Marlene Dietrich on Sex Symbols

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  • "I have never used my body. I have played roles where the legs were used and the body was used but in life, I have never done that" - Marlene Dietrich in 1969
    Interview by Jay Kent Hackleman
    Marlene Dietrich was one of the first big stars and sex symbols in Hollywood. The German-born actress appeared in 50+ films during a 30+ year career. She also became a force touring the world as a provocative cabaret singer. During WWII, Dietrich took on the honorary rank of Colonel in the U.S. Army and helped raise morale visiting Allied troops in Europe. Dietrich lived life to the fullest, to say the least.
    “Ms. Dietrich agreed to our interview on the condition that it could be done in a dressing room at the theater," Jay Kent Hackleman recalled. "I certainly had no problem with that and she gave the entire interview reclining on a chaise longue and somehow that seemed absolutely appropriate.” From a chaise, Dietrich waxed prophetic on the idea of sex symbols, America's youth complex, and the traps of credit and material possessions.Thought provoking indeed. Enjoy.
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  • @hello70735
    @hello70735 7 років тому +2030

    Wow I love her mentality it's crazy this interview was during the 60s. She Is 100% right about America with materialism and youth culture.

    • @JudgeJulieLit
      @JudgeJulieLit 3 роки тому +2

      Germany, from the Industrial Revolution a leading bastion of high end manufacturing, is not materialistic? As for youth culture, regarde recent photos of Heidi Klum, now near age 47, e.g., still self styling as '60s Brigitte Bardot. Circumspection is an intellectual virtue.

    • @julijakeit
      @julijakeit 2 роки тому +6

      @@JudgeJulieLit oh hush you hussy. enjoy your life.

  • @jumpyourbone
    @jumpyourbone 7 років тому +2993

    "america still thinks that it's a young nation. i don't think it is, it should stop that. i think they have been young long enough. they should grow up."
    💘

    • @thisismyname3928
      @thisismyname3928 4 роки тому +26

      Bitterness is kind of creeping in on her at this point in her life. You can hear how she feels unloved now by the country that made her a star.

    • @robotube7361
      @robotube7361 4 роки тому +150

      @@thisismyname3928 Yep every time there is someone saying something realistic about US, there has to be an American who would find any excuse to say it aint so.
      America sucks and no amount of sugarcoating will prevent that. Deal with it and shut up

    • @TheRealNormanBates
      @TheRealNormanBates 4 роки тому +15

      RoboTube yes... we suck so much millions of people from around the world risk their lives to cross deserts and oceans to get here.
      I just don’t understand why a lot of people seem to _want_ America to suck by wrecking the very reasons that drew them to come here or stay here (be it those foreign or domestic).

    • @robotube7361
      @robotube7361 4 роки тому +69

      @@TheRealNormanBates Yep this is the only thing every American says too. As if all people go in US. Only Dirt poor people from 3rd world countries go into US and they go there because for money and not for anything else.
      So let me elaborate it for you:
      1. The majority of immigrants coming to US are from mexico and south america which US is directly responsible for empoverishing by creating chaos and exploiting all those small south american countries in order for them to become rich. US steals from the entire world. Plundering middle east oil, Using south america as their farm and depleting natural resources , putting dictators in power to prevent the rise of socialism.
      You wont find many (if any lately) immigrants from developed countries immigrating to US. Also, newsflash, other develop countries also have immigrants - so that is nothing to brag about.
      2. America sucks. Many of those people who go to US quickly realize the american dream is one big lie and many of them either get back or turn to crime in order to escape the life of washing dishes or cleaning pools with no chance of social mobility,
      So once again the only people who come to US come from south america and are mostly criminals and scum of the society in those other countries. You wont find productive and successful people from other countries coming in US. only the very bottom.
      3. The only reason is money. Majority of people go there to work, to endure and to send money at their families home. They arent there because America is nice and has nice social structure or positive things. One of the indicators that those who come in USA dont like US is they dont accept US culture but prefer their own culture and spread it across US. That is the best way to see that they outright detest American values and would rather stick in "Little China" or "Little Russia" quarters of cities than mingle with Americans. They dont try to be americans which clearly shows they dont come to US cuz they want to but because they have no other choice and would rather be elsewhere.
      All Americans got after the fall of the USSR - the very scum of Russian society. Prostitutes, dealers, the mafia as immigrants.
      It doesnt get more lower than that. That should tell you a lot what kind of people like America. opportunists, criminals with not life prospects in their home countries, convicts etc etc. Other developed countries DO NOT LET THESE PEOPLE IN. There is a 14 yr wait for a Dannish citizenship. In Greece for example u have to adopt the orthodox faith and greek name and surname to be eligable for citizenship. They DONT LET PEOPLE IN Easilly. That is another reason why people go to US.
      USA lets these people in cuz they will work for next to nothing thus effectively lowering the wage of American born workers. This is why US is falling apart - because of greedy capitalist bastards
      So I would do a research about the type of people that come to Us before I brag about it. Weak argument. Better luck next time

    • @kjsouthall252
      @kjsouthall252 3 роки тому +48

      @@TheRealNormanBates More people actually risk their lives to get to Europe. Just saying...

