Always Respect Your Woman: A Lesson In Clickbait (ep. 115)
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(EP. 115) Always Respect Your Woman: A Lesson In Clickbait (EP. 115)
At times we hear that we’ve become un-relatable at times and the audience want us to tap into the early days of Nice & Neat when Jalon was single, Duke & Omar were dating and not as much was at stake! Those days are behind us but the game is even more potent and critical to helping our audience navigate their personal experiences.
Giving relationship advice while still protecting your partner and home can be quite tricky for us at Nice & Neat the podcast. As we grow we continue to learn and grow with our voice as we maneuver through life.
First and foremost, it's important to remember that every one of our relationships are unique. What works for others may not necessarily work for you and your partner. So, when giving advice, keep in mind that it should be tailored to the individuals involved.
Secondly, be careful when disclosing any personal or private information about your home and partner without their consent. This not only protects their privacy but also their trust in you.
Another important aspect is to avoid speaking negatively about your partner. Even if you're discussing a problem, try to approach it in a constructive and respectful manner. This will not only show your partner that you value them, but also prevent any potential damage to your relationship.
Lastly, with us seemingly having our homes and personal lives out of the public eye we still believe It's important for everyone to maintain a sense of privacy and boundaries in your relationship. So when giving advice, it’s great keep the focus on general situations and in using specific examples from your own life understand that protecting your partner and relationship serves as priority.
Remember, when giving relationship advice, your goal should be to help and support others while also protecting your own relationship.
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Please continue to stay true to what you all have built. It is sooooo refreshing to be able to witness Black men growing, supporting and staying righteous in a world that is so misguided. This is Black Excellence! I wish we had more platforms like this where we can see positive images of the men in our culture. You guys do an amaaaazing job!
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Thank you! 🥃🥃🥃
I love this podcast for the very reasons you’ve stated above.
Yes!!
Always remember that y’all are reaching exactly who you need to reach.
#1 Podcast!
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I agree the right ones will follow 💗💗
As a young traditional married man this podcast has been one of the FEW I can really relate and learn from. Please don’t change‼️
We won’t 🥃🥃🥃
If you all are not relatable, someone isn’t developing their self. Keep growing and showing the work your putting in
idk abt anyone else but personally, I love the podcast even more as you guys continue to grow, you 3 become even more inspiring with time and still entertaining at the same time! keep doing what you’re doing🙏🏽
agreed
Same. Keep being yall's great selves. Let the people who don't get it be in their own vibration.
Love! 🥃🥃🥃
Okay I’m less than 10 minutes in, but….lol
I stopped listening to a podcast that was my number 1 for 10 years within the last year because I’ve grown and have become more intentional about what I digest. Your audience is going to fluctuate and that is normal. But at the end of the day yall are hella relatable, this show is for mature millennials. And that’s that on that! I truly believe you all most likely have a higher quality following than other podcasts out here….
Keep evolving, we are here for it!!
Thank you!!! 🥃🥃🥃
Having been watching the podcast from the beginning. You three have always been respectful, transparent and old souls. The topics and your personal lives have evolved as well. And as a woman in a committed relationship; it’s a breath of fresh air to get solid advice. You three have helped me understand my man better. As well as being a better woman to him as well. Especially from three black, successful men who’s actively in relationships/marriages. This podcast is needed for the generation of ppl who aspire to be in healthy relationships and/or continue them. So thank you for sharing your experiences, opinions and lives with us.
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As a black woman who’s listened to you all since the beginning, you guys have evolved, matured and have shown to be respectable/respexted men. For them men who are saying you aren’t “relatable” or “entertaining” which I think false, are men and women who are speaking from their own insecurities and lack of evolving as a person. You guys are a reflection of what they are not. The topics that you speak about are truth, respecting and entertaining to me. This is what should be fueling and entertaining our black community! Keep going 💪🏾
I wholeheartedly agree! ❤I look forward to watching and gathering knowledge from this platform! This is so good
I hope you all continue to receive your flowers and grow as successful God fearing black men.
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I’m not sure what comments said yall are not relatable. I’ve always liked that you all are respectful and give your honest opinions. I haven’t been in an healthy relationship yet and it gives me hope that men do have some sense. Keep being your authentic selves. Those who are healing and value self improvement get it. 💫
Love! 🥃🥃🥃
i really respect what Duke is saying at the start of the episode about not creating a provocative argumentative style space and how that can feel boring to our nervous systems bc of what we are used to. that grounded mature space for conversation that you have created has a ripple effect just by witnessing you. what you guys model is really powerful!
