Theo and Matt McCusker React to Harrison Butker's Controversial Speech
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Catholic guy says Catholic things for a Catholic audience…
The audacity
Absolutely
Agreed. It's entirely uncontroversial. This is just the media needing something to generate views.
Reddit in shambles
@@RicardoDixhardolmao yeah, 'catholic has catholic message for catholics, redditors most affected'
yea, not all catholics believe that. i'm saying this as a catholic
"He loved middle school..." dead.
That had me dying
I am a nurse and work around other working mothers all day. I don’t know a single one who wouldn’t quit their job in a second to stay home with their kids. But the minority spoke for the majority a long time ago and now nobody can afford to stay home. Most mothers are working because they have no other choice sadly. Kids are being raised by daycares and schools.
end game capitalism working as intended.
My mom raised me and my siblings and didn't get a job until we were old enough to be on our own. She loved being a stay at home mom.
I don’t think anyone has an issue with mother’s preferring to be with their children. It’s when you make prescriptions for people who don’t have children and imply women who prioritize careers are not living life correctly.
Thank the Rockefellers funding women's Liberation movements to gain access to cheaper labor.
my mother worked, when we were growing up, she was a nurse, she loved that job, she studied hard for it and loved doing it. She took off working for one year, and I as her son am here to tell you, that she was not as good a mother when she was a stay-at-home mother as when she worked. She just wasn't as happy or fulfilled and it showed. God it. It was the worst year of my childhood. Once she went back to work we had our interesting mother back, happy and enjoying her life and so able to enjoy her mothering time because it wasn't a daily largely unappreciated chore anymore. It took the pressure off my dad too. He wasn't as pressed about the finances when she was working, he wasn't always working overtime and he had time to spend doing dad stuff and being more than just a breadwinner
Again, people missing the 12 minutes prior when he called out priests, bishops, hudsbands, fathers or men in general and how they have also been lacking in picking up their duties as leaders and responsabilities all because it's hard and we all just want comfy lives in the name of niceness and not rocking the boat. The ol' go along to get along, tolerance etc that has infected the post modern world.
That’s just as problematic because men aren’t inherently leaders of women 😂 women have been proven to lead better
Did we though? People carefully edit shorts for a reason. To highlight what’s either important to them or what they think will get them most clicks. Either way, disappointing.
THIS
Yes, but he told the men in the audience to be leaders, and the women to stay at home and
be child bearers and home makers
@@baltimoreravens4eva560no. Go listen to the whole speech before spewing your liberal ideology.
the fact that what he said is considered controversial actually scares me for the future of America
And it's only catholics saying that too, even the rainbow pope himself is more conservative than the average protestant.
Yes, but many agree with him, or at least agree with some of what he said. The controversy is manufactured because this kind of stuff generates engagement and views. That's precisely why almost every news outlet, podcast, and channel has covered it.
@@scratchpennythat adds up. It’s a topic that generates a lot of response because everyone thinks about love and relationships, and what those should look like.
This is the beginning of the Marxist revolution in America unless we wake TF up
I thought some of what he said is a little silly, but any "controversy" is entirely manufactured for clicks and views. Don't get your knickers in a knot about it.
Whats funny about feminism is that they'll never realize that fighting for women's ability to stay in the home and take care of their families is just as important as fighting for those same women to have successful careers in their workplace
As a woman, I would rather be at home, with the kids. I agree with what Harrison said.
Would you like the choice?
My wife literally asked me when we first started talking how I would feel if my partner wanted to be a stay at home mother and she expressed her desire to be a housewife, i snatched her up quick. She makes me feel so blessed.
Yes that's a choice. But he is telling a room full of young woman. No point in pursuing a career, that's ignorant. Some woman want to work in society, it should be your Choice. Either way
@@Collab2023-zx1mrThat's not what he said. He said marriage and children are what people generally find most rewarding.
@@meelly6232well if those words would of came out that way. I do agree. That's not the way he put it in his speech, and he is talking to young woman who are either gonna further there education or start A career. So getting pregnant and married should be number one on their mind ? No they have so much work ahead of them and can be fulfilled even independently. Then will make great wives and mothers in the future
If you put into context that it’s a Catholic School, it makes a lot of sense. I graduated from a Catholic College and all those girls there wanted to become moms more than anything.
So it sounded like Matt was gonna say something against it until he heard Theo was for it. Let's instead celebrate players that have 8 kids with 4 different women.
