The heartbreak turns to anger when you understand the bad treatment was deliberate. Eventually you become indifferent. You even pity them for being pathetic. Nature played a nasty trick, gave them a sick brain.
ZION, ❤️but … They really don’t walk away: they just shelve you while they go play elsewhere. Then they’ll circle back to you , the landing pad cuz you provide stability. Do not allow them to come back!! They’ll truly miss you when you leave ! Empaths don’t SHELVE - we leave PERMANENTLY!
I wouldn’t suggest you tell them anything. It’s still giving them fuel - They already no they ain’t shit! The best thing is to stay silent. That will destroy them.
I wish I had known about narcissism when I was with him, but then I realized that God did not want me to know at the time. God wanted me to show him grace and godly love until the very end. THIS will stay in his memory forever. My spirit bothered his demons.
You mentioned them not being in a good place when we met them. That's what I experienced, he basically was sort of a dormant narcissist. He acted like he was surprised that I was even nice to him. He didn't start to change until I started complementing him, trying to build his self esteem. What a mistake that was! It wasn't long at all before he believed every word of it and 1000 times more (because sometimes I exaggerated just to make him feel better). Then he acted like he could do so much better. But like you say, it gives us a chance to come out of the "fog" and realize what a loser they really were. God did send us to them as sort of a "last chance" for them. But we all have free will, and they chose not to listen to Him and tossed us aside. And they never grow, like you also say, and they fail miserably, and try to come back like nothing happened. I just got the details of his massive failure to satisfy myself and all he got was stone cold - Sorry, I can't help you, Goodbye!😮😊
Same here. I thought by lifting him up. Never pointing out anything that he was self conscious about. Complimenting his features, his work, etc. Oh I thought I was helping doing a great job lifting him up. Until he started to think I was beneath him, didn't need me, he was better, yes I made mistakes, I did, but wow I took a verbal beating for it with names I never even heard come out people's mouths before, in my entire life. Filth, vile, disgusting. Oh I had therapy and medication for years after this. I been alone ever since
@@simpleflight34 Wow, that's a very sad story. You definitely went through much more than I did, but I got out early. I experienced only a very arrogant attitude and total disregard for my safety or well being. I never got to the name calling stage or anything worse. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and just know that God sees all and He isn't happy with their actions. I wouldn't want to be in their shoes! Please take care and know that God is on your side and turn to Him for help and peace. 🙏❤️
@@itshappeningagain this was very nice of you to say. You don't know how much it means to me. I've watched so many videos on UA-cam and been on Qoura looking for answers because you can't understand people's behavior. I wish I were stronger. Thank God you got out early. Happy for you, really. I shouldn't known better. I think I stayed because I thought I could fix it. Thank you again. Best wishes. ❤️
It started off reallly well...lots of niceness and kindness then boom it changed. Verbal abuse, ,gaslighting, lies, manipulation. Thank God I kicked his arse to the kerb..
I left my narc as soon as the devalue started… Sometimes I wonder if it was my fault (as he tried to convince me) but I only ever stood up to him to protected myself against his boundary violations and abuse. Stay strong everyone ❤
We are not playthings of the devil. We are bright lights embodied. Mother narc used to say “look at all of your energy these children have. I wish I could steal a little of it for myself “ It’s hard to accept that there exists such evil in the world. Gird your loins, friends ! It’s a spiritual battle to be sure
Need this 1 today... its saturday night... got no kids and bored shitless. The nex isolated me and consumed my life. Change is hard sometimes but i know being alone is better for me. He is probably off collecting cubic zirconia 😆
8 months free torture after 10 years and my door is locked and bolted and shut can never come back here I had a couple Hoover's and I said no no no like I did when he tried to talk to me I said no no no but like they say they hate rejection so he kept coming back and the fourth time I said okay and that was the worst but I learned from my mistakes and I'm good to the point where I thought this would never ever happened to me but it did I was played but I learned a valuable lesson and you never get too old to learn keep and also thanks Zion for the videos it really helps me to stay on top I love your videos de so good to help us to try to get over the trauma Bond that's a terrible thing to get over always thought I was so good but I'm not but I'm getting there where is trauma it would never go through it again cuz I know now thank you I love you and I love everybody that's going through this and I hope they make it out like I hope I can and I am peace so much love to the whole world that's going through this or been through this let's thank God we all made it through😊😅😅
Yeap sooo right we have 2all get stronger & we all will just ask God 2 help us the best healing is pray so this won't ever happen to us anymore pray harder & keep listening to these videos & many more & hopefully all of us all get over this nightmare & we all wake up & be better in life & keep it moving 2a better life that we all deserve😅
Yes, if God Almighty is taking out a person from us He will give us another person to us more better.yes they keep coming back but it's already too late. Let us love God Almighty above all things first because God Almighty loves us first.
