce EHH instead of EEH.
Wimin=women
Woman=Woman
RIGHT! I thought I was the only one who noticed that. Its super annoying lol
Cry
Cry! lol 😂
“Son, I found a condom in your room.”
“Gee, thanks, Grandpa!”
“Why are you calling me Grandpa?”
“Because I couldn’t find it yesterday.”
What?
The grandpa has dementia??
Ohhhhhh now i get it
This is a brilliant joke
Omg
How to get women:
1) be attractive
2) don't be unattractive
If only it were that simple
@@jayevans6146 literally is, mostly physical attraction and then game
@@jayevans6146 it is in a way
Factual. Most guys need to hit the gym and max their looks. No excuses really
Um ok. Glad to see this is how you cope
RP HAS ITS TRUTH.
when a woman has certain standards she makes EXCEPTIONS to men she finds attractive or has interest in
Yeah I've had women with high interests in me come straight over my house, and they would tell me they normally go out to dinner dates first.
Eh, I don't know. I think every woman has soft and hard boundaries.
@@brianj7027I would say she was most likely lying to you and she's the type to do that all the time. Her words told lies but her actions spoke the truth.
This is really good advice, but I think waiting a year to ask somebody out is a little too long to not be exclusive but still want to get to know them. Especially if y’all are sleeping together…that’s what the boyfriend/girlfriend stage is for to get to REALLY know somebody before marriage.
If the chemistry, the energy is there and the sex is good every time I’d wait 3 to 6 months.
you really don’t know somebody fully 3-6 months in…
Heck no it’s easy for women to fake it for a few months
I agree with you Herinjin. 3 months is a good enough time to see if you want to be exclusive.
@@JayFlockoof course you don't know someone in 3-6 months but you can make a good enough judgement to see if you want to be exclusive.
@@JayFlocko my man asked me to be his girlfriend after a week , we’ve been together for almost 7 years lol
Just had to cancel on someone where I got through setting up a "date" to the bowling alley. Only for her to text back that she was planning on asking others to come too. Bitch bye! I ain't going out like no sucka.
Yeah 😎👍
To be fair Bowling sounds boring asf lol try escape room or something
@@xxxTOSHIxx not really. Bowling sounds fun. He shoulda just invited her to his house. Fook a date and wasting money
Shoulda went to the movies sauced & greased that’s my go to movies usally work for me
What’s really crazy is the amount of dudes who refuse to wrap it up even if they have or had an std!
So gross 🤢 This is why women don't sleep with men so early. Also did you know you can get STDs even with a condom?
We hate condoms lol
@@sbj97 We hate STDs 😂
Number 9 to never reschedule if she flakes is gold. I have saved myself a lot of trouble by just brushing off women who cancel last minute or flake. They were not that interested and would probably just set me up for another chance to cancel or flake again. They can watch my platform going out with other women
Well played, king.
Number 9 is one of the few pieces of advice he gives that I also agree with. If she flakes and gives you a valid reason and offers another time and place then maybe. However, if she flakes and gives no reason or new time and place then move on. She's either not interested or has bad character.
I had a date scheduled when I learned my Dad had a heart attack. On my way to the hospital I immediately called my date to tell him and offered to reschedule when I got back. If she's genuine and respectful you'll be able to tell.
One of the most productive videos I’ve ever watched and I watch Fixtfearless, Stepscold and MJ.
#6 is clutch for your mental as well. Even on dating apps like hinge I don't swipe. Leave the app there and check back once a day or every other day. just kick it w/ the girls that like your profile.
Shid bro if I didn’t like profiles I’d never get coochie
austin be having them come straight over for the busines meetings
This is GOLD and good stuff to teach our son's and daughters 👍🏻 👏
“Do you want me to bring the leftovers” 💀💀
Thats some wild shit
Not taking western girls seriously unless proven otherwise.
If you look at studies average and slightly above average guys get around 0 messages from girls first on ig and most dating apps so not message a girl first is really bad advice if you’re not chad
Just goes to show you can’t listen to everything they say bro
Vet her for a year before exclusivity: absolute gold advice!!
