Because man feels he cant prioritize his emotions.. thats how society has conditioned men, to not be emotional. I think men need to stand up for themselves for the sake of their own mental peace and happiness, and not give in to outdated societal expectations and family pressure to get married. Women do a better job of being vocal these days because of the last few decades of feminism movement and women empowerment initiatives in society globally. But since men never needed to fight for their rights etc., they never spent time thinking about their own self worth and what they deserve in a relationship. And all the issues where men are being taken advantage of, are happening because of that. It's high time men brush aside unnecessary societal pressure and focus more on self care. It's important to acknowledge the impact of a man's mental health in an unhappy marriage. But mostly, men esp in Indian society, put a brave face and carry on living that hell instead of taking a step for their own good.
@@aninditabhattacharya1715 not the smartest one r u, thru out history only few men enjoyed power,the average man suffered as much as they r now,men got right to vote bcz they got drafted nd pushed into the meat grinder of war
@@aninditabhattacharya1715 don't need lecture about our happiness from women... If a man wants to end marriage he will lose half of his wealth and kids.. That is the only reason men stood away from divorce
@@nalpamaramnambeeshan2982 my words are wasted on people like you. Who asked that man to get into a wrong marriage with a wrong woman to begin with? Did he have the spine to stand up for himself and discard social pressure to marry? Dont blame the woman if the man cant be a real man and take the right decision in his own life. In India, men are just physically grown up kids who will do what their parents say, without using their own brain cells. And then blame the woman for a bad marriage. Do these words now make any sense to you? If not, time to grow up and be mature. Good luck.
@@user-hq8wm8giyujcg and you'll get a nice woman. #notallwomen are like this. Make sure you do a thorough background check especially of the father given the deadly role they can play in a son-in-law's life.
This isn’t a 20 min video, it’s a life lesson as well as a legal lesson into finding one’s way while dealing with unscrupulous people. I can only imagine the relief your cousin and his fam are feeling now! Congratulations to your team and thank you to all of you. This case is one of the very few ‘success’ stories and can be a benchmark in legally tackling one’s way out of the systemic loopholes. Take a bow!
My family is going through the same. My brothers wife wanted to live separately in a new house after 3 months of marriage. We were ready for that, just needed time, but she demanded a new house immediately. Her parents came and took her away and later filed domestic voilence case within 4 days. Our life has turned into hell after that, wasting money on lawyers who don't want to help us resolve the issue, they just want to fill their pockets. Idk how long will this continue. I couldn't believe how anti-men/husband the laws are made. After studying judgements and cases I realized it's a hopeless battle. She demands 70lakhs as settlement. My brother earns 35k, we are from middle class. I hate the indian judiciary, especially the domestic court judges who always see women as victims and husbands as an ATM.
Court cases can go on for many years. Also the system is slow and corrupt. Laws favour women who in most cases, misuse these laws to extort money as alimony and maintenance.
@@LazyBrownWizardfuture is so painful staying unmarried male is best decision...that point is so long, lots of things is included in this . spiritually and emotionally I see it as high danger
Similar to my story. Girl's side have a strategy for divorce even before marriage. They know what allegations to make and when. They consult doctors, lawyers, police everyone before marriage and then only scout for a boy that fits their divorce strategy. Their motive could be money, or poor physical/mental health of daughter where they want to perform a marriage for society but ultimately want to keep the daughter with them only to take care of her. It could also be due to their daughter's love affair with a guy that they cannot agree to because of social standing. Once divorced, they'll be free to marry her off to anyone she likes without too much social pressure. Personally, I feel the fight is more psychological than legal. Legal proceedings are there, but we can win only when we convince the wife that it is not worth fighting. Once they realise their effort-time-alimony ratio is not good, they ll quickly lose interest and move on to next victim.
@@sanjaykumar6599 No precaution is enough. Wife should be interested in family. She should have that commitment like my husband, my kids, my family. Same for husband also.
15 lakh for 2 days is tooo high... Guy's family may be rich to afford that , but clearly the girl's father succeeded in this extortion in the end ... 🤦🤦
@@aviralratnakar hmm clearly proves that girl's family was cheap ..a man with principles will never bargain for justice ..frm 1 cr to 15 lakhs ...bhindi bazar or wht for girl!! 🤦😀😀
As a successful retired medical professional I was able to pay off my house and retire early after my divorce. I was devastated when she filed however after a few short years I doubled my income and was able to fully fund my children's college education. The problem was with her lack of financial discipline and her resentment towards me because of mine. Many women view me as the ideal eligible bachelor but unbeknownst to many of them I will never, ever marry again or even consider a long term serious relationship. I have an abundance of peace, quiet and financial freedom more so now than I have ever had before. Women to me usually are more of a relationship liability vs an asset. I'm extremely satisfied being single..
am a 19 yr old guy who watches sir's videos on marital disputes and the crazy stories he has shared uptil now have totally created a fear in me to not get married at all. People say one should get married and settle down after a certain period but these stories are just horrifying.
Don’t listen to ‘people’ People- society will tell u to get marad Because it benifits Wman. U have to give alllimoney ,1/3 of your salary Also u may get stuck in a lovve less marage
You're too young to even think of marriage. Be open, be responsible, be good but don't be stupid. People around will be good too... Remember a story can be told in many ways. With the right attitude you will find the right partner. But don't settle down until you are sure... Take care.
Thanks for being the PEACE SOURCE to men who face legal terrorism in the form of false Domestic Violence Cases. No words can suffice my gratitude to you. May u rise and shine with each passing day ❤
You are one of the best- your understanding of matrimonial dispute script and your signature legal approach ! Simply great! My gratitude on behalf of all the suffering husbands! Finally, one is compelled to admit that it’s pre loaded against the husbands!
Very well explained. We often see a twist in the making which can take the groom and his family by surprise. Indeed a eye opener as to what extent a person can go through to make life miserable to an innocent person.
