There is so much I could say but your words say it all perfectly ❤ We will both be eternally grateful for the women you are in this moment and the bravery it has given you ❤️ Love you
Oh Sash… stay strong. I met my now ex husband when i was 20. Married at 26 and filed divorce at 31. It was the hardest and most painful time of my life. 33 now and i look back on that time and think of all the lessons i learnt and the experiences that have shaped me in to the stronger person i am today. I am healthy, happy and ultimately feel like myself again. I’m not going to sugar coat it. Divorce is painful. It takes time and I suspect it’s something that will always stay with me, but i have zero regrets. It’s part of my journey and i am strong believer that our lives are mapped out for us. My biggest advice to you is to lean in to your feelings, allow yourself to grieve and learn from this experience. Sending you love and strength. X
I absolutely love your videos - I found you during Covid and you bring so much comfort and joy to your audience. Im sorry you are going through this . Sending you all the love
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I love watching your videos because you live your life so authentically and unapologetically, you’re definitely my favourite person on UA-cam. Sending love and hugs 💕
I’m so sorry love, sending you so much love. Sometimes loving someone truly means letting them go, as hard as it is. But we can do hard things and there WILL come a day where it won’t hurt as much. Lean on your support system, friends, dog cuddles and music also help massively (kelsea ballerini’s new ep about her own divorce has been my therapy) and give yourself space to feel all the things, big and small. We’re all very proud of you for sharing this and wish you all the best
You fucking incredible and I’m so so glad I came across your page probably around 2 years ago. Thank you for sharing this, you did not have to but your message will help many. I’m so sorry you are going through this. As a single 26 year old around all my friends in relationships, you’ve reminded me that I’ve made the right decision in not settling in my early 20s for something that did not serve me as I’m an evolving person and want to make sure my next relationship fits me better. Keep doing what you’re doing and all the best for you future xxx
Watching this as a 22 year old really hit me, people have always said you grow a lot in your 20s but your words and explanation here has hit me more than any other person and gave me a lot of hope for the change that is to come for me mentally, thank you so much for sharing. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and it must be one of the hardest things to accept and move through. You’re stronger than you might ever expect and it’s very evident in this video. Take care of yourself and take any time you need to process it even if that’s 6 months down the line and it hits you all over again. Sending lots of love❤️
Thank you so much for sharing - your explanation will resonate with so many. Wishing you all the love and strength in the world in your progress moving forward ❤
It felt wrong to like this video, because it’s awful seeing you hurting, but I’m just inspired by how brave you are, Sasha. I’m so sorry to hear what’s happened. It’s true what they say, that time is a healer. Take all the time you need to feel whatever you’re feeling. We’re all here for you. x ❤
Oh darling, to hear you speak with such honesty and emotion had tears rolling. 😢 You truly are such wonderful people that it really is so sad to hear this. I admire wholeheartedly how you’re managing the situation. Sending you the biggest lot of love and hugs 🥰
Sending your heart some love ❤ beautiful to see you listen to your soul and intuition calling for more and your fearlessness to move through pain to get there ✨✨
Oh Sasha, I’ve watched your vlogs but never commented but how could I not. What a thoughtful and heartfelt explaination (that you didn’t need to give) You come across in such a wonderful way and this is but another chapter that unfortunately has ended. Your story is far from over and the next chapter is only a page away… keep up the humour, I know more than ever, that it always helps! Sending you all the love but would imagine you have more than enough. X
Ah Laura, this is beautiful. Thank you so much for sending me a message when you wouldn’t normally, your words mean so much. Thank you thank you thank youuuuu
Felt every emotion watching this. Can completely identify how devastating a breakup can be even when amicable. As you say you don’t owe this explanation but hopefully it’s a step in your healing. Your honesty (which is rare to see online anywhere) will help other see strength in tough situations, I know it does for me. So glad you have such wonderful support around you and hope you take all the time you need. Sending lots love 💗
Oh Sash. My heart aches for you. You're eloquence, dignity and grace is truly commendable. Thankful that you have so much love and support, because that along with time is all you need to heal your heart and soul. I've been with my love for 12 years now. We've been married for 10 years and have two beautiful children. I'm 36. 12 and a half years ago I left my childhood sweetheart of ten years, one month after we bought our dream home, to start a life where I mattered, where what I wanted was at the forefront, where I didnt have to push myself back into a box any longer. It tore my heart and soul apart and although it was the hardest time of my life, it was without a doubt the best decision I've ever made. I am so proud of you and from experience I just know that you have so much to look forward to. Your life is waiting for you Sasha and it's going to be beautiful. Love to you, David and your boys. One day at a time ❤️
Thank you so much sharing. Sending so much love ❤️ From experience, expressing your truth out loud in a relationship that is perceived by others as so comfortable is scary. Amicable break ups are sometimes more difficult for those on the outside to comprehend. Wishing you both calm and strength to navigate the next step. Only beautiful things come from love and there was clearly a lot of love.