  • @acapulcoramon7601
    @acapulcoramon7601 8 років тому +1720

    ......this lady was so smart and sophisticated.....with few sentences she analysis the skindeep philosophy of america....she was not only an actress ,but she was also quite intellectual with a prussian spirit.

    • @jamescruz4661
      @jamescruz4661 5 років тому +31

      Ouch! "only an actress"....I think it entails a profound and analytic soul and mind to be a good actress.

    • @riverx6802
      @riverx6802 3 роки тому +22

      She was rac*st and narcissistic. She didn’t want the African-American nurses to deliver or touch her baby.
      Her daughter wrote a very distressing book on Marlene. It’s called “Mein Mutter” means my mother in German. I got my copy for $5.

    • @sweetblanche9442
      @sweetblanche9442 3 роки тому +7

      You should burn that crap. What decent human being would tarnish the image of their late mum?

    • @jayjayjayjay1067
      @jayjayjayjay1067 3 роки тому +38

      @@sweetblanche9442 a child has every right to an opinion on their own parent and their own upbringing/childhood

    • @sweetblanche9442
      @sweetblanche9442 3 роки тому +7

      @@jayjayjayjay1067 Of course! But it's suspicious when you write and sell a book about it.. don't you think so? Money is the answer.

  • @nicoleemenhiser8028
    @nicoleemenhiser8028 8 років тому +1365

    1969. This is still relevant *right now* and it was recorded in 1969.

    • @Kareragirl
      @Kareragirl 8 років тому +37

      Doesn't show that Marlene was ahead of her times. It only shows that people don't change.

    • @Carltoncurtis1
      @Carltoncurtis1 8 років тому +29

      1969 wasn't a long time ago.

    • @kiks399
      @kiks399 7 років тому

      HotSkull If anything this decade's when it all started.

    • @Blackevilmisanthrope
      @Blackevilmisanthrope 5 років тому +14

      Intelligence is timeless.

    • @czha8329
      @czha8329 3 роки тому +2

      @@Carltoncurtis1 50 years passed that's a couple or so of generations.

  • @MelanieAnneAhern
    @MelanieAnneAhern 8 років тому +2634

    "They've been young long enough. They should grow up."

    • @Belacroix5
      @Belacroix5 7 років тому +40

      Melanie Anne Ahern still applies today

    • @amolchaturvedi2151
      @amolchaturvedi2151 3 роки тому +2

      Who are they ?

    • @wellesradio
      @wellesradio 3 роки тому +26

      @@amolchaturvedi2151 The United States.

    • @dmd7472
      @dmd7472 3 роки тому +13

      Absolutely profound. I've never heard a more profound statement

    • @stephaniejaniczekssmugglerscan
      @stephaniejaniczekssmugglerscan 3 роки тому +7

      Disagree with her there. We werent 200 years old yet. Btw the youth cult was merely part of the bigger culture and historically our age of adulthood came on Dec 7 1941.

  • @ArchdukeOfBelgrade
    @ArchdukeOfBelgrade 4 роки тому +2045

    She was so ahead of her time.

    • @DSAK55
      @DSAK55 3 роки тому +26

      No, it's just that America never grew up

    • @helgaioannidis9365
      @helgaioannidis9365 3 роки тому +11

      She was just a typical European.

    • @Meshica111
      @Meshica111 3 роки тому

      still is

    • @killolot
      @killolot 2 роки тому +3

      I think most people are agead of their time, however, due to the fear of being outcasted they act 'conservatively' and play it safe because its what is expected. Think about that next time you shame someone for speaking a perspective different than you.

    • @katvacuum7510
      @katvacuum7510 Рік тому +1

      She is and was wonderful.
      Nothing and no one is ahead of or behind it’s or their time.

  • @susannarita4259
    @susannarita4259 3 роки тому +58

    For some reason Marlene Dietrich feels so much more real & alive to me than any other stars of that era.

    • @malivechristdoulou8108
      @malivechristdoulou8108 Рік тому +4

      Her and tallulah are so ahead of their time, i just wish they could see what's queer representation and racial/religion tolerance is like in today's society ❤️

  • @takitogoestoNY
    @takitogoestoNY 7 років тому +182

    How wise this woman was. Way ahead of her time, everything she says in this interview that was recorded in 1969 can apply to today's society.

