its not just men, as he said he also has fought cases for woman. He is doing his job as a good lawyer and good human being. He is helping his clients get the justice they deserve.
@@ronitrajput3934correct, until laws are changed for equity among the citizens, no one should marry within the jurisdiction of India or any country with similar laws, regardless of the gender picked to bias.
Amish bhai I won a divorce case after years Trust me brother please don't get married I married to a woman whom I was with for 13 years from high school. I REPEAT DONT GET MARRIED IN INDIA
This is a great example......if someone who has been with a gurl from high school can get screwed hard by gurl...that shows how terrible situation is for husbands.
Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. No strings attached.
Thank you so much Amish for being present on UA-cam. Your videos are so informational that all Indian men should watch regardless if they are happily married or not. In these “modern” times of feminism, you never know when your wife can take a u-turn in life so it’s better to have basic knowledge and understanding of the legality of matrimonial disputes.
Not withholding your " passion to fight" , question is where will you fight? In Indian Judiciary? Hw much you know about the nexus between judges- lawyers- police ? Any idea of the valuation of " settlement " industry in India? Any idea of the latest trend running for few years - lodge " Rape case" against aged , ailing FIL / young BIL and of course any idea what happens after that? Listen and Learn - Always fight your battle at the place of your choice and time contrary to those Bullshit Hindi film dialogues " Tu jagah aur time bataan, udhar ake maroonga." Those people who are fighting for years and knows Indian Judiciary and the greater " ecosystem and powers" at play, will understand. Common men with " little or no awareness" will not even know what does this " fight" mean and where it will lead to....
@@captainnemo1606 in litigation, you fight till the party exhausts all her remedy. That's how you fight. You don't fight to win because that's absolutely not the case. In my case I had to fight till Gujarat High Court to obtain a remedy u/s 340 crpc and 311 CrPC. Now the fight which I gave was as a Party in person whereas the respondent had to shell our her hard earned money and time to bring upon advocate otherwise in every other hearing I was threatening her for filing 81 crpc . That's how you exhaust your enemy respondent. Then she will come to the table to negotiate. That level of exhaustion you will have to inflict. And don't worry chances are you will not at all win. In my total number of litigations (against me and filed by me) which is approximately 25+, I have hardly received favorable judgement in 2 of them. In the mean time I have inflicted a loss in lakhs for the respondent in that fight. Due to which the settlement has now arrived in the matter. You need to understand that Modern day feminism is biggest market for advocates and police as this feminism is easy to be convinced due to their unwanted and unnecessary ego which overpower the logical thinking and analytics. If the modern day feminism be reasoned with the current economy of litigation, trust me number of litigation cases will drop by at least 70%. That is for sure.
Last year my sister in law had gone to her home, then they all started abusing and harrassing us. After sometime they registered false FIR against us for domestic violence/dowry and put rape allegations on me, we proved ourself innocent and there FIR Become weak. Now she is saying i want to come back and will apologize, but we are not bringing her back. By seeing all this i not want to marry now.
Please do not let her enter your home even if was the end of the world. It is a tactic that makes the females case solid and court will greatly consider that and side with her.
There are atleast 400 millions young men in India...99.999% of them are not aware of the gynocentric laws and justice system... first men rights activists need a massive organisation campaign so that the knowledge of gynocentric laws will reach to every SONS of the country, every corner of the country... Until men organise and set a revolution nothing will change
Only if men wake up and fight for our rights, there will future generation. Hinduism is under threat not just from islamist, but most importantly, divorce laws that persuade men not to marry.
Marriages becomes a scary incident now a days. Its time to rethink about the process of marriage. Why, How, When, with Whom we are marring to and how its gonna affect our lives. Our parents not able to think about these things, they are in delusion that they lived a married life happily so their kids will do the same. But the current scenario is changed, now people are more self-centric objective driven rather than family oriented. Person from outside comes to your house and they want all your parents money and property without doing any hardwork of building trust and maintaining family, they hardly have any gratitude regarding all the privileges they are getting without doing all the hardworks which this family did in their life time. I dont understand why parents not able to see these things and only excited to get married their son.
Sir this is why you r awsome.... Trust me this video of 11 mins is the overall picture people need to understand and not even one atleast one lawyer I found who actually says this... Thank you so much... Will try to share it as much as I can...