Key word is "I". Austin is at one of his highest peak so therefore his first rule works. Alot of guys who aren't near there prime in looks shouldn't necessarily follow the first rule due to not being at there ultimate attractive form yet. You'll miss out on a lot of bags. Even though it'll require effort with trying with women, at least you can have the opportunity to bag. I made that mistake in only trying to mess with women who were highly interested (they didn't come as frequent as I had viewed myself on the SMV) in me and ended up fumbling alot of bags because I wasn't willing to put in some effort. Women aren't that difficult and raising her interest from mid to high isn't hard. Now if she has low interest then focus on another woman. This only makes sense to guys who know what im talking about through experience. Often times being yourself around mid interest women and giving them a chance will open doors to where they become more attracted to you. It really isn't that deep. Just remember to not waist too much time or any money.
95% of guys in their prime looks will still not be near Austin’s level.
Love AD’s content. Just straight, pure game.
The way he says woman just hits the ear wrong. Lol
I know right? Bro can't talk properly. It's women not woman, Austin...
I like the 5 rule...dont dm first ...because it is channged the dynamic
Rules 1 and 6 are GOLD. It took me years to learn the futility of chasing and trying get someone to either like you back or increase their level of interest. That’s a waste of time. Be the one who gets chased!
very few men are persecuted women are much more selective
"be the one that gets chased" isn't that passive?
@@happygolucky9004 That's one perspective, but regardless Austin was right. The ones who are truly interested and willing to back it up usually make an effort to let me know. It has happened to me multiple times in a variety of settings.
Austin is cooking. "The Free Meal Guy" is a trap yo. We've all made that mistake of going all out and blowing a budget trying to impress a girl first time round. And let that bih pay on the 4th date if you like her B😭don't compromise for shiiii
Not all fam
To your point here.... ( 2:47 )
Women can show high sexual interest and still decide not to have sex with you. it doesn't always take a high body count to get to this point either. When you see this, stick around and show her that you're in it for more than just sex or be on your way if you're not. 9 times out of 10 if there's high sexual attraction and she's not sleeping with you, she wants more than just sex and isn't trying to go through the nightmare that comes with no strings attached.
just thought I'd share that because not all women are like the ones he's referring to in that segment of the video. Either that or it seems guys just aim for those type of women in particular, I guess.
Very good point brother
@@lavellelee5734I agree with you. There are plenty of women out there who don't feel comfortable sleeping with a guy they barely know even if they are highly attracted to them. Women value safety and I think a woman who doesn't sleep around is a better catch.
this needs more likes bro
This.
@@happygolucky9004yea but Austin was refering to the women "who gave themselves freely" and easily to other men in the past but now they make you wait for it, maybe she got tired of it, maybe she is more matured and wants to "redemption" herself, but a serious experienced guy will think "sooo i am kinda fool eh"
😢
You raise a girls attraction by action not words.
Physical attraction is the most genuine form of attraction let’s be fr here bro
The first rule even applies with an LTR. I don’t care what anyone says, I had a chick I was seeing whose interest dropped off massively from it being very high and even though she said she wanted to be my girlfriend, her actions did not match her words.
Whats ltr?
@@jourdanfarquharson4697 long term relationship
Maybe you did something she didn't like or lost interest because of an incombatibility. I don't think you showing interest made her lose interest.
@@happygolucky9004Sometimes that can be the case depending on the woman.
Love this vid man, through all my years of learning this dating game everything you said was spot on ! Learning these things from experience is a harder route
And about the condoms, man it’s wild Wild West out here! Do not raw dog these Ho3s they out here letting every dude beat and skeet unprotected
Almost got caught once, was in the car with a chick backseat , wasn’t gonna pop one on.. but something just told me slow down and put it on. (Keep them on you at all times)
After we finished she said “I’m glad you put that on because I have an STD” !! I dodged the bullet but man that was close and women are so emotional they will rather have the intimacy than tell you the truth !
BE SAFE
Hold up, she told you she had an STD AFTER she finished?? Bro that’s a huge red flag right there, who knows what else she hiding
@@iankieme783 I know, which is why she was ghosted after lmao, I got checked tho. and was good
and how did you react when she told you
Wooow, what kind of women do you date? This is why it's good to go out with someone before sleeping with them right away.
