How To Effortlessly Defend Yourself In Any Argument
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We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.
So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad.
This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode"
1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting
2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions
4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions
5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps
7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary
8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground
9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind
10:30 - Improve your confidence
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Staying calm and not letting your emotions overtake you in an argument is a huge advantage to keeping a clear head and responding efficiently. Easier said than done but extremely important.
Understanding the motive is very crucial Sarah
agreed. and it is hard to do
It's also a good way to piss the other person off because they think you don't care enough about the argument to get upset over it
@@richardvanheesen1606 i think its hard to do because people are constantly pushing and prodding at you for an emotional response.
Yeah that's why I cannot argue with my older sister at all because she always gets super emotional.
It's interesting how Piers does that for a living but Andrew handled him profoundly.
Right? He’s impressively articulate and well-thought out for being a kickboxer lol
@@tysoflowin cuz he’s not just a kick boxer
He is a business man who has studied the realities and nature of the world. He is truly a .001% man
That's why he the Top G
I disagree. Tate went around in god damn circles and wouldn't acknowledge the dangers of his beliefs and his popularity
@@whatdisd because that's what he was asked??
“Understood Piers” exactly! I was having an argument with a coworker in which he repeatedly made contradictory statements in order to win. The best way to conclude is to just be content in your own view and accept that this person is not going to change for you. Showing respect, regardless of whether you respect the person!
I use this Andrew Tate's tactics when discussing with someone whose sole purpose is to portray me as a villain rather than come to a conclusion about the truth
Piers Morgan just made Tate look so much better than what he was trying to do lmao
not to mention the name of the show is “uncensored” but piers is arguing for self censorship
@@TurdFergusen it's Piers Morgan Uncensored not everyone else uncensored.
@@TurdFergusen how is he doing that? He interrupts and he goes OTT with analysis of people's words. But that's not asking for someone to sensor themselves.
I never knew who he was until this interview. I think it's a bit strange that someone at 36 years old finds 18 year old girls more appealing than women in their mid 20s. Not sure when he said it. But that's girls just outta school. Even if he said it within the past 10 years, it's a bit young for him
@@eddiebear34 thats your hangup, not biology’s.
@@TurdFergusen beast alert
When I was a child my father would yell at me when I did something wrong. He was a good dad, but this caused me to develop a problem where I shut down when someone starts yelling at me. This channel has helped me get over that struggle and remain calm and not back down. I sincerely appreciate your videos.
Respect
I can't stand when people yell and get angry. I don't know why, I just shrink into myself and feel scared.
@@LauraR0ckzLolz some people are mean, some grew up with parents who did that, and it rubbed off, and some just have a hard time not yelling, thats just one of there struggles
@@LauraR0ckzLolz That’s exactly what I would do. I remember getting falsely accused of something by my 4th grade teacher and I chose to admit to it instead of sticking up for myself just so it would be over with sooner. Maybe that’s not the same way you feel, but you aren’t alone. I support you. And I wish the best for you on your journey.
I grew up in a similar family as well but with a highly narcissistic dad that would just make up whatever Bizzaro world story to fit his narrative headed to just dropping the hammer on me for nothing real.
As an adult, I have put a massive amount of time and effort into learning to both communicate and debate. Now my family avoids having any form of heated discussions with me because I can shut down their nonsense in and then railroad them into looking like fools in seconds and never look like the bad guy for any of it.
Tate is one of the best communicators I have ever seen. Def a good study. Thanks
lol
Hitler also had charisma.
Funny joke
@@WSGVallove him or hate him, you can’t deny is is world class communicator. How else did you think he got so famous so quickly and reached the level of status and fame? I don’t agree with everything about Tate but I can give him his props. If your hatred blinds you so much to not acknowledge the skill, then it’s you that’s blind
@@the-ironclad funny sarcasm
I used your advice here to absolutely steam roll someone who was rude to me. It was the First time I have ever stood up for myself and it was amazing!!!
this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it
when you say it like that they sound like the annoying parent that tries to make a learning opportunity out of everything
@@justinthawsetmyo4173 first time watching this channel? 🤨
@@tonyeltigre4745 no I just never thought of it that way
@@justinthawsetmyo4173 what way?
