Everyone is odd. don't focus too much on girls, u have to love yourself first. U can't depend on love from other people, depend on loving urself first.
As a woman, try to be a girl's friend first. Cold approach is hard even if you are good looking. Also, even if you are weird, own your weirdness. It is about confidence. I have always been a loner and people mocked me about it for years. Once I started accepting that I was a loner, the mocking stopped. I own that I like being alone and it is my preference. When you accept you, others will to. That is the secret. That will draw others to you.
Cold approach isn’t hard if you’re good looking. It’s hard if you’re only good looking but add some confidence and get her number than it’s easier from there. Once you get the girl on the phone tell her to face time. That build more connection
Honestly, don't worry about dating in 2024. I've been rejected my whole life, and I don't let anyone anymore. Focus on yourself this whole world is a very nasty place it's probably better that you stay away from it and work on yourself tbh.
I’ve been through the most painful emotions on my journey with trying to get girls you could call it, lol. The worst days and nights of misery etc. lots of times I felt rejected and like no girl wanted me. And I’m good looking and tall etc. what it comes down to is confidence. My best advice is learn to be strategic and don’t give up because once you get a win or a couple wins, your confidence will increase and so will your results with women. I’m almost 24 i don’t know how old you are but it’s only gotten better for me over time. The most practical advice is to go for the women who seem interested in you first. Because they are the choosers not the men. Obviously if a girl turns you down don’t keep pushing you know that probably but yeah.. success breeds more success. Learn from all the failures and when you have a negative experience don’t stay stuck in it for too long let your mind move on so you can feel better. By the way everyone is unique and the more okay and at peace with what makes you different you are the better it’ll be. And also I’ve felt like a lot of people didn’t like me for most my life even if they didn’t say it but the truth is it’s their problem more than it is yours. And it’s not personal. Pay attention to how the assholes in your life treat others and you’ll see you’re not the only one so it wasn’t that there was a flaw in who you are individually. Good luck. By the way Men get rejected all the time but the awareness of a problem is the first step in solving it. Also it’s hard not to compare your results with another man’s but different men are at different stages in life and have certain things figured out sooner. Most likely you’ll get to where you want to be it will just be a different time than that guy at work. I’m still figuring things out, too.
You remind me of a friend of mine. He looks similar to you but he does a little bodybuilding. He does pretty well with girls, at the moment he has a girl and she’s an attractive girl. I think most dudes just need to get in the gym and work on themselves. Most are bad with women because they don’t work on themselves at all.
It might not even be about rejection bro, one time a girl at raising cane’s asked me to get ice cream but since I had a gf I just said “sorry” and I never told her I had a gf but in the end I hope she didn’t give up on asking people it’s part of our life ): she was a kind girl
And by the way as I continue to watch this video I think you’re a cool as dude !! You just have to see that within yourself and realize you’re a cool ass dude
Just do focus on improving urself ur not bad looking , maybe try getting a different haircut , get more fit and start being more social but going with the flow yk
Just date non American women, it's easier, in the US it's not impossible but it's more difficult, I think i'm pretty good looking and I got rejected several times too in the past it's just a part of it.
Dude there's nothing wrong with you that a little time and experience won't fix. Second, all guys get rejected, some more than others. I'd suggest quit asking for dates and just talk to girls with no expectations. Don't discriminate by age or your perception of beauty. Talk to every girl you encounter! Tone down the profanity - it's immature. And smile (a little - not big) like you know their secret. The secret is girls are emotional funny fickle beings by nature. They are as insecure as you but have mastered hiding it. Deep down they just want to have fun and be recognized as pretty. Think of this while you're talking to them and you'll be surprised how relaxed you'll feel. Girls pick up on this as self confidence and they'll respond.
