Two Strangers Share Their Coming Out Stories For the First Time | Tell A Stranger 🏳️🌈
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- We invited two strangers to tell their coming out stories and talk about their shared experiences. How did they handle the uncertainty of how the world would see them after coming out...
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The way the person with the short hair looked at the other one while they were telling their story is the most beautiful thing ever.
Hon est ly
She's so cute!!
Stan Ethereal Figures they*
Are there any updates where these two "strangers" are at now?
Fr! I almost started crying!
The person from Italy is sooo stunning
The...woman?!?!
She is.
My exact thoughts. They are indeed stunning!
John Cloois they define as non-binary which means they don’t define as a woman
Rocky Rock Reality does and never won’t.
They are very starting.
nobody's talking about how gorgeous the Egyptian lady is..
legs
Italian I thought
@@meganconner5539 HA, funny.
That’s what I’m saying!😏
They are. In the video they identified as non binary
I love how nice the people in the comments are using gender neutral pronouns and referring to them as “the person”!
I know! It's awesome 🏳️🌈
🙄
The "person"??? Its two women in the video, like what do you mean???
@Evelīna Marta Grinberga Oh I watched the video. I'm aware of what she said. But no one is non binary. That term is ridiculous. We clearly see and hear that you are a woman, a female. If you want someone to believe that you are "non binary" at least try to pass as such...
Leah James Gender/fashion expression and gender identity are two completely different things. Your gender and preferred way of dressing do not have to match. Respect people’s pronouns.
Oh my god the one with short hair is so beautiful my bi heart is beating uncontrollably
Me too, they really are stunning and I hope they know that.
they are really pretty
my lesbian heart is in gay panic
Same and I’m waaaay to young
@@gbyglz same, same
The way the Italian person looked at the woman on the left 🥰🥰
"rather than their envelope" - *how profound* ♥
Soulpancake happy to see queer people and hear their stories. Thanks !
I have a huge crush on the person from Italy. There so stunning!
🌈 They are Stunning! 😍
I feel the Muslim girl's pain so hard. It is horrible to know that your family, the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally, can barely abide ypur existence. I am a bisexual man and I grew up in an conservative evangelical home. My father was a pastor. I have been in a relationship with a man for 4.5 years and have never told them. When I think about getting married and having children, I'm happy, but then I see my parents aren't in that future. And it hurts so much.
I can relate to your pain, stay strong and know that you can and will find your chosen family and family does not have to be blood.
I really can relate to how you feel. I've the exact same story as the Egyptian.
Either way it's time. It is time for you to be truthful about who you are, not only for you but for the man you shared your true life with. Your father is already not apart of your life or your future by not knowing who you really are inside. Until you let go of your own fears you will be held back from your own true happiness. You will be stronger when you let go of fear and you will still have love with you. Your lovely man and perhaps community. I'm behind you and your not alone. BIG HIGS🤗💗 now go live your truth. God Bless you and your love.
Are you sure your parents wouldn't love you anymore if you told them ? Anyways, just know that you're not alone.
@@teresamiles5929 It's a bit insensitive to say that about such a difficult thing to do, but your comment is full of love and I understand that you want what's best for them.
The person w the shirt hair is gorgeous. They just killed my heart w their beauty. Actually they both are. And to the curly girl: feel ya. As a Egyptian bisexual girl living in Germany and having family in Kairo, the contrast is sometimes overwhelming
Amira Lina my BFF in middle school (age 11-13 in US) was Muslim, born in Canada to Egyptian parents. They were pretty permissive all things considered and wanted her to fit in, but she and her sister were tutored in Arabic and Muslim/Egyptian culture. There were some things, like refusing to teach them about sex (I filled her in, but peers aren’t always reliable), that were different than what I was used to. Lovely family though, and I learned a lot through them, invited over to break the fast, etc...her mom always made me American food when they had Middle Eastern cuisine 😊
Amira Lina As a Moroccan bisexual girl living also in Germany i can relate
Same as a Turkish girl living in Germany I can relate to that
Dilara Demir so sad i can never come out
@@yael0789 My Parents are totally Homophobic so when they found out they reacted horrible and they think I'm Straight now. I feel you. I sadly don't know anyone in my Situation in real life only Heterosexuals and Homophobes.
