I'M BACK! BIG life update... (& WOW I missed you all!)
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2021
- I'M BACK! BIG life update... (& WOW I missed you all!)
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I'm Ash Nord, your truth-bombing fairy godmother for everything love, dating and relationships. With so many idealistic, romanticised Hollywood messages about love out there, my mission is to be an honest, unfiltered source of information for individuals and couples seeking honest relationship advice and love lessons. No games, no manipulation tactics, no teachings about how to trick someone into liking you… so, if that’s what you’re looking for, I’m probably not your girl. My content is geared towards those wanting to learn more about REAL intimacy and togetherness with their partners or future partners. I have a psychological focus (I'm a psychology student) and a genuine passion for understanding how humans relate to and connect with one another. If you're into that type of thing, or would simply like to hear personal stories about my own life experiences and romantic relationships, then stick around! I got you.
DISCLAIMER: Please note everything stated in this video and all videos on my channel are purely my personal opinions and are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a qualified professional and as such my opinions should not be taken as psychological advice. - Навчання та стиль
you're courage to walk away from a relationship that wasn't fulfilling you any longer is truly inspiring.. SO many people stay out of fear of being alone and although those may be your fears as well, you actually had the courage to listen to your heart despite the pain you knew would come from it. I hope the worst is past you and you can begin to adapt to your new life.... I will be here to support you and excited too see what comes next. xx
Thank you SO much 🙏🏼😭 hearing this lifts me up so much, I don’t even have words to express my gratitude! But sadly, I completely agree. Although having gone through the suffering of deciding to walk away, I have so much more compassion for people who choose to settle/stay in unhappy situations. Leaving is really scary and far from easy 😳 but I hope the worst is behind me too!! I think it might be ☺️❤️ thank you so so much again for your support and encouragement.
I think continuing with this channel will be extremely healing and rewarding for you, especially while dealing with those difficult feelings of loneliness you may be experiencing right now. You are loved ❤️
I completely agree, and I’m already wishing I had come back sooner! This outpouring of love is reminding me that I am SO not alone. You guys are incredible. Thank you so so much for your love and support ❤️❤️❤️
I went through a horrible breakup a little over a year ago, and you really helped me. I now have very few friends and I’m on my own journey. If you ever need a friend to talk to, I know we are complete strangers, I’m a good listener!
Gosh I relate to this so much! I’m so happy my content has been helpful for you 🥺❤️ oh I will absolutely take you up on that!! I’ve met so many incredible people through this channel 🙏🏼🙌🏼 please connect with me on Instagram if you haven’t already!! ❤️
I understand that heart break. Been dealing with him ending our 17 year love relationship and 45 year friendship last year. What I don't understand, in what he did is, no talking about how to improve it. People throw away relationships all to fast.
God it’s SO hard isn’t it! You forget how excruciating it is until you’re back in the thick of it again. Sending you so much love and healing ❤️🙏🏼
Ash, sometimes speaking from personal experience enables you to provide the most precious advice. You haven’t failed, you’re building a stronger foundation to speak on these topics. Video idea: how to begin focusing solely on yourself after a break up
Ps. So happy to see a post from you! Never feel guilty if you need to take more time here and there to focus on yourself rather than post.
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective 😭🥰 I’m so appreciative! And I agree, I certainly have a lot more to talk about now! And I absolutely love that video suggestion, and it’s certainly something I can speak to now more than ever.
Thank you so so much ❤️❤️
I also just went through a breakup in July. I can't imagine the challenge you are facing right now with 9 years. (It was one year for me). I found your channel during a really tough time last March with the quarantine, and so many things you said resonated with me. I can't wait to hear more about your new life and experiences in this channel!
I’m so sorry to hear about your your split 😞 breakups, no matter the duration of the relationship, are truly such an immensely painful experience.
I’m so happy my content has resonated with you! I hope it continues to do so!! 🥰❤️❤️
The awesome thing about this now is the advice and guidance you have given us, you can look back at yourself and resonate with. Also, to re-connect with your subscribers it would be great if you did a UA-cam live stream just chatting and answering questions. If you have time of course. I’m sure loads of people would watch and contribute. Also, the live streams bring up interesting topics too. Welcome back !!
I completely agree! I have absolutely looked back at my own videos throughout the past few months 😬 getting advice from yourself is a very odd, yet really unique and special experience! ❤️
I absolutely love this idea! The idea of a live stream has always made me really nervous, but maybe I face my fears and give it a go! ☺️🙏🏼
I was going through of break up of 4 years and I have to say it has been the most painful and vulnerable experience that happened to me by far and I even had suicidal thoughts at some point, I feel much better now but I can only imagine how tough is it for you, your channel helped me a lot and what you going through actually make me feel you are more relatable because we are going through sth similar. I appreciate you to have the courage to share something so personal from your journey
Thank you so so much for sharing this with me, and trust me when I say I feel your pain 110%. You are SO far from alone in this experience - but I’m so sorry you’ve had to feel it 😩 but so happy you’re feeling better!!
Thank you so much for your support ❤️❤️🙏🏼 I’m so so looking forward to sharing my journey with you all!
I went through a breakup a few months ago and your videos have been there for me in my darkest times. I, too, was the one who decided to leave, even though my ex-boyfriend was truly a good guy, so I understand the mixed feelings of guilt and knowing that, deep down, you did the right/loving thing for the both of you.
