To everyone who needs someone to talk, you can always dm me on insta at @astrixui. I might not be able to provide the best advice but I can always be a friend to whom you can share! Stay strong brothers 💪
I dont have Insta but I cant take it anymore and I dont have anyone to tell my story to. Today is the 27th Jun 2024 it has been about 4 months since I was sexually abused/touched. It was a big shock to me I want to talk about how I feel and what was on my mind that day but no one listens. I was on my way to my concert with the train as every usual day. Suddenly a group of teenage guys around 15 -17 years old was standing behind me. I was standing right in front of the train door and was waiting till it opens. There were 2 stops left and suddenly a guy came too close he started to touch me and a second boy was right behind so no one could see what was happening. There were about 4 or 5 boys. He would not stop … I pulled away and he pulled me even closer. I didn’t know what to do. I was and I am just 13 years old. I was so scared that I couldn’t move. Right when the first stop ended the second guy switched with the first guy and it was going on until the last stop came. I was so shocked and paralyzed that I was watching the floor in horror all of the time. He was not just touching me he rubbed himself on me and I was just … Scared I guess. I cant explain my feelings in that moment I was unable to think. My thoughts? I wasn’t thinking about anything it was like as if my brain was empty. To be honest this was not the first time. It was my 3rd time that I was being sexually abused. I told my parents and the worst thing did not even happen. My own parents told me:,, see what can happen in the train when you go by yourself!,, Not are you alright or do you need anything! That’s why I am scared to go by the train by myself in 2 days. I feel like it will happen again and I am scared as f--- to be honest. I told it my parents my best friend my other friends my sister and none of them cared about it. I felt heartbroken and abused which I was. I can’t describe how I am feeling right now. I am scared to show my skin, scared to go swimming, scared to sleep with an open window, scared to take a bath, scared to talk to an boy alone, scared to go by bus, train or car alone! My whole world is just being scared and never be safe again. Oh and you know what, just later I found out it were some kind of guys that I met there more than once. And all the time, they just laughed! (Some of you might say it is no big deal but it is a big deal to me!) 🧷
That is one the most true things that I’ve ever heard because even tho I’m a kid I felt and still feel sadness and pain from something that started about 5 years ago I think I needed to watch this video and to read this comment to be sure I wasn’t the only one thank you
For all the men who came to this video, to get relief from their pain, love you all, its ok to cry out loud, its ok to wet your pillows, Once I also came to this video, coz i was sad and no one cared my feelings, but now life has changed, give some time for your self, things will get better. I wish all the men here to have a beautiful life ahead.
@@Do-Some-Change yes, thats sad truth, but try speaking openly to the people who hurt you the most. Explain them your pain, if they dont understand, remove them from yoir life and move on.
how did we go from seeing the most beautiful and inspiring video like no woman no cry to an utterly depressing masterpiece like this??? so beautiful!!!!!!!
If you don't have time to go to the gym, just get some dumbells and lift whenever that depression starts to set in. I always do it and it helps me cope with the negative thoughts. Hope you are all doing okay ❤
my dads best friend of 20 or so years died about a month ago from a tragic car crash that wasn’t his fault and he left behind his 2 sons a daughter and his wife but my dad stood at his coffin knelt down and said “you were a good man” but never shed a tear so if that’s not making y’all cry idk what you are but I did
Me (15) lost my dad a month ago cause of cancer and tumors i have never once in my life seen him without the tumor or any disease. Am the bad child for not crying at his funeral?
@@RaceEgelI No, not at all. Silence represents your deepest pain that you've ran out of emotions and even words, you're totally fine with that since for me, my dad didn't even cry on my grandpa's funeral and neither did I. Even I, is exactly your age... Nevertheless; Condolence too, even if it was late! Stay strong always, guys.
not me. the last time i cried was 6 years ago when my grandma died, i barely shed a tear. after bottling emotions almost all my life it makes me wanna break stuff and cry, but i dont feel like i can cry anywhere, even at my house. with depression and severe anxiety it barely makes it bearable to actually wake up in the morning, but i just hope eventually everything in my life will go the way i want it. after all, crying isnt gonna solve any problems.
When you will become a dad , you'll understand , he is the pillar, the anchor of your family , if he cries everyone and everything will break down . He NEEDS TO BURY HIS FEELINGS FOR HIS PRECIOUS FAMILY
Watching my father who is 66 years old suddenly start to cry, since he remembered his father who had died 12 years ago, is a image that will stay with me forever.
I am sorry to hear that... I have though time now, and even if I'm a girl, it's hard for me to cry too in front of others. But if you feel pain inside, cry. Just cry. It's better than keeping all your feelings inside your heart. I can feel your pain, man.
@@Sophie-ep5ikthe only time I can actually cry my eyes out, is when I’m drinking but I drink alone. I hide my keys because I’m afraid I might actually wrap my car around a tree, I hide my phone so I won’t bother anyone while I’m drinking.
