Dealing With Common Toddler Behavior Problems
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2013
- Dana Obleman (www.kidsthemanual.com) shares advice for parents about solving common behavior problems in children and toddlers. Is your toddler fighting, biting, kicking, not going to sleep? In this video, Dana outlines strategies and tips for parents on handling toddler behavior problems. Improve your parenting skills, and great healthy habits in kids.
I watched this video about 3 weeks ago. And im thrilled to say it has changed my relationship with my 3 year old like never before. Love Love
Nicely explained,
I would like to add another tip in this
When your child is behaving in a way you like, give her some positive feedback. For example, ‘Wow, you’re playing so nicely. I really like the way you’re keeping all the blocks on the table’. This works better than waiting for the blocks to come crashing to the floor before you take notice and say, ‘Hey, stop that’.
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Good tip
• I needed this!!!
Thank you 🙏🏼
I start my job as a toddler teacher's aide next month. This video helped a lot!
Thank you Dana for all your videos! You have helped me so much with my 3 year old. Please keep posting!!
Very informative and the fact that you spoke in a soft voice love this!!you just gained a new subscriber!
Mine is just plain sneaky. She doesn't hit, or spit, or kick, she's great with sharing, and has no issues with sleep or food. It's just plain old sneakiness. She waits until my back is turned. (In the bathroom, doing dishes, etc.) Then gets into things, and no matter how I try to deter her she just won't quit.
She is a sneaky one keep your eyes open
This is incredibly helpful. Thank you!
Excellent thank you
some great advice thank you
this has been useful so far thanks.😊
She gave really good advice. I found the information useful. Thanks.
Thank you!!!
Good practical advice
Saved video, going to watch every day.
Thank you.
Will definitely apply this to my son. Thank you ❤️
Great video!
Learning leads to learned behaviours
That was so truthful, you cannot let the toddlers push their boundries
What happens when your toddler is extremely intelligent and when offered two fun choices, will often say, “Nothing.” ??🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
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Thank you so much for this! I am losing my mind and I feel like it’s my fault, it feels so good to see I’m not alone.
Mee too 😢
Me too exactly right now
this lady knows what shes talkig about. instant new subcriber!
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+Dana Obleman
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You know what your talking about. New subscriber from Australia.
I love that the choices of pajamas, two things that Mom can live with! Great advise!!!!
My daughter is two and I knew about the "two choices" thing since before I even wanted to have kids myself, so I started that as soon as she was old enough to understand - and I swear, dang near every night she picks both lol
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@@weldinggirl Now she's got a new thing where she wants the stuffed animal to pick, but then once he picks (i.e. mommy doing a goofy voice and pointing with the fox/bear/whatever's arm) she just wants him to keep picking, I can't win lol. By the end of it the buddy has picked all the jammies and we still don't know what she's actually going to let me put on her without a struggle🤣 Kids are weird.
Toddlers are boundary pushers 👍
Thank you. My husband makes me feel awful when I'm setting boundaries and stick to it. But I let her pick between so many things like you mentioned and have been way more lenient and I think that's why she's been staying awake for 2 hours in her crib until falling asleep or nap time is up and we push through the day both being exhausted. She never cried during those 2 hours btw for anyone thinking I'm a terrible human being for leaving her there. She has lots of lovies and a soother machine she plays with. I just don't get how she doesn't get upset honestly. I think shes so bored with our routine tbh and I was too so now it's a bit chaotic with me trying to put rules back into place. Ahh the lovely age of almost being 2..
Don’t feel awful boundaries and consistency is of utmost importance
I don't have alot of patience in general its really hard I snap easily
Me too, girl. I feel like all I ever do is fuss at my kid
Same with myself, trying to get my toddler to eat any meal frustrates me so much!
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Consider your child a blessing in disguise; an opportunity to build a very important character trait.
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My baby is just 10 months old and she is hitting daddy and mommy's face very bad. Sometimes, she laughs while doing it or she is angry. We always tell her "no", "it hurts" or "pretend to cry", but it doesn't work. After watching your video, I have noticed that she does that when there is a change in her routine. I will apply what you mentioned and hope that there is a change in her behavior🙏
both ways are wrong. just tell her, we don't hit, it's dangerous, not safe. not appropriate. never let it go, do it every time she does it. saying just a NO - makes her want to do more. explain why NOt, and crying - oh, you are entertaining her :D trust me :D
In giving them choices...what if they consistently try to pick both options? My daughter does this every time
It is also valuable to have some inconsistencies so they learn how to deal with change.
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I heard you say by the time they turned 3 you start, and then you have a good foundation by four. Does that mean at four it’s way to let to a lot is required to create that foundation? How do you handle this?
I'm a mother and i live in
a foreign country without my parents and no help at all , also divorced . my son is 3 years old and he is really making me tired , he is rock headed , he doesn't get scared of me , sometimes he shouts , and hits me and even if i loose my temper and hit him back , he doesn't back off . i really don't want to shout on him or be aggressive , but i don't know what to do anymore
What to do when your 2.5 y.o loves to run away in public? As in when a caged wild animal escapes. I refuse to be one of those parents with their kid on a leash.
A stroller? Or put them in a cart?
