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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +9

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  • @lovewins3321
    @lovewins3321 5 місяців тому +193

    Here's the thing. For woman to have all these conversations with a man he has to be conscious enough to even comprehend that you have feelings and they matter

    • @msakapolly84
      @msakapolly84 4 місяці тому +11

      Yes because even when women are vulnerable.. many men feel like we are overreacting or being too emotional and sensitive/being too much but I guess it is what it is

    • @Wendyiss
      @Wendyiss 4 місяці тому +9

      Oh my god this is so true and sad at the same time. Why are men sooo disconnected from their or other people's emotions?

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +5

      True, and this will also make sure it's very clear to him and there are no mis-understandings or false assumptions which can help a lot

    • @RS-ov2st
      @RS-ov2st 2 місяці тому +1

      Relationships are supposed to be about loving each other , not finding someone to beat down and serve you. Man, or woman.

  • @lisac7191
    @lisac7191 4 місяці тому +4

    Unfortunately I'm a woman 19yrs single cos I got sick of always being the giver met to many takers & I'm shut down now.

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +2

      Yes exactly, the masculine energy gives and the feminine is the receiving energy like with sex or in a dance

  • @dearhumanityihaveaquestion
    @dearhumanityihaveaquestion 4 місяці тому

    What if you tried this tactic for years and it didn't work? So you were forced into your masculine to make things happen for your kids? Needless to say, all respect was lost and haven't been together for several years now, but still have to deal with being in the 'masculine role" because he won't take the role/never has. Do you have any insight as to when this just **doesn't work** for a man? Why they don't have the instinct to take their masculine role? I encouraged his masculine and played the femme role for a few years. Then, had to step in because he wasn't taking lead.

  • @Stoiclady777
    @Stoiclady777 5 місяців тому +307

    You're right a women shouldn't always have to ask to hang out or do things. It's not her job to make plans It's his job to initiate things if he wants to see you.❤

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +5

      Exactly

    • @Stoiclady777
      @Stoiclady777 4 місяці тому +6

      @MagnetizeYourMan I think sometimes it's the fear of the unknown when emotions are high that keeps a man from initiating real communication in an outside setting. Especially if he feels there is a spark their he can be afraid of what might happen.

  • @billie-ocean8286
    @billie-ocean8286 5 місяців тому +141

    Ladies If a man doesn’t want u there’s simply nothing u can do unless u want to make a fool of yourself because if your going to push away but then when he calls still go over to see him you’ve given him all the space he needs to fk other women just walk away and keep your head up

    • @lisabarcia7107
      @lisabarcia7107 4 місяці тому +4

      I'm totally starting to really agree with this! Especially when they never are the ones to initiate or make plans. Only if they incenuate you know what only.

  • @ebonyreynolds204
    @ebonyreynolds204 5 місяців тому +60

    He's right but sometimes it not always the woman. Sometimes woman is in her feminine it's just the man isn't in his masculine.

  • @janet8982
    @janet8982 4 місяці тому +118

    These ideas do not apply to a selfish narcissistic man. My husband works, golfs and sports TV. I have expressed my feelings many times, even left however he does not step up. He was not loved unconditionally as a child and is damaged. I’m old and don’t want to divorce. It’s very sad to be married and will never have the closeness one should have in a marriage. I go and do things and he sits on the couch. I miss not having what I deserve but it’s too late for me. All I can say is be very careful on who you marry.

    • @MICHELLEGALE-fg4iz
      @MICHELLEGALE-fg4iz 4 місяці тому +13

      🙏All you should know is to believe and trust in your heart, your Holy Spirit and all this Trust is in your heart ❤️🙏

    • @unistudent4002
      @unistudent4002 4 місяці тому +31

      Janet, I promise you that as long as you are alive, it is not too late. People find love in their 80s, people find love in their 50s. Do yourself a favour, and open the door to real love.

