I had to take a fast from It because you see all the bloggers and beauty gurus showing off loui bags and cars and money and all the other things I feel like it's getting too show offy versus just providing great content!! We should be sharing our gifts and not gloating so people can worship you!! Anyway just my opinion lol I love your channel and everything you stand for!! Excited to watch you grow and share your light!!
What you said about comparing yourself to others really hit home. I didn't really notice it until I started my own UA-cam channel, but especially with the numbers there's this tendency to see someone else's number of subscribers or views or followers and get jealous. That's one of the things I'm working on in 2014 -- putting on the blinders and not caring about the numbers.
I totally felt the "down" thing after the holidays. After attending all the UA-cam parties and meet-ups this past year - my world felt so superficial I had to take a step back and reevaluate myself. Take your time girl, do you, and keep making your art ;) Love you! xo
omg I'm absolutely with you. I have a really small number of subscribers but all I'm doing is fliming, editing, posting, answering. But I noticed (one night haha) "you can do whatever you want with your channel". So I decided (for example) to travel this year and I will take the camera with me and will show some amazing places in this world and the emotion that comes with it.
"That's not how I want to live my life"-- such a bold and courageous thing to say...very admirable...as from the movie Mean Girls, "you go Glenn Coco!!"...and Good luck in pursuing your goals this 2014!!
Loved this video !! It's normal to feel lost. But there are so many people who live in a cycle and your lucky you at least know what you don't want to do. Keep doing you love
Once again , I feel you. I really do. I am a jewelry designer, I love what I do, but sometimes geting your brand out there and keeping it out there takes a lot of time on all these social networks and you get so lost because all you want to do is to create, share your art and BE . I felt kinda lost at the end of 2013. But I am back on track, I decided that (as far as possible) I am only going to do what makes me happy. and its working :-), Much Luv to you, greetings from Paris. Ameyo
I am, in 2014, re-focusing my focus on myself, my child, my career..... learning to slow down and be patient about improving my mental and physical flaws (fears, caring what others think, doubt, perfection etc.) I do not want this year to be like every other year which has been stuck in a cyclical motion. I will LIVE this year, finally.
This internet world is no joke. I'm nowhere near where you are as far as youtube sucess but when your at an age when your trying to figure yourself out and you have a youtube channel, instagram, twitter,facebook its SOOO hard to keep those voices out of your head. Self doubt is a huge issue of mine. Right now i'm trying so hard to work on myself mentally, physically and spiritually but it seems like success is really dependent on how popular you are. Thank you for always making me feel like I'm not alone. You inspire me so much
There is that selfish part of me that lives vicariously through your videos and your shamelessness that doesn't want you to change the way you share yourself with us on UA-cam and social media... But, I totally understand that you have to LIVE for YOU!!!! Do You Boo!!! Good Luck with everything!!!!! :)
Your awesome, I needed this. I started my channel a few months ago and getting caught up in numbers is real. Thanks for reminding me to do me.. I pray that your time in LA will elevate you to where you want to be. I know it will, shine bright.
Maya thank you for this. I think you have said it yourself over the body of your UA-cam videos, and lucky you. You have the ability to self reflect and modulate for what suits you. Social media gives meaning to so many different people who use it. Cultivating your creativity is so important. If you're only a social media "talking-head", then social media is no different than dare i say, "tv-head" and can lead you down the same road to the land of inertia 9:00-9:03. Don't get me wrong, social media can inspire creativity but it is clear that you are restless and it's good that you are restless. Going on a social media diet is not only healthy but necessary to keep us creatives connected to our senses. Social media is just a platform for creative expression. If you haven't made any deposits in the creative bank lately, not sure that there will be much to take out and share with the rest of us who want to see more of your Shamelessness. Personally, I struggle with self-content because I haven't figured out my own message to the world, but I also haven't developed substantive content that will help me avoid being part of what I see as the beginning social media malaise. I admire all that you do. About me...I'm am an observer and admirer of those who are unafraid to hussle. Keep following your instincts, they have not steered your wrong yet.
Hey Maya! I've been following you from the beginning when you shaved your hair. It's so refreshing to hear someone else talk about social media the way I've been feeling about it for the past year or so. I got caught up in it while publishing 4 blogs and watching my numbers. I also tried UA-cam but that just wasn't for me! I'm lucky if I got 100 views! LOL....However, blogging started to consume me and it took the fun and enjoyment out of what I loved doing....writing! Needless to say, I still blog but I blog when I want to not because I have to! I'm free to be me!!! I can truly relate and I'm so glad that you're honest with yourself and your audience! I know this is an older video and know you are still working it on UA-cam but it helps to take a break from it every once in awhile. It can be draining and exhausting because you're giving out so much to the world that you have to take time out to replenish your mind, body and soul. All the best to you! Love your videos or whatever you decide to do in the future!
I know this is an old video, but this is fantastic. I couldn't agree with you more. Comparison is the thief of joy, but it's so easy to get caught up in it! I also question myself and my thoughts get muddy, but I always try to remember why I started. If we take out the numbers and the money, it should really be about the fun and excitement of being a content creator. Thanks for the superb video!
My life is changing right before my eyes... Your videos are speaking to me in a time when I feel so lost in motherhood and being a wife. I'm forgetting who Jackie (not your cute doggie, me!! Lol) is... I'm ready to explore my purpose..I'm expressing my gratitude to you for just being brave enough to be and DO YOU! it's time to do me~_~ God Bless you :-*
Oh my god, I feel like you took the words out of my mouth mya! I feel like I'm constantly looking at other channels trying to figure out how I can get more views bla bla. It's just like I lost my sense of self in this who
Thank you for your honesty, as not many UA-camrs really admit to feeling disenchanted by the whole social media world - because please believe it isn't the way to true happiness. True happiness comes from knowing who you are and being still enough to let Christ be first in your life. Bless x
When you mentioned the "numbers game" you reminded me of Andy Mineo a christian hip-hop artist who has a song called SUPERHUMAN and he says.... "what else could you expect? we obsessed over twitter numbers, checkin ours, then comparing them to others, like, the number of likes upon a status is somehow suppose to raise our status..." at least your aware the pros and cons of social media. More and more we are consumed and become technology robots, rather than living for ourselves we live for others.
I totally agree with you girl. I feel like life is about social media-Facebook ,Instagram,Twitter,etc. People comparing themselves to you based on how much likes they get on a Facebook post, or how much followers they have on Instagram. I feel like sometimes we need to take time out of our life and just chill and be thankful for life, because life is not social media.
I really appreciate your honesty! I am just now seeing this video and I think all UA-camrs and viewers alike can relate to this. I hope you found the peaceful balance this year :)
I know this video was over a year ago, however you hit the nail on the head. There really has to be a balance, give yourself time off sometimes so that you can re-energize.....Thank you as always for your honesty.....Peace
See this is why I enjoy your channel Maya. Everything you said I absolutely agree with. A couple of channels I use to follow I had to let go. They got caught up in the "UA-cam" world and started to dilute themselves. Almost to the point where they became so product placed that they disappeared. Change is good. Sometime pressing cntrl-alt-delete isn't as bad as we think. We all have a path. Good luck Maya. It's already yours. Side note sorry for rambling...lol!