I'm adding this video into the Playlist I've created "How to convince your parents to remain unmarried " I'm really grateful for amish's legal input in my Playlist , it consists of legal , biological , sociological and evolutionary reasons to avoid marriage and thrive or have a peaceful life as a single man .
I’m married to a narcissist and scared of even thinking about divorce because of how he has terrorised me. I know your channel is primarily for men to educate them on how to stay safe during false accusations but it is only through your videos I have understood laws favour women. I have been tolerating mental torture only because my husband has threatened to take away my children if I try to divorce him. So even though this video wasn’t for women, it helped me gain some perspective and strength
@dreamsdesires I have narcissist wife. I faced her npd tricks for few years. I was lucky to got myself detached from her. Fighting legal battle is better than company of narcissist.
Amazing Amish... Going thru exactly the same. Took me 18yrs to muster the courage to stand up against this abuse... Now I am subject to stalking/ videos put out on youtube.. night time drunken drama outside the gate..abuses hurled at when my daughter leaves to school in the morning...I got residence order passed. My entire life savings in jt account siphoned off/ the house and property bought with my money are registered in his name. He refused mediation when my lawyer suggested we put down all the facts/ transactions / assets etc.. holding up... Feel proud of myself...my self worth was beaten down so much..and yet he claims he has done nothing...
Brothers, if you give an inch, they'll demand a foot. DO NOT YIELD. Keep yourself mentally strong. Prepare to tolerate physical and mental abuse, and keep collecting evidence. Make a strong case. Hire Amish ! Defend yourself and your ancestral wealth. DO NOT YIELD !
wow i just saw your no of subs .... i remember you were at few thousands.. when i subbed you and met you at CP back in the days. You have come a long way... god bless u. keep making the progress my friend.
Very importantly said by you. 'Fight back'.. to all those who are facing such abuse. Aise lujur-pujur hone se kuch nahi hoga, ho sake to 3-4 gaaliyan bhi seekh lo. It won't help much but Fight back harder. Pehle hi parakh lo abuser ko rishte mai aane se pehle.
Not everyone has the apetite, the stamina and stomach to handle work pressure, a bad home/ marital situation, the anxiety of children getting badly emotionally affected and the final police & court cases. Appetite does not translate to courage in Hindi. It should be some word in Hindi meaning capacity and strength.
Always remember we are in war with every situation, so make your attitude like do or die. Never allow any other person to become heavy on you because it will give them upper hand.I have seen people are so afraid to fight in any form. If you read books then you will know the world is not fare yesterday not today and neither tomorrow. So develop your attitude like that only, we have to die either way so if someone disturb your peace then do not afraid to declare war with them. I think your attitude and mindset will play the major role in such case. Go to jail for few days or months because of someone's false cases but make sure they know once you get out then the other party will be in trouble and once they know such thing then see they will be afraid to file any false case against you.
Right bro. Aaj apne law se hatke baat ki hai. Meri khud ki wife ne jhoota case kiya hai gurgaon court mein, hai delhi ki rehne wali but waha false rent agreement dikha ke case kiya for legal extortion.
The pain is unreal. I am not sure if this is possible, but I wish that I had either buried a safe in my yard or opened a secret bank safety deposit box and put, say, $100,000 in it before I got married. This pain is unreal. But what makes it 10 times worse is, I've lost my kids, house, business, reputation, I have a record, I cannot find a job, I am too old now, etc. I loved my beautiful bride. But now, it's over forever.
🙏 Good Morning Sir., I do feel to have a partner sometimes but when I see all the chaos outside and my past trauma, I know I cannot cope with such drama., 😅 Stay strong people
personal experience of divorcing a covert narcissist, case continuing since 6 yrs, wife taking advantage of matrimonial home law, staying with us and abusing me and parents almost every other day, father passed away last year most probably worried what would happen to me and my mother, mother is a heart patient (stroke) and sometimes the verbal abuse is such she does not eat, this mental disorder is such that the more u engage with such people the more they become virulent and the reason why her parents are not willing to resolve as they are fully aware of her behaviour
Sad bro, I had been there and luckily could get rid of her in 3 years.. Now, I do not want to marry and be happy with myself.. Please join SIFF if u need more support.
