'I Became an Instant Mother Of 3' | Marriage After Loss | Blended Family - Lydia & Morris Buliva

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  • Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
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  • @LaizaKariuki
    @LaizaKariuki 3 дні тому +16

    I spent a good amount of time at the crèche of Mavuno church with Dr. Buliva in the season after loss when caring for his little girl. ( I didn't know his story then) just admired this man who was faithfully watching his daughter in a room full of mothers.
    My daughter is 18 in her final year of high school.
    I salute you Sir and wish you long years of laughter in your marriage.

  • @joycewangui9780
    @joycewangui9780 4 дні тому +26

    Sister rawder, i am a living testimony that marriages do not work coz of long dating. I met mine in march1995 and we got married in De .1995 . Now married for 29 yrs.

  • @janefferchege2244
    @janefferchege2244 2 дні тому +10

    Watching this while my marriage is at edge of breaking and believing God that My spouse and I will feature at rawder kidula show when the storm is over.

    • @lindaamwayi7073
      @lindaamwayi7073 2 дні тому +1

      May God restore your marriage.

    • @thapisu
      @thapisu 2 дні тому +1

      May God war for your marriage and bring healing 🙏🙏

    • @faithkazirah4659
      @faithkazirah4659 День тому +1

      May God restore your marriage.

    • @lydiabuliva9159
      @lydiabuliva9159 День тому +1

      The storm will soon be over. God will do it for you

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому

      AMEN. May the Lord restore and heal. He is faithful..

  • @lyspa-c6k
    @lyspa-c6k 4 дні тому +17

    I love her complexion.She is very beautiful.

  • @thapisu
    @thapisu День тому +3

    She ensures the rhythm of God continues to ring in their home despite the man being distracted what a testimony

  • @patriciaanyembe9441
    @patriciaanyembe9441 4 дні тому +8

    My take home, no shortcut apart from Christ being at the centre of your marriage.
    That's the only assurance you have of the marriage thriving!

  • @tonyandmumbi4109
    @tonyandmumbi4109 4 дні тому +13

    @Rawder...the first instinct is not to call Georgie😶😮😲that analogy of calling Mama Fua to cook when the wife is running late...has put everything into perspective...I have learned a new outlook/dimension of the word honour

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  4 дні тому

      Oh yes, I thought I m helping out by calling Joji, .. now we do better 😂😂

  • @favouredsuzzieh6063
    @favouredsuzzieh6063 4 дні тому +11

    This is deep ... What sat with me is building a support system

  • @beatricembugua3058
    @beatricembugua3058 4 дні тому +7

    The story of "George" very enlightening. Mutual respect, grace, vulnerability with each other and having fun constitute good marriage. Also.."work on me. Pray for them". Always learning from this show. Thanks Rawder

  • @christinelihavi4068
    @christinelihavi4068 3 дні тому +9

    This Man is very intelligent!😂I like the leadership in him,he acknowledges his position weeeeeel..besides I can feel the submissiveness in his wife….this marriage is “Christ like”.

  • @BlessedLady1978
    @BlessedLady1978 2 дні тому +6

    Lydia is so beautiful....Iam so happy for them. May God give me a 2nd chance...

  • @shikufm9690
    @shikufm9690 4 дні тому +6

    Madam Rawder yu're doing a good job keep it up.Learnt alot from this lovely and blessed couple as i wait on God to love and be loved again.

  • @fromgrasstogracekate1404
    @fromgrasstogracekate1404 2 дні тому +3

    This was so educative 1st year of marriage got married to a man who his wife passed while giving birth and left 1 day boy.Know the boy is 9 and 1st born 12yrs and i can tell you not easy but God's grace is sufficient

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому +1

      Wow, thank you for sharing! Oh yes, May God's grace keep you!

    • @agnesmuhavani4910
      @agnesmuhavani4910 День тому +1

      Wonderful! God is so faithful. May Almighty God continue to keep you happy together

  • @helenajames7743
    @helenajames7743 4 дні тому +13

    This is a very interesting, informative and important show.
    Although you think that your daughter has assumed that she is her biological mother. As a counselor you should have had this conversation awhile now.
    Be prepared to hear : “why did you allow others to tell me before you and mom.”
    I’m sure you have some answers but that is going to lead to other questions.
    *Please, after her exam please sit her down and have the conversation.*

    • @betzchep
      @betzchep 4 дні тому +2

      💯

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 4 дні тому +3

      But if she goes to the mother's gravesite, and she's already18 years old, what exactly should she be told that she doesn't already know? 🤷‍♀️

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  4 дні тому +2

      May the Lord grant them wisdom to approach the matter.