Maya you are honestly one of the wisest people i know. I always learn something about myself and the world we live in when i watch your videos, you have such an amazing quality to your lifestyle and your views and perspectives on the world
I am binge-watching your videos and I find it so crazy that this video is STILL relevant!! I try sooo hard to fight the comparison trap! I'm super supportive and sometimes it sucks when that's not reciprocated BUT I have to remember why I create and my vision! I was just beating myself up about my subscriber count/view count and this video came up to watch next. Legit right on time! Thank You for being a real inspiration!
Loved this video. OMG. I think a lot of us are feeling lost and slightly unfulfilled. Your video brings to mind something a wise woman told me: "just because you can do it, it doesn't mean you should". I'm run a design business and sometimes I feel elated and excited that I am creating a brand, something that is truly mine - but other days it feel like I am digging myself into a hole - because it's just so much work and it never ends. Us creative, talented folk (everyone has a talent) have to chose our fields wisely. Or at least be open to change and iteration, which is what you seem to be doing so well. Good luck in LA! Go for it!
Girl, story of my life- I work an office job, steady hours(same every day/week). I know most people want that, but it doesn't give me time to do what I want. I'm young(22), newly wed and I just want to do something out of the ordinary for once. Be grateful for your freedom love, I honestly think you sould do you boo, and wherever it takes you- go with that. Your true subbies will follow you no matter what you do or where you go
Maya...Thank You for your honesty. You have inspired me to continue to groe and learn about myself. Being born in Samoa and raised in the states...sometimes it is hard to balance my culture and the western culture. Watching you grow into this beautiful creation of GOd helps me realize there are others like me and I am not alone. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me at 2 this morning and I am hurting, angry and scared. I know in my heart I can do this BUT scared to death. So thank you for being here and sharing yourself with us. Your courage to do what you do inspires me on the daily. GOD Bless You Boo!!!
Maya! I have to say that your uploads have LITERALLY changed MY WORLD! So many of my own thoughts-you touch on. I absolutely LOVE YOU! I have found strength in the things that you say and share. You're beautiful and I am so happy that you have broken through! GOD is using you in an amazing and beautiful way. WE NEED YOU! The world needs you. I love you. MUAH!
This video really gave me that relief I needed to hear... The end of 2013 got myself pumped on starting videos for UA-cam, doing a fashion page on Instagram, as well as many different other apps. I started playing with my camera got a tripod, beginned look for great lighting, looking up editing videos, researching best software to purchase I mean the works.. I haven't start my UA-cam but I started my fashion page on Instagram and was consumed on why I only have so many followers or was losing followers or why no is commenting on my pic... This video absolutely reminded me that I'm trying to do these things because fashion and beauty is what i love show casing. As long as keep doing What I love to so I can make a name for myself, everything will fall in to place.. Thank you
I also learned that Social Media and time management were not my friends last yr... I have been doing good with not being on social media all day.. If I get on more than once I catch myself and stop immediately ...I've set goals this year that will help me fulfill my vision...scrolling on social media won't get me where I need to go....I will forward to these segments
Agreed, there needs to be a balance. Good video. I don't go around telling peeps what I want to see. I enjoy what they bring to the table. But again, well said. Good luck with your acting and all the things you want to do.
I felt the same way last year November & get cut all all social media. I didn't get anything unless it was a family member. I definitely realized it is quite OK to simply enjoy life & be connected with physical instead of the technical via online websites, etc. I totally get what you were saying.
I'm working on adopting a village in rural china and also building a school in rural china in to village were adopting. I started watching u around the beginning of the summer and u have shown me to not care what people say and do me and I have. U given me the confidence that I needed to start my project with free the children. I just wanted to thank you and tell you that you've been helping people from the very beginning. ♡♡ thanks a ton.
This video speaks so truthfully to me! I have been feeling very similarly with Social Media and I've been distancing myself because I don't like how consuming and negative it can be. It's always important to rebalance and refocus on your very own purpose.
Thank you for filming and uploading this. I've been talking about creating a UA-cam channel for over a year now and this has put some things into perspective for me. your videos inspire me, and I appreciate your realness. The worst thing you can do in search of success is to sacrifice who you are as a person. glad you've decided to take a step back and stay true to yourself and not completely untether yourself from your fans. always do you boo!
Maya, you have to be one of my favorite youtubers. I love your honesty. Sometimes I get really discouraged with how little my videos get views but I have to take a step back and realize that everybody starts from somewhere. If it wasn't for you documenting and sharing your Shameless adventure I would've never had the courage to promote my video through social medias because I didn't want people I knew in real life to watch them and judge me. Thank you for that
Hey Maya, I just want to let you know that you are MUCH appreciated. There's a reason that you've shot above and beyond 99% of the other "UA-camrs" in such a short time. Besides fabulous talent, your engaging, grateful yet still humble personality shines thru. Keep doing what you Do Boo. Stay Strong and Fierce!
I just heard a great quote today. "Have the courage to live the life that's true to yourself, not the life others expect of you." In other words, "Do you boo!!!"
Love this video! I'm actually challenging myself to go a week without social media and television and all of a sudden I have so many (creative and fun) things to do! So much to write about, so much to read, so many things I'm getting done and not procrastinating. Surprisingly I'm loving my life without social media right now. I feel way more focused on my dreams and things I want out of life.
I've decided to join you in spending less time on social media, in just a few days I've found out that I'm not really missing out on anything if I only check it once a day. Thanks for inspiring me to do this!
I completely agree with you! I think for me a lot of it is stress of classes and still trying to manage my makeup channel (still haven't figured out how!). I'm in organic chem and the MCAT is looming and trying to get my channel off the ground is so stressful. But your channel is always such a good reminder to me to do me, and not worry about everything else too much! xoxo
Wow. I love this. I definitely understand how that can be getting caught up with social media and the internet then waking up one day, looking back and wondering, "whoa wait a minute why am I here and why does this not feel the same as it use to," it can really eat up your time and focus without you ever really realizing...but then again everything happens for a reason. There's always larger ladders to climb and explore that allow us to grow and become more of who we are, so never any competition. We can only grow more into ourselves and these moments are essential to our greater lessons and achievements. I've just found your channel today and have watched some of your videos and you speak so much truth, its refreshing. Excited to see more of you just doing you! Peace, girl.
I said all of tht to say this, the most powerful position (IMO) is to be on the position to walk away. We don't own you and I don't believe you "owe" us more videos. Go and LIVE and cine back and share. I became invested in this channel because you're super inspiring! If you leave tht doesn't mean I won't be inspired anymore I'll just move on; that's the goal move on to a higher self. All love
I don't know how you guys do it myself. I think social media can consume you which is why I don't have twitter or instagram or even a cell phone. I have to give you credit for being able to handle it all, its a lot if work. I'm sure you will find a happy medium and I'm glad that you are you. You inspire me and I love you for that. :)
You're on point about Social Media and Mass Consumerism Maya! I too had to take a step back from social media for those reasons. It is way too congested and you have to stay on top of it to stay relevant, and it's very easy to get lost in that.
