As a married woman I can confirm that this video is 100% true. Main reason I still listen to Tony is because I’ve been taking his advice since before I was married and still get nuggets of wisdom that I can apply to my marriage and life in general.
@@zero1188 from what I'm seeing the men are still going for a certain look of a woman. And women are accepting and moving too fast with the wrong character of a guy. We're out here in relationships with strangers. My cousin told me the boyfriend stage ain't nothing when yal move in that's when it's serious and I don't believe that. He cheats all the time. At this point in my life I have to take several seat lbvs it's piss in the pool and nobody wants to get out smh
@@RITTAAREE well when it comes to moving in, thing people don’t consider is, when going on dates your mainly meeting the exciting high energy version of the person. But when moving in, your seeing the person on their down time. When they moody or just not in the mood. Its not that people change, its that you never seen the person when they are just living without trying to impress you.
Man! Anybody else notice the "puppy dog" TG turns into when his wife enters the room? I just love their love! Lol! 🤣 But, good stuff, Tony. I love the sober reality check of marriage. It's not just about sex. For real! So many other caveats and nuances involved. Stay woke, folks! Keep pushing us forward, TG! 😊💯💪🏽
Mr Gaskins, not sure if you’re aware but Balenciaga released an ad campaign featuring children holding teddy bears in bondage harnesses, alcoholic drinks, and other disturbing imagery. It was like a dog whistle to pedos. Most ppl have completely boycotted the brand (no longer buy or wear any of their clothing). Hopefully you’ll see this.
Great video...the one thing I strongly believe at my core is that you can't do marriage without God. The world gives us the fantasy but God gives us the reality.
Tell them again Tony!! Sex does not define a relationship! Some days you or your partner may be going through a stressful week. Yes and your partner could come down with a life threatening disease. Trust me sex will not be on your mind! And the relationship not based solely off sex can still be happy. Because the day your partner gets sick or pregnant and that relationship is based mainly ofd sex. Trust and believe they'll be looking for their fix elsewhere!
Your content is so practical and real. Most of us single ppl have absolutely no reliable or meaningful content to watch or healthy marriages to even look up to. Most of the content I see from married ppl only show the good fairytale side of marriage. Single ppl are sharing what they think works, and most of us don’t even have access to a healthy married couple in our day to day lives to seek counsel from. Keep doing the lord’s work 😊
The pee convo💀😅 Lol "I don't care if you do drink water all day it still stank, Absolutey not finna pee on me or my floor" 😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY quit being nasty
I feel if sex is like food in a marriage then your marriage is based off lust or self gratification. I believe people need to pray for Wisdom like Solomon. I prayed for it myself and trust me my mother call me for advice and I am not married. Nor is she, however, praryer is powerful! When I listen to TG it is either confirmation and or I am learning to see things from a different perspective. God Bless All🙏🏽 -May I add, I have chosen not to be married, I am believing in God for A "Real Man of God," nothing less🙏🏼
Uncle Tony you are refreshingly counter culture! I will not stray from this wisdom you take the time to give us! You are saving lives because you are saving our minds! Thank you! Sending you gratitude!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony always says what needs to be said. We are getting terrible advice out here. It sounds wrong too so very grateful to have good married folks that share❤
One of the realest videos you ever done… Not “ lock jaw”😂😂😂. But your right.😐 Most of the married men that try to holler always say” we only together for the kids” or “ we never have sex anymore”…. Dirty dogs
I have Hidrinitis and it’s incurable and causes scars lumps,bumps and is very painful. Mostly on inner thighs. Under and any closed body parts. It’s problematic an embarrassing. Love me from the inside out please 😢
49:25 i had a man stop talking to me because he could “sense” i wasn’t into fitness aka he thought i was fat. I am a dress size 6. This was a BLACK MAN & we’ve only been on two dates…he’s 35 single no kids and never been married. He came off really superficial and unrealistic
This is some real teaching right here! I listened from start to finish! So much wisdom. So much transparency. Loving the content TG! From the short videos, to the talks with tony, to your more in-depth content! The word is going forth 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
You’re hilarious 😂😂😂 and speak the truth all in one! The woman on the phone because she gotta take out the trash😂😂 Dodo, on the chest! 🤣you be having me dying laughing Mr. Gaskins! Keep up the good work 👍🏾👏🏾
This message is extremely healthy for both men and women. This help / teache men not only discipline but also the real meaning of sex. Thank you. I watched a video, today, that you made 2 years ago. Around the last 45 minutes of the video I received confirmation from your ministry that was told to me, telepathically, that I would receive. Keep it real and stay on track. You’ll probably have your church or ministry center pretty soon. One never knows ☺️☺️.