It's so encouraging to see any other bisexual non-binary person. I've only met maybe one other person who's like me in both ways.
Hi Love - this is Erica, the Italian in the video : ) I send you a massive hug. If you want find me on IG @ericamanni8
Here is another one 🙋♀ you're not alone!
this is exactly how I feel too bisexual non binary afab usually « femme » looking
the day I cut my hair i almost cried and disphoria can sometimes ruin my day
@@Bsmdbsmd I remember the day I got my hair cut a couple years ago and just the overwhelming wave of confidence. It was the closest thing to gender euphoria I'd felt up to that point.
Hi I'm pan and non-binary whoop whoop!
I’m not coming out but sometimes I wish I could tell a stranger some things and trust they could identify or at least understand
I came out to a stranger once and we become good friends after that.
I hope that first girl that spoke has a beautiful life 💛
they were both so brave to share their stories💛
Wow, the Italian person is SO hella beautiful, I'm shaking skdjjdjsjsjdjsjsjs
as a transgender person, this was really inspiring. it’s amazing to see other people who are like me. thank you for this
Thank you for continuing to highlight the LGBTQIAP community. It is greatly appreciated! And the person from Italy? Wow, they are absolutely stunning!
hey, I am not familiar with the letter I in LGBTQ+, could you maybe explain? I would really like to keep up with the developement in the scene :)
@@miriam9267 I stands for intersex, Idk don't really know how to explain it but it's something like when a girl is born with male genatalia or both male and female genatalia. For a boy, when he is born with a vagina or both genatalia. Greeting from Belgium :)
@@cjck1344 I just told what it was, nothing else.
KatFlyx oops sorry I’m tired and thought you and OP were the same person lol
AriesAsh85 Intersex people don’t want to be classified as part of the community. It’s a birth defect, not a gender identity.
Honestly, this really hit me - hard. I can relate to how gender and identity can be such a painful thing. You're either a boy or a girl. You're either gay or straight. You're either male or female.
And some of us are not really any of those things, or several of those things at once - which isn't allowed.
Can we just talk about how gorgeous the short haired person is?
My little pan heart...
9:54 "I feel like it's the first time I'm breathing" I felt that 💖
I wonder if people will ever just get to be who they are. Like the one lady said...her cousin asked her if Gay people are nice...people are just people. I hope if I'm ever reincarnated, I will come back in a time when these issues are put to rest and just accepted as fact...just like being a male or female is today.
my goodness this is so beautiful
Is there more of their conversation? Because I'd be more than happy to sit and listen to them talk for quite some time. What awesome human beings and what a great dialogue between them.
+WeAreEachOfUsAngels We're glad you liked it! There isn't more of their conversation, but on Thursdays for the next few weeks there will be more videos in this series talking with more lgbtq+ folks ❤️
Moved to tears watching this. I’m 40 and still don’t feel comfortable talking about my sexuality.
you are a precious soul !
I can hug you.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. You both are extraordinary 💜🌈💜
the italian person- THEIR SMILE COULD CURE CANCER IDC
When the climate wasn't as accepting, I had so many first dates start like this because somewhere the conversation would always lead to "are you out?"
I truly relate to the Italian person. As someone who looks distinctly feminine, when I share that I feel non-binary, I can see people struggle to accept it.
I'm in the same kinda of situation I'm a very curvy and there are days when I wish I could just pass or even slightly resemble the masculine version of me that I see in my head. It's a very hard struggle
If you guys want to connect and talk I’m @ericamanni8 on IG 💗🇮🇹
@@ericamanni1103 good god, i just checked out your feed and you are G O R G E O U S
@@natashafigueroa9198 they are 😍
You know, the shame is hard to get past. There's a very anti-nonbinary hate on the internet, and I've unfortunately internalized some of it. I hate the fact that I was emedietly questioning the nonbinary person, and wether they were actually nonbinary. They are. There isn't one way to be nonbinary, and I hate that I've internalized that hate. I'm working on unlearning it. They have gender dysphoria, they are trans. No questions asked. But this was a very sweet video. I'm so happy for these two.