The strength, admiration and complete support I have for you has only grown stronger watching this. I cry with you, for many reasons - for your ability to put yourself first, the love and respect you have for one another to know that you both deserve more and to not just conform because society tells you to do so. This is not the end, this is just the beginning. Each day you will grow stronger and if not now, all of this will make sense in the future. Take each day as it comes, be wrapped round with all the love you give and deserve. Xxxx
Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry for you both. You have so much self awareness, go with your emotions. I went through exactly the same as you and David, it’s almost harder when there isn’t any gory details, like a 3rd party etc. Loving ourselves is key, we often look externally for what we need from ourselves. Bless you both and be gentle with yourself ❤
I am so sorry you are going through this, I resonate with so much and am currently going through a similar situation myself having broken up with a partner of 5 years having lived together for the past 3. I’ve been practising self work for the past year which instigated the break up (also fairly amicable). It’s so interesting that as (some) women we go through life compromising or not being true to ourselves and it’s not until we prioritise us that we understand what we truly want and need. Know you are not alone and Saturn returns is real - realigning you to your path in life. Thank you so much for sharing this and being so honest and vulnerable, you are an admiration. Your videos and your beautiful soul have got me through the hard times and have helped me in my journey of self worth! Sending lots of love to both you, David and the boys 💗
Everything you just said is similar to what I went through 18 months ago. Thank you for putting into words what I could not explain, and for you both doing it with kindness and love towards each other. Sometimes two pieces that fit, no longer do, and there doesn’t have to be a reason for that, it just happens. Sending you the biggest and warmest hug. ❤
The most eloquent of uploads. Your growth just shines through. Wise, thoughtful, considerate words ❤️Wishing you both the best and sending big hugs to you as you begin your next chapter xxx
You are both so unbelievably strong and kind to each other. You are so loved and will be held through your pain my your amazing network of love. We’ve all got you ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing. you don't owe us anything. I wanted to reach through the screen and just give you a hug. Its takes so much strength and love to love someone enough to let them go. Here's to you both unapologetically doing you! Love and hugs ❤
Oh Sasha, your incredible human. As so many have said and I have before you have a way with words and are always so composed and caring in your choice of words. I was incredibly emotional myself watching your previous video and this one was just as much. Keep being you, and how lucky you are to have a best friend like David to continue to support you in your journey. We all ❤ you xxx
I’m so sorry to hear this Sasha, sending strength to you and David, admire you so much for following your heart and think you’re amazing. Take care of yourself lovely xx
I'm so sorry to hear this Sasha. Thank you so much for sharing so openly, it is really hard with such big life changes and sharing it with the world is vulnerable and requires courage. Although I don't know you or David I'm proud of the way you have dealt with this and again so thankful that you're sharing bits if it with us xx
Watched this with a lump in my throat but also immense pride to hear you talk about the woman you are and are becoming. You are a f*cking goddess you got this x
I also broke up with my fiancé at the age of 29, lived together etc, and it was very hard but so worth it and I’d do it a million times over. Wishing you lots of strength and love, you’ll get through it and so many amazing things waiting for you on the other side ❤❤
Sasha I just want to say I am in awe of the strength, positivity and class when speaking about your situation. You will inspire women to make the same move as you have/are doing i know that for sure. Our gut feelings are there for a reason, so well done for trusting your instincts and making that huge scary change for yourself. Wishing you and David all the love and strength moving forward in your own personal journeys in life. Life is too short to be anything other than happy and fulfilled. Sending all the love and positivity your way 🤍🤍🤍
Hi Sasha, I just recently started watching your channel and wanted to thank you for being so open and honest about what you are going through. You are so eloquent in what you are saying, and you have made it easy to understand a very difficult situation. I think many people have the same thoughts and feelings that you described, but brush it off. Even while going through an incredibly difficult time, you still are able to motivate women to be powerful and not be ashamed of knowing what they want. It is a very inspiring thing that you are doing, and I hope you realize how much this video has and will help others. I hope that your wounds heal soon and that you continue to be easy on yourself. Thank you again
I admire your honestly and vulnerability so much. The way you speak about your feelings is incredible and so much of it resonated with me. I am so sorry you are going through this, but (if it’s not weird to say to someone you’ve never met) I am proud of you for following your gut and putting your happiness first. Sending you so much love ❤
So proud of you. And how you’ve grown. And your confidence. Growing as women through our twenties is the messiest, most challenging, but most wonderful gift. The change from 21 to 29 is astronomical. Nothing but respect for you, and for David. Wishing you nothing but strength and happiness as you enter this new phase
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Some people are only meant to be together for a period of time for whatever reason. You grow and learn from each other, and you've obviously had the self-awareness to know when it's not it anymore. It sucks but it's the right thing to do before you both end up hating each other (I mean that generally, not specifically about you ans David). There are brighter days ahead. I went through a massive life change and found the greatest love of my life in my 30s. Sending you love and best wishes. You've got this. Xx
Sasha, you inspire so many to be true to our authentic selves. Sending you love, patience and strength ❤ Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and showing that life is so similar and yet different for all of us.
