1. Feelings burried alive don't die. 2. Importance of fasting 3. Address the trash. 4. Marriage is not a cure. 5. Knowledge of a unified front 6. Learn to listen. 7. Let a man lead.
The FASTING breakdown from Tanisha was an EXCELLENT nugget!! Teaching yourself to deny self to be better in relationships! Whew!! That was so good! I receive that wise counsel.
"Maybe God is not talking to you about what's next because you are not maximising what's now..." "We refuse to die here in the wilderness, when You have called us to the Promised Land." ❤❤
ahhhhh Tanisha my sister!!!! I'm over here crying my eyes out!! 😭😭😭😭 you're speaking directly to me! I'm recently divorced and healing and reading books, listening to podcasts and videos on relationships and healing and doing tons of work on myself but losing hope at times cause I see zero kingdom men . God's got me. Thank you so much for this!!!!
YEESSSS - Marriage will expose all your wounds & issues (your fear of loneliness, your jealousy, power struggle & controlling issue) ithat one yet to heal ✨🙌✨ This series is powerfully revealing the TRUTH that Marriage or Your Partner will never complete Y💟U - ONLY Lord Jesus's love and grace can heal & fill that bottomless VOID in oneself 🙏😇🙏 L❤️VE Y🌹U Both Mr & Mrs Flowers! ✨🌹🌹✨
Y’all don’t understand the leap that my soul does when I get the UA-cam notification from this series! This has blessed me in more ways than y’all could imagine 🥰❤️❤️❤️
This literally bought tears to my eyes... I just want what God says... to build with someone just doesn’t happen.. we need so much direction from God.. teach me how to listen Lord!
Today I pray for you..a heart free of sadness, a mind free of worries, a life full of gladness, a body free of illness and a day full of God's blessings. Amen ❤💕💚💕💙💕🌻
God first has to work on us individually prior ....we first have to go to him to unpack our past mess ... releasing the old garbage we no longer need. God helps us to declutter in order for him to establish a solid secure foundation for him to build us up on
My husband and I have been married 30 years and by God's grace we are doing well but I wish we had learned these things prior to saying "I do". We would have avoided lots of bumps along the way! Excellent teaching and so real!
I have to be honest.. I'm the woman that has lost all hope at this point. I've been celibate for two years just focusing on continuing to be obedient with God, career and family. The selection of men out here is just unreal. It feels like not many women out here with morals are left in the world, that's why it's so hard for me and other women. The men want something easy and I'm considered difficult. It just feels very lonely at times. It takes the patience of Job to not get frustrated and question God's timing.. Pray for me!, today is just not good day..🙏🙏
My sister 2 years try 11, I still have faith and I do feel you about the alone part, I've been told to compromise, I refuse, I've been told I'm difficult too.
Waiting on the Lord can be challenging but He doesn't disappoint when His promises comes to pass. Abraham and Sarah waited 25yrs, Moses 40yrs, David 20yrs, and Joseph 13yrs. I myself am waiting for a promise to come to pass and it has been years. These stories from the Bible keep me encouraged and it shows that God is FAITHFUL. My favorite scripture to speak over myself when I have my weak moments is from Lamentations 3:25-27 from the Living Bible Translation which is "The Lord is wonderfully good to those who wait for Him". Also someone told me that it will be WORTH THE WAIT.
I hope you two do a message on the ins and outs of the season before engagement in a relationship. Boundaries and how to be intentional in dating.... we don’t know how to do this right or what even is right ...
I thank you Pastor Jerry and First lady Tanisha for speaking the truth. Marriage is a ministry, but not everyone is called to it. For far too long, because of seeing others get married, I thought that it was something I needed to do, like it was the moment of "arriving" in life. I am thankful that I stopped believing that lie. Not many will ever understand this truth. But, the truth it is.
Their argument sound like so many married people I know. A lot of them are like that, in the church, and it's sad. Teaching how not to be, but not teaching how to be a helper.