There's nothing wrong with fighting for yourself first, keep going and don't worry about your content. If anything, it'll show the genuine and raw side of healing. You aren't alone ❤️
Thank you so so much for sharing your experience with me! You’ve really hit the nail on the head. I absolutely know I did the right thing, but making that decision is SO hard. Thank you so much for your kind words of support and encouragement 😭❤️🥺 it means so much to know I’m not alone as well!!
We are here for you and we feel you !! 💜💜 I just want you to know your “failed” relationship does not define or change your knowledge of relationships, you’re human! So excited to see what’s in store for you & we are all on this healing journey with you 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Thank you so so much ❤️🥺😭 your grace and compassion means the world! As hard as this has been, I’m excited to see what’s in store too! It feels amazing to be back 🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️
I agree with this. I have a degree in communication and I can express myself well. And the guy I ended things with could not communicate and handled conflict in a toxic way. No matter how educated or experienced I was I could not help him. Everytime I tried he got angry or accused me of attacking him.
Sometimes we have all the answers, knowledge, and skills and just unable to apply or use them.
Hi, I am in a similar situation myself atm. Thanks for sharing this .. it helps knowing you aren't alone and there are people who can relate to where I am at. I really hope you feel better and look forward to seeing your new channel content 🥰🙏
Happy to see you back. I found about your channel a few months back and your content has been of so much help. I'm confident you'll get through this hard time, and feel way better as time goes on. God bless you.
Thank you so much! It feels SO good to be back. And I’m so happy my content has been helpful for you!! I appreciate your support and encouragement more than I could ever express. Thank you so much for your kindness and well wishes ❤️❤️🙏🏼
I came across your channel quite recently, because I was looking for advice as I was going through a breakup... Your videos have really really helped me, thank you so much. So glad you are back and excited to see new content!
Aw yayyy welcome! I’m so happy to have you here 🥰❤️ and I’m so happy that my content has been helpful for you! It feels amazing to be back and I can’t wait for what’s in store throughout this next chapter 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I'm glad you're back! I'd love to see a video about moving from a toxic relationship to a stable one and how to not self sabotage
I’m so glad I’m back too!! Thank you so much ☺️🙏🏼 ohhh yes such a good topic suggestion! Will certainly plan on covering it! Stay tuned!!!
Even in your pain you are healing, because I have gone through the exact same things and just hearing another person express themselves in such a raw way gives people the courage to express themselves also. So thank you. Sending positive vibes and energy your way. Sometimes things seems so scary, but it’s at this time that we have the opportunity for growth more than ever before, which is often painful and teeth gritting every step of the way. You’ve got this ❤️
I absolutely adore you and your channel and I'm soooo happy you're back!! ❤️ What's crazy is, I've been experiencing the exact same thing as you the past few months, with huge dumps of loneliness and knowing that I'm not alone makes me feel so much better! So excited for more content from you 😁😍 xoxo
Oh my goodness thank you SO much 😭🙏🏼 it feels incredible to be back and I’m honestly kicking myself for not doing it sooner! Connecting with you all again and seeing familiar names/faces (like yours!) has already been so profoundly healing for me. Thank you sooo much for your support and for patiently waiting for me!! 🙏🏼😭❤️
You have helped me a lot in my healing process, especially the advice which you gave about just sitting with the emotions I was are going through. I know how worthless we feel in these times. But I think your channel will only grow with all the new insights and experiences you how have to share with the world. Cheers!
I’m so happy to hear that! Thank you so much for sharing 🥺❤️ that’s advice I’ve definitely been following for the past few months! Really surrendering to my emotions and allowing them to move through me. Thank you so much for your kind words 😭🙌🏼🙌🏼
You are so brave! You helped me go through my worst breakup 2 years ago, and now once again, I’m going through it again and here I am. Watching your videos! I hope you are way way better now ❤️
Thank you for your videos …. I really appreciate your words and can relate to everything you say.
Thank YOU for being here ❤️ I’m so happy you resonate with my videos 😘
You are doing GREAT! We all will still love and welcome you- you are never alone. I’ve watched so many of your videos during trying times and you’ve been an inspiration to both me and my friends! Maybe things on how you knew it was time to end the relationship would be helpful! :)
Oh my goodness thank you so much ❤️🥺 seriously just hearing a “you’re doing great” is enough to bring me to tears 😭 your encouragement and support truly does mean the world. And yes!! Thank you for the suggestion!! 🙌🏼 certainly bookmarking that one ☺️🙏🏼
My heart goes out to you. I got out of a 9 year toxic relationship about 5 months ago and your videos helped me tremendously in finding clarity and closure within myself so thank you so much. I extend nothing but healing wishes for you .
I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve been going through your own difficult time! Leaving such a long term relationship is NOT easy, and this experience has truly broadened my empathy and compassion for those who choose to stay. The right choice is often the more difficult path! You should be so incredibly proud of your courage and strength.
Thank you SO much for your love and support!! ❤️❤️🙏🏼
I’m going through a break up too since the beginning of this month, and I’m so grateful to discover you. I’m doing some good progress, and I’m so happy to be here and to support you the same you share your content. ❤️
Hi! You were my very first subscribe when it came to all things relationships and healing. I've been split up four months from my narcissist wife and I'm getting stronger everyday. Good to see you back! Xxx
So happy to see you back Ash😍
Your content is very much relevant and helpful...