  • @curiouslyt2123
    @curiouslyt2123 3 роки тому +107

    She’s actually on point with a lot of her views and assumptions about life and reality. 2021 and America still has A LOT of growing up to do!

  • @monks311
    @monks311 7 років тому +494

    idk who she is, but she spoke to me and I happily listen.

    • @kevinmasters8698
      @kevinmasters8698 6 років тому +67

      One of the greatest movie stars of all time. "The Blue Angel", "Destry Rides Again", "Witness for the Prosecution", "Touch of Evil." Won a Medal of Freedom for her work with the USO during World War 2.

    • @soflafit
      @soflafit 6 років тому +36

      She defines androgyny

    • @drivinsouth651
      @drivinsouth651 5 років тому +12

      @@soflafit "androgyny" is cool; no matter who does it...

  • @Nosjjddjjd
    @Nosjjddjjd 3 роки тому +392

    “The one great love that will never change is mother love”
    and her daughter wrote a tell-all book about her im screaming

    • @Lumosnight
      @Lumosnight 3 роки тому +31

      That’s why children are a disappointment of their parents

    • @lumilenm__m5304
      @lumilenm__m5304 3 роки тому +153

      That's the only thing I won't agree on with Marlene, because my own mother is absolutely not worthy of being called a mother. Mothers and fathers can both be toxic and abusive. They are people, not angels. They may think something they do is love, but it's actually a mental/ physical torture. She shouldn't had said that with that much confidence. There are enough examples to prove her wrong.

    • @lumilenm__m5304
      @lumilenm__m5304 3 роки тому +88

      @@Lumosnight Stop talking like all parents are some kinds of angels. I know enough from first hand experience. Please, don't be that ignorant.

    • @Lumosnight
      @Lumosnight 3 роки тому +5

      @@lumilenm__m5304 let me guess, your parents must be hellish because they tell you to do your chores and they don’t allow you to have a boyfriend? I hear the sound of violins in the background...
      I honestly doubt that Marlene was a terrible mother. Did she beat her daughter within an inch of her life? Did she starve her daughter or kicked her out on the streets? Nope. The daughter had a comfy life but wanted to keep being the center of attention hence the ‘mummy didn’t love me enough’ .

    • @lumilenm__m5304
      @lumilenm__m5304 3 роки тому +119

      @@Lumosnight No u dumb fuck, my mother literally did the worst things, including not seeing me for 11 years. Dad was abusive, physically and mentally and then trying to "redeem" his abuse towards me by pretending nothing ever happened and buying me fucking juice boxes and lil treats, as if I were a fucking dog! Don't u ever dare to come at a stranger with that bull! I have no intentions to tell my life story here, especially to an absolute ignorant fuck like yourself. I NEVER said all mothers r terrible like mine but the examples are enough to counter what Marlene said here. I have no idea about HER motherhood but you can shove that first ironic line of yours up your nasty ass. Fuck, whenever I try to be polite in the comments, there's always sick ignorant bastards like you who invalidate my AND MANY PEOPLE'S struggles. There are a hundred ways to fuck up as a parent and as a result, fuck up a child. If you can't see that and if you don't agree on that, ur a devil with ZERO empathy. Get ur victim blaming brain rotten mother idolizer arse out of here.

  • @ashharijaywardena
    @ashharijaywardena 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you for making this gem available. She's so articulate and sensible. I especially admire how firm and coherent her statements are - no mincing words or waffling about from her! What a high bar she sets for the majority of celebrities of this day.

  • @lexie.ward.
    @lexie.ward. 5 років тому +834

    That feel when you're too German to relax

    • @alper6928
      @alper6928 3 роки тому +82

      entspannt, the word for relaxed is entspannt

    • @evandempsey7613
      @evandempsey7613 3 роки тому +22

      @@alper6928 I thought of the same thing.

    • @Chillerll
      @Chillerll 3 роки тому +45

      Not only does the French and German language have a word for relax, the word relax is even coming from the old French word "relaschier".

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 3 роки тому +12

      @@Chillerll right. europeans (mostly french in my experience) love playing up this trope

    • @PixelPumpkin
      @PixelPumpkin 3 роки тому +54

      Yup, but they weren't talking about a translation of the word "relax", they were talking about a specific context: a ritual for the end of the work day.
      It's true that after-work drinks are a lot less common in Germany to this day, so I assume that that's what her answer was about.
      The ironic thing is that German, unlike English, does actually have a word for the context - Feierabend (end of work day). Consequently, the Feierabendbier is the beer you enjoy when you're done working for the day.
      Trivia: the German word "entspannen" literally translates to "removing tension". Entspannt (relaxed) translates to tension-removed.