This was a fantastic video , I love when I am able to experience the gist of the entire case in under 20 minutes. You are a really good orator/story teller. I was engaged throughout . Thanks for this video,wish I could pay for such content.
@@camelkarma nope , a man has not been cheated He got emootional & phhhysical iintiiimacy from gf.( no false promise of marage & no cohabitation) But as being a gf , shhhe can’t claim allimoney If divorce happens i.e. break up , it will be amicable So basically one wman did not get the ‘alimony plan’
I am 20 years old. After watching hundreds of videos related this particular topic, it scares me till death, my interest in women and trust in building a family & marriage is down under the ground to 0%. All these cases are from women and men who are currently 35 to 50 years old ( They are millennials ) Then imagine the level of shit I would have to deal with Gen Z women exposed to every kind of shit on internet and these modern toxic feminism ! I can take it anymore! Even in my college and around my so-called friends, women take me and many of my kind who are helpful towards them as granted & are just monsters who only care about validation & attention towards them. The only things I care is about my parents who sacrificed everything for my well being & I am not ready to get into this mess of marriage, relationship, BF - GF and all the shit which are currently there & allow a women to ruin everything I am working hard upon & get a fake rape & all kinds of fake cases on my parents and myself. TBH I am really done with just listening & watching these kind of cases happen, where Men are exploited by women in the name of fake cases & the judiciary system itself allows it !!! I am so really done ! 👋🏻
It's like this system of exploitation has been well thought off and well designed, where the woman gets a fat cut and the other bodies like police and courts get commissions. Like it's a prudent well thought out formule. Go into a relationship with a guy > Stay for a month or so > File for rape under false pretex to marry > Tell the guy, if he marries you, you will take off the case > Have him marry you and move into his home > Day 2 after marriage file (a) False Dowry (b) False Cruelty (c) False Domestic Violence , the big three as it's so grandiosely named. > Send the guy and his entire family on a frenzy and maybe bribe the cops to threaten arrest > File for continuation of domestic violence and get all the male members out of the house (from a 80 year old man to a 5 year old kid) the female members would soon follow them out anyways > Get your lover in your husband's house and see how the courts does your bidding > At the end you either enjoy permanent alimony with your lover or get a fat pay check of almost generational wealth as mutual dispute settlement.
It's like this system of exploitation has been well thought off and well designed, where the woman gets a fat cut and the other bodies like police and courts get commissions. Like it's a prudent well thought out formule. Go into a relationship with a guy > Stay for a month or so > File for rape under false pretex to marry > Tell the guy, if he marries you, you will take off the case > Have him marry you and move into his home > Day 2 after marriage file (a) False Dowry (b) False Cruelty (c) False Domestic Violence , the big three as it's so grandiosely named. > Send the guy and his entire family on a frenzy and maybe bribe the cops to threaten arrest > File for continuation of domestic violence and get all the male members out of the house (from a 80 year old man to a 5 year old kid) the female members would soon follow them out anyways > Get your lover in your husband's house and see how the courts does your bidding > At the end you either enjoy permanent alimony with your lover or get a fat pay check of almost generational wealth as mutual dispute settlement.
@@jees9179.. 1.. but, the relatives of the man like his parents can avoid domestic violence case and dowry case by not trying to arrange the marriage, not attending the marriage function and not allowing the daughter in law to stay in their house for even one day.. There is a high court verdict that if the son does love marriage on his own wish without his parent's permission and his parents did not approve of that marriage and his parents did not attend the marriage function and the parents did not allow the son's wife to enter their house, then the son's wife cannot ask for residence order in the parent's house under domestic violence act.. 2.. The female members of the husband's family can reenter that house anytime they like and file domestic violence case against the boyfriend of the wife and get him evicted from that house..
Problem with women it's judicial system.... judiciary and government doing nothing about despite they are aware of fact ....recently my friend got divorce he too settled with 15lakhs ...
@@guru_hindu The very premise of giving alimony to women when there is a divorce is so fundamentally flawed. Where does all the equality, feminism, strong, independent nonsense go away when it comes to a divorce????
Advice from me who are going to get marry. 1. "Before marrying a woman, judge her mother first because there is a 90% chance her daughter will be the same." 2. "If the mother is behaving in a way that seems overly smart or in another extreme manner, take some time before saying yes." Because now a days it's very easy for woman to file false cases against husbands tho they hate them but paise bhi unse chahiye as a bheekh every month. My own so called wife is from rajouri garden delhi taking interim maintenance and her parents are also enjoying. Wish I could expose her address here
Actually this applies only to women who are close to their parents or love their mother. My mother is horrible and I would never ever walk in her footsteps. One should also observe how the mother behaves with father and if the daughter is OK with any bad behavior towards her father.
Brother , I avoided the same. My wife's mother is the crook and wife is following the same. My case is exactly the same mentioned above. Just lived for 4 days and went away on pretext of an event. The matter is in caw cell and soon the cases are going to start.
@@abovetheworld3303 yes even when she has taken all the gold with her. No dowry involved and all the gold were given by us. I am a strong guy. There would be retaliation of next level. Just tell me bro how long does it take for matter to go from caw cell to the time I get summons from court.
Having sailed through the same boat of short lived marriage, I know how emotionally gruelling this whole process could be! Especially when the laws in the country are gender biased! Luckily I too had a similar relative helping me with my divorce case and where by strategy we kept things dragging for few years under pretext of Covid lockdowns! And denying them any relief sought not even maintenance, which ultimately led to their frustration! I wish i had seen your other videos earlier could have used civil suits too! 😅 They claimed 50 crores in damages and alimony but we eventually settled to a % ( bit less than what was mentioned in the video despite of my high networth) and I feel this being very practical if you look at it from business deal perspective and not emotionally! My advice to others husbands fighting such false cases is to have a calm state of mind and do not panic or be emotional, it’s sounds hard but do able! Don’t loose hope and there are other legal remedies available like civil and criminal cases that you can too opt for! You have to fight your own battle and Your advocate/lawyer can help you better only if you are well prepared to fight! 😇
Amish sir, your vidoes acts like lighthouse for thousands of husbands who are seeking relief in their toxic relationship(marriage). Your videos are full of simple n straight forward facts minus ideal rosy theory based gyaan. This is very rare thats the reason i like Amish sir's videos.