I am totally picking up what you're putting down. As a former network systems administrator I remember the internet before FB, Twitter, etc, back when Yahoo Instant messenger and ICQ was it for social media. With the exception of YT, which can still consume hours, I have completed distanced myself from other forms of social media, if only for, as you have said, the time factor; I could be doing other things, like applying that avocado mask I saw on UA-cam! But on a serious note, I think you have what it takes to make it in the entertainment industry, Maya. Your videos are fun, your presence is magnetic and you have Charisma. You can't teach personality and you have that in spades. I will be interested to see in what direction your channel goes. I wish you the best.
So glad for you Maya! I felt the same way about social media, especially YT. Over-saturated, too much time interacting online and not enough in person, and I slowing stop doing what I love. Plus its not the same anymore and some never understood that people do have lives off the computer. Now, I just limit social media even more and if I do decide to share something online, it's because I choose to. Do you boo! Love ya ;)
I know what you mean about saturation .I went from never on instagram to everyday like 3 times. Respect. You gotta follow your passions and do you! God Bless You on your new aspirations this year!
I love you maya;) your a inspiration to all of us! Showing us how to be ourselves & get on our grind! I so agree with all the voices! I'm a youtuber also and Doing UA-cam videos can be so self harming because you trying to make everyone happy & you just focus on social media and forget you have a family & friends. Yes comparing yourself in social media takes a toll on you. But like you said you have to do you boo. I love you Miss Maya. I really understand this video! You just want to go back to doing you & focus on your craft. Yes I'm a NYC girl! I'm working on my career in the fashion & cosmetics world & growing my UA-cam channel to HELP others. I'm on a journey just like everyone else! Love you boo. This comment though #reallybro
Wow, I really needed this! Coming close to graduating, I have been constantly wondering what will be the next step for me... So many distractions in life (Social Media, Jobs, Expectations), they can be kind of frightening to me! At this point I am really trying to get back to what I want and need to be. Your channel is helping me on a day to day, so keep that up! You are a true inspiration and you've managed to reach people all over the world! DO YOU BOO! X
Omg maya! Such an inspiration. I did a social network cleanse(not including yt) for an entire year and I have found that I'm much less scatter brained !! Once you get away you won't miss it... I agree with the comparing yourself to others because that happens a lot. I'm interested in seeing an update in a few months about how far you've come using less social media. Stay positive and do you boo! Lol
You just being you is like so un express able you just changed something in me and that is my confidence within me and u just told me to be myself thank you so much
Wow Maya, get out of my head! A coworker and I were just having this conversation of needing to live our lives instead of the ones being setup for us/by us by default. We're both writers and artists and for too many years have been working for others and not spending the time we need on our passion projects but this year we made a pact that the madness would come to an end. So now we're supporting each other in keeping our creative momentum pumping and the energy spreading! Positivity begets positivity and it gets things done :) I hope you continue expanding on your journey, you've been a huge inspiration thus far, imagine what more you can do! Keep Growing ;)
Great Message. I admit, I got caught up with Social Media... by the time I check IG, Twitter, Pinterest, Facebook & UA-cam... 2 hours already passed (and that doesn't include emails).... You took a great initiative by realising this and sharing it with us. Keep reaching for your dreams!! Luv ya Maya!!
Been totally feeling the same. I spent the New Years moment alone on the couch, and just last week I had a huge life epiphany. It's time for change; we all deserve to see what's really inside us :)
This is the realest video ive seen in quite a while. As of Jan.1st UA-cam is the only social site I have left...everything else is deacticated. Good for you Mya for actually living life and not getting caught up in everything! Love you girl!
YES! This is exactly how I have been feeling I've compared my self to much these past months and have lost sight of what I really want and what step I need to take
i'm in the same boat as you maya. i'm trying to restrict being online as much as well. one of the things i'm trying to do is get a journal and read more, write more (as a writer, i've been holding back) and take time to organize and live life on my terms and not through a filter. girllll. DO YOU BOO
You're my inspiration Maya. I'm going through a transitional phase also (post-grad life -_- lol) and you are like this little guiding light there for me (and a lot of others I'm sure)….so much of what you're talking about resonated so much with me right now. I can't WAIT for the vlogs! You have to live life authentically.
Girl, preach... I am sitting here wide-eyed, mouth open, when I should be ... um... doing the stuff I get paid for. LOL! But I enjoy your AUTHENTICITY, which is why I take the time out to stop in from time to time. Your concerns are exactly why I've been procrastinating with starting my blog. But BALANCE is the key, as you said. Hugz to you, mama.
love. love. loveeeee.. my thoughts exactly. I participate in social media too (on a muchhhhhh smaller scale) and I often find it draining. Like it's really fun and makes me happy a lot of the time, but often I feel like it's a waste of my physical body, ability and time. I love how you can express yourself so clearly! Love yah Maya, and do you boo!!!
You know us… we will just follow you where ever! Ha… you started out different and then did all these turns and twist…yet we are still here! No pressure… if we miss you, we can watch all your older videos! Thanks for taking us with you this past year… much love
Though I have no suggestions to offer, I cannot imagine not appreciating whatever you do on social media, especially UA-cam. Thank you for being reflective, introspective, logical. Do you, Boo.
MAYA! You are such a brave woman. I totally understand that you spent all last year Vlogging; because you make exceptional good videos, because you are talented, stylish, artistic, funny, clever, humble and above all a perfectionist. This is why I've been following you since DAY 1 on frugalartist, ever since Andrea Lewis introduced you on her channel. Just sitting here watching you mention the numbers of YT-viewers, that you want to pursue your acting career, do an action web-series, makes me so GLAD! This is why you are an original, because you don't stand still, you keep renewing your life, challenging yourself & being creative. So much respect. I feel like I'm in the same kind of state that you are in right now; too much social media, need to focus and manage my time, so I can do the things I really want. I'm currently working on a short film, I write continuously on a TV series, and I need to complete my website, so I can get the jobs I want. All in the making.
I have never been into social media but since my niece came to live w/me, I have been watching UA-cam makeup video and on....and on... So I feel you being caught up for hours. But, I was immediately drawn to your channel. You are very SPECIAL and have a GIFT. My prayer for you is to be committed to your acting and aggressively seek photography. Do you boo!!! I am taking a HUGE leap myself in Feb to San Fran, CA from NC. Many Blessings to you Boo!!!.....
Things I'm working on: Developing better self-confidence Developing dance choreography and getting out of my shyness to ask dancers to be in my pieces. Figuring out what my career should be. I graduated with my BS in spring'13 and am currently doing a year long paid (thank God) fitness internship in Boston, but once this is over I have to find something else to move onto. I honestly have no idea what I want to do! I have interests, but nothing is sticking as far as me committing to it. Sigh. So that is what I am working on.