And a couple of DVs!
i think it was more so that he thought the message was tone-deaf before realizing it was a catholic school
@@na-vn5qy the message is only offensive to the progressive mindset that looks down on women who stay home with kids. Catholic or not.
@@jthen8454 okay, that doesn't really have much to do with my reply though
@@na-vn5qy ya. Good point.
I’ve already transcended to IDGAF
Since 2018 or so the minute the left begins to freak out over something I immediately begin to think it's not that big of a deal
@@Jimbow-sz9khgood way to deal with the left
I also identify as part of the IDGAF+ community
Welcome to menopause.
He is a devout Catholic, invited to speak at a Catholic college to a room of Catholics!!! It is absolutely ridiculous the backlash he has gotten.
Not completely ridiculous. But you are correct about the catholic parts✌️
yes but his association with the NFL team and him being a complete dick thinking he's morally superior is the problem
It’s a universal message that transcends religion. I have my personal compass that guides me and I absolutely subscribe to his message. It’s good for society as a whole and it’s good for men and women everywhere. Don’t know the man at all but as a high profile public sportsman he has restored my faith in humanity. It’s so counter culture at the moment and against the narrative of many others and the destructive progressive left agenda.
Congratulations Harrison Butker. Your parents did a wonderful job and obviously walk the talk that you espoused and look at their results. Fantastic and I sincerely wish you all the success in the world….. Be strong while they come for you!
@@RFCircle i just did.
Actually, his mom led the complete opposite life of what he is espousing. His mom is a successful and celebrated physicist who earned her PHD from MIT, but besides that fact what about the fact that this university that he is speaking at didn't have any problem taking $100,000 from each woman that earned a degree that this man is in front of them saying it was a diabolical lie they were told that a career would fulfill them more then motherhood would.
@@RFCircle pretty sure I am. I never suggested I was speaking for you or anyone else. To be clear, it’s just me speaking for myself. That better🤦🏻♂️
@@BRLambert4 he’s talking about the cultural narrative that is pervading society that young women should prioritise their careers at the expense of motherhood and men (ie marriage). He’s offering a counter to that and not telling anyone they shouldn’t be doing anything. Simply supporting those women who are afraid to dare to want something against the zeitgeist. He also had a say about men being role models and against domestic violence.
@@iamthebroker the counter offer that you say he is making, has been unattainable for several decades now. Most 2 income families are struggling to stay afloat.
Woman should prioritize whatever they chose to prioritize, wether it be a career or staying home with their children.
Believe me, the woman who have children and a career are not being praised for having a career.
And what do you suggest the woman who choose to stay home with their children and take care of the home do if their husband no longer wants to remain in that marriage? That woman who has no resume, or experience to find employment will just be called a gold digger when she seeks spousal support, right?
BTW, his female jersey's have sold out.
no, but odd how a truth gets stretched to a lie like this. his jersey was one of the top sellers on a kc chiefs website during 1 day in may. these claims that his jersey is selling out or breaking records are just made up. kinda odd.
@@lucrative6477not really. People want to support him and they want to believe positive things about him. Ok it’s exaggerated but so fucking what?
@@Fibonaccisghost you call it exaggerated, I call it lying to make something seem more important that it rly is. Idc either way tbh, just odd that some of you care so much that you’re “exaggerating” facts.
lol what like all 10 of them? Did you think there was a lot of women’s Harrison Butker jerseys to begin with?
@@lucrative6477it’s true. As a Catholic, our groups are posting links to buy his jersey and people are saying they are going to buy it. It’s a Catholic thing.
If more moms were staying home with their kids, our country wouldn’t be in the shape it’s in. But also, if men stepped up to the plate and made sure they were faithful to their wives and families, we would be so much better off. Paying child support only makes you a father, but being there daily and every night for their family, makes them a dad. Big difference!
👌
Yeup, if men didn't walk out on their families
We didn’t face the need for both parents to work until women entered the work force. If women didn’t work, the price of everything would drop
I appreciate the balance of accountability here. Thank you for this comment. We all need to take a look in the mirror.
Actually if most people don't put their selfish hedonism and cardinal desires above familial health we'd ALL be better off.
My wife stays home with our kids. They are thriving. Definitely a financial sacrifice, but she is more than capable of working when the kids are all in school. Those first five years of their lives are huge. We have to budget
People are putting words in his mouth. He never said anything about being a stay at home mom. He said the most rewarding and exciting part of a womans life is being a mother. He goes on to say the exact same thing in regards to dads.