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I find the show entertaining and educational. I laugh and learn each time
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This is a mature podcast. I’ve learned so much from you men. What drew me to this podcast was the maturity level, honesty, and respect. I don’t want any other podcasts but you guys and a crime one. I hate how black people look on these podcasts when they are just talking about unnecessary,drama, and distasteful topics. I’m proud of you all for bringing this to light. Stay true to yourself and continue to make your families and lady’s proud.
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Just a suggestion I think Jalon should be saying 'the No 1 podcast in the world' I am watching from Kenya
I truly believe whomever feels they can’t resonate with your growth and the way yall touch on relationships and characters , is at an unhealthy standstill point of their life. There are no “yes” man amongst the 3 of you and I appreciate the contrast in the way you’re able to express your own opinions. And you do it with class. Continue to elevate - there will always be people and situations that are sent to reverse the work. Ignore it ❤
What Omar is explaining in the beginning about growth is what artists feel creatively when their fan base gets accustomed to a certain style or era. They’re people too and naturally having experiences which is shaping who they are and what they talk about. Cheers to not only growth but for honoring it as well. 🥃
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Continue on the path that yall are on. We appreciate it! We need more content of Black men building on positivity. Thank you!
God bless each of you guys. Not only are you men being an example for black love, you guys are also allowing people to have breakthroughs in their life. With all that is going on today in this world it is hard for some to believe in black healthy love. Continue to be that example of speaking truth.
Also amazing point Duke made with the book analogy. I'd like to add to it. That's the mistake a lot of people make e.g when reading the word/Bible, as they try to read with the intention/ heart posture of trying to find themselves in scripture which just ends up hurting their ego/becomes boring when God's word convicts/corrects them instead of being relatable or their idea of entertainment, people that aren't self aware desire their mistakes to be validated, while those that are self aware will watch a podcast like Niceandneat or seek out the original source of truth by running to God for advice! LOVE YALL!
Outstanding dialogue with a message attached. You all are absolutely needed for the culture AND the Kingdom. Continue to thrive in excellence 💕
Y'all have a message a lot of people/men aren't ready to receive. If you slow down waiting for others to catch up, you'll never win your own race 🤝🏽
The reason I like this podcast is because it reminds me so much of “Enjoy the podcast” and I miss that space 😭😭
Same!!!! I miss Enjoy so much I used to always say they needed to do a joint episode with Nice and Neat
I used to watch them too! They were good too but this podcast is much more harmonized and exhibits a lot more high road thinking. 😁 ❤
I miss them too it used to be a ball
2:36 WAIT?!! Is that truly the feedback you guys are getting??? This can’t be true.
I find that this Podcast is absolutely needed in our community. You guys are such a positive influence on black men and women & SOOO RELATABLE to growing human beings. Those who feel the opposite are those who don’t want to grow.
Thanks fam! 🥃🥃🥃
You guys are absolutely correct: there are enough poor examples out there. We need to see upstanding, Black men. You guys are doing a great job.
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I grew up in a dysfunctional two parent household, at a young age i told myself i would never get married because of the stuff i witnessed as a child. I appreciate the growth of you guys & y’all have changed my perspective on what marriage can be, i know you guys are not perfect but again i appreciate the growth and wisdom that you guys share with your audience and being a positive light for black men. 🥃
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Sent my younger brother the link to your podcast awhile go because he is in his early 20's and this is what I want him to see and learn . You are exactly where you should be👏🏼👏🏼
Also nice and neat is a safe space for me. I know I can click any episode and know what I’m hearing is useful and beautiful to hear the perspective
WE ADMIRE YOU GUYS… PLZ DON’T CHANGE, UNLESS IT’S TO CONTINUE GROWING. I LITERALLY SKIP SO MANY GREAT PODCASTS THAT I ONCE ENTERTAINED BECAUSE THE DISRESPECT OF OTHERS AND EVEN THEIR SPOUSES. IT’S VERY DISHEARTENING! THIS PODCAST YOU CAN ALWAYS CATCH A GEM OR BELIEVE IN LOVE & POSITIVITY! I LOVE IT HERE AS A BLACK WOMAN. I SEE BLACK MEN THE GENERATION CAN BE PROUD OF! 💎🌹
You guys give me hope, that one day I will get married to someone who shares the same values and desires to grow with me. So, please continue to be the example!
You will!!! 🥃🥃🥃
JUST A THOUGHT… love the episodes, don’t think they are getting unrelatable whatsoever but maybe once a season you can read people’s relationship dilemmas to make them feel like you are directly helping with advice regarding exact situations without involving details of your relationships? I’m certain your viewers would love it so submit those specifically for your episodes
I have been watching nice and neat since it first started and I can say it’s still very relatable. I am a woman and I learn a lot from this show. Those who grow with you will grow with you. It’s not about entertainment it’s about education. Keep going and keep growing please and thank you. From a fan of this show.
