Current life update | I haven't been doing well... heartbreak sucks!
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- Current life update | I haven't been doing well... heartbreak sucks!
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I'm Ash Nord, your truth-bombing fairy godmother for everything love, dating and relationships. With so many idealistic, romanticised Hollywood messages about love out there, my mission is to be an honest, unfiltered source of information for individuals and couples seeking honest relationship advice and love lessons. No games, no manipulation tactics, no teachings about how to trick someone into liking you… so, if that’s what you’re looking for, I’m probably not your girl. My content is geared towards those wanting to learn more about REAL intimacy and togetherness with their partners or future partners. I have a psychological focus (I'm a psychology student) and a genuine passion for understanding how humans relate to and connect with one another. If you're into that type of thing, or would simply like to hear personal stories about my own life experiences and romantic relationships, then stick around! I got you.
DISCLAIMER: Please note everything stated in this video and all videos on my channel are purely my personal opinions and are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a qualified professional and as such my opinions should not be taken as psychological advice. - Навчання та стиль
Hi everyone! Firstly, thank you as ALWAYS to the incredibly kind, supportive, loving and empathetic comments on this video. I’m obviously in a very vulnerable, sensitive place, so your words (both positive and negative) have a profound impact on me. With that being said, I’ve gotten a few comments suggesting that I am selfish/inconsiderate towards my ex and his own healing process by currently living with him, which is incredibly hurtful and really strikes a chord with me right now. I can’t stress enough how open, communicative and honest my ex and I are with one another, and that his well-being is always front of mind for me. My ex and I have a really good relationship, and I would not be living in his home if it was having a detrimental impact on him. There is a lot of nuance to our breakup, and although it was initially my decision, it ended up being very much mutual. Him and I are on the same page, therefore making living together more feasible as a very short-term solution. Please be mindful when sharing strong (and potentially hurtful) opinions on something so complex and personal. It’s not possible for me to share all the details of everything in a short video, so please, be kind. I assure you my ex’s mental and emotional health is very important to me ❤️
Watching you, you can see that you are a kind, loving soul. No one knows the full story apart from you and your ex partner so no one has the right to assume the worst. Please try and remember these negative comments are coming from people who don’t know all of it. Stay strong. Much love 🤍
There's no way that anyone here has a say on whether you temporarily living with your ex is good or bad, it's always hard to block out the opinions of people who don't know what they are talking about and instead are just projecting their own issues onto another person. You're doing the best you can with the cards you've been dealt, that's all there is to it. We all share in struggles but they are also always a uniquely personal experience, comparison may be the thief of joy but it can also be the misinformed adjudicator. Keep doing whatever it is you need to be doing and don't let anyone external to the situation (not including trained professionals of course) tell you that it's wrong, you'll get through this not because of anyone else's perception of how the story has gone down or the actions you've taken, but your own, that's all that matters. Keep up the good work 💪
No one has a right to tell your life with your ex basing on theirs its you not them remember if its best for your healing then do it even without anyones support love u Ashley am in same situation with my ex trying to help each other so yes l know how it feels do your thing
Hang in there Ashley!❣️Your videos have taken me through some hard times recently. When great, kind, and understanding people like yourself are growing into a new space, you deserve love, kind words, and hugs from all during this season. Just know, you are worth your healing, saving yourself and you're an amazing person! One love, all the best to you! Hope you can get back in the States soon!
Thank you all SO much for such incredibly understanding, empathetic and supportive replies. You have no idea how much it means to me. I feel so seen. I love you all ❤️🙏🏼
I have to be honest, I'm going through something very similar, and I find it very hard to talk about it with people I know...the fact that you can post these videos is just inspiring.
Oh I’m so happy it’s inspiring for you 🥺 I’ll admit, it’s certainly not easy putting something so personal and vulnerable on the internet. But there is something therapeutic about it for me! And if it’s able to help anyone feel less alone, then it’s worth it. I’m so sorry you know this pain ❤️❤️
@@AshleyNord thank you. Please, please stay strong!!
Whatever happens, theres people who believe in you!!!
Much love to you and all who are going through this.
Same. 😣
Same! 💙🙏🏽
@ashley I’m going through something similar and I agree with you about taking with people u know,but I think is better to talk with stranger instead to talk with people in person. Im thinking to start as well!