Sasha… I’m so sorry! Thank you for sharing your lives with us and for being able to be open with us. Your eloquence and poise in such a difficult situation is incredible. Sending you the most love and support xxx
Aw bless you both as it’s obviously been a stressful and sad time. Things will get easier and it sounds as if you’ve both been super mature about the reasons and want each other to be happy and content. X
Sending a huge hug. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability! And THANK YOU for normalizing a non-dramatic breakup and mentioning how not all breakups have yelling/blaming/namecalling. I'm so sorry for the pain you're in though
Oh Sasha, I ugly cried on the bus to see you so upset 🥺 , so sorry ,I never comment on videos but felt the need to say how beautiful a person you are inside and out. I have watched your videos so many times . If anybody has this gut feeling, or sense of what you need in your life you must try and be kind to yourself and take those steps to fulfill your wants , needs and desires. You and David are such good people and you will always have this sense of calm and safe between you, as an older lady 😏 , you look back on memories with so much affection. I see you have so many good friends around you and so much love . Just wanted to send you a big hug, you have such a bright future, whatever you do ! Grab life wholeheartedly! As part of your UA-cam family can't wait to see it , much love 😘 xx
Sending all the love in the world to you. You’re so brave and you should both be so proud of the way you’ve handled the situation. You’re doing it for yourself and what’s best for you. Thank you as well for sharing something that’s so personal with us ❤❤
I think as a collective we have travelled this chapter at some part of our lives and it takes so much bravery to step into our truth. Such a courageous human being sharing your strength and I truly believe all will be well 💜💜💜
Aww sweetheart. I’m so sorry. Things will take time but your heart will heal. I’m 33 and I wish I could go back and tell my younger self so many things. With age comes so many changes. Especially to the way you see yourself, the world. Other people. I think the way you are handling this with such dignity and grace is inspiring. Stay strong beautiful girl. Good things are coming your way….. ❤ xxx
Has someone who split up with the person I thought I was gonna marry after 5 years together, someone I met when I was young and codependent, i think you’re doing such a great job talking about this and it’s so important especially for young women. Also fyi i am now engaged to the love of my life and we have a little baby together, I’m a completely different person than I was in my last relationship and everything that came from it turned into positive and growth for me. Sending you so much love, thank you for your honesty ❤
I am so sorry for the sadness you are going through. You definitely don’t owe us anything and you are so brave to share every part of your life with strangers on the internet! Sending all the love your way xxx
I’m sending you so much love Sasha ❤ you’ve been so so brave to make your decision and then share it online as well. I left my ex-fiancé six weeks before we were due to get married last year. It was a shock to everyone but after months of coming to terms with how I felt I realised I only loved him as a friend and that the issues we had under the surface couldn’t be ignored any longer. Unpicking everything we had together was the hardest thing I’ve ever done especially when there is no fault to be had on either side. I still live with the grief of losing my home, my pets and half my family but I am so much happier now. It’s worth every single second of pain and grief to come out the other side knowing you gave it your all but ultimately put yourself and your happiness first. I’m now in the relationship that I always dreamt of and the future doesn’t seem scary anymore. You absolutely can and will get through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it really resonates with me and you should be very proud of yourself xx
I’m so sorry you’re going through heartache, but also so proud of you for choosing you. I had a very similar sounding situation to time frames and everything, I WISH I was as sure of myself as you are and didn’t feel the shame I felt. You’re wonderful and explained things so well - even though you know you didn’t have to at all. So glad for you both that you’re amicable and respectful, what a testament to your life together. Xxx
Oh Sasha, I’m so sorry you’re going through this but as you said, you should be proud of your handling of the situation. Well done for realising and taking action no matter how scary it is. Something I should’ve done with my ex but I’m now so happily married. Everything that happens shapes who we are, brighter times ahead my lovely ❤
One of my absolute favourite people on UA-cam. I’m so bloody sorry you’re going through this. I went through my first divorce at 28 and it’s a pinnacle moment in anyone’s life. You will get through it my love & you’ll come out stronger the other side. You are so beautiful inside & out. Sending you love & strength ❤
I’m so sorry Sasha, sending you so much love ❤ If life didn’t have sad moments we would not appreciate all the beautiful ones, allow yourself to cry and feel sad, you’ll always become stronger by the end of it 🤍
My heart breaks for you It must have been so so hard to make the decision you made but you know in your heart it was the right one for you and you are strong you will be ok wishing you all the luck on the next part of your journey brave girl 🙏🏽😘😘😘
I’m so so very sorry that you are going through this. You are such an amazing person..be gentle with yourself and give yourself time to heal. A new chapter will open up in its own time. I totally remember and understand the difference between being 22 and 31. All the hugs to you. What a wonderful example of strength and maturity that you are setting for women and young people who watch your channel
The pain of a heartbreak is truly indescribable. I’m so sorry you’re going through it but equally proud of you for listening to your gut. I promise this next chapter will contain so much happiness and excitement. I’m 6 months into a mutual break up of 6 years and god it’s been a journey. Hearing you share a similar experience is comforting as breakups can feel so isolating. Sending you a hug and strength to endure the sad times. Much love ❤
Oh Sasha, I am so sorry!! I can’t tell you it’ll be better, or that you’ll grow from this, but I can tell you it will be ok! You will be ok and you will be the woman you need to be. Enjoy being alone, enjoy finding out who you are and enjoy getting to starfish in bed. You will be ok, I promise.