I noticed that a lot of people who give relationship advice either taking other people’s content and twisting things up. The make sex the foundation of everything
Tony, I appreciate your transparency, especially as a millennial, I find your content refreshing and real. I don’t even listen to those unrealistic creators, I hope one day you and this psychologist out of Atlanta are able to collab, he is also married and teaching about healthy and realistic love. I just laugh at Cheesecake Factory being considered low budget when it is in wealthy areas 😂. I have had Allen Iverson hold the door open for me at the Cheescake Factory so I ain’t worried about the toxic podcast people 😂.
25:49- 26:25 is truth marriage is beautiful to Imperfect people coming together under God's union I believe God is pruning us to love our spouse like Jesus loves us for his glory, then In between that life happens I could explain more
This message is So PROFOUND!! Truly thank you for continuing to Give us Godly Wisdom!! I’m a single divorced woman n even being married I didn’t realize what a healthy marriage took.. but grateful I’m getting the teaching and understanding now, for my NEXT❤️🩹
I’m asking does it matter if the parent/parents don’t like your spouse….and is that grounds for divorce? I’m currently married newly married at that but I’m asking because I don’t want to give up on my marriage.
The other thing is...when you grow up in a two parent household...and you hear people talk about marriage? Folks sound so delusional. All singles are not delulu. ROFL! If you watched your parents stick together for 40 years through death, grief, illness, job loss, crazy kids, etc...I think you are better prepared for reality.
I'm Married. I take the Trash out More than my Husband. My husband does 90% of all the Cooking. Im a great cook & he has no problem with taking out the trash and he does. Do whatever is best for YOUR marriage.
6:36 Too many relationships are built on sex and they fail as a result. Trust AND believe it takes MORE than sex to sustain and maintain a loving relationship.
I love how easily and willingly distracted you are when Mrs. Gaskins steps in the room 😂. I love how you give her your full attention and interest no matter what you’re fussing at us about! Go Mr. & Mrs. G!
You are one of the few people I listen to about relationships. I have completely tuned out of all these social media relationship and dating hot takes. They are way too toxic and a bunch of petty and irreverent conversations
Keep teaching us, Tony! Thank you. Naturally, everyone won’t listen but some are taking notes and will be the next generation of marriages that push the Kingdom forward!
Sex is overrated what's not overrated is a Love built on God's Standards Communication Understanding Empathy a Great Marriage sex is 10% and Mr Gaskins all the said above getting married for sex in for rude awakening
Good message Tony. People don’t seem to care about character anymore. It’s all superficial right down to the credit score. Things like credit score and cooking skills can be improved.
Thank you Tony A man I dated for while told me he only wanted head no sex, sex doesn't satisfy him but he would do it one time to get a child. Sounded suspect to me I am Glad I LEFT quick
A chilvarous man with Godly character and a good credit score (financial maturity) is wonderful! Seeing an elderly man still open the door for his elderly wife is heart-warming. These days, many men will let a door close in your face and not even look back. Women claim that they can talk like a man, be a man, a father, etc., and so REAL men are giving you the treatment as a man. No, thanks! Ladies, please be sure to thank a man for each act of chilvary. Let's not take it for granted!