If it's so rewarding, why isn't he doing it? If it's such an exalted vocation why are more men not signing up to do it? Because they don't respect it or the women who do it, that's why. There is no job security in doing it, you can and most likely will be fired and replaced by someone half your age with no experience doing any of it as soon as your husband gets a hardon for a fresh piece and he will fight tooth and nail to see to it you get as little as absolutely possible in recompense for having spent years doing the job. Please spare me the bull.
@@clementmckenzie7041… he is doing it and he believes divorce should be illegal for men and women and adultery should be a penal crime so…
@@imjustheretogrill9260 ok, so his basic belief system is that no matter how badly your husband treats you, how much he abuses you, beats you, degrades you and cheats on you, you have to stay married to him, because divorce is illegal, The Catholic Church doesn't even believe that. also he says in his speech, it's actually his wife doing it and because she does it he has the freedom to pursue HIS dreams and talents because she is doing the actual work of making a home and raising the children she sacrificed her dreams and talents and didn't get to have the career she wanted so that he could have the career HE wanted. He actually says this in his speech. Be for real, if adultery were a penal crime most men would be incarcerated. Which is why it's always really only been a crime for women. Men historically have always gotten a pass even though it was illegal for most of western history.
@@imjustheretogrill9260how is he doing it? He’s a husband, father, man, football player, podcaster, amateur public speaker and entrepreneur. But she is only a wife and mother. She has no career, no ambition for anything outside of her family, but he has many. The issue isn’t that SOME women chose to be homemakers and wives and that’s it, the issue is the overly conservative lifestyle being pushed on everyone. Not everyone is catholic, not everyone needs to conform to his beliefs.
All of you seem to be too slow to remember that this is a college graduation speech. That shit is completely irrelevant and should have never come up in the first place. How yall graduated HS is beyond me
Saying women are a reflection of the men in their lives might be the most profound thing Theo has ever said.
100 percent . We have so many broken women who are broken little girls .
@@user-ps4ky5jk8wWho came, overwhelmingly, from broken homes. Single mother homes are, in average, terrible for kids - stats are clear that they are the single worst family model.
@@WhizzingFish12any single parent home is bad for children. And I pray for the mothers and fathers that did not have a choice in the matter of being a single parent (their spouses have passed away)
@@Anthony-uu2tk True, but single father homes have almost the same outcomes as a 2-parent home. Statistically speaking (and it may seem weird but makes sense when one understands the impact of typically different parenting approaches between fathers and mothers at a societal level), it's much better to be a child in a single-father home than a single mother one. This is a hard truth that upsets people to hear, but single mother homes are far and away the worst model overall for healthy child development.
Being at home vs when I was working and being gone form their lives sucked . I missed so much. You don’t get those years back with your kids. At your job you are disposable , but being a mom you aren’t.
Im so happy for Theo. You are such a great person and your content is some of my favorite stuff to watch. Thanks Theo. What a great journey you are on. I don't know much about Matt but he is so funny.
The perfect point: A devout Catholic talking at a Catholic university. I mean...? This is insane journalism. lol
I feel like lots of the people that somewhat "push" for a single parent experience didn't deal with that during their time being raised.
NEH they're products of broken homes and are coping with the single parenthood by probably making the argument "well it's better than a toxic marriage".
💯 me and my wife come from single parent homes and have made it our lives mission to not do that to our own children
They're people who come from broken homes
Just who "pushes" for a single parent experience?
@@tomasrocha6139 rap music and feminism mainly
Either your wife stays home, or her salary pays for her replacement.
For 99% of people this is true, day care is insanely expensive
Not if she has a professional degree and work experience. Agreed that daycare is insanely expensive, but for most of the population who are families, a two household income is practically a necessity. It’s unfortunate, but true.
@@petestephens85 I hate hearing that, however it isn’t the case where I live in Oklahoma. Thankfully 1 income households still thrive and it seems typically a woman’s career makes just a bit more per month than daycare costs so you have to weigh someone else “raising your kids” at daycare or an extra $500-1000 per month in income. To me the decision was lopsided in favor of my wife being at home with our kids and my career takes care of all our bills. My wife dies odd jobs like babysitting and cleaning houses to make extra spending $$
Or no kids
@@Alstroemeriak if you're catholic, not having kids isn't an option, marriage isn't about people needing another person to wipe their ass when they are too old. It's about become 1 single person together and being fruitful.
It's easy to blame any gender, race, religious or cultural movement. To find the real culprit, all you have to look at is wages compared to housing prices and the cost of living over the last 50 years. It's way too expensive, even for most two parent households.