I am 40 years old and I've had a few break ups in my time... My advice is block and move on dont waste your time on people that don't want to be with you... accept the situation be strong life is too sort people come and go into our life not everyone will stay... l am going through a break up its painful but sitting around feeling sad will get you nowhere trust me... let it go if it comes back then maybe its meant to be... Give yourself time to heal... ❤
I completely agree with you when it comes to not wasting time on people that aren’t choosing us! Amen! ❤️❤️🙏🏼 but also, I think it’s really important to allow yourself to sit with your grief and sadness. It’s okay to not be okay ❤️ but of course, there is a balance between making space for grief and choosing to not wallow in it! I hear you! 🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord absolutely ❤
Can 100% relate to "making the plans" and being on several waiting lists. I'm 8 months NC today and only just starting to get myself back and starting to feel happy alone again.
Keep pushing Ashley! Take as much time as you need. We'll be here for your support when you get back 💪 .
Thank you so much for sharing with me! It’s so encouraging for me to hear from people who are starting to come out the other end. ❤️❤️❤️
been there and you will be okay! mental illness is real but we can get through it together. thank you for the community.
Your videos have helped me get through the worst moments of my life! I wish you well, I hope you heal well
Thank you so very much 🥺🙏🏼 and I’m so humbled to know that my content has helped you through your own difficult time. You guys are paying it back to me tenfold! The support means so, so much to me ❤️❤️
I stumbled across your channel… I am so glad I did! I can relate to everything you have said it’s horrendous and a lonely place being in your own head ! You need to be around your family lovely and I send you so much love ! ❤️
Aw I’m so happy you made it here too! Welcome ☺️❤️ thank you so much for the support and well wishes. I appreciate it so much!
Thank you for sharing this with us. I’ve also had similar thoughts in the past. It really is scary. Grief is one of the worst emotions to feel in my opinion. Hang in there, I know you can do this. Please don’t leave us. ❤️
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I appreciate very very much your honesty, vulnerability and humility. Even in this phase, you continue to be an inspiration because IT takes a lot of courage to be this honest. I actually felt your pain as you were speaking , and I know it very well, I have felt it too. I hug your soul with love! God will heal your soul. Have faith. It' s just a phase!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words, they mean so much to me 🙏🏼❤️ and I’m so sorry that you know this pain too! Although it’s comforting to know I’m not alone ❤️❤️
Oh my god love, I’m so sorry to hear. You were there for us giving advise when we were going tough times. Take it easy on yourself. Grieve it then focus your energy and attention back on you my love.
Thank you so much 🙏🏼🥺 I’m certainly doing my best to just allow my grief to wash through me! And it certainly is ❤️ thank you for being here!!
Sending you so much love. I cannot wait till you are reunited with your family I’m praying you get back home soon ❤️
I sincerely appreciate your bravery to talk about your life so openly - thank you for being so strong - you are amazing. Your self awareness is amazing and your ability to inspire others is just profound. I hope you feel encouraged reading this - you are a light to all of us! I’m going to make a video soon, I hope you can watch it!
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I’m sorry you are feeling this way, Ash.
For me it’s been about two months and I don’t feel even a bit better. Still crying every day. I actually think I’m doing worse now than I have in the beginning, because I guess the phase of denial is done so now reality hits. My abandonment wounds and attachment trauma are deeply activated. My mind can’t process how I’ve been treated and I’m literally scared of how will I deal with this and if it’s gonna take me years, like it has the last time I had my heart broken… Thank you for helping us. It gets so easier when you see that you’re not the only one struggling. I hope it gets better for you from here ❤️❤️❤️ We’re with u on this journey
I HEAR you. I also felt as though I had only gotten worse over the past few months. I’m starting to feel more small shifts here and there, but I understand completely how dark it is. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sending you so much love and healing ❤️❤️🙏🏼
You are so gracious giving us updates about you, Ashley. Please know that you've touch so many lives, including mine. You are beautiful inside & out, intelligent and you are loved by so many people. Big hugs from the Philippines and please take good care of yourself. You can do it!!!! God bless you🙏
Thank you so so much 🥺❤️🙏🏼 your love and support means so much to me. I really don’t know what I would do without you all! I’m so blessed to have subscribers like you ❤️❤️
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷±²³⁴⁸¹¹⁴¹¹⁶⁹³⁵
Recently had a breakup as well, and I can relate to you a lot.. it’s sad to see you experiencing do much pain, but you’ve already done a good job fighting life and doing things that can make you feel better! Healing takes time, but i still hope we can move on asap💛 support ya!
I’m so sorry that you can relate to this pain. I truly wouldn’t wish it on anyone. This is a very dark chapter in my life. But thank you so much for your support and encouragement. I have hope we will both heal together!! ❤️🙏🏼
I feel your pain. Hang in there and get well soon.