    • @ridelikethewind4703
      @ridelikethewind4703 4 місяці тому +25

      You deserve to be happy and loved . I left a Narcissistic ex-husband with a lot of $. I don't have alot of $ but I have peace.

    • @mdance445
      @mdance445 4 місяці тому +1

      He should check testosterone too

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +5

      I would keep practicing what you're learning here with him and what we teach around Magnetic Feminine Polarity and Magnetic Feminine Communication, there are some very important distinctions the can make all of the difference even with a more emotionally damaged man and ultimately after they 90-Day Challenge you may have to be willing to walk away (or accept if you're ok with it as it is like you mentioned)

  • @tachacastilho
    @tachacastilho 5 місяців тому +73

    I shared all these thoughts with my Ex and he didn’t take any initiative to change, so that’s why he is an Ex now 😅 not all men are willing to change or care about what’s bothering us.

  • @jesuisunepetitefruit
    @jesuisunepetitefruit 4 місяці тому +8

    these videos are so fucking toxic. What about clear communication, mutual respect, honesty etc etc. Both partners need to be equally committed to the relationship. All this video does is reinforce game playing and put the responsibility and work yet again on the woman. If a man is chasing other women wtf you want him for? Just came here to tell everyone that.

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +1

      This is actually the anti-games method to be as vulnerable and honest with a man as possible which is why it is so effective

  • @ZandreBeau
    @ZandreBeau 3 місяці тому +8

    There’s no way I’m ever going to ask him why he hasn’t asked me out. If he hasn’t done it it’s obviously cuz he doesn’t want to. And I guess you’re right and is time for me to move on 😑

  • @MindyabusinessB
    @MindyabusinessB 4 місяці тому +20

    Brilliantly done!
    I think, deep down the majority of women, crave and desire to have the man that they’re with take the lead on such things. Definitely a very attractive quality. And as you said, it makes a woman feel secure and safe in the relationship. Thank you for sharing your wisdom on this.

  • @faeriesart9647
    @faeriesart9647 5 місяців тому +28

    He is not a good planner, he told me from the beginning but he asks what I’d like and he takes
    Initiative to take me, but I’m not used to a man not planning as much…
    He did plan a full day recently which was a surprise..😊

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +3

      Awesome to hear he's starting to take that on more! :)

  • @Perseverance1843
    @Perseverance1843 5 місяців тому +32

    This is how I felt. That he doesn't care even though I try to open up and I'm the only one opening up.

  • @margaritagomez3490
    @margaritagomez3490 4 місяці тому +17

    The thing is you have to let him be the man to feel needed and appreciated. If a woman just takes over cause we can do it right then and faster, he will feel like she don’t need him….

  • @chelseajackman7730
    @chelseajackman7730 5 місяців тому +13

    I want to make it clear that I think it's good to spoil him, plan and pay for a date especially for him, pamper him, etc. Not all the time. Gotta give him a chance to lead, sure, but ladies, this doesn't mean we can't or shouldn't take the reins once in a while to treat him like a king. We all have masculine and feminine energies within us; whichever one you're grounded in is how you operate by default, but it's good and healthy to be a whole person and switch into the opposite once in a while. Allow him to relax and receive while you step forward and give. In a dance (ballroomer here) the follower MUST step forward and the leader MUST step back in order to keep the basic flowing.

  • @Acquasimone123
    @Acquasimone123 5 місяців тому +6

    Hes broke he can't organise & lead shit..😂

  • @user-cs1xz
    @user-cs1xz 5 місяців тому +25

    this is a major major issue i have w men and dating. no planning. wondering if were meeting. sometimes they give the day but not time or place and i cant pan my weekend. drives me crazy. tysm for this video!!!! soooo much value per usual w actual scripts and applicable advice! god bless thank you

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +1

      You're welcome! :)

    • @divinelight1090
      @divinelight1090 4 місяці тому +3

      The right man will always be there! If they’re not secure boy bye

    • @user-cs1xz
      @user-cs1xz 4 місяці тому

      @@divinelight1090 u are sooo right

  • @pookeesplace
    @pookeesplace 5 місяців тому +6

    I’m sorry but this doesn’t sound right this is all about mens egos a strong manly man isn’t threatened by a woman being an equal partner a relationship should be a two way street what you are describing is putting a woman in a position to be totally dependent on his mood and approval this doesn’t sound healthy as a Christian woman maybe that’s why I feel this way what you are describing doesn’t sound emotionally healthy for the female if I’m wrong I sincerely apologize but my gut had huge red flags on a lot of what you are saying.