    • @helenajames7743
      @helenajames7743 3 дні тому +1

      @@Gwaycee closure that I heard it from my dad and mom. She has unanswered questions.

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 3 дні тому

      @@helenajames7743 Perhaps you're right. I hope they shall talk with her after she's done with her exams. Really they should have already done so when she was little, but what's done is done, one cannot go back to change it.

  • @MaryWambui-jl1gp
    @MaryWambui-jl1gp 2 дні тому +3

    Rawder you are doing am amazing job,,I'm just 23yrs and have watched all your episodes on marriage 😂😂na mbwana nipate sasa😂😂I'm ready😂😂,,, anyway keep doing God's work truly truly marriage works

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 Knowledge is power!!! We keep watching and praying. Thank you so much..

  • @Sarahthegreat181
    @Sarahthegreat181 2 дні тому +3

    Rawder you forgot on financial management in marriage..but the whole conversation was insightful..well done

  • @lubangava
    @lubangava 3 дні тому +5

    It is important for the young girl to have a proper conversation on her biological mum.

  • @mercyedith1383
    @mercyedith1383 2 дні тому +1

    Nuggets of wisdom,beautiful souls,amazing testimony,thank you for sharing your life with us.
    Her skin is amazing.

  • @azenathodhiambo4992
    @azenathodhiambo4992 20 годин тому +1

    Healing is not easy. This is what I am going through . Being a widow at tender age 😢😢😢. I lost my hubby this year in Feb 😭😭😭. We only stsyed for 6 years.

  • @patriciaanyembe9441
    @patriciaanyembe9441 4 дні тому +3

    Wholesome conversation indeed!
    I have loved this, i have learnt a lot.

  • @elizabethmutavi6373
    @elizabethmutavi6373 4 дні тому +7

    I identify with this couple ....one day I'll sit on this bench😂😂😂😂....let me count up first

    • @rosebellmaina464
      @rosebellmaina464 4 дні тому +2

      Amen gal. You definitely will. I too will testify of Gods faithfulness with the second chance. Testimony loading

    • @linnetnkonge7968
      @linnetnkonge7968 4 дні тому +2

      Wah am preempting every bit because our story so similar

  • @millicentmurimi4499
    @millicentmurimi4499 5 днів тому +9

    It's illegal to be this early,,, watching from 7:20 😎,, and yes we believe in the institution of marriage,,, love from Nairobi Kenya...

  • @CenterforLifeSkillsOnline
    @CenterforLifeSkillsOnline 3 дні тому +2

    Rawder this is one of the best. Do more for the second chance of marriage. Blended families

  • @naomiwanjiku1842
    @naomiwanjiku1842 4 дні тому +2

    🎉What a conversation....Rawder plz bring us COUNSEL Faith EKAI to talk to us about loss ad healing ....this woman has been walking a journey with early widows and how she deals with them❤❤❤

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  4 дні тому

      Thank you! Kindly share her contacts with me at 0703866243

  • @sibongiseninomusamoyo1438
    @sibongiseninomusamoyo1438 4 дні тому +3

    God bless you Rawder answering His call. Lovely couple. Beautiful conversation. My take home is, "work on me and pray for them"

  • @ValerieEdna
    @ValerieEdna 2 дні тому +1

    I’ve loved (I’m not sure what better word to use, if there’s any) this couple

  • @marynjeri8469
    @marynjeri8469 4 дні тому +4

    Wow...I have learnt a lot...am in the first year of marriage and it's definitely not rosy...this has really put wisdom in me

  • @lilianolenyo
    @lilianolenyo 2 дні тому +1

    The lady is very beautiful.
    I like her complexion it's very rich❤

  • @wilsonowuor6292
    @wilsonowuor6292 День тому +2

    I always admire the Bulivas

  • @Justbarbara.B
    @Justbarbara.B 3 дні тому +1

    I loved and learned from this interview. I hope they find the grace to talk to the daughter about the biological mum. Also, i feel like if the kids have a relationship with their biological mother's family, she already knows.

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому

      Oh yes, they know but a conversation is still proper.. Thank you!

  • @emiliawairimu6237
    @emiliawairimu6237 2 дні тому +1

    Such a beautiful Story ❤❤.Thanks Rawder for this Amazing Couple.
    I needed to hear this kind of Testimony.
    God is so good.

