5 Embarrassing Mistakes You Must Avoid When You Argue
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A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview.
Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument.
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0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns
3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions
7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it
11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning
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It's okay to lose an argument. You can always win the same argument five years later in the shower
I felt this in my soul
i'd love for you to explain to me what the argument was about, if you're so sure that he lost it.
Darren Fleming lmao his puny followers are so ready to to attack when everyone is so laid back, it’s actually quite sad 😂
@@user-lu4xp7iv8c how would you know i'm a ben shapiro follower, do you have magical psychic powers to read into my mind?
@@darrenfleming7901 Dude no, I'm not talking about Ben Shapiro. I'm talking about the famous meme. Have you ever heard shower thoughts on Tumblr or twitter? That's what I'm referring to. Some of us actually love having a conversation with ourselves in the shower. Sometimes we think about a good comeback for past arguments that we lost. 😂 lol
This interviewer didn’t care about Ben’s feelings.
LOL
Not his job to care, if Ben can't handle questions which was the purpose of the interview then it is on him
Kenneth Novak It was a joke. Shapiro always says “facts don’t care about your feelings.” It’s basically a cliche he’s turned into a tagline. I was just making fun of that. Maybe not the best joke but I tried.
"Facts don't care about your feelings"
"Unless they're my feelings" -Ben Shapiro
the irony
Ben’s ‘debate’ tactic. Talk fast. Make multiple points. Interrupt your opponent when they are debating one of your several points and introduce several more points. Repeat. Claim destruction
Classic Gish Gallop
that and only debating with college students.
Exactly, that drives me crazy. All he proves is that he can talk quickly, and doesn’t care what the other person has to say. When he constantly interrupts it shows a level of self-importance that is really obnoxious. When he does let the other person speak, he almost always sits there and smirks, which is pretty disrespectful and shows his disdain for the other person.
He never comes to a conversation with the intent to have a discussion, his goal is only to win and feel superior.
He’s an articulate guy, so I don’t know why he feels the need to speed talk like he does. Probably because he’d rather steamroll the conversation. If he slowed down a bit, and the other person was able to speak, he would have to defend his statements, many of which might be hard to defend
Very Trumpy.
True!
Ben was unprepared:
1. He had no idea that British journalism has a convention of asking direct, challenging questions of interviewees, with the intention of giving them an opportunity to confront a straightforward, obvious challenge to their point-of-view.
2. He had no idea who Neil is (Conservative Party, Sunday Times editor for 11 years, 20+ years, 20+ jobs in journalism, both print and broadcast, private and public. This also made him look ridiculous when he said Neil was left-wing.
3. He was unprepared emotionally and looked thin-skinned, defensively argumentative and fidgety. He needed to take a deep breath, calm down, and answer the questions. Answering questions simply and directly, deliberately ignoring ANY negative implications or quibbles you might have with the phrasing is always a good move, positioning you as the simple truth-teller, responding to a devious questioner.
Yeah but shouldn't it sort of been his job to at least Google search the guy who was going to interview him? Is he really that full of himself that he doesn't even prepare for his interview anymore ?
@@norika.pallaska5709 Exactly
He probably assumed that anyone asking a conservative tough questions had to be a liberal. Or asking a liberal had to be conservative.
Thats pretty much how it is in the US.
@yellowleaf I actually think the research was irrelevant. He took every question that really caused him to examine his viewpoint and explain his reasoning as a personal attack. He claimed the interviewer hadn't read his book even after the interviewer asked him several questions around whether Shapiro's own actions contradicted the theme of his book.
You also shouldn't need to research what an interview is. He kept wanting to debate the interviewer when the point was for Shapiro to promote his book and explain his philosophy. Not call the interviewer a leftist and (fail to) goad him into an argument.
I think he only knows/knew how to handle softball questions and debates; no in-betweens or alternatives. And it showed.
He could have studied for a thousand years , it still would not have helped him one bit against Neil.
And it was an interview not a debate , Ben turned it into a debate and he lost by his own hand.
Ben Shapiro DESTROYS BBC's Schedule by LEAVING interview early.
It should have been easy to challenge him then
You stole that comment boi
I usually dont laugh at these anymore but you made me do a spit take with that one
Alright that's funny 😂
Shapiro talks too fast. He needs to go slow if he's gonna take on that much BBC. No wonder he quit early
Ben Shapiro lost a debate to a guy not even trying to debate him.
He called Andrew Neil a leftist 😅😅
Most of the questions were about things he's said in the past, he basically lost and argument against him self
@@declanfoley7562 Well, Americans are weird. Leftists in America are rightists in Britain.
That’s how bad he is at arguing.
Then again shapiro is just an bad clown.
As a Brit with a good understanding of American culture, watching that interview live the first time round, I found the Ben Shapiro’s main problem as that he came into the interview thinking he was there to ‘debate’. British media don’t really do ‘debates’, we simply have interviews, and our interviewers are very good and challenging someone’s beliefs - regardless of the interviewer’s personal beliefs.
Ben simply didn’t know who he was talking to, or why. To say things like “People know me, they don’t know you.” to Andrew Neil on a British politics show, was quite laughable but equally sad.
I’ve seen quite a few Americans have a hard time with British culture when it comes to things like interviews, they think everything is outright aggression, when in all actuality we just want to pull out the deepest part of someone’s beliefs to properly understand their point of view.
Fish Boy there are, but they’re rare. Furthermore, the host would never come down on one political side or the other. If it was a debate, there would be two guests with opposing views and the host would take more of a adjudicative role in the debate.