There is a lot to learn from you. You are single handedly motivating men to stay single and become independent and resourceful in house hold chores by themselves instead of getting into the "marital trap" 😂
@@WR-NC-ASPL but what about companionship?( emotional & phyysical intimacy That gonna cost money too But believe me , way more peace than marage & no payment after the end of the relationship. I.e. aliiiiimony
Reduce the suffering by avoiding marriage, attachment and existence are already suffering so try to enjoy your remaining life by cultivating any intellectual hobby, remember if you have a kid then he will suffer more in this unfair and cruel world so have some pity and don't bring that unborned chid into this world just to suffer.
Bearing with your droning ? Sir, you are perhaps the only source of truth in a world of corrupt cops, beastly opponents and unfortunately, lawyers who exploit the situation to their benefit. Thank you for taking the effort to show the reality of the legal system to us common citizens.
@@jees9179 exactly, earlier men sympathized with the real victims of domestic violence and abuse and now even if someone is facing it for real, they doubt them and make horrible insinuations about women lying, only because of such women. When #notallwomen are like this. These women are taking advantage of feminism and the sad part is that men of their family are supporting such stuff against other men.
@@Dhruva1111 see, everyone wants easy money .but the problem is govt and judiciary is promoting injustice against man . Greed is natural phenomenon of human beings, some may not have that integrity to not use false cases for easy money (extortion)
@@Dhruva1111 Have you ever seen such women? Just asking. I have heard many times that genuine women don't get justice because of the horrible ones who use laws for their advantage. But I have never seen such cases where a genuine woman didn't get justice. I wonder if genuine women victims not getting justice is a myth.
@@amartyapal2959haha I was going to comment something similar. Women will always find a way to diminish the plight of men whenever they can and however they can.
I am so happy that I did not listen to any of the relatives and got my divorce through mutual agreement. I do not have any alimony or maintenance but I do have my self-respect and peace of mind. If you are unhappy, just walk out of it. Why women make such a fuss.
Well, the govt rather makes it very enticing by giving women all of these legal terrorism ways. And besides You are a person with self respect, honor and dignity. That's a very rare thing.
My bet is the girl's family was from lower Economic strata and the purpose of Marriage in a well to do family was just get that guy under control by separating him from his parents and keep threatening and extorting for as long as possible - clean Exit by filing cases later in life after they are done with him (they had to resort to this earlier here because the man refused to be their puppet) - have seen MANY cases like that. All this drama in familes "gareeb ghar ki ladki le aao ghar jod ke rakhegi" is bullshit 😂😂
Really, thanka for this. Another thing is girls parents want an " old age nurse" for them😂 so they do this by destroying their daughter's marriage 🤦🏻♂️
Now in my 40s … time goes by really fast. All the drama of love, marriage, divorce is simply not worth it. Life of a married man is worse than that of a beast of burden. Only an utterly desperate and foolish man will marry in this day and age.
I really appreciate you sharing this. One should thank Almighty if they have gotten good life partner and in-laws else life becomes a living hell, emotionally and financially.
Better to have prenuptial agreement with site or plot purchase with both investment so that both have to stay in same house. If she leaves him it's her problem & can't blame husband, if he leaves that house then he has right over the house. Bank account should be same so that both know the spending. Court can't tell for divorce as both has property rights, equal rights in property. As residence Right give power to her same way himself as he invested in the house.
Sir.... Pin to pin.... Experience and also w.. r. t to law and practical situation.... U explained.... It is worth... For every husband having litigation....
The state of Indian men is sad. My wife keeps alleging that I cheat and have a "romantic relationship" with my 9 year younger sister, who is my own sister
What😂? Usko bolo uske ghar me.ye sab hota hai kya?? 😂 aur agar koi bhai, sister ke sath frank ya close hai, that means they grew together and have a great bond.
So much learning in this video. I watched the whole thing and learned a lot. Thank you sooooo much. A game of wits. But Life is quite shitty unless you have good lawyers or cops in your corner.
I have a simple trick for those who's parents are forcing marriage. Whenever the topic of marriage comes, start praising the wife, start saying i will do whatever the wife will tell me. I will be the ideal husband,and show your parents' that you are a progressive person and belongs to the kind of a "joru ka gulam".😂 Occasionally, state how some girls are misusing law, troubling the husband and his family. And show your willingness to stay single if you didn't find the type of girl you want. Express your thoughts on how risky it is to get into relationships these day's and highlight the importance of patience in finding the right person. With time and patience, you might get an acceptance from your parents to stay single as long as you want. Once you crossed 40 i belive No one will talk about marriage... (or i might be naive🤷)
Its such a sorry state of affairs. These days, I am sad to see good men struggling because of laws favouring women.. I am so sorry for such men. They don't deserve this
I am facing despute and I know I'll get lots of trouble. But your video help me how to face them. And at the end with the all the problems only patience and presence of mind without losing temper will solve everything
i went through all this things exactly like u said in video.. . i fought 7 years long court battle , my advocate use to take long long court date and later wifes and her father got frustrated and approached us for mutual divorce and within 6 month after that everything settled, i paid 2 lakhs for 15 days marriage and get myself out from the mud. my advocate also told me the same thing ,, just pay and get out ... u wasted 7 years of ur life in court battle ..
You dont want to get into the mud with a pig because the pig enjoys it >>> very well said and trust me the happiness i get after paying and divorce is unimageable... whoever goes through this knows this.