I swear down. I rate him highly 👏🏿
Imagine a 10 year old watching this to win an argument with their siblings
Disclaimer: I was ten when I posted this and I’m not deleting it because it was relatable at the time pls don’t judge lol
Lol wouldn't work since the winning argument would just get ignored 🤣
I'm 14, doing just that.
I’m 16 yes I’m doing that😂
what color is your BUGATTI?
Works everytime
…oddly specific
This video is so great. An objective, sober analysis of a conversation between two highly controversial persons where siding even a little bit with any one of them could get you ostracized. You managed to find something good in their behavior and their speech without codoning what each one of them stand for. Big respect for that! It takes skill to create informative content based on two people that many people don't want to touch with a then foot pole.
And the the level of detail is amazing. It's better than some expensive psychology courses.
Controversial is an understatement. I assume you well know why.
Thank you for this video, you do this world a service 💯
Summary:
1-spot when they enter “fight mode”
2-watch a misquoting
3-beware of derailing interruptions
4-don’t steamroll concessions
5-catch any logic gaps
6-draw a conversational boundary
7-acknowledge and common ground
8-give yourself permission to change your mind
9 - Jet in jail for human trafficking
@@f1atl1n3 yet you are spreading hate from your mothers basement
@@f1atl1n3 which you haven't done.
Wish this worked with woman....nr5-catch any logical gaps, wont help you because they then derail the conversation and act like their a victim and say you are attacking them....the worst part for men is that we want to get to a logical answer/conclusion/end as quick as possible. We speak factual,not emotionally. So this is good advice when speaking to most men, but not with women.
@@f1atl1n3 10 - get a life
Piers looked just unprofessional, Andrew did an amazing job remaining calm and assertive
The only thing that makes Piers look professional or respectable is his suit.
@@snakedogman yes, right 😅!
I would not have been able to keep my cool with such a boobjob. elvis christ that Piers is a donkeybone.
@@snakedogman nah he's anti LGBT representation so he's the goat for me
While looking agitated/pissed and acting genuinely annoyed.
Well done looking objective on both parts, so we can learn both sides and the tools of charisma/ retosim. Enjoy how you calmly show each example right on the go.
I had the same hunch to just let them speak and return to my argument later, but unfortunately it doesn't always work - when you have limited time, and especially so if you also, at the same time, are arguing against status quo on that limited time. All that the other side has to do is to keep interrupting you
Solid breakdown. The reason Andrew didn't change his mind was because he still believes in the sentiment of the things he said. He just knows going forward, to have an impact with his words, he has to phrase them in a less emotionally triggering way because of his popularity. Piers couldn't get that and wanted him to recant. Not changing your mind, for Andrew benefits his brand.
there's a difference between changing one's own mind, and getting the Spanish Inquisition treatment.
that there was Spanish Inquisition (struggle session). everyone is obligated to stand their ground in the face of such an offense.
This is the most thoughtful comment I've seen so far in this comment section that resumes exactly what Andrew was trying to transmit with his interventions. You have my like sir.
@@crackwitz Rightly said. Give no ground in these environments. Jordan Peterson didn't, either. If you apologize even once, you're done. They always have killed the people that apologized.
It's very difficult to entertain the notion of another angle or difference of opinion when you're being interviewed by someone who's hostile and adversarial. Piers makes people want to be guarded as to them avoiding being baited into a "Gotcha" moment.
Agreed 100%. It would be different if Piers actually provided countering truthful reasons why Tate should recant his position but even IF he did, this would NOT be the time or place to recant because a big part of Tate’s brand is mental and testicular fortitude to withstand the onslaught of unpopularity.
Like it or not, recanting, even if merited by Tate’s own principles, would be perceived as a loss of character on Tate’s part by his fans.
Piers is just like that annoying lady who interviewed Jordan Peterson. "So what you're saying is " lol 😆
Peirs more likely doesn't put it in a question form. He does more of "This is what you ARE saying"
Cathy Newman. JP dismantled her piece by piece.
LMAO 🤣🤣
JP is a master at seeing through BS lmao
It does seem to be a characteristic of British media that the interviewer heavily leads the conversation and doesn't allow for much deviation from whatever question is being asked. This has both pros and cons of course.