Truthfully spoken!!! Social media is definitely getting out of control and taking over people's lives. So glad to know I'm not alone in feeling like it's becoming too much. Especially from someone like you :) Great for getting to know things or searching for how-to's but people actually LIVE in social media and it is definitely a lot of "hype." God bless you in your journey!!! You've been amazing to watch whenever I need inspiration or a smile or laugh :) You're amazing :)
Thank you for this Maya. This has been my struggle on YT for a while, I'm a mom, artist, student, work full time etc. and had to remove myself from some social media forums because I found (like you said) people were more interested in my beauty side than my authentic side (blogging). It made me bit emotional and can be hard. By the way I saw your portfolio waaaay before you even cut your hair and you are a phenomenal photographer. do you boo
Once you figure out what you want (which you already have), organize everything you do so that every action you make is a step closer to where you wanna be. It's going to be more difficult trying to juggle more than one thing, but if you want it bad enough you'll figure out a way to get it. I am a writer and aspiring filmmaker and I was searching how to edit as I am new to editing, and luckily I found your video on how you edit your videos. Just an hour ago, I was on the phone complaining to a friend that I have written 3 short films in the last 2 months but still feel like I'm not getting anything done. I shortly snapped out of it, ordered a new charger for my digital camera and am now practicing editing with some videos from 2012. I once heard from a prominent writer that amateurs rely on inspiration, professionals rely on discipline. It's all love.
I love your openness and honesty...its refreshing. I just started picking up my UA-cam game because I am one who loves social media BUT I learned a LONG time ago to not allow it to control my life. I post when I want and I get on it occasionally although with that being said I am still active. I am a mother who homeschools, I am a wife, I am a holistic esthetician, I make videos, I cook, I clean, and all other things in between...BUT I believe in LIVING my LIFE FREE and stand by an 80/20 rule in everything I do...80% healthy holistic living and 20% other randomness. Any who THANK YOU for posting this and your videos already inspire me (I just subscribed today)...I'm done..much love
I have been watching your journey and you have grown so much mentally. I am starting my own UA-cam channel for my own personal journey that I have started this year about experiencing new things. I think it's a wonderful idea for you to create a series because you are inspiring allot of people to do good for there life. We need people like you to document the good that happens in life because there's so much negativity on the news and in the world being broadcasted that no one knows about the people doing good in the world.
I watched this video when you first posted it and it STILL speaks to me. So much so that it helped inspire my last post. Keep finding your why and LIVING!! talltalesandfancy
Hey Boo! Seems like social media is never going away. However, I'm working on my law degree, but I appreciate all you do on your channel! You spice up my breaks in between these books! God bless on your journey!
I love your honesty in this video! I feel the exact same way... Had to take a little break myself and I don't have nearly as many followers as you do. Thanks for sharing this.
Thank you so much for this video! Gosh I've been feeling the same way. Currently taking a social media detox. And compartmentalizing almost everything. Looking forward to more Shameless Sunday's. And it would be awesome to see more vloggy type of videos - I, personally, find them the most interesting plus the sit-downs. Pinning this video!
I appreciate your honesty and just the genuineness of all that you are, that you stand for! Yes, social media can be a bit much but I can only imagine it from your standpoint. The content you produce is well worth it and is something I always look forward to. But like all things that matter, we need to constantly nurture it... Whether it be you tube or your acting career, its your choice, your life, your happiness. That's what I'm going to try and do this year and every year. Nurture my relationships with family and friends, my health (which I really need to do), my home/work environment, and my spirituality. Thank you, Maya for always bringing joy to my day! Words to live by: Do you boo! Be shameless! ❤
Maya we love you and will support you 100% Go out there and conquer the world sis...having balance is essential to a happy life. I actually think getting back out there, exploring, living will create even better content for your videos. I'm excited about this new phase for you!
Word UP!! I've been feeling exactly the same & you know what you're so right. The world's gonna keep doing the world. You just need to focus on doing you and living your life rather than getting caught up with online stuff. Too many people are in the whole fight to be famous. It's just draining to watch and honestly it is just numbers & I hate that it's like that. Imma be doing the same as you, cutting down on social media time & getting back to the things I love doing. Thanks for this Maya ♥ Luhh you, Do you Boo :* .x
You are probably one of the truest youtubers out there. You go straight to the grain. I really appreciate that. You inspired me to maybe take a chance at you tubing, although I have been my own worst critic. As for people who are criticizing you regarding your hair or what have you, I see that as envy or misunderstanding. (Now I am ranting). But thank you for being you and for inspiring so many girls, women, people like us who need to learn to believe and be you boo! God bless ;)
Face at 9:01 is like priceless!! Do you boo!!! :) don't let them tell you that UA-cam is your entire life because in all honesty it's not. You are shameless maya and UA-cam is one of the many outlets for your extreme talent. Definitely not your only outlet:)
It doesn't have to be a web series, per se, but maybe a series called "Do you, boo!" where you're interviewing folks who are "doing them" (similar to the interview you did in LA of the tattoo artists). Find local NYers or travel out the city/state and get chatting with artists, writers, creators, stylists, etc.
This video is so on point. So man UA-camrs are doing the same thing. It gets boring after awhile, but can you really blame them they all wanna get paid. It should always be about who YOU are and not comparing yourself. Currently I am working on moving out and moving up. Doing things bigger this year. I am working on keeping me happy. Love you Maya!
DO YOU BOO! I don't know about everyone else, but you have inspired me so much and I can't imagine you ever having to put yourself in a box. You have touched many lives and we will be here for you no matter how often you upload vids girl! Do you and be shameless! :)
I havr been going through the "what am i doing" crisis for my youtube channel. I was just vlogging outside but i wanted to be more creative with my content. Make stuff that makes people happy but also me happy. So thats what i have set as my goal for 2014 on my channel! Goodluck getting back in to your "life" again :)
Maya I was so shocked to see a video today!!! I'm so excited for your new upload schedule especially shameless Sundays!!! You never fail to inspire us, do what you do best! You know we love & support you!!!
Maya. Girl. Sweetie bear. I would watch anything you uploaded. Your passion, your energy, your warmth and your humour, these are the reasons why I watch you. Do what you love, share what you love, and we'll be here with you. Nothing is more enjoyable than seeing you doing what makes you happy. I'm sorry I don't really have any ideas for you, but hey, I'll be here to support you no matter what ^^
You need to write a book. You are so self-aware and honest and funny. It is so refreshing.
I understand 100% where you are coming from. Social media is taking over this world. We need to live and enjoy this world.
i agree with both of you!! omg thought i was the only one lol
I had to take a fast from
It because you see all the bloggers and beauty gurus showing off loui bags and cars and money and all the other things I feel like it's getting too show offy versus just providing great content!! We should be sharing our gifts and not gloating so people can worship you!! Anyway just my opinion lol I love your channel and everything you stand for!! Excited to watch you grow and share your light!!
What you said about comparing yourself to others really hit home. I didn't really notice it until I started my own UA-cam channel, but especially with the numbers there's this tendency to see someone else's number of subscribers or views or followers and get jealous. That's one of the things I'm working on in 2014 -- putting on the blinders and not caring about the numbers.