It has occured to me, to them, treating them well is weak. The serial narc knows there is something different with them yet unwilling to define it as a disorder. Some i believe yearn to be treated like shit. Someone confrontational. Someone with less interpersonal decency than them. Someone to willingly fight with. Yep. Another narc. If that doesnt please then as an excuse to discard, temporarily or permanently and then be the victim while securing next supply. It is blaringly obvious with a repetitive narc. They are too scared to trust someone as they themselves are untrustable. Whatever way the traits are dispensed to each individual target, the perception was they were the one possibility. While us far from perfect, what counted was genuine. What they were missing... is everything.
I am healed if I see my my exnarc and her her new supply and wave 👋 good luck with that. My focus is using Gray Rock and focusing on me and my 8 yr old son caught in the middle. No focus, energy or attention on her as painful as it sounds to his mother. He is the most important future investment to bring love, kindness, honesty into the future generations ✊🏽
I would have not kicked her out I'm glad she left a day before my birthday she thought she got me I got the first left on the first Hoover the second over and the third Hoover change my phone number and everything who's laughing now
@autumngirl You have actually won. You may not see it right now because the hurt is too great. If you stand firm, God will go to war on your behalf. Pray every day and keep moving forward.The stronger you get, the weaker they get. You deserve better. Stay strong. It will get better. 💕
I finally found it in me to tell my narc about herself after the fact i was blocked on everything, i wasnt practicing no contact and got blocked so all i had was email i responded to her exposing her to herself and the next days her social media was dry from what ppl told me, either it hit her and shes realizing or she dont care lol
Ive only just found your channel and been listening to all your videos and wow you make so much sense you may as well be speaking about the ex narc i had in my life.Thank you so much for making these videos im learning something new from every video you make.ive been in no contact mode coming on for 5 months now it hasn't been easy as like you say you do get stupid profiles and stuff like snap chat requests.But its so worth to carry on and ignore it as its them trying to get a reaction.i really like your direct way of delivering each message on your videos Thank you once again .
Mine had a second chance after divorcing we stayed friends and we remarried 12 years later but he wasn't a narcissist in the first marriage but he was a cheater and he did it again and I'm divorcing him again because this marriage he really treated me horrible he punished me
Stop it u are not a victim stop this false narrative the narcissist is the person in the mirror that’s the only person u should concern yourself with stop blaming the other for your choices be cool with your choices CHEESH
Yes, if God Almighty is taking out a person from us He will give us another person to us more better.yes they keep coming back but it's already too late. Let us love God Almighty above all things first because God Almighty loves us first.
The heartbreak turns to anger when you understand the bad treatment was deliberate. Eventually you become indifferent. You even pity them for being pathetic. Nature played a nasty trick, gave them a sick brain.
All we wanted was to be treated like a human being. Costs nothing. The narcissist cannot even manage that.
It’s too much too fuc*ing hard for them.
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ZION, ❤️but …
They really don’t walk away: they just shelve you while they go play elsewhere. Then they’ll circle back to you , the landing pad cuz you provide stability. Do not allow them to come back!! They’ll truly miss you when you leave ! Empaths don’t SHELVE - we leave PERMANENTLY!
I wouldn’t suggest you tell them anything. It’s still giving them fuel - They already no they ain’t shit! The best thing is to stay silent. That will destroy them.
If you don’t think you were the best, then they don’t either😂! “ you’ll look for me in another person and you’ll never find me”.
I wish I had known about narcissism when I was with him, but then I realized that God did not want me to know at the time. God wanted me to show him grace and godly love until the very end. THIS will stay in his memory forever. My spirit bothered his demons.