Mr Aggarwal, I really appreciate your awareness programmes. I respect your knowledge, expertise and experience. Kindly abstain from wearing the white band on screen.
I’m thankful that life has been kind to me and spared me from this whole marriage shit. I’m happy open Gay man; and having straight male friends, I’ve seen some of them turn their lives into hell after getting married. Four of my friends have gone through really ugly divorces, and it’s always the husband who ends up on the butcher block, even when their wives were the cause of the divorces.
Need help / suggestion. After settlement of a road accident case in police station, my friend payed the compensation amount to the victim, after closing the complaint. They put up a case again in the same police station stating they are not recieving financial support from the accused. What case can my friend apply on this situation where the victim is trying to extort extra money after settlement in police station.
There is no point for a man to get married! Now a days, they just don’t get anything specially in the urban areas of course with exceptions. There should be legal mechanisms where like business there should be contracts with all terms and conditions sets with validity period and both parties should have options to exit the contract. Some may need female partners for biological needs only otherwise hardly people care for emotions now a days.
Before marriage, A legal document ( prinup) should be signed ,notarized that- if divorce happens then- Husband property/ bank balance will be his and wife s property/ bank balance will belong to her alone. BUT if the husband wants to give money to- wife ,it's his choice.
This is sad. Our country laws are very bias inclined towards women, money and political parties. Such cases leave such a bad taste in everyone's mouth leading to mistrust. Very similar to how true domestic violence cases lead a major mistrust/fear in women entering a new house. When we say not guilty till proven. I wish it was actually true. And people stop gossiping and actually listen to real cases like these and others which are genuinely true. Why isn't pre marital counseling not a reality in our country? And why people arent completely open before marrying. Who enjoys suffering such cases?
People lie to get what they want. Also previous generation of men in my observation are very naive when it comes to female nature. Mixture of parenting and simpy media never gave them a chance to think that women would do such stuff. Atleast men of the newer generation are more aware
"You dont want to get into the mud with a pig because the pig enjoys it." Well said.
Who's the pig?
File PIL for men's rights and men's depression 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Advocate get United
U r so naive. Obviously wife is the pig here@@rexdgaming2957
@@rexdgaming2957that depends on who is dragging you into the mud pit! 😅😂
Well said bro
Being bachelor (I’m 36) is the best thing happened with me so far. The peace and happiness of everyday I have, is priceless!!! ❤
Thanks... Not marrying ever... Dude is doing gods work
2 people marry
If the man is not happy --- No one cares
If the women is not happy --- hell breaks loose on the husband
Because man feels he cant prioritize his emotions.. thats how society has conditioned men, to not be emotional. I think men need to stand up for themselves for the sake of their own mental peace and happiness, and not give in to outdated societal expectations and family pressure to get married.
Women do a better job of being vocal these days because of the last few decades of feminism movement and women empowerment initiatives in society globally.
But since men never needed to fight for their rights etc., they never spent time thinking about their own self worth and what they deserve in a relationship. And all the issues where men are being taken advantage of, are happening because of that.
It's high time men brush aside unnecessary societal pressure and focus more on self care. It's important to acknowledge the impact of a man's mental health in an unhappy marriage. But mostly, men esp in Indian society, put a brave face and carry on living that hell instead of taking a step for their own good.
File PIL for men's rights and men's depression 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Advocate get United
@@aninditabhattacharya1715 not the smartest one r u, thru out history only few men enjoyed power,the average man suffered as much as they r now,men got right to vote bcz they got drafted nd pushed into the meat grinder of war
@@aninditabhattacharya1715 don't need lecture about our happiness from women... If a man wants to end marriage he will lose half of his wealth and kids.. That is the only reason men stood away from divorce
@@nalpamaramnambeeshan2982 my words are wasted on people like you. Who asked that man to get into a wrong marriage with a wrong woman to begin with?
Did he have the spine to stand up for himself and discard social pressure to marry?
Dont blame the woman if the man cant be a real man and take the right decision in his own life.
In India, men are just physically grown up kids who will do what their parents say, without using their own brain cells. And then blame the woman for a bad marriage.
Do these words now make any sense to you? If not, time to grow up and be mature. Good luck.
Being married for 5 years with two kids. I think bachelor life was much better in terms of health and happiness.
dont let yo wife see this comment 💀
@@DEMOSPUBG 🤣
@@DEMOSPUBG
nahi main nahi reh sakta ladki ke bina, romance, aur pyaar ke bina, main acchi ladki se shadi karunga
@@user-hq8wm8giyujcg and you'll get a nice woman. #notallwomen are like this. Make sure you do a thorough background check especially of the father given the deadly role they can play in a son-in-law's life.
This isn’t a 20 min video, it’s a life lesson as well as a legal lesson into finding one’s way while dealing with unscrupulous people. I can only imagine the relief your cousin and his fam are feeling now! Congratulations to your team and thank you to all of you. This case is one of the very few ‘success’ stories and can be a benchmark in legally tackling one’s way out of the systemic loopholes. Take a bow!
My family is going through the same.
My brothers wife wanted to live separately in a new house after 3 months of marriage.
We were ready for that, just needed time, but she demanded a new house immediately.
Her parents came and took her away and later filed domestic voilence case within 4 days.
Our life has turned into hell after that, wasting money on lawyers who don't want to help us resolve the issue, they just want to fill their pockets.
Idk how long will this continue. I couldn't believe how anti-men/husband the laws are made.
After studying judgements and cases I realized it's a hopeless battle.
She demands 70lakhs as settlement. My brother earns 35k, we are from middle class.
I hate the indian judiciary, especially the domestic court judges who always see women as victims and husbands as an ATM.
Court cases can go on for many years. Also the system is slow and corrupt. Laws favour women who in most cases, misuse these laws to extort money as alimony and maintenance.