Thank you Ashley! I am going through a break up too and it came out of the blue! Your videos have helped me so so much and I can’t thank you enough! Life is shit sometimes but life has crazy plans for us all. We have to go through pain to find the real us. You are amazing and have helped so many people, stay strong xx
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I can so relate to your anguish. I went through it last year myself after a 4 year relationship went sour. Hang in there girl! It will get better! I promise! Sending love!!🥰💖🌷💄❤
I’m so sorry that you know this pain. And thank you so much for reaching out and reminding me of this! I certainly have much more hope things will improve ❤️🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord It will get better. It's a cliche I know but time is a great healer! I'm in a good place right now with a great guy and you will find your happiness too!! Everything happens for a reason. You are a beautiful soul! 💖🌹🥰
I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Sending you light and love.
Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏼 I appreciate the love and positivity more than I could ever express to you!
I truly feel for you but can I just say that you are lucky to come from a supportive family. Some people go through this and their only choice is to rely upon friends who unfortunately they cannot live with, so there are people who heed this alone. That's a blessing that you can count. Big hugs. ❤️
I couldn’t agree more! Although I haven’t been able to see/be with them, I am SO lucky and blessed to have them as a part of my support network at all. You’re so right! Certainly counting my blessings ❤️🙏🏼
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are an amazing woman you’re beautiful, caring, and helpful. You helped me so much with my break up and now I look back and I’m proud the man I have become. I hope everything gets good for you. Bless your heart ❤️
Thank you so very much 🥺😭🙏🏼 I appreciate the kind words more than I can explain. And it means SO much to me to know that you are in a place where you can now feel proud of who you are and how far you’ve come! That is sooo incredible!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️🙏🏼
I’m so Honored by your Authenticity! Spiritual Beings having a Human Experience! Grateful for your Share ❤️😘
This is such a lovely comment. Thank you so much for the support and for being here 🙏🏼❤️
Stay Strong Ashley!! Thinking of you. ❤
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️🙏🏼
How are you doing dear Ashley? Last year I was going through the same situation until this summer when I hitted bottom and started to fear for my life and same as you I reached my family, even though was difficult with all the Covid restrictions (as I live abroad as well). I used to listen to you every day, over and over. Was very difficult to fullfill my assignment at work, function normally, after many months of yoga, exercise, therapy and everything...what finally helped me was talking with a psychatrist and taking SSRI. I wish I did that sooner, it would have saved me many sleepless night. Now I am in a better place, and I am sure you will as well very soon.
We’re in this together Ashley!! Bottom line !! Your videos have helped me I’m rocking with you until our healing manifest. It’s already here but we will keep speaking it . I have cried for the last week after a great streak in my process. But we will be ok !! Let’s allow all the feels and thoughts . Let’s allow ourself to feel it . This too shall pass. I support you !
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼 I know that in time we will both heal! We will absolutely heal together ❤️ I appreciate the support and encouragement so so much.
Hi Ashley, I really enjoyed your videos, especially the one on how to move on from an ex that was a good person. Because that is where I am right now in my life. I was also saddened to see you in such a bad way and completely understand where you are coming from. Life can be very hard at times. One of the things that I have learnt from hardship is that we are never truly alone even though it might seem so. And that some form of exercise regularly done can help a lot with depression and anxiety. Anyway please take care. And I look forward to seeing updates from you in the future.
Hi Ashley
Thank you so so much for sharing your experience with me. It’s clear you empathize so deeply with what I am going through! Although I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone, it’s so comforting to be reminded that I’m not alone and that people can and do make it out the other end. And AMEN in regards to proper support and medication! I think medication has truly saved my life as well. I’m slowly beginning to see more of the light at the end of the tunnel, and am holding out for being able to be with my loved ones again ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Brilliant comment 👍🏼
It's very good to be far away from the ex. Emotions have a physical location, and when you travel away, your emotions just become a little thing inside you. So travelling away from your emotions and your ex really helps a lot.
“Life is like a dagger” - Whiskey Myers
Thanks again for being so open
Amen to that! But it can also be so beautiful, and I’m holding out for those moments again ❤️ thank YOU for being here!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.💔🙏🏼I know exactly what you going through its been 11 months.... and still taking it day by day...
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼🥺
your videos have helped me going through my own breakup, thank you for your honesty and insight.
I’m so happy to hear that 🥺 thank YOU for being here ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
Hope you are doing well, respect for your courage and honesty dear Ashley! EMDR and/ or DBT therapy seem to be very promising as far as chronic trauma is concerned.