I totally felt the "down" thing after the holidays. After attending all the UA-cam parties and meet-ups this past year - my world felt so superficial I had to take a step back and reevaluate myself. Take your time girl, do you, and keep making your art ;) Love you! xo
Your ability to be so open, genuine and...real, is so absolutely inspiring and uplifting, Thank you for sharing a little of yourself with us.
:) thanks boo!
isn't she awesome!! shes inspiring me to be more open on my channel!
omg I'm absolutely with you. I have a really small number of subscribers but all I'm doing is fliming, editing, posting, answering. But I noticed (one night haha) "you can do whatever you want with your channel". So I decided (for example) to travel this year and I will take the camera with me and will show some amazing places in this world and the emotion that comes with it.
You're like a breath of fresh air. I love your personality and how genuine and sweet but yet goofy you seem. Positive vibes to you!
she is so awesome! shes really inspiring me to be more open on my channel
"That's not how I want to live my life"-- such a bold and courageous thing to say...very admirable...as from the movie Mean Girls, "you go Glenn Coco!!"...and Good luck in pursuing your goals this 2014!!
Loved this video !! It's normal to feel lost. But there are so many people who live in a cycle and your lucky you at least know what you don't want to do. Keep doing you love
Two years later and The Slumber Party is here! Amazing how much power your words have. You are all kinds of GOALS, Maya! Love your light + positivity!
Once again , I feel you. I really do. I am a jewelry designer, I love what I do, but sometimes geting your brand out there and keeping it out there takes a lot of time on all these social networks and you get so lost because all you want to do is to create, share your art and BE . I felt kinda lost at the end of 2013. But I am back on track, I decided that (as far as possible) I am only going to do what makes me happy. and its working :-), Much Luv to you, greetings from Paris. Ameyo
Maya, you are great. Thanks for not letting the numbers change you. This is why we love you and subbed in the first place. You are so real. xo
Great video Maya, love your honesty. I can completely relate to your desire to disconnect more often and get in tune with my own voice.
its a must these days :)
I am, in 2014, re-focusing my focus on myself, my child, my career..... learning to slow down and be patient about improving my mental and physical flaws (fears, caring what others think, doubt, perfection etc.) I do not want this year to be like every other year which has been stuck in a cyclical motion. I will LIVE this year, finally.
This internet world is no joke. I'm nowhere near where you are as far as youtube sucess but when your at an age when your trying to figure yourself out and you have a youtube channel, instagram, twitter,facebook its SOOO hard to keep those voices out of your head. Self doubt is a huge issue of mine. Right now i'm trying so hard to work on myself mentally, physically and spiritually but it seems like success is really dependent on how popular you are. Thank you for always making me feel like I'm not alone. You inspire me so much
There is that selfish part of me that lives vicariously through your videos and your shamelessness that doesn't want you to change the way you share yourself with us on UA-cam and social media... But, I totally understand that you have to LIVE for YOU!!!! Do You Boo!!! Good Luck with everything!!!!! :)
Your awesome, I needed this. I started my channel a few months ago and getting caught up in numbers is real. Thanks for reminding me to do me.. I pray that your time in LA will elevate you to where you want to be.
I know it will, shine bright.
Maya thank you for this. I think you have said it yourself over the body of your UA-cam videos, and lucky you. You have the ability to self reflect and modulate for what suits you. Social media gives meaning to so many different people who use it. Cultivating your creativity is so important. If you're only a social media "talking-head", then social media is no different than dare i say, "tv-head" and can lead you down the same road to the land of inertia 9:00-9:03. Don't get me wrong, social media can inspire creativity but it is clear that you are restless and it's good that you are restless. Going on a social media diet is not only healthy but necessary to keep us creatives connected to our senses. Social media is just a platform for creative expression. If you haven't made any deposits in the creative bank lately, not sure that there will be much to take out and share with the rest of us who want to see more of your Shamelessness. Personally, I struggle with self-content because I haven't figured out my own message to the world, but I also haven't developed substantive content that will help me avoid being part of what I see as the beginning social media malaise. I admire all that you do.
About me...I'm am an observer and admirer of those who are unafraid to hussle. Keep following your instincts, they have not steered your wrong yet.
Hey Maya! I've been following you from the beginning when you shaved your hair. It's so refreshing to hear someone else talk about social media the way I've been feeling about it for the past year or so. I got caught up in it while publishing 4 blogs and watching my numbers. I also tried UA-cam but that just wasn't for me! I'm lucky if I got 100 views! LOL....However, blogging started to consume me and it took the fun and enjoyment out of what I loved doing....writing! Needless to say, I still blog but I blog when I want to not because I have to! I'm free to be me!!! I can truly relate and I'm so glad that you're honest with yourself and your audience! I know this is an older video and know you are still working it on UA-cam but it helps to take a break from it every once in awhile. It can be draining and exhausting because you're giving out so much to the world that you have to take time out to replenish your mind, body and soul. All the best to you! Love your videos or whatever you decide to do in the future!
I know this is an old video, but this is fantastic. I couldn't agree with you more. Comparison is the thief of joy, but it's so easy to get caught up in it! I also question myself and my thoughts get muddy, but I always try to remember why I started. If we take out the numbers and the money, it should really be about the fun and excitement of being a content creator. Thanks for the superb video!
My life is changing right before my eyes... Your videos are speaking to me in a time when I feel so lost in motherhood and being a wife. I'm forgetting who Jackie (not your cute doggie, me!! Lol) is... I'm ready to explore my purpose..I'm expressing my gratitude to you for just being brave enough to be and DO YOU! it's time to do me~_~ God Bless you :-*
It's crazy how you live for saying "do you boo" to motivate people.. But you never listen to your own words.. I so glad to hear that your going to be
Oh my god, I feel like you took the words out of my mouth mya! I feel like I'm constantly looking at other channels trying to figure out how I can get more views bla bla. It's just like I lost my sense of self in this who
Thank you for your honesty, as not many UA-camrs really admit to feeling disenchanted by the whole social media world - because please believe it isn't the way to true happiness. True happiness comes from knowing who you are and being still enough to let Christ be first in your life. Bless x
When you mentioned the "numbers game" you reminded me of Andy Mineo a christian hip-hop artist who has a song called SUPERHUMAN and he says....
"what else could you expect? we obsessed over twitter numbers,
checkin ours, then comparing them to others, like,
the number of likes upon a status is somehow suppose to raise our status..."
at least your aware the pros and cons of social media. More and more we are consumed and become technology robots, rather than living for ourselves we live for others.
I totally agree with you girl. I feel like life is about social media-Facebook ,Instagram,Twitter,etc. People comparing themselves to you based on how much likes they get on a Facebook post, or how much followers they have on Instagram. I feel like sometimes we need to take time out of our life and just chill and be thankful for life, because life is not social media.