I agree, it seemed clear to me that he was trying to understand who he was dealing with, and was a bit lost and on the defensive
@@reczy no offence but I don't buy it, we live in a world that debates all the time and your telling us "us British tend to avoid debates" just shows how ignorant you really are and also a bit hypocritical. I'm not denying that there are people out there who only interview
You just defined a *devil's advocate*
@@reczy We do but they are typically modelled appropriately as a platform for debate. Typically you would have two or more parties with a moderator who allows for fair representation in the debate. Andrew Neil is a journalist who's job is to ask people questions they might not necessarily be comfortable answering. I don't particularly like Andrew Neil but as least he is consistent in the sense he does this to just about anyone he interviews regardless of their political standpoint.
Basically, if you're respectful and genuine your point is much more likely to be well-received and legitimately considered. If you're disrespectful or condescending you've all but guaranteed that the other person will respond in kind, and all of a sudden you quickly have an very unproductive discussion.
Hulk Butter 👏🏻👏🏻
Very well said.
It doesn't seem like Ben Shapiro has every been interested in having a productive discussion. He's either there to be fellated by his like-minded conservative hosts, or to attempt to humiliate as much as possible, his 'liberal snowflake' opponent.
Andrew Neil has long been one of the stewards of the decline of conservatism in the United Kingdom. He pretends hes on the right, but he isnt. We call them rhinos here in the last free country. Wake up, quickly.
Just cause you are respectful doesn’t mean you are correct. Well like sure but that has nothing to do with facts or logic. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs were assholes. But it doesn’t mean they weren’t the best people for the job. Being nice and polite can help, but that should never be the determining factor on who wins a debate
"Speak only when you fully intend on finishing your sentence." I love this. Mindset shift activated!
Yeah, these videos always have real nuggets of knowledge and wisdom in them. Will have to remember that advice and test it out.
It's kind of hard to do that when you have a bullying jackass who is Hell bent on dominating the conversation. I watched the whole video, and that BBC reporter was trying to corner Ben the whole time. Ben was right: the interviewer did not conduct himself in good faith. Charisma on command did not portray the challenging situation that Ben was in, and frankly I think Ben held out longer than I would have. VERY disappointed in CoC.
@@enshala6401 The problem with Ben Shapiro is that he's a grifter, not an intellectual.
@@enshala6401 So basically, he was winning the argument and that makes him a jackass?
@@megashark1013 no, he was acting like a troll, which makes him a jackass. Did you watch the interview?
He lost as soon as he started insulting him, when you resort to insults in an argument it makes you look ignorant and flawed
Mikatoon plus he was supposed to be there for an interview and said things like “why should i care” “ive never heard of you” childish things to say in any argument let alone an interview
Well said.
It wasn't even an argument. It was an interview in which Shapiro, the *interviewee,* decided to turn into a debate, and which Neil clearly was not having any of.
And that's what Shapiro is usually debating to, sad to see he couldn't keep his cool when he met someone on the same (or higher) level
Then I guess the Left loses every debate they ever go into. They start throwing insults right from the start.
The biggest embarrassment for Ben in his argue with Andrew was that Andrew wasn't even arguing with him, and he still lost.
You can't lose an interview.
@@clayhunter2572 Ben Shapiro seems to be an exception to that rule then
@@nctsgrass I don't know about that - I mean, have you seen Jonathan Swan's utter dismantling of Das Orange Anus, Das Gropenfuhrer Donald Jackass Drumpf?
Just saying!
@@clayhunter2572 did you watch the interview?
@@clayhunter2572 after experiencing 2020, 2021 and this part of 2022...anything is possible.
I like how he shows Emilia Clarke when he is trying to explain smiling😆♥️
I want to become one with Emilia Clarke
@@behindthen0thing Don't we all?
@@behindthen0thing we can make a religion out of this
@@benjaminramsey498
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@@friedlemons5201 THE SUN IS A DEADLY LASER
I think some of Ben's problems stem from the fact that he's a lawyer. His goal generally isn't to reach common ground, it's to win.
Also from the fact that he's so used to debating people that it's his go-to mode of conversation when on camera.
What's the point of common ground when the other person is wrong?
@@bitticlan I think that better explains it
@@wyattlong8321 because the other person can't be "wrong" when they are asking questions. He wanted to promote his book which would have gone much better if he answered the questions in a convincing way.
Wyatt Long we often think of things as right & wrong, black & white, but there are looooots of everyday situations where there’s plenty of gray area
"I'm not smirking" he smirked.
I laughed to hard at this
I think a lot more people are guilty of this than actually admit it. I've been accused of being smug in arguments because I'll debunk half of the other person's logic and smirk as they raise their voice and get pissy. I'll play it off and watch the other person begin the final meltdown, then swoop in for my victory.
@@richarddavie6396 receipts please or a load of bs
@@adlibconstitution1609 receipts? Of arguments I had in person? If I tried to record those arguments, the other person would have either slapped the phone out of my hand or just stormed off.
@@richarddavie6396 he's saying you sound like a smug boastful bastard right now.
Emilia Clarke’s smiles are just so lovable.
But does he know another person that does?
Big pp facts
was just gonna comment this lol
Unfair! Half your likes are sponsored by Théoden.
@@Quinceps You better be careful or Theoden may try to find you.
Niel: *laughs* “Mr Shapiro, if you only knew how ridiculous that statement is, you wouldn’t have said it.”
Listen, that comment punched Shapiro in the gut and ran away with his lunch money.
Bro that was the weakest thing said the whole time. Ben had a valid point and he just ducked the question by saying that.
@@lethanielsimpson641 Neil was right though
@@tiagobrandao6588 On what point was he right
@@lethanielsimpson641 Neil plays the role of the opposition is his interviews. That fact is stated in this video. So yes, it's ridiculous for Shapiro to say Neil has a leftist bias
@@lethanielsimpson641 that he himself (neil) isn't a lefty. he's a conservative party member.
Ben Shapiro: “Smirks”
Piers Morgan: You can smirk at me and laugh at me.