.. wish you well and have a nice return trip back to US
Thank you so much! I actually recently did my first EMDR session a few weeks ago and it was incredible. It’s definitely something I intend on incorporating into my therapeutic practices ❤️🙏🏼
I'm glad to see that you're at least more comfortable talking about the situation, that takes a lot in of itself. The Aus Government has really clamped down on all inbound/outbound travel, fingers crossed your next exemption comes through. I'm sure you already know how no amount of cliche quotes or life advice will help right now but just know that you've got this. Wishing you all the best, take care 🙏
Thank you so much! I’ve certainly become WAY more comfortable than I ever could have imagined when it comes to talking about my emotional state and the reality of my current struggles. Your words and support mean more to me than you could ever know! It truly does help, so thank you so much ❤️❤️🙏🏼
I recently lost the love of my life two months ago. She left me saying that she was depressed and needed to “walk that journey on her own.” I found out two days ago that she’s been with a new man for over a month. I learned that she had lied to me and left me for someone else. This being said, I just discovered your channel this morning. Your videos have helped me tremendously in just the past few hours. I’m sorry you’re going through this, and I hope that things get better. You’ve helped me through your videos, so I hope someone or something helps you. We’re all here for you.
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HUGS ... heartbreak hurts like hell .. but be strong we all get though this shit we all in atm
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼
praying for you girl!
Thank you so much ❤️❤️🙏🏼
My day gets better when I see you’ve uploaded 🙌wishing you all the best through this difficult time.
Also, I’m super impressed you can study and work at the same time. I’m only a uni student and that is crazy enough haha
Sending love and peace from Scotland 🏴🌟
Aww that’s so heartwarming to hear! Thank you so much for the support and encouragement. And yes, it’s certainly been a challenge to say the least!! Especially during this time in my life 😫
Things are easier said than done. Coping up will take time...it's your option whether a hard way or a long way. Looking back to your videos of advice it's totally roundabouts. You are human and have limits what you are today is just a life God has something to impress in you. With your great mind and wisdom all things will flow smoothly. Go girl!
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Oh Ash. You helped me through my tough break up. And you know what? It WILL get better. Hang on there.x
Thank you so much ❤️😭🥺 it’s been really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but deep down, I DO know that it will get better. Thank you for the reminder! I needed it 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord
I know eryone is different but what was a breakthrough in my grief and recovery was a book (there is also a full audiobook on youtube) of Eckhart Tolle 'The power of now'.
Thank you for sharing with us Ash!! Keeping you in my thoughts and hopefully you get home to the US soon!!
Thank YOU for listening and being here! It means so much to me ❤️❤️🙏🏼
I am so sorry you've been going through this. I hope you are fine very soon.
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Best wishes. It can take a long time, but will normally get better. I have experienced a break up this year. I still think about her every day, but I can live a normal life now. I could not really do that in May and June.
Thank you so much ❤️❤️ I’m so happy you’re doing better!
Sending you so much love Ash❤️wishing you better days sooner than later! I have a great feeling you’ll be fine. It’s so awesome that you have the support of your ex during this time. You look beautiful by the way🥰
Oh you’re so sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words, I really appreciate it 🥰 I’m certainly feeling better lately!!
I'm really grateful for you sharing your raw experience. I had an awful break-up and felt judged by myself and others for not recovering quickly enough or for overreacting. It makes me feel less alone hearing that experience. Have you considered getting a housemate? I know it's not for everyone though. Take care!
Aw thank you so much for being here! And I’m so happy me sharing my experience makes you feel less alone ❤️ and yes! I actually have plans of moving in with a friend in a few months time ☺️🥰
As you've been a light for us during our dark times, embrace us as well to get support! You've people that really care about you, never forget it
Thank you so much 😭❤️ you guys truly have been a light for me during this time. The support and love from you all has truly kept me going.
I’m here with you. Big prayers for you.
Thank you so very much ❤️🙏🏼
It’s been 8 months since I saw him and he’s got a fiancé now. Breaks my heart and my anxiety and depression is the worst ever. I should’ve stopped trying to talk to him in 2017. We were off and on after that until last November.
I feel like I will never move on. We broke up in 2017 and I was a dummy and went off and on until last November. He didn’t want a relationship, but a month or two later he’s moved her in and now they are engaged😩
Hello Asley, I am sorry that you are going through such a hard and challenging time. I want to thank you for everything you have done for me and for having the guts to show your vulnerability to us. I hope that you will find peace and happiness soon. I am sending you good vibes for your return to the US and your well-being.