Jeremy Paxman is one of the best examples of this, he'll let someone talk at length if they're sticking to his question but he will interrupt the second they stop doing so or they say something he can pick up on. It's really refreshing as an American when it comes to interviewing politicans especially, as they will often try and answer a different question that suits them. British journalists are much less likely to let that fly than here in the US where the interviewer just let's them do what they want.
However, when it comes to a person defending themselves from accusations or criticism, the British style certainly leads to more frustration and confrontation as the interviewer is much more able to push an agenda that may have been decided beforehand.
Then you add Piers Morgan into that dynamic and you've got a 'spicy' interview haha
I see what you did here by linking changing one’s mind to confidence!!! 💯
you make a lot of sense, thank you for making these vids for people
I don’t agree with Tate on a lot of his takes, but you can’t deny he composes himself very well. He is very intelligent when it comes to social interactions. Look at his conversations with Xqc for example.
Tate is right about everything
@@sgtcrusher66 Hmmm, his courses are a complete scam. He knows how to be right about everything to earn money. That's why he became muslim, for muslims to buy his courses and for him to earn even more AND for him to keep his social position, basically to keep being famous. That's why he became muslim to become more famous and not lose his fame. Open your eyes.
Let’s see where his smarts will take him.
Tate is right about 70-80% of things
@EvaMira in your opinion which is fine I respect that but what is he wrong on out of curiosity ?
IMO, the best way to win any argument is not even to win, but to get the person you are talking to understand what you are saying. The moment you become aggressive, or passive is when you have either escalated or removed yourself from the conversation, just stay neutral. It's ok to have an opinion on something and express emotion just don't force it upon the receiver. As someone who has been in many arguments, it never goes well when you both leave thinking nothing got settled or your point never got across.
dont force it on the receiver, just present it to him. and make sure its a good one. if not, fix the facts or logic to make it a better one
@@strannick2212 some people are just too ego driven and blind
i guess that's true but it's annoying if you're actually right. i don't mean right in a arrogant way, but when you're actually right or at least 99% right yet the person yelling at you is either incapable of understanding or deliberately chooses to not understand. i think those are just free loss situations.
@@strannick2212 often the facts and logic simply aren't relevant. someone may be married to a poor position, or refuse to change their position because it would make them look bad, or because they don't like you, or think you should be subservient to them regardless of their error.
well said
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Andrew's eloquence skill is that when you ask him a question he gives you an immediate answer that an average person would take around 10mins to come up with an answer that smooth and perfect, and he does it every single time. Andrew Tate is world class when it comes to holding a conversation.
Lol, world class. Read a book. He trafficks women
zip up ur pants when ur done
@@JayresinOfficial He walks around with knee-pads I'm sure.
I'm not the kind of guy who loves Tate, but man Piers was completely awful in that interview
Thats pretty normal for piers
Agreed!
You don't need to like Tate that's OK
That's how Piers operates. He's a bully. He's not there to talk; he's there to fight.
Piers is always awful 🤮
The 1957 film, 12 Angry Men, is also a great example of how and how not to conduct yourself in an argument/debate. While certain characters had their views clouded by bias, the single biggest takeaway I believe that came from this film is that you have to be willing to admit or at least realise that your views could be wrong on a given issue. I believe that when you enter an argument firstly you should go in with the mindset to listen and to understand and know that you could be wrong and secondly to figure out whether the person you are conversing with is of a similar mindset and is also willing to concede a view when proven wrong.
My favourite film
Actually very intellectual stuff
the art of conversation truly is beautiful. unfortunately, most people when they hear the world "argument" think of one side being the winner and the other side being wholly steamrollered and feeling humiliated. that is not how it has to be.
one tip is to go into an argument with the mindset to understand another opinion, with the mindset that its okay to not come out completely winning. its okay to compromise on a view. its okay to be wrong too. people respect people who are willing to admit they are wrong. this way, you are less likely to get mad or stressed.
I am downloading this to be better at argument. Since I am really bad at expressing myself, because i was always interrupted since i was young when i wanna make my point.
"My Unmatched Perspicacity coupled with sheer indefatigability makes me a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavour " ~ Emory Andrew Tate II
I had to google those words. Once understood it’s very powerful
Me: /whoosh
Tate is amazing.
W
A month late, but to clarify; that was his father's words.