Ben Shapiro: I’m not smirking
Also Ben Shapiro: continues to smirk.
Piers Morgan is an utterly useless political interviewer - seriously, all most Britons know him for is for co-hosting Britain's Got Talent.
Andrew Neil, on the other hand, is a serious, heavyweight, Conservative journalist - pop "Andrew Neil Alex Jones" into the UA-cam search bar and get ready to ROTFPYAO...
@@richardsmart5532 Actually while he acts like a prick, Morgan is a very, very good interviewer.
He smiles like that one kid in the class, that makes teacher lose faith in his profession a little bit - that mean little smile they have then they did or gonna do something dishonest and mean, and know that you can't do anything about it. Breaks my heart a little bit. Who hurt him and how he never grew out of it? The amount of often misplaced defensiveness in him adds to worry. Sorry for my English
Then he says he's not smirking he seems even more like a child. Ugh that's sad (and kinda strange)
@@potmki6601 Your English is very good - from an Englishman!
The problem with this was.....
BBC was doing an INTERVIEW.
Ben was doing a DEBATE.
He couldn't defend his ideas on abortion, this is shown in other examples, when abortion is brought up he tends to attack the person or company conducting the interview.
@@dexterjettster8875 he slso tends to bring religion in it. But different religions have different opinions of when life officially begins in the womb. Thats the problem.
@@GabrielUngacta yes, he follows his religion strictly, and I don't think that's good for people, I don't think its good for humanity.
This is how most of his "interviews" go because he is right and everyone else is always wrong.
Interviewer: Mr. Shapiro, what color is the sky?
Ben: that's wrong and ridiculous leftist dribble.
Dexter Jettster Also it invalidates his „facts don’t care about your feelings“ point, when religion demands you put feelings and obedience over facts and science
He relies on his fast, aggressive speech to appear to be in a superior position. When challenged by someone prepared, not even in an arranged debate, he loses his apparent cool.
Emila Clark is a graduate of William Shatner's school for kids who look good but act wood.
@Jenny G accurate, and it terrifies me the cult following he has amassed.
@Jenny G He needs a dark cell or a lobotomy. Let's have no half measures for this one.
@@DR-hy6is ben shapiro is smarter than you lefties
@@jamescunningham1844 That's why he tried to make an interview into a debate, right? That's why he went on this show without knowing anything about the interviewer or their political leanings, right? That's why he humiliated himself and anyone who thinks of him as an intellectual in such a stunning, damning manner, right? He is just that smart. LOL.
I don't know how it's possible to lose an interview, but boy, Ben sure accomplished it.
Well, now we have Das Orange Anus utter slow-motion car-crash with Jonathan Swan as well.
Just saying!
Can you analyse Gordon Ramsay? He has a really intimidating character but charming at the same time. Could you please explain how he does that?
Syndrox yessss i love Gordon Ramsay!
I'd also love this
I personally believe that it has to do with his competence and confidence in his cooking. He is really intimidating because he conveys that he knows what he's talking about and the he's good at it. You feel inferior to his force of will. He also doesn't get upset unless you've done something wrong *which you should have known* (as in Hell's Kitchen). His confidence in his abilities also prevents him from feeling threatened by the abilities of other people, so his compliments are always genuine. It's very charming to have a competent person admire or appreciate what *you* have done.
His charming side is most often seen with children, because it's easier to genuinly appreciate a young chef's half-done dish than a trained professional's half-done dish.
Honest but has good manners
Yeah someone above me said it. He's incredibally assertive due to his celebrity status, has a decent way of treating people on the baseline, and if you show him attitude, he'll give it back to you. 100% worse.
Ben Shapiro must be so used to arguments by now that he couldn't understand the concept of an interview...
So that asks the question... How was he destroyed in an interview. I like him, but this embarrassing.
@@bubbybumble616 You're absolutely correct about Andrew Neil - he IS extremely right-wing for a British journalist, but he treats everybody in exactly the same way...
@@bubbybumble616 Either that, or "he" had a moment of revelation that being a, y'know, Jewish Nazi is NEVER going to be a good look...
I'm so sorry but what does right wing mean
@@christopherjobin-official7440 He wasn't even destroyed here. The problem is that Neil started taking the "interview" out of context. He started using tweets from the past, which is what the left does. Oddly enough, ret**ds think that the Neil is from the right, he is actually a democrat by US terms, but considered right leaning in Britain.
When Ben said " I am popular and you are not" I was like wow
His inner Regina George was coming out."you can't sit with us"
I think Ben is a master when it comes to debating.....with college students.
Lmaooo
He literally has won every debate besides this one against "adults"
masterdebater
And Cenk at Politicon.
In an auditorium... With speakers.... And the only person who has a microphone is him
I think Ben's error was starting the conversation with the mindset of being under attack, which is what he's mostly used to, but said mindset does not work when your interlocutor keeps his cool.
He didn’t though. He started off neutral as he didn’t know this interviewer. As the questions came in it’s very obvious where this man or more accurately his researchers slant was towards Ben. Ben gave him a few chances to redeem himself but Neil never backed down. People think he lost because he ended the interview but I think he did the right thing. At some point there’s no point arguing with someone who’s too rigid in their views to be open to a conversation.
Which is what happened. This is the bbc after all.
@stephen stewart Andrew Neil is british right wing, otherwise known as American left wing.
@@sharinglungs3226 Spot on
stephen stewart But rather then properly playing devils advocate he was specifically nitpicking statements that especially come off offensive and then ignoring bens replies or waving them off as excuses and moving on to the next attack. The interviewer was extremely rude with his questions and had no drive to clarify his position instead choosing to continue essentially attacking.
I'm very surprised you didn't bring up the final words of the interview. That was the true icing on the cake. It made the viewer realize that Ben Shapiro completely went against his original stances.