Also the fact that we set up the real-estate market the way it is today is already braindead.
All by design
Which of those was being blamed in this video?
Um, no, it’s the collective feminine condensed into an ideology, hijacked by the least stable and accentuated by social media. I think things are mayyybeee slightlyyy better economically in the west than they have been in anywhere on the planet at any point in time in history, but also maybe that’s just me having a basic education and utilizing common sense. Thanks for your retarded guess
He loves his family
I’m a stay at home Dad cause my wife makes a lot more money than me I can tell you it’s not that hard definitely better than working a real job
It's about choice within a marriage. Butker would not approve of yours, sadly. He is adamant about a woman's calling from God is as homemaker. That's my issue with him, that women don't know their own calling.
@@laurykristensen6239 I’m in 2 minds about it I do believe we are naturally here to procreate and women generally speaking are better at being nurturing not 100% there are many women who aren’t like that for different reasons and they should be able to do whatever they want but most women are happier staying at home with the kids in my opinion, I think when these guys talk about about how women will regret not having kids I think they are partly right a lot of women will but they talk like all women will and that’s not true some women really don’t want kids some think they don’t and will regret it later
@@DY-td3ku I think he could have said all of those things more tactfully. Very true you don't know what having your own kids is like until you do. He is clear in an earlier interview that women are called on exclusively for that. The diabolical (sinful) lie he refers to is about a woman having a career. He is not about a woman being called on to anything but marriage and family. That is, in order to have salvation.
(it's more obvious in seeing his interviews, he claims God gave him the platform to speak His/God's truths whenever possible).
My sister just had a baby last month. She worked hard to find a work from home job so she can care for her infant and still contribute financially to her household, only taking two days off after his birth. She also cleans on the weekends for extra cash.
He husband works 50 hours per week as a retail manager. A couple days ago, bad weather came through and took down a bunch of trees on their property. When she asked her husband for help, they got into an argument because he said he was too tired from working. He then said that he does more work in one day than she does in a month.
She is now fed up and is considering leaving him. The laziness of modern men holds much responsibility to the breakdown of the family unit.
Do you live nearby? Can you help relieve some of their stress, by helping out somehow? If you can’t, you can’t.
I wish there was more guys out there like that guy talking about traditional, beautiful things as a single mother. We need more guys like this that stick by the women they procreate with and want to support them as they raise their child! call me, old-fashioned! But I got to see freaking Nirvana so whatever 1993 lol I’m no so-called Square what this guy saying is cool to me.
There are massive benefits to kids that are raised by stay at home moms.
Mass shootings and money for the pharmaceutical industrial complex?
My wife would stay home with the kids if she could in a heartbeat. Shit, so would I. Thank god we both work from home so we have a taste of it at least.
Good for yall. Glad im child free and work for myself only and get to enjoy my freedom and go wherever I want whenever.
@@john1336compensating.
Good take guys!!
Ngl the media was acting like he went up there and said some crazy misogynistic stuff. That was not bad at all lol
Thank you for this. Love Theo!
I just watched on UA-cam an interview five years ago with Butker on EWTN. The interviewer asked him was he praying about winning the Super Bowl. Butker said no. He said he was praying for his wife and child and that he would be the best husband and father. This guy is a saint.
Theo Von wearing an Iowa Hawkeye hat is the best thing I’ve seen all week
Just remember though, the same people who espouse the Homemaker as a vocation and a utopian existence for women were also the ones who created the situation where we HAVE to have dual wage earners for a family to survive. Think that over for a few moments and you'll understand a little of the hypocrisy of the whole argument. Being a mother IS a huge and often thankless job, but women having the right to go after a career shouldn't be demonized either. Freedom of choice is the American mythos.
My wife stayed home with my kid for over four years while I earned a living and made under 60 k. So what are you talking about??
This feels like another classic example of the people down below being divided and ended up pointing fingers at each other. When in reality, the fingers should be pointing up, the truth is that people can’t be homemakers these days because salaries and cost-of-living doesn’t support it! It used to be easy to support an entire family with one person staying home off of a single income. The ultra rich Have destroyed the class and caused that not even a possibility for most. So even if women didn’t have ambitions and goals outside of motherhood, it wouldn’t matter because they have to work to help support the family anyway. So whether you think this is controversial or not, the problem isthat it isn’t even a possibility anymore.