Be ready to be homeless by paying alimony to her
Looks like Extortion gang
Ask your brother to quietly leave the country
Oame how is it now
I am 36 year old never married male. I feel so happy after watching your videos for deciding to remain single😊
women isnt good for a man
@@LazyBrownWizardfuture is so painful staying unmarried male is best decision...that point is so long, lots of things is included in this . spiritually and emotionally I see it as high danger
Similar to my story. Girl's side have a strategy for divorce even before marriage. They know what allegations to make and when. They consult doctors, lawyers, police everyone before marriage and then only scout for a boy that fits their divorce strategy.
Their motive could be money, or poor physical/mental health of daughter where they want to perform a marriage for society but ultimately want to keep the daughter with them only to take care of her. It could also be due to their daughter's love affair with a guy that they cannot agree to because of social standing. Once divorced, they'll be free to marry her off to anyone she likes without too much social pressure.
Personally, I feel the fight is more psychological than legal. Legal proceedings are there, but we can win only when we convince the wife that it is not worth fighting. Once they realise their effort-time-alimony ratio is not good, they ll quickly lose interest and move on to next victim.
What precaution should one. Take before marriage
@@sanjaykumar6599 No precaution is enough. Wife should be interested in family. She should have that commitment like my husband, my kids, my family. Same for husband also.
Where r u from
Been through similar experience myself. Marriage is for seriously desperate and foolish guys.
@@PhilipTikka are u married
15 lakh for 2 days is tooo high... Guy's family may be rich to afford that , but clearly the girl's father succeeded in this extortion in the end ... 🤦🤦
Not for them they were happy paying it the amout of trauma they went is much more than 15 lakhs
@@aviralratnakar hmm clearly proves that girl's family was cheap ..a man with principles will never bargain for justice ..frm 1 cr to 15 lakhs ...bhindi bazar or wht for girl!! 🤦😀😀
@@07dhiraj 😂😂
He married her to this family to make a fat pay check. He was well aware of the laws and the legal terrorism this country allows and preaches even.
That's 90% of all girls for you
Can you keep on uploading such stories? It was super enlightening, got good wisdom and laughs out of it.
As a successful retired medical professional I was able to pay off my house and retire early after my divorce. I was devastated when she filed however after a few short years I doubled my income and was able to fully fund my children's college education. The problem was with her lack of financial discipline and her resentment towards me because of mine. Many women view me as the ideal eligible bachelor but unbeknownst to many of them I will never, ever marry again or even consider a long term serious relationship. I have an abundance of peace, quiet and financial freedom more so now than I have ever had before. Women to me usually are more of a relationship liability vs an asset. I'm extremely satisfied being single..
Time to download bumble and bang woman brother
More power to you man
@@Iloveeeeeeeeee u will get r4pe case on u haven't seen the re entry cases?
am a 19 yr old guy who watches sir's videos on marital disputes and the crazy stories he has shared uptil now have totally created a fear in me to not get married at all. People say one should get married and settle down after a certain period but these stories are just horrifying.
Don’t listen to ‘people’
People- society will tell u to get marad
Because it benifits Wman.
U have to give alllimoney ,1/3 of your salary
Also u may get stuck in a lovve less marage
@@SsS-zb9mz Also, people want others to suffer as well. That is why they tell them to get married 😂
You're too young to even think of marriage. Be open, be responsible, be good but don't be stupid. People around will be good too... Remember a story can be told in many ways. With the right attitude you will find the right partner. But don't settle down until you are sure... Take care.
Thanks for being the PEACE SOURCE to men who face legal terrorism in the form of false Domestic Violence Cases. No words can suffice my gratitude to you. May u rise and shine with each passing day ❤
You are one of the best- your understanding of matrimonial dispute script and your signature legal approach ! Simply great! My gratitude on behalf of all the suffering husbands! Finally, one is compelled to admit that it’s pre loaded against the husbands!
Very well explained. We often see a twist in the making which can take the groom and his family by surprise. Indeed a eye opener as to what extent a person can go through to make life miserable to an innocent person.
This was a fantastic video , I love when I am able to experience the gist of the entire case in under 20 minutes. You are a really good orator/story teller. I was engaged throughout . Thanks for this video,wish I could pay for such content.
Bachelor: A man that has cheated a woman out of Alimony.
A man that wasn't fooled by society in becoming a workhorse for others' pleasure.
*has been cheated by a woman
@@camelkarma nope , a man has not been cheated
He got emootional & phhhysical iintiiimacy from gf.( no false promise of marage & no cohabitation)
But as being a gf , shhhe can’t claim allimoney
If divorce happens i.e. break up , it will be amicable
So basically one wman did not get the ‘alimony plan’
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I am 20 years old. After watching hundreds of videos related this particular topic, it scares me till death, my interest in women and trust in building a family & marriage is down under the ground to 0%. All these cases are from women and men who are currently 35 to 50 years old
( They are millennials ) Then imagine the level of shit I would have to deal with Gen Z women exposed to every kind of shit on internet and these modern toxic feminism ! I can take it anymore!
Even in my college and around my so-called friends, women take me and many of my kind who are helpful towards them as granted & are just monsters who only care about validation & attention towards them.
The only things I care is about my parents who sacrificed everything for my well being & I am not ready to get into this mess of marriage, relationship, BF - GF and all the shit which are currently there & allow a women to ruin everything I am working hard upon & get a fake rape & all kinds of fake cases on my parents and myself.
TBH I am really done with just listening & watching these kind of cases happen, where Men are exploited by women in the name of fake cases & the judiciary system itself allows it !!!
I am so really done ! 👋🏻
It's like this system of exploitation has been well thought off and well designed, where the woman gets a fat cut and the other bodies like police and courts get commissions.
Like it's a prudent well thought out formule.
