go on a date in Seoul with us ☕️ building a healthy relationship & growing together
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- Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
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It truly is the happiest I've ever been... enjoy this vlog!
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MUSIC
Artlist
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♫ BalloonPlanet - Never Let Me Go
♫ Jamison Dewlen - Once Upon A Time In The Western Elevator
♫ Jazz Art Quartet - Airone
♫ Jazz Art Quartet - Stuttgart
♫ Jazz Art Quartet - Un Mese Fa
♫ Logan Pilcher - Things Like This
♫ Louis Island - Escape This Town
♫ Michael Shynes - Marigolden
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TIME STAMPS
00:00 intro
01:37 everyone likes compliments
04:53 the happiest we've ever been
10:52 is marriage/relationship hard?
17:31 acknowledging growth
20:40 what is the biggest change after marriage?
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EQUIPMENT USED
Main Camera
♡ Canon EOS 700D
Lens
♡ Sigma 18-35mm F1.8
Mic
♡ Røde VideoMic Pro
Vlogging Camera
♡ Canon M50
Editing Software
♡ Adobe Premiere Pro CC 2018
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You can keep watching Sissel all day ,she just keeps getting prettier with every vlog!!..
Omg I’m blushing 🙈💚
You guys harmonize so well 🥹 I love how you share your love for each other
Thank you love 💚
Im 44 years old frenchie, follow you since long time saw you « growing up » and your evolution and how you became a woman and wife with lovely Jake. You are so inspiring, positive and sunny person 🌞. Love your videos, keep going. Kisses from France 🇫🇷
Thank you so much, that made me smile so big. Thank you for being here with us on this journey 💚
you and jake make me want to fall in love! I still remember when he was just a blurry face to us haha. I've actually always been alone so I don't know how it feels to share your life with someone else but I love how you two have shared with us what building a life together has meant for you and it's so appreciated. always on the sidelines cheering you on 🫶
You’re so sweet love, and I’m sure that you’ll find someone right for you one day! Never stop believing it 💚
wow time flies by so fast... blurry faced boyfriend ate tho
I also remember how we all went crazy when he made his leg debut lmaoo
Yess!!! These exact words!!!!
I wish EVERYONE, that a person says the same thing, as Jake and Sissel. Doesn’t matter if it’s a deeeeep friendship or a deeeep relationship ❤
100% 💚
건강한 관계는 서로 하나가 되려고 하는 것이 아니라 서로 차이를 받아들이는 것을 의미하죠.
여기서 서로간의 존중이 태어나는 것이고요.
그런 존중의 과정을 잘 겪고 있다고 생각되는 영상이네요.
Sissselllllllll, I almost cried during jakes monologue. I fricking love you guys! You’re so cute! 🥹❤️
Awwwww💚💚💚
Sissel please tell Jake that he looks amazing!! I thought he looked different and it took me a second to realise it's because he looks bigger from the extra muscle. He looks like he's a lot healthier and is just giving this high vitality vibe, keep up the good work! 😊 I love how uncomplicated and peaceful your relationship is, you are both in a very good place and it's very inspiring. ❤
Jake says huge thank you and he even blushed, thank you love 💚🥹
need more videos of you two like this. you and your husband remind me of my man and i, and its so comforting and inspiring to see both of you have the desire to fill the other’s cup and willing to grow with each other. thank you sissel 🩶
I wish you and your man the best 💚💚
That's relationship goals right there. I have that kind of open and mutually respecting relationship with my mother. We both only want the best for one another and always make an effort to work on ourselves to improve our relationship. It is very wholesome and we have grown a lot over the years. It must be heaven on earth to find a partner like that. I am so incredibly happy for both of you❤
This was so wholesome, I was smiling the whole time. I've given up on love but seeing love in others makes me so happy
Never give up, it’ll come when you least expect it I swear 💚
I agree with the "need to be healed" aspect. I believe if you are open to healing with your significant other, then you are good.
I've been married seven years and have done the most healing after meeting my husband. He was the key! I needed to have someone in my corner to love me unconditionally in order to let go of the unhealthy relationships I was holding on to
Your videos are always so calm and cozy Sissel🫶🏻
You guys are an adorable couple, and it's crystal clear how happy you both are with each other. Never stop dating each other. ❤❤❤
Awww💚💚
이 언니는 생각도 얼굴도 목소리도 다 이쁘다
We love seeing you both so happy 💚 Jake has this natural chill vibe about him, which I aspire to lol!
i love the part where you talked about saying youre grateful for the little things. Since I was little, I always thanked my mom for dinner after I had finished eating. And of course, she was going to feed me everyday regardless of if I thanked her. But I hope she appreciated it! I'm moved out now but my little brother followed me and starting saying thankyou too, so I hope he still says it everyday :)
Both Sissel and Jake are glowing ! I wish you guys many happy years ahead.