Also, watch out for "half-concessions".
They'll start the sentence by agreeing with you and want you to agree with their point, and after you agree to it, they'll tie you into something else (usually putting you in a bad light) in the second sentence, strawmanning you.
DON'T go back on what you agreed with, just expound on your opinion to more accurately describes your stance, while maintaining you still agree with the first point. Same with yes or no questions, feel free to answer than, just be ready to explain your opinion if they try to loop you into something. Always confirm that you agree with their first point, but *your* version of their second point, not theirs.
never give them their frame
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I came to notice a pattern here, that you'd most probably need these 90% of the time if you're ever getting interviewed by a western media, or anyone "trained" by their style/system of thoughts. For the most part I've seen interviews in other countries in other languages, people are actually discussing and understanding things rather than trying to demolish or cancel that person. It's slowly becoming apparent to me that these "interviewers" has someone pulling the strings, putting a leashed dog on these prime channels trying to cancel that person they interviewing. It's not about seeking the truth, modern media pushed by the western nations no longer about seeking the truth.
A media that can convince people that a nation has WMD, who can convince people to justify their government to interfere with someone's country and caused millions of death, and so many other disgusting things for the past decades - how can I expect anything different as an output in return? That's the very definition of insanity.
Can confirm.
News debates in Asian countries are often way more heated and unprofessional but they're not playing a game to goad you into a corner where you have to apologize or get cancelled
It's just two people arguing very loudly lol but I'd take that over these duplicitous mind games
Very well said and profoundly thought.
Thank you 🙏!
absolutely - wish more ppl realized this
thats what happened to kanye after interview with peirs
He who controls the media controls the narrative
Love this video makes me want to get into more arguments
This channel does great social work)Thank you!
Great video. I found this conversation between Andrew and Piers fascinating, not just because of the subjects they talked about, but the psychological battle between the two of them.
Tate is good at it, but he’s also a manipulative sociopath. He actually is misogynistic as hell. The way he avoids agreeing with this is masterfully done. But he’s a manipulator and he’s good at it.
@@DaZeDmerlin not he is not he does not hate women
It's a literal "Battle of the Bastards"
@@DaZeDmerlin ok sheep
@@DaZeDmerlin define misogynistic?
This interview was a big W for Andrew
And a huge L for Piers
Prolly one of the few W's that he's taken so far 💀
@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198
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@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 he is like this in podcasts and other interviews too. You just choose to judge based on a few seconds clips or media articles.
I hate arguments. One of my close friends at the time came to my house and lashed out at me for saying I was disappointed she flaked on me. She came at me HARD saying I was selfish and a bad friend because her mom is an addict and I should know how much she’s struggling with that. The whole argument she kept throwing that at me and when I’d try to defend myself she’d come down harder because in her eyes I was a sociopath for even trying to defend myself. Her moms been an addict for 10 years and her brothers have cut her off. She chooses to remain in contact and be affected by her mom.
Ultimately the way she came at me that day isn’t something I think I should ever experience with a friend, that level of emotional attack… hell no. She kept saying “I don’t think I can be friends with someone like you” and I was like that’s fine by me I definitely don’t want to be friends with you
I am on the don't try to win an argument. Always first seek common ground , let others present their views , let them talk and seek to understand what made them defensive, correct any misperception you found , until you can find that common ground , don't talk listen more
Once fully understood others views and their emotions , then engage . That way the person could go from your enemy to a potential ally .
Any time you feel no common ground can be reached , pause and leave .continue the conversation another time .
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I'd be very interested to hear your advise on how to let go in an argument that's unproductive when you deeply about the other person's views about you (particularly when the topic of the argument is about yourself!)
I've been waiting for a charisma on command analysis of Tate, and you certainly delivered well so thank you
I'm not sure I agree with the last point. I don't disagree with the words "Give yourself permission to change your mind", but I think it's almost always both ethically and intellectually wrong to change your mind *during* an argument unless it is *very* clear that you were wrong. Changing your mind is like grooming yourself -- it should usually be done in private.
Why? Because you don't actually have *time* during an argument to think it all the way through, especially in a medium (TV) where pausing to think about something for more than a brief moment (i.e. dead air) is bad for viewership. It's like trying to translate poetry into another language in real-time as it's read to you, all while preserving the rhyme scheme and without pausing between stanzas. Your brain just isn't that quick. If you think it is, then you're doing it poorly.