Thank u so much Amish for figuring out that what was wrong in me. I was allowing him the slow abuse and not at all putting up a fight. And result I had a exparte divorce two and half year back and not even aware if that l. He was commifraud
I have given up... I can't fight anymore I'm exhausted... everyday I question, should I fight or should I surrender? I was in a toxic relationship and he took everything from me ... this video is basically telling me to stand my grounds .... can you please make more videos on this... no one has explain the or talks about this thank you
Bhai Mera yeh kehna hai, u have to be very clear from the beginning when u detect anything wrong even slightly while being in relationship with any person living that how u r going to defend and protect urself and try to confront and crush the issue then and there itself rather it getting elevated.... I don't know why people are so pessimistic abt getting married and not be in a position to confront it...😮😮
Whatever Amish sir talks is so real and always explain in such a simple language, any common Indian can understand. This man is gem, never mis-guide or mislead any legal sections or any real life situations. I always appreciate him for it
Sir, if I am gonna marry someone, before I marry them I will definitely have a proper consultation with you. I believe in marriage as an institution, but I also believe that no institution should be able to exploit me. I really appreciate the work that you do. Thank you.
Hire 2-3 different detectives,do a thorough background checkup,check for any diseases or psychological issues.Relarives and family members,neighbours may not know much but collegemates can have a rough idea.Install camera in ur front jacket like how the US police does,homes etc. whenever u r conversing with them at least for the 1st few months post marriage and then take a call..At least then u will be relieved that u have taken all the precautions.
Good to know that atleast someone is there for us.. i just want to ask can you help me also I’m going through a toxic marriage with my husband… and the rootcause is my sister in law.
I would say that is a way bigger fight because to win that you have to become someone that you are not and people will judge you at that time probably say arey this is who you truly are. This is when you will loose people relative and friends sometimes family who you think are with you. This is probably one of the best and honest video on how matrimonial disputes get dealt with. Koi ye nahi smajhta ki abuser ko power ka chaska lagta hai and it is way bigger than money or property, once they got to know ki they can get you to do whatever they want and whenever they want a person is dead inside kabhi manipulate krke kabhi dara ke kabhi blackmail krke etc. You will have to become what you hate and fight and be all nasty and very few people will understand what you are doing and why you are doing that and will judge you then at that time.
I agree, but you cannot put CCTV cameras in every part of your home. For example, bedroom. And bedroom is the place where you and your wife will be present entirely by yourself.
Sahi bola aapne mere saath bhi yehi hua hai... Per aaj mai mentally itna strong ho chuka hun ki jail bhi 10 din kaat k aa gaya per biwi ko nahi rakhna toh bus nahi rakhna. Judge k saamne saaf mana kar daala. Biwi ka toh yehi naatak ki mujhe inke saath rehna hai per itni aggressive, abusive woman ko poori lifetime saath mai rakhne se acha ki kuch saalon ka mental torture seh lo.
Best way to deal with marriage disputes or any relationship disputes is to UNDERSTAND HOW DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS WORK! Lack of knowledge in relationships means there is bound to be fights. Simple. Another simple example: If you don't know mathematics, you're bound to fail the exam. That's it.
One thing I realized is that the man has one choice to remain mentally and physically strong when dealing with this. Mentally the man should not allow the woman to overpower him at any cost at least not inside the house.. Thats the key.
Sir mere husband to 4 saal se har bat me divorce ki dhamki dete the har bat me ladte the mene ab unko khud mutual divorce ke liye tiyr ho gi hu aur sir mujhme itne neeche star tak jaane ki himmat nj thi kyunki me apni aage ki life achhi chahti kyunki me smjh chuki hu mere husband ab mere sath khud ni rehna chahte aur ek cheej wo mujhe kuch ni de rhe kehte hi tu padhi likhi hi khud kr hamesha aurat galat nahi hoti sir
This is an interesting video. Slightly different from the usual legalese you give. Yes , what you say is absolutely, correct. In some cases victims also justify the cruel treatment they're getting . That's called Stockholm syndrome. However, there wouldn't be such a mess in matrimony cases , had laws been a bit more fair🎉.