@@lt.jacrispy5851 I am so sorry... You can also talk to someone, for support. I am sure you have though time now. But I can listen too if you want. 😇 You're not alone.😊
@@lt.jacrispy5851I am so sorry... But you know, you can talk to someone too. To someone who will listen. You need to share your feelings. I can listen if you want 😇 You're not alone😊
@@lt.jacrispy5851 I am so sorry... But you know, you can also talk to someone. Someone who will listen and support you. I can if you want it😇 You're not alone😊
One of the most beautiful edits I've ever seen. Really loved it, it's sad that men's mental health isn't considered important, the weight of every scene, every cry, every scream was just- ah man such a great work ❤✨! (idk who tf was cutting onions, obv I wasn't crying it was just due to onions ofc)
Dude, this was so butiful. It shows on how men get treated these days and it sucks. Men are so underrated and should get treated differently in this world. Your making me tear up inside man 😢. I used to get bullied and treated like I didn't won't to get treated. Thank you so much for making this edit man, I have no words 😢
As woman i would like to say to all the boys and men: You deserve to cry You deserve to be vulnerable You derseve to be understood You deserve to ask for help You deserve happiness You deserve to cry and don't feel weak You deserve to be vulnerable and don't feel less You deserve someone who can love you as much as you deserve You deserve love You deserve care You deserve help You deserve to speak when ever you feel lonely You deserve warmth You deserve to have a happy life You derseve so much that i can't tell all of it just in one comment. I hope you all boys and men live happy lives and full of love.❤
So, i’ve had a rough day.. the girl who left me, gave a flower to somebody else.. in front of me… in graduation… when will… i have a good day. Edit: thank you, all of you, i appreciate your nice comments, i am doing better now, thank you so much.
I'm going to give you a real talk right now bro...I'm going to spend 5 minutes with you right now. You cant change what has already happened, I know because I already tried that. You never know you love someone or something until it's gone. You may feel alone, sad, fucked up but I'm telling you that life is too short to focus on the negatives. Im not telling yku what everyone else is going to say, to "man up". Because the best way to release your feelings, your anger, your frustration is to talk to someone. She might have left you, gave a flower to someone else but you show her that what she did hurt you...but better yet you recovered from it and learned. Peace to all of you hommies ❤
I just randomly found this video and you know what, I cried. ( I am a girl) Why the society reacts that way on a men who is crying?! Like, why?! And women, who start to insult or make fun of them? Like, what's in ur mind? I fully respect men that aren't afraid of crying. Its not weak, it's really strong. Don't listen to ones that are accusing you of being weak. You are not. Love yall, men and women. Peace🕊✌
Because society expects us (and always has) to bear with things and to "be a man", like that meant we are unbreakable or indestructible. But the moment we show any signs of "weaknesses" we are judged and torn down by our peers and specially by women. The moment women see our internal struggles, most of them will not hesitate to turn tail and get away from us, because we're not supposed to burden anyone and handle things by ourselves.
@@DixieRect Yea, I know it, a lot of people, especially women do that. I am really sorry for all the women that act this way, usually, they are selfish and careless. But still, it's important to know what you feel, and stop caring about what others think. I know it's hard, but it's the right thing to do.
I needed this so much. Im spiraling and im scared to explain to my mates. I dont wanna burden them. I dont know why im even posting here. I just need to put it into words that im miserable and i have no right to be
i really like this, well done astrix. it started up emotions and made my brain run away for a moment. men cry. people need to know that. everyone needs to know that, especially men. i cant help but think about processing emotions and just emotions as a whole while watching this. guys, ur not alone. if you’re in a low place right now, just know it doesn’t last forever. don’t bottle up your emotions, please please please, it’s a reaction bound for an explosion. talk to people, loved ones, anyone. mental health is just as important as the physical. i wish you all the best, and hope you all can get through whatever pains, trials, or difficulties you may be facing right now, love you all❤❤🫂
Even if men cry who cares? Nobody values a men's tear people only show sympathy towards kids, women or animals but nobody sympathise any men even if they show their emotions or show it so there is no such use of expressing it rather ignoring it will help men gain frameworks in time of dangers
"Its okay to cry because no matter how many times you try to avoid it, it will always follow you whenever you go even if you are in gods hands"-my grandma before she passed away
"the key to life is to lie to yourself about reality. smile through everything. all the bad things, well you just pile 'em away in a place that will come back one day in the form of i dont know, rage." -Peter griffin
crying is the all-natural healthy method to cope with exceeding distress. Those who have never had a good cry won't understand. The very notion that crying is petty or weak or useless is utterly absurd. What's important is that after you're done, try your best to move on with your day.
@@TheIndispensableOpposition All a good cry did for me was make me spiral down more and more good cries, they stopped feeling god and I just felt like shit.
I spent the past 2 years of my life studying for a competitive exam and on the exam day , i felt immense pressure and almost blacked out from the nervousness when i saw the question paper , i finished the test and i thought i did well but when the results came i got less marks , and now i am in the worst state of my life , all the time i am anxious and nervous thinking will i get into a clg this year i have lost most of my confidence, even though if i take a year off to study for next years test i think i will do bad in next year s competitive exam , i havent felt so angry at myself and miserable in my life
i‘m now entering the driving phase even though i don’t want to. My big brother is forcing me to do it. People like me who are unmotivated to do something don’t manage it either! My cousin and I are entering this bad phase and he is proud and will probably manage it while i will go under. (Im 17) Life beginning to get crazy… On one side the pigs, on one side my family, on one side my brother, on one side the girls, friends school, driving license, *SIMPLY EVERYTHING* !