This^^^ in an emotionally charged situation, there's a fine line between admitting you're wrong and being forced into doing so. Arguments can only be productive to an extent, they're no place for serious self-reflection
Good points
There can be instances where during an argument you can change your mind and it's appropriate to change your mind. I've had instances in my personal life where in the argument the other person made me realize my error. This doesn't happen very often. The vast majority of cases this isn't true for me, but it does happen. For some it may happen more often for others even less than the infrequency it happens for myself. Regardless, in such situations you should concede in humility.
And, respectfully, I disagree with the sentiment of your last two sentences. Outside of a medium like TV, you can sit there for a moment and think about it. You don't have to constantly be responding. You can take time to think. And sometimes it doesn't even require that. Your brain can be that quick. A realization sometimes dawns on you suddenly. Something the other person says can trigger an "aha" moment and then the matter is settled. I'd be surprised if this has never happened to you. I've been on the receiving and the giving end of that "aha" moment.
System 1 and system 2
Especially if you were constantly interrupted
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Well done vid, mate
How to end any argument. Say, "are you trying to argue with me or talk to me, because I don't know about you but I just wanna talk to you" This works for me
A very well made video, everyone can benefit from such content because I love it when people have healthy debates and discussions
Not sure id call Piers rudely attacking tate a healthy discussion lol. He was a total dbag
This is absolutely amazing video🔥🔥🔥
I've heard nothing but bad things about Andrew Tate, but his attitude and social behavior here is genuinely praise worthy and something to learn.
I've always been aggressive and hyper, so speaking slowly and taking breaks is a must for me during debates.
Wow. The way Tate evaded many close ended tricky questions and proved his point is simply amazing. He is not one of those guys who simoly make a point without anything to back it up.
Then you havent watched enough Tate lol
@@xMckingwill Maybe all you have watched is a handful of reels about him which are taken out of context. lol
@@anantharamashok9501 Nah I have watched chunks of what he says with full context. Not simple reels. Take of your rose tinted glasses lol
@@xMckingwill An Anime and game addicted boy. Iam not surprised. Lets have the conversation once you grow up buddy.
@@anantharamashok9501 huh? We are having a conversation I didnt personally insult you idk what happened. 🤷♂️
You GUYS!! this was the video I’ve been waiting for you to do! Thanks for covering argument tips! I’m not good at this, so fr sure I can’t wait to put these tips to practice thank you thank you!
Have a look at jbp and cathy newman
Nah they just afraid of getting cancel
incredibly smart, great video!
Great video !
Here's a better tip: Stop trying to win arguments, try getting something out of them, or just leave them if they are wasted time.
Thankyou, I needed that reminder
Nice
Agreed.
thats not how world work atleast on television level
@@shivamsingh-cs2ub That's why most people don't do them. The main goal of television is to get attention, ratings, etc not a productive conversation.
Thanks a lot for this video. It’s exactly what I’ve been looking for in the past week.
It’s amazing that you also given us the example of misquoting around this part 10:00 😂
You’ve guys have done so well the years. I remember when you guys were small time. 👏
Regardless of what you think about Andrew, it is interesting how well he comports himself in interviews, and there are many tactics he used that others can learn from when engaging in debates of their own.
they're both toxic and pathetic
He is not good when he got caught lying. He suddenly have big outburst and started to randomly insult everybody for no reason.
@@nntflow7058 Show me an example
We could say the same about hitler. There are enough people in this world to put as an example someone with questionable behaviors/ideologies.
@@danielaorellana8216no matter what you think about Tate it’s unfair to link him to hitler because hitler is a lot worse
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The best video of this channel 💯
Great job well done. That made an impact.
Last part of this was awesome. The point/lesson of allowing yourself to change your opinions from past without worrying so much ... allowing you to grow... yeah. Good stuff.
Step 1 be smart enough to not start an argument
Step 2 if 2 people arguing get you inside their argument just ignore both and go grab a can of soda
"Give yourself permission to change your mind." is another way of saying "show humility and learn". Definitely didn't expect this to be a point but it's one, if not the most, important point. It's not about being right or wrong but being able to understand someone's POV.
