SEGGS Workers Should NOT Speak For Black Women!
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- Опубліковано 21 гру 2023
- SEGGS Workers Should NOT Speak For Black Women!
In today's fast-paced world, there's a troubling push towards a lifestyle that glorifies promiscuity, one-night stands, and fleeting connections, especially impacting modern women and black women. This trend is often painted as liberating but can carry severe consequences, endangering dignity and self-worth.
Join us as we delve into the dangers of this narrative. While it may seem enticing or even empowering in the short term, the reality is starkly different. Encouraging reckless activity can lead to profound emotional, mental, and spiritual harm. It jeopardizes our sense of self-respect and diminishes the value we place on our own worth.
In particular, black women face unique challenges in a society that sometimes commodifies their experiences and promotes damaging stereotypes. The pressure to conform to certain expectations can be overwhelming, pushing individuals towards behaviors that compromise their values and integrity.
We'll explore how embracing a lifestyle focused on short-lived encounters and transactions for fleeting pleasure can have lasting repercussions. It often robs us of the fulfilling, respectful relationships and connections we deserve. As individuals created with inherent worth and dignity, we're called to pursue paths that uplift and honor our true selves.
Above all, we'll discuss how reclaiming our dignity, respecting our bodies, and valuing meaningful connections are not just societal ideals but deeply rooted in the belief that each of us is worthy of love, respect, and fulfillment. We'll reflect on how living in alignment with these principles brings about a sense of purpose and fulfillment that goes far beyond fleeting moments.
This conversation aims to shed light on the importance of embracing a lifestyle that cherishes our dignity and self-worth. We'll explore alternatives and celebrate the inherent value within each of us, acknowledging that living according to our true worth is a path to fulfillment and contentment. Join us as we discuss the true essence of self-respect and the significance of honoring our God-given worth.
Black Women, Black Woman, Black Femininity, Black Feminine, Hypergamy, Black Beauty, Black Culture, FBA, Foundational Black American, Black Girl Magic, THOT, Red Pill, Modern Women, Black Culture, Black Family, Black America, Hip Hop, Hip Hop Culture, Female Rappers, Celebrity Gossip, Truth Seggs Works, OF Model
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As a black man, I’m sharing this everywhere.
Fellas protect this woman at all cost. This isn't a joke matter she's fkin ordained. Thank you Chez Charde. Keep up the good work. Blessings your way.
On it💪🏾💯
You do it. We out. SYSBM 🌎
Ordained for what? This info isn't new? Glad she's speaking on it? She will be fine🤣! We are such a dramatic people
😂
She's a GREAT woman. This is the true backbone of the black community.
Will the "real black women" please stand up?
Those are the real black women why do you think guys are going passport bros.
@@dred9174He's referring to the 20% of bw similar to Chez!😮
@@patriciacoley3801 your estimate is generous.
@@jasonBGI Well, I'm no expert on that notion. It's just something that one of the black male content creators in the space said. I actually think that number's a bit high, as well.😅
@@patriciacoley3801
try 5%
In any other community, they would've been silenced any woman who's out there acting like this.
Some cultures have harsh consequences for women who act inappropriately in the open. While I never condone v1olence i see why they are so aggressive against such behavior. Out of hand it can lead to societal cancer.
@@ChezChardeYou are going to have to understand that justice cannot exist without the implied threat of violence. And when that threat is ignored, it must be unleashed. The sooner, the better otherwise the degree of violence will have to become more unsavoury to rescue a situation spiralling out of control.
You need to qualify what you don't condone more specifically.
🤣🤣you ain't lying
@@ChezCharde surely. I wasn't necessarily speaking of violence. But those women would've been jailed.
@@markverani5088 Great point. The threat of violence is the underlying repercussion of why men stay in line for the most part. It is also why most men are leery of how they approach other men whom they don't know. Women don't have fear of this threat since we have civilized the words so much, to where women can say as they like, and not suffer consequences.
Honestly " dating" itself has become prostitution. Most women can't cultivate a relationship lasting longer than 2 years if that , hence rushing for the ring
"dating" is a new construct and was called prostitution by righteous women back when it started to be a thing
It takes two to tango let's not pretend black mens reputation I'd any better or how men have failed to cultivate relationships instead they lust after IG models
Either pushing near 30 or hook up culture. It's so easy it's crazy
Oof...if that ain't the unfortunate truth smh
You've hit the nail on the head with your point. To piggyback..."date/dating" (which has eroded to sex) is a term that has been perverted by the feminazis because they wanted to pivot away from courting. They deemed that the responsible way of building a foundation with a man to be a form of control.