The sarcastic "Thank you for showing that anger isn't a part of American political discourse."
Kirsty Forshaw not op but it’s a jibe at the fact Ben was getting angry and was a joke at expense
Kirsty Forshaw yes it’s sarcasm I think that bens idea is that we shouldn’t let emotions and anger get into politics Andrew was making a sarcastic remark at his expense
It’s British humour sometimes it can be difficult haha
Kirsty Forshaw he was probably too pissed to care haha
Kirsty Forshaw he normally debates people with poor or non existent debating skills unfortunately Andrew wasn’t trying to debate him but also didt fall into bens normal traps...made me lol when Ben resorted to play ground insults buy saying he had never heard of him and that he’s really famous
I think all the stupidity and unfairness that he's experienced over time while debating mainstream media had pushed him so much that he just became rude on this one.
When your own tweets are so gross that when they're read back to you, they offend you to the point of throwing a tantrum and leaving
Literally! Lets not forget that Shapiro has said that he is fully okay with civilian deaths in war as long it progresses his respective parties' agenda
The tweets aren't what he was mad about but go off hater.
@@clayhunter2572 Otvali, arsehole - blagodaryu vas, KKKretin...
Using Emilia Clarke has an example of genuine happiness and kindness brings me joy. She's always so happy looking
Ben's mistake is simple. He got pissed.
Talking to some people is like watching paint dry..
@Fried Rice No, check out his interview with Piers Morgan. Last time I checked, Piers is older than 20, and Ben easily won.
@@jzgamer3284 Also, Piers Morgan is an utterly useless "political" interviewer - seriously, all he's known for in Great Britain is co-hosting Britains' Got Talent.
JustTheBeginning Shapiro always comes off as pissed. He is like the little yappy dog that won’t shut up because someone is walking down the sidewalk a block and a half away. He just cannot help himself.
Ben's mistake was simple. He couldn't defend what he said in the past, because he STILL believes it. He's never apologized for what he's said. He's apologized because he didn't get the response he thought he would.
You missed the most important part: Don't pretent the interview is a debate
Thaaaaank you. That was not just a interview and compere it is definitely not fair
even when it clearly is a debate?
@@darrenfleming7901 it clearly wasn't. Andrew Neil never took the silly bait of turning the interview into one.
@@darrenfleming7901 Andrew Neil takes an opposite stance of whomever he interviews. He does this because he wants to have the person articulate their points, and show how they deal with pressure.
@@napalmblaziken And how did wittle Shitpiro "deal with pressure"? He BRAVELY TURNED HIS TAIL AND FLED, to quote Monty Python...
You can break it down any way you like, the simple fact is that Shapiro went into an interview thinking he was the superior intellect. He didn't do his homework, he had absolutely no idea who was interviewing him, he basically went in with the American attitude and got schooled. Andrew has been a conservative since before Ben was born, and Andrew has been a quality journalist since before Ben was a glint in the milkmans eye.
Ben shapiro was badly humiliated and looked like a man child in this interview when he said to the interviewer "im more popular than you"
It was already bad enough when he called the most conservative journalist in the U.K a leftist. And yet it got worse...
@@mattclayer6541 he was mistaken because he didnt know who he was and he took the position of a leftist. but he did use that as an insult too lol.
How was he humiliated? That's just your opinion lol. Doesn't look like he was humiliated at all
@@i.o4766of course you can't see it mate cuz it flew right above you head
@Spence how was he? i don't see how he was. there should be nothing he should be ashamed for.
It feels like you have a bit too much Emilia Clarke footage on hand...lol
Hahaha
I think it's because they did an analysis a few weeks back on how to be charming using her as an example, so they would already have a lot of footage of her saved ... But I agree, without that context it makes it look like Charlie has a massive crush (who could blame him?)
Using this footage for research purposes
No such thing
Can’t blame him, really.
Andrew Neil wasn’t even trying to have a debate or an argument. He was doing his job, asking tough questions, and Ben Shapiro just unraveled himself.
Cathy Newman had an agenda, and sequences of question used to antagonize Jordan Peterson. The same thing happened in this BBC 'interview' but the difference is, Shapiro took the bait and didn't handle it well.
Regarding your comment, officially it was an interview, but read the questions man
Eoin Smith He would have done the same thing if he had a left wing guest on. That’s what he does.
@@eoinsmith1996 Have you ever even seen an Andrew Neil interview besides this one?
Bruh all of his questions sounded like he just went on twitter and looked through each and every controversial Ben Shapiro tweet that looks bad out of context and in this interview he decided to use them to try and beat Ben since he couldn't win a regular debate.
Geechy Guy It. Wasn’t. A. Debate
The Prime Minister wont even do an interview with andrew neil. He's a beast. Ben shapiro didnt stand a chance. Man and boy.
He’s good at digging up dirt on people
Tbh our PM avoids any investigation
Ben absolutely loves to use the emotional part. Everytime he is speaking to some young students or sjws he tries to offend them until they get emotional and he can show them off as crazy
That's why people should never lower to that level.
its because by saying something completely rational and correct is enough to trigger these snowflakes
@@BerrysTC Nah, by invalidating their personal experiences (which would normally matter to determine the matter he’s “debating”), brush important points aside, grasp at strawmans, and twist the meanings of their words.
@@nullvoid6095 Also, come up with statistics you just make up on the spot.
Ben Shapiro did lose this debate... he went from being an adult to a man-child lol "I'm more popular than you!" what are you, Ben? An insecure teenager?
Yes
Yes, yes he is
I made that same argument once when I got mad in grade 2. Lmaoo.
He’s insecure but his wife is a doctor! Remember his wife is a doctor guys
Evan R maybe his rich family force some arrange marriage. Poor the woman.
