I lost my father 42 years ago at the age of 7. In the last 8 months I've lost my brother to suicide and my mother to a broken heart. I'm really struggling with this.
That sounds really tough man…One advice: don’t give up! You got this! Life’s a battle and everyone is going through hard times. At the end of the day, try to have an optimistic mindset. I know it’s probably extremely painful sometimes, but…don’t give up.
I saw the community tab and broke into tears, I felt so sorry for you. Because not everyone on UA-cam feels confident to share some deeper stuff, I’m sure that almost everyone here feels your struggles and I will pray for you and your family to recover from this injury
Charles, this is David P's dad. We met at the wedding in June. I am so sorry for your loss. Based on my own experience, losing one's Dad is a big deal. But I hope you get the strength to continue with your life using your Dad's memory as a reason to move on. I am sure that's what he wanted. It's good to talk about it as you are doing. Than you for sharing.
Hey why are you making polls to insult Africa? Africa has clean water in almost every city or town it's only in the villages that don't have clean water. Even places that don't have clean water have factories that purify the water and bottles them and uses it for domestic purposes. Also there is Internet everywhere in Africa so please just stop with these ignorant polls.
I'm really sorry for your loss man. I've seen so many ppl lose they're mothers and fathers and I know how terrible it was for them so I can only imagine how much it's affecting you. I hope you can heal over time, ily man🤙
I lost my dad 20 years ago and still miss him to this day. I am sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to spend the last few days with him. Praying for comfort, peace, and strength during this difficult time 🙏🏻
I’m so sorry bro. When I lost my grandpa to cancer I got messed up on drugs and attempted to self delete. I still feel lost he was the one who raised me before my parents got their lives straightened out.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your grief ❤❤❤ the power in comfort from strangers is something that can’t be explained, but is undeniably miraculous ❤❤❤ nothing but pure love for you and your family
My deepest of condolences and thoughts and prayers are with you all in your current situation and I hope god or whoever you may believe in is taking good care of him and I’m sure that he, Coco and all of your other loved ones will be watching over you until you meet again Stay strong my friend and may your dad rest in peace ❤️💕🕊
Charles is an atheist, so to him he's never seeing these people or animals agian. Dude is going through a lot, loss hits different when you don't have/believe in that comfort. I hope he's doing as okay as he could possibly be.
Praying for your family in this time of trauma and healing. It’s even harder when the parent lived with you so take things slow 🙏 ❤ thank you for your content and sharing your story. Your dad knows how talented you are and he’s still there.
My heart breaks for you. Losing a beloved parent is never easy, and worse right at the holidays. You deserve some time to process and no worries, the fans of your work will still be here. Take care of yourself.
Take the time you need and heal is hard but remember the good times you share with him and all the love he showed. I miss my grandparents and it still hurts but I always remember the good times and food we shared. Sending you a warm hug 🙂💛
You went through something so traumatic, and there's a lot of grief ahead but keep doing what you're doing. Sending you hugs and prayers ❤️ do whatever you need to do get through this. This video was touching and genuine and your community supports you!
If you ever read this Charles, first of all my condolences to you and your family. Losing someone you loved most especially from your own family is one of the worst and painful feeling you'll ever experience but I hope you will still continue to become stronger, become happier and most importantly continuing to do whatever you love, whatever your heart desires. Because I know for sure that's what your father wants for you and your family too. He's proud of you Charles. Never back down and keep your head high!
I think everyone has lost someone or something this year but if we all stick together we’ll be ok we need to keep our heads up and look to the future and be happy about the time we got to spend with them. I hope everyone stays safe and I hope everyone can feel better in the new year. Wishing you the best everyone especially you Charles stay strong and safe
This all reminds me of my last few days with my mother before she passed away 5 years ago. It all happened so quickly and if I could go back I’d change if
You are SO beautiful.PERIOD. Edit: Bless you! Edit: Awww!!! One of the last photos of my grandmother was of me asking her to give the finger to the cam. She did, and I posted... She laughed, afterwards.😄 Edit: I'm so sorry that you had to find him...😓 Edit: My grandaunt was named Evelyn. Edit: 15:45 Beautiful!!