I’m glad you’re repeatedly, calling these types of women PR0STITUT3S! Sadly no changes will be made, in a society that rewards bad behavior, stupidity and poor decision making!
If you're expecting massive, immediate change, you'd be right.☹️
It took several generations for us to reach the bottom where we are now.
It's gonna take perseverance, a lot of effort and time to get us out of it.🎉❤
As long as they worship money they will never change.
@@sentientbeing9411 ...and when the money runs as dry as The Sahara??🤔
They'll stop when the demand stops.
They'll stop when the attention stops.
They'll stop when the money stops.
They exist as an extension of society.
Society is based on the influence of individuals.
Shame is also a motivator to stop for some of them.
Prost!t!ng and being
high class escort and having a pimp ,lot 🦎 , Str!pp!ng ,O.F.,
is all the same thing..
A Black woman and a Black female ninja are two completely different things... but the media always gives the Black female ninjas center stage...
...as a man, I can not deal with these low frequency women.
Nor should ANY of you! So spread the word to your brethren!❤
What’s amazing is that you could go on YT right now and see a million tragic testimonials from Women who lived this lifestyle.
And all of their stories end EXACTLY THE SAME. With deeply passionate admonishments telling Women NOT to make the same mistakes they did.
Why with such incredibly negative odds against her, would ANY woman believe she would somehow become the prevailing exception in the world of sex working?
How did America convince average-wage earning people that they can buy a few ticket and win
The Million Dollar LOTTERY??😮
All of social media and media flooded with bots and shills telling them it's good and cool.
Algorithm is designed to constantly bombard unaware defenseless minds with lies nonstop till they can't tell reality from truth.
"Only weak minds fal for it, your mind isnt weak is it" is the way the propogandists who have made this form of brainwashing the norm that is being pushed onto the undefended minds if the public.
Disgusting and undoubtedly evil. That and women are not held accountable and worse are allowed to destroy themselves.
There is a reason 55% of women will die childless barren penniless and alone.
FINALLY! Finally a BLACK WOMAN said this!
Wouldn't it be awesome if these sisttas would focus all that energy OUTWARD towards helping to improve the condition in our community!? Teach kids to read!
Teach kids to cook! Do better math, etc.
These hyena kweens of destruction destroy communities they don't build communities, they don't build families, they don't build marriages or anything else, they destroy!
they are paid to promote what they are promoting
@@mindtaker299Yeah, we get that!
Wouldn't it be AWESOME if they were convinced to do just the OPPOSITE?
That is the point behind videos like these; to spread the possibility of convincing these women to behave, and do OTHERWISE.❤😊
The sista hood real fam
@@mindtaker299 KS had a conversation with some woman about BW always being depicted negatively in the media. "Why do they keep taking these roles?" KS said. Apparently women, in general, have no agency. She didn't get pregnant, it just happened, she didn't twerk on that table at a nice restaurant, the holy ghost just took over her body, she didn't smash the whole football team consciously, it was the dicks... they have hypnotic powers. "Cash me outside how bout dat," girl is worth like $25 million. Aqualanteisha and co. with the brown bootyholes? "Here's $1000, I need you to reenact this skit from Boondocks..."
A beautiful message from a beautiful sister. All black women are not sisters. This woman is our sister.
Underrated comment
Ok...who paid this chick to say Egyptians and Moors?! And these chicks in general. They're being paidto say these things! Ya'll haven't figured it out yet??!!!
FACTS!!
Sister you know your right. No other culture gets it pushed as hard as ours.
TELL'EM CHEZ!!! SAVING FROM GOING TO HELL & THE LAKE OF FIRE!!!!
Amen!
No lies detected here at all 🕵🏾♂️
More bw need to LOUDLY call out the onslaught of this 304 image of bw pushed by the dominant society, for the sake your own survival
Example, bottom of the barrel!! guttersnipes, alley scrapers don't forget to add that
We can thank main stream media for this poor representation of black culture. Black men and women need to reclaim our image.
You know who pays them to sellout
@@TruthSeeker30_That's besides the point. It's no longer a valid excuse in this scenario!🤔
@@TruthSeeker30_record labels got her on the hook
. You can blame the reprobate culture that “many” “Black” people promote and celebrate.