  • @vannarae1474
    @vannarae1474 8 років тому +190

    love everything she had to say, loved the animation even more

  • @Kat-lz2lf
    @Kat-lz2lf 3 роки тому +44

    "if you have any sort of intelligence you can't succumb to adoration because people adore so many things.
    they also adore things that you think quite worthless, so you can't take it too seriously."

  • @britneysprsfan1forever114
    @britneysprsfan1forever114 3 роки тому +11

    One of my favorite actresses of all time. Marlene was not only beautiful and a sex symbol but also very intelligent, it clearly shows her intelligence in this interview of her outlook in life way ahead of her time and this interview from 1969 is still relevant today 50+ years later.....

  • @livinginadaydream1
    @livinginadaydream1 3 роки тому +55

    She was such an intelligent woman. What a special person.

  • @grahamkristensen9301
    @grahamkristensen9301 8 років тому +386

    Some interviews I'd like to see on this show:
    Quentin Tarantino
    Bjork
    Stephen King
    Steve McQueen
    Oprah Winfrey
    George Carlin
    Elizabeth Taylor
    Harlan Ellison
    Philip Glass
    John Waters
    Mick Jagger or Keith Richards
    Bruce Lee

  • @ifAsylum
    @ifAsylum 8 років тому +65

    Oh God, so much truth in her words. She was one wise lady.

  • @junialstudios
    @junialstudios 8 років тому +170

    This channel is so freaking amazing

  • @squanus2866
    @squanus2866 3 роки тому +4

    i'm an american but i speak german. i have adhd and the philosophy braided into the user-friendliness and logical commitments of the german language are so supportive. i love listening to how ms. dietrich speaks.

  • @arielschant9841
    @arielschant9841 3 роки тому +32

    I didn’t expect this interview to be about her SLAUGHTERING the Americans! 😂
    And she was also very very right about everything she said. What a European symbol of elegance, beauty, and intelligence.

    • @semsemeini7905
      @semsemeini7905 Рік тому +1

      She was right about Americans living on credit and working hard.

  • @PogieJoe
    @PogieJoe 8 років тому +52

    How wonderful that you continue to find such incredible interviews.

  • @nevskislake
    @nevskislake 5 років тому +11

    I have always admired Marlene's honesty and wisdom. She just tells like it is. I loved this interview. Thank you for posting.

  • @officialreginageorge3507
    @officialreginageorge3507 6 років тому +18

    She's so wise! oh my I agree and understand what she's preaching especially that first question on adoration

  • @avian8338
    @avian8338 6 років тому +7

    What a wonderful find this video is. And the perfectly smooth, dry words of Dietrich not only demonstrate a powerful intelect, they makes us consider how much Europe (the authentic Europe to which she refers to) has been taken over by Americanisation and what I call the 'Ikea Culture'. Real style is also an ethic, and this true European style which we used to possess (no longer, sadly) is something I think we should go back to.

  • @glyph2011
    @glyph2011 5 років тому +11

    Wow. I've never heard her speak before as herself. What a Star. A true Legend of Cinema.

  • @constancemiller3753
    @constancemiller3753 3 роки тому +14

    Credit, no pleasure from work, unloved new possessions and calling every relationship 'love'. She knew us well before we were born.

  • @thomassperduti4500
    @thomassperduti4500 5 років тому +1

    This was a real treat to listen to the legendary Marlene Dietrich. She was from Germany but let go of all ties with her homeland with the coming of WWII. She entertained America and all its allies all over the world.

    • @anna-elisabethbender3123
      @anna-elisabethbender3123 4 роки тому +1

      No. She left in 1930, because Hollywood offered more money. And later, after the war, most of us didn't want her anymore. So she moved to Paris. Only her death and her last wish were respected and she was burried in Berlin.

  • @iiiiiccccc
    @iiiiiccccc 5 років тому +6

    My icon, my idol, my teacher in many ways. Why? Just listen to this! It is amazing to "know" someone who has way better words and ways of expression for the things you've aways felt and agreed on at heart.

  • @user-rp6sg3xo9y
    @user-rp6sg3xo9y 6 років тому +20

    I think she is the MOST intelligent star and actress of Hollywood

  • @EthanHackney
    @EthanHackney 6 років тому +30

    “when they set up schools they told everyone texas was the capital of the united states” that’s the most texan thing i’ve heard

  • @chaosfive55
    @chaosfive55 7 років тому +41

    She was a truly wise woman.