My way of thinking and looking at life has drastically changed since I followed you...
Thank you very much ♥️
It feels SO good to be back!! Thank you so so much ☺️🥺❤️ and I’m sooo happy to hear my content has been so meaningful for you. It means so much to me!! 🙏🏼
I went through a breakup last year and ur words helped me heal and grow stronger. Im sending u a big hug from México and thank u.
I’m so sorry you went through your own split! But I’m so happy to hear my words have been helpful to you 🥺🙏🏼 thank you so much for the love!!! ❤️ sending it right back!
I just stumbled upon your channel recently, and you have no idea how much of a help you’ve contributed to my mental well-being Ash, Thank you so much. You got this. You are strong and beautiful. Just loving your mindset, truly inspiring. There’s so much more in store in life for all of us. 😊
Oh this comment is so so sweet, thank you so much 🥺 you have no idea how much it means to me that my content has been so meaningful for you! Sending you so much love ❤️❤️🙏🏼
You are so real Ashley. What you've shared is all about your channel-Struggles of real love and relationship. Lots of love Ashley! We are all in this together!
Don't doubt yourself Ash! You still have so much valuable guidance to give! You'll resonate with so many different people who are on this new chapter too! I myself have just come out of a very long relationship and re entering the dating world is very daunting! Would love to see your videos on it!
Thank you so so much!! Truly 😭❤️🙏🏼 absolutely, I’m really looking forward to exploring life after a long term relationship with you all. There is so much to unpack! Stay tuned, lots to come ☺️☺️🙌🏼
I found your channel during the pandemic and your content played a huge role in helping me rebuild the relationship with myself after leaving a three year relationship that was incompatible... The mantras in one of your videos inspired me to mindfully practice love/respect for myself. The lesson I learned is to remember who you are. Thank you.
I’m so happy my content has been so impactful for you! 😭❤️ I’ve had to go back and rewatch some of my videos myself! Choosing yourself is SO important! ❤️
I found your channel in april when i had my first break up ever, your video helped me so much in term of accepting the reality and how to forgive. Don't worry you are amazing and i won't unsubscribe
I’m so sorry to hear that you have been going through your own heartbreak! But I’m so happy you find your way here, and that my videos have been helpful for you ❤️ thank you SO much for your support 🥺🙏🏼🙏🏼
I am so grateful I cam accross your channel. I have been sobbing my heart out all day about a break up. I'm feeling so much more positive now. I realise I need to be on my own and focus on myself for a long time as it was just emotional addiction and not healthy at all :(. Im going to miss him so much but watching your videos is making me realise I need to love myself first in order to have a healthy balanced relationship! thank you. xxx
I super respect the transparency here. I’ve been going through my own horribly painful split. This is authentic, and I give you so much hugs! Wishing you a beautiful healing experience.
Thank you so much! 😭🥺 there’s a lot that I can fault myself for, but trying my best to be as transparent as possible isn’t one of them! So thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼 truly! Your words mean so much ❤️
@@AshleyNord girl, absolutely. I remember collapsing when I first entered “the apartment” omg it was the most dramatic thing, thankfully it was just me. Fetal position on a recently cleansed carpet in a super empty apartment, and THE WORST ugly cry of my life. 🙈😂 Same. Had never done it fully on my own, complete culture shock. And heart break times two (another story lol) ugh I could have died a few times. It is painful AF!!! 34 and I was floored with wtf is actually going down right now. I’m officially 3 months in no contact 💯 single from a 8 year + 4 year relationship = 12 year insanity… it (as you know) will get better slowly, painfully slowly. When that head takes over heart, ooff that intuition and the trust.. if everyone could truly understand THAT feeling!! I feel for you! But please. Keep sharing. Whatever the outcome I have no question it does not serve without purpose for a multitude of reasons and perspectives. 😌🙏🏻 Lots of love. 🤍
Big hugges from Denmark. Your videoes have helped a lot of people! You are the love mother for many reasons!
Aww thank you so much! 🥺 I’m so happy my videos have helped you ❤️❤️🙏🏼
That part about maybe feeling regret later is so important. I stayed in my relationship so long for that reason, afraid to have regrets in the future.
The part about being alone is so resonating and important. Thank you so much for that honesty. The loneliness is not talked about enough. You seem like such an amazing person so if you feel lonely, there is nothing wrong or weird with me feeling the same. Thank you.
Thank you so much! I actually touched on this more in my video I just recorded. So stay tuned for that! But you’re absolutely right - I think so many of us stay crippled by our fear for this exact reason. Thank you so so much for kind words 😭🙏🏼 it truly means so much to me! We are so far from alone ❤️
@@AshleyNord Gonna watch your new video for sure! I had an idea for a topic for you. I was wondering, could you maybe talk sometime about doubts after the break up/break up regret? Maybe you already touched on it, my bad if you did! I had lingering doubts in my relationship (which was pretty perfect one) without a clear reason and my ex broke up with me bc of those doubts. He moved on to the next very quickly but I still keep wondering if it was a big mistake of mine to have those doubts and I keep regretting the break up (even though he broke it off). I am not trying to get him back or anything but those feelings are so annoying and hard to move on from.
