So true! This is a confirmation. A former female mentor and “apostle” told others in the ministry that I was “showing off” because I wore dresses and skirts. The Holy Spirit told me to invest in my divine femininity, and here she was saying the exact opposite. That’s the devil speaking! Any woman that is jealous, offended by your femininity or desiring that you “tone it down” is demonically oppressed & in her masculine energy bc she desires to control you. Let her twitch, tweak & be triggered! We pray that she gets delivered someday. Keep on shining BRIGHTLY, ladies!!! Ain’t nobody mad but the devil bc your divine beauty reminds him of who he USED to be! 😘💃🏿👠
Most women have envious hearts, but a lot of older women in particular are just mean and envious toward younger women. It's ridiculous like girl go heal already. In my 20s and 30s, I experienced nastiness from them smh. Now that I am in my earlier 40s, I pay attention to how I treat younger women. I refuse to be hateful and mean.
I never thought I’d be bullied by younger women in my 40s and I’ve noticed little girls look at me mean sometimes so I think this starts very early on in some women
You're so smart! Great catch! These people hide very well but once their true character starts to peek through you gotta clock it immediately and move accordingly. Great vid! ❤
Honey! Hunty hunty hunty... I am over 40 and this madness happened to me when I was very young and back then we did not discuss these things the way we do now, however one thing that I can say about me ( not to be arrogant or puffed up) I have been working on getting my light back...or I never truly lost it, well at any rate I love seeing young ladies GLOW. Never have I ever tried to destroy a young ladies or any womans light just because a lot of messed up jealousy based BS has happened to me, I feel very blessed because of it. Without saying after the nonsense that I expirienced it is a given for me to stay away from any jealous person even if their jealousy is not geared towards me.
1 of my longtime friends had switched up on me and I doubted my own intuition while making excuses for her behavior. Up until 2020 I had a very small circle of old friends that I brought her in to, and we called each other family. Shortly after the untimely deaths of 2 friends made my circle non-existent. It was pretty much just us left, and my so called 'Ride or Die' bestie was in secret competition and failed to reveal this to me. Ghosted her and haven't looked back, and the fact she hasn't reached out is all the confirmation I needed. I appreciate her for teaching me such a tough lesson but will never link up again, I'd rather be friendless.
Too many slick comments that’s given out BY women it’s so sad honestly. To every woman keep doing what you’re doing let them hate, a lot of people can’t heal themselves within. Keep them from around!
I think this may have clarified why I can't seem to fully trust my mom, and even my dad. It feels arrogant to assume others are jealous. But I have noticed that there seems to be invisible parameters where my mom is concerned. I can be financially successful. I can be smart. I can be creative. But I cannot be beautifu, especially not sexy. And I cannnot be in a relationship with a man. Basically, I must deny my womanhood to coexist with her. It's the feeling of being kept in an invisible prison.
I had this situation and did not see it at first. My mother, auntie, and friends, ALL told me about my coworker who behaved like your coworker. Did I listen? No, because I could not see it. After some nasty exchanges with the coworker that diminished my light and lost my peace, I see it so clearly now. 👀. Been avoiding this person like the plague now. Thanks for this video! I see others have this problem too.
I whole heartedly recommend calling her church and speaking to the leader about her behavior. She probably started gossiping and insinuating those girls were jezebels to other members to make those girls comply, sneaky people have to pull strings to get their way. Just tell them exactly what you said in this video, that she was smug and proud she got in these girls heads. If they have a good leader they will deal with her, if they have a weak leader they will not listen. Just you calling and telling them will let them know they have a Satan in their church.
It happens in classes, organizations you are in and neighborhoods! It’s prevalent EVERYWHERE! Unavoidable when you’re a beautiful woman! You have to be it to know it! Best thing to do is try to not engage or distance like she said because it’s GOING to happen everywhere if your beautiful fr!
Wow. If she is not the boss, she has no business talking to you about the dress code. I'm overdressed at work and my coworkers love it and have asked for fashion advice. I would probably speak to her boss about it because this should not be happening. It's harassment.
I also struggle with unforgiveness, but that's antithetical to Christianity. It is also possible this woman is trying to put it mildly rather than saying "There's some whores in this house, there's some whores in this house," you know. Doesn't mean she's villainizing attractiveness, necessarily.
The woman is a church woman? Ok now it makes a lot of sense. We know some church women believe in dressing modest. They think the dressing up and wearing make up is being vain and superficial. She may not be jealous. She just may have a different mind frame. Some women are like that. You on the other hand have a different way of presenting yourself. Neither is wrong. I think the problem comes when one imposes their beliefs on the other. You may need to set some boundaries with her eventually.