I really appreciate your honesty! I am just now seeing this video and I think all UA-camrs and viewers alike can relate to this. I hope you found the peaceful balance this year :)
I know this video was over a year ago, however you hit the nail on the head. There really has to be a balance, give yourself time off sometimes so that you can re-energize.....Thank you as always for your honesty.....Peace
See this is why I enjoy your channel Maya. Everything you said I absolutely agree with. A couple of channels I use to follow I had to let go. They got caught up in the "UA-cam" world and started to dilute themselves. Almost to the point where they became so product placed that they disappeared. Change is good. Sometime pressing cntrl-alt-delete isn't as bad as we think.
We all have a path. Good luck Maya. It's already yours. Side note sorry for rambling...lol!
Maya you are honestly one of the wisest people i know. I always learn something about myself and the world we live in when i watch your videos, you have such an amazing quality to your lifestyle and your views and perspectives on the world
I am binge-watching your videos and I find it so crazy that this video is STILL relevant!! I try sooo hard to fight the comparison trap! I'm super supportive and sometimes it sucks when that's not reciprocated BUT I have to remember why I create and my vision! I was just beating myself up about my subscriber count/view count and this video came up to watch next. Legit right on time! Thank You for being a real inspiration!
Loved this video. OMG. I think a lot of us are feeling lost and slightly unfulfilled. Your video brings to mind something a wise woman told me: "just because you can do it, it doesn't mean you should". I'm run a design business and sometimes I feel elated and excited that I am creating a brand, something that is truly mine - but other days it feel like I am digging myself into a hole - because it's just so much work and it never ends. Us creative, talented folk (everyone has a talent) have to chose our fields wisely. Or at least be open to change and iteration, which is what you seem to be doing so well. Good luck in LA! Go for it!
Girl, story of my life- I work an office job, steady hours(same every day/week). I know most people want that, but it doesn't give me time to do what I want. I'm young(22), newly wed and I just want to do something out of the ordinary for once. Be grateful for your freedom love, I honestly think you sould do you boo, and wherever it takes you- go with that. Your true subbies will follow you no matter what you do or where you go
Maya...Thank You for your honesty. You have inspired me to continue to groe and learn about myself. Being born in Samoa and raised in the states...sometimes it is hard to balance my culture and the western culture. Watching you grow into this beautiful creation of GOd helps me realize there are others like me and I am not alone. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me at 2 this morning and I am hurting, angry and scared. I know in my heart I can do this BUT scared to death. So thank you for being here and sharing yourself with us. Your courage to do what you do inspires me on the daily. GOD Bless You Boo!!!
Maya! I have to say that your uploads have LITERALLY changed MY WORLD! So many of my own thoughts-you touch on. I absolutely LOVE YOU! I have found strength in the things that you say and share. You're beautiful and I am so happy that you have broken through! GOD is using you in an amazing and beautiful way. WE NEED YOU! The world needs you. I love you. MUAH!
This video really gave me that relief I needed to hear... The end of 2013 got myself pumped on starting videos for UA-cam, doing a fashion page on Instagram, as well as many different other apps. I started playing with my camera got a tripod, beginned look for great lighting, looking up editing videos, researching best software to purchase I mean the works.. I haven't start my UA-cam but I started my fashion page on Instagram and was consumed on why I only have so many followers or was losing followers or why no is commenting on my pic... This video absolutely reminded me that I'm trying to do these things because fashion and beauty is what i love show casing. As long as keep doing What I love to so I can make a name for myself, everything will fall in to place.. Thank you
I also learned that Social Media and time management were not my friends last yr... I have been doing good with not being on social media all day.. If I get on more than once I catch myself and stop immediately ...I've set goals this year that will help me fulfill my vision...scrolling on social media won't get me where I need to go....I will forward to these segments
Agreed, there needs to be a balance. Good video. I don't go around telling peeps what I want to see. I enjoy what they bring to the table. But again, well said. Good luck with your acting and all the things you want to do.
I felt the same way last year November & get cut all all social media. I didn't get anything unless it was a family member. I definitely realized it is quite OK to simply enjoy life & be connected with physical instead of the technical via online websites, etc. I totally get what you were saying.
I'm working on adopting a village in rural china and also building a school in rural china in to village were adopting. I started watching u around the beginning of the summer and u have shown me to not care what people say and do me and I have. U given me the confidence that I needed to start my project with free the children. I just wanted to thank you and tell you that you've been helping people from the very beginning. ♡♡ thanks a ton.
This video speaks so truthfully to me! I have been feeling very similarly with Social Media and I've been distancing myself because I don't like how consuming and negative it can be. It's always important to rebalance and refocus on your very own purpose.
I love your videos. Your realness and honesty and intelligence is inspiring.
Thank you for filming and uploading this. I've been talking about creating a UA-cam channel for over a year now and this has put some things into perspective for me. your videos inspire me, and I appreciate your realness. The worst thing you can do in search of success is to sacrifice who you are as a person. glad you've decided to take a step back and stay true to yourself and not completely untether yourself from your fans. always do you boo!
Maya, you have to be one of my favorite youtubers. I love your honesty. Sometimes I get really discouraged with how little my videos get views but I have to take a step back and realize that everybody starts from somewhere. If it wasn't for you documenting and sharing your Shameless adventure I would've never had the courage to promote my video through social medias because I didn't want people I knew in real life to watch them and judge me. Thank you for that
Hey Maya, I just want to let you know that you are MUCH appreciated. There's a reason that you've shot above and beyond 99% of the other "UA-camrs" in such a short time. Besides fabulous talent, your engaging, grateful yet still humble personality shines thru. Keep doing what you Do Boo. Stay Strong and Fierce!
I just heard a great quote today. "Have the courage to live the life that's true to yourself, not the life others expect of you."
In other words, "Do you boo!!!"
Love this video! I'm actually challenging myself to go a week without social media and television and all of a sudden I have so many (creative and fun) things to do! So much to write about, so much to read, so many things I'm getting done and not procrastinating. Surprisingly I'm loving my life without social media right now. I feel way more focused on my dreams and things I want out of life.
I've decided to join you in spending less time on social media, in just a few days I've found out that I'm not really missing out on anything if I only check it once a day. Thanks for inspiring me to do this!
I completely agree with you! I think for me a lot of it is stress of classes and still trying to manage my makeup channel (still haven't figured out how!). I'm in organic chem and the MCAT is looming and trying to get my channel off the ground is so stressful. But your channel is always such a good reminder to me to do me, and not worry about everything else too much! xoxo
Wow. I love this. I definitely understand how that can be getting caught up with social media and the internet then waking up one day, looking back and wondering, "whoa wait a minute why am I here and why does this not feel the same as it use to," it can really eat up your time and focus without you ever really realizing...but then again everything happens for a reason. There's always larger ladders to climb and explore that allow us to grow and become more of who we are, so never any competition. We can only grow more into ourselves and these moments are essential to our greater lessons and achievements. I've just found your channel today and have watched some of your videos and you speak so much truth, its refreshing. Excited to see more of you just doing you! Peace, girl.