Go into a relationship with a guy > Stay for a month or so > File for rape under false pretex to marry > Tell the guy, if he marries you, you will take off the case > Have him marry you and move into his home > Day 2 after marriage file (a) False Dowry (b) False Cruelty (c) False Domestic Violence , the big three as it's so grandiosely named. > Send the guy and his entire family on a frenzy and maybe bribe the cops to threaten arrest > File for continuation of domestic violence and get all the male members out of the house (from a 80 year old man to a 5 year old kid) the female members would soon follow them out anyways > Get your lover in your husband's house and see how the courts does your bidding > At the end you either enjoy permanent alimony with your lover or get a fat pay check of almost generational wealth as mutual dispute settlement.
It's like this system of exploitation has been well thought off and well designed, where the woman gets a fat cut and the other bodies like police and courts get commissions.
Like it's a prudent well thought out formule.
Go into a relationship with a guy > Stay for a month or so > File for rape under false pretex to marry > Tell the guy, if he marries you, you will take off the case > Have him marry you and move into his home > Day 2 after marriage file (a) False Dowry (b) False Cruelty (c) False Domestic Violence , the big three as it's so grandiosely named. > Send the guy and his entire family on a frenzy and maybe bribe the cops to threaten arrest > File for continuation of domestic violence and get all the male members out of the house (from a 80 year old man to a 5 year old kid) the female members would soon follow them out anyways > Get your lover in your husband's house and see how the courts does your bidding > At the end you either enjoy permanent alimony with your lover or get a fat pay check of almost generational wealth as mutual dispute settlement.
@@jees9179.. 1.. but, the relatives of the man like his parents can avoid domestic violence case and dowry case by not trying to arrange the marriage, not attending the marriage function and not allowing the daughter in law to stay in their house for even one day.. There is a high court verdict that if the son does love marriage on his own wish without his parent's permission and his parents did not approve of that marriage and his parents did not attend the marriage function and the parents did not allow the son's wife to enter their house, then the son's wife cannot ask for residence order in the parent's house under domestic violence act..
2.. The female members of the husband's family can reenter that house anytime they like and file domestic violence case against the boyfriend of the wife and get him evicted from that house..
Problem with women it's judicial system.... judiciary and government doing nothing about despite they are aware of fact ....recently my friend got divorce he too settled with 15lakhs ...
@@guru_hindu The very premise of giving alimony to women when there is a divorce is so fundamentally flawed.
Where does all the equality, feminism, strong, independent nonsense go away when it comes to a divorce????
Advice from me who are going to get marry.
1. "Before marrying a woman, judge her mother first because there is a 90% chance her daughter will be the same."
2. "If the mother is behaving in a way that seems overly smart or in another extreme manner, take some time before saying yes."
Because now a days it's very easy for woman to file false cases against husbands tho they hate them but paise bhi unse chahiye as a bheekh every month.
My own so called wife is from rajouri garden delhi taking interim maintenance and her parents are also enjoying. Wish I could expose her address here
Actually this applies only to women who are close to their parents or love their mother. My mother is horrible and I would never ever walk in her footsteps.
One should also observe how the mother behaves with father and if the daughter is OK with any bad behavior towards her father.
Brother , I avoided the same. My wife's mother is the crook and wife is following the same. My case is exactly the same mentioned above. Just lived for 4 days and went away on pretext of an event. The matter is in caw cell and soon the cases are going to start.
@crazydudes5654 bro she will file 498a and 406 advice by her lawyer at caw cell.
@@abovetheworld3303 yes even when she has taken all the gold with her. No dowry involved and all the gold were given by us. I am a strong guy. There would be retaliation of next level. Just tell me bro how long does it take for matter to go from caw cell to the time I get summons from court.
100%
Thanks for enlightening us with your insights and good work!
Marriage may be made in heaven,a modern day Divorce will definitely show you the HELL.
Constitution is compromised.
File PIL for men's rights and men's depression 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Advocate get United
@@Shubh-hi6uv can you say to kidnapper that they should consider us.
@@Shubh-hi6uvthis government is shit. It will take votes on hindus but can't honor the rule of Hinduism. Keep sending PIL but nothing will work
😂 kya sahi bole hai aap mard ka dard koi nahi samajhte
Having sailed through the same boat of short lived marriage, I know how emotionally gruelling this whole process could be! Especially when the laws in the country are gender biased!
Luckily I too had a similar relative helping me with my divorce case and where by strategy we kept things dragging for few years under pretext of Covid lockdowns! And denying them any relief sought not even maintenance, which ultimately led to their frustration! I wish i had seen your other videos earlier could have used civil suits too! 😅
They claimed 50 crores in damages and alimony but we eventually settled to a % ( bit less than what was mentioned in the video despite of my high networth) and I feel this being very practical if you look at it from business deal perspective and not emotionally!
My advice to others husbands fighting such false cases is to have a calm state of mind and do not panic or be emotional, it’s sounds hard but do able!
Don’t loose hope and there are other legal remedies available like civil and criminal cases that you can too opt for!
You have to fight your own battle and Your advocate/lawyer can help you better only if you are well prepared to fight! 😇
Hiring a Hitman is cheaper and quicker
@@Iloveeeeeeeeee contacts, strictly for educational purposes😉
20 minute video ?. Every word spoken was worth the time. !!! thank you
Amish sir, your vidoes acts like lighthouse for thousands of husbands who are seeking relief in their toxic relationship(marriage). Your videos are full of simple n straight forward facts minus ideal rosy theory based gyaan. This is very rare thats the reason i like Amish sir's videos.
Thanks for putting up this video. Amazingly explained. Helped me a lot. God bless you sir.
That probably is the costliest wh*** ever! 15 lakhs for 2 days 😮
The scarier thing is she might just be on a new Mission to find another scapegoat as we speak. Stay safe brother.
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How his momm a Wh.. ?shhhe did not ask mooney after thhe services like this lady.
@@jees9179yeah new toyboy
Nah most women are unwanted after getting railed once.