  • @acvr8974
    @acvr8974 5 місяців тому +10

    And what if the man is a weak character and is unable/unwilling to organise anything at all?

    • @johndoe8923_is_obsessedwithme
      @johndoe8923_is_obsessedwithme 4 місяці тому +4

      Who would want to be with a man with weak character?

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +2

      Over time if you've been using what you use here with the 90-Day Magnetic Feminine Challenge and this is still the case you need to walk away

  • @LepaCallaway
    @LepaCallaway 4 місяці тому +10

    Is this for real? Am I talking to a toddler or a man? If I need to walk on egg shells and be careful about every word I say and how I say it...then I would rather be alone 😂

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +4

      No this is the opposite, it's about speaking up and sharing your feelings often with him in the right way

  • @tanyasharadamba1264
    @tanyasharadamba1264 4 місяці тому +12

    Meanwhile we're over here waiting for hell to freeze over, or this to ever happen. 💅🏼

  • @claregallacher2684
    @claregallacher2684 5 місяців тому +20

    Organising and planning depends on your dynamic. I do the majority of it as i am better at it and hubby is fine with that.

    • @dotlittle7891
      @dotlittle7891 4 місяці тому

      As long he initially suggests it… then u can like u say, b team… and help w it… maybe he can do 1/3 of it… ??

    • @claregallacher2684
      @claregallacher2684 4 місяці тому +4

      @@dotlittle7891 .... eh no. I do it because I'm better at it.

    • @kiradomochi4961
      @kiradomochi4961 4 місяці тому +1

      Same w my sister. She manages everything haha

  • @novahoskin2892
    @novahoskin2892 5 місяців тому +29

    Nope I'm 100% feminine and he was 100% masculine but walked out. Said he had to go work on himself😢

    • @itsyevette836
      @itsyevette836 4 місяці тому +1

      Going through this now

    • @novahoskin2892
      @novahoskin2892 2 місяці тому

      @@itsyevette836 sending love, hugs and encouragement to help you through this difficult time

  • @eprophil
    @eprophil 5 місяців тому +6

    That’s begging, because a man knows to ask you out and take you out It’s because he doesn’t want to be with you.

  • @SaraGomez-vn9nj
    @SaraGomez-vn9nj 4 місяці тому +9

    Whatever happened to it coming naturally we should not have to do all theses things to get the other to respond

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  4 місяці тому +4

      We are not taught masculine/feminine polarity in High School unfortunately so many of us are learning the opposite from media/culture/parents/friends etc.

  • @Delbays1
    @Delbays1 4 місяці тому +3

    I don’t think that i will say: I don’t know what to do, when I axactly know what to do..
    Women don’t want to play helpless and dumb just to protect men from the consequences of theyr mistakes.

  • @karenweaver9606
    @karenweaver9606 5 місяців тому +52

    No, I don’t do any of that, he does all that! The planning, and does all of the necessities! I show my happiness to him, plus I tell him that I appreciate him, for all his efforts and planning! I do wait for him to ask me to do something or go to some place out to eat! He has started calling me just to pass time while he waits on someone or something! Which wasn’t happening but now is!

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +5

      Awesome, great to hear Karen! :)

    • @billie-ocean8286
      @billie-ocean8286 5 місяців тому +1

      Well good for u Karen

    • @AishiteruMirae
      @AishiteruMirae 2 місяці тому

      I'm so happy for you! Manifesting this for my relationship as well❤

  • @liztoth4324
    @liztoth4324 3 місяці тому +5

    All this is perfect. However, it implies all guys have a reasonable response!