Even if men cry who cares? Nobody values a men's tear people only show sympathy towards kids, women or animals but nobody sympathise any men even if they show their emotions or show it so there is no such use of expressing it rather ignoring it will help men gain frameworks in time of dangers
@@anthonycosta128thats life Brother, thats how nature is. Unfortunately/fortunately you're born as a man and with that you have to do the duties like a real man would, you have to be strong for your loved ones, take on more responsibility and just become the best version of yourself. Nature doesn’t want us men to be emotionally weak, thats why nobody cares, ignore your sadness and focus on something else when you feel sad. I recommend you the "meditations of Marcus Aurelius" learn to be stoic
@@G_Singh222 Except i didn’t ask to be born on this earth because my mom and dad decided to have a bit of fun when they were teens in high school so why tf is it my duty just because i was born a male? I didn’t ask to be born in this world where it’s society views men as disposable or as weak for showing emotions and judged by other men for revealing those emotions
@@G_Singh222 And the whole real man this and that is really just you praying on men’s downfalls and wanting them to be destroyed just to build them but that last part is BS because the suffering part for men is all you care about and why ignore my sadness??? Because i’m a male??? That’s it that’s the only reason??? Like i said i didn’t ask to be born especially born into a world that believes it’s ok for men to be hurt and be destroyed and broken and if they have a human reaction to it then they’re no longer a “ReAL MAn” it’s sounds like to me your version of a ReAL MAn” is a broken slave where nobody cares or gives a F about him and he should just accept that because it’s” NaTuRE”
I'm a woman who has no close guy friend or a boyfriend and I plan to keep it that way, but there is always someone that cares about you and it's upsetting that some guys think they'll be perceived as weak if they speak up about how they feel
I fell in love with my female friend and told her, she didn't feel the same, so she ended the friendship which broke my hearth. I lost the person who I loved and she lost a person who she thought was her good friend, sucks for both of us. It happend in march and I still think about her and miss her. I know there are other fishes in the ocean etc. but Im over 30 years old and met a few people in my life, but I never felt the same for anyone else before and we didn't even have a relationship, she was truly special for me.
@@r1pfake521 Thats fair enough it is hard to get over someone you were once in love with, it eventually passes, im sure you would know alot more then me since im half your age
Just keep trying y'all, it may get tough, but you'll be tougher. I ain't talking out my ass here. I got through it, i was also suicidal, i had to work through it. Keep yourselves busy brothers 🙏
I've never been cried over 2 years, and I will hold it in until something breaks me into pieces, I won't let my weakness take over no matter what, no matter how emotional I get. Good luck men.
Crying isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength, a sign that you are a human with emotions. Don't be afraid to cry. If you've ever see. You dad cry, you know what it feels like.
It's a relief to know I'm not the only man feeling like this. Screaming inside but quiet on the outside. Truth is nobody cares and those who care don't deserve to carry what is going on with us.
When I was younger and my sons were very sad, they cried. Now I'm a 74 yr old mom, and my sons still cry when they are heartbroken or real sad. I never thought crying was a sign of weakness, being a sniveling, whinny, useless person is weakness.
Thank you for this wonderful video Really im in pain heart broken now i know how to lose hope someone there feel the same your not alone you can do everything
To all struggling men out there: We live in a time where men are supposed to be either strong or weak depending on who it's coming from Be strong, it's always better to be strong. But what is strength? Personally, I believe strength is overcoming struggle, not struggling. Have you ever known someone with an addiction? It could be yourself, it doesn't matter. Addictions aren't fun. Do you think adicts are strong people? No, because they just sit at rock bottom and don't do anything about the problem. So gentlemen, please, for your own sake, cry. Cry a little, cry a lot. It will make you stronger. And if ANYONE tells you or thinks otherwise, they can go to fucking hell Thanks for listening! I hope you get better
i cry everyday, everyday i put on a fake smile and be the best actor of my life for everyone around me, just to return back to the emptyness and loneliness that I only keep to myself. I'm miserable.
jesus man... what a heavy video. i been feeling lonely lately but man sometimes we men just go through tough times and we want an escape. i started to realize that just.. no one cares that's the reality and it's okay. me and my brother talk about that shit sometimes and we get to that place of acceptance that just no one cares we are men and we all suffer in silence it is what it is... so what she left me for him even though i was 17 years old she was 17 as well but then i realized i was competing with a 28 year old adult at the time. she left me for him because he is a "man that got it all figured out" this is our reality. We suffer in silence, we take the pain with all the salt, we work hard to impress people. then after the satisfaction we are back to zero again to that pain that haunts us. i guess most men live the same lives... it's those that take all that pain and turn it to something admirable those ones that can say they actually escaped. trust God, Trust yourself, and do something so hard that will leave a mark.
@@IchmöchtekeinOnlineBanking man.. still haunts me to this day. I'm 25 today! Imagine i was 17 realizing i was competing for a girl i genuinely had feelings for with a freaking 28 year old adult! Maybe the girl i will be with in the future someone else genuinely loved and then they will be suffering in silence... maybe all men do the same lives.
“Lord, for those who have been struggling with these type of thoughts, and have been dreadful in your amazing world that people are just burning like a piece of homework, for those who have been dealing with depression and all of these bad thoughts, I ask you to help them out, and cancel these thought out of their minds, lord I beg to you that you can defeat all of this, and send all of the people that really do believe in you into your kingdom, for those who really only understand what the true meaning of worship, and love for the lord, and world.” AMEN✝️✝️✝️✝️
It is the responsibility of men to carry the world's pain and suffering. We suffer in silence because we don't want to burden the ones we are protecting. And whatever you believe made us, be it nature of God, we are made strong to withstand any struggle and still be able to carry the world on our shoulders.