Ben Shapiro came up against a grown-up, professional interviewer and couldn't deal with it. He even resorted to "I'm more popular than you" as an avenue to try and "win". Sad.
I suppose if Taylor Swift is more popular than Ben then she wins ?
@@lewisner ”why cant you just admit you're on the left?” LMAOOO WEAK.
Susan Webb yes, it was. and ben shapiro is a lot more childish so get over it 🙂
It just shows how weak ben really is
He doesn't even let ben shapiro speak, and can't even answer his questions.
So stop being Ben Shapiro - got it. Now if only we can get Ben Shapiro to follow that advice.
Andrew Neil has long been one of the stewards of the decline of conservatism in the United Kingdom. He pretends hes on the right, but he isnt. We call them rhinos here in the last free country. Wake up, quickly.
@StoicNote I've noticed that Skinnie replies to almost every thread that trashes Ben, they're obviously emotionally provoked fans of his.
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4:04 he actually lied. He has and had DESTROY titles in his own channel
I think he tried to say that he doesn't name his videos
Andrew Neil has long been one of the stewards of the decline of conservatism in the United Kingdom. He pretends hes on the right, but he isnt. We call them rhinos here in the last free country. Wake up, quickly.
@@skinniemcfats5292 last free country?? keep dreaming chump
@@skinniemcfats5292 he literally is on the right, he holds right wing views and is a member of the Conservative party.
Ngl the only thing Ben did wrong was get angry and insult him. If he’d have kept his cool his points were actually kind of true
1:02 - "...And I asked you a question, you failed to answer a single one of mine.", says the *interviewee* . Does he even know how an interview works?
Sooo he cant ask questions?
Not on the BBC, no. The interviewer in this case Andrew Neil isn't allowed by law to give his personal opinion, it's a state run corporation and has to stay impartial. When interviewing someone giving one view, in this case pro life, he has to counter argue, whether that's actually his personal belief or not.
@@jzxx57 Do you not know how interviews work?
@Mobile Gamer so you don't know how interviews work, huh?
@@pppoopoo4880 Oh ok mr knowalot tell me how interviews work then.
Actually Ben is using multiple bullying silencing techniques that usually inflame.
Andrew Neil is merely reflecting the energy back, so Ben ends up ruling himself
Its true. Ben Shapiro is the greatest cheap tactic debater, and I honestly mean that, he is good because he mastered that art. It is funny to see him start a debate against someone that can not be moved by cheap tactics, he looks like the greatest fool.
@@jud6ment "Cheap tricks" yeah he's using some real cheap tricks, going to Harvard Law school and using those pesky cheap tricks.
@@newkboots yup, he does them very well.
@@jud6ment Please tell me some of these "cheap tricks"
@@newkboots well did you watch the interview? He tried and he got laughed at because the interviewer wont take the bait. Do you honestly need to have it spelled out for you? I honestly dont care about some random stranger online to educate them. Not worth my time to debate with Shapiro fan boys
He tried to start an argument in a interview
Ben Shapiro: I'm like a smart guy in the US
TV Host: we eat people like you for breakfast here in the UK
Exactly
Hahahhaha... no.
US meets Europe lol
Andrew Neil has long been one of the stewards of the decline of conservatism in the United Kingdom. He pretends hes on the right, but he isnt. We call them rhinos here in the last free country. Wake up, quickly.
@@skinniemcfats5292 England is a country built on the blood of other countries so please shut your trap regarding it being the last free country
Personally I think Bens main mistake was going into the interview as if it were a debate, its not. It’s a very simple standard interview where one person ask questions and the other answers. Not the other way around. It’s not important for us as viewers to know what the interviewers personal believes are. It is his job to ask questions, and Shapiros job to answer or decline to answer.
I slightly disagree. The interview was supposed to be about his book, and the interviewer barely even mentioned his book. I think his mistake was the childish insults at the end.
British journalists are kind of notorious for being confrontational smartasses, whereas American journos. are more passive-aggressive and condescending. Ben is so used to being labelled as "controversial" and a "firebrand" that he goes everywhere expecting a fight, and the interviewer's style probably set off all kinds of anxieties that he's allowed to build up over the years. Touring colleges where most of the audience hates his guts has made him edgy and shellshocked, I think. He needs to stop assuming the worst about the people he's talking to until they go out of their way to prove their good intentions, or he's going to find himself with no one to talk to BUT himself, like Glenn Beck.
@@DavidGarcia-us4ov Totally agree with you. I think that there are more ways to do a promo interview (book in this case). When you have written a book about your personal believes, i think its important for us a viewers and potential buyers, to know who this person is and allow Shapiro to talk about his beliefs and former statements. Shapiro could have allowed this, but instead went for a more attack like approach, and is more of a hindrance to himself then anything.
@@CountArtha Absolutely agree, there is nothing wrong with having a belief set, and you shouldn't feel a need to defend them. In this case, Shapiro could have taken the approach of being proud of his beliefs and make that the main selling point. Instead he tries to defend them, as if there is something wrong with them, and ultimately comes of as arrogant and hostile.
David Garcia unlike in america, british interviewers like to challenge the interviewee. ben had many chances to promote his book instead of getting mad at his interviewer. he should know what he's getting into.
*ben Shapiro loses debate
Me: wait wasn’t that an interview
@John Banks You don't come on an interview to be called out or criticized, you do so to be interviewed
THANK YOU. I was like “only Ben Shapiro can actually ‘lose’ an interview.”
It turned into a debate because Ben Shapiro decided to question the interviewer.
it was not an interview, the interviewer was quoting 5year old tweets of ben shapiro and acting like those were his views, the funny thing is that ben tells him and the audience that he had realised that these were wrong and even made a whole website in wich he lists them as wrong but ofc everybody ignores that
@@adellexmiles3155 it turned into a debate because the interviwer accused Ben about making offensive statements several years ago
I’ve seen people lose debates but I’ve never seen someone lose an interview
I have watched some of Ben Shapiro's debates to see how he DESTROYS the other person, but he talks so fast and others try to talk over him and vice versa I end up not understanding anything.