  • @carolinemangicho7201
    @carolinemangicho7201 2 дні тому +2

    I loooved watching this...😢am also a widow and I cried at some point

  • @charmaine9543
    @charmaine9543 2 дні тому +1

    Lydia is such a beautiful woman. Thank you both for sharing your story

  • @bentaabayo3937
    @bentaabayo3937 19 годин тому

    Aki, do more of this blended families loved them ❤

  • @marylynbeta6755
    @marylynbeta6755 2 дні тому +3

    This can only be God. Am watching from Zimbabwe and this is one of my best 2024 shows i have watched on your channel.

  • @lilianchybire9610
    @lilianchybire9610 3 дні тому +1

    Work on me, pray for them ❤.
    Interesting perspective on honour.
    Thank you Buliva's and Rawder.
    #MarriageWorks

  • @GraceKasanga
    @GraceKasanga 3 дні тому +1

    This couple has confirmed something I have been thinking about, dating in one's twenties is very different from dating in the thirties and forties, amazing love story, thanks for hosting them

  • @thapisu
    @thapisu День тому +1

    Thank God for the help of the holy spirit who orders our steps

  • @gracewathima3349
    @gracewathima3349 3 дні тому +2

    One reason for divorce is unmet unspoken expectations.

  • @FaridahMutola
    @FaridahMutola 4 дні тому +2

    Great couple with lots of wisdom...Good job Rawder 👏
    I have learnt alot..Marriage works

  • @janenampaso8004
    @janenampaso8004 4 дні тому +2

    When love and God are present no one disqualify ❤…

  • @dorcahogeto1544
    @dorcahogeto1544 4 дні тому +1

    My oh my.
    I have really enjoyed this interview.
    I will come later to say why.
    👏👏👏

  • @MARYMtevu
    @MARYMtevu 3 дні тому +1

    Thank you rawder for bringing this hounarable couple here.
    Have quiz,,,,, right ,how do a wife get to understand how to honour her huz, anafaa aseme nafaa nimso😢 get me understand through them.
    They have enough wisdom kwangu mimi

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому

      Thank you... you can start by having a conversation with your husband, ask him. what makes you feel honoured??

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife 3 дні тому +1

    Rawder, could you please get a couple who have had to go through breast cancer and just share how they waded through the waters of illness and care giving. It is October breast Cancer Awareness Month

  • @Hostyq04
    @Hostyq04 4 дні тому +3

    Wah!!! Rawder I love your shows, God bless you so much

  • @gracem23
    @gracem23 3 дні тому +1

    I'm learning alot,alot of insights from this couple.more grace Rawder kidula

  • @Ms.Mutinda
    @Ms.Mutinda 4 дні тому +2

    A fully loaded interview with lots of wisdom shared.. ahsante Rawder

  • @maureenogina9724
    @maureenogina9724 3 дні тому +1

    Luo girls are beautiful. This is a beautiful story.

  • @harrietmuyomanyagi9035
    @harrietmuyomanyagi9035 4 дні тому +2

    This one is full of wisdom and love

  • @rosekhalai2470
    @rosekhalai2470 3 дні тому +1

    I love this couple . They are real ❤❤❤

  • @engineeringmeruuniversity1026
    @engineeringmeruuniversity1026 5 днів тому +4

    amazing story. good job rawder.

  • @carolinerarieya9490
    @carolinerarieya9490 3 дні тому +1

    Lovely couple; Lovely conversation! Blessings

  • @CeciliaOmondi-g6n
    @CeciliaOmondi-g6n 3 дні тому +1

    Very informative discussion at this particular time Rawder , Jaber is collected and very wise.

  • @joycewangui9780
    @joycewangui9780 4 дні тому +2

    Infact i dont know why you should fear. She actually knows but she is o.k since she is treated well.

  • @cathymueni6322
    @cathymueni6322 3 дні тому +1

    Lovely and great lessons here

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife 3 дні тому +2

    Loving the conversation...

  • @aumaKNN
    @aumaKNN 4 дні тому +1

    Pretty Relatable couple I have enjoyed the conversation.

  • @IamThatJhaSpoke
    @IamThatJhaSpoke 4 дні тому +2

    I loved and ate all this. Fantastic !

  • @KedresTinka
    @KedresTinka 4 дні тому +2

    Lovely . Devine wisdom
    I have learnt a lot

  • @catherinewainaina3120
    @catherinewainaina3120 3 дні тому +1

    Wooow lovely ,am sancholeric and hubby is phlegmatic like them!!