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There is a lot to learn from you. You are single handedly motivating men to stay single and become independent and resourceful in house hold chores by themselves instead of getting into the "marital trap" 😂
I am unmarried man. I have resident housemaid in my house for salary Rs. 20,000 per month..
@@WR-NC-ASPL but what about companionship?( emotional & phyysical intimacy
That gonna cost money too
But believe me , way more peace than marage & no payment after the end of the relationship.
I.e. aliiiiimony
@@Roy-kv6zr go to spa talk to ur friends play sports join gym
@@WR-NC-ASPLmaid ko bhi hata aur kam khud se kar pata chale usne bhi fake cases laga diye
@@-Blue-_ .. I select only married women as housemaids. So, they never ask me to marry her ..
Proud of you, relatives, friends are the ones who leave the person alone.Thank you, You are a good person, God bless.
Wish all lawyers were like him. He seems so good.
Till he is on your side.
I am being fleeced by the lawyer who is supposed to be on my side.
He seems good only till you hear his fee structure
Reduce the suffering by avoiding marriage, attachment and existence are already suffering so try to enjoy your remaining life by cultivating any intellectual hobby, remember if you have a kid then he will suffer more in this unfair and cruel world so have some pity and don't bring that unborned chid into this world just to suffer.
Exactly Brahman realization is everything.
Thanks for standing up for men..
Bearing with your droning ? Sir, you are perhaps the only source of truth in a world of corrupt cops, beastly opponents and unfortunately, lawyers who exploit the situation to their benefit.
Thank you for taking the effort to show the reality of the legal system to us common citizens.
So sad to see the wrong kind of women using these laws to their advantage and the actual victims are unable to get help.
That's the worst part...
When the shepherd called out for the wolf when it was for real, no one came, no one believed.
@@jees9179 exactly, earlier men sympathized with the real victims of domestic violence and abuse and now even if someone is facing it for real, they doubt them and make horrible insinuations about women lying, only because of such women.
When #notallwomen are like this. These women are taking advantage of feminism and the sad part is that men of their family are supporting such stuff against other men.
@@Dhruva1111 see, everyone wants easy money .but the problem is govt and judiciary is promoting injustice against man . Greed is natural phenomenon of human beings, some may not have that integrity to not use false cases for easy money (extortion)
@@Dhruva1111 Have you ever seen such women? Just asking. I have heard many times that genuine women don't get justice because of the horrible ones who use laws for their advantage. But I have never seen such cases where a genuine woman didn't get justice. I wonder if genuine women victims not getting justice is a myth.
@@amartyapal2959haha I was going to comment something similar. Women will always find a way to diminish the plight of men whenever they can and however they can.
I am so happy that I did not listen to any of the relatives and got my divorce through mutual agreement. I do not have any alimony or maintenance but I do have my self-respect and peace of mind. If you are unhappy, just walk out of it. Why women make such a fuss.
Because maam self respect is less common than common sense in all of human civilization.
Well, the govt rather makes it very enticing by giving women all of these legal terrorism ways.
And besides You are a person with self respect, honor and dignity. That's a very rare thing.
U r real independent wmen . Who actually sees them self as capable as man
& don’t want maiiintennce
Hatss off, mam.
Not the girl but usually the father. If Father is not there then the Mama
Yes, you should not . Even I did mutual and got out of this mud.
Dear a very good video for the people either suffering or going to suffer
My bet is the girl's family was from lower Economic strata and the purpose of Marriage in a well to do family was just get that guy under control by separating him from his parents and keep threatening and extorting for as long as possible - clean Exit by filing cases later in life after they are done with him (they had to resort to this earlier here because the man refused to be their puppet) - have seen MANY cases like that. All this drama in familes "gareeb ghar ki ladki le aao ghar jod ke rakhegi" is bullshit 😂😂
Really, thanka for this. Another thing is girls parents want an " old age nurse" for them😂 so they do this by destroying their daughter's marriage 🤦🏻♂️
Yes.
Now in my 40s … time goes by really fast. All the drama of love, marriage, divorce is simply not worth it. Life of a married man is worse than that of a beast of burden. Only an utterly desperate and foolish man will marry in this day and age.
Salute to you , we need such people like u
Sirji you are doing a tremendous job in helping your clients and educating rest of us. Keep it up. I pray for your sucess🙏
Well done my dear Sir. You are really fabulous. God bless you for your hard work for humanity and my best wishes to you
Excellent videos , very informative. The thing is people have ideal image of law but people like you show how it actually works . 🙏
I really appreciate you sharing this. One should thank Almighty if they have gotten good life partner and in-laws else life becomes a living hell, emotionally and financially.
You’re a hero 🙏👏💪
This man is on mission 😂
Very decent and honest experience shared in matrimonial case life cycle
This video should be shown to all those who can not wait to get married...can not imagine what this guy and his family goes through...
I can't imagine the trauma man and his family were going through but at the end i am relieved, he is happy 😁
Thanks Amish for sharing the knowledge and wisdom.
Great video and indeed very very important informations have been shared. Thanks sir.
Extremely insightful video, sir.
Civil suit for damages (civil defamation)
Injunction damages
Sec 200 crimial procedure
Better to have prenuptial agreement with site or plot purchase with both investment so that both have to stay in same house. If she leaves him it's her problem & can't blame husband, if he leaves that house then he has right over the house. Bank account should be same so that both know the spending. Court can't tell for divorce as both has property rights, equal rights in property. As residence Right give power to her same way himself as he invested in the house.
Sir.... Pin to pin.... Experience and also w.. r. t to law and practical situation.... U explained.... It is worth... For every husband having litigation....
AMISH sir outstanding work under such traumatic situation 👏👏👏🔥
The state of Indian men is sad. My wife keeps alleging that I cheat and have a "romantic relationship" with my 9 year younger sister, who is my own sister
What😂? Usko bolo uske ghar me.ye sab hota hai kya?? 😂 aur agar koi bhai, sister ke sath frank ya close hai, that means they grew together and have a great bond.