Aww Marta I always love seeing your name here! You’ve been such a source of warmth, support and encouragement for me. Thank you SO much as always for reaching out and sharing such kind words 🥺🙏🏼 it means so much to me! And thank you for the good vibes! ❤️❤️
@Chomu Buda thanks but no thanks I am happy bring single.
Take care of yourself - don't worry about the channel, it's not important atm 💜
Thank you so much 🥺❤️❤️
Wow. I’ve been going through it as well. Just went through a reality shattering breakup. It was horrible. Still is… but it’s getting better for longer periods of time. I’m sober now so there is no escaping the feels. It’s been the hardest thing I’ve dealt with… and I’ve been through some shit.
Thanks so much for sharing with me. I’m so sorry that you know this pain! It’s truly gut wrenching. And congratulations on your sobriety! That’s amazing ❤️🙏🏼
Wow I wish my ex was as nice as your ex. I also had problems being alone when my ex left me. Especially Saturdays and Fridays were difficult. Best wishes. It will be much better in half a year or even 3 months. Yeah a support network is absolutely needed! I relied very much on my friends when I was mourning.
I am SO fortunate to have a person in my life like my ex ❤️ he’s truly wonderful. And I agree with you wholeheartedly, a support network is such a necessity.
this broke my heart tbh but i am with you!
Are you going through manifestation issue or relationship issue, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation 🕊️🇧🇷.
Thank you ❤️
My cat has saved my life many times.
Depression is hard. I struggle.
Going through a break up now. Broken heartened.
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Ashley
I do not know where I would be without your videos and content… you have given me hope and allowed me to see the side of my break up that I could not see.
You have helped so many of us in this situation and you have so many people who are here for you… of course we are not actively in your life but anyone of us would be there for you
I was suicidal last month… I was not going to make it… I heard your voice every single day and you pulled me through😃
Ashley you will get through this even in your darkest time… grab onto the people that are there for you and as you have promised all of us….. you will get through this!!!
We love you Ash
Jonny❤️
You have no idea how much this comment means to me 🥺😭 to know that my content has been meaningful or helpful to people is all I could ever hope for with this channel. And to know that my own voice is something that pulled you out of your own dark time… wow 😭😭😭 I’m humbled. Thank you so much! ❤️❤️ it’s comments like this that keep me going.
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Hi Ashley - your videos have helped me so much in particular the one regarding leaving a toxic relationship, which I have watched over and over again! I am 49 and met my wife 8 years ago and thought we would be together for ever but when our beautiful daughter was born June 2017 our relationship suffered so much from the stress of being 1st time parents. Watching my ex now in a new relationship is so painful, but I have taken a step back from getting too close to her and put in place some much needed boundaries and slowly but surely I can feel things getting better. I pray you will be able to come to terms with the pain you are feeling right now, you are a beautiful soul and it is hard to see you suffering right now. Much love from the UK ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your situation with me! I can’t imagine what you’re going through, especially with having a shared child in the mix. That would be so incredibly hard. But I’m so happy to hear that you are feeling better ❤️🙏🏼 sending you so much love right back!!
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Know that those thoughts are very normal after a break up. They are thoughts that don’t define you. You didn’t listen to them then and don’t have to in the future.
Was watching your older videos when going through this myself. It does get better, certainly not linear as there are so many ups and downs. I am a much better and stronger person than I was when the process began.
Started feeling a lot better when I accepted the fact that I was sad, and didn’t try to stop missing her.
Thank you so much for validating my experience. It means so so much to me. I appreciate your encouragement and support more than you know! ❤️🙏🏼
Ahhh! I didn't know you were Australian. I spent 1.5 yrs in Fremantle. Best memories. Oz was the highlight of my life. American here ✌️ wish you peace and acceptance in your difficult time
Oh my goodness!! Small world! Amazing ☺️ I’m born and raised in the US but moved to Australia when I was 19 and have been here for the past 10 years. I’m a dual-citizen. Thank you so much, I really appreciate that ❤️🙏🏼
Ash… you are doing well.. you know this takes time. It also brings up true issues we pushed to the side from years ago. This is why you are so lonely because you are looking at your life and your interactions you had with people in your life. The lack of nurturing you had in your life. We both came to this conclusion. So then we really get depressed and just want to leave this place. We really just don’t want to deal with the pain. Keep pushing just like I am. You are awesome. This is going to help you later in life. I always say.. the more knowledgeable we become about life sometimes the more sad we become because we are living in reality. And sometimes reality sucks!!!