  • @Sassy387
    @Sassy387 4 місяці тому +7

    I feel like this is how it should be and then just understand that you are not in a good relationship if this is not how it is going for you. Otherwise there's not much you can do for someone who is not conscious and willing to do the work.

  • @janeenmaul9059
    @janeenmaul9059 2 місяці тому +2

    I understand what you're saying with this but it feels like playing a game to me. I'm very direct any to the point with what I need and want and expect the same in return. If he can't handle that, he's the wrong one for me. I don't want to spend my life playing a word game because he can't handle truth upfront.

  • @renoaczhary1232
    @renoaczhary1232 2 місяці тому +3

    Love it, thank you. Noq i understand why my past relationships doesnt work out because i was always taking the lead, i always fell for feminine men, until i realized i am tired for always being in my musculine energy. I didnt realized it before that there is feminine and musculine energy.

  • @jasminealexia
    @jasminealexia 4 місяці тому +8

    Great information! So refreshing to know that there are still masculine men out here 🙌🏽

  • @legaleagle4947
    @legaleagle4947 4 місяці тому +4

    I like the ‘I’m telling myself a story that…’ great opening for an honest conversation. Thank you ☺️

  • @JustUsSystemInc
    @JustUsSystemInc 5 місяців тому +6

    Can I do the I feel sad thing for a marriage proposal? We have been talking and planning our wedding but he has not gotten my ring yet. I don’t want to force. He accuses me of controlling and forcing

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +1

      Yes it's more advanced but can be super helpful, I'd recommend joining our coaching membership here if you haven't already and I will coach you on what to do: FemininePolarity.com

    • @mountain10
      @mountain10 5 місяців тому +1

      I’d go on a long vacation…

  • @jeanettebrooks1963
    @jeanettebrooks1963 5 місяців тому +5

    I love this concepts that the feminine is about the process and the masculine is about the outcome and we can just be completely detached. AND that feels a little air heady to me. Does it work to let him know I’m practicing this too?

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +2

      Better to just do it rather than tell him you're doing it (which would be trying to get an outcome which is masculine)

    • @jeanettebrooks1963
      @jeanettebrooks1963 5 місяців тому

      @@MagnetizeYourMan wow, didn’t think of that!

  • @jjcarr6606
    @jjcarr6606 4 місяці тому +3

    You know I listen to relationship coaching and dating coaching every day I live with my partner he is mentally disabled but he is a little bit narcissistic and I don't know if you knows it. This is absolutely the best advice I have heard in over 10 months. I will subscribe this guy knows what he's talking about. I feel relief inside finally

  • @XYZ-qu4yq
    @XYZ-qu4yq 5 місяців тому +4

    I would like to buy your couraes but not a coaching membership. Will it be possible, please?

  • @Musa-Mommy
    @Musa-Mommy 5 місяців тому +7

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾thank youuu!!! Love the information!

  • @clareoreilly7187
    @clareoreilly7187 5 місяців тому +7

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @XYZ-qu4yq
    @XYZ-qu4yq 5 місяців тому +9

    Spot on! Brilliant content! 👍

  • @Redstranded1975
    @Redstranded1975 5 місяців тому +10

    How is nurturing and giving him love masculine?!? These "rules" seem ridiculous, unnatural, unachievable and one sided. I give up 😔

  • @dianakurland2500
    @dianakurland2500 5 місяців тому +7

    Game playing

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  5 місяців тому +3

      This is actually the exact opposite of game playing, a man wants your honest vulnerability and open heart

  • @modcow12
    @modcow12 5 місяців тому +7

    Oh please 🙄 it’s not the 1950s! 😒

  • @ruthreuter9813
    @ruthreuter9813 13 днів тому

    Hmm, just by quitting making plans gets him to make plans? Idk..