My grandmothers who died 3 months within each other really hit my family hard. So then I spend time with my mothers family(her 2 brothers wives and their kidw(2 each)). They died a year ago. So from now on every Christmas me and my aunts and uncles and cousins and whoever wants to join tells their favorite stories of my mothers grandmother as a way to remember. We went through all my family’s photos and stuff. Going back to some of my great grandparents stuff like their Austria Hungary and American passports. Along with pictures from the 80s and 70s. Another way to remember. Even though they’re not here with us physically as long we remember them they’re never gone.
I think anyone can understand the enormity of your loss, and I am so glad to see you able to channel your thoughts into some sort of outlet that helps you in such a time of grief. It never goes away, as I’m sure you know, but the grief hopefully will begin to fill with those amazing memories you shared together. Take the time YOU need to be better in your headspace brother.
Hey man I lost my dad very suddenly to undiagnosed lung cancer back in 2021. He was actually in the hospital waiting for his first biopsy following admission when it happened. Nothing can really ever express how a sudden loss of someone close ever feels and nothing anyone says makes it any better. However it does get easier to live with in time. Please take time to grieve and to get any support you need
My Father's Death anniversary was on the 29th of December between Christmas and New Year's. I remember how the shock of his Death propelled me toward being contemplative about my own future and the goals within that vision...I realized later on that it was precisely that...shock. The harrowing trauma sometimes causes one to focus on anything BUT the actual devastation and Death. That will set in later but watching you felt quite relatable. My Mother Died in 2022 and I too am a fairly young person with two deceased Parents whom I miss and long for with ever fibre of my being. Have strength, Charles. 🥀
Hi Charlie, I just watched the entire video, I just wanted to say thanks for sharing, you are so brave, I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure it was not easy what you went through, I lost mine when I was 24 years old and he was 55, just know that your dad still lives on in your heart and all those great memories you shared together. I'm sure both your parents are very proud of you wherever they might be and would support you on whatever you decide to do from now on. Sending you a big hug and wishing you peace in your heart.
I Maybe Late, but I’m so sorry for your Loss. I couldn’t even imagine what would happen if I lost my dad. My condolences to you and your family. I pray that you hold it together. Your not in this alone, me your fans, family, your friends, We got you man ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
Today is my first encounter with you. Your story brought me to tears a few times. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and your mom. I lost both of my parents within 3 years of each other when I was in my late 20s and early 30s. It was a challenge. You sound like you will make it through the losses--you seem resilient. But there still is grief and a sense of loss. i have to say that while you were talking, I wanted to reach out to you and give you a hug. I wish the best for you, and I hope your plans/dreams come to fruition. BTW, as a physician myself, I must say to you that you and your siblings are at risk--sounds like your dad's family has some bad cardiovascular genes. So, be sure to have preventive care.
God damn man, I completely feel your pain, I lost my father on March 1st of this year (2023) haunts me every silent moment. He was a lead singer, every rock song between 1950-2005 brings me to the verge of tears every time. 🫂 Good luck dude, it fucking sucks. Glad you guys were so close. I took care of my father (he was a liver transplant patient and schizophrenic) I took care of him by myself 24/7 between. The age of 16 (I quit school) and 37. What a horrible shock for you to awake to, I'm so sorry. At least it was quick.. if that helps at all. Damn dude, I'm so sorry.
Hey you, I wanted to just take a moment and tell you that my heart goes out to you. I’ve just spent every day of the last week, except for Christmas visiting one of the clients I work at the nonprofit. I spent every evening reading to her for 2 to 3 hours when she was in an unconscious state, hoping that she would get better sadly on Monday she passed as I was there, and it was utterly devastating so my heart goes out to you and your family right now. But I wanted to tell you that you have this remarkable ability to transform your suffering into motivation, everyone goes through what they call a dark night of the soul. These are periods in our life where we feel that everything is collapsing around us, and everything that we knew a solid disappears however, life keeps going that doesn’t mean that it won’t hurt like hell. But you’re clearly surrounded by people that love you. And you have such strength of will. Never underestimate how much strength you have inside. I’m sending you a lot of love right now. Be well, my friend.