  • @user-pm9pw6cj4c
    @user-pm9pw6cj4c 3 роки тому +1

    I saw Marlene Dietrich's Oscar trophy in one of the museums in Washington DC. Powerful 'cinema' moment . She is the most beautiful person to have ever been filmed

  • @TheKelbelle69
    @TheKelbelle69 4 роки тому +6

    Wow! Her perspective is amazingly relevant even fifty years later!

  • @karinamatos4253
    @karinamatos4253 5 років тому +19

    Wow. How wise she was. I like her temper

  • @EliDEVITTSpeaks
    @EliDEVITTSpeaks 8 років тому +241

    Marlene Dietrich skewering American Culture 😍

    • @kevinmasters8698
      @kevinmasters8698 6 років тому +24

      She did spend most of her life here, and was a citizen. Skewering but loving at the same time.

    • @cptasscheeks8669
      @cptasscheeks8669 6 років тому +1

      in what way

    • @alexiswaller3065
      @alexiswaller3065 3 роки тому +6

      How right she was

    • @marielaveau6362
      @marielaveau6362 3 роки тому +2

      @@alexiswaller3065 she wasn't right, it was just her opinion. Some one else might look at it a different way.

    • @azerethroth5761
      @azerethroth5761 3 роки тому

      @@marielaveau6362 But she is. xD Look at the beauty trends today, Society feeds women that they should STILL try to look younger for their husbands, it's ridiculous to keep piling on the creams and make-up to fight something that you cannot. Right, indeed.

  • @KORS0315
    @KORS0315 7 років тому +178

    ¨Because America still thinks that it is a young nation...they should stop that. i think they have been young enough. They should grow up.¨ That part!

    • @teacupalice
      @teacupalice 3 роки тому +7

      It’s so true even now haha

    • @Chillerll
      @Chillerll 3 роки тому +1

      I am from Europe and I don't think we are so much more "grown-up" than Americans, whatever that even means in this context.

    • @ieronymos9265
      @ieronymos9265 3 роки тому

      @@Chillerll Where in Europe?

    • @alechka_glagolit
      @alechka_glagolit 3 роки тому +7

      @@Chillerll i guess its because of globalization, we are not really different in other countries. Before - we were, now... I don't think so, mostly we are the same.

    • @sinabonz8108
      @sinabonz8108 3 роки тому

      What does that even mean? Can someone explain

  • @JoaMaj
    @JoaMaj 8 років тому +82

    Classy lady.

  • @toddpardoe1352
    @toddpardoe1352 2 роки тому +2

    I love the way she sees things - she's very blunt and to the point, no BS

  • @ElSamirah
    @ElSamirah 3 роки тому +1

    This is the first video by your channel that I’ve ever come across, and there couldn’t have been a better first video. It’s brilliant! Keep up the good work! 👍🏼💪🏼

  • @evandempsey7613
    @evandempsey7613 3 роки тому +127

    "entspannen" - German word for relax

    • @sigridvanosch1990
      @sigridvanosch1990 3 роки тому +33

      Yes, but I think to really relax is a mindset on it's own. Very American as Marlene said.

    • @komentierer
      @komentierer 3 роки тому +4

      Das könnte aber tatsächlich eine Wortneuschöpfung sein. Also vielleicht sogar neuer, als das Interview.

    • @leniliddy
      @leniliddy 3 роки тому +5

      @@komentierer Ziemlich sicher, dass meine Großeltern und meine kleine Mama sich in den 60ern an Badeseen entspannt haben😅

    • @davgg9621
      @davgg9621 3 роки тому +6

      @@leniliddy kann nur von mir und meinen Eltern reden, aber bei uns war nie die Rede von Relaxation/Entspannung, sondern eher von Genuss bzw die Freizeit am See/Meer zu genießen. Die Aktivität ist vllt die selbe, aber nicht der Grund.

    • @marielaveau6362
      @marielaveau6362 3 роки тому +15

      I went to France three years ago and at lunch time all the chefs at the restaurants in the villages we visited stop cooking to take a break. They go back to work two hours later. They were very casual and laid back over there. Americans needed a word like relax because we don't know how to relax. We're always working toward a goal of one kind or another, or climbing the corporate ladder. People in Spain and Italy take a daily siestas.

  • @frankfeldman6657
    @frankfeldman6657 3 роки тому +43

    Pretty ironic her saying the one great love is mother love. Ask her daughter about that claim.

    • @michellebadham9353
      @michellebadham9353 3 роки тому +9

      A parent can live their child with all their heart, but the child feels unloved just the same. It's about the era and families. I grew up in an English family. I was loved but they were cold and didn't show emotion. So a child can grow up to feel unloved because they weren't shown the love they think they should have had. Food and shelter is love as well.