Edit: Oh you touch on it in your new video. Great! Thank you!
You are AMAZING!!! I think you are strong that you actually could listen to urself and do the step! Be strong❤❤❤
Thank you so so much!! 🙏🏼😭❤️ honestly, your support means the world!!
Holy Cow- I started balling with shared pain of breaking your partners heart when breaking up was the only option to help both parties heal!!! Man, I know how you feel...AWESOME SHARED VIDEO... THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS 🙏
Props for getting back on here and being brutally honest. Your videos helped me tremendously the past four months. Please keep making videos 🙏
Thank you so much 🥺🙏🏼 I appreciate your support and encouragement more than I could ever express!!
I’ve missed you. Glad to see you’re back on your feet and I wish you the best fortune on this new journey you’re on🌟👑
I’ve missed you all soooo much! 🥺❤️ thank you so so much!!
my relationship of 3.5 years ended about a month ago :( your new videos have helped me a lot, helps me not feel alone! I can really relate to how you feel!
So glad you’re back. Sending you so much love 🤍🤍
Thank you so much!! It feels so incredible to be back 😭❤️❤️
Hope everything gets better for you! I'll watch whatever you put out because you really helped me in a dark moment in my life 🤙🏼
Thank you so so much!! I really appreciate it ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm happy to see you back. Meeting you in person I know you are a genuine and a warm human being. You know your craft. looking forward to future vids x. Lessons Lived are Lessons Learnt X
Thank you so so much 🥺🙏🏼 I am so humbled and honored by your words. Truly, it means the world to me ❤️❤️
You can completely continue to give us your thoughts and advice! Now even more so!!!! Your experience will be even stronger !!! I’m sorry for your pain. I totally get it. Am there myself
Thank you so much!! This means so so much to me to hear 😭🙏🏼 I am so grateful for your support! ❤️
Ash, you're doing great! Don't worry about what people think about your or your situation. You have touched my life in a very positive way, I watched all your videos when I was going through a hard breakup and I still have a lot of love and respect for you. You are human just like the rest of us and nothing in life is guaranteed. Like you said, we all change and evolve and what served us previously will not necessarily be the best for us indefinitely. You will get through this and come out 1000% stronger. Keep focusing on you, sister! You got this❤
Thank you so much 😭😭🙏🏼 I’m so happy I’ve had a positive impact on your life! Hearing that means the world to me, and all I’ve ever hoped to achieve with this channel.
I have full trust and confidence I will absolutely get through this! And being reconnected with you all again has truly solidified that. Thank you so much for your love and support ❤️❤️
❤❤🌻So sorry to hear that!
Welcome back, Ash!
Thank you so much!! 🥺🙏🏼❤️
I just found you today and I’ve been on both sides of this. My husband of 17 years left me for a 25 year old two months ago. I’m 57. I’m destroyed and the loneliness is maybe the worst part. You are very genuine and I wish all the best for you.
A suggestion for a topic
I don’t know how to heal my inner wounds
Ohhh wow today!? Amazing! What a day to join 🥰❤️ welcome! So happy to have you hear!
Gosh, I’m so very sorry to hear about your situation. I truly cannot imagine the pain you are going through. The loneliness truly is the worst part, it keeps me up at night. Hang in there!! We will get through this TOGETHER!
I am also going through a heart breaking phase. Your videos are helpful for me. Just keep connecting with us. I hope we both will overcome this. 🙂👍
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this as well! 😖 it’s SO hard. You are far from alone! I’m so happy to hear my videos have been helpful for you ❤️ we will definitely get through this together!
You quickly forget just how impactful a breakup is… it turns your world up side down in so many ways…
I would love to hear more about the experience of the dumper, and how even though it hurts like fuck you can stick to your guns… I’ve never understood that
Gosh you truly do hey, I couldn’t agree more! I think each one brings with it it’s own unique pain as well 😞
Absolutely! This is such a good question and something I often wondered myself too. I will definitely talk about this in future videos ❤️🙏🏼
I've always enjoyed your videos in silence ever since I went through my own breakup, about 9 months ago (my relationship was 6 years). Your videos have helped me so much so I want to take this opportunity to say thank you Ash💕 I'm sorry to hear that you've had such a painful last couple of months and although it feels like you're alone, just know that you have people who support you and appreciate you! I resonate to the guilt you described SO MUCH and is something I'm still currently working through. I try to remind myself that doing what's best for you is something you shouldn't feel guilty about.
Welcome back ❤ Sending you lots of hugs~! I'll appreciate any content you decide to put on this channel and I'm happy to see you explore new things in this new life chapter! ^-^
Oh I loooove hearing from my silent observers!! 🥺🙏🏼 thank you so much for reaching out! Honestly it means so much to me 😩❤️ I absolutely feel so NOT alone after posting this video and reading comments like you’re. It had truly made my day and given me so much hope and excitement to move forward. Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hey love. I know it‘s not the same, but you‘re not alone. We are right here with you, we feel for you, we SEE you. We‘re feeling your pain and you‘re not the only one going through this right now. You were here for us in our most painful moments and we’re here to support you, if you need us. Stay strong, you‘re gonna be okay ♥️🥰
Your guys love and support means SO much, trust me. These comments are filling me with a warmth and comfort I haven’t felt in a long time 😩❤️ thank you so so so much, hearing this is sooo healing.