I love y'all so much just because you mirror a real relationship even on camera. Y'all ain't afraid to show emotion and say whatever between you in the moment. That "realness" helps. 🙏 May God bless you in all your endeavors. Keep giving the word. We need it and I love it!
I love this Ministry. I love that REAL LIFE issues are being addressed. I love that you both give SCRIPTURE to shine LIGHT, which is THE WORD of God to expose darkness. I love that you bring clarity, knowledge and the wisdom of God in every series! Thank you for helping us to CRUSH the head of the devil! #WorldChanger
I heard this live and listening again & Its blessing me all over again 😅 I dont even know yall but I love y'all so much! If y'all only knew! I was delayed because of my prayer at age 11 to be whole and healed before I say I do. But I am not denied. I am a missionary but I know I am also called to marry 😇 I know my husband is doing his work and we are deserving of each other and worth our waiting Tanesha! God wont let me wait so long to give me trash! Mighty God! I am a treasure and he is my earthly King 😍 Love you Flowers ❤
I love these sermons and series, so thankful my daughter sent me a link from 2021 cuffing season. Its as if you were talking about my life. I cannot do, fasting. I was blessed with a faith based Dr who told me, Wendy, with your heart conditions dont do that again. Theres other ways to deny flesh....2022, im trying to find ways to "fast," im seriously done "going around the same mountain, for 36 years." 2022 is getting back right with God. I hate this person ive allowed myself to become....
I need this word so much because I'm in a relationship where we tried to build something together most of the time it ends up just like the example u showed us in the sermon. I know that it's because we still had single work to do. Please pray for me 🙏 I just wanted to let this off my chest.
Right now, my heart is under construction and I am proud to be where I am now. Far away from were I once was. Thing’s are elevating in my spiritual walk with Christ. Walking by faith!! I’m now able to pour and be refilled at the same time in this walk. Lord, I thank you!!!
39:46 is a mic drop reality statement. That lifestyle of fasting! I deploy what I call the "narcissist test". It will now include an investigation of the fasting lifestyle or lack of! Thank God for using y'all to release that Revelation.
AMEN...!!! GOD BLESS YOU TANISHA MARRIAGE ALWAYS AND FOREVER, Please continue to serve OUR PRECIOUS KING JESUS CHRIST AND OUR MERCIFUL FATHER ALWAYS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT ALWAYS
This series is incredible. Best sermons I’ve heard in a while and I have spent the last 3 months listening to endless. All types. Many were good but this is next level.
Love how the Man of God broke down the key of the leadership of the man, God being the "head" of the house whole, the man receiving the wisdom from God to lead his family in all Christ's wisdom To speak on Naomi saying," the marriage is similar to the God Head",which is true, for fact that in the God Head has to be a selfless act in order for the existence which is equivalent to "AGAPE LOVE!" "All FOR THE OTHER NONE FOR SELF!" Father the power! Jesus Christ the word or wisdom! The Holy Spirit the love and teacher! Power without Wsdom is distruction and Wisdom without Power is useless! Love the series! the beginning was such a lesson for me! Blessings to you King and you to your Queen sir!
This series is such a blessing!! I’ve sent this to my single friends and married friends. I will say, I wish y’all could have given us more Bible to go along with all of these points, but I’m excited to what’s to come! Having Bible with each point will be the word that cuts through bone and marrow. I appreciate you both sharing your story for single people, like myself, to press into what God has for me to best prepare myself for what is coming. Thank you for what you do!
Wooo wooo wooo! . This was sooooo Good.... Took PLENTY from this ... Lord show me the other trash bags I may be missing and let me take it out.. More Grace and Anointing to you both
Its clear after this why my behind is divorced. I have always been one to take accountability for me and my areas of brokenness. However, a lot of work goes into nurturing a man. I have just as much childhood trauma as a man. I need to be nutured too.