In my opinion, and as a woman, a woman who can't handle her man crying isn't a true woman. I get if it's over something silly, like his ice cream dropping on the ground or something. But if it's something serious like his dad dying in a car crash, he cries over that and his woman can't handle it, then she was never emotionally mature in the first place.
I feel fekin numb man. Not even a single piece of emotion. Just alive and doing things. Just alive. Have no idea whats going on. Totally lost. I even realized that after that video. Thanks for it !
When ever you feel empty, lonely, hopeless, and sad just remember God is there with you and he will listen. Just talk to him I promise you he will reach out like he reached out to Peter while he was drowning
I’ve lost many people and have cried few times for people to see.another best friend of mine died two weeks ago and I will always remember cooper and Jessie like brothers.i will always blame myself and never cry because of it,why? Because it will never be accepted.
I understand this now, and you don't necessarily need a woman to be depressed, it just happens. I am 26 and I am not sure if I will live to 27, but yeah Chester I understand you now
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To everyone who needs someone to talk, you can always dm me on insta at @astrixui. I might not be able to provide the best advice but I can always be a friend to whom you can share! Stay strong brothers 💪
I don't even have insta😂😂
Thx bro😢❤
I dont have Insta but I cant take it anymore and I dont have anyone to tell my story to.
Today is the 27th Jun 2024 it has been about 4 months since I was sexually abused/touched.
It was a big shock to me I want to talk about how I feel and what was on my mind that day but no one listens.
I was on my way to my concert with the train as every usual day. Suddenly a group of teenage guys around 15 -17 years old was standing behind me.
I was standing right in front of the train door and was waiting till it opens.
There were 2 stops left and suddenly a guy came too close he started to touch me and a second boy was right behind so no one could see what was happening. There were about 4 or 5 boys. He would not stop … I pulled away and he pulled me even closer. I didn’t know what to do. I was and I am just 13 years old.
I was so scared that I couldn’t move.
Right when the first stop ended the second guy switched with the first guy and it was going on until the last stop came.
I was so shocked and paralyzed that I was watching the floor in horror all of the time. He was not just touching me he rubbed himself on me and I was just …
Scared I guess.
I cant explain my feelings in that moment I was unable to think.
My thoughts? I wasn’t thinking about anything it was like as if my brain was empty. To be honest this was not the first time.
It was my 3rd time that I was being sexually abused.
I told my parents and the worst thing did not even happen. My own parents told me:,, see what can happen in the train when you go by yourself!,,
Not are you alright or do you need anything!
That’s why I am scared to go by the train by myself in 2 days.
I feel like it will happen again and I am scared as f--- to be honest.
I told it my parents my best friend my other friends my sister and none of them cared about it.
I felt heartbroken and abused which I was.
I can’t describe how I am feeling right now.
I am scared to show my skin, scared to go swimming, scared to sleep with an open window, scared to take a bath, scared to talk to an boy alone, scared to go by bus, train or car alone!
My whole world is just being scared and never be safe again.
Oh and you know what, just later I found out it were some kind of guys that I met there more than once.
And all the time, they just laughed!
(Some of you might say it is no big deal but it is a big deal to me!) 🧷
Yeah gym is my life
I wish someone could help me but I’m too broken and a fuck up im just me
"Men don't cry because they're weak, they cry because they've been strong for too long"
-Itachi Uchiha
Bro that's so true
That is one the most true things that I’ve ever heard because even tho I’m a kid I felt and still feel sadness and pain from something that started about 5 years ago I think I needed to watch this video and to read this comment to be sure I wasn’t the only one thank you
@@jusros0792 you're10..
@@the-almighty-toast sorry but no you are wrong
That's the quote I was going to write but seen you just a sec ago so 😅 👍
For all the men who came to this video, to get relief from their pain, love you all, its ok to cry out loud, its ok to wet your pillows, Once I also came to this video, coz i was sad and no one cared my feelings, but now life has changed, give some time for your self, things will get better. I wish all the men here to have a beautiful life ahead.
🫀🫂
But Crying won' solve anything . After crying you'll have to go to the same place as before
@@Do-Some-Change yes, thats sad truth, but try speaking openly to the people who hurt you the most. Explain them your pain, if they dont understand, remove them from yoir life and move on.
No.
@@soldacc6343 Yes.
"Men don't cry they cry in silence"-A true man
ive been crying myself to sleep since 8 yrs old. idk if i can keep doing this.
@@chch.spots101 You can do it bro, keep pushing. Go find that help you need. Or call somebody you know and love that will always talk to you.
@chch.spots101 man I hope u are joking but if u aren't try and stay strong it gets better eventually trust me I've had the same thing happen
same man i crying in silence while i walking in the street
@2h1hs1h2hs wow man I'm really sorry . I hope that you feel better soon
Men cry not because he was weak but,he was strong for too long.
Salute to you man..
@@Shikto_Playz thanks.
what is the name of back ground music?
@@Riyanhaider140 in the shirt
so what if he cries every second
Emotionally, a piece of art.❤
Means a lot.. coming from you
@@ASTrixUIbro literally your edits can't describe in words !!
what is the name of back ground music?
what is the name of back ground music?