🏆 Best marriage advice award goes to Mr Tony Gaskins Jr ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 👏🏽👏🏽HALLELUJAH ❤❤ how much is their character worth ? Y'all worried about the wrong things...
Too many people believe the idea that marriage should be “a sleepover with your best friend everyday.” It’s a childish mindset that people have not grown out of
Parents have been married 31 years and my mom takes the thrash out and dad cleans the house. These traditional roles are totally obsolete when it comes down to it. Keep teaching the real Tony
Hello from the UK Mr Gaskins . I think people confuse sex with intimacy. that's what I think people confuse. thank you for your raw straight forward lessons it saved my life. God bless you , your beautiful wife and you amazing boys💛
I love how when your wife comes into the room you just stop what you doing and give her all your attention and that smile that's on your face is priceless. That's how it's suppose to be
I just LOVE how you talked to your wife when she came into the room. You can SEE the love and adoration you have for her! Just beautiful! And everything you said is ON POINT! Also, PLEASE keep your Southern accent. It’s beautiful, down-to-earth, sometimes comical (when intended) and refreshing. God Bless You Tony Gaskins!
Good morning The dating scene is horrible, and I’m 39. I refused to settle. Tony can you just start a match group and hook me up with someone ?🤣 serious though, I live in GA
I love taking out the trash. At least it is an accomplishment I can see done and makes a HUGE difference in my space.Done. take the task off the list...many times before my son gets up or gets to it (Hubbyof 40yrs deceasedRIP❤)
As a married woman I can confirm that this video is 100% true. Main reason I still listen to Tony is because I’ve been taking his advice since before I was married and still get nuggets of wisdom that I can apply to my marriage and life in general.
Men aren't excepting flaws now days. You piss them off or confronting them about something you're uncomfortable with they ready to let you go...
Funny because men say the same about women wanting them to be perfect. Both sides dont want to appreciate each other
So let them go. Planet got too many humans anyways. Bad company is not better than no company.
@@zero1188 from what I'm seeing the men are still going for a certain look of a woman. And women are accepting and moving too fast with the wrong character of a guy. We're out here in relationships with strangers. My cousin told me the boyfriend stage ain't nothing when yal move in that's when it's serious and I don't believe that. He cheats all the time. At this point in my life I have to take several seat lbvs it's piss in the pool and nobody wants to get out smh
@@RITTAAREE well when it comes to moving in, thing people don’t consider is, when going on dates your mainly meeting the exciting high energy version of the person. But when moving in, your seeing the person on their down time. When they moody or just not in the mood. Its not that people change, its that you never seen the person when they are just living without trying to impress you.
Man! Anybody else notice the "puppy dog" TG turns into when his wife enters the room? I just love their love! Lol! 🤣 But, good stuff, Tony. I love the sober reality check of marriage. It's not just about sex. For real! So many other caveats and nuances involved. Stay woke, folks! Keep pushing us forward, TG! 😊💯💪🏽
I was just going to say this as well! It’s so sweet, he gets so giddy when his wife enters the room, bless them!
Mr Gaskins, not sure if you’re aware but Balenciaga released an ad campaign featuring children holding teddy bears in bondage harnesses, alcoholic drinks, and other disturbing imagery. It was like a dog whistle to pedos. Most ppl have completely boycotted the brand (no longer buy or wear any of their clothing). Hopefully you’ll see this.
I was just about to comment about this. Thanks for giving him a heads up.
@@dmariethomas 👍
Marriage is not for the weak!
I don't even know any healthy happy couples that are married. smh
I was thinking the same thing…like Yeesh…am I up the creek without a paddle?
Great video...the one thing I strongly believe at my core is that you can't do marriage without God. The world gives us the fantasy but God gives us the reality.
As a child of God, especially & absolutely! 🙏🏾
Amen, When it's In you it's In you 🙏🏽
Unfortunately, this is why I feel like marriages will become less and less. Social media has gotten our heads messed up frfr
Always was interested in knowing how your parents divorcing impacted you.
