My Transgender Son Was FAILED By The NHS & Died

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  • Опубліковано 1 гру 2024

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  • @GoDoYourOwnResearch
    @GoDoYourOwnResearch Місяць тому +8

    Great subject we need more discussion about mental health and the poor service provided. Samantha sorry for your loss.

  • @moneypenny1267
    @moneypenny1267 Місяць тому +6

    So very sorry x

  • @carolineblackledge8912
    @carolineblackledge8912 Місяць тому +2

    Samantha thank you for telling everyone this. In almost every hospital wards there are people working and being paid by the public who are like this. They close ranks. The good ones are like angels but they are rare. Thank goodness the inquest seems like it was good. God Bless you x

  • @Womenswarrior-v3f
    @Womenswarrior-v3f Місяць тому +1

    Omg how very sad 😢 sending love to Charlies mum i hope she reads this if she doesn't luke please pass this onto her 🙏
    I have a little boy who has said from as soon as he could speak that he feels confused that he should be a girl and from 3 years old has been walking around with his coat hood on his head and let the rest of the coat trail like long hair my son keeps talking to me about it he knows he is loved not judged and safe to talk to me he hs siblings and he has a twin and an older brother who are not very understanding but its a work in progress xxxx

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  20 днів тому

      Hi there, why don’t you reach out to Charlie’s mum who has said she will help anyone going through something similar. Her E-mail is in the description
      Thank you for commenting

  • @Womenswarrior-v3f
    @Womenswarrior-v3f Місяць тому +2

    16:09 its absolutely unacceptable 😤 saying his life is a car crash reenforcing worthlessness!! Some psychiatrist are pompous pricks and have no empathy are totally unrelatable to the patients and do more harm with their own opinions, bias and ignorance it makes me so angry. The lack of medical attention support and just overall treatment plan was enough to push him over the edge. CAMHS saying that he was wasting the appointment time is disgusting. Why are they not looking at personal centred care planning with charlie mum imput into best way of working with him. Also wtf some psychiatrist cant diagnose autism.

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  20 днів тому

      It’s very sad isn’t it. The person who said what they said should be sacked

  • @Womenswarrior-v3f
    @Womenswarrior-v3f Місяць тому +1

    31:52 i can't even begin to imagine what you are feeling what you have been through. Your beautiful boy you trusted the medical experts to look after him as you feel that they are best placed to do that and you think that they will be safe or safer at least and to lose him and then to find out that it all probably could have been avoided or managed loads better. You were probably feeling that he would probably have been better off at home where you can keep him safe because it sounds like you knew him better than they did 😢😢😢

  • @carolineblackledge8912
    @carolineblackledge8912 Місяць тому +1

    We need scanning of all patient checks in all hospitals around the world. It would obviously have helped with Charlie but it would also help all patients. It would show up when checks aren’t done, when meds aren’t given etc etc. Wouldn’t it just be best practice?

  • @wendyhandy9065
    @wendyhandy9065 Місяць тому +4

    Poor child sex change is not viable & this lie is cause so much harm on the most vulnerable in our society 😢 the mental health system has been broken for along time.

  • @karentranter7806
    @karentranter7806 Місяць тому +1

    How awful 😞.
    I'm so sorry 😢😢😢

  • @Richardjaymz
    @Richardjaymz Місяць тому +1

    So sorry your loss, i'm transgender, but i'm not allowed to transition because my parents don't agree with it! Im born male and wanted to become female but i have had to stay in this horrible body :(

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  Місяць тому +1

      I would recommend you E- mail the lady in the video for some support and guidance

  • @samanthanoble9718
    @samanthanoble9718 Місяць тому +1

    lm so sorry for your loss samantha but l do really need to say that lm not sure who has told you that nursing assistants (ie support workers) have to wait for a qualified nurse to be in attendance for a liggature to be removed from a patients neck is totally not true all staff on duty on a mental health ward go through intence training and are shown where liggature cutters are kept for such immediate incidents and are trained how to use them and where on the area they are to be used x

  • @VickyGreen-h3f
    @VickyGreen-h3f Місяць тому +1

    Poor woman 😢

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  Місяць тому +1

      Yeah she’s done pretty well since he passed. Fighting the good fight

  • @Womenswarrior-v3f
    @Womenswarrior-v3f Місяць тому +1

    24:58 i don't think its therapeutic risk taking i think it's government can't be arsed to pay for the care sp just let them do it if they want tto one less person to look after it is absolutely disgusting. I want to say you are a better person than I am i think I would be in prison and i am a none violent person 😢😢😢😢

  • @kw2299
    @kw2299 Місяць тому

    Poor boy was failed by parents way before the NHS. Transitioning at 12??!! Nope.

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  Місяць тому

      So should they have said “no, you are now allowed to be who you want” is that better yeah?

  • @LVennum
    @LVennum Місяць тому

    Havent you got anythin to say bout liam?

    • @Breaktheice123
      @Breaktheice123  Місяць тому

      Yeah but I don’t have to publicise everything