I said all of tht to say this, the most powerful position (IMO) is to be on the position to walk away. We don't own you and I don't believe you "owe" us more videos. Go and LIVE and cine back and share. I became invested in this channel because you're super inspiring! If you leave tht doesn't mean I won't be inspired anymore I'll just move on; that's the goal move on to a higher self. All love
I don't know how you guys do it myself. I think social media can consume you which is why I don't have twitter or instagram or even a cell phone. I have to give you credit for being able to handle it all, its a lot if work. I'm sure you will find a happy medium and I'm glad that you are you. You inspire me and I love you for that. :)
Do what you love girl! The universe will always help you when you need it!
You're on point about Social Media and Mass Consumerism Maya! I too had to take a step back from social media for those reasons. It is way too congested and you have to stay on top of it to stay relevant, and it's very easy to get lost in that.
I am totally picking up what you're putting down. As a former network systems administrator I remember the internet before FB, Twitter, etc, back when Yahoo Instant messenger and ICQ was it for social media. With the exception of YT, which can still consume hours, I have completed distanced myself from other forms of social media, if only for, as you have said, the time factor; I could be doing other things, like applying that avocado mask I saw on UA-cam!
But on a serious note, I think you have what it takes to make it in the entertainment industry, Maya. Your videos are fun, your presence is magnetic and you have Charisma. You can't teach personality and you have that in spades. I will be interested to see in what direction your channel goes. I wish you the best.
So glad for you Maya! I felt the same way about social media, especially YT. Over-saturated, too much time interacting online and not enough in person, and I slowing stop doing what I love. Plus its not the same anymore and some never understood that people do have lives off the computer. Now, I just limit social media even more and if I do decide to share something online, it's because I choose to. Do you boo! Love ya ;)
I love how you keep your channel so transparent and share your thoughts with us. Most you tubers don't. I can't wait to see you do you!
I know what you mean about saturation .I went from never on instagram to everyday like 3 times. Respect. You gotta follow your passions and do you! God Bless You on your new aspirations this year!
I love you maya;) your a inspiration to all of us! Showing us how to be ourselves & get on our grind! I so agree with all the voices! I'm a youtuber also and Doing UA-cam videos can be so self harming because you trying to make everyone happy & you just focus on social media and forget you have a family & friends. Yes comparing yourself in social media takes a toll on you. But like you said you have to do you boo. I love you Miss Maya. I really understand this video! You just want to go back to doing you & focus on your craft. Yes I'm a NYC girl! I'm working on my career in the fashion & cosmetics world & growing my UA-cam channel to HELP others. I'm on a journey just like everyone else! Love you boo. This comment though #reallybro
Wow, I really needed this! Coming close to graduating, I have been constantly wondering what will be the next step for me... So many distractions in life (Social Media, Jobs, Expectations), they can be kind of frightening to me! At this point I am really trying to get back to what I want and need to be. Your channel is helping me on a day to day, so keep that up! You are a true inspiration and you've managed to reach people all over the world! DO YOU BOO! X
Omg maya! Such an inspiration. I did a social network cleanse(not including yt) for an entire year and I have found that I'm much less scatter brained !! Once you get away you won't miss it... I agree with the comparing yourself to others because that happens a lot. I'm interested in seeing an update in a few months about how far you've come using less social media. Stay positive and do you boo! Lol
You just being you is like so un express able you just changed something in me and that is my confidence within me and u just told me to be myself thank you so much
Wow Maya, get out of my head! A coworker and I were just having this conversation of needing to live our lives instead of the ones being setup for us/by us by default. We're both writers and artists and for too many years have been working for others and not spending the time we need on our passion projects but this year we made a pact that the madness would come to an end. So now we're supporting each other in keeping our creative momentum pumping and the energy spreading! Positivity begets positivity and it gets things done :) I hope you continue expanding on your journey, you've been a huge inspiration thus far, imagine what more you can do!
Keep Growing ;)
Great Message. I admit, I got caught up with Social Media... by the time I check IG, Twitter, Pinterest, Facebook & UA-cam... 2 hours already passed (and that doesn't include emails)....
You took a great initiative by realising this and sharing it with us. Keep reaching for your dreams!!
Luv ya Maya!!
I love you so much Maya. you inspire me so much!!!!
Been totally feeling the same. I spent the New Years moment alone on the couch, and just last week I had a huge life epiphany. It's time for change; we all deserve to see what's really inside us :)
This is the realest video ive seen in quite a while. As of Jan.1st UA-cam is the only social site I have left...everything else is deacticated. Good for you Mya for actually living life and not getting caught up in everything! Love you girl!
YES! This is exactly how I have been feeling I've compared my self to much these past months and have lost sight of what I really want and what step I need to take
I love your realness and how authentic you are.
i'm in the same boat as you maya. i'm trying to restrict being online as much as well. one of the things i'm trying to do is get a journal and read more, write more (as a writer, i've been holding back) and take time to organize and live life on my terms and not through a filter. girllll. DO YOU BOO
You're my inspiration Maya. I'm going through a transitional phase also (post-grad life -_- lol) and you are like this little guiding light there for me (and a lot of others I'm sure)….so much of what you're talking about resonated so much with me right now. I can't WAIT for the vlogs! You have to live life authentically.
Girl, preach...
I am sitting here wide-eyed, mouth open, when I should be ... um... doing the stuff I get paid for. LOL! But I enjoy your AUTHENTICITY, which is why I take the time out to stop in from time to time. Your concerns are exactly why I've been procrastinating with starting my blog. But BALANCE is the key, as you said. Hugz to you, mama.
love. love. loveeeee.. my thoughts exactly. I participate in social media too (on a muchhhhhh smaller scale) and I often find it draining. Like it's really fun and makes me happy a lot of the time, but often I feel like it's a waste of my physical body, ability and time. I love how you can express yourself so clearly! Love yah Maya, and do you boo!!!
You know us… we will just follow you where ever! Ha… you started out different and then did all these turns and twist…yet we are still here! No pressure… if we miss you, we can watch all your older videos! Thanks for taking us with you this past year… much love
Though I have no suggestions to offer, I cannot imagine not appreciating whatever you do on social media, especially UA-cam. Thank you for being reflective, introspective, logical. Do you, Boo.
MAYA! You are such a brave woman. I totally understand that you spent all last year Vlogging; because you make exceptional good videos, because you are talented, stylish, artistic, funny, clever, humble and above all a perfectionist. This is why I've been following you since DAY 1 on frugalartist, ever since Andrea Lewis introduced you on her channel. Just sitting here watching you mention the numbers of YT-viewers, that you want to pursue your acting career, do an action web-series, makes me so GLAD! This is why you are an original, because you don't stand still, you keep renewing your life, challenging yourself & being creative. So much respect. I feel like I'm in the same kind of state that you are in right now; too much social media, need to focus and manage my time, so I can do the things I really want. I'm currently working on a short film, I write continuously on a TV series, and I need to complete my website, so I can get the jobs I want. All in the making.
I have never been into social media but since my niece came to live w/me, I have been watching UA-cam makeup video and on....and on... So I feel you being caught up for hours. But, I was immediately drawn to your channel. You are very SPECIAL and have a GIFT. My prayer for you is to be committed to your acting and aggressively seek photography. Do you boo!!! I am taking a HUGE leap myself in Feb to San Fran, CA from NC. Many Blessings to you Boo!!!.....