Even in our own spaces. They project promote and celebrate the same things.
In reality, in many of our communities you aren’t even considered a real “one” if you don’t embrace the reprobate culture.
Then on our own platforms the same things are venerated.
Can’t blame mainstream for something that is willingly accepted and venerated. Stop with the victim BS.
Blame the people who
actually are the issue.
“US”
@@mobrown1198 realist shit I read today but unfortunate it is true today
Celebrities were NEVER supposed to be role models. MLK, Malcolm X, Shirley Chisholm, Muhammad Ali, Coretta King, Mandela, Ur Parents !!!
I agree with everything that this Black woman of substance is saying! I'm a proud middle-aged Haitian-American man and I must say that Black American culture is at an all-time low!
I've never seen such immorality, sin, disgrace, ignorance, and insanity celebrated in our culture!
This is completely self-destructive and there MUST be a change ASAP!
There was a time long ago when Jezabals were stoned to death, according to the Bible.
Now when you say "our culture" .........🧐🫣
@blackamericandestroyergod1957
Our people, our culture, I guess it all depends on how we want to look at it! I'm certainly part of the Black American experience because I'm a Black man who was born in Brooklyn, NY, and raised in this country.
Another way to look at this situation would be to say that I was raised differently, and therefore I don't have anything to do with this culture of shame and insanity that involves "certain" types of Black people!
At the end of the day, certain types of Black people make ALL of us look bad!
@@zroy9263 I see where you are coming from. The fact is most professional and blue collar black men do not identify with the black mainstream culture.
@akendon7260
Word Up! I'm nearly sixty years old and I've never seen such immorality, ignorance, and self-hatred within Black communities in my entire life!
I strongly believe and know that there's a difference between N-WORD culture and Black people's culture and history!
As an educated white-collar and middle-class man, I don't relate to a lot of the ignorance and stupidity of certain types of Black people!
@@blackamericandestroyergod1957You're playing this "FBA vs immigrant" game. You think these racists care?
Rappers have been speaking for Black men for years. Its all damn embarrassing and you have to fight for everything against against all enemies both "foriegn and domestic".
I 100 percent approve this message.
The damage has been done. Our women are RUINED. But in 10 more years we will be FINISHED 😔
Only if we keep heading down this path. There IS time to turn things around.❤
@@patriciacoley3801 5 year old girls are singing sexxy redd at school. It’s over
@@sonbon9762 5 year old girls are singing sexxy redd at school. It’s over
Your “women”(if you can call them that). These 304s don’t belong to Me.
@@michaelpratchett4415 Nope. Like yourself and the rest of us, they are God's Children. And we are ALL , eventually, finding our way back Home. 😘🤟🏾
Simply saying that we need to be better is offensive to many
Yeah because who is “we”???
Blak people like you love to put all Blak people in the same box.
Offensive to whom?🤨
I salute you for standing up for the black women. This won’t stop until black women like yourself take a stand to call out the women who are doing and supporting this!
Thank you sister Chez Charde, you have a beautiful points.
Facts 💯💯
I have nothing against sex workers, but associating prostitution with black women is the same as associating black men with drug dealers
That is the demographic taking over the representation of Black women. Joe Biden went to Cardi B for a presidential interview. Then he went to. Charlamaigne for another one. But didnt speak with any Black news anchors like Don Lemon. He went to entertainers.
Then the democratic party released commercials with the tagline "get you booty to the poll" to get Black people to vote. The commercial had strippers telling Black men to vote.
Today, 5 year old children want to listen to Anaconda and Pound Town in ballet classes.
So it seems to me that prostitutes have become mainstream representation of Black women.
Thank you so very much baby girl, my Grandbabies don't have a lot of positive young black women to look up to
You Spit nothing but FACTS! I appreciate your perspective & commentary.... Keep it coming.
They " have forgotten the faces of their fathers".
Agreed. The Underbelly of your people shouldn't be in the public forefront more than the Upstanding.