Thank you so much 💚
Is there a baby on the way ?
Love seeing you both grow in your marriage and in life. Sending positive vibes for this coming season! Love all the greens, blues and flowers. ❤
Thank you so much love 💚
Love this vidéo, you guys communicate so much positivite ! Thanks ❤
Thank you for inviting us to your date! It was really nice to see more of the two of you together, we appreciate you Jake!
Thank YOU 💚
This was such a relaxing video. So lovely seeing how open you both are with each other and your openness in sharing it with us. Love the positive vibes and inspiration for healthy relationships! :)
You guys make such a great couple and have a good caring and harmonious relationship. I wish you all the best!
jake is looking beefy! gym is paying off, good for him! this vlog was adorable ❤
He’s gonna love this comment haha, thanks love 💚
This video warmed my heart😭 u guys are so cute🥺❤️
I‘m so excited and happy bc of your new video🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Aww, enjoy 💚
I really appreciate how honest you guys are. Many make videos like this one, and it seems so fake and like showing off, which I really dislike, but yours was so real. You guys are a really beautiful couple. All the best for both of you❤
I'm fearing summer in Italy because we've had the same weird hot days in April too 😢 but now we're back to cold and rain so also cherishing that. Just started watching this video but already excited to hear more from you two, truly admire your love for each other and the kindness you both exude! ✨️
Thank you for these series ❤️🔥
Thank YOU for watching 💚
Thank you for sharing your life with us, I've been watching you since 2021 and you have grown so much. I am always in awe of your candidness, positive outlook towards life and how you always strive to do your best. Wishing you and jake many many happy years ahead ❤
Thank you so much, that’s very kind of you 💚
Jake you are built bruh!! 💪
Sissel your profound words about inaction I needed to hear 💚
this was so wholesome to watch! also really love the way you edit your videos
Thank you so much ! 💚
This was such a lovely vlog! Thank you for sharing your date with us. 🩷
you both are such good role models for a healthy relationship 🤍
this video couldn’t have come at a better time. thank you for sharing your life with us every week, you are truly such a kind and understanding soul ⭐️🩶🫶🏼
Thank you so much love 💚🥹
thank you for making my day with this sweet video!! i wish you all the best dear sissel ❤️
Aww that’s sweet of you, you too love 💚
I really love the vibes in this video💚
I’m glad 🥹💚
I think it's so nice to see and hear that there are more of these beautiful relationships out there! You are a really great couple and I really like you both!
My boyfriend and I are also totally happy in our relationship. We've never really argued because we just talk about the issues that bother us directly and also avoid certain behaviors because we both know it could hurt the other person if I say or do that. It's such a nice and peaceful life when you can talk about everything without the other person getting upset or not wanting to understand your views at all. You get to know each other a little better every day the deeper the conversations are. We also go on dates together more often or show our love by allowing our partner to do things with his friends, driving him there and picking him up again EVEN if it's 4 o'clock in the morning so that he gets home safely, we support each other with our strengths because he has different strengths to me and I have different strengths to him, and so on. It's a shame to hear that others see a relationship as stressful or even a burden, because in my opinion it's not, rather the opposite. Isn't it nice to have someone who listens to you, takes good care of you when you're unwell (physically and mentally), you can share the household chores, you take turns paying for meals and you order two different dishes because you're sharing them anyway.
It's the little things in life. 🥰
That’s so beautiful !! 💚 wish you the best!
it's so nice to see you both being complementary to each other!
Something we value a lot in our relationship 🥰💚
Another beautiful video! You bring such insight and restful energy
That’s so sweet of you 💚
I love the shirt you´re wearing! It´s so cute omg!!
Seeing your relationship is inspiring. thanks for sharing. Your videos get better and better every week
Aww thanks ! 💚
Always wishing you both the best, you are incredible people, learning a lot from you 💕💌
Thank you. 💚💚💚
You guys...... you're so adorable, I love these types of conversations
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You two are so suweet young couple, so glad to see this ❤❤
sissel vids are my therapy!!
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Love the music!
I love watching your videos where you and Jake discuss your relationship journey and give out such amazing advice. I am in my early 20s and graduating uni next year and your videos provide me a lot of comfort in knowing that I will find a love just like yours. I also noticed the editing style has changed a bit, and so in love with it! As always all love to you Sissel 💚
Best of luck to you love !! 💚
Jake is so sweet! Makes me wish I had a relationship like the one you guys have; one that makes each other a better person. I've always been single so I still don't know what it's like to share your life with someone else but I do hope to find the person I'd like to be with one day.