Your words of a marriage/relationship that has come to an end is a true description when deep down you know. Anyone with the same experience will identify. Go forward with a positivity the future will be amazing. ❤❤❤
Oh wow. I felt every bit of emotion with you there. Sending you both so much love and healing. It’s so nice to see you both being amicable and staying friends. That is such a gift. I did feel that your vibe changed during rent and you just glowed so much. I understand what you’re going through and it will get easier. Let those tears flow when needed❤ !! Now get those marigolds out and tackle the bin juice! 🤣 much love x
Hi Sasha, I never commented anything from you but would like to send you lots of love now. Anyone who is just a little bit emphatic can relate to that and probably had to shed a little tear with you right now. You got this!!! ♥️
I'm so sorry for the pain you're going through. I'm also going through a breakup currently so I mean this sincerely when I say you're not alone. I think your kindness and vulnerability in this is beautiful. I know it can be difficult to keep those traits when going through something painful. Sending much love to you, take your time we are all here for you. Xx
Thank you so much for sharing this and continuing to be so authentic even through tough times ❤ So sorry to hear this, sending you all the love and wishing you both the best for your new chapters ahead x
You’ve got this Sasha 🌷 Take everyday as it comes and keep being you I’m 3 weeks down the line of breaking up with my long term boyfriend of nearly 5 years. Watched him slowly fall out of love with me whilst I couldn’t of loved him more. He had no plans of marrying me etc so I’m in a situation of as you say not taking the bare minimum and called it off. Best thing I’ve done I can see a small light at the end of this tunnel. Look after yourself 🌸
Sending lots of love and strength. I can relate to this so much, I feel like a totally different person to who I was in my 20s. So brave of you to make this decision and can't wait to see what life has in store for you xxx
Wishing you and David all the best , it seems every new decade of our lives we change . It’s obviously the circle of life ! Both of you take care and hope the dogs are fine too ( a 2 English bulldog owner ) xx
Take care of yourself. 22 is so young and ofcourse we change x 31 is super young too :) take your time and each day as it faces you x you have both managed to avoid the sunk cost thing so many couples fall into and this means both your lives will be fuller and happier going forward. Best wishes from me anyway and tbh exciting times are ahead for you both once everything settles and is sorted. X
Completely unnecessary explanation, but so so graciously and respectfully put. No doubt at all about your love, but how incredible you are to acknowledge what you need and do what’s best for you all. Absolutely adore you and the way you communicate your thoughts and feelings. Hope you’ve had the time you need to process it all. ❤❤❤
Oh so sorry to hear Sasha thank you for your honesty and vulnerability ❤️ As a 22 year old who has a lot of complicated feelings about love and relationships, the strength you’ve shown is inspiring! Keep being you x
This is brave of you and think you are AMAZING for doing this and I love your thoughts and thinking of doing this because not many bloggers would do this but I agree (of course not that you owe anyone anything or any explanation) but when you do put alo t of your life on social media and things change it's easy not to put that info out there i e changes things happening in life and then leave people then maybe confused worried and to be honest would like to know what's happening.I applaud you for doing this and send best wishes and happiness to both you and David for the future.xxx
Sending so much love and strength your way. Sucks so much that you’re both going through this but well done for being true to yourselves and for handling such a difficult situation in such a mature, intelligent, honest way. Even through our screens, we could tell how much love you two shared and how special you two were together. Try to remember that this too shall pass, and expect wonderful things to come 🤍
Sending so much love to you both, Sasha ❤️ It is such a hard situation and you handled it with grace, love and respect… I know things feel scary as hell now but you’re stronger than you think. Look after yourself 🫶🏻
There is so much I could say but your words say it all perfectly ❤
We will both be eternally grateful for the women you are in this moment and the bravery it has given you ❤️
Love you
I feel for you mate
Oh Sash… stay strong. I met my now ex husband when i was 20. Married at 26 and filed divorce at 31. It was the hardest and most painful time of my life. 33 now and i look back on that time and think of all the lessons i learnt and the experiences that have shaped me in to the stronger person i am today. I am healthy, happy and ultimately feel like myself again. I’m not going to sugar coat it. Divorce is painful. It takes time and I suspect it’s something that will always stay with me, but i have zero regrets. It’s part of my journey and i am strong believer that our lives are mapped out for us. My biggest advice to you is to lean in to your feelings, allow yourself to grieve and learn from this experience. Sending you love and strength. X
Xoxo*✔️
I absolutely love your videos - I found you during
Covid and you bring so much comfort and joy to your audience. Im sorry you are going through this . Sending you all the love
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I love watching your videos because you live your life so authentically and unapologetically, you’re definitely my favourite person on UA-cam. Sending love and hugs 💕
What a beautiful message, thanks so much
I’m so sorry love, sending you so much love. Sometimes loving someone truly means letting them go, as hard as it is. But we can do hard things and there WILL come a day where it won’t hurt as much. Lean on your support system, friends, dog cuddles and music also help massively (kelsea ballerini’s new ep about her own divorce has been my therapy) and give yourself space to feel all the things, big and small. We’re all very proud of you for sharing this and wish you all the best
You fucking incredible and I’m so so glad I came across your page probably around 2 years ago. Thank you for sharing this, you did not have to but your message will help many. I’m so sorry you are going through this. As a single 26 year old around all my friends in relationships, you’ve reminded me that I’ve made the right decision in not settling in my early 20s for something that did not serve me as I’m an evolving person and want to make sure my next relationship fits me better. Keep doing what you’re doing and all the best for you future xxx
Watching this as a 22 year old really hit me, people have always said you grow a lot in your 20s but your words and explanation here has hit me more than any other person and gave me a lot of hope for the change that is to come for me mentally, thank you so much for sharing. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and it must be one of the hardest things to accept and move through. You’re stronger than you might ever expect and it’s very evident in this video. Take care of yourself and take any time you need to process it even if that’s 6 months down the line and it hits you all over again. Sending lots of love❤️
So much love going your way. Thank you for sharing when you didn’t have to. Hope the moments of joy become more than the sadness soon xxx
Thank you so much for sharing - your explanation will resonate with so many.