@@Riyanhaider140 The Irrepressibles - In This Shirt
how did we go from seeing the most beautiful and inspiring video like no woman no cry to an utterly depressing masterpiece like this???
so beautiful!!!!!!!
Tough times bud!
If you don't have time to go to the gym, just get some dumbells and lift whenever that depression starts to set in. I always do it and it helps me cope with the negative thoughts. Hope you are all doing okay ❤
Tried and tested, it works...now just the dumbbells not enough, doing more to cope up with it. Thanks
@vishalknair2925 for sure brother, keep your head up and keep busy. Much love
@@ChewyPinata appreciate it brother.
Thanks u as well God bless you I needed to hear that 🙏
Shut the fuck up I don’t need to be a stong mf cause I’m not
That hit right in the feels...so beautifully done ❤
Thanks GS! Means a lot
"a man in pain holds the power to destroy everything, yet, he only destroys himself"
-me
well said brother
my dads best friend of 20 or so years died about a month ago from a tragic car crash that wasn’t his fault and he left behind his 2 sons a daughter and his wife but my dad stood at his coffin knelt down and said “you were a good man” but never shed a tear so if that’s not making y’all cry idk what you are but I did
...I am, condolence for your dad.
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Me (15) lost my dad a month ago cause of cancer and tumors i have never once in my life seen him without the tumor or any disease. Am the bad child for not crying at his funeral?
@@RaceEgelI No, not at all. Silence represents your deepest pain that you've ran out of emotions and even words, you're totally fine with that since for me, my dad didn't even cry on my grandpa's funeral and neither did I.
Even I, is exactly your age... Nevertheless;
Condolence too, even if it was late!
Stay strong always, guys.
The real ones doesn’t rage when they cry…
they cry in a corner because no one should know that… stay strong brothers
Its hard...
not me. the last time i cried was 6 years ago when my grandma died, i barely shed a tear. after bottling emotions almost all my life it makes me wanna break stuff and cry, but i dont feel like i can cry anywhere, even at my house. with depression and severe anxiety it barely makes it bearable to actually wake up in the morning, but i just hope eventually everything in my life will go the way i want it. after all, crying isnt gonna solve any problems.
damn fine editing, son. who the hell is cutting onions? 😢
I've never seen my dad cry in my entire life!
When you will become a dad , you'll understand , he is the pillar, the anchor of your family , if he cries everyone and everything will break down . He NEEDS TO BURY HIS FEELINGS FOR HIS PRECIOUS FAMILY
@@somnambulist6636I think that that is exactly what my dad thinks about crying!
Nicely put 🙌
ive seen my dad cry to a football show
@@somnambulist6636 this is not true men have feelings too they should be allowed to express it
Watching my father who is 66 years old suddenly start to cry, since he remembered his father who had died 12 years ago, is a image that will stay with me forever.
This really hit me in the feels bro... I got teary eyed while watching it. Beautifully done mate!
Thank you man!
I am not afraid to admit that I cry sometimes myself.
not everyone is willing to admit this. that makes you stronger than them.
I wanna cry. It’s hard too fully break down an cry my eyes out when I’m alone but I always think someone will walk in and catch me crying.
I am sorry to hear that... I have though time now, and even if I'm a girl, it's hard for me to cry too in front of others. But if you feel pain inside, cry. Just cry. It's better than keeping all your feelings inside your heart. I can feel your pain, man.
@@Sophie-ep5ikthe only time I can actually cry my eyes out, is when I’m drinking but I drink alone. I hide my keys because I’m afraid I might actually wrap my car around a tree, I hide my phone so I won’t bother anyone while I’m drinking.
@@lt.jacrispy5851 I am so sorry... You can also talk to someone, for support. I am sure you have though time now. But I can listen too if you want. 😇 You're not alone.😊
@@lt.jacrispy5851I am so sorry... But you know, you can talk to someone too. To someone who will listen. You need to share your feelings.
I can listen if you want 😇
You're not alone😊
@@lt.jacrispy5851 I am so sorry... But you know, you can also talk to someone. Someone who will listen and support you.
I can if you want it😇
You're not alone😊
One of the most beautiful edits I've ever seen. Really loved it, it's sad that men's mental health isn't considered important, the weight of every scene, every cry, every scream was just- ah man such a great work ❤✨! (idk who tf was cutting onions, obv I wasn't crying it was just due to onions ofc)
That means a lot. Thank you so much!
Sometimes watching these videos feel more powerful than therapy...
yes
Dude, this was so butiful. It shows on how men get treated these days and it sucks. Men are so underrated and should get treated differently in this world. Your making me tear up inside man 😢. I used to get bullied and treated like I didn't won't to get treated. Thank you so much for making this edit man, I have no words 😢
Thanks for the compliment bro! I hope things get better for you soon :D
@@ASTrixUI YOOO! bro pined it and tysm!!! 😭😭😭
As woman i would like to say to all the boys and men:
You deserve to cry
You deserve to be vulnerable
You derseve to be understood
You deserve to ask for help
You deserve happiness
You deserve to cry and don't feel weak
You deserve to be vulnerable and don't feel less
You deserve someone who can love you as much as you deserve
You deserve love
You deserve care
You deserve help
You deserve to speak when ever you feel lonely
You deserve warmth
You deserve to have a happy life
You derseve so much that i can't tell all of it just in one comment.
I hope you all boys and men live happy lives and full of love.❤
thank you for this
So, i’ve had a rough day.. the girl who left me, gave a flower to somebody else.. in front of me… in graduation… when will… i have a good day.