This is what happens when hv a culture that forces people to marry and settle down before they r mature enough. India shld hv a law for civil unions and more people shld just hv live-in relationship until they r sure of it.
You are saving Indian men by making them aware not to get involved in marriage at all cost. Prevention is better than cure.
its not just men, as he said he also has fought cases for woman. He is doing his job as a good lawyer and good human being. He is helping his clients get the justice they deserve.
@@ronitrajput3934correct, until laws are changed for equity among the citizens, no one should marry within the jurisdiction of India or any country with similar laws, regardless of the gender picked to bias.
@@ronitrajput3934 Yes, I could't agree more.
He has never discouraged marrying.
@@SaiAbitathaDUCICthen do it😂😂
Amish bhai I won a divorce case after years
Trust me brother please don't get married
I married to a woman whom I was with for 13 years from high school.
I REPEAT DONT GET MARRIED IN INDIA
Kitna time lag gaya bhai?
This is a great example......if someone who has been with a gurl from high school can get screwed hard by gurl...that shows how terrible situation is for husbands.
Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. No strings attached.
Actually goes for both men n women
@@kushaltiwari3668 Never same 🤓.
Right. You'll find good people on the way. Date them test them than marry anyone. Or sign preneptual agreement
These are all disqualification to be a husband
@@IamSpidey007what is this agreement ?
Thank you so much Amish for being present on UA-cam.
Your videos are so informational that all Indian men should watch regardless if they are happily married or not.
In these “modern” times of feminism, you never know when your wife can take a u-turn in life so it’s better to have basic knowledge and understanding of the legality of matrimonial disputes.
"Biwi se kisi tarah pichwara churwasakun"
- Law Chambers of Amish Aggarwala, 2023
Technically, ye line bi apt hi thi 😂😂😂😂😂
Save my ass
Freudian slip,,, :)
😂😂
Pichwadha
Main point is to fight and develop the ability to fight. Fight for your life. Fight for your dignity . Fight for the injustice caused against you.
100 % right big brother
Not withholding your " passion to fight" , question is where will you fight? In Indian Judiciary?
Hw much you know about the nexus between judges- lawyers- police ? Any idea of the valuation of " settlement " industry in India? Any idea of the latest trend running for few years - lodge " Rape case" against aged , ailing FIL / young BIL and of course any idea what happens after that?
Listen and Learn - Always fight your battle at the place of your choice and time contrary to those Bullshit Hindi film dialogues " Tu jagah aur time bataan, udhar ake maroonga."
Those people who are fighting for years and knows Indian Judiciary and the greater " ecosystem and powers" at play, will understand. Common men with " little or no awareness" will not even know what does this " fight" mean and where it will lead to....
If you fight she will do a FiR then what the law enforcement will support her.
@@captainnemo1606 in litigation, you fight till the party exhausts all her remedy. That's how you fight. You don't fight to win because that's absolutely not the case. In my case I had to fight till Gujarat High Court to obtain a remedy u/s 340 crpc and 311 CrPC. Now the fight which I gave was as a Party in person whereas the respondent had to shell our her hard earned money and time to bring upon advocate otherwise in every other hearing I was threatening her for filing 81 crpc . That's how you exhaust your enemy respondent. Then she will come to the table to negotiate. That level of exhaustion you will have to inflict. And don't worry chances are you will not at all win. In my total number of litigations (against me and filed by me) which is approximately 25+, I have hardly received favorable judgement in 2 of them. In the mean time I have inflicted a loss in lakhs for the respondent in that fight. Due to which the settlement has now arrived in the matter. You need to understand that Modern day feminism is biggest market for advocates and police as this feminism is easy to be convinced due to their unwanted and unnecessary ego which overpower the logical thinking and analytics. If the modern day feminism be reasoned with the current economy of litigation, trust me number of litigation cases will drop by at least 70%. That is for sure.
Last year my sister in law had gone to her home, then they all started abusing and harrassing us.
After sometime they registered false FIR against us for domestic violence/dowry and put rape allegations on me, we proved ourself innocent and there FIR Become weak.
Now she is saying i want to come back and will apologize, but we are not bringing her back.
By seeing all this i not want to marry now.