Wishing you all the love and strength in the world in your progress moving forward ❤
It felt wrong to like this video, because it’s awful seeing you hurting, but I’m just inspired by how brave you are, Sasha. I’m so sorry to hear what’s happened. It’s true what they say, that time is a healer. Take all the time you need to feel whatever you’re feeling. We’re all here for you. x ❤
Oh darling, to hear you speak with such honesty and emotion had tears rolling. 😢 You truly are such wonderful people that it really is so sad to hear this. I admire wholeheartedly how you’re managing the situation. Sending you the biggest lot of love and hugs 🥰
Sending your heart some love ❤ beautiful to see you listen to your soul and intuition calling for more and your fearlessness to move through pain to get there ✨✨
Oh Sasha, I’ve watched your vlogs but never commented but how could I not. What a thoughtful and heartfelt explaination (that you didn’t need to give)
You come across in such a wonderful way and this is but another chapter that unfortunately has ended. Your story is far from over and the next chapter is only a page away… keep up the humour, I know more than ever, that it always helps! Sending you all the love but would imagine you have more than enough. X
Ah Laura, this is beautiful. Thank you so much for sending me a message when you wouldn’t normally, your words mean so much. Thank you thank you thank youuuuu
What a wonderful comment and so well said! ❤
Felt every emotion watching this. Can completely identify how devastating a breakup can be even when amicable. As you say you don’t owe this explanation but hopefully it’s a step in your healing. Your honesty (which is rare to see online anywhere) will help other see strength in tough situations, I know it does for me. So glad you have such wonderful support around you and hope you take all the time you need. Sending lots love 💗
Oh Sash. My heart aches for you. You're eloquence, dignity and grace is truly commendable. Thankful that you have so much love and support, because that along with time is all you need to heal your heart and soul. I've been with my love for 12 years now. We've been married for 10 years and have two beautiful children. I'm 36. 12 and a half years ago I left my childhood sweetheart of ten years, one month after we bought our dream home, to start a life where I mattered, where what I wanted was at the forefront, where I didnt have to push myself back into a box any longer. It tore my heart and soul apart and although it was the hardest time of my life, it was without a doubt the best decision I've ever made. I am so proud of you and from experience I just know that you have so much to look forward to. Your life is waiting for you Sasha and it's going to be beautiful.
Love to you, David and your boys. One day at a time ❤️
Thank you so much sharing. Sending so much love ❤️ From experience, expressing your truth out loud in a relationship that is perceived by others as so comfortable is scary. Amicable break ups are sometimes more difficult for those on the outside to comprehend. Wishing you both calm and strength to navigate the next step. Only beautiful things come from love and there was clearly a lot of love.
You are just incredible. In complete awe of your strength. As someone who has followed you for years your growth is shining through. Stay wonderful x
You honestly and vulnerability is admirable. I've always watched your content but haven't commented but how could I not? Sending so much love x
The strength, admiration and complete support I have for you has only grown stronger watching this. I cry with you, for many reasons - for your ability to put
yourself first, the love and respect you have for one another to know that you both deserve more and to not just conform because society tells you to do so. This is not the end, this is just the beginning. Each day you will grow stronger and if not now, all of this will make sense in the future. Take each day as it comes, be wrapped round with all the love you give and deserve. Xxxx
Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry for you both. You have so much self awareness, go with your emotions. I went through exactly the same as you and David, it’s almost harder when there isn’t any gory details, like a 3rd party etc. Loving ourselves is key, we often look externally for what we need from ourselves. Bless you both and be gentle with yourself ❤
I am so sorry you are going through this, I resonate with so much and am currently going through a similar situation myself having broken up with a partner of 5 years having lived together for the past 3. I’ve been practising self work for the past year which instigated the break up (also fairly amicable). It’s so interesting that as (some) women we go through life compromising or not being true to ourselves and it’s not until we prioritise us that we understand what we truly want and need. Know you are not alone and Saturn returns is real - realigning you to your path in life. Thank you so much for sharing this and being so honest and vulnerable, you are an admiration. Your videos and your beautiful soul have got me through the hard times and have helped me in my journey of self worth! Sending lots of love to both you, David and the boys 💗
you are such an incredible person, you should be so proud of yourself for dealing with this in such an amicable way.