Exactly. He just uses cheap tricks and avoids skilled debaters.
😂🤣😭 Me.
exactly. Thats what it means to be DESTROYED these days. To speak over your opposition at every opportunity
thats what happens when a lizard debates with a college student
Duh Im a dope, therefore Ben must be wrong because i dont understand and he talks to fast for my pea brain. Slow down playback if your struggling with limited intelligence.
Using Emilia Clarke as your example of a good smile. I approve. Her smile can heal an entire nation. That, or burn it to the ground; I'm not quite sure
Why not both
Doesn't hurt that she's super pretty.
Too soon
Emilia is bae and you can't say otherwise
Shez muh kween.
"When the debate is lost, Slander becomes the tool of the loser"-Socrates.
America Then let’s not ignore the fact that the interviewer started with “some of your views seem to take us back to the Dark Ages”
Yes, losing a debate pushes you towards it, but a conversation can fall into circles and insults at nearly any time.
Sow-Crates!
Andrew Smith ok and my point was that he started the slander, not that he was discussing his own views.
I think losing an argument (eg failing to convince the opposite of your position) is still a way better and more honourable outcome than giving up and walking out. It’s alright to not always be completely correct or in control, but at least you’re standing with your position and taking the conversation seriously.
Yes, but surely you cannot mean that Ben should've continued when he wasn't being listened to. Wasting time with someone who is a seasoned interviewer is still wasting time.
@@jaylintz1683 Jog-on, arsehole - your shero bravely RAN AWAY, to quote Monty Python.
Now, why not go cry me a river over your shero getting her ARSE HANDED TO HER, LIVE, on the WORLD'S BIGGEST NEWS CHANNEL by the MOST RIGHTWING JOURNALIST WORKING IN THE MAINSTREAM BRITISH MEDIA TODAY?
Blagodaryu vas, KKKretin...
Imagine losing an interview, not even a debate, AN INTERVIEW 😂🤣😂🤣
The main problem is that Ben found a disagreement where there wasn't any and so he ended up debating himself. And as always he has won the argument, against himself. The guy on BBC just had to sit and not say anything.
@Burning City You fell into the exact same trap Ben did, the reason people laugh him out of the water is because Andrew is a very farcry from a leftist. That's like Trump calling Fox leftist.
What do you mean the guy on BBC just had to sit back and say nothing.
He called Andrew Neil a liberal. Ben came in unprepared and was very defensive. This wasn't a college student he could talk circles around, this was a life-long conservative.
Well the interviewer didn't know him either and he's the one who onvited him. So he should have at least watched a few videos of Ben. And also Ben can not know the interviewer because those informations are not given when your interviewed. Plus the person is only famous in UK soooooooooooooooooo
@@hjl4204 Producers for these shows have to brief presenters and guests, so they likely did know a bit about each other beforehand, although you should do your own research as well. It's possible they either didn't listen to producers or ignored briefs they gave them beforehand
@@TwelvetreeZ that makes sense(or is it sence?)
@Burning City
He was playing Devil's Advocate the whole time. He's a pro-lifer. His goal was to get Ben Shapiro to show his European audience what American conservatism was and how it differed from conservatism in Europe. Ben was letting his emotions get the best of him. That's all there is to it.
@Burning City Bro that's kind of cringe
I’ve seen this a few times.
Neil was studied and well read, calm and collected. Shapiro’s unpreparedness and painful lack of situational awareness was cringeworthy, his haughty annoyed manner comical.
Not so much a trap to avoid, just do the homework, so you don’t make a complete fool of yourself on national tv.
This is how smart Shapiro is, he didn't know the difference between a debate or an interview, he should go back to debating college kids. As they say if you can't run with the hounds go off and piss like a puppy.
the moment you get overly defensive, you lose.
@U mad Bro How do you know he has low IQ?
U mad Bro U mad bro?
BUT I HAVE INSECURITY ISSUES
@U mad Bro Save your sympathy for Daft Wee Benjamin Aaron Shitpiro - he needs it most.
*_"I'm popular and you're not!"_*
-Preppy girls in teen films and Ben Shapiro
"I'm popular and you're not, therefore my point is more valid than yours."
Arrogance at its finest, folks.
Preppy girls in high school as well, lol
Gosh it's just like middle school😂
@@electr_icity4613 when did he say that in the interview?
Matthew Hall
he says it here in the video 9:16
y i k e s
You win arguments by making good points with sincere emotions.
You can tell someone finally discovered how to beat Ben in an argument. That interview was well planned and was executed flawlessly. And when you think about it, it was quite simple, however in order to properly execute this; a one on one setting was a must.
He didn't "beat him in an argument", there was no argument, it was an interview.
Good observation about the Ben Shapiro smirk. It’s very off-putting.
Andrew Miller That was when I started to dislike Ben and haven’t been listening as much to him anymore as I did.
There are several reasons he reminds a lot of people of the smug know-it-all kid who got shoved into a locker every day for correcting his classmates' grammar or bragging that his family went on holiday to the French Riviera. I've maybe only seen him give a sincere smile once, ever, very fleetingly. Otherwise, I've only noticed him smirking or scowling.
he does it to be extremely provocative, that's his whole thing. He even says in his interview he encourages harsh and dry speech in political debates
@@dinosaysrawr Hey you'd almost think political debates aren't the place for people to be light hearted and playful. You've never sen him in any real life situation so it's bold of you to assume how he acts based on his professional work.