Very sweet video. It’s obvious you both value and respect each other. And that you are both willing to be vulnerable and honest enough to grow yourselves and each other. ♥️
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Very insightful, you guys will definitely continue to grow together. ❤
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Sissel, I would never get tired of telling you how proud i am of you. I've follow you for so many years and I've seen you grow and actually I think we are pretty similar, and we had and have similar ideas. In a way I feel connected to you, and see you so happy and finally in peace, makes me so happy. I wish I could watch you many more years, growing your family and everything you wish. You give us (your followers) peace and inspiration of a healthy way of living. I love you much, take care both, you and Jake!!
Girl I’m smiling from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU for saying that 😭 sending you all my love 💚
Yes sir we have noticed you getting big . loved the video sissel it is heart warming
Loved hearing you guys talk about your relationship. It’s exactly how I feel in my marriage. The hard part of a relationship is the beginning: finding a common direction where life should go, learning to communicate … If you achieved that and it’s the right person, then love just gets easier. Hard are new life chapters, unknown situations, where you again have to find out if you‘re going in the right direction. But I feel with tackling each of these the relation gets even more easy and wonderful.
Why do you think people say that married (vs relationship) life is hard? Where does that idea come from? Maybe you could talk about that in your next video 😊. I would be very interested in your opinion. In my opinion a relationship doesn’t change with marriage or only gets stronger, but that’s what movies always suggest.
Never go to bed angry 😊 best couple advice I could give !
That was a lovely video to watch.
I love that as well 💚
Loved this video! 💚 I could listen to you guys talk together for hours :)
Aww that makes me so happy 💚
All of your videos have high quality and soothing background music, which I love. How do you manage to make them so beautiful and tasteful? The content is excellent as well.
I have never been this early! Can’t wait to watch your vlog 🫶🏼
Thank you for being early, I appreciate it 🥹💚
"Living with your dreams without acting on them leads to unfulfillment and unhappiness and is harder than the journey there." This hit! And I'm 47. Love your videos. Your light shines bright.
I really enjoy your videos so much, they give me such a good energy ☀️🌿 You two really seem to have such a healthy relationship 😊 I reallyyy need to know where you got your white top with the ribbons from, it's so pretty and I've been looking for a top like this for such a long time 🙏
oh my god it's lovely seeing both of you grow together good wishes for the future as well love
Thank you 💚
Hey Sissel , love the clarification on equality vs equity ❤ , kindly we'd love to see some advise on how to get over repetitive behavior and functional freeze mode when life is a mess..
Don't mind me, just religiously watching sissel to manifest a relationship like this! Also, please get me as a godmother soon! I promise I'll give presents every holidays! 🥰🥰🥰
I really love when you two guys talk about things, I could listen for hours! And I find amazing the fact that I agree with most of your thoughts and values, I think it's because I'm too in a very happy and healthy relationship eheh 💚 can't wait for the next couple-talk video, any topic would be fine as long as Jake makes some jokes lol
Hahah aww thanks 💚
You guys so cute I
Wish you a happy life together ❤
I watch both you and Valeria! This was a good video with Jake! I recently got married too and also a mixed couple so this video resonated with me so much. :)
I really have to say that Jake looks really good right now✨
You guys are so cute together🥰
Awwww 💚💚💚
you guys are so cuuuuuteee :))
두 분 행복하세요❤❤❤
와 이 채널 80만명 됐어???? 언젠가 봤던 기억이 있는데 그때 몇 만명 안 됐던 걸로 기억하는데 와우~
더 승승장구하시길~
My girlfriend and I love this video and really relate to the personal growth needed to create a loving and lasting bond ❤️ thank you for sharing with us ✨
Wish you two the best 💚
been waitiiiiiiingggg
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Just been to Copenhagen for a weekend with mu partner and thought of you! Loved the food there ❤ lovely video, you guys are so sweet
Elsker at se dine videoer❤❤
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I really enjoyed the video
about the compliment section of this video, if an arab man did the dishes once in his life and gets complimented for it, he thinks he deserves an award and that his acts of service have gone above and beyond. i dont know about other men but if the relationship isn't healthy in a "modern way", then women aren't likely to thank her man for every little thing, esp if they take for granted what the woman does since it's "expected" of her
Sissel this video was beautiful! You guys truly look so happy ❤️❤️Also did you color grade this video? If so may I know how you did it I truly love the feel of this video!
Thank you love ! 💚 actually the colors in this video was already sooo pretty, but I did turn down the contrast a bit for a softer look 💚
Sisel you both are so adorable ❤❤
And I just want to compliment your well spoken English how did you learn so well?