  • @marthamwangi6847
    @marthamwangi6847 2 дні тому +2

    Wonderful couple but about telling the girl this is not her biological mother she should be told immediately she turned an age she could understand most likely 10 yrs

  • @faithkagai3950
    @faithkagai3950 4 дні тому +4

    My colleague Dr Buliva. Beautiful story ❤️

  • @96elan
    @96elan 4 дні тому +7

    She resembles my aunt 😂 . I thought kwani aunty Mary aliolewa😂

    • @shikufm9690
      @shikufm9690 4 дні тому +4

      Aunty Mary ataolewa soon,aki wewe😂😂😂

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  4 дні тому +2

      Hata your aunt ataolewa!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @kazi-online
      @kazi-online 3 дні тому +2

      Ameolewa na hajakuita harusi 😂😂😂

    • @Muithira-andu
      @Muithira-andu 2 дні тому +2

      Ataolewo pia😂

  • @princessjossey907
    @princessjossey907 5 днів тому +10

    At 34 there is hope 😂😂 I love the Bulivas 👏👏👏

  • @Dorcas-c3f
    @Dorcas-c3f 4 дні тому +2

    Wueee!Thanks Rawder am learning alot.

  • @rhodakaranu5896
    @rhodakaranu5896 3 дні тому +1

    Great insights

  • @faithkhaendi9250
    @faithkhaendi9250 4 дні тому +2

    Am so encouraged.

  • @nzomotabitha8795
    @nzomotabitha8795 2 дні тому +1

    nice one...amazing,,

  • @adoranancy9093
    @adoranancy9093 4 дні тому +2

    That's a real man.

  • @alicemukami1169
    @alicemukami1169 2 дні тому +1

    Alot I have learnt

  • @sisterneo4018
    @sisterneo4018 День тому +1

    Sister Rawder, you forgot to ask her why she was crying 😢

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  День тому

      Oh yes, I looked in her eyes and knew she did not want to talk about it...

    • @sisterneo4018
      @sisterneo4018 23 години тому

      ​@RawderKidulaShow wow, wisdom my girl. Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @Easter981
    @Easter981 4 дні тому +2

    I have learnt alot. That was wisdom

  • @StellajaneMacharia
    @StellajaneMacharia 3 дні тому +1

    Thank you rawder

  • @clareshavanga549
    @clareshavanga549 3 дні тому +1

    Insightful ❤

  • @veronicangugi9514
    @veronicangugi9514 4 дні тому +2

    Hi Rawder! How can i get the marriage calendar and the book 'you're now a man'?

  • @lilyajula6012
    @lilyajula6012 4 дні тому +2

    Lovely story

  • @gladyskinoti6367
    @gladyskinoti6367 3 дні тому +2

    Woow...such a beautiful interview and beautiful story. How can I join the SAHM fellowship?

    • @lydiabuliva9159
      @lydiabuliva9159 День тому +1

      @Rawder…..come here

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  • @irenekaigo8847
    @irenekaigo8847 3 дні тому +1

    This was awesome

  • @Hostyq04
    @Hostyq04 4 дні тому +2

    Wah, Rawda

  • @gladycebosire4465
    @gladycebosire4465 День тому +1

    Wow

  • @marionndeta2005
    @marionndeta2005 3 дні тому +1

    Wow! Haki hii conversation hainaosha Rawder. 😂
    So rich an episode. Heh, nimeboxiwa kwa corner...🤣
    Anyway, Joji, hata nimefuta your number.🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @annekanyi
    @annekanyi 3 дні тому +2

    👌👏

  • @mercylenah5293
    @mercylenah5293 4 дні тому +1

    The George part😅😂.

  • @sibongiseninomusamoyo1438
    @sibongiseninomusamoyo1438 4 дні тому +1

    I called Georgie 😂😂😂

  • @mwairi
    @mwairi 4 дні тому +2

    Who saw who first?

  • @mwairi
    @mwairi 4 дні тому +1

    I know the choleric side 😂😂😂😂 Daktari

  • @doitbetter2416
    @doitbetter2416 4 дні тому +2

    Justice for Georgi he is innocent 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @RawderKidulaShow
      @RawderKidulaShow  4 дні тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 3 дні тому +1

      @@doitbetter2416 I shall never call Georgi again! 😅

    • @lilianchybire9610
      @lilianchybire9610 3 дні тому

      😂😂😂
      Georgie alipiteza mboka hivyo