AMEN! God truly is teaching me how to walk in the spirit beside getting controlled by my emotions. And I am so thankful that I search healing from his hands. It's a rough process sometimes but one I would never want to miss. Nothing better than to loose ones trash Greetings from your sister in Christ
This is a great great great message. Thanks so very very much for sharing your lives. Thanks again for sharing with us black folks. You have a powerful calling in the kingdom of GOD. We as a people truly need this teaching right after salvation. My God. Ya have exposed our enemies. Our flesh, wanting our way. And our trash. Our trash individually. No wonder the enemy fights the young black people. I see it now. God is using you young folks in the kingdom to educate us about us. Thank you.
Your marriage to God has to be paramount because tomorrow is not promised to any of us so you may never experience a physical marriage on this earth. But when you take all that they're saying in this teaching and apply it to your relationship with God FIRST, we'll be better prepared for marriage spiritually and physically. Literally!!!
“A man who doesn’t pray is arrogant.” WHEW!!
1. Feelings burried alive don't die.
2. Importance of fasting
3. Address the trash.
4. Marriage is not a cure.
5. Knowledge of a unified front
6. Learn to listen.
7. Let a man lead.
💕🙏
Thank you, Lilia.
This message is straight out anointed. Thank you for sharing
Under construction...marriage next year
AMEN. Thanks for sharing. God bless. ❤❤❤
"God will wreck your plans before they wreck you" whew!!🙌🏾
AMEN! Marriage is not an upgrade, it’s a mission/ministry!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She cant take her eyes Off 😍..can't wait to look up to my husband like that with such adoration
I always notice that too. Such a beautiful thing.
Amen to that Our time is coming 🙏🏽
Same sis! 🥰
@@letsbefruitful5457 amen to that💗
"Marriage is not an upgrade, it is a mission" OH MY !!
To hear No season is wasted brings Joy to my heart I really felt it was
Yes it does. "All things work together for those who love *who love God* and are called according to His" Rom 8:28
Amen
It does. Lean on that daily. Every season is purposeful to God.
I love when they both preach together! God bless them!
They are so powerful together!
The FASTING breakdown from Tanisha was an EXCELLENT nugget!! Teaching yourself to deny self to be better in relationships! Whew!! That was so good! I receive that wise counsel.
This is so good! At the age of 46, God has provided me such peace and contentment in being single. My heart is definitely under construction.
"Maybe God is not talking to you about what's next
because you are not maximising what's now..."
"We refuse to die here in the wilderness, when You have called us to the Promised Land." ❤❤
ahhhhh Tanisha my sister!!!! I'm over here crying my eyes out!! 😭😭😭😭 you're speaking directly to me! I'm recently divorced and healing and reading books, listening to podcasts and videos on relationships and healing and doing tons of work on myself but losing hope at times cause I see zero kingdom men . God's got me. Thank you so much for this!!!!
YEESSSS - Marriage will expose all your wounds & issues (your fear of loneliness, your jealousy, power struggle & controlling issue) ithat one yet to heal ✨🙌✨
This series is powerfully revealing the TRUTH that Marriage or Your Partner will never complete Y💟U - ONLY Lord Jesus's love and grace can heal & fill that bottomless VOID in oneself 🙏😇🙏
L❤️VE Y🌹U Both Mr & Mrs Flowers! ✨🌹🌹✨
“Stop talking and build” - Tanisha Flowers
“...AFTER THAT, build your house.” Amen!!
My God 🙏🏾 they preached the church down, didn't they? Such a timely word
Y’all don’t understand the leap that my soul does when I get the UA-cam notification from
this series! This has blessed me in more ways than y’all could imagine 🥰❤️❤️❤️
This literally bought tears to my eyes... I just want what God says... to build with someone just doesn’t happen.. we need so much direction from God.. teach me how to listen Lord!
Jerry, Thank you for giving your wife a chance to talk to us 🤝🏽
Under construction 🚧, closed for healing 🙌🏾
" how about they can only handle ur rock bottom but not ur level up" 😳 facts many men can't handle that ..
Those are the ones with control issues.. Red flag 🚩 He should definitely want you to grow. Run 🏃♀️ 🙌
Now this is goals. This is how in sync I want to be with my husband.