Thank you so much for such a lovely comment. It’s clear that you know exactly what I’m going through, and I appreciate the empathy more than I could ever express 🙏🏼 feeling seen and heard in these moments is so valuable. You’re so right, every unhealed wound is truly coming to the surface right now ❤️❤️
Ashley, the very fact that you have the strength to reach out shows the power within yourself. The desire to share and help others shows the love flowing. I will be praying for your return back home. I am in your same position where I am going through a horrible heartbreak. It’s a dark path, but where there is dark, there is light. And what you are doing now in sharing unfortunately a common scenario where others can grieve with you along with their own, is a healthy outlet. Keep the faith girl, keep studying, I too am trying to navigate the last 6 months to earning my degree. Some days it seems impossible, but like the word says, nothing is impossible when it has the word “possible” within it :) ❤️
This is such a beautiful, uplifting comment 😭 thank you so much. During a counseling session I had this week, I actually echoed a lot of these same sentiments. That through this profound pain and darkness, I’ve also accessed the depths and immense capacity of my own love too. How deeply I care and feel. Darkness and light truly do exist alongside one another. I can only hope that through this experience, I will emerge with more softness and empathy than before.
@@AshleyNord Love the attitude, as that is the mindset we all need to do our best to instill, so we can be in that light and feel it. Empathy is a strength of mine and I can’t help but feel what others feel. It’s a gift and a curse sometimes, lol, but deep down I’m grateful that I am. Please continue to reach out when needed, I and all of us are here to help in anyway we can :)
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I’m going through something similar at the moment, it’s been over a month and i can’t get rid of the heartbreak. I’ve tried so hard to find myself again and build my confidence, but seeing her everyday at work just kills me. I’ve tried to talk to friends about this but I think the fact that I’m a man trying to talk about his feelings everyone has just ghosted me. I found a therapist but she is no help at all! I can’t sleep most nights, I’ve lost a lot of weight. I have no interest in my hobbies anymore.
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I agree! However, I think dropping into our feelings and out of our heads can be even more hopeful when it comes to healing ❤️
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Yooo Ash this is your lil sis checking in. Just reminding you YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, BRILLIANT, YOU HAVE AN AMAZING HEART., YOU HAVE POWER ON THE INSIDE OF YOU. My prayer for you is that your heart, focus and life gets set back into alignment with God’s purpose for your life. Yes, you have helped all of us and your currently helping me too, go through all the grief that happens. Yes, we have to go at our own pace, But now it’s time to CHANGE the way we speak over ourselves. I pray over you that Grief will not be the end of your story, and that you find that love and PEACE of mind again. For the Bible says in Psalm 34:18 “God is near to the broken hearted, and binds up their wounds”. You are the daughter of a King, wake up, and keep on walking into your purpose. Those who left you and abandoned you weren’t meant for you and God’s going to send you JUST THE SUPPORT YOU NEED. In Jesus name. Amen. God bless you my sister💕
Ps. If your looking for a therapist Try BETTERHELP. It’s an online therapy space. I use it and it’s amazing
Oh honey you are such an angel. Your comments are SO incredibly uplifting and always warm my heart. Thank you so, so much my SISTER! 😭❤️🥺
And thank you for the tip regarding Better Help! I have always heard mixed reviews regarding their services so it’s really nice to hear some positive feedback. I will definitely check it out!
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Hi Ash - just checking in, hope you're ok 💜
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I know how you feel l am going through a break up after 2 years its horrible and he seems to be moving on fast... And I'm not but l feel ok with it because l really did love him so l need time... think of your past relationships you got over them you can do it again... l blocked him everywhere it was so hard but l know we are over so l have to face the pain and stay strong we can do this ❤
Hurts for men too w narcissist ex gf lies same boat
@@calebkeegan3023 oh definitely!! I hate people that lie....
I’m so sorry that you’re struggling with heartbreak too. Sending you so much love and healing ❤️❤️
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You see I can completely understand you.. Two yrs back my ex dumbed me for my friend. She was interested in him and played dirty tricks to separate us and succeed. I fought with everyone just for him but he left me. They are together now and the worst part is that I have to face them everyday.. He knows that she was the reason behind us getting separated but is still with her, Happy! They are enjoying their life.It just breaks me seeing them together each time.. thought was ok now, but no! I guess I have to deal with this feeling throughout my life. I'm now scared to trust anyone...
I’m so sorry to hear about your current situation. As I’ve never experienced that situation, I can’t imagine how painful it’s been for you. But I do know what grief and loss feels like, so for that, please know that you are so far from alone. I too am actively trying my best to soften and remain open in the face of heartbreak, instead of allowing it to make me even more distrustful. It’s much easier said than done!