You two are gorgeous and beautiful souls. Blessed be xx
That was pure. The nb kid was so open and vulnerable and the other one was so caring. Really great content.
I hope the girl who hasn’t yet told her parents finds her freedom one day ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
the person from Italy remindes me at Ruby Rose 😍
This is like a first date, I ship them. Cute.
This content is so powerful and meaningful. Thank you to the individuals for sharing their stories and thank you to Soul Pancake for providing the platform.
I really appreciated this video. As a non-binary, bisexual person I often forget that there are many, many people who identify and whose stories are very similar to mine. There are days where I feel so incredibly small and lonely. Seeing this video helped to remind me that I am never truly alone. xo
I send you all the love I have - Erica @ericamanni8 the Italian in the video ❤️💜💙💚🧡💛💗
Erica Manni Thank you for sharing your journey and your truth. I see you and I appreciate you.💓💓💓
Celeste Torres omg you are beautiful! 😍
I can relate with the Italian person. I have always felt like I'm not just a woman but I'm also a man. I constantly fight with my two energies..sometimes to a point I can lose my mind a little and feel so damn lost...it's really not easy having so strong energies ..and explaining it to people that don't know much about it ...oh well thx for this video
"I feel like it's the first time I'm breathing" hit me hard as a bisexual girl who suppressed/fought her gay feelings for 8 YEARS. I grew up in a conservative homophobic community and grew up feeling intensely gross and ashamed of my crushes on girls, and there was never fresher air to breathe in than when I finally accepted myself. I have yet to come out to my homophobic parents but I'm looking for a girlfriend
« I feel like it’s the first time I’m breathing » damn
She listens, like real listens with her whole being. Wow.
The Egyptian girl is so eloquent..😍
Italy looks like a Marvel super hero. Bless them both xxoo
Both of these people are so gorgeous and courageous ❤
I relate to the Italian person so much, everything that was said is so true. From society to feelings, to how you can feel so lost. I am italian myself and I hate my country so much, I want to move so much and I hope to be at their place one day.
this is the first time I relate so much to someone’s own definition of gender identity
"I feel like it's the first time I'm breathing" that just meant a lot
I wish i could have a dialogue like this with someone or anyone ready to hear. And "face to face" is must.
I feel such a connection with the Italian... like it's so difficult to come to terms with being non-binary because it feels so different and so confusing. Like if you are FtM and MtF it is EXTREMELY hard but your gender feels more clear cut in terms of how you eventually want to express yourself, whereas with a non-binary identity it's kind of like ahhh
I love that there is bisexual visibility here! Such a positive and inspiring representation to witness.
The person with short hair made me cry. I resonated so much with what they said💞
Omg when the Italian person said they were non-binary I freaked out 😊 I totally feel the dysphoria of sometimes looking at a very femme body in the mirror and feeling so masculine
9:17 that smile...
This can be an excellent excercise for the health of the mind!!
Although most mentioned about the lady from Italy being pretty, I personally felt that the Muslim woman on the left was just as pretty. The amount of pain she endured must of been enormous but the fact that she can acknowledge her story and tell it to others, yet with her parents not even acknowledging her yet alone the word that’s tough.
Italy. Has me like 👀😖😖😖 ooohh you 🔥🔥🔥 and then curly hair is like 👀👀👀 oh you fire too. Two fire ppl who can share stories and connect
Thank you for telling your stories 💗
I'm Muslim to... So hella relatable:)
same
Wow, this conversation is beautiful! Awesome content, thank you very much. 💜
This was genuinely beautiful. Please do a follow-up
Real soul quenching! .... and all that laughter at the end. And overdone but gotta put it out again .. Italy be crazy attractive.. n it's the smile and self acceptance perhaps!!