What’s meant for people will find them, when they’re ready. Folks who are supposed to be married still will be.
Facts!
🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯
Take your mind back
Man when I say Tony keep it REAL!!!!!😂😮💨 please don’t change we need this !
Yess! The conversation is so important because people put sex on a pedestal when that us the icing on the cake not the main point if marriage.
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Tell them again Tony!! Sex does not define a relationship! Some days you or your partner may be going through a stressful week. Yes and your partner could come down with a life threatening disease. Trust me sex will not be on your mind! And the relationship not based solely off sex can still be happy. Because the day your partner gets sick or pregnant and that relationship is based mainly ofd sex. Trust and believe they'll be looking for their fix elsewhere!
Your content is so practical and real. Most of us single ppl have absolutely no reliable or meaningful content to watch or healthy marriages to even look up to. Most of the content I see from married ppl only show the good fairytale side of marriage. Single ppl are sharing what they think works, and most of us don’t even have access to a healthy married couple in our day to day lives to seek counsel from. Keep doing the lord’s work 😊
A lot of my family members are in happy, healthy marriages. Beautiful for them
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the side bar disclaimer
The pee convo💀😅 Lol "I don't care if you do drink water all day it still stank, Absolutey not finna pee on me or my floor" 😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY quit being nasty
right and all I drink is water, so I know that is disgusting
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love how you look at your wife. You can tell that’s your “dream girl”❤
I feel if sex is like food in a marriage then your marriage is based off lust or self gratification.
I believe people need to pray for Wisdom like Solomon. I prayed for it myself and trust me my mother call me for advice and I am not married. Nor is she, however, praryer is powerful! When I listen to TG it is either confirmation and or I am learning to see things from a different perspective. God Bless All🙏🏽
-May I add, I have chosen not to be married, I am believing in God for A "Real Man of God," nothing less🙏🏼
Uncle Tony you are refreshingly counter culture! I will not stray from this wisdom you take the time to give us! You are saving lives because you are saving our minds! Thank you! Sending you gratitude!
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Tony, Tony, say it, Louder 📢 love your messages. 💙🙏🏼
👍Yes speak Tony 🤺 fight against 👏 the nonsense and delusions 💯
I should’ve passed away 6 yrs ago if sex was that important 😂
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony always says what needs to be said. We are getting terrible advice out here. It sounds wrong too so very grateful to have good married folks that share❤
One of the realest videos you ever done… Not “ lock jaw”😂😂😂. But your right.😐 Most of the married men that try to holler always say” we only together for the kids” or “ we never have sex anymore”…. Dirty dogs
I have Hidrinitis and it’s incurable and causes scars lumps,bumps and is very painful. Mostly on inner thighs. Under and any closed body parts. It’s problematic an embarrassing. Love me from the inside out please 😢
Thank you for allowing God to use you always. We need these kind of messages no one else is discussing marriage from the correct perspective.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣There’s days has taken me out🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
49:25 i had a man stop talking to me because he could “sense” i wasn’t into fitness aka he thought i was fat. I am a dress size 6. This was a BLACK MAN & we’ve only been on two dates…he’s 35 single no kids and never been married. He came off really superficial and unrealistic
PREACH, Tony! 🙌
This is some real teaching right here! I listened from start to finish! So much wisdom. So much transparency. Loving the content TG! From the short videos, to the talks with tony, to your more in-depth content! The word is going forth 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Thank you, Tony! This is so true!
Yes, Thank you Tony
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “Lord Forgive Me” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I Fully understand 😩😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jesus be sick of me sometimes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You’re hilarious 😂😂😂 and speak the truth all in one! The woman on the phone because she gotta take out the trash😂😂 Dodo, on the chest! 🤣you be having me dying laughing Mr. Gaskins! Keep up the good work 👍🏾👏🏾
I swear I be cracking up! 😂
You be breaking it down in BITS not pieces ok😂😂😂😂too real
Oh wow lol she really said that? She's talking about herself bc that's crazy smh.