aye bro i see a lot of these comments not being helpful also the coach kam is not working i think you should watch think before you sleep he gives good advice with examples like he has a video called “why you don’t get women” which is a helpful vid and another one “why your life isn’t going so well” he gives good advice i think you just need confidence and hobbies to keep you busy like gym also a haircut or learning to style your hair and clothes can help significantly bro but one thing that helps the most is meeting women in a social circle and getting to know you first women are less likely to completely judge you when they know who you are and i feel that the guy who you mention in the vid is probably really confident in himself and what he does maybe a little to much but that is attractive to women so try and build yourself confidence you can search youtube videos most of it is looks and having things your proud of. the other difference is probably just height which is already known women like taller men. you got this bro main thing you need to take away is you should feel a women is lucky to have you and if they aren’t build yourself so you do become someone lucky to have e
Stop acting desperate and putting women on a pedestal. Stop trying to pick up girls at work, don't shit where you eat, get on the apps or meet girls through mutual friend groups
Apps will get you nowhere and thats coming from an objective 7 or 8 guy im shredded w tats good looking and ambitious with a strong resume shit get you no where
Lmfao I had a huge crush on a guy friend of mine but I felt stupid after a while when he wasn’t feeling the same way. I don’t think I’ll ever feel the same about love again after that. I’ve accepted it now & sometimes it still feels like I’m grieving a loss because I thought it was mutual. Even women feel this way. As a woman I felt so horrible. I felt like I wasted my precious time flirting with him and focusing on developing our friendship only to be quite frankly rejected. It’s never anything wrong with you, it’s the person who doesn’t see what’s right in front of them.
Everyone is odd. don't focus too much on girls, u have to love yourself first. U can't depend on love from other people, depend on loving urself first.
As a woman, try to be a girl's friend first. Cold approach is hard even if you are good looking. Also, even if you are weird, own your weirdness. It is about confidence. I have always been a loner and people mocked me about it for years. Once I started accepting that I was a loner, the mocking stopped. I own that I like being alone and it is my preference. When you accept you, others will to. That is the secret. That will draw others to you.
What if he just gets friendzoned though
Cold approach isn’t hard if you’re good looking. It’s hard if you’re only good looking but add some confidence and get her number than it’s easier from there. Once you get the girl on the phone tell her to face time. That build more connection
@@sugoi9680 then be friends with those women to meet other women that might be a better match. You have to expand your network.
@@ST-rj8iu Yeah sounds legit actually, maybe.
@@sugoi9680yea she’s right man. Girls will be more comfy with you, if you have girl mates they know.
I stopped caring about this world completely, so there's nothing there to get broken if I get a typical rejection
Honestly, don't worry about dating in 2024. I've been rejected my whole life, and I don't let anyone anymore. Focus on yourself this whole world is a very nasty place it's probably better that you stay away from it and work on yourself tbh.
Dawg quit having a crybaby mentality. Just put work into yourself and the girls will come.
@@BD-1-And-Onlykeep coping
@@youngchristie5188 How is he coping?
@BD-1-And-Only focusing on yourself and giving up on women is having a crybaby mentality, lmao 🤣
@BD-1-And-Only the work ain't worth it anymore
I’ve been through the most painful emotions on my journey with trying to get girls you could call it, lol. The worst days and nights of misery etc. lots of times I felt rejected and like no girl wanted me. And I’m good looking and tall etc. what it comes down to is confidence. My best advice is learn to be strategic and don’t give up because once you get a win or a couple wins, your confidence will increase and so will your results with women. I’m almost 24 i don’t know how old you are but it’s only gotten better for me over time. The most practical advice is to go for the women who seem interested in you first. Because they are the choosers not the men. Obviously if a girl turns you down don’t keep pushing you know that probably but yeah.. success breeds more success. Learn from all the failures and when you have a negative experience don’t stay stuck in it for too long let your mind move on so you can feel better. By the way everyone is unique and the more okay and at peace with what makes you different you are the better it’ll be. And also I’ve felt like a lot of people didn’t like me for most my life even if they didn’t say it but the truth is it’s their problem more than it is yours. And it’s not personal. Pay attention to how the assholes in your life treat others and you’ll see you’re not the only one so it wasn’t that there was a flaw in who you are individually. Good luck. By the way Men get rejected all the time but the awareness of a problem is the first step in solving it. Also it’s hard not to compare your results with another man’s but different men are at different stages in life and have certain things figured out sooner. Most likely you’ll get to where you want to be it will just be a different time than that guy at work. I’m still figuring things out, too.