Edit: thank you, all of you, i appreciate your nice comments, i am doing better now, thank you so much.
I'm going to give you a real talk right now bro...I'm going to spend 5 minutes with you right now. You cant change what has already happened, I know because I already tried that. You never know you love someone or something until it's gone. You may feel alone, sad, fucked up but I'm telling you that life is too short to focus on the negatives. Im not telling yku what everyone else is going to say, to "man up". Because the best way to release your feelings, your anger, your frustration is to talk to someone. She might have left you, gave a flower to someone else but you show her that what she did hurt you...but better yet you recovered from it and learned. Peace to all of you hommies ❤
Welcome to the average man's life. You got time to improve mate and let it be a lesson
Don't be the man she left , become the man she can never have . Stay strong brother
Some beautiful day you will surely have your moment in sun bro. Have faith and keep walking. May lord the god guide you and bless you with his grace.
hope you doing fine brother... have faith in life. there is much precious and beautiful ahead !!
This is what a true men cry over, and its very pain full to watch all the time. Its sad, very sad this can make a grown man cry.
I just randomly found this video and you know what, I cried. ( I am a girl) Why the society reacts that way on a men who is crying?! Like, why?! And women, who start to insult or make fun of them? Like, what's in ur mind? I fully respect men that aren't afraid of crying. Its not weak, it's really strong. Don't listen to ones that are accusing you of being weak. You are not.
Love yall, men and women.
Peace🕊✌
Because society expects us (and always has) to bear with things and to "be a man", like that meant we are unbreakable or indestructible. But the moment we show any signs of "weaknesses" we are judged and torn down by our peers and specially by women. The moment women see our internal struggles, most of them will not hesitate to turn tail and get away from us, because we're not supposed to burden anyone and handle things by ourselves.
@@DixieRect Yea, I know it, a lot of people, especially women do that. I am really sorry for all the women that act this way, usually, they are selfish and careless. But still, it's important to know what you feel, and stop caring about what others think. I know it's hard, but it's the right thing to do.
I needed this so much. Im spiraling and im scared to explain to my mates. I dont wanna burden them. I dont know why im even posting here. I just need to put it into words that im miserable and i have no right to be
You have every right to be sad . Talk to your friends, they'll understand. And if they don't, well find ones that do. Stay strong brother
Almost been a year I hope u won that battle with ur demons brother
"ive never have a loved one"
best part
Men cry because holding the pain in eventually takes it's toll💔
That was Masterpiece!
And the silence of a man says a lot.
crying is not a sign of weakness.... its a sign of being strong enough to show emotion
This is beautiful! Great work man!
Thanks Kevin :D
Wow! This was a masterpiece! Great job!
Thank you so much!
i really like this, well done astrix. it started up emotions and made my brain run away for a moment. men cry. people need to know that. everyone needs to know that, especially men. i cant help but think about processing emotions and just emotions as a whole while watching this. guys, ur not alone. if you’re in a low place right now, just know it doesn’t last forever. don’t bottle up your emotions, please please please, it’s a reaction bound for an explosion. talk to people, loved ones, anyone. mental health is just as important as the physical. i wish you all the best, and hope you all can get through whatever pains, trials, or difficulties you may be facing right now, love you all❤❤🫂
Thank you so much for this bro!
Even if men cry who cares? Nobody values a men's tear people only show sympathy towards kids, women or animals but nobody sympathise any men even if they show their emotions or show it so there is no such use of expressing it rather ignoring it will help men gain frameworks in time of dangers
But it’s a sin, men shouldn’t cry
@@ghostmaker0 source?😭
@@crimzoncomplete Average twitter user moment
“Hey did you know water increases your hydration”
“Errrm im gonna need a source for that buddy” 🤓☝️
"Its okay to cry because no matter how many times you try to avoid it, it will always follow you whenever you go even if you are in gods hands"-my grandma before she passed away
"the key to life is to lie to yourself about reality. smile through everything. all the bad things, well you just pile 'em away in a place that will come back one day in the form of i dont know, rage." -Peter griffin
the 'happy or sad' scene from peaky blinders caught me off guard ,amazing masterpiece
Crying doesn't solve anything. You must keep going, things will improve. Stay Strong Brothers 💪
Yeah . That's the point the world should understand
crying is the all-natural healthy method to cope with exceeding distress. Those who have never had a good cry won't understand. The very notion that crying is petty or weak or useless is utterly absurd. What's important is that after you're done, try your best to move on with your day.
@@TheIndispensableOpposition All a good cry did for me was make me spiral down more and more good cries, they stopped feeling god and I just felt like shit.
@@Thinkingisdead well figure out how to stop the spiral
And rejection of crying will also not solve anything so let's cry for a moment without anybody knows
"You are not brave, men are brave"- Bruce Wayne
This is so true, I got yelled at by my mum for crying, and then people ask why I’m quiet all the time.