Having a long formed video where you could simply talk and share was a pleasant surprise due to unfortunate circumstances. I enjoy your content but am very sad for your loss. I’m sure he was proud of the man you’ve become.
I wasn't going to say anything but since you brought up the shirt, I just wanna say that from the thumbnail I thought you were wearing a sundress 👗 Edit: 😢 condolences.
I'm new to your channel and this happened to be the 1st video I watched. I t truly touched my ❤ What a beautiful story in honor of your dad. I love the photo of your parents. What a good looking couple! 💞 LOVE AND LIGHT 🌺💫🕊🦋
Don’t cry because you miss him, cry because you’re happy that you got to spend time with him. May he rest in peace
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Very nicely said. Hugs to you ♥️
beautiful quote, just remember that you can be sad to lose someone though
@@cole88 EXCUSE ME?!??!
Well why would he be happy that he can't spend time with his family anymore💀
Sorry for your loss Charles!
We all know your pain
We are here for you and love you! ❤️
i dont know his pain
@@nomerxxymashups5602 we all will one day
@@aussiemma8426 fair
@@nomerxxymashups5602 unfortunately you will sometimes 🥥
Unbridled, uncontrollable deepest pain in your soul💔
To anyone who sees this: I hope that everyone had a good Christmas and I hope you all have a great New Year!
I lost my father 42 years ago at the age of 7. In the last 8 months I've lost my brother to suicide and my mother to a broken heart. I'm really struggling with this.
my condolences man
man that sounds really hard... sorry for your losses..
i hope you have a loving wife and children for the support
Shit dude that’s rough i wish you and everyone involved the best
Im am sorry for your loss and I hope you are okay
That sounds really tough man…One advice: don’t give up! You got this! Life’s a battle and everyone is going through hard times. At the end of the day, try to have an optimistic mindset. I know it’s probably extremely painful sometimes, but…don’t give up.
I saw the community tab and broke into tears, I felt so sorry for you. Because not everyone on UA-cam feels confident to share some deeper stuff, I’m sure that almost everyone here feels your struggles and I will pray for you and your family to recover from this injury
Charles, this is David P's dad. We met at the wedding in June. I am so sorry for your loss. Based on my own experience, losing one's Dad is a big deal. But I hope you get the strength to continue with your life using your Dad's memory as a reason to move on. I am sure that's what he wanted. It's good to talk about it as you are doing. Than you for sharing.
Your son is one of my best friends and thank you for watching/writing this.
Hey why are you making polls to insult Africa? Africa has clean water in almost every city or town it's only in the villages that don't have clean water. Even places that don't have clean water have factories that purify the water and bottles them and uses it for domestic purposes. Also there is Internet everywhere in Africa so please just stop with these ignorant polls.
I’m so humbled and impressed with you being vulnerable and sharing. I completely relate and understand.
Sorry for your lost. Your Dad would be proud of you.
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@@be2657This is sad. Being a fucking grammar geek is the wrong time.
I'm really sorry for your loss man. I've seen so many ppl lose they're mothers and fathers and I know how terrible it was for them so I can only imagine how much it's affecting you. I hope you can heal over time, ily man🤙
I lost my dad 20 years ago and still miss him to this day. I am sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to spend the last few days with him. Praying for comfort, peace, and strength during this difficult time 🙏🏻
RIP to your dad may he rest peacefully in heaven forever 😢
My deepest condolences lad. I love your content, and I'm sure your old man would only want you to keep growing and getting better.
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That shirt is gay.
Grow up.
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you gay right?
I’m so sorry bro. When I lost my grandpa to cancer I got messed up on drugs and attempted to self delete. I still feel lost he was the one who raised me before my parents got their lives straightened out.