Men and women are more complicated than necessary. I show mutual respect and interest. Give and take. I’m so busy following all of this mess would be way too exhausting. It sucks for those who genuinely do not care to play games
THIS
Men are actually less complicated than women if we being honest women play more games men just adapt to em
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie funny thing, I got married shortly after posting this. My husband and I got married within the first month of knowing one another. Didn’t feel the need to play games. To each there own. Stay blessed my friend ☺️
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollieI think worrying about which sex plays games more is a waste of time. Both are capable of playing games and it's best to steer clear of those people.
Austin's methods in this video are clear game playing. I wouldn't follow all of his advice.
@@sleepnuance7840congrats hope you have years happy together.
Sales and game are the same
Good advice mostly. I'm not as good looking as you but the times I've had success this basically all applied. If she's really attracted to you it all sort of happens easily and they are agreeable. They actually get really possessive in some instances so you can ignore them for a bit and they text you first.
The not messaging 1st is really tricky tho...On one hand its true that more than likely the chick has genuine interest if they message 1st but on the OTHER hand since women are serial "not message 1st"er's if you don't message 1st you won't hear from many unless you do. One time i matched with a chick, i let a few days pass before messaging 1st and NOT too long after i finally did they messaged back...its THAT serious lol
Increase you’re value and get off tinder. Way better in real life. Also what are you’re goals and morals? Just sleeping with whatever bottom feeder wh*re on tinder who literally has a weekly fuxk routine isn’t the life. Find a high value woman. You must be a high value man to do that tho and not only high value when it comes to relationships.
Always remember your value whatever you put on a pedestal it will always be away from you
Facts Austin theses will have you living a healthy dating life no cap
This is SOLID advice!! Especially the NOT raising interest and the NOT rescheduling request when SHE flakes....oh and the condom definitely!! Keep em coming Austin!
That's one of the only solid advice he gives here. The rule about sex within 3 dates is dumb.
Let’s take a moment and praise this guys for actually talking facts.
Facts or feelings? Because I haven't seen him produce any studies or imperial evidence. Those are facts.
Women is the plural not woman
Cry
Serious question here guys: when guys like Austin say "date around" and have fun, how many of you have that many options to just approach if you're attracted to them? I live in the Indy and, honestly, I'm so surprised by such statements; there just aren't that many women.
They don't these aren't applied to the ugly guys.
He's in Florida, there's tons of hot chicks there
There’s a man in Indy that pulls a lot of women and ducks. Become that man if u want. Geography isn’t the issue. You can live with a Uncontacted tribe and be the alpha there and have the maybe 20 or 30 women there seeing you as a King. It’s all about who you are and what those women around u value
@@Jdot2tact who’s that man? I’d like to know him 😄
@@AEdavirgin Then don’t be ugly
Dude, a girl won't even make you a priority after the most incredible sex - nowadays really good sex freaks them out. They become distant and scared to get hurt/scared of falling for you
Great list form the youngin’s. I’m 47 and I approve this list family. Continue the great content
Bro you think exactly how i think had this formula for years.
5:50 man this is a great bid of advice. Vetting for a GIRLFRIEND should be very in-depth
Can you do a video in which you explain how to be always relaxed like Tom Shelby? Because you too look always relaxed and you give that vibe of calm, masculine, confident male that every guy should have
I actually just recently swore off dating completely!
@Jamel Carpenter Nah, I'm just not motivated by sexual or intimate matters any more, too much hassle, I'd rather focus on myself and grow.
I think it's good that you focus on yourself and grow but don't close yourself off to a relationship in the future 😊
@@alltheworldsastage4785You a real one
Hey Austin. I love your channel. Since one of your rules is to never message the girl first, do you prefer Bumble over other dating apps?
So main take away for the bros : dont wife up chicks who dont show any form a of attraction to you, make time for you or respectful of youre time. One thing my mom had that holds true, sometimes you got to be youre own best friend and support yourself to become great.
I think his main take away is: men are the prize and be passive and wait for them to show you attention. Now hmm 🤔 this sounds kind of feminine. I think Austin actually likes to be the lady.