    • @arieltroncoso3871
      @arieltroncoso3871 3 роки тому +14

      @@michellebadham9353 Well, yes, you're right that some of it is societal, but to be fair there is such a thing as emotional neglect even when one's needs are taken care of, and that is regardless of one's culture.
      You could have a perfect provider; they could give you food, shelter, physical warmth, material matters. But there is one very important thing that children need, and that is to be heard and given emotional attention, to feel like their thoughts and feelings are valid and don't need to be rewired or hidden away to 'make people happy' or to be accepted, or even to survive.
      A parent could do everything in their power and they can get that one thing 'wrong' - and it wouldn't always be a terrible blame or black mark, because many are trying their best and usually it's because the parents themselves weren't given the same emotional attention as children, and as adults they aren't confident or even aware of these needs, or are overcorrecting their parents' style, maybe they're too dismissive or too strict.
      Maybe some children end up needing to parent their parents, or parent their siblings and thus have to be 'mature and reliable'. Maybe it's the tiny things like being told that their behavior is unreasonable, or out of control, without ever having their thoughts heard. Maybe there's a language barrier and it's hard for a parent to connect and so they appease the kid however they can, even if it comes out tone deaf compared to the issues they're really going through - that one I can share from experience.
      So they start thinking "okay, so this behavior is bad and causes problems, so I won't do it anymore", even if that behavior is as simple as speaking their mind, or expressing their emotions, and they carry that into adulthood in unhealthy ways; anxiety, people-pleasing, feelings of emptiness or identity confusion, lack of purpose, self-sacrifice or perceiving others as more valuable than yourself, anything that harkens back to this idea of "I've learned this doesn't help, so I'm throwing it away and doing something that does help".
      Emotional neglect in otherwise reasonable conditions is invisible and adults who face it rarely realize how deeply it has impacted them, and rarely realize they're at risk of contributing to this cycle of emotional neglect when they have their own kids.
      Some families seem cold in their tone or behavior, but can surprise you by making sure you're heard. But it's far more likely that the coldness manifests in the exact opposite way, and that every other token of love pales in comparison, even if that love exists and we recognize and acknowledge it as adults, there is still that part of us from when we were children that remains upset or strung out. And our parents as well as us would know none the wiser, because we don't actually know anything different.

    • @azerethroth5761
      @azerethroth5761 3 роки тому +3

      And you believe her daughter's claim, Tsk tsk. People can say whatever they want once a person goes, but if life with Marlene was so unbearable, why didn't she just leave? She was of age by that time with kids, and it's not like Marlene had chains lmaoo. Wake up. But I'll tell you why, because Marlene was her source of income well into Marlene's 70's.
      And to keep the money going, She wrote a false book about Marlene, a false imagery of what her mother was.
      So who's really the rotten one now?

    • @semsemeini7905
      @semsemeini7905 Рік тому

      Her last word before dying was Maria. She certainly loved her daughter and her grandson.

  • @joecorleone1419
    @joecorleone1419 8 років тому +33

    a jeff buckley interview would be sick my friends, bless

  • @YehudaBerlinger
    @YehudaBerlinger 8 років тому +53

    Interesting on how she contradicts Grace Kelly (whose interview was four years earlier) on the European's view on America's age.

    • @PatrickSmithAnimation
      @PatrickSmithAnimation 8 років тому +37

      totally. Grace Kelly had an entire different delivery, upright, formal, etc.. where as Dietrich has a harshness and sincerity more similar to Bette Davis.

    • @asmitachatterjee5146
      @asmitachatterjee5146 6 років тому +25

      I think Marlene's was way more accurate and honest :)

  • @aedynjakpoetry
    @aedynjakpoetry 3 роки тому +7

    God she's so on point about the USA and its youth complex

  • @rosalieclark7578
    @rosalieclark7578 2 роки тому +1

    This is the best interview we need more of here mentality in 2022

  • @edwardgiovani
    @edwardgiovani 3 роки тому +5

    This made me smile . What a brilliant and charmingly inspiring person.

  • @sugarlove
    @sugarlove 7 років тому +84

    beauuuuuuuuuuuutiful

  • @harbinger200
    @harbinger200 6 років тому +3

    Much smarter then contemporary actors. In fact i have not seen this level of practical wisdom at all in a actor.

  • @eliwoodnguyen1505
    @eliwoodnguyen1505 7 років тому +83

    "possession do not make you happy"
    Yas

    • @oWoUwUoWoUwU
      @oWoUwUoWoUwU 3 роки тому +3

      Possession of a house does lol. But true.

    • @sigridvanosch1990
      @sigridvanosch1990 3 роки тому +1

      As soon as you got something, youre going to want another something. It's goes on and on.