Sound like you playing both sides. If she go to church and filled with the Holy Spirit she should know that thy shall not judge. Come as you are and who ever is without sin shall cast the first stone. This why the church is getting empty over time. But to each its own. This lil light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine
Older women have also been through different phases and can see through the insecurities and trying too hard to be perceived as beautiful. A lot of women who think they are making women jealous don't realize how people actually see them. Just because people are looking at you doesn't mean anything particular. But of course, there are jealous women or women who don't like the jezebel hungry spirit trying to vampirize energy from their husband or sons, etc. Which can also be influenced by whatever inner issues the woman may have. If no issues, she will trust the Lord to let her husband and sons see through the superficiality of women who try too hard.
So true! This is a confirmation. A former female mentor and “apostle” told others in the ministry that I was “showing off” because I wore dresses and skirts. The Holy Spirit told me to invest in my divine femininity, and here she was saying the exact opposite. That’s the devil speaking! Any woman that is jealous, offended by your femininity or desiring that you “tone it down” is demonically oppressed & in her masculine energy bc she desires to control you. Let her twitch, tweak & be triggered! We pray that she gets delivered someday. Keep on shining BRIGHTLY, ladies!!! Ain’t nobody mad but the devil bc your divine beauty reminds him of who he USED to be!
😘💃🏿👠
So true!! It is a jealous spirit and we can not fall victim to that! 💎
Jealousy and envy are wicked spirits. Such people will only seek to destroy you.
So sad but so true!
Some, while simultaneously trying to be you. It’s bizarre.
I hate jealous anything !!!!!!!! Sister , mother , friend anybody
Same!! It’s so gross 💎
My jaw DROPPED when you said she was bragging about influencing those ladies to dress down. What a hater she is!! I'm shocked!!
I know like how WEIRD!! 💎
Most women have envious hearts, but a lot of older women in particular are just mean and envious toward younger women. It's ridiculous like girl go heal already.
In my 20s and 30s, I experienced nastiness from them smh. Now that I am in my earlier 40s, I pay attention to how I treat younger women. I refuse to be hateful and mean.
You are the type of woman younger ladies should be grateful for! 💎
!!!!!
I never thought I’d be bullied by younger women in my 40s and I’ve noticed little girls look at me mean sometimes so I think this starts very early on in some women
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Same...absolutely agree.
You're so smart! Great catch! These people hide very well but once their true character starts to peek through you gotta clock it immediately and move accordingly.
Great vid! ❤
Yes we have to be vigilant! Thank you for being here! 💎
You can forgive but I recommend never reconcile if the person shows envy, it can lead to stalking and they won't be able to help themselves.
This is so true! The obsession happens fast!
“It’s real out here, especially being a beautiful woman. “ felt that it’s jus so true
It really is! Thank you for being here. 💎
Honey! Hunty hunty hunty... I am over 40 and this madness happened to me when I was very young and back then we did not discuss these things the way we do now, however one thing that I can say about me ( not to be arrogant or puffed up) I have been working on getting my light back...or I never truly lost it, well at any rate I love seeing young ladies GLOW. Never have I ever tried to destroy a young ladies or any womans light just because a lot of messed up jealousy based BS has happened to me, I feel very blessed because of it.
Without saying after the nonsense that I expirienced it is a given for me to stay away from any jealous person even if their jealousy is not geared towards me.
Wow you are such a blessing, just reading this confirms YOU NEVER LOST YOUR LIGHT 💎
@@MainCharacterForever Blessings to you too🕊🕊🕊🙏🙏❤❤Many Thanks💎
I like how you said, “…stay away from any jealous person even if they’re jealousy is not geared towards me.”💯
This video is so very accurate.💯✨ I’ve learned that in the future to not even waste my own time with people’s nonsense.
1 of my longtime friends had switched up on me and I doubted my own intuition while making excuses for her behavior. Up until 2020 I had a very small circle of old friends that I brought her in to, and we called each other family. Shortly after the untimely deaths of 2 friends made my circle non-existent. It was pretty much just us left, and my so called 'Ride or Die' bestie was in secret competition and failed to reveal this to me. Ghosted her and haven't looked back, and the fact she hasn't reached out is all the confirmation I needed. I appreciate her for teaching me such a tough lesson but will never link up again, I'd rather be friendless.
This wounds so painful but I’m proud of you for overcoming! 💎 You are a smart woman for never looking back!
Too many slick comments that’s given out BY women it’s so sad honestly. To every woman keep doing what you’re doing let them hate, a lot of people can’t heal themselves within. Keep them from around!