Everything you just said is similar to what I went through 18 months ago. Thank you for putting into words what I could not explain, and for you both doing it with kindness and love towards each other. Sometimes two pieces that fit, no longer do, and there doesn’t have to be a reason for that, it just happens.
Sending you the biggest and warmest hug. ❤
Your bravery knows no bounds and thank you for inspiring me to search for that love for myself before I demand that equally from a partner.
The most eloquent of uploads. Your growth just shines through. Wise, thoughtful, considerate words ❤️Wishing you both the best and sending big hugs to you as you begin your next chapter xxx
You are both so unbelievably strong and kind to each other. You are so loved and will be held through your pain my your amazing network of love. We’ve all got you ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing. you don't owe us anything. I wanted to reach through the screen and just give you a hug. Its takes so much strength and love to love someone enough to let them go. Here's to you both unapologetically doing you! Love and hugs ❤
Oh Sasha, your incredible human. As so many have said and I have before you have a way with words and are always so composed and caring in your choice of words. I was incredibly emotional myself watching your previous video and this one was just as much.
Keep being you, and how lucky you are to have a best friend like David to continue to support you in your journey.
We all ❤ you xxx
Sending you so much love on the next part of your journey. I believe in you.❤
I’m so sorry to hear this Sasha, sending strength to you and David, admire you so much for following your heart and think you’re amazing. Take care of yourself lovely xx
I'm so sorry to hear this Sasha. Thank you so much for sharing so openly, it is really hard with such big life changes and sharing it with the world is vulnerable and requires courage.
Although I don't know you or David I'm proud of the way you have dealt with this and again so thankful that you're sharing bits if it with us xx
Thank you so much sharing ❤️. You have no idea how helpful this was for me.
I'm so sorry Sasha, my heart breaks for you. Stay strong.
Watched this with a lump in my throat but also immense pride to hear you talk about the woman you are and are becoming. You are a f*cking goddess you got this x
I also broke up with my fiancé at the age of 29, lived together etc, and it was very hard but so worth it and I’d do it a million times over. Wishing you lots of strength and love, you’ll get through it and so many amazing things waiting for you on the other side ❤❤
Oh Sasha ❤ What a brave thing to do for yourself. Sending you so much love and admiration xxx
Sasha I just want to say I am in awe of the strength, positivity and class when speaking about your situation. You will inspire women to make the same move as you have/are doing i know that for sure.
Our gut feelings are there for a reason, so well done for trusting your instincts and making that huge scary change for yourself.
Wishing you and David all the love and strength moving forward in your own personal journeys in life.
Life is too short to be anything other than happy and fulfilled. Sending all the love and positivity your way 🤍🤍🤍
Hi Sasha,
I just recently started watching your channel and wanted to thank you for being so open and honest about what you are going through.
You are so eloquent in what you are saying, and you have made it easy to understand a very difficult situation. I think many people have the same thoughts and feelings that you described, but brush it off. Even while going through an incredibly difficult time, you still are able to motivate women to be powerful and not be ashamed of knowing what they want.
It is a very inspiring thing that you are doing, and I hope you realize how much this video has and will help others.
I hope that your wounds heal soon and that you continue to be easy on yourself.
Thank you again
I admire your honestly and vulnerability so much. The way you speak about your feelings is incredible and so much of it resonated with me. I am so sorry you are going through this, but (if it’s not weird to say to someone you’ve never met) I am proud of you for following your gut and putting your happiness first. Sending you so much love ❤
So proud of you. And how you’ve grown. And your confidence. Growing as women through our twenties is the messiest, most challenging, but most wonderful gift. The change from 21 to 29 is astronomical. Nothing but respect for you, and for David. Wishing you nothing but strength and happiness as you enter this new phase
Wishing you both strength and healing. Give yourself all the space you need. You are handling this with such grace and strength.
Oh sweetheart, you're talking the words I couldn't put to my break up so eloquently. Stay strong. You got this.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Some people are only meant to be together for a period of time for whatever reason. You grow and learn from each other, and you've obviously had the self-awareness to know when it's not it anymore. It sucks but it's the right thing to do before you both end up hating each other (I mean that generally, not specifically about you ans David). There are brighter days ahead. I went through a massive life change and found the greatest love of my life in my 30s. Sending you love and best wishes. You've got this. Xx
Sasha, you inspire so many to be true to our authentic selves. Sending you love, patience and strength ❤ Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and showing that life is so similar and yet different for all of us.
Bless you - you’re so brave xxx
Sending you so much love! Just know that we are all thinking of you during this difficult time ❤ thank you so much for sharing x
Thank you so much Zoe, it means the world
adore you with my whole heart ❤️ you’re both surrounded by love and always will be xxxxx
Sasha… I’m so sorry! Thank you for sharing your lives with us and for being able to be open with us. Your eloquence and poise in such a difficult situation is incredible. Sending you the most love and support xxx
Lots and lots of love. You’re an amazing woman ❤
I am so sorry for your pain. You and your David will always have the good memories. I hope you both heal and love again.💗💐🙏☮️
I watch your videos your so real!