“No season is wasted “ drop the 🎤 What a word👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Today I pray for you..a heart free of sadness, a mind free of worries, a life full of gladness, a body free of illness and a day full of God's blessings. Amen ❤💕💚💕💙💕🌻
Amen
Amen i receive it
Hi
Amen I receive it
I pray you get those as well!
Your issues only get magnified when you're married, they don't dissappear. Amen Queen!
Marriage is NOT the cure. Work on yourself FIRST! Maximize yourself NOW!❤️💯🙏🏾
God first has to work on us individually prior ....we first have to go to him to unpack our past mess ... releasing the old garbage we no longer need. God helps us to declutter in order for him to establish a solid secure foundation for him to build us up on
My husband and I have been married 30 years and by God's grace we are doing well but I wish we had learned these things prior to saying "I do". We would have avoided lots of bumps along the way! Excellent teaching and so real!
I have to be honest.. I'm the woman that has lost all hope at this point. I've been celibate for two years just focusing on continuing to be obedient with God, career and family. The selection of men out here is just unreal. It feels like not many women out here with morals are left in the world, that's why it's so hard for me and other women. The men want something easy and I'm considered difficult. It just feels very lonely at times.
It takes the patience of Job to not get frustrated and question God's timing..
Pray for me!, today is just not good day..🙏🙏
My sister 2 years try 11, I still have faith and I do feel you about the alone part, I've been told to compromise, I refuse, I've been told I'm difficult too.
@@helenadair32 I commend you, eleven years.. Goodness. It truly gets hard at times..🙏🙏
Waiting on the Lord can be challenging but He doesn't disappoint when His promises comes to pass.
Abraham and Sarah waited 25yrs, Moses 40yrs, David 20yrs, and Joseph 13yrs.
I myself am waiting for a promise to come to pass and it has been years. These stories from the Bible keep me encouraged and it shows that God is FAITHFUL. My favorite scripture to speak over myself when I have my weak moments is from Lamentations 3:25-27 from the Living Bible Translation which is "The Lord is wonderfully good to those who wait for Him". Also someone told me that it will be WORTH THE WAIT.
Girl I feel you. Not much to choose from and most want easy or dumb.
@@constancereynolds3110 thanks, I remember this scripture, just one of those days..🙏🙏
Ok this Whole sermon needs to be a play in real life cause that acting skit was on point!💯👍
i thought it was a real fight
I hope you two do a message on the ins and outs of the season before engagement in a relationship. Boundaries and how to be intentional in dating.... we don’t know how to do this right or what even is right ...
This would be so good. I'm right at this point.
I thank you Pastor Jerry and First lady Tanisha for speaking the truth. Marriage is a ministry, but not everyone is called to it. For far too long, because of seeing others get married, I thought that it was something I needed to do, like it was the moment of "arriving" in life. I am thankful that I stopped believing that lie. Not many will ever understand this truth. But, the truth it is.
Cuffing Season series has been 🔥 from the first word of Part 1. I can’t stay away!! Thank you!
Hearing “marriage exposes” gets to me so much!
Their argument sound like so many married people I know. A lot of them are like that, in the church, and it's sad. Teaching how not to be, but not teaching how to be a helper.
AGATHERING144 on UA-cam will teach you 👍🏾
I thought it was real at one point
I love y'all so much just because you mirror a real relationship even on camera. Y'all ain't afraid to show emotion and say whatever between you in the moment. That "realness" helps. 🙏 May God bless you in all your endeavors. Keep giving the word. We need it and I love it!
I love this Ministry. I love that REAL LIFE issues are being addressed. I love that you both give SCRIPTURE to shine LIGHT, which is THE WORD of God to expose darkness. I love that you bring clarity, knowledge and the wisdom of God in every series! Thank you for helping us to CRUSH the head of the devil!
#WorldChanger
God is the HEAD of the marriage.
I heard this live and listening again & Its blessing me all over again 😅
I dont even know yall but I love y'all so much!