Loved how you talked about people not having peace be normal and the consume toxic things which leads to that
Keep it up. These conversation are needed, can’t stop don’t stop (no diddy). But seriously, the healthy perspective is appreciated.
Hi there! I've been a fan now for almost 2 years and I can honestly say that you guys are really relatable and have really helped me in my present relationship with how to love a black man!
This podcast gave me a mature outlook on relationships from a male perspective and helped so much with my current relationship. I have learned how someone other than myself feel and view situations. Please dont change 💯
You guys are very relatable and I appreciate of you’re different perspectives every time.
For those who can’t relate, I feel they don’t want to grow. People don’t like change. Therefore, they find it comforting to engage in topics that are low vibrational, which is trending.
It’s trendy to sit and talk about 50/50 relationships and dissect it, knowing men are not in position to properly lead. Women are not in position to fully play their role, other than look for someone to care for them.
Men and women have been burned so badly in different relationships, while not operating from their true selves...to the point, it’s hard to trust.
So, they don’t want to financially invest in a woman. Women simply don’t trust men because they feel they’ll eventually cheat, as if that’s the only heartbreak out here in life. Everyone’s going into relationships without true respect. So, it’s already built on sand.
Fans who want the old show don't understand that this show is about growth. The first video was 3 years ago and I feel comfortable saying the core audience that listens to grow has done just that since then.
Wow! Love this 🥃🥃🥃
Yall work and content is bigger than just entertainment… please keep doing the lords work. We as the Black community need healthy representations. Stay true.
I absolutely love your show as is!! I've always watched to learn how men who prioritize healthy relationships think so I'm better "prepared" when I start dating again. Y'all are educational and entertaining. It's like being privy to a conversation with men who want healthy thriving relationships and lives.
Okaaaaayyyyy Duke!!! coming in with that professor lecture at the 16 min mark 🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We were tuned in on Sunday as usual and heard Duke say, “You got a robe?” 😂. A huge moment for us. Thank you all for the ability to promote on your platform.
We heard you all loud and clear, men robes on the way! 29:17
Our pleasure!
Who did y'all ask and what analytics were used? You guys are very related, relevant and insightful. When I read the comments I don't get those vibes at all, even when people may not agree, it's usually respectful and nice. Granted I don't deep dive and read all comments.
As a woman i appreciate the podcast because I’m able to understand all around and not just from my perspective and I always learn . Keep growing and keep being an example and good leaders . We need to see this type of content more but it’s understandable how some want to stay stagnant and comfortable because growing does take a lot of effort and time and it’s not easy. But for those who are willing and want to continue to grow and achieve our highest potential we appreciate these episodes . Thank you 🙏🏽
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Who’s saying y’all not relatable??????? Y’all have the realest topics ever I don’t understand. People’s heads just in a different level where they can’t need trash and noise. I can sit and listen 5 episodes in one day and still want more. Because I love learning , improving and receive healthy energy only. Keep going y’all🔥 we not here to satisfy but to provide who it’s for
Great episode gentleman!🥃🥃🥃 By enlarge, I think women don't avoid positive content. We seek healthy digestibles especially about relationships and receiving new information about men and community. What I love about your podcast is that you ALL display what growth in black men sounds and looks like. (And, none of you are corny. The swag makes it that much more "nice & neat" to watch.) I don't hear some of the bitterness that some men hand down to boys about women and masculine identity on your show.
This conversation was no different. You were leaders and you showed maturity as a man who leads himself, his household, his career and his legacy. Thats what women pray they are getting when we commit. As a woman who was married for 10 yrs and was brought up in church for most of my childhood as a PK, in my experience such clarity, security and focus is rare in black men today, likely for some of the aforementioned reasons. Your podcast gives us a taste of masculine luxury. We gain exposure to the power of black men that we all know exists but it seems reserved for other communities. As you all named, WE have to desire and aspire for better, then be committed to doing and consuming what it takes to get the gains. For women, vulnerability IS setting boundaries and standing on business. I felt like that was the vulnerability we received in this episodes. I appreciate yall boundaries, especially because there are black women, black babies and a black brand on the receiving end of the benefits. Cheers to a smooth ride to 100K!!!