I’m so sorry RIP to your grandpa may he rest peacefully in heaven F Cancer😢
I lost my dad when i was 8, about 5 years ago. I relate to you a lot. I miss my dad too.
I’m so sorry, I also lost my dad earlier this year. I used to watch tv a lot with my dad, sometimes I invite him to watch with me now. I miss him.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your grief ❤❤❤ the power in comfort from strangers is something that can’t be explained, but is undeniably miraculous ❤❤❤ nothing but pure love for you and your family
My deepest of condolences and thoughts and prayers are with you all in your current situation and I hope god or whoever you may believe in is taking good care of him and I’m sure that he, Coco and all of your other loved ones will be watching over you until you meet again
Stay strong my friend and may your dad rest in peace ❤️💕🕊
Charles is an atheist, so to him he's never seeing these people or animals agian. Dude is going through a lot, loss hits different when you don't have/believe in that comfort.
I hope he's doing as okay as he could possibly be.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your loved ones. We appreciate you being willing to share during this tough time.
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You are a nice man
God will rest his soul
I will pray for him
Dont, this guy is an atheist.
This is Terrible RIP to your dog cocunut, your Aunt’s Husband, your Mom, and your dad I pray that they rest peacefully in heaven also cancer sucks😢
I lost my dad in July, 😢. I hope you find peace and comfort within your family. My dad passed away at home.❤
RIP to your dad may he rest in peace 😢
Your awesome. Bless you. Take some Clariton.
Praying for your family in this time of trauma and healing. It’s even harder when the parent lived with you so take things slow 🙏 ❤ thank you for your content and sharing your story. Your dad knows how talented you are and he’s still there.
I can definitely tell you’re in pain, but you’re holding together amazingly well. Take your time, feel better. Make him proud.
I lost my mom in Jan my dad in March- my heart is with you honestly and God bless you after sneezing. I’m just so sorry.
Stay strong man 💪it’s crazy how much I have a connection like we know you based off polls is wild hope you had an amazing holiday Rip 🙏🖤
My heart breaks for you. Losing a beloved parent is never easy, and worse right at the holidays. You deserve some time to process and no worries, the fans of your work will still be here. Take care of yourself.
rip to your dad I'm so sorry for your loss
What a cool/genuine/kind person you are Charles, merry xmas. 😊
So sad about your dad. You sound JUST like him when you speak. He must’ve been so proud of you and have been so happy to live with you.
Sorry to hear about your loss
Take the time you need and heal is hard but remember the good times you share with him and all the love he showed. I miss my grandparents and it still hurts but I always remember the good times and food we shared. Sending you a warm hug 🙂💛
You went through something so traumatic, and there's a lot of grief ahead but keep doing what you're doing. Sending you hugs and prayers ❤️ do whatever you need to do get through this. This video was touching and genuine and your community supports you!
If you ever read this Charles, first of all my condolences to you and your family. Losing someone you loved most especially from your own family is one of the worst and painful feeling you'll ever experience but I hope you will still continue to become stronger, become happier and most importantly continuing to do whatever you love, whatever your heart desires. Because I know for sure that's what your father wants for you and your family too. He's proud of you Charles. Never back down and keep your head high!
I’m so sorry that you lost your Aunt’s Husband, Your mom to cancer, your dad, and Coconut May they all Rest In Peace in Heaven F Cancer 😢
Truly sorry for your loss
I’m not lol
@@be2657 I’m looking at all of your comments and just wondering why are you doing this? Genuinely curious
@@Mike2Gud what are you talking about
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I think everyone has lost someone or something this year but if we all stick together we’ll be ok we need to keep our heads up and look to the future and be happy about the time we got to spend with them. I hope everyone stays safe and I hope everyone can feel better in the new year. Wishing you the best everyone especially you Charles stay strong and safe
Bro im so sorry for your loss. It just came out of no where and I can feel your pain. I am terribly sorry. Everyone is here for you charles ❤
I can't imagine your loss, my deepest condolences. Praying for you
I'm so sorry for your loss, Charles. I hope you can make it through this rough part of your life, stay strong king.