It ain't just salary though dude, don't you see?, you live in a dystopian future that actively WANTS you to never have a family or community, it's all apart of the NWO.
A lot of people who share his views also get pissy when a woman takes half a man’s assets in a divorce but why does that happen? Maybe bc of all the women who didn’t get an education or job skills only to have their husbands ditch them in their 40s/50s. Raising kids for 20 years doesn’t exactly get you into a career when you’re in your forties starting from scratch. Seen it happen too many times
The cost of forsaking your career to raise children full-time carries repercussions through the rest of one's professional life. That gap on the resume can't be made up for, it's a real sacrifice. Those women deserve to be compensated for that time if the marriage breaks down at a later point.
Amen
So refreshing to hear this, gentlemen! It was the sentiment behind his words that i really agree with. He was pushing back against this culture of prioritizing career over children, and i couldn't agree more - whether it's the father or the mother
People aren’t willing to sacrifice income and status for a family. Dinks aren’t impressive, they are spoiled kids in an adult body.
I work with a bunch of guys that make 200k a year, have 0/1/2 kids and their wife’s work. Have 100k trucks, 100k boats, spent 10-15k on hunting every year. But kids are expensive…. 😂
Two dudes sitting there discussing what women want and need. Wow. Many of us would love to stay at home and make it a wonderful place but that simply isn't an option for most families. Maybe have a woman on to give her opinion if women are your subject matter.
Spare me this bs that I need to be a woman to talk about obvious aspect of life. Sorry, I will talk about anything I want
i have only been watching clips of this podcast but man... these two are such a great pair man wtf
He is thanking and crediting his wife for his success. All while telling those people they do not need to be ashamed or embarrassed by the desire to stay home by stating it is a VOCATION. It was beautiful and refreshing to hear.
This was amazing 🤣🤣🤣
Harrison was up there speaking facts. People are soft.
You must be a hit with the ladies
No people are stupid. Like you. You don’t tell a woman who’s graduating college that she should want to be a mom or wife 🤡 you celebrate her accomplishment. If you don’t comprehend the context issue here then you’re just plain slow. He also said he is successful because his wife stayed home. Suggesting that women should sacrifice themselves to be slaves to their husbands and children instead of engaging in her own pursuits in life, Jensen him telling them that they’ve been sold lies and that’s the only reason they’re there in the first place. it’s the true lie that’s sold to women, and men are salty that we aren’t buying it anymore. Anyone who sees no problem here had no critical thinking or objective reasoning skills. Aka slow ass Christian conservatives
@@xxAMAZINGxx62 I keep seeing your comments and I love them all. I especially love this idiots username. Thank you for pushing back and not allowing these creeps to normalize this behavior or mentality.
@@donjon8597weird play but alright
@@donjon8597found the softie. Or the trollie?
Listening to this podcast was like being in a bath that was exactly the perfect temperature
The Insanity: Any woman criticizing other women for LOOKING FORWARD to and ENJOYING being a stay-at-home-mom WHILE dropping her kids off at daycare so that OTHER WOMEN will do what the stay-at-home mom is doing makes no damn sense.
Solution: Be free and secure to be yourself, whether focused on career without children or taking major time off to raise your children at home. Or do both! Either way, how hard is it to humbly and respectfully embrace each other's decisions and paths. The divisive pride ( on both sides, including when stay-at-home moms look down their noses at "career women" ) doesn't help.
Some surprisingly thoughtful comments by these two!
Theres nothing wrong with homemaking, but it shouldnt be the only option for men or women
GOD Bless this man @ Harrison Butker. Please for those that haven't heard the full speech Please do.
Everyone is upset and attacking Butker a man of faith, a wonderful father and husband for expressing his beliefs and views at a Catholic church but are not outraged and silent on NFL players with 5 baby mamas who are on video beating their wives and children and driving their car 119 mph causing a 6 car crash. Everything is backward in life.
Where was the energy for men to encourage them to be fathers and aspire to be good men..?!
He did at length during another part of the speech. They just ignored that part where he held men to standard so they could rage against this part.
This is ultimately the entire problem - everyone complaining watched like 10 seconds of his speech. It's fucking long dude it's a commencement speech he says a lot of shit.
Yes go Theo! This woman agrees with you!!!
At the end of the day it comes down to money. If you got money do whatever you want. But if you don’t then get some
Our government has set it up where it’s hard to have a one income family. But I told my husband I wouldn’t be a working mother. We had just started a business when my son was born and we qualified for food stamps although we didn’t receive them. We made it work. I don’t regret it for a second. We didn’t think we had to have the newest phone or a $60K car. Priorities.