Gentlemen, please stay true to who you are! This podcast is a breath of fresh air, with all the other narratives on the internet. There are a load of us who DO relate to you all. Let the Lord use you as He will and be unique! ❤
Another great episode gentlemen keep up the good work. 👍🏽
Omar better preach, that was so good, yah worked hard to get to this place, that's dope
you guys are very relatable. Been watching since the 1st episode. I think the people who say that are stuck in situations or their ways. Im an adult and growing within a relationship as well. You guys are growing as adults and most can’t relate either. 3 positive black male figures that are doing something most ain’t. another great episode. 💯
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It is so refreshing to see men carry themselves with this level of respect. I love when they share their experiences for others to learn from. They do not need to tell the viewers the ins and outs of what goes on in their household. They share what they want & it’s valuable information. My ex hated that I watched this show & I realized it was because he wasn’t doing right by either one of us. The show definitely highlighted what a deplorable human he was.
You guys are doing amazing! Been watching since the very beginning. I’ve seen nothing but growth and humility within all 3 of you. I love the show, keep doing exactly what you’re doing! Much love!
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Side note, the guy in the yellow talking about not having experience or being around bad relationships.. I relate. But I’ve learned a lot through social media and just growing up lol
Love this show! I love hearing respectful content. Respectful, relatable, fun and real. Keep being who you are. Your tribe loves it!
#NANGANG 🥃🥃🥃
I must commend you for the content. It is original; it encourages self development and a positive perspective on life.
do not even attempt to go back…it’s not possible…keep looking and moving forward and Omar you are 2 cute🤗
You 3 are my brothers/cousins in my head lol I will tell you like I would tell my real ones. Keep growing! Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
What up sis! 🥃🥃🥃
I appreciate the growth! 👏🏾
You guys are great keep doing what ya doing!
It’s giving Men being MEN ! Much appreciated and has definitely help with standards. Some of us ladies don’t know how a man should fully be or what that looks like. Yes we want a man that models the love we feel for Christ but some of us never SEEN it. So big ups to you guys and thank you for showing what healthy men look like. Much respect ! God bless this podcast, in Jesus name! 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
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I relate so much to Jalons Kendrick track reference… I felt soooooo uncomfortable for me. I skip as well. It saddens me.
Beautiful conversation brothas, I appreciate your transparency.
This episode dropping GEMS! fire
I think the culture needs to embrace development and growth. Life is not all about drama, controversy and entertainment.
Great episode!
My ex used social media to embarrass and attack me. I wish he had the slightest awareness on how that was a huge deal breaker for me. I wish I could’ve shown him this episode back then.
I'm a non black woman and I watch this !
We got something for everybody 🥃🥃🥃
When you’re doing the right thing it’s a very lonely long route. Eventually, the rest will catch up. Yours is longevity not popularity. You’ll outlast a lot of shows and with that, the popularity also will follow.
Love! 🥃🥃🥃
I once experienced a friends husband scream at his wife (my friend) and her 1.5 year old baby, trying to make the baby choose between him or her. I was stuck on their balcony waiting for her to come back for like 20 mins. When she came back I REPEATEDLY told her, girl this is not normal whIle SMH. I was so shocked! I can’t do the screaming, disrespecting and name calling. That’s crazy to me! 🫣😭
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Omar drop the hat brand name🔥
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@ That Kendrick couples conversation: Though seen it, I’ve NEVER had that type of interaction with any woman that I’ve dealt with.
People have to vet mates better. There's certain traits that I'll pick up on in a woman that will make me think,
🤔 “Nah, I’m cool on sis.”
I think this was a great episode but all I have to say is Ocean look JUST like her daddy!
I wonder if those comments on not being relatable has to do with age.. a 18 year old and someone in their 30s won’t relate, Simple
Fellas I don’t know if yall will see my comment but on the last ep Omar said he wanted drip and I want to send some streetwear!
Send it! Hit us up via email or DM on IG
The statement that “single people’s opinion doesn’t matter” is a questionable take to me. I’m sure single, engaged, married and divorced people listen to you three.
With that statement, are you guys recanting all the advice given prior your own relationships? I’d like to believe the conversations you all have had collectively has brought you guys to this point (babies engagement marriage).
Do any of you guys have single parents? If so, can you not take advice from them?
Just thinking out loud. Great podcast 👍🏽
wouldnt "curving" the content ( to protect ) equate to "censorship " and make it not as "real"?. granted, I love the podcast but its gonna go from " barbershop talk" to " creating content".
Even in the barbershop men aren’t throwing their women under the bus 🥃🥃🥃
It’s a shame that you had to make an episode like this but it’s also great that you made an episode like this. That word decorum was key, definitely lacking in today’s society. Y’all did a great job with this episode. 🤎🤎🤎
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it’s called “Nice & Neat” for a reason! This is a space for men to gain insight on how respectable men handle life and their relationships. Keep it up fellas, I am always tuned in! 🫡