I'm the 666th like 😱😂
When he called Andrew Neil left wing I felt the entire UK collectively laugh
well they dont have guns in the UK I dont think any of you qualify as conservative. most of the world is to the left.
@@wadeobryan4175 Yeah. 'cause it's not like Andrew Neil once posited that, as HIV isn't really a problem for heterosexuals, it isn't really a problem at all, is it?
@@richardsmart5532 Yeah I feel Americans think the ease of access to guns defines a country's political viewpoint, and nothing else matters
@@scottbuchanan8300 the American conservatives are always far right.
@@octopuss1918 Yeah, definitely the ones who are on the news etc., but I'd hope there were some members of the public who aren't for their country's sake
Ben "don't you dare question anything I believe" Shapiro
And SJWS on the left are any different?
@@Valencetheshireman927 So Ben Shapiro is a SJW on the right?
@@gunchar06 no , Ben isn’t one of the people protesting and constantly whining about “social justice “
@@Valencetheshireman927 So he is as bad as a SJW, but without the theoretically good intentions?
@@gunchar06 He has good intentions of anything more than the SJW. The ones who look at an issue like racism and decide the best way to deal with it is riot and tear down statues
How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Ben Shapiro, dont be Ben Shapiro, thank you for listening to my Ted Talk
This is why he always debates college students with no media training.
I think he also debated on Live TV and destroys people in arguement. Like the one with Zoey tur
He's debated numerous people who have been trained to debate. Issue is, he couldnt win this because there was nothing to win, it was an interview, not a debate. Hence, because he came in looking for a progressive debate, nothing moved forward, annoying him.
@@splash8594 he lost whatever it was
@@mr.stealyogirl4078 you can't lose if it's not a competition. Though he was in the wrong, I admit, because he came for a debate when there want one
@@splash8594 debate,argument whatever you wanna call it he lost
I love how all the genuine smiles are Emilia Clarke’s HAHAHA
Whenever I see Emilia Clarke smiling, I feel good.
It's a shame she can't inject any of that authenticity into her acting
Her eyes turn into little moons....amazing
She is the smile icon 💜
True... I adore her....
It takes a lot of skill to lose an interview, which is way different than debate! Good job, Ben!
His genuine smile is a painful smirk😬
I watched this when it was originally on, another major mistake Shapiro made was to forget it was a UK audience & compared Neil he was the lesser known and so his comment was doubly embarrassing.
Ben Shapiro DESTROYS himself with CONJECTURE and ASSUMPTIONS
Ben Shapiro COMMITTS SUICIDE
Jakan1404 oh no
Ben Shapiro TRIPS and breaks his NOSE rendering him UNSUITABLE for Television
@@NationalistsRuinAmerica hr destroyed himself being a Pro Zionist
This was one of the rare occasions when Ben really was destroyed at every level. Andrew Neil's calm and maturity helped Ben make himself look like a petulant baby. Ben is usually debating in a huge echo chamber and very rarely meets serious opposition. I am sure he would like to.
Ben talks fast because he uses the gish gallop: try to spout as many arguments as possible without regard for accuracy or relevancy in order to score a win by saturating the ability of your target to respond. *There certainly is something wrong with this: it's is a dishonest, bad faith tactic* .
Not really. You re criticizing a methodology based on the intention that YOU THINK he tries to adopt. For the most part, yes he does speak fast... But if you slow down you ll still see what he says is in fact relevant. Its definetely a better practice to slow down but that does not mean you re trying to be intellectually dishonest if you speak fast. The same way you cant claim people who are talk with one tone are trying to bore you down so that you become less receptive.
The gish gallop. Never heard that one. I think that would be very hard to learn. Is it like speed reading?
@@uwotmatte7577 Have to disagree with you regarding Ben Shapiro being relevant or honest. He does whatever he can to 'win' an argument. His religion informs most of his opinions, so he will never change them, regardless of any argument or evidence to the contrary.
@Richard Pierpoint OK, his religion and his religion-level right wing ideology.
Haha suckers! I dont even get into arguments because i dOnT EvEr tAlk tO PeOplE
This man is a genius
*modern problems require modern solutions*
"sUCkERs?!"
Is that an insult?? Is that an argumentive TOnE I sENse???
lol, jk.
BigA2K 😉💯
BigA2K
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Back to basic good human values.
1) Joke it off, take things easy.
2) Don't judge others.
3) Don't keep grudges.
4) Speak for others to understand, not dominate others.
And Ben fails at all of this literally all the time.
Nah I speak to dominate ... Only the weak speak to understand
Speaking with jokes weaken your point and makes you like you're covering something you don't know or that you get straight to jokes to cover the fact that you're starting to not making sense
But I agree with the other once except that when sometimes you have the right evidence to show that the person who's arguing with you is in fact not what he described him self and that he trying to investigate and take information from you , you need to expose this person and confront him like Ben did with that interviewer from the UK because in America people like that person is probably in the left and the way he investigate Ben's tweets and UA-cam videos when the interview is infact on the new book of Shapiro "The right side of history" showed that he wanted to show that Ben was wrong and that he's a reactionary conservative
What's a good human being?
@@Alisguitar stfu virgin. You probably stutter ordering food
@@TrollThings247 Sounds like you are projecting.
The worst thing is that arguing with Ben is the same as arguing with an angry kindergarten kid. You just can't win.
Yes, right winger are moron who think they are smart.
How funny I saw the BBC interview just today and when I went to look for commentary videos I found this one. Completely forgot I saw this a year ago.
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This is why he mostly does college campus talks.
To brainwash college students their college debt is good for them.
american youth, bunch of morons.
Except for his interviews every Sunday.
Except for bill maher, cenk uygur, Joe Rogan, Sam Harris, piers morgan, don lemon. He does mostly college campus because his target audience is millennials
the average millenial is 30
That's why he doesn't want debate with actual intellectuals who have better experience than him. If he does an actual debate with a famous intellectual, he'll get destroyed with facts and logic.