He wasn't wrong- Now start dropping them eggs while scrambling some in the kitchen before Daddy goes to the office!!
a lot of people seem to forget on this issue that families cant get by with 1 person working. either you'll have an absentee dad working 2 jobs and passing away early from never getting a break or both parents work.
that's how inflation works. we live in an era of extreme inflation.
Umm that why I was able to? My wife stayed home for over four years with my kid while I was the only income making less than 60k. 3 kids, my wife, house and a dog. All on my paycheck
Not only did I achieve that, but I am a persons that loves to go to concerts and smoke weed. Still have been able to do both those while wife was not working.
@@bobbun4369 wow champ. that's called an anecdote. as in your experience. not the entirety of the population ya simple simple man.
@@-.-Monsterand? You are the one that said it can’t happen.. I’m literally living proof.. so your entire comment is just bs
@@bobbun4369 sorry for having generalized. i should have said "except for hillbillies that live down south in a trailer and smoke weed all day - they're fine making slightly above minimum wage and raising a family that will also remain in poverty or right next to it for the entirety of their lives"
i really should be more specific.
It’s sad so many people are triggered by this. Shame on them.
I bet you would think otherwise if a woman said to a group of young men graduating that their only purpose in life should be to be fathers and to give up on their other ambitions and dreams and be stay at home dads 😂
@@larastarmer4777Not if that was the traditional role...which it's not. Nothing he said was wrong.
@@larastarmer4777it is a fathers job to be a leader… and to provide for his family. You liberals are so far left you can’t even see reality 😂
@@larastarmer4777he would not say that because he is Catholic and speaking at a Catholic university. You would need to understand the context and Catholic values to understand the message without being offended. That is not the role of a Catholic man. Sorry.
@@larastarmer4777Honestly, that sounds amazing to me personally. Working fuckin blows. Cooking and eating is where it’s at
Harrison is also making over $1M/year and encouraging folks to stay home and raise the kids. It’s a nice sentiment for 1954, or if you make $1M/year. Otherwise… good luck.
Weird… I was able to have my wife home with my kid for almost 5 years while earning an income of under 60k a year
Weird, I fucked your wife the whole time and those are my kids...@@jimbob498
@@jimbob498 Awesome. You’d be on food stamps and public assistance in California. Nothing wrong with it, just the reality.
We also live watyyyy out of our means in this country and no one knows how to budget and save. I have 7 kids and I stay home and my husband makes under 60k a year.
@@user-ps4ky5jk8w That’s awesome that you get to be a full-time parent and homemaker. But if some folks choose not to live super frugally, and be one blown transmission away from crushing debt or bankruptcy, then two incomes definitely helps tremendously. 🤷🏼♂️
Thats a great hat Theo has!
I think the issue is that stay at home moms only can exist if the other is working at a really nice job. Single home income use to be a possibility but now its rough for regular people. Hes speaking from a perspective that very very few can afford to have because they arent well off. My dad worked at a factory job and that was enough while my mom stayed home. now if my dad still had that job there's no shot it would be enough so my mom would need to work. Its not that society is telling women they have to work because its cool but because they want to prepare them for that because the single family income isnt a reality anymore. Ideally you want 2 parents and one at home at all times with the kids but the same people wanting that are voting against the interests of keeping that a thing.
On the other hand if they don't have a good job....day care will cost more than wages lol...just to play devils advocate
I think there are plenty of women who would prefer to stay at home, but you all said it yourself. 50% of marriages end in divorce. She’s gonna need something to fall back on to support herself and kids. ITS THAT SIMPLE! Would you, as men, put all your eggs into someone else’s basket? A smart women always has a plan B!
I think women raising children at home is pretty cool but I also think career women to be important as well. I don’t know how people are surviving on one income in this society. At the end having kids is really fulfilling but staying home is not realistic for most people (except stay at home jobs)
His mother is a head physician still to this day that never stayed home.