Please do not let her enter your home even if was the end of the world. It is a tactic that makes the females case solid and court will greatly consider that and side with her.
Men really need just peace and happiness in marraige. Women on the other hand have host of expectations, therein lies the conflict.
Well said!
Absolutely, very well said,👍👍👍
He has just said in 1000 ways and words not to get married
Plot twist : He himself is happily married 😂
@@chetanshukla768 how can married man say in front of his wife that he is not happily married. Tell me what consciousness will he suffers then.
@@chetanshukla768no bro he is not ...!!
@@chetanshukla768spread lies and propaganda all you want
@@chetanshukla768 no i am not married and perhaps never want to be
There are atleast 400 millions young men in India...99.999% of them are not aware of the gynocentric laws and justice system... first men rights activists need a massive organisation campaign so that the knowledge of gynocentric laws will reach to every SONS of the country, every corner of the country... Until men organise and set a revolution nothing will change
Only if men wake up and fight for our rights, there will future generation.
Hinduism is under threat not just from islamist, but most importantly, divorce laws that persuade men not to marry.
Do you know rational male
Marriages becomes a scary incident now a days. Its time to rethink about the process of marriage. Why, How, When, with Whom we are marring to and how its gonna affect our lives. Our parents not able to think about these things, they are in delusion that they lived a married life happily so their kids will do the same. But the current scenario is changed, now people are more self-centric objective driven rather than family oriented. Person from outside comes to your house and they want all your parents money and property without doing any hardwork of building trust and maintaining family, they hardly have any gratitude regarding all the privileges they are getting without doing all the hardworks which this family did in their life time. I dont understand why parents not able to see these things and only excited to get married their son.
Very True, well said 👍👍👍
Sir this is why you r awsome.... Trust me this video of 11 mins is the overall picture people need to understand and not even one atleast one lawyer I found who actually says this... Thank you so much... Will try to share it as much as I can...
Really agreed on the part that it starts small.. they tests how much he or she can push.. one should be strong and stop it in the very beginning
I'm adding this video into the Playlist I've created "How to convince your parents to remain unmarried " I'm really grateful for amish's legal input in my Playlist , it consists of legal , biological , sociological and evolutionary reasons to avoid marriage and thrive or have a peaceful life as a single man .
Share it
Share your playlist link please... It'll be helpful for others as well
@@clashergaming07 wait for one or two weeks I'll create it on this channel and make it public for all.
Yes please make it public and share it
If you can't resist your parents, how are you planning to stand up to your abusive spouse? 😅
EXTREMELY EXTREMELY PRAGMATIC VIDEO,VIEWS ON THE SUBJECT,I ONCE AGAIN REITERATE THAT THIS ADVOCATE WILL BE A SHINING STAR IN LEGAL PROFESSION ❤
I’m married to a narcissist and scared of even thinking about divorce because of how he has terrorised me. I know your channel is primarily for men to educate them on how to stay safe during false accusations but it is only through your videos I have understood laws favour women. I have been tolerating mental torture only because my husband has threatened to take away my children if I try to divorce him. So even though this video wasn’t for women, it helped me gain some perspective and strength
I am doing marriage counselling. Can we talk. No charges. Just want to understand narcissist abuse in a marriage.
why are people like this :(
sorry to hear about that
@dreamsdesires I have narcissist wife. I faced her npd tricks for few years. I was lucky to got myself detached from her. Fighting legal battle is better than company of narcissist.
Same situation... please can you make videos on how to divorce a narristic
Narcissistic my impotant husband
Don't marry is all I learnt❤❤stay single stay happy❤❤
When laws favour one gender, there is a limit to which one can fight legally.
Absolutely correct dost
So true. Mostly men side are fighting to defend for baseless accusations
Koi fayda nahi hai .. genuine women still do nt get justice.
@@aesha-chitkara who said they don't get justice. All of them are getting justice just by filing piles of cases against men. We men are so f***d up.
@@aesha-chitkara99.99% cases done by women are false ....
Amazing Amish... Going thru exactly the same. Took me 18yrs to muster the courage to stand up against this abuse... Now I am subject to stalking/ videos put out on youtube.. night time drunken drama outside the gate..abuses hurled at when my daughter leaves to school in the morning...I got residence order passed. My entire life savings in jt account siphoned off/ the house and property bought with my money are registered in his name. He refused mediation when my lawyer suggested we put down all the facts/ transactions / assets etc.. holding up... Feel proud of myself...my self worth was beaten down so much..and yet he claims he has done nothing...