Sukihana is a weirdo
Approve approved approve this message
Excellent job sister
To many black women are ok with this. Change that and things will change
Great job Chez Charde
#SYSBM
😎😎😎😎
Our people in trouble 😮
Chez Charde’ …. BlackWomen like you are the minority, diamonds, unicorns! Your type is smart, classy, wife material, the type of woman you take home to meet the family!. Stay being you!! You’re Hope
Chez Charde is correct, it's problematic. I've made similar observations and for some strange reason our Social Media has made their focus the dregs of our Society. FILM, TV, MUSIC, an NEWS have given, 304's, LGBT, Lizzo's, and Feminist an open platform to voice their livelihood's and grievances. These groups only occupy about 30% of our global population but they've been painted to look like they are speaking for the greater whole. It's been a very chaotic move but my question is why?? WHY have they been given all this attention??!!
Who made these women popular in the first place? Who is buying their records and selling out their concerts?
@@treacherousjslither6920Our masses buying their music are merely the symptom, not the cause. They wouldn't have the crowds if not for the people behind the scenes promoting this trash and this type of behavior. It takes a well funded corrupted industry to churn out this crap, just like they did in the 30s, 40s, 60s, and 70s.
You just got an instant subscriber for speaking up on this topic
Love the message Chez 🫶🏾
And they wonder WHY we black men are ABANDONING them for women of other nationalities?
Don't call us when they give you your wakeup call!
I agree with your claim on this topic. Great video keep up the great work.
That first part was horrific! My gosh why black woman dont stand up and silence these woman! They making y'all look bad! Really really bad!
Because for the most part women in general blackwomen in particular don't want to be called derogatory names and don't want to be excluded from the"sistahood
I just subscribed! You are so right! I thought I was the only one feeling this way!
Thank you! For saying this!
Never thought I would see the day of the degradation of the Black Community from within.We don't even deal with the Disease factors, the various forms of STD's that is running rampant in our community. You are really taking your life in your hands today when it comes to intimacy. Some diseases cannot be cured with antibiotics or anything that is on the market today. A lot of these people have offspring that are left defenseless if something happens to them and it become societies problem. This what is happening in the final days of this society. We must speak out.
Well said! Thank you for saying what needs to be said 😊
Great message !
THANK YOU!!!
CNN: 'you must interview the right type of black person'.
If I tried to put All BP into Separate Categories, how many would there be. (Academics, Legal, religious, military, agricultural, engineering, health care, film, music, sport, streets, XXwork).
In Most Cultures, these groups are (Signed, Lined, Defined & well Represented) (Censored & Balanced). Most People are free to choose.
There is a Time & Place for Everything & Everything should be in it's Place & in Order of Priority.
The BC needs to Control it's Own Media & have the Power to Approve everything that is Sent Out. XXwork may be Over Represented & without clearly defined lines, there is Only Gray Areas casting a Blurred Shadow over other Groups.
In Many cases We Create this Negative Media Ourselves. Sadly! Not all Adults Should have the freedom to Choose. 😞
More examples of why black men are abandoning ship #Passportbros #SYSBM
so true
@@richarddowning8468Wyte men have had a headstart on you!😅
@@patriciacoley3801Naw the first passport bros were African, I’m almost certain man first left Africa 60,000-90,000 years ago to get away from y’all nagging asses. And y’all did what y’all are doing now, following us.
@@patriciacoley3801actually nope we're the original passport bros remember the moor tribe ?? They were traveling to mid-italy and had assimilated into the Italian culture and had married Italian women look at the Shakespearean book was based upon called Othello
@@frankjames6232 Well, obviously I was referring to more MODERN times! 🤣
Great video
I'm just here to hit the like button
These women chose to do that
The fact you’re getting pushback is proof of that
As simple as thesereply was, many can't seem to grasp this fact. Its a choice.
Thank you your lady; may you continue to speak from God’s wisdom. There are so many black women feeling the same way that you do. Bless you and bless your platform. Tired of these ignorant, immature and desperate women on the media degrading our up and coming young talented black women!
New sub. Great stuff young lady.
You look so good with that hair
Amen!
Your absolutely right
I been so turned off by black women lately i dont believe it myself. I use to love bw idk when it changed. Maybe around the lockdown
Its not going to stop ladies until you PUBLICALLY rejecr and start clowning these acts.
I like what shes saying . It's positive and hopefully life changing for allot of women from our community❤❤
Good job 👏
@4:19
thank you.
many black female sex workers are on youtube giving relationship advice.
and some are promoting anti marriage.
And that's why there are videos like this one!
How do you KNOW about such spaces, by the way?
They can't grow if you don't give them your attention.🤔
@@patriciacoley3801
I dont watch them but I notice them.