This is the best thing you could have ever done for yourself. It is growth, i was in the same exact place. With him since 21 and broken up at 29 my choice. If you have to cry it out do it but i can tell you it gets so much better when you truly know yourself
As hard as this experience is, I completely agree with you! I have full trust I am exactly where I need to be and that it was the best decision for me ❤️🙏🏼 thank you so so much for your support and encouragement. It means the world to me, truly!
Omg girl! You were very very missed! I hope you're okay, healthy and well. Sending you lots of love ❤
Aww thank you so much!! 🙏🏼 it feels SO good to be back. I have missed you all more than o can describe in words!
If anything this experience has made you wiser, stronger, and more capable of advising and helping those struggling with relationships. Thank you for your vulnerability, it is seen as strength in my eyes. Your content has been incredibly helpful! It helped me in my past relationship and has still helped me in my current one. Much love and I hope that you can see just how incredible you are soon! You are strong and resilient and MORE than capable of moving through this chapter of your life and into the next. I am excited to see where your life's journey takes you xx
Thank you so much 🥺😭🙏🏼 I need to remind myself of this! If one thing, it is absolutely deepening my empathy for heartbreak, loss and moving on even more than I ever thought possible!
Your words have brought me to tears 😭❤️❤️ honestly you have no idea how much this means to me! THANK YOU! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ashley! Your videos have helped me more than you know during my worst breakup last year, and you’re one of the few love youtubers I will listen to, resonate with, and respect. Life is just always throwing things at us, and I hope you’ll be okay! I’ll still be here supporting and watching no matter what direction you go in with the channel! Xx
Thank you sooo much for sharing that with me 😭🙏🏼 I’m so sorry you went through your own difficult breakup! Man they are SO hard.
Truly, thank you so much for your kind words and your support! It means the absolute world! Sending you so much love ❤️
Your videos helped me so much thank you for everything
I’m so happy to hear that! 🥺❤️ you’re so so welcome!! Thank YOU!
Ash, I'm so sorry. Thank you so much for being brave & sharing your experience. I think a lot of women will benefit from your video. Eat, sleep, exercise, cry, rinse lather repeat. EMDR therapy helped me with my breakup (and your content). Take care 🙏 Love to you 💜🌈
Thank YOU so much for helping to create a space where I can be so honest about my life! It’s so incredibly healing for me. And thank you so much for your words of support and encouragement. It means SO much to me. Sending that love right back!! ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Wow, I just discovered you and watched your toxic relationship video. This is such an open, vulnerable, honest video. How much courage did it take you to leave a relationship that wasn't in alignment with your lifes soul path? I have the utmost respect for you and you have so much strength. You are worthy of sharing. You are going to come out the other side with far more wisdom and you gave me even more strength to leave my current toxic situation. Be strong, stay focused. I support you.
Thank you so, so much for taking the time to write this comment! Truly, I can’t express in words how much this means to me. It’s been an incredibly scary and difficult few months navigating this very unchartered territory - but despite the often agonizing pain, I know I’m where I need to be! Thank you so much again for your words of support and encouragement ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Speak on it! , No one wants to talk about the loneliness many of us are experiencing....love your vulnerability and authenticity
Still trying to heal after 15 year relationship ending. I know I'm making mistakes but I'm learning to forgive myself thru it all
Gosh the loneliness is SO real - and I have absolutely no issues with being as transparent about it as humanly possible! It’s what allows us to feel less alone! Giving that loneliness a voice is so powerful. So happy to hear that you’re showing yourself grace and compassion through your own healing journey ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Going through the same thing, seeing the light now. It takes a while but a more resilient person that understands themselves more emerges on the other side.
I completely agree!! And I’m so sorry that you’re going through this as well 😞 it’s truly excruciating. But we will heal together! 🙏🏼❤️
Right now going thru what you are going thru is exponential with what else is going on in this world. You are doing fantastic!! You honesty is your strength! Pease watch your nervous system health, my narc and co-dependent dynamic of a 26 year relationship, (which is now ending) brought on night sweats that ended up being Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma some years ago, stage 4, but what a blessing it was been because I did the work over the last 8 years to keep my body from reacting to the emotional turmoil (which included watching your channel) and now the relief is outweighing the grief. Breaking so many chains!! I think with all the changes everyone is going thru with the Pandemic everything seems like its shifting and morphing as a collective mind and we have to just stay grounded what ever that looks like. My daughter is your age and I just shared this with her. You remind me of her in many ways. Aloha and sending lots of blessings!
Thank you so so much for your words of support and encouragement! And I’m SO sorry to hear about your situation and that you ended up becoming so physically unwell. And I agree, right now is such a HUGE shift globally and it’s so so immensely heavy on us all. This truly is such an overwhelming transition and shedding period. Thank you so much again!! ❤️🙏🏼
You got this ash!!!!! You are the smartest strongest person and there once was a time where I only can listen to you to get sleep. I was discarded it hurts so bad. YOU HELPED ME❤️. But remember you are human still. We all are. So yes… it hurts. That doesn’t take away from you.