Each of your videos is very informative and I have benefited a lot from it, and learned where I have been wrong for my own case.
Toxic relationship and narcissistic behaviour ruins the mental and emotional peace and then the narcissistic person plays a victim card
Wel said sir ... That was an wonderful solution for this kind of situation. ... Your videos soo soo educative and much informative ... Keep going
Brothers, if you give an inch, they'll demand a foot. DO NOT YIELD. Keep yourself mentally strong. Prepare to tolerate physical and mental abuse, and keep collecting evidence. Make a strong case. Hire Amish ! Defend yourself and your ancestral wealth. DO NOT YIELD !
wow i just saw your no of subs .... i remember you were at few thousands.. when i subbed you and met you at CP back in the days. You have come a long way... god bless u. keep making the progress my friend.
This video is very dark but true. Thanks for telling this openly. Society needs to hear this.
Yes thats 100 percent true you are amazing bro ... keep up the great work bro .....i like your commitment towards educating young minds
Very importantly said by you. 'Fight back'.. to all those who are facing such abuse. Aise lujur-pujur hone se kuch nahi hoga, ho sake to 3-4 gaaliyan bhi seekh lo. It won't help much but Fight back harder. Pehle hi parakh lo abuser ko rishte mai aane se pehle.
Sir thank you for ur kind suggestions
This is absolute ground reality
Very informative and beautifully explained.
Not everyone has the apetite, the stamina and stomach to handle work pressure, a bad home/ marital situation, the anxiety of children getting badly emotionally affected and the final police & court cases. Appetite does not translate to courage in Hindi. It should be some word in Hindi meaning capacity and strength.
U are angel of angels 😊😊😊😊😊😊 god bless u brother
Amish ji, thank you, you are doing a great job by being empethatic and looking at the human side of these conflicts
Thailand is a beautiful country ❤😂
It sounds a bit emotional 😢. First time I saw some lawyer this sincere and sentimental for others.
Thanks alot for guidance as you explained v well.
Sir, after watching your videos ...I strongly feel not to marry ever
Always remember we are in war with every situation, so make your attitude like do or die. Never allow any other person to become heavy on you because it will give them upper hand.I have seen people are so afraid to fight in any form. If you read books then you will know the world is not fare yesterday not today and neither tomorrow. So develop your attitude like that only, we have to die either way so if someone disturb your peace then do not afraid to declare war with them. I think your attitude and mindset will play the major role in such case. Go to jail for few days or months because of someone's false cases but make sure they know once you get out then the other party will be in trouble and once they know such thing then see they will be afraid to file any false case against you.
Sir you are my inspiration, thank you soo.. much for sharing your knowledge with us✨❣️
Respected Sir 🙏 Ji Pranaam
Very nice example you set to define the divorce.
With regards
Pradip Kumar Mandal
Absolutely spot on. Each and every word is true.
Very true sir agree to every single word that you said.Very knowledgeable and helpful information.
Thank u sir for motivation. Definitely Ur advice will help.
Right bro. Aaj apne law se hatke baat ki hai.
Meri khud ki wife ne jhoota case kiya hai gurgaon court mein, hai delhi ki rehne wali but waha false rent agreement dikha ke case kiya for legal extortion.
This is the biggest point 🙏
Bro explained 99% of modern women!
The pain is unreal.
I am not sure if this is possible, but I wish that I had either buried a safe in my yard or opened a secret bank safety deposit box and put, say, $100,000 in it before I got married.
This pain is unreal. But what makes it 10 times worse is, I've lost my kids, house, business, reputation, I have a record, I cannot find a job, I am too old now, etc.
I loved my beautiful bride. But now, it's over forever.