    • @alechka_glagolit
      @alechka_glagolit 3 роки тому +5

      @@oWoUwUoWoUwU not house, i guess "home". Place, u can call home. It makes you happy.
      (Sorry for my English)

    • @k.elmaraghy1370
      @k.elmaraghy1370 3 роки тому

      Nice hair 👌👌

  • @hildaohgami
    @hildaohgami 7 років тому +53

    possessions do not make you happy.

  • @stars-dz4fj
    @stars-dz4fj 4 роки тому +6

    I could literally listen to her all day

  • @MarleneXtreme2
    @MarleneXtreme2 8 років тому +16

    Cool Interview !MARLENE FOREVER !!

  • @facetina
    @facetina 2 роки тому +2

    Absolute icon, because she didn't care she is an icon, and that is the most important thing.

  • @prschuster
    @prschuster 3 роки тому +23

    "He drinks because he likes to drink" It's about time someone figured that one out.

  • @vinayseth1114
    @vinayseth1114 7 років тому +71

    But I disagree on her with the leisure part- The British pride themselves on their teatime relaxation- something we Indians foolishly emulated haha. And the Spanish love their siesta!

    • @izabella7174
      @izabella7174 3 роки тому +12

      Siesta has more to do with heat to be honest

    • @toastedbabybuns1000
      @toastedbabybuns1000 3 роки тому +7

      Italians also have a time after lunch where they relax or nap for an hour before returning to work. It was common in Spain as well, not much to do with heat there as in Mexico.

  • @h.l.2558
    @h.l.2558 3 роки тому +46

    Europe has become more like America regarding the addiction to youth and changing cars faster than underwear. 🤔

    • @Chillerll
      @Chillerll 3 роки тому +8

      You think Europe was different back then?

    • @neadesu
      @neadesu 3 роки тому +6

      @@Chillerll ofc it was

  • @domingaservantez146
    @domingaservantez146 3 роки тому +1

    "Do my duty That's ALL" Yes I Agree...Thank You for sharing... ✝✝✝EternalDeeS👁🌼💫💗🕯...Blessings sending Unconditional LoveLight Bubbles to ALL 🌎

  • @tiwongemtonga
    @tiwongemtonga 3 роки тому +11

    "Possessions do not make you happy!"

  • @zafnatpaneaj4992
    @zafnatpaneaj4992 4 роки тому +5

    She was ahead of her time. I do love her !!!

  • @craigharrison1274
    @craigharrison1274 7 років тому +5

    This is the best one I've heard yet.

  • @royslapped4463
    @royslapped4463 7 років тому +1

    These videos are really awesome. These conversations are so interesting!

  • @vovalorettu9692
    @vovalorettu9692 5 років тому +1

    Marlene Dietrich - immer in unseren Herzen♥️
    Ich bin von Kopf bis Fuß, auf Liebe eingestellt😭

  • @aliciamadden7589
    @aliciamadden7589 3 роки тому +6

    Her intelligence is palpable through the screen no matter what role she plays. There is such a thing as sexy intelligence

  • @destinysfrog
    @destinysfrog 8 років тому +3

    Killed it once again. Never knew she had so much insight towards age and wealth. Animation is always on, except for those blurred credit card logos. Nonetheless, still fantastic work.
    Dreaming of a future David Byrne episode.

  • @clown-cult96
    @clown-cult96 3 роки тому +55

    And sure enough, America still hasn’t grown up.

  • @calvin6705
    @calvin6705 7 років тому +12

    Marlene youre a true artist.

  • @Labor_Jones
    @Labor_Jones 8 років тому +4

    i LOVE THIS STUFF... WHAT A WONDERFUL ANALYZES OF THE AMERICAN PEOPLE WITHOUT EVER REALLY BEING ABOUT THEM.
    THANKS! - - marv.

    • @luckyshow98
      @luckyshow98 7 років тому +1

      Marvin Gershowitz sorry but what do you mean by that last sentence. Sounds fascinating

    • @Labor_Jones
      @Labor_Jones 7 років тому +2

      glad I saw this again.
      i'm going to post it in a couple places and hope some others get out of it what I think is in it.
      Pretty much this is a critique of the USA back in the 1960s.
      .... she said very cool things & mostly that our rampage still to this day is measured in 'stuff' good one week, and next the next thing that comes along.
      ..... She's not really critiquing - she's telling about her experiences in the usa which by this time she had gone back to Europe it seems.
      ..... one of the reasons to study history is to be able to understand the intent of society or who ever then acts is part of why the day ended historically some certain way... Hence, increasing your OWN Experience so you have many lives without the impossible of living 10,000 years.
      Later! :)

    • @luckyshow98
      @luckyshow98 7 років тому

      Thanks! :)

  • @lolawho8676
    @lolawho8676 5 років тому +6

    oh I love this woman! great artist and thinker.