Oh thank you SO much! Your words are so encouraging to me and I really appreciate the support. I am absolutely a flawed human and can only do the best I can! Thank you ❤️❤️🙏🏼🥺
You're so strong and so inspiring, thank you for being here ♥
Thank you SO much 😭🙏🏼❤️ thank YOU for supporting me and being here during my own difficult chapter! It means the world!
@@AshleyNord We can be all here for each other in those so difficult chapters. Like you I thought I had had enough heartbreak and suffering in my life but a pain like this, I think it's the worst that we can experience 😭 But we can learn from it, try to better ourselves and love ourselves more in the process, we are so strong and we deserve the right kind of love for us ❤️
If you ever feel alone and discouraged again... Just read all these amazing comments and know how loved you are all over the world... you have a gift and I believe this journey you are on is happening for a reason. It took a lot of courage to come back online and that means huge progress with your healing. Looking forward to your videos that have also helped me so much.
Honestly, these comments have moved me in ways I cannot even express. I am completely and utterly blown away! I have the most incredible subscribers in you all 😭🙏🏼 thank you SO much for your kind words of support and encouragement! It means SO much to me! ❤️❤️🙌🏼
This video as sorry as I am that you're going through this, gave me hope for I am divorcing after a 8yr relationship, 4yr married. My heart is with you doll! But this gave me hope because I felt also so alone, and if you're on here making a video and the words you spoke and even if you don't yet believe it the fact you spoke them positive words aloud means you have hope within and it gave me that. Thank you🥰
I understand this comment soo fully and completely 😭🙏🏼 although I don’t wish this pain or experience on anyone either, it’s so so healing to know that I’m truly not going through it alone. This grief is such a collective experience for so many of us. We will absolutely heal and get through this together!! I have full trust and confidence in that ❤️🙏🏼🥺 thank YOU!!
♥️today i discovered your channel your videos are so insightful
Aw yayy! Welcome! So happy to have you here ☺️🙏🏼 and I’m so happy you find my content insightful!! Thank you ❤️❤️
@@AshleyNord thanks Ash! also i want to share that i left my ex six month ago and now im in a relationship with someone else but these days i constantly think about my ex and i feel like i miss him which seems like an illusion to me. anyways i want to ask you if you can make video about the topic of staying friends with our exes? is it possible, is it dangerous what are your thoughts about this topic. thank you in advance :)
Hugs 🤗
Also, would like to AFFIRM that... yes, your content is helpful, powerful and valued. Please never ever believe the contrary. Admire your courage, and appreciate that, even still, you still rise to share with all of us. Thank you, Ash 🙏🏾
Thank you so much!! 😭🙏🏼 I have missed this channel soooo incredibly much and I will always try to continue it. Your support and encouragement means the absolute world to me, truly. I am so blessed 😭🙏🏼
Really missed you and it's nice to have you back! Ik it's hard but you will eventually be okay because im sure god will give you back all the love and support you gave all of us when we were going through our brekaups❤. Stay strong, we love you❤❤
I missed you so much too!! 😭 I’m kicking myself for not coming back sooner, because reconnecting with you all is clearly exactly what I needed! Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for all you do. We got your back !
You’re so so welcome 🥺❤️ thank YOU!! I am feeling the love from you all so much! 😭🙏🏼🙏🏼
Isolation is the worst part, but you're not alone. Time heals the wounds sometime, and if it doesn't, surely will make you stronger
Amazing vid Ash. Welcome back. ❤️
Thank you Luke ❤️ nothing but love for you!
Ash, you have helped me so much over the last 12 months as I go through my separation and inevitable divorce. Sending you so much love and good wishes. I hope you can find peace and comfort very soon. Thank you for what you do x
I’m so so sorry to hear about your own separation and divorce 🥺 but I’m so so humbled to know my content has been helpful for you. After posting this video and seeing this outpouring of love, I’m confident peace and comfort is much closer than I previously thought! ❤️ thank you so so much 🙏🏼
I am proud of you and I love you
no ashley youre still totally worth giving advice to us, you also talk about self love on your channel and you did the right thing for yourself and even showed us that sometimes being with the person you love so much still isnt the best thing for yourself. We love you so much still and are here for you
i found your page three days before this video, i was searching about different topic , (i dont want to mention what was that)
then youtube suggest your channel one of them, i watched one of your videos, i liked your page then i subscribe you, now i watched your latest video i really got emotional, i hope best of best for you
I’m so happy you found your way here! Welcome! Thank you for watching and supporting 🙏🏼❤️ I really appreciate it!
So sorry to hear you're going through this. The limbo right now/ this adjusting part, is super difficult, SUPER SUPER difficult.. And not sure if anything will make it easier, but remember you have a community of people here who support you & want's to see you win
Thank you so much 🥺❤️ ugh, this part is truly SO hard. It’s the ground from beneath your feet and everything you thought and knew has been completely ripped out 😖 it’s been very challenging to say the least, but coming back and seeing this outpouring of love and support from you all has already made the BIGGEST difference. Truly! Thank you so so so much, I’m sooo appreciative ❤️❤️
Wanted to say that I’m praying for peace and comfort to you right now. Dealing with the lost of friends have to be tough. Give yourself a lot of grace, like A LOT. Stay close to God and stay connected to a counselor and others who are safe places for you.
Much love 🌧🌦🌈☀️
Hii
I just saw your videos from last 2 days
I liked these really much ..