I’m sorry to hear your sad news. Break ups are so hard , be kind to yourself sending hugs x❤
Aw bless you both as it’s obviously been a stressful and sad time. Things will get easier and it sounds as if you’ve both been super mature about the reasons and want each other to be happy and content. X
Oh Sasha, I’m so sorry. It’s good you’ve got such a strong support system ❤️
Sending a huge hug. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability! And THANK YOU for normalizing a non-dramatic breakup and mentioning how not all breakups have yelling/blaming/namecalling. I'm so sorry for the pain you're in though
sending lots and lots of love to you both - cant wait to you have you back ☺️
Oh Sasha, I ugly cried on the bus to see you so upset 🥺 , so sorry ,I never comment on videos but felt the need to say how beautiful a person you are inside and out. I have watched your videos so many times . If anybody has this gut feeling, or sense of what you need in your life you must try and be kind to yourself and take those steps to fulfill your wants , needs and desires. You and David are such good people and you will always have this sense of calm and safe between you, as an older lady 😏 , you look back on memories with so much affection. I see you have so many good friends around you and so much love . Just wanted to send you a big hug, you have such a bright future, whatever you do ! Grab life wholeheartedly! As part of your UA-cam family can't wait to see it , much love 😘 xx
Sending all the love in the world to you. You’re so brave and you should both be so proud of the way you’ve handled the situation. You’re doing it for yourself and what’s best for you. Thank you as well for sharing something that’s so personal with us ❤❤
I think as a collective we have travelled this chapter at some part of our lives and it takes so much bravery to step into our truth. Such a courageous human being sharing your strength and I truly believe all will be well 💜💜💜
Aww sweetheart. I’m so sorry. Things will take time but your heart will heal. I’m 33 and I wish I could go back and tell my younger self so many things. With age comes so many changes. Especially to the way you see yourself, the world. Other people. I think the way you are handling this with such dignity and grace is inspiring. Stay strong beautiful girl. Good things are coming your way….. ❤ xxx
Has someone who split up with the person I thought I was gonna marry after 5 years together, someone I met when I was young and codependent, i think you’re doing such a great job talking about this and it’s so important especially for young women. Also fyi i am now engaged to the love of my life and we have a little baby together, I’m a completely different person than I was in my last relationship and everything that came from it turned into positive and growth for me. Sending you so much love, thank you for your honesty ❤
Sending you both so much love and hoping this difficult time is kind to you both💞
Thank you so much lovely
I am so sorry for the sadness you are going through. You definitely don’t owe us anything and you are so brave to share every part of your life with strangers on the internet!
Sending all the love your way xxx
Oh Sasha - you are so brave! You’re surrounded by love always ❤
I’m sending you so much love Sasha ❤ you’ve been so so brave to make your decision and then share it online as well.
I left my ex-fiancé six weeks before we were due to get married last year. It was a shock to everyone but after months of coming to terms with how I felt I realised I only loved him as a friend and that the issues we had under the surface couldn’t be ignored any longer. Unpicking everything we had together was the hardest thing I’ve ever done especially when there is no fault to be had on either side. I still live with the grief of losing my home, my pets and half my family but I am so much happier now. It’s worth every single second of pain and grief to come out the other side knowing you gave it your all but ultimately put yourself and your happiness first. I’m now in the relationship that I always dreamt of and the future doesn’t seem scary anymore. You absolutely can and will get through this.
Thank you for sharing your story, it really resonates with me and you should be very proud of yourself xx
I’m so sorry you’re going through heartache, but also so proud of you for choosing you. I had a very similar sounding situation to time frames and everything, I WISH I was as sure of myself as you are and didn’t feel the shame I felt. You’re wonderful and explained things so well - even though you know you didn’t have to at all. So glad for you both that you’re amicable and respectful, what a testament to your life together. Xxx
Oh Sasha, I’m so sorry you’re going through this but as you said, you should be proud of your handling of the situation. Well done for realising and taking action no matter how scary it is. Something I should’ve done with my ex but I’m now so happily married. Everything that happens shapes who we are, brighter times ahead my lovely ❤
One of my absolute favourite people on UA-cam. I’m so bloody sorry you’re going through this. I went through my first divorce at 28 and it’s a pinnacle moment in anyone’s life. You will get through it my love & you’ll come out stronger the other side. You are so beautiful inside & out. Sending you love & strength ❤
Ahh thank you so much - it means the absolute world
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I’m sending so much love and healing. 💛💛💛
I’m so sorry Sasha, sending you so much love ❤ If life didn’t have sad moments we would not appreciate all the beautiful ones, allow yourself to cry and feel sad, you’ll always become stronger by the end of it 🤍
Sending love your way. Thank you for your strength and vulnerability here. You're a true inspiration. ❤️
My heart breaks for you It must have been so so hard to make the decision you made but you know in your heart it was the right one for you and you are strong you will be ok wishing you all the luck on the next part of your journey brave girl 🙏🏽😘😘😘
I’m so so very sorry that you are going through this. You are such an amazing person..be gentle with yourself and give yourself time to heal. A new chapter will open up in its own time. I totally remember and understand the difference between being 22 and 31. All the hugs to you. What a wonderful example of strength and maturity that you are setting for women and young people who watch your channel
Went through what you are going through when I was 29. I am soon to be 32 soon. The best thing I’ve done. For me. Stay strong ❤ Thank you for sharing!