They are both beautiful people I love them. This interaction is wonderful
the girl with short hair is so pretty omfg!!!!! i have a crush on her aaaa
Rachel U. person* ! 💜
Both these people are so beautiful and brave for sharing their stories with each other and with us. This video made me so happy as someone currently questioning their sexuality (but leaning more towards bisexuality as of right now). Although I have a supportive community and people who already accept me while I figure myself out, these awesome people only helped to comfort me more on my journey. :)
I relate SO hard to the Egyptian girl. My parents are Muslim.
First to comment! 😊
Also quite an interesting and powerful take having both of these lovely women sharing their story through a microphone- visually and audibly amplifying their voice and person.
9:34 omg I felt this on a spiritual level.
Good idea and realisation. With a lot of details and personal experiences, who helped the viewers.
The woman from Egypt - very interested. Because the society etc. of Egypt are mostly very, very conservative.
What helped me get through uncertainty is UA-cam videos XD but for real though, hearing all of these amazing and inspiring stories warms my heart and makes me more confident to express who I am.
Wowww this was intense, thanks for sharing it with us!!
This was so moving! I really enjoyed this video!😊
Such beautiful souls!
Yayyy I loved this video, thanks Soulpankake!!
2 beautiful people having a profoundly beautiful conversation, good luck to both of you! you rocked it :)
They are both so beautiful with inspirational stories
We do not celebrate our imperfect nix up carater who do you know what is it to be a man and you are a woman
Gosh, they’re both gorgeous, inside and out
I'm bisexual but still in the closet because I'm so busy but a week ago l was talking on the phone with my mom and l brought up the gay topic she told me that,when we give birth to children,we are thankful to lord and we raise them very well but when they really get older they have the right to love who they love,it made me feel super happy but I didn't want to come out to her on the phone,I'm waiting to go back home 5 months from now
I wish you all the best. Good luck!
@@theflameoftruth729 thank you
These are great videos. Thank you.
The comments in this video just make me so happy
Happy bi visibility month y'all 💖💜💙
This is so INSPIRING!!!
The second person is so beautiful. Like They are so pretty?!?! my little pan heart
Both of them are gorgeous.... 😍
I know how felling, when you a Muslim and you know it's wrong but still is right because this is who you are. As a Muslim, you really brave to come out like this.
Thank you 🙏 both! This two beautiful girls, sharing their story.
So sad, that I’m 21 century. We still struggle with coming out. Parents knows their kids, so we don’t have to come out or anything. We should stop, and let love found love ❤️
The rest will be the best story ever.
Happy Pride Month ❤️🌈🙏❤️🌈🙏❤️🌈🙏❤️🌈🙏❤️🌈🙏🌈
I love this bisexual celebration! ❤️👍🏼
They (The Italian) is lovely and empathic. They understand, even if they aren't going through the same thing as the Muslin religous/Egyptian lady.
The Italian peep is literally me I started balling at their story 🥺
Thank you thank you to both of you!! Saved me from myself
They're so beautiful
“ I feel like its the first time that I am breathing” 🥺
So... Why had one woman stand in front of the microphone? That seems so strange and unnatural..
I was thinking the same but then during the conversation part, I thought perhaps it was so there wasn't the give and take of conversation. They want each person to get all their story spoken and then there's time for conversation.
It could have been for the audio for the video
rosenzauber I think it’s kind of a psychological thing - to “have the stage” and be bold in the telling of their stories. 99% sure it’s NOT because of audio - SP has plenty of $ to mic them up, like they do in every other video :)
I hope I can have conversations like this, cause my friend and my family will never accept me to be who I am. And sometimes it's killing you inside cause you can't share it with anyone what your story.
this is why i love being Italian😍
I know everyone is saying it, but oh my gosh, the person with the leather jacket is SO ATTRACTIVE! 😍
Aww that was beautiful!😭💓
Such a beautiful, brave conversation. Thank you!
Yay!!!! Other non-binary ppl!!!!
Great series, SP. Looking forward to seeing more.
Ohh god. Thank you for this episode.... Awesome