I agreed with most of what he said I also understand the outrage though. My mom is a stay at home mom and homeschooled my brother and I and I wish that more women and men understood the value they bring in relationships but sadly not many realize it. In my opinion it is weird how in the United States we almost talk down about and undermine women’s education yet the countries he most likely were referring to with low child out of wedlock rates value education for both genders. So to make a speech like this to women who’s parents or they have just spent a lot of money is kind of unnecessary, insensitive and undermining. Plus in America all of these teachers and parents are saying the children can’t read nor do math and are more behind than ever. Well in many conservative cultures they value education and having an education is basic in their countries. They understand that the mother is going to be your child’s first teacher and whatever traits women have acquired to be successful in our lives and in pursuing our education will be passed down to our children because we all first pair bond with our mothers and pick up little tiny habits from them that make substantial impact in our lives. I also heard an elderly Japanese man say while being interviewed in Japan about the birth and marriage rates that he made sure to say get married to a woman who has an education because your children will be smart too. My parents also said this to me growing up about making sure I have my own credits and education. I’ve also heard this from Arabs, Koreans, Pakistanis, Indians, Chinese, Singaporeans but in America young men and some women are always talking about women being educated is part of the problem when in South Korea planes ✈️ are down so that their sons AND DAUGHTERS pass their exams so that they can get into one of the top universities. They also go through great lengths to help their young people when it comes to their education. Even in the Jewish community women are educated. So you can see how it feels daunting when we see all of these articles on how poorly school children are doing in the states but then we turn around and discourage women from getting a degree only to look to more traditional and conservative cultures and try to strive to emulate what they have going on without actually knowing what they have going on. That’s why in many countries there is no such thing as a gap year or men aren’t staying in college. I’m not at all saying it’s 100% women’s responsibility though I will say some cultures that we so conveniently bring up to prove our point’s understand that the mother is the first teacher so women need an education and life experiences too.
Thank you for saying a lot and not all women. Some women are not maternal and we got think of it as normal rather than calling them weird. Let people do what is best for them.
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To each their own. What ever makes you happy. People who complain, aren’t happy
If you're excited about becoming a married Pez dispenser, why did you need to attend college?
To learn?
And how much plumbing, carpentry, or wiring can you actually do, friend?
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This is like a Matt Rife move.
How many children would beg to have a loving mother in the home and love . Tell me they don’t. Give me a break. Children thrive on that .
The main reason why women would rather stay at home than work is because we are still tasked with all of the homemaking duties while holding down full-time employment. It is exhausting and most men are failing in their roles.
there was no need to touch on that subject in that situation. He was there to talk about their graduation and their futures in the workforce, not about his personal opinions on how women should carry out domestic duties. Expressing that opinion in this context is especially not suitable considering probably 99.9% of the women there are focused on developing a professional career, since they just invested a lot of time and money into getting a college degree. It's like telling a person who just drank a ton of pre-workout, to go and take a nap because he thinks it's healthier. It doesn't even matter if he's right or wrong, it was just distasteful to say that in that context.
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Idk why commencement ceremonies are becoming outlets for people to say whatever. You're brought there to add to the ceremony and give the graduates wisdom not spout off about whatever like you just won an Oscar.
He did give them life advice - perfect message at a Catholic university.
Random rich white dude addressing women, what could go wrong?
That random rich white dude addressed women AND men about what's important in life, especially as Catholics. Completely appropriate.
@@WhizzingFish12 Not everyone craves for children or marriage though. I know plenty of dudes who couldn’t care less about either and are perfectly happy.
He just need to shut up and throw balls at people. Tired of these out of touch rich millionaire athletes telling us how to live life
Lmao his jerseys are selling out.. cope harder
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Remember the time when moms were drinking and taking meds for relief from the boredom of being stuck at home? Women NEED self-actualization. And part of that = a life/goals beyond just children and home. We haven’t figured out how to do life/work the best way because we let business needs- not human needs - dictate our lives and the structure of our culture.
I think that was just a period of life where you were personally addicted to drugs tbh... but go off qween!
Instead of directing his speech the women to be wives... a wise man would've directed his speech to the young men to be husbands and step and financially provide for their women. Lots of young men see no value in marriage and say there is no benefit in them. If men are supposed to be head of household, why is he addressing the women? Speak leadership in those young boys so their wives can run a household and live a softlife.
It was a 20 minute speech dude of which you saw like 30 seconds
He does address men at length to do exactly that. Perhaps you should read/listen to the entire speech instead of assuming that the MSM wouldn't selectively edit to generate rage clicks.
I live in Canada and nothing he said would be considered at all controversal here among my friends ans family. Prayers for America
He was Talking to Catholics !!! Gimme a break .. Wait when Muslim Faith says something about women , lets see if the secular media responds the same ...
I think back 50 years and the issue was women being criticized for working instead of raising family. The main argument was choice, being able to choose what best works for you and your family.
50 years of 'women's rights' movements and now women have no choice but to work. This is progress?