Evidence:
1) he wants the woman to make the first move (classic masculine energy)
2) he wants the woman to see him as the prize (classic female energy)
Yep Austin's telling you to take a woman's role 😂
@@happygolucky9004 well tbh indecisive chicks are a headache. Not every human has their personality bound to biology or social norms. All be it in my case id have to be doing my own thing and she walks to me and greets me.
Austin makes it sound like a dude is to eye contact girl continously( if blessed in looks criteria for males) and then just have her step to you.
I honestly dont care about the masculine feminie energy stuff cuz if i jell with her i honestly igf, in most cases im gonna be stronger than the girl im interested or the one approaching.
@@jourdanfarquharson4697 Indecisive women, I agree, should be avoided. However, Austin isn't just saying to avoid people who are flakey/indecisive but he's actively saying not to approach any women at all. That's just bad advice.
@@happygolucky9004 oh yeah totally agree with you.
@@jourdanfarquharson4697 Glad we agree, so rare these days on the Internet ❤️
Idk if this is overboard or not, but the city I live in is #1 in California for STDs. I have gotten to the point where if ima hook up with a chick, she's gotta get tested. The one's I've asked to do so, have been down to get tested. I've never had a woman tell me No. And if she did then I would be coo with that and just not talk to her anymore. My city is reckless like that, and in my mind self preservation is 🔑. Y'all let me know how you feel about that. Would you do the same?
That's smart! I'm glad you value your health. I do the same and make sure they send you a copy because people lie about getting tested.
AD is a villian now I like this cold side
"you're really safe, Most guys aren't like that" that statement is very concerning
True, you would think all of the messages about condum protection would make us men do the more logical safer option. But unfortunately based on austin statement most guys give the excuse of condom lacks full stimulation factor and appearantly would rather risk/ live with std and spread it to ruin everybodies fun.
@@jourdanfarquharson4697 it's not just a guys issue.. Most girls prefer it too and only a handful are disciplined enough to insist on condom use. Another reason why there are so many unwanted pregnancies, the complete lack of control or caution on both sides.
@@mctreasure thats true too
"You want me to bring you the leftovers?"
Thats crazy.
Something men need to understand about the difference between men and women wanting sex is that women want it just as much. HOWEVER, her ability to want sex often depends on you. The threshold for her to become aroused starts and ends with how she sees you and what you do and say. Often the reason she stops wanting sex from you over time is because the guy she thought you were isn't what she thought or hoped you were. Never be afraid to say NO, and make sure that everything is within your frame. Her ability to show consistent interest and investment in you is all the proof you need.
Fucking 100% on point. "Often the reason she stops wanting sex from you over time is because the guy she thought you were isn't what she thought or hoped you were" - this is why the best dating advice is actually just to level yourself up and max out every area of your life OUTSIDE dating
Women tell on themselves when you let them talk
Austin, terrific content as always.
I just had a question: why do you always say “woman” when referring to “women”?
Yo this video should be in health class. Great video 👍🏼
Most women have the clap he right
I give up on dating and looking for a girlfriend. Im just going to move on and if I die alone so be it
You should upload more top 10s very interesting
Rule #7 is where I fuck up at cus I’m antisocial af and ion wanna meet nobody unless I feel comfortable with them
Life saver dawg for real
Bruh I love the transition from fitness to Redhill lol
another banger
This dude needs to learn the difference between woman and women.
I totally agree with the no dinner on the first date. Have a coffee date. 5 bucks or less on her
Thanks for talking about that last tip. Respect
Bro we need more content 🙏🏿
bro you wrap it up pretty much everytime? You a rare one for sure haha
Let me reach my night stand...😂😂
3:42 idk it's 50-50
maybe she "regrets" her past actions giving herself freely, so she now wants some "redemption" or idk, i wouldn't like this either, but you can't know for 100% if she slept with alot like ALOT of guys
imagine being the "free meal guy". long day
My first date is always coffee. Where do y’all go?
Go out for drinks. Thats better. Cut to the chase
smoothie bar see if she health conscious
coffee or drinks for sure
bro u need a summary in the description or sum my adhd ass will not remember that shit lmfao
These rules are GOLD!