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Why are you quiet all the time 😂
😞😫
thankyou my man for making this masterpiece ❤
Best multifandom ive ever seen, amazing job
Every person who belongs to us performs his role perfectly
I spent the past 2 years of my life studying for a competitive exam and on the exam day , i felt immense pressure and almost blacked out from the nervousness when i saw the question paper , i finished the test and i thought i did well but when the results came i got less marks , and now i am in the worst state of my life , all the time i am anxious and nervous thinking will i get into a clg this year i have lost most of my confidence, even though if i take a year off to study for next years test i think i will do bad in next year s competitive exam , i havent felt so angry at myself and miserable in my life
i‘m now entering the driving phase even though i don’t want to. My big brother is forcing me to do it. People like me who are unmotivated to do something don’t manage it either! My cousin and I are entering this bad phase and he is proud and will probably manage it while i will go under.
(Im 17) Life beginning to get crazy…
On one side the pigs, on one side my family, on one side my brother, on one side the girls, friends school, driving license, *SIMPLY EVERYTHING* !
Fr man life is beginning to go crazy @@SuperGirlyyy13
I know 🫠
Keep going brother don't give up
at the end of the day you just gotta try again. or be stuck.
I'm not sure I know how to cry but I think this video finally did something
Its not just wemon that have feelings, men cry too but in silence and there's nothing wrong for a man to have feelings it's what makes us human
men when they show their emotions>>
amazing edit by the way
Even if men cry who cares? Nobody values a men's tear people only show sympathy towards kids, women or animals but nobody sympathise any men even if they show their emotions or show it so there is no such use of expressing it rather ignoring it will help men gain frameworks in time of dangers
@@anthonycosta128thats life Brother, thats how nature is. Unfortunately/fortunately you're born as a man and with that you have to do the duties like a real man would, you have to be strong for your loved ones, take on more responsibility and just become the best version of yourself. Nature doesn’t want us men to be emotionally weak, thats why nobody cares, ignore your sadness and focus on something else when you feel sad. I recommend you the "meditations of Marcus Aurelius" learn to be stoic
@@G_Singh222 Except i didn’t ask to be born on this earth because my mom and dad decided to have a bit of fun when they were teens in high school so why tf is it my duty just because i was born a male? I didn’t ask to be born in this world where it’s society views men as disposable or as weak for showing emotions and judged by other men for revealing those emotions
@@G_Singh222 And the whole real man this and that is really just you praying on men’s downfalls and wanting them to be destroyed just to build them but that last part is BS because the suffering part for men is all you care about and why ignore my sadness??? Because i’m a male??? That’s it that’s the only reason??? Like i said i didn’t ask to be born especially born into a world that believes it’s ok for men to be hurt and be destroyed and broken and if they have a human reaction to it then they’re no longer a “ReAL MAn” it’s sounds like to me your version of a ReAL MAn” is a broken slave where nobody cares or gives a F about him and he should just accept that because it’s” NaTuRE”
“Jesus Wept” The only real man who deserved to cry.
FIRSTTTTT
And really beautiful edit bro,so good ✨️💫
👑👑
I'm a woman who has no close guy friend or a boyfriend and I plan to keep it that way, but there is always someone that cares about you and it's upsetting that some guys think they'll be perceived as weak if they speak up about how they feel
I fell in love with my female friend and told her, she didn't feel the same, so she ended the friendship which broke my hearth. I lost the person who I loved and she lost a person who she thought was her good friend, sucks for both of us. It happend in march and I still think about her and miss her. I know there are other fishes in the ocean etc. but Im over 30 years old and met a few people in my life, but I never felt the same for anyone else before and we didn't even have a relationship, she was truly special for me.
@@r1pfake521 Thats fair enough it is hard to get over someone you were once in love with, it eventually passes, im sure you would know alot more then me since im half your age
When a loved couple breaks apart, it’s the men that tries to pick up the pieces first. Even when he is vulnerable
Just keep trying y'all, it may get tough, but you'll be tougher. I ain't talking out my ass here. I got through it, i was also suicidal, i had to work through it. Keep yourselves busy brothers 🙏
I've never been cried over 2 years, and I will hold it in until something breaks me into pieces, I won't let my weakness take over no matter what, no matter how emotional I get. Good luck men.
Crying isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength, a sign that you are a human with emotions. Don't be afraid to cry. If you've ever see. You dad cry, you know what it feels like.
Wow… didn‘t expect that this would hit as hard as it did
It's a relief to know I'm not the only man feeling like this. Screaming inside but quiet on the outside. Truth is nobody cares and those who care don't deserve to carry what is going on with us.
When I was younger and my sons were very sad, they cried. Now I'm a 74 yr old mom, and my sons still cry when they are heartbroken or real sad. I never thought crying was a sign of weakness, being a sniveling, whinny, useless person is weakness.
Shut up boomer
men don't cry cause they are not strong enough, they cry cause they've been strong enough too long.
Fellas to everyone feeling lifeless, step inside an octagon or fight any combat sports i swear you feel alive once again
This is what they gave us as men they gave us this suffering it’s a system to give us pain.. I think we all need to stand up…
Thank you for this wonderful video
Really im in pain heart broken now i know how to lose hope someone there feel the same your not alone you can do everything
U boy or girl?
Man this is so beautiful.
Thank you so much Paban!
Thats was such a beauty one, made me feel myself...
Thanks UB
To all struggling men out there:
We live in a time where men are supposed to be either strong or weak depending on who it's coming from
Be strong, it's always better to be strong.
But what is strength?
Personally, I believe strength is overcoming struggle, not struggling.
Have you ever known someone with an addiction? It could be yourself, it doesn't matter.
Addictions aren't fun. Do you think adicts are strong people?
No, because they just sit at rock bottom and don't do anything about the problem.