I feel like people are so afraid to change their position and mind about a topic because they believe it defines them as a person. It's not the principle of giving up your own beliefs but simply seeing a different perspective and realizing that perhaps you may have not seen the full picture. I respect the person who grows within an argument. It's definitely hard for me to apply this point and actually took me aback when he mentioned it because I find it hard giving myself permission and realizing I may have overlooked some things within an argument.
repeating the question is a very good technique just to get it clear as to what's being asked.
This is a masterpiece video. Love coming back to analyze this.
Every time I hear the point about Piers saying Andrew is dangerous to children and then proceeds to mention an adult as his example really goes to show how Piers was only out for a gotcha moment 🤦
His point was that if he's so dangerous he can have such an impact on a grown man, imagine what the lasting, negative impact he can have on impressionable young boys during what is a crucial stage in their development which in turn the young girls who will then suffer as a result of said damage along with the same young men who will end up having to deal with the consequences of their actions.
These videos are getting better and better each time
Yeah he’s gotten better over the years
Two absolute masters with words it was spectacular to listen and watch this interview.
When someone tries to interrupt you during a conversation, continue talking and finish up with what your saying continue to speak until you are done and they will realize that you haven’t yielded to them to speak which shuts them up.
That final point is golden
You don’t have to change your mind, you can apologize for what you said and how it made someone feel uneasy, but there’s also accept people for who they are.
I don't think that's completely accurate. You only apologize for something you said if you made a mistake or talked in the heat of the moment out of anger or something. You don't apologize because others didn't like your words. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. When I find myself in those kinds of conversations I just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and move on. Not every argument needs to end in an friendly agreement.
@@old_dan fr sometimes people are looking for that 'I'm sorry" as a way to validate themselves even if they're completely wrong about the subject at hand. One thing i always tell people is that apologizing is an easy way out and people will walk over you and have zero respect for the things you care about. Sometimes you have to put your foot down (respectfully) without blowing up. Some people just don't know the meaning of the word disagreement and assume that if you don't agree with me then you're against me and there's no middle ground. Its honestly wild how egotistical some people are nowadays.
I can disagree about apologizing, because sounds to me you just want aproval to you are always right and somebody was wrong by disagreeing with you.
tate isnt responsible for YOUR feelings YOU are responsible for YOUR feelings feelings are subjective to each individual individually. why should someone apologize for your feelings ? maybe you should apologize for YOUR feelings and reaction . if your uneasy maybe you should investigate that further and YOU work on YOUR feelings Tate has NO idea HOW YOU will feel towards his comments if your OFFENDED thats on YOU someone else might not be offended its he obviously has a internet following so alot of people arent offended by him maybe you should try to understand what he says more again we all dont have to agree about everything but get a hold of those feelings
This was a very well done analysis. Solid
Great analysis, really appreciate the breakdown and how visible these zthings become once you name them and pay attention.
Excellent break down!!
That video is awesome. Very well done, Charisma my man
Dude -- this was brilliant!!! One of the best ones you have done so far!
I absolutely love your content
Always stay open minded by changing your mind if you think you were wrong about something. don't be too extreme, a middle ground is always the right place to be. If you have doubts about certain ideas, don't argue just to win the debate but exchange thoughts so you might find a better one to embrace. And when you discuss an idea that you strongly believe in, don't force others to embrace it but focus on learning more about what you already believe in, maybe there's something you missed. Also stay open minded, after all there's a possibility that you have embraced a wrong belief blindly, there's always a chance that you are wrong.
but if its a take from andrew tate dont because he is one of the most foul people to ever exist
Another classic Charisma on Command video, i appreciate each upload as they have helped me become a better person
This was such an amazing breakdown! Love your content!
So helpful thank you
This is such a good analysis
Piers Morgan is like debate practice for rich people. He smirks and grins as he uses these tricks, knowing full and well what he's doing. Notice he loses the smirk when Andrew parries it with his own debate training.
Mind games like this are just gross, man. I wish people were more consistently sincere and direct.