You mentioned them not being in a good place when we met them. That's what I experienced, he basically was sort of a dormant narcissist. He acted like he was surprised that I was even nice to him. He didn't start to change until I started complementing him, trying to build his self esteem. What a mistake that was! It wasn't long at all before he believed every word of it and 1000 times more (because sometimes I exaggerated just to make him feel better). Then he acted like he could do so much better. But like you say, it gives us a chance to come out of the "fog" and realize what a loser they really were. God did send us to them as sort of a "last chance" for them. But we all have free will, and they chose not to listen to Him and tossed us aside. And they never grow, like you also say, and they fail miserably, and try to come back like nothing happened. I just got the details of his massive failure to satisfy myself and all he got was stone cold - Sorry, I can't help you, Goodbye!😮😊
Same here. I thought by lifting him up. Never pointing out anything that he was self conscious about. Complimenting his features, his work, etc. Oh I thought I was helping doing a great job lifting him up. Until he started to think I was beneath him, didn't need me, he was better, yes I made mistakes, I did, but wow I took a verbal beating for it with names I never even heard come out people's mouths before, in my entire life. Filth, vile, disgusting. Oh I had therapy and medication for years after this. I been alone ever since
@@simpleflight34 Wow, that's a very sad story. You definitely went through much more than I did, but I got out early. I experienced only a very arrogant attitude and total disregard for my safety or well being. I never got to the name calling stage or anything worse. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and just know that God sees all and He isn't happy with their actions. I wouldn't want to be in their shoes! Please take care and know that God is on your side and turn to Him for help and peace. 🙏❤️
@@itshappeningagain this was very nice of you to say. You don't know how much it means to me. I've watched so many videos on UA-cam and been on Qoura looking for answers because you can't understand people's behavior. I wish I were stronger. Thank God you got out early. Happy for you, really.
I shouldn't known better. I think I stayed because I thought I could fix it. Thank you again. Best wishes. ❤️
It started off reallly well...lots of niceness and kindness then boom it changed. Verbal abuse, ,gaslighting, lies, manipulation. Thank God I kicked his arse to the kerb..
I left my narc as soon as the devalue started… Sometimes I wonder if it was my fault (as he tried to convince me) but I only ever stood up to him to protected myself against his boundary violations and abuse.
Stay strong everyone ❤
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We are not playthings of the devil. We are bright lights embodied. Mother narc used to say “look at all of your energy these children have. I wish I could steal a little of it for myself “
It’s hard to accept that there exists such evil in the world. Gird your loins, friends ! It’s a spiritual battle to be sure
PS Jesus loves you and so do i
I remember those days. Glad they are over. I heard from the Chosen 144 that a super empath only comes to a narc only once in their life.
I had a lot of narcissists in my life from mother, sister, ex best friend to the ex bfd. I was ideal target as superempath. Never again!
Need this 1 today... its saturday night... got no kids and bored shitless. The nex isolated me and consumed my life. Change is hard sometimes but i know being alone is better for me. He is probably off collecting cubic zirconia 😆
BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH good1
8 months free torture after 10 years and my door is locked and bolted and shut can never come back here I had a couple Hoover's and I said no no no like I did when he tried to talk to me I said no no no but like they say they hate rejection so he kept coming back and the fourth time I said okay and that was the worst but I learned from my mistakes and I'm good to the point where I thought this would never ever happened to me but it did I was played but I learned a valuable lesson and you never get too old to learn keep and also thanks Zion for the videos it really helps me to stay on top I love your videos de so good to help us to try to get over the trauma Bond that's a terrible thing to get over always thought I was so good but I'm not but I'm getting there where is trauma it would never go through it again cuz I know now thank you I love you and I love everybody that's going through this and I hope they make it out like I hope I can and I am peace so much love to the whole world that's going through this or been through this let's thank God we all made it through😊😅😅
And hey sorry so long but that's what it takes some time
Yeap sooo right we have 2all get stronger & we all will just ask God 2 help us the best healing is pray so this won't ever happen to us anymore pray harder & keep listening to these videos & many more & hopefully all of us all get over this nightmare & we all wake up & be better in life & keep it moving 2a better life that we all deserve😅
Yes, if God Almighty is taking out a person from us He will give us another person to us more better.yes they keep coming back but it's already too late. Let us love God Almighty above all things first because God Almighty loves us first.