I'm with you when you say 'everything happens for a reason' and you learn from what you've been through :)
Things I'm working on:
Developing better self-confidence
Developing dance choreography and getting out of my shyness to ask dancers to be in my pieces.
Figuring out what my career should be. I graduated with my BS in spring'13 and am currently doing a year long paid (thank God) fitness internship in Boston, but once this is over I have to find something else to move onto. I honestly have no idea what I want to do! I have interests, but nothing is sticking as far as me committing to it. Sigh. So that is what I am working on.
Truthfully spoken!!! Social media is definitely getting out of control and taking over people's lives. So glad to know I'm not alone in feeling like it's becoming too much. Especially from someone like you :) Great for getting to know things or searching for how-to's but people actually LIVE in social media and it is definitely a lot of "hype." God bless you in your journey!!! You've been amazing to watch whenever I need inspiration or a smile or laugh :) You're amazing :)
Thank you for this Maya. This has been my struggle on YT for a while, I'm a mom, artist, student, work full time etc. and had to remove myself from some social media forums because I found (like you said) people were more interested in my beauty side than my authentic side (blogging). It made me bit emotional and can be hard. By the way I saw your portfolio waaaay before you even cut your hair and you are a phenomenal photographer. do you boo
Once you figure out what you want (which you already have), organize everything you do so that every action you make is a step closer to where you wanna be. It's going to be more difficult trying to juggle more than one thing, but if you want it bad enough you'll figure out a way to get it. I am a writer and aspiring filmmaker and I was searching how to edit as I am new to editing, and luckily I found your video on how you edit your videos. Just an hour ago, I was on the phone complaining to a friend that I have written 3 short films in the last 2 months but still feel like I'm not getting anything done. I shortly snapped out of it, ordered a new charger for my digital camera and am now practicing editing with some videos from 2012. I once heard from a prominent writer that amateurs rely on inspiration, professionals rely on discipline. It's all love.
:)
I love your openness and honesty...its refreshing. I just started picking up my UA-cam game because I am one who loves social media BUT I learned a LONG time ago to not allow it to control my life. I post when I want and I get on it occasionally although with that being said I am still active. I am a mother who homeschools, I am a wife, I am a holistic esthetician, I make videos, I cook, I clean, and all other things in between...BUT I believe in LIVING my LIFE FREE and stand by an 80/20 rule in everything I do...80% healthy holistic living and 20% other randomness. Any who THANK YOU for posting this and your videos already inspire me (I just subscribed today)...I'm done..much love
I have been watching your journey and you have grown so much mentally. I am starting my own UA-cam channel for my own personal journey that I have started this year about experiencing new things. I think it's a wonderful idea for you to create a series because you are inspiring allot of people to do good for there life. We need people like you to document the good that happens in life because there's so much negativity on the news and in the world being broadcasted that no one knows about the people doing good in the world.
I watched this video when you first posted it and it STILL speaks to me. So much so that it helped inspire my last post. Keep finding your why and LIVING!!
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Hey Boo! Seems like social media is never going away. However, I'm working on my law degree, but I appreciate all you do on your channel! You spice up my breaks in between these books! God bless on your journey!
I love your honesty in this video! I feel the exact same way... Had to take a little break myself and I don't have nearly as many followers as you do. Thanks for sharing this.
Thank you so much for this video! Gosh I've been feeling the same way. Currently taking a social media detox. And compartmentalizing almost everything.
Looking forward to more Shameless Sunday's. And it would be awesome to see more vloggy type of videos - I, personally, find them the most interesting plus the sit-downs. Pinning this video!
I appreciate your honesty and just the genuineness of all that you are, that you stand for! Yes, social media can be a bit much but I can only imagine it from your standpoint. The content you produce is well worth it and is something I always look forward to. But like all things that matter, we need to constantly nurture it... Whether it be you tube or your acting career, its your choice, your life, your happiness. That's what I'm going to try and do this year and every year. Nurture my relationships with family and friends, my health (which I really need to do), my home/work environment, and my spirituality. Thank you, Maya for always bringing joy to my day! Words to live by: Do you boo! Be shameless! ❤
Maya we love you and will support you 100% Go out there and conquer the world sis...having balance is essential to a happy life. I actually think getting back out there, exploring, living will create even better content for your videos. I'm excited about this new phase for you!
Word UP!! I've been feeling exactly the same & you know what you're so right. The world's gonna keep doing the world. You just need to focus on doing you and living your life rather than getting caught up with online stuff. Too many people are in the whole fight to be famous. It's just draining to watch and honestly it is just numbers & I hate that it's like that. Imma be doing the same as you, cutting down on social media time & getting back to the things I love doing. Thanks for this Maya ♥ Luhh you, Do you Boo :* .x
You are probably one of the truest youtubers out there. You go straight to the grain. I really appreciate that. You inspired me to maybe take a chance at you tubing, although I have been my own worst critic. As for people who are criticizing you regarding your hair or what have you, I see that as envy or misunderstanding. (Now I am ranting). But thank you for being you and for inspiring so many girls, women, people like us who need to learn to believe and be you boo! God bless ;)
Face at 9:01 is like priceless!! Do you boo!!! :) don't let them tell you that UA-cam is your entire life because in all honesty it's not. You are shameless maya and UA-cam is one of the many outlets for your extreme talent. Definitely not your only outlet:)
It doesn't have to be a web series, per se, but maybe a series called "Do you, boo!" where you're interviewing folks who are "doing them" (similar to the interview you did in LA of the tattoo artists). Find local NYers or travel out the city/state and get chatting with artists, writers, creators, stylists, etc.
This video is so on point. So man UA-camrs are doing the same thing. It gets boring after awhile, but can you really blame them they all wanna get paid. It should always be about who YOU are and not comparing yourself. Currently I am working on moving out and moving up. Doing things bigger this year. I am working on keeping me happy. Love you Maya!
DO YOU BOO! I don't know about everyone else, but you have inspired me so much and I can't imagine you ever having to put yourself in a box. You have touched many lives and we will be here for you no matter how often you upload vids girl! Do you and be shameless! :)
I havr been going through the "what am i doing" crisis for my youtube channel. I was just vlogging outside but i wanted to be more creative with my content. Make stuff that makes people happy but also me happy. So thats what i have set as my goal for 2014 on my channel! Goodluck getting back in to your "life" again :)
I agree the whole number thing is cray… If people could look past that they could see their are great people on here.
Maya I was so shocked to see a video today!!! I'm so excited for your new upload schedule especially shameless Sundays!!! You never fail to inspire us, do what you do best! You know we love & support you!!!
Maya. Girl. Sweetie bear. I would watch anything you uploaded. Your passion, your energy, your warmth and your humour, these are the reasons why I watch you. Do what you love, share what you love, and we'll be here with you. Nothing is more enjoyable than seeing you doing what makes you happy.
I'm sorry I don't really have any ideas for you, but hey, I'll be here to support you no matter what ^^