@@Brisingr73 it's a debate,man there's no right or wrong --- you were supposed to use your point and plotted your opponent point against themselves
It's an exercise in eristic discussion. 😂
@@sharkfishsharkfishshark are you kidding me ? He is trying to force stuff he misunderstood and saying that he said it when he didnt if you dont pay attention to those garbage people , theyre gonna eat you alive
Big shout out to #8. Much like not learning from past mistakes, so many people refuse to allow themselves to change their minds when presented with new/better information, learning that they're wrong, or as society as a whole continues to evolve.
It's tough, because if you are totally open and honest, you will never be able to settle on anything. New information is presented all the time. I realized it greatly depends on how much you share with others, or through social media. Personally I was typing a lot of my opinions and ideas in my private file, but never shared any of my opinions publicly. Because of that, I am changing my mind on things very frequently. This made me realize that if politicians were honest and open to new ideas, they would be changing their minds all the time, which would make them even less popular, because they would be seen as grifters and whatnot.
@@julius43461 well said
@@julius43461 good points. Probably in trust worthy relationships being open and willing to change your mind have benefits but if your a public figure it could be misconstrued by your detractors.
@@ryanvacation7319 Yeah, if they were honestly interested in changing their minds, they would be switching partied all the time, kind of how many ordinary people do.
Disagree. You have to choose the things you will/will not compromise on in life. Granted there are often a lot of things in life you CAN compromise on, but to take this video as an example, the majority of waht Tate is talking about is stuff he passionately believes in with legitimate, objective cause. He does not need to allow himself to change his mind on something important to him. When discussing your favorite flavor of ice cream...that's a different matter.
you just showed some of the reasons why i despise arguing with people
I LIKE UR CHANNEL U ADVERTISE UR COURSE AT THE LAST OF THE VIDEO CAUSE U KNOW EVERYONE IS GOING TO WATCH TILL THE END
It can be so incredibly though to come back to your point after being interrupted repeatedly well done to tate on this one
Great analysis. I have to watch this interview now.
1. look them in eyes and look way they move their body
2. take deep slow breath
3. stay focused
4. look it from 3rd person (meaning it doesn't have to do with you it's their perspective, don't get it personal. If you get it personal they win)
5. W8 them to finish and ask them is that all, may I answer now. In same time you are saying to them that there is nothing special in what they said but still you "show respect" by asking may you answer now but actually you are luring their "YES" towards you giving yourself advantage over them and lowering their guard in same time.
6. Speak slow and low voice use hands up and down and nod your head so that they reflect that and start nod and follow hand gesture up and down (agreement movement) commanding it from them without saying it.
To the last point:
He did state multiple times that you change over time and that he doesn't agree with everything his younger self has said, but some of those specific statements he still agrees with and that they were taken out of context and therefore don't convey his actual beliefs.
This Channel is amazing, you walk out of this video with a lot of knowledge
I end up being always right, because when I am wrong I change my mind
“If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes, but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good will.” -Ben Franklin
Yes, winning an argument is not necessarily winning.
The stay calm is tough.
Gotta play the game
Love your videos, very helpful and informative.
Negativity is the greatest way to force the other person into fight mode to the point where they blunder more than they normally do
1) Spot when they enter fight mode.
Subtle: Label YOU as an issue.
Misquoting you. Showing vS having respect is a big difference. Simple solution: reestablish your own point view before defending it.
Argue with you Before letting you explain.
2) Derailing interruptions before you can make a good point.
Pause, acknowledge the person (“Understood, Pierce; I respect you have the right to think that.”) continue arguing.
3) Preempt their interruption.
If they still interrupt, one finger stop gesture.
4) Don’t steamroll concessions.
Flip side: don’t be the interrupter and prevents you from reaching common ground.
You can’t make good points when ppl. Interrupt.
Physically relax into the argument by taking deep belly breaths.
5) Catch any logic gaps.
Remember the premise of their argument.
6) Draw a conversational boundary DIRECTLY.
7) Acknowledge any common ground.
Example: I completely agree. Genuine tone and voice. Then state what exactly you disagree with.
8) Give yourself permission to change your mind.
It’s not a sign of weakness. You do NOT need to change your preexisting self to fit your beliefs . Takes confidence to change belief in front of others.
If not on TV, one of the best ways imo is simply to roll your eyes AT the other person and frown at them without responding. Let there be an awkward pause and if they ask why respond by asking if they want to have a proper conversation or play word games.