So I decided to subscribe your channel
You r a ⭐️
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Oh thank you so so much! Welcome! So happy to have you here ❤️❤️❤️
I feel your pain through this SO hard. Been through the same thing.
Gosh it truly is so brutal 😩😖 I’m so sorry that you know this pain as well ❤️
Be strong as you always are.
Lots of love, catch a big cuddle from the 🇬🇧 You've had our back. We've got yours now xxx
Thank you SO much! I feel so so supported by you all right now 🥺😭🙌🏼❤️
IVE MISSED YOU ENDLESSLY you have no clue how many times I checked your channel to make sure I didn’t miss a notification or something. I could cry I’m so happy right now.❤️❤️❤️❤️ can’t wait to see what the future has in store for you beautiful lady ❤️
Ahhh I’ve missed you so much too!! 😭❤️😩 it feels SO good to be back. Thank you so so much, this is sooo heart warming to hear. Thank you so much for your patience and support! It honestly means the world to me!! 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼
@@AshleyNord we will ALWAYS be here for you just like you’ve always been there for us!!!!! I’m going through a break up as well and it’s so comforting knowing I’m not alone ❤️ love you girl we got this
Love you, friend! So happy to see your face on here again ❤️
I love you too!! Thank you sooooo much for EVERYTHING! ❤️❤️❤️
I think you still have a right to talk about things your content was previously about.. I found you months ago and your videos have helped a lot! I’m still struggling but watching your videos gives me the strength to stand my ground when I feel weak. Out of the youtubers and videos I’ve watched on break ups, you are the one I really resonate with and I’ve always felt like you understand without even knowing me and my situation. I really have learned things from you and I always come back when I need to remind myself of the gold nuggets you’ve dropped in the past. Please continue what you have been doing.. I’m sorry for your break up as well, your loyal followers/subscribers has your back through and through. ♥️
Gosh you’re going to make me cry 😭❤️ thank you so, so much. It’s words like this that have honestly kept me going and have really motivated me to come back. I’m so happy to hear that my content has been so meaningful for you. I feel sooo supported by you all! Thank you!!! ❤️❤️🙌🏼🙌🏼
Stay strong Ashley. You got this!
Thank you so much!! 😭❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Very Vulnerable, thank you. Not going anywhere...you helped me so much during a breakup. If I could "super-subscribe" I would! I'll send you back some of the great advice you gave us; forgive yourself. Breaking up with a legit good person can even be harder in many ways. It's not a race to move on; move forward at your own, authentic pace and give yourself some grace. Even though you did the breaking up, many times we are still heartbroken from what the relationship could have been. Sending you good vibes.
Thank YOU for listening and for providing a platform that I can feel safe to share my vulnerability 🥺🙏🏼❤️ thank you SO much for your words of support, I am honestly speechless. It means so incredibly much to me. And I completely agree with everything you said here. Being the one to initiate a split from an amazing person certainly comes with its own very unique challenges! Thank you so much again ❤️❤️
Pls continue this channel. Now is our turn to be with you in this journey as you had been with ours. Prayers of healing and growth for you ♥️
I absolutely will continue! You all have more than encouraged me to do just that! Thank you so so much 🥺❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Oh girl, I can’t even explain to you how much I relate to your journey and what you are going through. You are so strong and so brave to share your story with so many and be so vulnerable online. I’m sure that is so hard to do, but also so amazing to see as it really helps those of us who feel alone in this pool of heartbreak. I think the loneliness is the hardest part. Especially after being engaged to someone who you planned your life with. I also lost most of my friendships during my breakup. And spent almost everyday since the end by myself. I always wished someone would be transparent about that part of it, and just how isolating it can feel ( I too am an introvert and even for me it is deafening to be this alone ). My ex moved on so quickly and my journey has been so not that way. It’s all so difficult even after a year. I know this is just the internet but know you aren’t alone in this. I truly feel like heartbroken people are the walking wounded in silence. The journey from there to even here being a year out is a complication of a million news firsts that will be so scary sometimes amaZing but equally heartbreaking. And so so raw. I really think this will only make your advice online toward what you are going through even more real and relatable. Big big hugs to you. I applaud you so much for sharing and look forward to seeing the amazing content that I know you will put out in the world. Repurpose your beautiful pain❤️ cheering you on from America. 🤗
Gosh I so desperately wish I had come back sooner 😩 realizing how not alone I am through all your comments and support is truly so so so moving. Thank you SO much for your words. And you’re right, the loneliness has absolutely been the hardest part and knowing that so many others experience this too is so healing. THANK YOU so much for your support ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm currently going through a breakup. I made the decision to end things after five months. I loved him very much but he was toxic.
It's been 4 days and although I am confident with my decision it has been hard. Your videos have made such a big difference in the healing process.
I found your first video yesterday and I feel like you are inspiring! I feel like you are so smart and we learn from our experiences. You should never stop posting!