He tips the stroller, he’s too strong and he gets out of the seat in a cart. Sometimes a cart works.
Love, do what you have to to keep your baby safe. ❤️
Whoop that ass
My 3-year-old daughter has always had and still has tantrum episodes every single day. It’s humiliating. Bedtime is so stressful EVERY DAY! And this is not the only time she is out of control. I have tried it all; routine, stories, positive reinforcement, games, etc., still, nothing works. We can't figure it out… We would appreciate your input... I'm all ears!!! Thanks!!!
leave her alone, don't put her asleep. show her daddy and mommy goes to sleep and leave her wherever she is. Say - oh, NAME does not go to sleep, only mommy and daddy goes to sleep, it's our time to sleep.... also, I opened one side of her crib and she jumped right in. when it was close, she was sleeping with us, nothing would make her to go to her bed. Now her bed - one side open is positioned right next to ours as an extension and she sleeps there... but I have to go to bed(pretend) and sleep with her and then escape when she falls asleep! Mine is 25 months and I have never seen a person with that strong will and made up mind! she knows what she wants and she will knock down the rocks and mountains to get it done HER way! The only key I have found is... opposite! I tell her, ok, don't do it.. please don't fall asleep! Please, don't go there... don't pick it up, I want to pick it up... and magic happened! :D Hope it helps!
You need some parent practices specific strategies to deal with the challenging behaviour
I have 2 toddlers and a 9 month old. My 3 yr old and 2 yr old fight NON STOP. no matter what I do. I keep them separated, I put them in timeout, I try to keep them occupied so they don't fight, I encourage their good behavior. Nothing is working. Please help me out with some tips.
Why are toddlers good at school but a terror at home?
Because they feel safest with you! ua-cam.com/channels/xG8UIElD6NFtB86Hyvfl3Q.html
I will try this tomorrow feeding my 23 month old. This or that? Choose. Thank you.
What if when i offer my child two options. He will say that he want it all. Like, i want red jam first then the blue one! And if i pushed him to choose, he got angry
Nur Aini this happens to me. I found if I give 2 choices like red or blue jammies and my daughter doesn’t choose I give this choice, “Should Clara choose or mommy?” I count to 3 and if she doesn’t choose I do. She eventually learned what counting to 3 meant and Dana has a video about the “easy way vs hard way.” I remind my daughter she can choose tomorrow.
What if my toddler (2yr old) doesnt care or understand choice? He doesnt know what he eats and doesnt know the difference, and neithr does he care what he wears.
My 16 months old boy start screaming in the public like restaurant. What should I teach him he not talk yet.
So when my toddler constantly hits, kicks, and terrorizes our dogs what is he saying? I’ve tried everything to get him to stop.
Hand over hand! Don't tell him, shoowww him. Also, timeouts need to be consistent. Use them! I can easily put my 2 year old in timeout at least 10 times a day.
my 1 years old crys alot and wont go sleep just want to have his wayb if he dont have his way he will hit cry and yell until he get his way
Same here. Smh
I’ve got one question; are toddlers still babies, 1/2 years to 3 years, or are they out of that stage?
I was told the Infant stage ends at age 1
I say they are not babies but they are they are still in the baby stages
Black_ Butterfly how? Is it because most of them are still in nappies, sleep in cribs, drink from bottles? Or are they still in that stage because they’re transitioning?
@@annabarham155 well I have a 2yrs old almost 3 and sometimes when he does things and I get upset I have to remind myself he's only 2 I can't punish him the way I would a 10 year old he's still learning if you get what I'm saying
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Put her at 1.5x speed if you're australian 😆
Illinoisan
two choices never works with my strong willed 25 months! she never wants your way, give her 10 or 20 choices! there is always HER way21st one!
It's a child or a toddlers fight or flight instance
Kassandra Chmarzynski I think you mean "Instincts".
What happens when you give your 2 year old a 2 choice option and she chooses neither 😩 she wants to choose something completely different. It's extremely exhausting.
You reply I gave you these opinions if u don't choose then I choose.
I hear you. When they do not take the choices presented then you make the choice for them
Nohy
what is toddler ?
A toddler is what a child between the ages of almost a year old to 3 years old is called
The bigger problem is how we label immature behavior. Seeing toddlers as being "limit-pushers" is very different than seeing toddlers as acting on their natural wiring to gain independence. Immaturity is not a character trait , and we make things harder for ourselves and our kids when we see it this way.
I was excited about having a baby boy now he is two,I'm disappointed, the tantrums are unreasonable almost all the time.He really kills my vibe.He can cry for nothing,ask for juice and I go with him to the fridge to pour some juice,then a new tantrum starts coz he don't want it anymore but he don't know what he wants and he gonna cry.
I need help help😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
First I thought you are Maria Sharapova
Thank gos for 1.5x speed
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Who else is up here cause they have a bad toddler
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That does not sound right ! If a child want another doll or story. What wrong with that?
Manja Kwiej There's limits to everything. If you don't set them when they're little, you're asking for trouble later...for you and the child. That's how you end up with an entitled child and later an entitled adult. It may not seem like a big deal, but it is.
She's just giving examples of just wanting a doll to be can lead to other things
She’s referring to structure and repetition.