🙏 Good Morning Sir., I do feel to have a partner sometimes but when I see all the chaos outside and my past trauma, I know I cannot cope with such drama., 😅 Stay strong people
Thanks Amish..very informative..worth watching ..mrg education/councilling shd be mandatory prior mrg..
personal experience of divorcing a covert narcissist, case continuing since 6 yrs, wife taking advantage of matrimonial home law, staying with us and abusing me and parents almost every other day, father passed away last year most probably worried what would happen to me and my mother, mother is a heart patient (stroke) and sometimes the verbal abuse is such she does not eat, this mental disorder is such that the more u engage with such people the more they become virulent and the reason why her parents are not willing to resolve as they are fully aware of her behaviour
stay strong bro, we will win @whoareyou3834
Sad bro, I had been there and luckily could get rid of her in 3 years..
Now, I do not want to marry and be happy with myself..
Please join SIFF if u need more support.
God may bless you and may make relief 🎉.
Be strong bro lots of love for you❤
This is true.my sister in law try that.we were timid but my elder sister in law was great help.she was strong and help us through the situation.
Thank u so much Amish for figuring out that what was wrong in me. I was allowing him the slow abuse and not at all putting up a fight. And result I had a exparte divorce two and half year back and not even aware if that l. He was commifraud
Usska jivan kharb kar do nari ho app
Perfect said .
I have given up... I can't fight anymore I'm exhausted... everyday I question, should I fight or should I surrender? I was in a toxic relationship and he took everything from me ... this video is basically telling me to stand my grounds .... can you please make more videos on this... no one has explain the or talks about this thank you
Bhai Mera yeh kehna hai, u have to be very clear from the beginning when u detect anything wrong even slightly while being in relationship with any person living that how u r going to defend and protect urself and try to confront and crush the issue then and there itself rather it getting elevated....
I don't know why people are so pessimistic abt getting married and not be in a position to confront it...😮😮
If you do that they feel there wings been holder and they create third party....
Whatever Amish sir talks is so real and always explain in such a simple language, any common Indian can understand.
This man is gem, never mis-guide or mislead any legal sections or any real life situations. I always appreciate him for it
Marriage means you are ready to sacrifice your mental, physical, financial and societal health. It's guaranteed.
Yeah
Happy Advocate day!❤
Recommended video with a smiling face..... only a lawyer can do this while he is going to talk about divorce 😢
Sir thx 🙏 for nice suggestion God bless u
"pichvada... chhudwa sakun..." ^_^
😂😂😂😂
Sir, if I am gonna marry someone, before I marry them I will definitely have a proper consultation with you.
I believe in marriage as an institution, but I also believe that no institution should be able to exploit me.
I really appreciate the work that you do.
Thank you.
Hire 2-3 different detectives,do a thorough background checkup,check for any diseases or psychological issues.Relarives and family members,neighbours may not know much but collegemates can have a rough idea.Install camera in ur front jacket like how the US police does,homes etc. whenever u r conversing with them at least for the 1st few months post marriage and then take a call..At least then u will be relieved that u have taken all the precautions.
Good to know that atleast someone is there for us.. i just want to ask can you help me also I’m going through a toxic marriage with my husband… and the rootcause is my sister in law.
Very good analysis
Bhai that realization at "Pichwada chudva saku" is gold 😂
I would say that is a way bigger fight because to win that you have to become someone that you are not and people will judge you at that time probably say arey this is who you truly are.
This is when you will loose people relative and friends sometimes family who you think are with you.
This is probably one of the best and honest video on how matrimonial disputes get dealt with.
Koi ye nahi smajhta ki abuser ko power ka chaska lagta hai and it is way bigger than money or property, once they got to know ki they can get you to do whatever they want and whenever they want a person is dead inside kabhi manipulate krke kabhi dara ke kabhi blackmail krke etc.
You will have to become what you hate and fight and be all nasty and very few people will understand what you are doing and why you are doing that and will judge you then at that time.
implement cctv cameras for such scenarios
I agree, but you cannot put CCTV cameras in every part of your home. For example, bedroom. And bedroom is the place where you and your wife will be present entirely by yourself.
@@macmacmac740 or some hidden camera, when required can perform recording to catch the culprit.
@@soodanshullegality establish ho payegi ki nahi ye ek sawal hai iss ko use karne me
@@TheCycloneTrooper sahi sawal hai, yeh apne Advocate sahab bol saktein hain..