I never had a girl message me first damn that’s some black pill right there
He's right about "villain side". Women are not attracted to the hero because they view him as a chump/sucker for wanting to pedastilize them and wanting to genuinely do something for others. They love villains because that who is clever enough to only do for himself. If they witness you breaking rules/doing for yourself and getting away with it, they will get excited and wet for sure. I've seen this over and over again.
I disagree. Girls are neither attracted to the hero or the villain. Girls are sexually attracted to the antihero. Think Han Solo not Luke Skywalker or Darth Vader. That’s the kind of vibe you want.
@@PassionPandaMakes sense. A guy who is as capable and clever as the villain but can be a good person when it counts. Ability + trustworthiness = antihero
I disagree. Emotionally stable women love the hero and that's why there are so many movies and stories about heros. Girls & women who are broken by life or their fathers are attracted to villains. Those type of women tend to have terrible relationships.
So what kind of woman do you want to attract?
@@happygolucky9004rubbish information. Too much Disney romance you consume to beileve that
Most of the things this guy says only works if you genuinely have at least a few options. If you don't - you are just a wannabe pretender. A lot of red pill is about confidence, acting certain way, etc. which helps but you can only do so much! If you are 5'10'' average looking guy with an average job - you can't act like you are a 6'4'' pro athlete playing in majors! It has to be within certain limits that's what I am trying to say - for example if you are a middle class guy - have a decent middle class car and dress nicely, etc. but know your limits! If you try to pretend like you are some sort of hot shot, but you are not - people can spot that from miles away and call you out on that. It's like in poker - if you pretend like you have two aces but in reality you are holding A high and the board didn't help you - if someone has a decent hand - they will call your bluff no matter how much you bet or how confident your bluff looks! In essence you need to know your target audience if you are a 5 with a decent confidence and game you can score with 5s and 6s but don't expect that to work on 8s and above!
Great content been following you for a while. RIP to the godfather Kevin Samuels
all ten are so valid! Good shit!
Now let's make 10 list for the ugly guys because none these will work.
Damn. This is some good ass advice
Am I the only one who thinks he looks like Russel Wilson? Lol
He cosplayed him on Halloween lol
Great advice for the guys. I usually just do warm approach where they're already attracted. Also women are more reserved here in cape town so we have to approach unless they're tipsy
This video was superb
Even a regular chick a basic chick has hella options. So I’d say all these are good advice to keep her hooked. Stand out from all her beta male orbiters she has on her phone and life.
We gotta get colder🥶
💯
Damn... number 5 man😂😂
Real good advice bout safe sex. Part reason i don't like sleeping round much anymore tho I've usually been safe
You give the best advice keep it up man
Most of this is actually really good advice, but #3 and #8 should have some exceptions; for #3, if one is serious about someone and that special someone wants to save sex for marriage then one should respect that decision instead of pressuring them into having sex because that would technically be rape. And as for #8, never force someone into going somewhere they're not comfortable going, there should always be room in every relationship for compromise and backup locations. Respect should always come from both partners, not just one or the other
facts
I can respect someone who wants to save sex for marriage, but just not date them. I'm not going to try to pressure someone, but that's not someone I'm going to spend time with. For number 8, he isn't talking about a relationship, he's talking about the early dating stage where you're getting to know someone.
I watched all theses videos but still cant get a date.
12:32 - I agree with most of the things on this video, but right here you expect her to step into her masculine and plan things. that's our role. I'd prefer to give her a last chance or something.
“So many guys just go in just raw dogging these randoms” - Austin Dunham
Thanks for this video Austin.
That first rule is major key!!!! Never raise attraction.. that whole situation will completely turn into an inflationary relationship.. and that is the worse possible space for a man to be in.. because once you start, the price will continue to go up just like inflation..
Shii Austin really spitting facts 24/7 shoulda joined the patreon to save my ass
8:02 in order for girls to message you first...
this is kinda super hard bro, for your "average" guy doesn't really work lmao, men take the initiative 80% of the time
Why am i watching this i'll Never be that Guy 😂
I wonder what Austin’s first dates are if they’re not dinner, has he ever spoken of what he invites chicks to do? 👀 I wanna know