  • @Linda220677
    @Linda220677 20 днів тому

    Is this the same with communication for example texting? I made the mistake of giving him my number and he did text and was initiating but then I felt like I was the one that fell into the role of initiating and now I've stopped doing so. Is this what I should be doing? Allowing him to initiate as I feel he has pulled away :(

  • @Domi-mf2db
    @Domi-mf2db 5 місяців тому +5

    What to do and what it means if he stopped meeting then appeard once and said I love and care about you and im not intrested in other girls but disspeard again, why he said i love and care but not gives time- before it was words and time and now just words,when i asked why he behave like this he didint know exactly why and before he never said something like this i guess he scary to say truth but why saying i love you and doing opposite he is now like different person suddenly by doing like this???

    • @Embodied.bliss.somatics
      @Embodied.bliss.somatics 5 місяців тому +6

      Continué dating other men. Don’t sleep with this man. If he wants to meet you, let him plan it.

    • @Jan-qv8ku
      @Jan-qv8ku 5 місяців тому +4

      Sounds like a narcissist with a side chick-

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 5 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like he's bipolar or something

    • @i.tsunami4258
      @i.tsunami4258 5 місяців тому +3

      Make your own decisions about what you want to do. Be true to yourself regardless of what he is doing and what other people are telling you. Maybe giving the situation some space will allow the answers you need to find you. Good luck 🍀

    • @terrygrondin5099
      @terrygrondin5099 5 місяців тому

      I am dating this guy and we have been on 5 dates. I really like him but he only ask me out once a week. This week he has not asked me out but we have talked on the phone and text but not daily. All our dates went well, we enjoy each other. Should I be concerned about this or should I ask him why?

  • @user-j7t8u
    @user-j7t8u 5 місяців тому +3

    I love this advice...straight forward... succinct... soft... thank you... and much love 💜

  • @Sparklyeyedmisfit
    @Sparklyeyedmisfit 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for posting this video. Im learning new things about men.

  • @Xkasia-n1o
    @Xkasia-n1o 4 місяці тому +1

    Ja dziekuje za mojego męża❤️czemu ja to widzę jak ja mam męża 🤦‍♀️

  • @annfl07
    @annfl07 10 днів тому

    But how can we tell him to do something if we have a useful idea for them?

  • @Ra_Q
    @Ra_Q 5 місяців тому +6

    Soo good

  • @megand5672
    @megand5672 Місяць тому

    Organizing the house is feminine!

  • @modcow12
    @modcow12 5 місяців тому +1

    Safe from who!? Men!?? LMAO 😂

  • @enderl5761
    @enderl5761 2 місяці тому

    Great insights, Matt esp 7:50-8:20 that femininity is about feelings & the problem & process, & even being detached from the outcome.
    I’m facing a critical juncture re my soulmate. So he matters. Any advice pls?