Well i should have been dead years and years ago if sex was like life. smh
Your pretty 😍
You speak some truth right here
You going to get a rash 😂 . I almost fell off my bed. You’re speaking facts per usual.
Thank you so much for this video.
Great advice Tony! Im learning more and more that character is the key. Thank you!
This message is extremely healthy for both men and women. This help / teache men not only discipline but also the real meaning of sex. Thank you. I watched a video, today, that you made 2 years ago. Around the last 45 minutes of the video I received confirmation from your ministry that was told to me, telepathically, that I would receive. Keep it real and stay on track. You’ll probably have your church or ministry center pretty soon. One never knows ☺️☺️.
All I can say is that God is looking down on his creation, shaking his head in disbelief.😮😮😮
I noticed that a lot of people who give relationship advice either taking other people’s content and twisting things up. The make sex the foundation of everything
Tony, I appreciate your transparency, especially as a millennial, I find your content refreshing and real. I don’t even listen to those unrealistic creators, I hope one day you and this psychologist out of Atlanta are able to collab, he is also married and teaching about healthy and realistic love. I just laugh at Cheesecake Factory being considered low budget when it is in wealthy areas 😂. I have had Allen Iverson hold the door open for me at the Cheescake Factory so I ain’t worried about the toxic podcast people 😂.
We appreciate u Tony. Keep going 💯✝️💪🏽
25:49- 26:25 is truth marriage is beautiful to Imperfect people coming together under God's union I believe God is pruning us to love our spouse like Jesus loves us for his glory, then In between that life happens
I could explain more
I agree with you. That's my mindset on marriage
Tony you are a sho nuff REALIST!😂🤣😂🤣
Well said. Also married, and you have mindfully and firmly articulated elements of genuine marriage.
I agree it effects you unconsciously in ur daily conversations
Great advice!!!
i wish i had married friends--i don't really have friends but if i did, i'd prefer to have successfully married ones
come on tony put it into perspective (opening doors and cooking) that’s good ‼️
This is hilarious! lol
27:30-29:00...hilarious but so true teach us brother.
Tony, this was amazing content. Please make more videos like this!!
Preach Tony! ❤❤❤
I’m just listening 👂
Amen speak 🙏🏾🙌🏽
Facts! 💯💯💯💯💯
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Tony just say it😅
This message is So PROFOUND!! Truly thank you for continuing to Give us Godly Wisdom!! I’m a single divorced woman n even being married I didn’t realize what a healthy marriage took.. but grateful I’m getting the teaching and understanding now, for my NEXT❤️🩹
In here 👏
98% of the old man thinks the same.Jazabel spirit on the PNS.,😭
😂 😂😂 I grown hairs
i wonder how many men agree with this lmfao
I’m asking does it matter if the parent/parents don’t like your spouse….and is that grounds for divorce? I’m currently married newly married at that but I’m asking because I don’t want to give up on my marriage.
you're just being too real
The other thing is...when you grow up in a two parent household...and you hear people talk about marriage? Folks sound so delusional.
All singles are not delulu. ROFL! If you watched your parents stick together for 40 years through death, grief, illness, job loss, crazy kids, etc...I think you are better prepared for reality.
EVERYBODY NEEDS TO HEAR THIS!!! I'm sending this to my married Sister!!! You should change this title to include married folk too!!! ✊🏾❤️✊🏾❤️✊🏾❤️
😅😅😅😅
I'm Married. I take the Trash out More than my Husband. My husband does 90% of all the Cooking. Im a great cook & he has no problem with taking out the trash and he does. Do whatever is best for YOUR marriage.
This. People think marriage is masculine and feminine BS. In reality people do what works
That's the way it should be.
6:36
Too many relationships are built on sex and they fail as a result. Trust AND believe it takes MORE than sex to sustain and maintain a loving relationship.
True
Facts.