The pain of a heartbreak is truly indescribable. I’m so sorry you’re going through it but equally proud of you for listening to your gut. I promise this next chapter will contain so much happiness and excitement. I’m 6 months into a mutual break up of 6 years and god it’s been a journey. Hearing you share a similar experience is comforting as breakups can feel so isolating. Sending you a hug and strength to endure the sad times. Much love ❤
Sending so much love your way.
Thank you for feeling able to share with us. Sending you so much love. ❤❤
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Oh Sasha, I am so sorry!! I can’t tell you it’ll be better, or that you’ll grow from this, but I can tell you it will be ok! You will be ok and you will be the woman you need to be. Enjoy being alone, enjoy finding out who you are and enjoy getting to starfish in bed. You will be ok, I promise.
Your words of a marriage/relationship that has come to an end is a true description when deep down you know. Anyone with the same experience will identify. Go forward with a positivity the future will be amazing. ❤❤❤
Oh wow. I felt every bit of emotion with you there. Sending you both so much love and healing. It’s so nice to see you both being amicable and staying friends. That is such a gift. I did feel that your vibe changed during rent and you just glowed so much. I understand what you’re going through and it will get easier. Let those tears flow when needed❤ !! Now get those marigolds out and tackle the bin juice! 🤣 much love x
Hi Sasha, I never commented anything from you but would like to send you lots of love now. Anyone who is just a little bit emphatic can relate to that and probably had to shed a little tear with you right now. You got this!!! ♥️
I'm so sorry for the pain you're going through. I'm also going through a breakup currently so I mean this sincerely when I say you're not alone. I think your kindness and vulnerability in this is beautiful. I know it can be difficult to keep those traits when going through something painful. Sending much love to you, take your time we are all here for you. Xx
Thank you so much for sharing this and continuing to be so authentic even through tough times ❤ So sorry to hear this, sending you all the love and wishing you both the best for your new chapters ahead x
You’ve got this Sasha 🌷
Take everyday as it comes and keep being you
I’m 3 weeks down the line of breaking up with my long term boyfriend of nearly 5 years. Watched him slowly fall out of love with me whilst I couldn’t of loved him more.
He had no plans of marrying me etc so I’m in a situation of as you say not taking the bare minimum and called it off. Best thing I’ve done I can see a small light at the end of this tunnel.
Look after yourself 🌸
Sending lots of love and strength. I can relate to this so much, I feel like a totally different person to who I was in my 20s. So brave of you to make this decision and can't wait to see what life has in store for you xxx
Sending love to you both, lots of hugs xxxx
Sorry to hear, thankyou for sharing, wishing you all the best and wish David all the best.
Thank you so much Savannah
I am so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how hard it has been for you both. Sending you both lots of love.
I'm so sorry for your sadness ❤️ Sending you all my love 🌹💕💕💕
What a beautiful and brave young woman you are ❤ xxxx
Wishing you and David all the best , it seems every new decade of our lives we change . It’s obviously the circle of life ! Both of you take care and hope the dogs are fine too ( a 2 English bulldog owner ) xx
In awe of your strength. Hope both you and David are ok ❤️
Adore you, authentic human and two beautiful souls. Next chapter for you both ❤ sending love xxx
Take care of yourself. 22 is so young and ofcourse we change x 31 is super young too :) take your time and each day as it faces you x you have both managed to avoid the sunk cost thing so many couples fall into and this means both your lives will be fuller and happier going forward. Best wishes from me anyway and tbh exciting times are ahead for you both once everything settles and is sorted. X
Completely unnecessary explanation, but so so graciously and respectfully put. No doubt at all about your love, but how incredible you are to acknowledge what you need and do what’s best for you all. Absolutely adore you and the way you communicate your thoughts and feelings. Hope you’ve had the time you need to process it all. ❤❤❤
Oh so sorry to hear Sasha thank you for your honesty and vulnerability ❤️ As a 22 year old who has a lot of complicated feelings about love and relationships, the strength you’ve shown is inspiring! Keep being you x
Thank you for your candour. Hold on to your friends, drink the wine, embrace the opportunities, lap up the laughs and smash whatever you do next. XX
This is brave of you and think you are AMAZING for doing this and I love your thoughts and thinking of doing this because not many bloggers would do this but I agree (of course not that you owe anyone anything or any explanation) but when you do put alo t of your life on social media and things change it's easy not to put that info out there i e changes things happening in life and then leave people then maybe confused worried and to be honest would like to know what's happening.I applaud you for doing this and send best wishes and happiness to both you and David for the future.xxx
Sending so much love and strength your way. Sucks so much that you’re both going through this but well done for being true to yourselves and for handling such a difficult situation in such a mature, intelligent, honest way. Even through our screens, we could tell how much love you two shared and how special you two were together. Try to remember that this too shall pass, and expect wonderful things to come 🤍
Sending so much love to you Sasha ❤ I’m heartbroken for you both.
Sending so much love to you both, Sasha ❤️
It is such a hard situation and you handled it with grace, love and respect… I know things feel scary as hell now but you’re stronger than you think. Look after yourself 🫶🏻