  • @estelasuruiz2157
    @estelasuruiz2157 5 місяців тому +3

    Good advice 😃 I appreciate that❤

  • @RS-ov2st
    @RS-ov2st 2 місяці тому

    As long as a woman isn’t brow beating a man disrespectfully, or harassing , both partners should have the ability to help, express, organize, plan and achieve together, as long as you both are desirable of the same goals and in agreement. You should discuss and plan together. Especially if it’s something that involves , or affects both of your lives. Both partners needs, ideas desires should be equally recognized and valued. If a woman has to make herself small, or invisible, or less than , just to have a man love her or treat her as a human being, then his ego is too large, he has issues that are insecure and can’t feel manly without devaluing a woman, or someone that he feels he can get away with mentally abusing to feel bigger and better about himself. It’s called a partnership. A relationship, not a subservient slavery . Serving each other. A woman is not a brainless shell, a robot, or a slave. I do not believe in women being masculine or devaluing men , no more than I agree with men devaluing women. Women can emasculate a man, I agree, but men also are guilty of emotional brow beating women as well. I do not completely support your ideas here, but believe that couples should always discuss their plans together and proceed in agreement of however they both have decided what works for them and their lives together as a couple. Sometimes we as people are better at something, where others are not. If couples can recognize and agree on how to approach things in unison, I think that is a plus. If you can recognize your partners strengths and value them in ways that can be of help for the both of you, I do not see anything wrong with that. A husband can be good at some things, while a woman may have gifts in other valuable ares. God gave each of us talents and gifts for a reason. He gave the man a woman as a companion and as a helpmate, not a less than. They were to love and work , share together. Not beneath, or above. If a man feels that threatened by a woman’s thoughts and opinions then he already entered the relationship with previous deep seated insecurities about his own self and lack of masculinity . A grown man, is confident and secure in his masculinity and is never threatened by a woman, her thoughts, or her opinions. He can confidently stand in his place with confidence and deal with things wisely without disrespecting , or humiliating his wife, or himself and knows the importance of making his partner feel valued. Men who lack self confidence and feel the need to humiliate and disrespect the value of their partner , or feels threatened by their partners thoughts, opinions, or abilities in order to build his self esteem, is by no means , a man, but a grown boy. No matter if you are the wife , or the husband, you should always demonstrate love, respect, honor and value towards your spouse for their masculinity, femininity, identity, personality, their talents, and abilities. After all, aren’t those supposed to be the things we love about them as a person to begin with. Utilize your partners strengths to the good of your relationship. Help one another. If it brings glory to the both of you, you both win. Let your partner shine. Brag on them. Don’t be jealous and childish. After all, they picked you for a reason. It should have been because they love you, all of you.

  • @linwelch9307
    @linwelch9307 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @btwthblood
    @btwthblood 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you!! I needed this today.

  • @NikkiElla622
    @NikkiElla622 4 місяці тому +1

    WOW this helps so much. I am finally meeting masculine men.❤❤

  • @user-MarysLittleApostle
    @user-MarysLittleApostle 4 місяці тому

    What if you don't mean to lead but here is a situation that i had texted to the guy i am interested in: I bought extra tickets by accident before i met him, to a concert and needed someone to give them to. So I asked him if he knew people who would be interested in the concert. I am already going with my mom and sister so I wasn't asking him to come with me. Does this count as giving in a masculine manner?

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 2 місяці тому

    😂 not sure what different countries are like but the men here don’t organise 💩 even the ex husband was only interested in organising his own stuff. I used to have to do it all otherwise the family would have sat at home

  • @ZohraTasleem
    @ZohraTasleem 5 місяців тому +3

    Very nice advice ❤

  • @anniemargareth7617
    @anniemargareth7617 4 місяці тому

    Why should I ask if I can share something with him? I would just tell him in the right moment.

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 4 місяці тому +1

    hmmm

  • @doctoragloria
    @doctoragloria 2 місяці тому

    What if it is his birthday and I want to invite him to eat out as a present 😢

  • @yotagerlie
    @yotagerlie 4 місяці тому

    Idk if this will even get notived BUT incase it does, ive liked a guy for 6 years weve spent time together and evrytime its great fun, yet he has always made it clear he isnt ready, i have asked him if hed consider dating me and he said yes, however its not the right timing. We lost touch for a couple months and now he would like to spend time again. We do NOT have sex so hes not after that. Hes very respectful in that aspect. So.. im scared.. dont want to get hurt or my hopes up. And trouble is now im actually getting to know another man. Who is good to me yet i have a feeling of unsureness with him. Also never truly letgo of this guy ive liked for 6 years. Hes always had the edge over anyone. Helppp what do i do how do i do it lol

    • @Rwashere28
      @Rwashere28 2 місяці тому +1

      Drop that other guy! He knows… if he truly liked you, he will ask you out and be in a relationship. It hurts but it’s best to be with someone who is 💯 sure he wants you…. So block that guy and start valuing yourself ok. You deserve better!!! Go out and date other men! Just have fun! You will be very happy!