Someday, you will rewatch these video clips and tell yourself- "Wow. Look how far I've come."
You got this, Ashley. We're with you in this journey much like how you've helped most of us.
Thank you so much 😭🙏🏼 I have been in tears reading all of these comments. Your words mean SO much to me ❤️❤️
Your advice and words are in my journal and helped me a lot when I had the most devastating breakup early this year. Take your time. I hope you’ll be able to get back to your family and support system soon. That’s what I did too. I am doing well now, as a matter of fact- way better. Hang in there.
I'm glad you are being proactive and are planning your new future.
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Please go back home to the US to spend time with family and friends and remember the pain and trauma will eventually subside.
I hope you can get some therapy back home in the states to help you process and let go of the negative thoughts invading your mental space.
I'm 44 year old cancer survivor 5 months separated from my ex of 28 years with 4 children (25, 23, 21 and 7).
I posted to one of your other videos.
Peace, love and unity ❤
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼 I am now back in the US and it’s been really essential to my healing. Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing some of your story! You are truly an inspiration! Thank you for being here 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Im also going through something similar and in my last semester of psych np school. So hard!!
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this! It truly is so so hard ❤️
I’ve been in your state for 6 months. Stay strong.
I’m so sorry that you’ve been in this dark place. It’s truly awful 😞 we will get through it together! ❤️🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord prayers are with you. Hope you find psychological support sooner than later
Thank you so much for this honest video. I wonder how you keep yourself from going back to your ex when you are feeling this way?
You’re so welcome! Thank YOU so much for watching and being here ❤️
It’s definitely not always been easy. But despite my immense pain, both myself and my ex are confident that reconciling is not currently on the table for either of us. So I suppose both of us being on the same page in that regard helps to eliminate it as an option ❤️
@@AshleyNord Thank you for the response! I think you're very brave and strong, it's not always easy to do the right thing. Hang in there!
I had a breakup 4 months ago and my ex girlfriend kept messaging me saying it was all my fault even though she cheated on me and rubbed it in my face. I eventually blocked her but it still hurts. You're videos are helping me.
You'll get through this stay strong 💪😎
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this - that sounds incredibly difficult. To feel betrayed but then also blamed for the betrayal. Ouch! I’m so happy my videos have been able to bring you some comfort ❤️🙏🏼 we will get through this together!
Queen! Are you able to try BetterHelp for the time being?
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This is so incredibly sweet 🥺😭 thank you so very much! I’m so flattered ❤️❤️🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord Ms Ashley plz b strong don't try to disturb ur emotional balance , I will pray that all all ur problem will solve with this ongoing time, try to make ur mood with positive attitude if u feel difficult to maintain it
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Hi Ash , I wanted to say something that was on my heart , I hope you can take it with a grain of salt . I don't know your beliefs but if at any point you feel like the weight is to heavy for you to carry , then i ask you with so much love that you go into a safe place & talk to God about it . It might feel weird at first especially if you've never talked to God or even believe in him . But just speak to him like you would to any of your friends. Just pour out your heart to him & I know that you're going to feel so much love & peace and it'll be inexplicable . 🤍 I hope my words can help offer you some type of guidance
I love that you commented this. Historically, I am not someone who has had much of a belief in a higher power/God - but through this experience, I have found a yearning to connect with something outside of myself, and even this world! I’ve been praying a lot 🙏🏼❤️
@@AshleyNord I think asking for help from spirit guides & Archangels, (Raphael, for healing) even ancestors or just the "universe" can be good too 💜
Whoa - been there a few times ☹️
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I’m going through a breakup for two months now. And I am still now okay. There was a time i grieved, cried a lot and thinking our good memories. And sometimes my heart race wondering if he has a new girl now? 🥺 And why he keep on seeing my stories in ig and facebook.
I’m so sorry that you’ve gone through this ❤️ sending you so much love! We’re in this together!
Please Ashley, or anyone who read this.
It’s ok to be honest with us, it’s ok to feel in pain sometimes, ok to be and feel alone, being scared of meeting or going out. To feel panicked.
It’s okay, EMBRASSE IT and recognize it, put words on the emotions you feel in your head (panic, stress, pain, anxiety…).
If you panic or feel like « ok today I would like to be positive but, hey I feel different ». MENTION IT, write it.
And ask yourself : Why ? Write it down. Why (again) Why ? Why ? Why ? (5times, write any reply). And PLEASE, do yourself a favor. Stay safety, never use medics.