Sir you are right in your every words
08:18 this was actually the right thing you said, you didn't need to correct it later
Very Well Described Sir
Here looks like Bhabhi is Bipolar Disorder & not a Narcissist... Narcissist are far more dangerous especially Covert ones..
Why does this sound like a perennial wisdom , much applicable between communities as well. We need to reject Gandhian mindset for good.
Sahi bola aapne mere saath bhi yehi hua hai...
Per aaj mai mentally itna strong ho chuka hun ki jail bhi 10 din kaat k aa gaya per biwi ko nahi rakhna toh bus nahi rakhna. Judge k saamne saaf mana kar daala. Biwi ka toh yehi naatak ki mujhe inke saath rehna hai per itni aggressive, abusive woman ko poori lifetime saath mai rakhne se acha ki kuch saalon ka mental torture seh lo.
Bahut badhiya Kiya aapne.Mein bhi apne bhatije ko yehi salah deti hoon strong bab ke raho aur abusive wife ko tata good bye kaho
Keep it up
Bad egoistic man you will regret later
It's been almost 2 years. Didn't regret my decision even for 1 minute. And I know I won't regret in future too. 😂😂@anaikashaikh8616 @@Aaspaaspolice
Best way to deal with marriage disputes or any relationship disputes is to UNDERSTAND HOW DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS WORK! Lack of knowledge in relationships means there is bound to be fights. Simple.
Another simple example: If you don't know mathematics, you're bound to fail the exam. That's it.
Sir( 8:19_20yeah I understand picha chura sakoon❤
One thing I realized is that the man has one choice to remain mentally and physically strong when dealing with this. Mentally the man should not allow the woman to overpower him at any cost at least not inside the house.. Thats the key.
The only reason I am not divorcing my husband yet , been in this toxic relationship since 12years
We really need to make law against men getting all thie persecution
Sir mere husband to 4 saal se har bat me divorce ki dhamki dete the har bat me ladte the mene ab unko khud mutual divorce ke liye tiyr ho gi hu aur sir mujhme itne neeche star tak jaane ki himmat nj thi kyunki me apni aage ki life achhi chahti kyunki me smjh chuki hu mere husband ab mere sath khud ni rehna chahte aur ek cheej wo mujhe kuch ni de rhe kehte hi tu padhi likhi hi khud kr hamesha aurat galat nahi hoti sir
Very informative video and funny too 8:17
If you are truly human being, you can't help marrying. After some age, you will longfor your own family and children
Why are you referring to her as Bhabhi. She is not your sister in law.
Basically it is being said, whoever goes to him stands on losing ground
You are too handsom men ❤
This is an interesting video.
Slightly different from the usual legalese you give.
Yes , what you say is absolutely, correct. In some cases victims also justify the cruel treatment they're getting .
That's called Stockholm syndrome.
However, there wouldn't be such a mess in matrimony cases , had laws been a bit more fair🎉.
This explains the rise in live-ins…
You are awesome, who is gonna give these details for free. In fact, we dont get these insights even from a paid lawyer.
Thank you for motivating me not to get married Everrrr🙏🏽
So true!!
Pls make more videos on such counseling
You are right sir
there was a time when Sita was the inspiration for every Hindu woman but now they are becoming toxic and breaking homes all over the country
Kindly can you make a video of how to settle a divorce with a narristic
This is what happens when hv a culture that forces people to marry and settle down before they r mature enough.
India shld hv a law for civil unions and more people shld just hv live-in relationship until they r sure of it.
Sab youngster ko mila kar MP bano aur govt mai baith kar law hi badal do tab shadi karo😂😂..apna present aur dusro ka future bana do😂😂
Judicial system is very much perfect for this slow moving country where we at top in the worst and last at the good.
Men of Culture We met again. Welcome to the Gym
Darr hi lagta hai shadi word se govt kuch ni kerta just to get one kid we have to go through this
Pl make prenuptial agreements into law that will only prevent dv in all marriages it should be uniform civil code thats what lawyers must do
No marriage no trouble
Can you please make a video on settlement process after filing 498 and dowry... What is the safe and what procesures we need to follow
Bhai aapne sahi kaha bilkul ke agar koi ek maare turant uski taang tod do ya to problem solve ho jaayegi ya mudda khatam ho jaayega