  • @renevanderwesthuizen1520
    @renevanderwesthuizen1520 4 місяці тому +2

    I've always left everything up to a man.
    I never got a date or a boyfriend.
    Then I tried to be the initiator in my 30s. Still didn't work.
    Do men even know what they want? Because I don't.

    • @cassie668
      @cassie668 2 місяці тому

      Same. I’ve come to conclusions about myself that aren’t ideal, and because of those conclusions I’ve given up.😢

  • @user-yd2ee2cs2x
    @user-yd2ee2cs2x 4 місяці тому

    Sounds like women need to be in charge of this to.

  • @blackeneddove
    @blackeneddove 5 місяців тому +2

    What if I do this with my husband, but he just turns the planning around to me because he is “busy with work” or “that he doesn’t like planning and like to wing it/be spontaneous.” It has been years and years. I have always felt uncared for. There have even been times that I let him know I felt lonely with him and that I needed more attention from him and he told me that I didn’t and wouldn’t like it if he paid more attention to me. I don’t know what to do about this. He dismisses and ignores me often.

  • @TheAlixir
    @TheAlixir 3 місяці тому

    But in an event planner 🤷🏻‍♀️ lol!!!

  • @lyndamcmullen5506
    @lyndamcmullen5506 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Gs-qm1vr
    @Gs-qm1vr 3 місяці тому

    He lives in another country and i planned to go there 2 days how do i not ask him out on a date? If i dont maybe i go there all the way for nothing. And can i tell him am there?

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 місяці тому +1

      Say: "May I ask if we can talk on the phone?"

  • @consciouslysecureliving8106
    @consciouslysecureliving8106 4 місяці тому

    Very helpful…thank you very much 🙏🏾

  • @internationalpandaes
    @internationalpandaes 5 місяців тому +1

    😢 very helpful thank you

  • @gloryglory7399
    @gloryglory7399 4 місяці тому

    pov: I dunno what to do.!

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz 5 місяців тому

    Mine is not stepping up at all and when I mirror him he will complain that I don't check on him. just two days ago he asked me if I still love him which I'm... which i do not know what that supposed to mean for him
    Please what should I do because have told him to make time for us to get to know each other but still....

  • @suzyesco
    @suzyesco Місяць тому

    Excelente!!

  • @MEEMEETHATCAT
    @MEEMEETHATCAT 4 місяці тому

    You another one i like listening to .

  • @catialucero2373
    @catialucero2373 4 місяці тому

    💔💔💔💔

  • @brandy61
    @brandy61 4 місяці тому

    ♥️

  • @Texasgirl10
    @Texasgirl10 4 місяці тому

    💯💯💯

  • @rediettadesse2828
    @rediettadesse2828 4 місяці тому +1

    Haha awwww my bf was irritated when i make plan , now i now why its cus of his masculinity 😂❤

  • @godsanointedone5306
    @godsanointedone5306 4 місяці тому

    I went through the same thing, I tried suggesting dates and that didn’t work!!! He always screamed I was being to aggressive ……
    So you know what I did !? I started dressing up and taking myself on date’s . Now I know who and what I want because I lost myself in my marriage !!! However I found myself when I started dating myself ❤❤❤

  • @davejordan3131
    @davejordan3131 4 місяці тому

    Does this work with same sex couples 🌈👨‍❤️‍👨

  • @pingrowland7012
    @pingrowland7012 4 місяці тому

    What if he's married??😅

  • @MirandalindaL.A
    @MirandalindaL.A 5 місяців тому +8

    Great advice. Tgank you very much!❤

  • @jessenoelle262
    @jessenoelle262 4 місяці тому

    On behalf of those of us females who were raised with absolutely zero healthy masculine presence in the household, and thus had not the first clue on how to even begin imagining what this process should look like....I feel really grateful, thank you for sharing! 🙏🫶