I’m so sorry you’re going through a breakup too! They are so incredibly painful. But I’m so humbled to hear that my videos have made a positive impact in your healing process. That’s all I could ever hope for when creating my content! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Hi Ash, just really want to give you a huge massive hug!! I know that you're in alot of emotional turmoil and want you to know we've got you and we're here for you. I found your channel at a time when I was going through probably the worst chapter of my life and honestly I don't think you understand how much your videos helped me towards some form of healing process. I'm so happy that you're back and hope you can use this channel to help you heal. Making content will take on a whole new different meaning for you now. And I am excited to see the awesomeness that you'll produce from here on out. Keep going my lovely, one step at a time ❤❤❤
Oh gosh I would love nothing more than a big hug 🥺😭❤️ but I absolutely feel it virtually! I am completely overwhelmed with this outpouring of love and support. Thank you SO much! It means so much to me to hear that my content has been so helpful for you throughout your own healing. As painful as it is for me right now, I have full confidence I will heal in time too 🥺❤️ thank you thank you thank you!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Its really nice to hear that perspective on being the one to break up not being easier. My ex left, then came back told me she still loved me, a wwek later left again. Ive completely lost myself and had to rebuild and none of it made sense but its nice to hear ur perspective that its not easy either side.
If its one thing ive learnt in the long run all the hard shit that happens t us are the biggest lessons and try remember that because there is gold in there, and also learning how we see reality, theough ur life experience ive heard u talk about people not being there for you. Which if we believe something we will see it everywhere and also create it .. somethjng to consider, and somethjng mindfulnesscan help with awareness of trances.
really admire your honesty and approach to how u see all this. And ur helping others while u navigate this. Keep it up. And as for the loneliness,,,,, mindfulness practice and connecting with community as much as u can, find ur tribe. In all areas of ur community where u can. U can learn from people from all walks of life. Good job 😊
I’m so happy that me sharing my perspective was helpful for you! I can assure you, I have found NOTHING easier about being the one to walk away. It is such an incredibly difficult thing to do when you love someone, but just know deep down that the dynamic isn’t the right fit for you.
I absolutely love that you have mentioned mindfulness practices in regards to trances! I listened to a Tara Brach talk on that exact topic this morning.
Thank you so much for your support and encouragement! It means so much to me ❤️🙏🏼
I relate to this on a deep level. I just ended my relationship of over 4 years and I broke his heart. I just knew deep down I couldn’t stay with him forever and the longer I stayed the more it would hurt to leave. So yesterday I broke up with him. He never wants to see me or talk to me again. I love him dearly and I wish I could take away his pain while I’m still in so much pain myself.
Just found you. You are amazing and brave x
Aww welcome and thank you for being here! And thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words, it means so much to me ❤️🙏🏼
Mannn I hear you, been going through the hardest break up of my life. I’m turning 30 in a month and truly thought me and my ex girlfriend were it for me. It sucks. It’s been 3 months for me now and I’m doing the self work but it’s hard af
Gosh I feel your pain so immensely! Although I don’t wish it on anyone, it’s so incredibly healing to know I’m not alone. We will absolutely heal and get through this TOGETHER! ❤️🙌🏼
@@AshleyNord absolutely, gonna take time but more importantly the right steps moving forward for self improvement and fulfillment 🙏🏽❤️
@@AshleyNord you’re in Australia?
This was literally 2020/2021 for me but honey there is another side at the end of the journey. That ending becomes a start of a whole new season. You aren’t alone
Thank you so so much! I’m so excited for what the future has in store ❤️🙏🏼 I’m so proud of you for getting to the other side of your own heartbreak!
We love you and time will heal everything ash. Just keep going ❤️
Thank you so much!! I will absolutely keep going! 🙏🏼❤️🥰
Yo new day new sunshine ...n new life ..enjoy ..keeep exploring new in u ..there is nthng like stop in life..back with a banggg!!
Yewww Amen!! 🙌🏼❤️ love your positivity!! Thank you so much! 🙏🏼
I can clearly feel your pain 😔
Wow. I haven’t even finished this video and I FEEL this in my core. I have separated from my spouse officially not even a week ago and… I am dealing with the core fear of loneliness and being alone. My two close friends have stopped talking to me because of choices I’ve made in the relationship and now I’m by myself for the first time in my life. Truly alone. And just to make it worse my partner had reconnected with their ex during a hard time in our relationship and now they have openly express feelings for her and wanting to explore things with her more during our separation. They are barely home and it’s crushing every time I’m back here with myself. So I’m feeling truly truly alone and it’s so hard to just muster up the energy to get out of bed and function. I’m trying my absolute best every day but wow, this video really is hitting home for me.
Thank you so much for sharing all the difficulties you're facing right now. Your videos have been my light that has brightend up my loneliest and darkest times. You have no idea how many times you've saved me. Whenever I fall back into those miserable situations, I would always come back to this channel. I'm also going through the most painful breakup I've ever had in my entire life, so I've been rewatching your videos over and over again.
I don't want you to feel small or think you're not worthy of giving advice anymore just because you're going through what every single one of us on this planet goes through as well. It just means you're human, too. If anything, this video makes me like you and relate to you even more. Again, thank you for sharing your life journey with us. I know it must have been difficult to do that. Just remember that you're not alone in this. Can't wait for the next video! 😇💙🖤✨
Thank YOU so much for listening and taking the time to write this comment 😭🙏🏼 you have no idea how much it means to me to hear that my content has been a light for you. You guys are now returning that tenfold to me right now! Truly, comments like this are providing the biggest, warmest light on my soul right now. Thank you SO much for your support and encouragement!! 🙏🏼😭❤️❤️🥺