Thank you so much for saying that! Honestly my English really got a lot better after moving to Korea as I speak a lot more English here (than Danish)💚
“a vlog by Jake and Sissel” HOW CUTE ARE YOU GUYS🥹🥹🥹
thank you for sharing
Thanks guys, you're so cute ❤
The ad Namesake Home & Furniture popped up while I was watching the video and it was for a baby crib/baby room décor and I immediately thought you might like it! It looked very much like your style and it's even funnier bc it was an ad played during watching you!! Lots of love!
Awww I’ll have a look!! 💚
Hi, Sissel! Good morning and Happy Sunday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚💚🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍. This new series makes me super happy! I love it!😊😀💙💙💙💙💙💙💙👍. And the places that you went are super...fabulous!🎉🎇👍
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@@sisselab Awwww! You're so sweet! Thank you, Sissel!😀😙💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚💚😊⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍
ahh to have a relationship like this >>>
Both of you are so sweet for each other I love watching you both interact with each other. 💜💜💜
Jake's new hair looks stunning! And he became a big guy, you should tell him so he can feel happy hahahah love you guys
서로 사랑 많이많이 하시고 너무 완벽을 추구하지 마세요♡
before you guys even mentioned about the gym, i was thinking jake looked like he’s been hitting the gym LOL
so nice to see this type of content from you guys! i’m progressing farther into a serious relationship now and have been thinking a lot about what makes a healthy relationship, growing from unhealthy habits/cycles in relationships, etc… i think the pursuit of & entering into a healthy relationships can be difficult in the sense that a relationship may not start out healthy but you can work towards it if you have the willpower, compassion, and love to do so. basically, a healthy relationship is not hard but it’s not without effort either. sure, with the right person it’ll just make sense to put forth that effort, but it’s still work.. and it might present challenges that make you uncomfortable, which can seem hard to deal with at times
Jake’s blushing 💚
And I think your mindset is super healthy, I’m sure you’ll make sure to build a healthy and strong relationship 💚
I would love you and Jake to talk about starting a family soon❤
Love you both
You guys are so cute. Sending love to you both from Shanghai!❤
Aww thanks love 💚
THERAPY AFTER A LONG TIRING BUT FUN DAY!!✨
Haha enjoy this video love 💚
I’m so early omg but my Sunday night became so good
Thanks for being early love!💚
나도 벌써부터 올여름 더위가 얼마나 대단할지 걱정하고 있어요...그나저나....너무도 굉장히도 부러움을 느끼게 만드는 좋은 커플이시군요. 삶이 안정적이고 단순해졌다....그 말에 깊은 공감을 가지게 됩니다. 요즘에 한국에서는 많이 잊고 지내는 가치가 아닌가 싶습니다.
Dine videoer er så hyggelige 🧡
Tusind tak 🥰💚
The will to change is an amazing book by Bell Hooks. Touches on the subject you both discussed about men not being able to express themselves. I literally cried in the intro. Quick read, check it out!
YESSSS! preach!
I’ll check it out! 💚
this was such a beautiful video! It has inspired me to make content like this with my partner, we have been happy together for almost 5 years now! It is truly such an amazing process to grow alongside someone in life.. Thanks for sharing Sissel
You should ! Wish you and your loved one the best 💚 I actually don’t remember the brand but I got it from Lisa Says Gah! a couple of years back 💚
MY FAVOURITE COUPLE ON INTERNET ❤
Oh youuu💚
Awww I was in Seoul when you filmed the vlog. It was such a beautiful day that day 😍
This video is so sweet, I hope I can get love like this someday.
Much love to you two !
Love the spring weather! Just hoping for better air quality soon 🤢💚
Love these couple talks!! Maybe discuss inter racial couples in Korea? Have you as a foreigner experienced racism there? Family acceptance issues?
You know what, we don’t have any issues or specific experiences related to our race. I’ve not personally experienced racism here, probably more something that would be xenophobia, but people are generally very nice. That’s my experience, but other people might feel differently. The only thing we feel in our relationship is the excitement of exploring each other’s cultures and learning how to create the perfect mix for our family. That journey has never been negative, only exciting and fulfilling 💚
@@sisselab Maybe it's more common now, but people used to tell me that people stare. Especially when an Korean man with a non-Asian. I hope things changed.
그럴수 있습니다.한국은 오랜시간동안 고립되어 있었고.그 이후에도 거의 민족내에서 살았어요.외국인은 거의 드물었고..지금은 외국인들도 많아졌고 조금씩 변화가 일어나고 있다고 보시면됩니다.물론 이전의 경험을 가지신 나이드신 분들은 당신을 쳐다볼수도 있습니다@@bored78612