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Butker was certainly very traditional in his delivery and catholic faith but part of the origin of his perspective is that a family used to be able to survive off of 1 income, then most families needed 2 incomes, and now many families need 2 incomes and debt to survive
Nobody has been brainwashed bro. It's simply that women want security, that comes with education and work experience. You said it yourself, divorce is the norm. I'm not saying there is a better solution, but nobody has been brainwashed. It's our culture collective culture born from whatever economy you call this
Weird. My wife stayed home for 5 years while I made under 60k and we were alright….
As a healthcare professional, I know many highly accomplished MDs who are tired of their work, and would love to stay home to raise their children, and they are not even Catholic. Stop with all this fate indignation and BS.
the guest somewhat dismissed the player in the beginning but after theo agreed with the player, the guest got the confidence to basically restate the players points. interesting how speaking your opinion changes the temperature and encourages/discourages others and can break the spell of mass media propaganda.
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3:43 minivans are way more useful and practical than minivans. Same with station wagons. But too many people are worried about perception, just like Matt is talking about here.
He’s saying, woman embrace being a “homemaker”. That word/definition has been very much demonized. Being a homemaker is the greatest responsibility of all and comes great honor when your day is complete. While women are trying to be the CEO of a company, I AM THE CEO, CFO, and founder of my company and it’s called, My Family. I run it all from top to bottom. I personally think feminist started to see how easy it was to work and realized how hard it was to be a wife, mother, housekeeper, chef, accountant, nurse, judge and jury ect so they took the easy way out and passed the responsibility off to child care and whom ever . This does NOT include single mothers or fathers, let me make that very clear (they’re the TRUE HEROS OF THEM ALL!) If men decided to well I don’t know, not go to work and not bring home an income woman freak the hell out. But it’s ok for women to not go to work “in their home” and raise “their” families and that’s okay. I don’t get it. The women with families that do not have a choice and have to work, ask them…I will bet majority would say I would love to stay home and care for my family instead of working outside of the home. This world is so upside down, it’s crazy
If everything was just in this country, then you can have the we disagree whatever mindset... But it's easy to say when the environment and constructs around you were built predominantly by one side.
Wow, they get it.
It has nothing to do with what people want; the sad fact is that most jobs these days dont pay enough to afford to raise children.
The problem is that his message is contextually inappropriate. For women who already know and are ready to become mothers and homemakers, yes this is a lovely reminder that your work is important. But he’s speaking to women who have actively decided to pursue higher education and careers, before prioritizing having children. Women fought hard to even have that option and to bring up the important of home making, the path women were boxed into for so long, IS demeaning at a college graduation. Catholic or not.
In a vacuum, yes having kids is definitely more meaningful than having some corporate title. But what is rarely understood (especially by dudes), is that the daily labor of SOCIALIZING kids is basically hell. It consists of being constantly ignored, tested, disrespected, and taken for granted. So, we all love family, but to actually bear and raise children is a pretty crap gig, and women are catching on...
What a sad take. Raising (inc socializing) children is one of life's greatest joys.
This was the take that any normal person should have
Theo von is 7 years older than Matt McCusker. Theo have some great genes
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Not every household can afford to have a stay at home mom. It’s a luxury
Why is it gendered though? Some men would also benefit from being a stay at home parent instead of in the workforce. But the reality is that you're speaking at a university on the day of graduation where people are excited about pursuing their future careers, and you single out women and tell them that being a mother is more important and meaningful than working. Both being a stay at home parent and being in the workforce have pros and cons. America needs to catch up to other countries in terms of maternity and paternity leave, as well as affordable childcare and paid leave in general like we see in a lot of European countries so that neither men or women have to choose either a career or children.
Well, Europe is circling the drain demographically and economically so perhaps we don't need to emulate them.
@@WhizzingFish12 Just because Europe has problems doesn't mean we should do the opposite of everything they do. There's also things they do right
@@TheReMorseCode It's not a binary choice. But the commenter above said we "need to catch up" with European nations in all their social welfare programs. These programs are completely unsustainable in the long run, which is why you are seeing more and more debt crises occur every few years. I would argue that the cradle-to-grave coddling also saps them of cultural vitality and strength. It's like staking a young tree - it is artificially supported and thus grows into a wimpy version of what it could be. Europe is like a staked tree where the stake is starting to crack.
Speech was polarizing, unprofessional, and inappropriate period. It should not have been said as a guest speaker to commencement and should be left on X.