yea its all about confidence and being strategic sadly it is a game nowadays
You remind me of a friend of mine. He looks similar to you but he does a little bodybuilding. He does pretty well with girls, at the moment he has a girl and she’s an attractive girl. I think most dudes just need to get in the gym and work on themselves. Most are bad with women because they don’t work on themselves at all.
It might not even be about rejection bro, one time a girl at raising cane’s asked me to get ice cream but since I had a gf I just said “sorry” and I never told her I had a gf but in the end I hope she didn’t give up on asking people it’s part of our life ): she was a kind girl
And by the way as I continue to watch this video I think you’re a cool as dude !! You just have to see that within yourself and realize you’re a cool ass dude
Coach kyle always go in-depth on the mindset approaching don’t worry man
I’m a loser too bro I feel you, but we got this bro 😊
Just do focus on improving urself ur not bad looking , maybe try getting a different haircut , get more fit and start being more social but going with the flow yk
Just date non American women, it's easier, in the US it's not impossible but it's more difficult, I think i'm pretty good looking and I got rejected several times too in the past it's just a part of it.
Chemistry is supposed to be difficult work on yourself and that person will come into your life when you least expect it
Dude there's nothing wrong with you that a little time and experience won't fix. Second, all guys get rejected, some more than others. I'd suggest quit asking for dates and just talk to girls with no expectations. Don't discriminate by age or your perception of beauty. Talk to every girl you encounter! Tone down the profanity - it's immature. And smile (a little - not big) like you know their secret. The secret is girls are emotional funny fickle beings by nature. They are as insecure as you but have mastered hiding it. Deep down they just want to have fun and be recognized as pretty. Think of this while you're talking to them and you'll be surprised how relaxed you'll feel. Girls pick up on this as self confidence and they'll respond.
LMAO SOMEONE CALL THE WAHBULANCE
aye bro i see a lot of these comments not being helpful also the coach kam is not working i think you should watch think before you sleep he gives good advice with examples like he has a video called “why you don’t get women” which is a helpful vid and another one “why your life isn’t going so well” he gives good advice i think you just need confidence and hobbies to keep you busy like gym also a haircut or learning to style your hair and clothes can help significantly bro but one thing that helps the most is meeting women in a social circle and getting to know you first women are less likely to completely judge you when they know who you are and i feel that the guy who you mention in the vid is probably really confident in himself and what he does maybe a little to much but that is attractive to women so try and build yourself confidence you can search youtube videos most of it is looks and having things your proud of. the other difference is probably just height which is already known women like taller men. you got this bro main thing you need to take away is you should feel a women is lucky to have you and if they aren’t build yourself so you do become someone lucky to have e
Just don’t go all Elliot Roger
Wow crazy I’m a bi guy and I find you somewhat attractive. I would not reject you
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Stop acting desperate and putting women on a pedestal. Stop trying to pick up girls at work, don't shit where you eat, get on the apps or meet girls through mutual friend groups
apps is horrible advice who’s swiping right on this guy other than bots
Apps will get you nowhere and thats coming from an objective 7 or 8 guy im shredded w tats good looking and ambitious with a strong resume shit get you no where
its OVER
Lmfao I had a huge crush on a guy friend of mine but I felt stupid after a while when he wasn’t feeling the same way. I don’t think I’ll ever feel the same about love again after that. I’ve accepted it now & sometimes it still feels like I’m grieving a loss because I thought it was mutual. Even women feel this way. As a woman I felt so horrible. I felt like I wasted my precious time flirting with him and focusing on developing our friendship only to be quite frankly rejected. It’s never anything wrong with you, it’s the person who doesn’t see what’s right in front of them.