RIP To Cocunut may they rest peacefully in heaven along with your Dad and Aunt’s Husband
Sounds like your father had a strong influence in your life. Make him proud!
Extremely sorry for your loss, sounds like he was a really awesome guy. Stay strong 🙏
This all reminds me of my last few days with my mother before she passed away 5 years ago. It all happened so quickly and if I could go back I’d change if
I'm sorry for your loss
My condolences
The snowman playing the piano is the exact one my sister has that we got for her this year
You are SO beautiful.PERIOD.
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Bless you!
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Awww!!! One of the last photos of my grandmother was of me asking her to give the finger to the cam. She did, and I posted... She laughed, afterwards.😄
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I'm so sorry that you had to find him...😓
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My grandaunt was named Evelyn.
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15:45 Beautiful!!
Worst time of the year to lose someone
Sounds like your father was a great guy with lots of people who loved him. I hope you and your family are doing alright considering.
Hope you can keep holding on friend. If you ever feel like reaching out, please do. We all would love to help you
That includes each and every one of you friends. Happy holidays
You just know the moment he saw his father's lifeless body he thought to himself: "NEW CONTENT"
nah ☠
My grandmothers who died 3 months within each other really hit my family hard. So then I spend time with my mothers family(her 2 brothers wives and their kidw(2 each)). They died a year ago. So from now on every Christmas me and my aunts and uncles and cousins and whoever wants to join tells their favorite stories of my mothers grandmother as a way to remember. We went through all my family’s photos and stuff. Going back to some of my great grandparents stuff like their Austria Hungary and American passports. Along with pictures from the 80s and 70s. Another way to remember. Even though they’re not here with us physically as long we remember them they’re never gone.
I think anyone can understand the enormity of your loss, and I am so glad to see you able to channel your thoughts into some sort of outlet that helps you in such a time of grief. It never goes away, as I’m sure you know, but the grief hopefully will begin to fill with those amazing memories you shared together. Take the time YOU need to be better in your headspace brother.
Hey man I lost my dad very suddenly to undiagnosed lung cancer back in 2021. He was actually in the hospital waiting for his first biopsy following admission when it happened. Nothing can really ever express how a sudden loss of someone close ever feels and nothing anyone says makes it any better. However it does get easier to live with in time. Please take time to grieve and to get any support you need
My Father's Death anniversary was on the 29th of December between Christmas and New Year's. I remember how the shock of his Death propelled me toward being contemplative about my own future and the goals within that vision...I realized later on that it was precisely that...shock. The harrowing trauma sometimes causes one to focus on anything BUT the actual devastation and Death. That will set in later but watching you felt quite relatable. My Mother Died in 2022 and I too am a fairly young person with two deceased Parents whom I miss and long for with ever fibre of my being. Have strength, Charles. 🥀
Hi Charlie, I just watched the entire video, I just wanted to say thanks for sharing, you are so brave, I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure it was not easy what you went through, I lost mine when I was 24 years old and he was 55, just know that your dad still lives on in your heart and all those great memories you shared together. I'm sure both your parents are very proud of you wherever they might be and would support you on whatever you decide to do from now on. Sending you a big hug and wishing you peace in your heart.
Bros always high
I Maybe Late, but I’m so sorry for your Loss. I couldn’t even imagine what would happen if I lost my dad. My condolences to you and your family. I pray that you hold it together. Your not in this alone, me your fans, family, your friends, We got you man ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
Today is my first encounter with you. Your story brought me to tears a few times. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and your mom. I lost both of my parents within 3 years of each other when I was in my late 20s and early 30s. It was a challenge. You sound like you will make it through the losses--you seem resilient. But there still is grief and a sense of loss. i have to say that while you were talking, I wanted to reach out to you and give you a hug. I wish the best for you, and I hope your plans/dreams come to fruition. BTW, as a physician myself, I must say to you that you and your siblings are at risk--sounds like your dad's family has some bad cardiovascular genes. So, be sure to have preventive care.