Yes so true! 💎
You’re the online sister I always wanted ❤❤❤
Thank you babe! I’m so happy you’re here! 💎
I think this may have clarified why I can't seem to fully trust my mom, and even my dad. It feels arrogant to assume others are jealous. But I have noticed that there seems to be invisible parameters where my mom is concerned. I can be financially successful. I can be smart. I can be creative. But I cannot be beautifu, especially not sexy. And I cannnot be in a relationship with a man. Basically, I must deny my womanhood to coexist with her. It's the feeling of being kept in an invisible prison.
I had this situation and did not see it at first. My mother, auntie, and friends, ALL told me about my coworker who behaved like your coworker. Did I listen? No, because I could not see it. After some nasty exchanges with the coworker that diminished my light and lost my peace, I see it so clearly now. 👀. Been avoiding this person like the plague now.
Thanks for this video! I see others have this problem too.
Yes! There is a spiritual attack going on but we will not be defeated! 💎
I whole heartedly recommend calling her church and speaking to the leader about her behavior. She probably started gossiping and insinuating those girls were jezebels to other members to make those girls comply, sneaky people have to pull strings to get their way. Just tell them exactly what you said in this video, that she was smug and proud she got in these girls heads. If they have a good leader they will deal with her, if they have a weak leader they will not listen. Just you calling and telling them will let them know they have a Satan in their church.
This is great advice thank you! 💎
Girl that job must be paying you a million dollars a day because honey it's not worth it, you need to level up so you don't have to go through this🤣
Ahaha I love this comment 💎
It happens in classes, organizations you are in and neighborhoods! It’s prevalent EVERYWHERE! Unavoidable when you’re a beautiful woman! You have to be it to know it! Best thing to do is try to not engage or distance like she said because it’s GOING to happen everywhere if your beautiful fr!
Exactly no matter where u go! @@MartishaSooDivine333
I never do. I give one chance only.
You’re SMART 💎
Wow. If she is not the boss, she has no business talking to you about the dress code. I'm overdressed at work and my coworkers love it and have asked for fashion advice. I would probably speak to her boss about it because this should not be happening. It's harassment.
No she’s not, and she always waits until no one is around to comment. ALL my other coworkers love the fact I get dressed up. It’s just her. 💎
@@MainCharacterForever She needs to be exposed. A good boss would not allow that.
I love your channel ❤ my eyes got big 😂when you said “dressed to the nines 9😅”Girl run,🏃🏾♀️ I love Jesus that’s a religious spirit, pray for her
😂😂 right!! I was so shocked! 💎
I also struggle with unforgiveness, but that's antithetical to Christianity. It is also possible this woman is trying to put it mildly rather than saying "There's some whores in this house, there's some whores in this house," you know. Doesn't mean she's villainizing attractiveness, necessarily.
Thanks for being here 💎
The woman is a church woman? Ok now it makes a lot of sense. We know some church women believe in dressing modest. They think the dressing up and wearing make up is being vain and superficial. She may not be jealous. She just may have a different mind frame. Some women are like that. You on the other hand have a different way of presenting yourself. Neither is wrong. I think the problem comes when one imposes their beliefs on the other. You may need to set some boundaries with her eventually.
Thank you for your perspective 💎 I’m happy you’re here!
😊You are welcome. Now if she keeps imposing then I can say she may be a little jealous. Just see how it goes.
Yes, totally agree with this comment! You said it so eloquently. I actually don’t think it’s jealousy either.
Sound like you playing both sides. If she go to church and filled with the Holy Spirit she should know that thy shall not judge. Come as you are and who ever is without sin shall cast the first stone. This why the church is getting empty over time. But to each its own. This lil light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine
Older women have also been through different phases and can see through the insecurities and trying too hard to be perceived as beautiful. A lot of women who think they are making women jealous don't realize how people actually see them. Just because people are looking at you doesn't mean anything particular. But of course, there are jealous women or women who don't like the jezebel hungry spirit trying to vampirize energy from their husband or sons, etc. Which can also be influenced by whatever inner issues the woman may have. If no issues, she will trust the Lord to let her husband and sons see through the superficiality of women who try too hard.
Their mindset is thats holiness it sad i.have been there say something about my natural body
A.lot of them.are worried about the men looking at them crazy if you.are young be young and beautiful ok.
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You could also go to her church, never become what she wants and change the other girls back, 😂
😂😂 Omni love this comment 💎
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Already done
I feel seen!
You’re a Diamond babe 💎 of course your seen here 💎
Me to.baby i dont care if you dont like it
Your coworker is so weird
She’s so obsessed with others wardrobe like get a life girl
Churches dont show the fruit of sprit that why i stop going cant do.fake
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