I love how easily and willingly distracted you are when Mrs. Gaskins steps in the room 😂. I love how you give her your full attention and interest no matter what you’re fussing at us about! Go Mr. & Mrs. G!
Yeah his face and tone changes and everything 🤣😆🙌
You are one of the few people I listen to about relationships. I have completely tuned out of all these social media relationship and dating hot takes. They are way too toxic and a bunch of petty and irreverent conversations
same here..
Keep teaching us, Tony! Thank you. Naturally, everyone won’t listen but some are taking notes and will be the next generation of marriages that push the Kingdom forward!
Sex is overrated what's not overrated is a Love built on God's Standards Communication Understanding Empathy a Great Marriage sex is 10% and Mr Gaskins all the said above getting married for sex in for rude awakening
Tony too kind 🤣🤣🤣 "she pretty to somebody" 😆😆😆
24:49 -
25:50
C’mon now. Amen
Talk about it!
Married 15 years and still going…….by the grace of God🙏🏾
Good message Tony. People don’t seem to care about character anymore. It’s all superficial right down to the credit score. Things like credit score and cooking skills can be improved.
Thank you Tony
A man I dated for while told me he only wanted head no sex, sex doesn't satisfy him but he would do it one time to get a child.
Sounded suspect to me
I am Glad I LEFT quick
DL fo sho 😂🎉
A chilvarous man with Godly character and a good credit score (financial maturity) is wonderful! Seeing an elderly man still open the door for his elderly wife is heart-warming. These days, many men will let a door close in your face and not even look back. Women claim that they can talk like a man, be a man, a father, etc., and so REAL men are giving you the treatment as a man. No, thanks!
Ladies, please be sure to thank a man for each act of chilvary. Let's not take it for granted!
This video deserves way more likes
This is one of the most realest videos Tony has ever posted!! And I’m here for it
So glad this conversation was provided. Thank you😊
🏆 Best marriage advice award goes to Mr Tony Gaskins Jr ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 👏🏽👏🏽HALLELUJAH ❤❤ how much is their character worth ? Y'all worried about the wrong things...
I’m laughing so hard trying to stay focused on the message! 😂😂😂😂
Wow. I’m 24 and this is helping me. I never knew this was wrong lol
That smack and eye roll 😂😭
😂😂😂 I felt so immature when the diarrhea caught me off guard..😂😂
This content is fantastic. Thank you so much for this anointed message. Much needed. 🙏🏼
Too many people believe the idea that marriage should be “a sleepover with your best friend everyday.” It’s a childish mindset that people have not grown out of
so real 🎯
No fairytale it’s work
Parents have been married 31 years and my mom takes the thrash out and dad cleans the house. These traditional roles are totally obsolete when it comes down to it. Keep teaching the real Tony
Hello from the UK Mr Gaskins . I think people confuse sex with intimacy. that's what I think people confuse. thank you for your raw straight forward lessons it saved my life. God bless you , your beautiful wife and you amazing boys💛
I love how when your wife comes into the room you just stop what you doing and give her all your attention and that smile that's on your face is priceless. That's how it's suppose to be
I just LOVE how you talked to your wife when she came into the room. You can SEE the love and adoration you have for her! Just beautiful! And everything you said is ON POINT! Also, PLEASE keep your Southern accent. It’s beautiful, down-to-earth, sometimes comical (when intended) and refreshing. God Bless You Tony Gaskins!
Good morning
The dating scene is horrible, and I’m 39. I refused to settle. Tony can you just start a match group and hook me up with someone ?🤣 serious though, I live in GA
A lot of singles with no sense make it hard for singles with sense! 👏🏾
I love taking out the trash. At least it is an accomplishment I can see done and makes a HUGE difference in my space.Done. take the task off the list...many times before my son gets up or gets to it
(Hubbyof 40yrs deceasedRIP❤)
His face lights up when he sees his wife. I love it!!!
10:32
Lol 😂but true. Time moves on and so does life and IF we live long enough our bodies WILL change.