  • @jasonnorth8838
    @jasonnorth8838 2 роки тому +1

    I fully agree with her comment on the credit system used in the US

  • @ludicrus32
    @ludicrus32 6 років тому +1

    It's fascinating how this so neatly mirrors Grace Kelly's segment, where she talks about how it's Europe who insists on seeing the United States as a young country. It's a neat counterpoint.

  • @nounaboubou4513
    @nounaboubou4513 3 роки тому

    What a wise lady! I could hear her talk for days and days.

  • @kojikicklighter371
    @kojikicklighter371 3 роки тому +1

    Having seen most of Marlene's movies, she was an enigmatic, yet too self-aware actress. She seemed contrived and studied...but I still enjoyed some of her performances.

  • @isabellabornberg2153
    @isabellabornberg2153 8 років тому +13

    amazing as always

  • @jordangarlough2195
    @jordangarlough2195 7 років тому +2

    such amazing elegance in her words.. and in the animation. I ❤ you PBS

  • @vanigliaflavour
    @vanigliaflavour 3 роки тому +1

    she is a fountain of wisdom, dear marlene... the only love is mother-love... europe does not need no relaxation...

  • @boomerang905
    @boomerang905 11 місяців тому

    She was always earthy and kind when she spoke. One of a kind.

  • @smol_chilli_pepper
    @smol_chilli_pepper 7 років тому +1

    her analysis of America was spot on

  • @holymountaineer9325
    @holymountaineer9325 4 роки тому +3

    I love that when she is done with this interview, it is DONE. "Bye-bye."

  • @nyxfairy6538
    @nyxfairy6538 7 років тому +3

    I love her voice so much

  • @josephhebert3073
    @josephhebert3073 4 роки тому +2

    I love listening to her talk.

  • @ladyluckmisao
    @ladyluckmisao 8 років тому +10

    what an amazing person

  • @SusanTrishelMonson
    @SusanTrishelMonson 7 місяців тому

    Fabulous! How can we hear the entire interview..?

  • @dariasupernova
    @dariasupernova 8 років тому +5

    This was brilliant

  • @dariasupernova
    @dariasupernova 7 років тому +1

    I love how you drew her.

  • @shaalis
    @shaalis 5 років тому +1

    Probably my most favourite woman in the history of the arts.

  • @ultimateempress1739
    @ultimateempress1739 3 роки тому +1

    I love the detail of her garter!

  • @dudewat212
    @dudewat212 8 років тому +2

    Do you have an interview with Cassius Clay ??? Please post.

    • @luckyshow98
      @luckyshow98 8 років тому +6

      Who's Cassius Clay? :/ I know of Muhammad Ali.

  • @WhiteBloggerBlackSpecs
    @WhiteBloggerBlackSpecs 7 років тому +7

    She's right about Americans, Americans in 1969 and Americans today

  • @carlgregory9776
    @carlgregory9776 3 роки тому

    Well spoken by an iconic individual!

  • @zafnatpaneaj4992
    @zafnatpaneaj4992 5 років тому +6

    Marlene was an incredible smart woman !!!

  • @mg4361
    @mg4361 3 роки тому +1

    2:57 in German and French there is no such word as 'relax' - don't know about French, but the word 'entspannen' most definitely exists in German and has the same meaning as in English. Also the whole car thing, yeah that was because the people were poorer back then, not because they enjoyed repairing some old can over and over again. Just ask the Cubans how romantic that is. She knew that Americans had this image of Europeans as stylish, amorous and easygoing and she was milking it to the last drop.

  • @annoyingdog4820
    @annoyingdog4820 3 роки тому +1

    This woman is truly a legend

  • @inkripples4030
    @inkripples4030 3 роки тому

    I wish it was longer..

  • @alexander3699
    @alexander3699 7 років тому +1

    Loved this!!! So well done!!!

  • @fnuppyfnup
    @fnuppyfnup 3 роки тому +1

    spot on about motherlove. the only true love (fatherlove too)

  • @pinkpanthersubliminals2753
    @pinkpanthersubliminals2753 3 роки тому +1

    Yoo, I'm the 10th k like and I kept going back and forth between 9.9k and 10k to see the number change 😌💅🏻

  • @148nini
    @148nini 3 роки тому +1

    There are in fact many words for relaxing in both german and french hahaha

  • @helenafonseca8606
    @helenafonseca8606 3 роки тому +3

    Gosh, the more I get to know about her, the more I'm obsessed over her 😍