@@mindtaker299 I did not mean to imply that you watch them, sir.
Nevertheless, we must be careful of where we place our focus. .
What's that metaphysic saying?
Energy flows where our attention goes .
Or something like that.😏♥️
@@patriciacoley3801 The question is why would women want to hinder their fellow sister? 🤔
@@KingJancelot The "Sisterhood" trope is a complete lie, is why!
If particular bw aren't happy, then no one else can be neither.🙄😑
I apologize. I watched this video for 7 minutes before I liked it 👏🏿🙌🏿✊🏿❤️🖤💚✊🏿🙌🏿👏🏿
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I Just Found Your Channel and I Can't Hate You, In Fact, I Love You For What You're Saying in This Video. It is So Essential For This Information To Reach Our Young Black Sisters. I Commend You For Taking That Position Because They are Being Poisoned and Misled With This Ratchet Behavior Which is So Prevalent in Society Done Mostly Through These "Rap Artist". it is So Sad To See Young Mothers Influencing and/or Allowing Their Little Girls To Take Part in This Rotten Behavior. I Have 2 Daughters and Even B4 I Did, I Knew The importance of Our Young Girls Knowing Their Worth. 7x🤎
Good job
AMEN!!!
Good video.
I remember when sex workers were a niche group. It’s not good that it’s now mainstream. The machines pushing this too. Look at sexy Redd
Say it again and again.... and keep saying it
Very Classy & Intelligent
Y'all should have been outraged with Lil Kim 😂 took y'all long enough
Who said we weren't?!
BRING IT OUT!
I approve this message
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Numbers don't lie, the fact they thay have an audience should tell you that you are fighting a losing battle, these type of people are the majority. Not just on social media, like I'm saying they have an audience. They seem out shows. Thier podcasts get millions of views in hours. It's not a conspiracy or some government conditioning, the sad truth is that they like it.
These are rappers. Surely ppl know the difference between entertainment and real life
Obviously not if women give us push back when we call it out.
Little 5 year old girls in ballet class are demanding to dance to the song Pound Town. These kids are being groomed indirectly to love ho culture. The kids cant tell what is fiction rapper entertainment and real life appropriate behavior.
Go look up those youtube interviews of women on the street asking what kind of man they prefer to date. Most 20 year olds say (literally) they want to date a scammer. A man who decieves people to get huge amounts of cash.
Its effecting young girls in real life. Come one you already know that. Its been poisoning our community for years. Its glorified.
She is right any thing to make a black womanlookbad
Amen
a 304 by any other name/culture still smells stank
While I don't think anyone should speak on behalf of an entire demographic, but if anyone are, it should be someone like you.
As it is now, some communities are in dire need of good role models.
The print and color of your shirt is tight!
Black culture is presented by non-black people. That's what happens.
Smh well this is where feminism was always meant to take black women.
First, it exasperated black heterosexual issues of abuse while simultaneously demonizing the nuclear family structure.
What many black women failed to realize is that the issue of abuse within patriarchal systems could have been addressed in a meaningful way without the inherent rejection of the black heterosexual familial foundation.
In fact, black men have ultimately evolved to change that narritive but do not receive credit for it in late stage feminist society.
Shout out to the toots ❤. Toots on drugs was on it prior to that. Real toots dont abuse 😂
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BOUT GD TIME
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Women overall have to know how to deal with conflict. It's the main reason they won't confront each other because women are afraid of conflict. Black women are super masculine but still can't deal with conflict properly. If they fix that then they would have the courage to step to these women
But... can I say it? We told you so.
Stop assuming that every black woman on tv speaks on your behalf
When tf did Sexyy Redd claim to represent you?
When little 5 year old Black girls started demanding their ballet teachers play them Pound Town. When Sexy Red herself showed up to a highschool rally as a guest. Not someone like Michelle Obama or an actress like Taraji. Nope, a female rapper who makes explicit songs about bedroom activities.
Does she need a damn billboard? People follow her. She is therefore a leader!
@@leonrobinson8180
So everyone with a following is your leader and represents you?
That's the most "I am a sheep" answer ever.
Just trash
Stop celebrating Cardi B and start celebrating Letitia James. One of these women is a role model for black women the other is a psychiatrist field trip.
Frankenstein Mothers 👩
All des heauxs opps ion know who 2 smoke 📜🥬🍂🍃🌬️💨💨💨💨