If y'all only knew! I was delayed because of my prayer at age 11 to be whole and healed before I say I do. But I am not denied. I am a missionary but I know I am also called to marry 😇 I know my husband is doing his work and we are deserving of each other and worth our waiting
Tanesha! God wont let me wait so long to give me trash! Mighty God! I am a treasure and he is my earthly King 😍
Love you Flowers ❤
I love these sermons and series, so thankful my daughter sent me a link from 2021 cuffing season. Its as if you were talking about my life. I cannot do, fasting. I was blessed with a faith based Dr who told me, Wendy, with your heart conditions dont do that again. Theres other ways to deny flesh....2022, im trying to find ways to "fast," im seriously done "going around the same mountain, for 36 years." 2022 is getting back right with God. I hate this person ive allowed myself to become....
Right now my heart is under construction
I need this word so much because I'm in a relationship where we tried to build something together most of the time it ends up just like the example u showed us in the sermon. I know that it's because we still had single work to do. Please pray for me 🙏 I just wanted to let this off my chest.
AFTER THAT!!! I’m under construction closed for now!!! Love y’all!! Awesome word!! ♥️
the Lord has been leading me to fast so much this year and change my diet, the second point makes so much sense to me!
Same!
Right now, my heart is under construction and I am proud to be where I am now. Far away from were I once was. Thing’s are elevating in my spiritual walk with Christ. Walking by faith!! I’m now able to pour and be refilled at the same time in this walk. Lord, I thank you!!!
Favorite line "Stop talking and Build" come through Ms. Flowers🙌❤
39:46 is a mic drop reality statement. That lifestyle of fasting! I deploy what I call the "narcissist test". It will now include an investigation of the fasting lifestyle or lack of! Thank God for using y'all to release that Revelation.
😂 at 3:50. YEP, YEP. I've said before, if it touches a woman's heart, it's etched in her memory.
AMEN...!!! GOD BLESS YOU TANISHA MARRIAGE ALWAYS AND FOREVER, Please continue to serve OUR PRECIOUS KING JESUS CHRIST AND OUR MERCIFUL FATHER ALWAYS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT ALWAYS
"Marriage is a ministry and everyone isn't call to it" ......true wisdom 💯🙏
Incredible. Every word is passionately set on fire straight from Heaven. Praise God!
I love this series. Y'all never fail to crack me up. Great vibes, great message! Thank you.
Listen here the way this just blessed my soul!!
Rightttt!
This is really good teaching; thank you!
I like that... marriage is a MISSION! 🔥 You both will have a covenant with God
Holy moly this stuff is truly life changing and so necessary...you are both annointed so much for this ...thank you so much ...blessings
'GOD you gotta have something else in the back'😳😁🤣🤣🤣🤣💯☝🏾🙏🏾💪🏾⚓❤
Looking for Gods next shipment 📦 😆
Awesome, Awesome, Awesome....great job Jerry and Tanisha....great job 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tanisha is GLOWING!!
This series is incredible. Best sermons I’ve heard in a while and I have spent the last 3 months listening to endless. All types. Many were good but this is next level.
Not rejection. It's redirection! That's good!
Love how the Man of God broke down the key of the leadership of the man, God being the "head" of the house whole, the man receiving the wisdom from God to lead his family in all Christ's wisdom
To speak on Naomi saying," the marriage is similar to the God Head",which is true, for fact that in the God Head has to be a selfless act in order for the existence which is equivalent to "AGAPE LOVE!"
"All FOR THE OTHER NONE FOR SELF!" Father the power! Jesus Christ the word or wisdom! The Holy Spirit the love and teacher! Power without Wsdom is distruction and Wisdom without Power is useless!
Love the series! the beginning was such a lesson for me! Blessings to you King and you to your Queen sir!
Right now my heart, my life! Is under construction!!!! Hallelujah Thank you Jesus!!!!!
Always excellent, detailed, thorough, easy to understand teaching!!