I'm digging your channel and very happy I found it! Where were u when I was in high school!? Lol
It wasn't even an argument, it was a simple interview
I appreciate the segment about genuine smiles had all examples of Emilia Clarke. 😍
Emiliaaaaa
@@emperorbartu2414 right?! 😁
I only somewhat regret I didn't get into G.o.T. at the beginning of the series 10 years ago.
@@ilichiregius2884 damn right
@@ilichiregius2884 It's never too late to start
BBC- "you have strong opinions on abortion that some people think are wrong"
Ben- "is that like a personal attack or something?"
Good one, I smirked
Tyler Reed I think he said his positions were barbaric. That IS an attack.
@@joeydoherty368 Um, no, Andrew never said "barbaric" - wittle Benjamina Aaron Shitpiro used the word "barbaric" . Seriously, watch the video again if you don't believe me...
@Cheap Skate Also, I live in Edinburgh, Scotland and I'm MORE THAN HAPPY TO PAY MY TV LICENCE (WHICH COSTS £154.50 PER YEAR IF YOU HAVE A COLOUR TELEVISION, OR £52 A YEAR, IF YOU HAPPEN TO BE LIVING IN THE 1970'S AND HAVE A BLACK-AND-WHITE SET.)
I'm particularly happy to pay FORTY-TWO PENCE A DAY for it when the BBC produce brilliant content like this.
Also, if you can't receive BBC programmes, you don't have to pay anything.
Also, ever considered, say, posting in English, rather than gibberish?
Great advice. This was really helpful.
"lighthearted way" and "a genuine smile" are the things that are entirely alien to Ben.
*inserts compilation of Emilia Clarke being adorable*
He tried to pull that sneaky one XD
Dude got a hardore crush on this girl, he features her in every video
Well... She is really cute lol
Really can't blame him
@@ida305 who doesn't, she's the embodiment of happiness.
I can't believe Ben thought the facts cared about his feelings
🤣👍
It's the only time I've seen him lose though. But it's good to be humbled from time to time.
jry611 only time? Oh boy....
@@jry611 lol that must have been the only interview/debate you watched of his.
@@jr5296 who did he lose to? Maybe I just didnt see it. But safe to say he wins most.
I think this is a great analysis and definitely seems like good advice, nice job.
i just want to say, the lady's laughing was so calm and relaxing but his face during the debate seems like he was having a fight in his mind. i think i can relate to this, sometimes we just feel like we need to fight this society to change this. through the time i have learned that fighting and yelling might give u an easy win but soon people will start to notice your faults and won't even consider your point. being clam makes people listen to u more.
Love how you're showing Emilia as a good example of a smile, she has the most beautiful and charming smile!
simp
Kylirr incel
@@albertbarese4170 don't care virgin
@@Kylirr Wow, that's VERY grown-up, isn't it? How old are you - sixteen?
British journalism isn't America's cup of tea.
I don’t think British anything is the world tea. Movies. Tv. Music. Video games.
New Ant I wouldn’t say so. The Inbetweeners is quite popular outside of the UK and British music has always been popular although not everyone likes it e.g. The Beatles, One Direction.
I'm British and I find British interviewers very irritating and dishonest. Their sole goal seems to be to constantly attack and belittle the interviewee rather than actually give them a platform to discuss their views in an honest way.
New Ant Yeah, nobody liked the Beatles or James Bond...
@@Anon-nv7bp the point of journalism isn't to give someone a platform. If someone wants a platform, they can make UA-cam videos or go one someone's podcast. Journalism's purpose is to hold people accountable.
Ben Shapiro has the charisma of a matzo ball. The way to avoid embarrassing yourself in an argument, is to not be Ben Shapiro.
It wasn’t an argument he lost, he lost an interview.
Ben Shapiro: I will reduce this conversation down to it's last atom! Lmao
Looool I see what u did there
Zhufu Edits yeah its perfectly balanced like all conversations should be
Vincent Martinez Did you just laugh at your own joke lmao
Kemu the Emu yes i did lol
Ben Shapiro Gets DESTROYED by LITERAL NOBODY With FACTS and LOGIC
Ben Shapiro sound like he only breathes helium
Dakotah Cox man reps gas giant gang
😂 makes sense since he's a straight up clown
lololol i.......stop it
Low quality comment, helium increases vocal pitch, it doesn’t cause you to think and speak faster.
HAHAHAH
"Work more quietly!" Lmao 🤣🤣
Humble yourself. Listen. Be prepared to answer questions during an interview. Maintain a level of respect. Be emotionally prepared for opposing views. Don't call names. When cornered to answer a question, answer the question, instead of turning assaultive. Be prepared that the interviewer may hold a different view than you.
Thank you for showing the clips of Emilia Clarke smiling, it made me smile
Edit: 2:06 - 2:24
She honestly just brightens my day
When Ben made the claims over him being left winged and Andrew Neil laughed that is because he actually supports the Conservative party and was Chairman of the Federation of Conservative Students which are centre right, not left winged 🤣 Facts may not care about your feelings but clearly little Benjamin over here doesn't know the facts.🤣
Left and right wing in Britain and America are totally different.
@@topspur762 FACTS 🙌
@@topspur762 Left and right wing in the majority of the world is different to the US. Neil definitely isn't left-wing.
@@topspur762 Yes. But that doesn't mean hes a leftist.
Topspur76 Well that’s a given but they do have a lot of similarities. They may differ on gun laws and such, but when it comes to foreign policy and immigration they are very much alike
who else fell in love with emilia clarkes positive energy
Ben Shapiro is one of those people who get more attention than they deserve, and yet here we are
Yourself seem pretty butthurt with that thought