You are a Haryanavi so good at English😲😲Pal you changed my views about Haryana though not about Indian law 🤣🤣
So much learning in this video. I watched the whole thing and learned a lot. Thank you sooooo much. A game of wits. But Life is quite shitty unless you have good lawyers or cops in your corner.
You r awsome. God bless u
I have a simple trick for those who's parents are forcing marriage. Whenever the topic of marriage comes, start praising the wife, start saying i will do whatever the wife will tell me. I will be the ideal husband,and show your parents' that you are a progressive person and belongs to the kind of a "joru ka gulam".😂
Occasionally, state how some girls are misusing law, troubling the husband and his family. And show your willingness to stay single if you didn't find the type of girl you want. Express your thoughts on how risky it is to get into relationships these day's and highlight the importance of patience in finding the right person.
With time and patience, you might get an acceptance from your parents to stay single as long as you want. Once you crossed 40 i belive No one will talk about marriage... (or i might be naive🤷)
Thank you for presenting a very real picture.
Thank you for spreading awareness
Moral of the video always have a friend or relative who is a lawyer to fight your case…otherwise adjournments adjournments
Moral of the video is to never marry!
@ aree bhai ab BNS mein live in relation bhi rape pe convert ho sakta hai….civil case is better than criminal
Married life is like this only..
Its such a sorry state of affairs. These days, I am sad to see good men struggling because of laws favouring women.. I am so sorry for such men. They don't deserve this
I would rather be single than have some woman who only loves me when I'm doing good.
Thank You for this informative video.
Excellent job helping somebody in a country with such archaic laws
I am facing despute and I know I'll get lots of trouble. But your video help me how to face them. And at the end with the all the problems only patience and presence of mind without losing temper will solve everything
i went through all this things exactly like u said in video.. . i fought 7 years long court battle , my advocate use to take long long court date and later wifes and her father got frustrated and approached us for mutual divorce and within 6 month after that everything settled, i paid 2 lakhs for 15 days marriage and get myself out from the mud. my advocate also told me the same thing ,, just pay and get out ... u wasted 7 years of ur life in court battle ..
U guys want to marry beautiful women have u seen yourself in mirror marry acc to u
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You're assuming his wife was beautiful
Not even lawyers are safe after marriage.
nice comment dude😂
We are very grateful to get some beautiful legal lessons of life by amish sir 🙏
We can't and shouldn't roll with the pig in the mud 😂...so true Sir.
Some things are inevitable
Dear Sir, thanks a lot for your experience and guidance to us. May God bless you
Please display the family photo so that no one else get cheated again by that group.
Sir 🎉
This is one of the best videos ever on husband wife case
Congratulations sir. I will all the best in your profession
You dont want to get into the mud with a pig because the pig enjoys it >>> very well said and trust me the happiness i get after paying and divorce is unimageable... whoever goes through this knows this.
I am also a 498 victim, still fighting my case in Bengaluru, planning to my LLB, LLM and PG in psychology.
Very nice explanation 👍
Mr Aggarwal, I really appreciate your awareness programmes. I respect your knowledge, expertise and experience. Kindly abstain from wearing the white band on screen.
Thank you 🙏
Husband's need this type of good Advocate
Great Video on lessons that we hope we never need.
I’m thankful that life has been kind to me and spared me from this whole marriage shit. I’m happy open Gay man; and having straight male friends, I’ve seen some of them turn their lives into hell after getting married. Four of my friends have gone through really ugly divorces, and it’s always the husband who ends up on the butcher block, even when their wives were the cause of the divorces.
Need help / suggestion.
After settlement of a road accident case in police station, my friend payed the compensation amount to the victim, after closing the complaint. They put up a case again in the same police station stating they are not recieving financial support from the accused.
What case can my friend apply on this situation where the victim is trying to extort extra money after settlement in police station.
Sorry you had to go thru this, Amish. Thanks for sharing your lessons learned.
Sir, thank you for sharing this case.
Thank you for sharing
There is no point for a man to get married! Now a days, they just don’t get anything specially in the urban areas of course with exceptions. There should be legal mechanisms where like business there should be contracts with all terms and conditions sets with validity period and both parties should have options to exit the contract. Some may need female partners for biological needs only otherwise hardly people care for emotions now a days.
I am suffering same conditions diferenece ia only that its been 3.5 years suffering and now i want separation. Please save me 🙏
Before marriage, A legal document ( prinup) should be signed ,notarized that- if divorce happens then- Husband property/ bank balance will be his and wife s property/ bank balance will belong to her alone. BUT if the husband wants to give money to- wife ,it's his choice.
Not valid
Not legalized in india…
When I see you I get hope! I will save this video
Salute😊.
Just please mention a country where it is safe to get married😅
This is sad. Our country laws are very bias inclined towards women, money and political parties. Such cases leave such a bad taste in everyone's mouth leading to mistrust.
Very similar to how true domestic violence cases lead a major mistrust/fear in women entering a new house.
When we say not guilty till proven. I wish it was actually true. And people stop gossiping and actually listen to real cases like these and others which are genuinely true.
Why isn't pre marital counseling not a reality in our country?
And why people arent completely open before marrying. Who enjoys suffering such cases?
People lie to get what they want. Also previous generation of men in my observation are very naive when it comes to female nature. Mixture of parenting and simpy media never gave them a chance to think that women would do such stuff. Atleast men of the newer generation are more aware
u have been doing great job🙏
Close to 40 and Still single!!
Thank God! When I hear such cases I feel not to marry and bother myself making a worst decision of marriage.
Im 19 yo college student, and all these incidents make me think a lot , i usually put myself into this same situation , it's traumatic
The pig remake was brilliant
Thanks a lot 🙏