If you feel better. Nice. If you feel that you need something else, do some yoga. I promise that the following fact is true. If you have to stay focus to keep a position, you’ll need to embrasse the present and empty your head.
Today remember you that you looks gorgeous, you’re such a nice person. Please keep us updated.
I really think that you can heal, and find a way. Thank you every time you do something for you (yoga, vacation, studies, make up, sport...).
Also, KEEP THIS IN MIND. When you think about you, and the futur you need to erase the negations of the words. Use positives iterations instead.
And Ashley, you’ve helped me so much. We don’t know each other’s, but you’ve been such a great source of positive attitude when I was on the ground, thinking about a silly end. Please, take care. Thanks you for reading me.
You are so so incredibly kind 🥺😭 thank you so much for taking the time to write this. It truly warmed my heart. I’m so flattered! I am so grateful to have subscribers like you! And I’m so happy to hear that my content has been helpful for you. I LOVE this channel and I don’t know what I would do without it! You’re the best 😭❤️❤️
@@AshleyNord You welcome. I’m happy if I can make you feel good or warmed.
Please, you need to apply every points, every steps. Also, feeling depressed is about knowing what’s happening into you 😁
I REALLY encourage you to read this book about emotions, and struggles : it helps so much to understand yourself more and understand why you feel or act like that or like this (patterns) : Lise Bourbeau - Heal your wounds & find your true self (English Edition).
Because sometimes it happen for a reason and show us something we’ve never seen before about us, deeper than what we were thinking. It will really be helpful, I promise.
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I feel your pain!! I am confident we will heal together ❤️🙏🏼
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This is so so sweet 🥺❤️ thank you so much for your kind words!
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I went through a break up 2 months ago and went home to my parents immediately after. I can only imagine how much more difficult things would have been had I not been able to do that.
Praying away any spirits or thoughts of self harm. Remember that no matter how difficult things get, you are never alone. You are loved more than you could ever imagine.
“God is with you - wherever you may go and no matter what life brings." Joshua 1:9
Gosh, you have no idea how envious I am that you were able to go home and be with your parents. That is something I have yearned for more than I could ever express 😫😭 I am SO happy you had that opportunity! There is something so comforting about being able to go home when your heart is broken.
Thank you so much for your uplifting words! I really appreciate it ❤️🙏🏼
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To the person who gave this video a thumb down- go search your soul as obviously you lost it.
If I could love this comment a hundred times, I would!! Thank you ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼 it often blows my mind that people choose to downvote videos where someone is being so vulnerable about their struggles and pain. I’ll never understand it!
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Will your ex not see this?
He very likely will! Nothing in here he doesn’t know ☺️
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Yep! It sure is. It was actually originally Nordström, but my great grandfather shortened it when he arrived in the US from Sweden ☺️
@@AshleyNord awesome we have the same prefix “Nord” - North 🙂 pretty cool. You don’t see it often!
Ex try reel me in again then I was still too hurt from betrayal via text she ignore me now tired of lies ...she said I'll prove you friends wrong then ghosted cuz she been ignoring again so I said ur dishonest gross done
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@@calebkeegan3023 my ex was the same all he did was lie and l kept forgiving him and going back.... But there comes a time when you have to say enough is enough and break away from the cycle... because you will face a pain either way if you stay or leave.... But l would rather face the hardest pain now because if l stay l will be played everyday....
@@Angela-hd2ck facts hurts so bad texted her tonight Said I accept ur a liar emotionally unavail and cruel gb
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@@Angela-hd2ck I know I've been trying so hard I just have to ignore her if she reaches out it's not fair to me to give me Crumbs of affection oh I'm so sorry I hate myself for what I did but then continue to ghost me even though I flipped the attack saying you know what I just can't trust you and what you did is disgusting and I can't take this I tried to forgive and yet again you ghost me the day my dad told me to kill myself and do it the right way so he doesn't have to take care of me in a wheelchair never been so bummed out of suicide on my life I just want to end it and I can't believe it's over some promiscuous woman I fell in love with for 18 months on and off
Hopefully God and "family" makes some changes to make everything all good & no bad for us all.
Try being heavily Gangstalked for 34+ years, Let's just say I am totally triggered, good thing I don't own a gun. "Sorry if I make bad jokes, sometimes laughter is the best medicine".
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Why not talk to GOD, He cares so much. Just talk to Him, you will be glad you did.
I’m certainly praying a lot lately!! ❤️🙏🏼
@@AshleyNord you will be great and better than yesterday.