This series is such a blessing!! I’ve sent this to my single friends and married friends. I will say, I wish y’all could have given us more Bible to go along with all of these points, but I’m excited to what’s to come! Having Bible with each point will be the word that cuts through bone and marrow. I appreciate you both sharing your story for single people, like myself, to press into what God has for me to best prepare myself for what is coming. Thank you for what you do!
I refuse to die in the wilderness when you have called on me, Lord! Thank you, Jesus!!!
RIGHT NOW, I AM UNDER CONSTRUCTION 🚧 RIGHT NOW I NEED TO HEAL, I NEED TO BECOME !
LORD HEAL ME🥺
Amen right now my heart is under construction
Thank you Mr and Mrs Flowers
My heart is under construction 🚧 🌹❤️❤️
These series gets better and better! Because of your obedience and love for Christ we are able to be blessed with these messages 🙌🏾
Thank you God for wrecking my plans before they wrecked me! Praise be to God for preparing me to be a helpmeet and knowing what I need!
My heart is always under regularly scheduled maintenance! Making sure no issues are overlooked and unaddressed :-)
Wooo wooo wooo! . This was sooooo Good.... Took PLENTY from this ... Lord show me the other trash bags I may be missing and let me take it out.. More Grace and Anointing to you both
Watched this and I saw the wisdom God has placed on you guys thank you for this message this helps me become a Godly man.
Hallelujah AFTER THAT...build the house 🏡
Amen!!!_frm Philippines
This is a blog i usually watch..both are really smart frm Gods wisdom and knowledge.both u Godbless 😁😍🤗
May God continue to Bless You and thank you so much!
Its clear after this why my behind is divorced. I have always been one to take accountability for me and my areas of brokenness. However, a lot of work goes into nurturing a man. I have just as much childhood trauma as a man. I need to be nutured too.
I've heard this in marriage so much by people who've been married. If a spouse is not emotionally healthy, it's going to be tough
You can't build a house until you deal with outdoor work such as; attitude, pity, forgiveness, etc.
Crucial knowledge I need for my journey with my wife
AMEN!
God truly is teaching me how to walk in the spirit beside getting controlled by my emotions. And I am so thankful that I search healing from his hands. It's a rough process sometimes but one I would never want to miss. Nothing better than to loose ones trash
Greetings from your sister in Christ
This is a great great great message. Thanks so very very much for sharing your lives. Thanks again for sharing with us black folks. You have a powerful calling in the kingdom of GOD. We as a people truly need this teaching right after salvation. My God. Ya have exposed our enemies. Our flesh, wanting our way. And our trash. Our trash individually. No wonder the enemy fights the young black people. I see it now. God is using you young folks in the kingdom to educate us about us. Thank you.
POWERFUL. Thank you for this.
This was so helpful! I believe this wisdom will produce good fruit in my life
Thank you for all you do, this helps me so much for the future and what God has in store for my future generations 🙏🏽
Getting a husband can’t be our main focus. Keep serving God faithfully.
Yes God thank you for this. I for one neefed to here this. It helped me identify with alot.
My heart is underconstruction. 🙋♀️
Wow this is so good I never got this growing up I’m church never ever man this is so good thank you soooooooo much from the bottom of my heart🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
It's ok to admit that my ♥️ is under construction! I like that perspective!
This message was so powerful!!! They hit the hammer on the nail
Right Now My Heart Is Under Construction!!!
55:00 - 58:14 is so powerful, especially in this society where us women are being taught we can go it alone...
Thank you Mrs. Flower's for your obedience to the word❤🌻
This right here was everythinggg !!
MY HEART IS DEFINITELY UNDER CONSTRUCTION..AMEN 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
preach pastor Jerry AMEN
I love this series. My heart is under 🏗. Speak Holy Ghost. Love this man and lady of God continue in God's work
Your marriage to God has to be paramount because tomorrow is not promised to any of us so you may never experience a physical marriage on this earth. But when you take all that they're saying in this teaching and apply it to your relationship with God FIRST, we'll be better prepared for marriage spiritually and physically. Literally!!!