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So very helpful, thank you Zion. Love & blessings to you & everyone on this difficult journey🙏💪❤️🩹🌻
I feel so happy when finally you make your daily video. How a relief to hear what you say.thank you Zion.🏵❤
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It has occured to me, to them, treating them well is weak. The serial narc knows there is something different with them yet unwilling to define it as a disorder. Some i believe yearn to be treated like shit. Someone confrontational. Someone with less interpersonal decency than them. Someone to willingly fight with. Yep. Another narc. If that doesnt please then as an excuse to discard, temporarily or permanently and then be the victim while securing next supply. It is blaringly obvious with a repetitive narc. They are too scared to trust someone as they themselves are untrustable. Whatever way the traits are dispensed to each individual target, the perception was they were the one possibility. While us far from perfect, what counted was genuine. What they were missing... is everything.
Wow so very well said! 💯
Amen to that
Brother man
Me either PS Jesus loves you and so do i
Hell yeah
I am healed if I see my my exnarc and her her new supply and wave 👋 good luck with that.
My focus is using Gray Rock and focusing on me and my 8 yr old son caught in the middle. No focus, energy or attention on her as painful as it sounds to his mother. He is the most important future investment to bring love, kindness, honesty into the future generations ✊🏽
Yes mate, you were dealing with a demon
What’s worse a liberal or a narcissist or are they exactly the same thing?
Thank you for this insight. You’re for real , down to earth. This is what I need to help me heal. Blessings to you ❤
So true Zion! Thank you!
I would have not kicked her out I'm glad she left a day before my birthday she thought she got me I got the first left on the first Hoover the second over and the third Hoover change my phone number and everything who's laughing now
I moved out 2 months ago, but I'm very upset about it.
Amen to that
Sister
PS Jesus loves you and so do i. Google the Jesus loves you man autryville nc
@autumngirl You have actually won. You may not see it right now because the hurt is too great. If you stand firm, God will go to war on your behalf. Pray every day and keep moving forward.The stronger you get, the weaker they get. You deserve better. Stay strong. It will get better. 💕
I finally found it in me to tell my narc about herself after the fact i was blocked on everything, i wasnt practicing no contact and got blocked so all i had was email i responded to her exposing her to herself and the next days her social media was dry from what ppl told me, either it hit her and shes realizing or she dont care lol
they aren’t worth explaining how evil they are, they know they’re worth nothing. its best to pretend they dont exist. they died.
Ive only just found your channel and been listening to all your videos and wow you make so much sense you may as well be speaking about the ex narc i had in my life.Thank you so much for making these videos im learning something new from every video you make.ive been in no contact mode coming on for 5 months now it hasn't been easy as like you say you do get stupid profiles and stuff like snap chat requests.But its so worth to carry on and ignore it as its them trying to get a reaction.i really like your direct way of delivering each message on your videos Thank you once again .
You complete me 😊❤✨
6 months free
He stole he has messed up my car he did something to the electric hot water tank so it would catch fire and burn my place down
She hacked into my Google account and was keeping up with all my emails and some of my phone
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I get one girl from New York about once a year
3 different kinds of noises and women back-to-back to battlefield
World war 3
I didn’t find mine in a good place her mom died a month earlier..
Brother I've done that I know she was licking their chops she said that's okay honey I forgive you and I'll never lie to you again either wow
Rudboy i told her u nevva go meet a ma’fucker like me, as bad as i am my heart stay true
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Mine had a second chance after divorcing we stayed friends and we remarried 12 years later but he wasn't a narcissist in the first marriage but he was a cheater and he did it again and I'm divorcing him again because this marriage he really treated me horrible he punished me
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4 7 1974. April
I wanted to hurt him
Just got my phone back on
Stop it u are not a victim stop this false narrative the narcissist is the person in the mirror that’s the only person u should concern yourself with stop blaming the other for your choices be cool with your choices CHEESH
You are a narc demon!
Yes, if God Almighty is taking out a person from us He will give us another person to us more better.yes they keep coming back but it's already too late. Let us love God Almighty above all things first because God Almighty loves us first.
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