So gentlemen, please, for your own sake, cry. Cry a little, cry a lot. It will make you stronger. And if ANYONE tells you or thinks otherwise, they can go to fucking hell
Thanks for listening! I hope you get better
Tears are words the heart says in its own way. It’s not because we are weak. It’s because we’ve been strong for too long.😔
i cry everyday, everyday i put on a fake smile and be the best actor of my life for everyone around me, just to return back to the emptyness and loneliness that I only keep to myself. I'm miserable.
This is one of the greatest edits I’ve ever seen ❤❤❤❤❤
jesus man... what a heavy video.
i been feeling lonely lately but man sometimes we men just go through tough times and we want an escape.
i started to realize that just.. no one cares that's the reality and it's okay.
me and my brother talk about that shit sometimes and we get to that place of acceptance that just no one cares we are men and we all suffer in silence it is what it is...
so what she left me for him even though i was 17 years old she was 17 as well but then i realized i was competing with a 28 year old adult at the time. she left me for him because he is a "man that got it all figured out"
this is our reality. We suffer in silence, we take the pain with all the salt, we work hard to impress people.
then after the satisfaction we are back to zero again to that pain that haunts us.
i guess most men live the same lives...
it's those that take all that pain and turn it to something admirable those ones that can say they actually escaped.
trust God, Trust yourself, and do something so hard that will leave a mark.
Atleast you relised that nobody cares about you.First step to become something.
Brother…💔 i live the same SHIT.
I live the same thing…
@@IchmöchtekeinOnlineBanking man.. still haunts me to this day. I'm 25 today! Imagine i was 17 realizing i was competing for a girl i genuinely had feelings for with a freaking 28 year old adult! Maybe the girl i will be with in the future someone else genuinely loved and then they will be suffering in silence... maybe all men do the same lives.
Don't be the man she left . Become the man she can never have
One thing that ecoes in mind is" never give up"
Amazing bro keep this consistency up👌👌👌👌👌
A true men is always silence at the dark but infront of everybody we always put our fake smiles
I say this with sincerity in my heart. No one is coming to help get up, get up now!
I truly need a good cry but I simply can’t .. I’m crying inside I need those tears to feel some relief but they won’t drop 😞 thanks for the video
Don't cry, I've tried.
A wise man once said, "Men are brave ".
the fact that Homelander wasn't in this is CRIMINAL
Cry about it.
@@Igor-my6mlchill dude
Why would he be
You are cringe.
@@Igor-my6mltf ? no one likes u
cry but don't let anyone see it. be cause if you do, you'll end up sadder.
1:21 made me cry
let's cry together my brother me 1.28
it makes me cry each time I watch it.
"i want away out of loneliness"
I CANT CRY LIKE THE PAIN I HAVE BUT I CANT DROP ANY SINGEL DROP OF TEAR
Always remember men don't cry but we do 😭
“Lord, for those who have been struggling with these type of thoughts, and have been dreadful in your amazing world that people are just burning like a piece of homework, for those who have been dealing with depression and all of these bad thoughts, I ask you to help them out, and cancel these thought out of their minds, lord I beg to you that you can defeat all of this, and send all of the people that really do believe in you into your kingdom, for those who really only understand what the true meaning of worship, and love for the lord, and world.” AMEN✝️✝️✝️✝️
Men cry. They just don’t show it.
This was really special. Big thumbs up
Thank you Chrisper :D
Best video I've ever seen in my whole life
It is the responsibility of men to carry the world's pain and suffering. We suffer in silence because we don't want to burden the ones we are protecting. And whatever you believe made us, be it nature of God, we are made strong to withstand any struggle and still be able to carry the world on our shoulders.
In my opinion, and as a woman, a woman who can't handle her man crying isn't a true woman. I get if it's over something silly, like his ice cream dropping on the ground or something. But if it's something serious like his dad dying in a car crash, he cries over that and his woman can't handle it, then she was never emotionally mature in the first place.
I feel fekin numb man. Not even a single piece of emotion. Just alive and doing things. Just alive. Have no idea whats going on. Totally lost. I even realized that after that video. Thanks for it !
Yeah me to I cant cry can you
@@justrandommemes2010 no
@@thoro-sh3pw dame
Shed a tear the the emotion; so relatable
It’s true, I find it extremely difficult to cry. I haven’t cried once since I was a kid despite losing 3 grandparents. And yet, I still feel
I didn't cry but a drop of tear in my right eye is still waiting to be dropped
When ever you feel empty, lonely, hopeless, and sad just remember God is there with you and he will listen. Just talk to him I promise you he will reach out like he reached out to Peter while he was drowning
Palsm 22 feels like what i'm going through
Literally the best edit i have seen on internet thie year
this
Tysm!!
The world needs more of this
Why does this resonate so much with me
Only Men understands
I'll keep smiling, at least for now. :)
I can describe this video only by one word... Masterpiece 🔥
Need more like this man...
I’ve lost many people and have cried few times for people to see.another best friend of mine died two weeks ago and I will always remember cooper and Jessie like brothers.i will always blame myself and never cry because of it,why? Because it will never be accepted.
I understand this now, and you don't necessarily need a woman to be depressed, it just happens. I am 26 and I am not sure if I will live to 27, but yeah Chester I understand you now
woww, this is really, really beautiful, man. i love this sm!
Means a lot!
Incredible video. So well made ❤