I lost my dad in February 2021. I miss him till this day 😢😢😢
who asked?
@@ewwww199 mf tryna be edgy so badly
Thank you for everything. We're keeping you in our thoughts. The difficult times will pass
God damn man, I completely feel your pain, I lost my father on March 1st of this year (2023) haunts me every silent moment. He was a lead singer, every rock song between 1950-2005 brings me to the verge of tears every time. 🫂 Good luck dude, it fucking sucks. Glad you guys were so close. I took care of my father (he was a liver transplant patient and schizophrenic) I took care of him by myself 24/7 between. The age of 16 (I quit school) and 37.
What a horrible shock for you to awake to, I'm so sorry. At least it was quick.. if that helps at all. Damn dude, I'm so sorry.
Long liv yo pop that hurt me kno i be hurt lost my pops keeo your head ip fam
So sorry Charles, I hope you've begun to heal brother 🙏🏾
Which dad?
🎀My condolences to you and your family on your loss.🎀
Hey you, I wanted to just take a moment and tell you that my heart goes out to you. I’ve just spent every day of the last week, except for Christmas visiting one of the clients I work at the nonprofit. I spent every evening reading to her for 2 to 3 hours when she was in an unconscious state, hoping that she would get better sadly on Monday she passed as I was there, and it was utterly devastating so my heart goes out to you and your family right now. But I wanted to tell you that you have this remarkable ability to transform your suffering into motivation, everyone goes through what they call a dark night of the soul. These are periods in our life where we feel that everything is collapsing around us, and everything that we knew a solid disappears however, life keeps going that doesn’t mean that it won’t hurt like hell. But you’re clearly surrounded by people that love you. And you have such strength of will. Never underestimate how much strength you have inside. I’m sending you a lot of love right now. Be well, my friend.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family 🙏
Having a long formed video where you could simply talk and share was a pleasant surprise due to unfortunate circumstances. I enjoy your content but am very sad for your loss. I’m sure he was proud of the man you’ve become.
Love you man
Sicko.....cancel this Guy!
Agreed
How
@@dakota9367 just comment on his hair...this will make him cancel himself. He will implode.
@@link77ism again wtf are u talking about
@@link77ism Is your name Robert by any chance?
sorry for your loss.
💗 i lost my dad as well. It hurts in a different way.. sending you so much love Charles
losing someone on Christmas must feel worse than usual, so sorry for your loss!
I am so sorry to hear this. 🥺🥺
I lost my dad 6 months ago. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you! Here's an air hug!
You are in my prayer keep your head up we are all thinking of you god bless you
I am sorry for your loss. May your father rest in peace.
We are never ready to say goodbye to those we love ❤️
and that love lives on in your heart .
Life is so hard I'm here for you.
Sorry for you loss man, I can see the hurt in this video and truly feel sorry. Take care of yourself man your an amazing person
Love bro❤️
Sorry for your loss
So sorry for your lost I love your take time to take care of yourself we will love and care about u
I wasn't going to say anything but since you brought up the shirt, I just wanna say that from the thumbnail I thought you were wearing a sundress 👗
Edit: 😢 condolences.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Remember to take time for yourself!
We can wait on the shorts if you need.
Sorry for your loss 💀
Sorry but.. I laugh so hard with the skull emoji💀
Your parents looked like models! I’m sorry to hear about the death of your Dad, I’ll be praying for you and your family
Sorry for your loss. I hope you can come to terms with this as painlessly as possible.
🙏🏽
Very sorry for your loss
Awwww
I'm new to your channel and this happened to be the 1st video I watched. I t truly touched my ❤ What a beautiful story in honor of your dad. I love the photo of your parents. What a good looking couple! 💞 LOVE AND LIGHT 🌺💫🕊🦋
Again I am really sorry for your lost !
Sorry for what happened, may the universe grant you peace and the energy to move forward.
wtf i clicked on your page because i saw a post of you talking about how your dad was proud of your mark cuban interview