Thank you Love Goddess for another video on a subject I know nothing about. Knowledge is a vector, and vector is power. Your ability to pass on that vector gives you power !!!
And thank you for the lovely commentary. I know it seems inconceivable that somebody could wait an entire year for an answer as to whether "they were worthy enough to be in a relationship" it makes me really sad when I read these things. I am emailing this person now and hopefully, they won't waste any more time
A year is WILD! He’s not into her, he’s just lonely and many men want female energy around them because they like the attention and the ego boost. He’s just using her until he wants to be in a relationship and/or something better comes along
I'm sure many people watching this video feel the exact same way. For whatever reason… Avoidant, commitmentphobe, has a couple of other people on the back burner… It doesn't matter. He's stringing her along and no matter the words he says that is the actions he takes. Thank you for your commentary.
Hi Susan, thank you for addressing Angela’s question with such clarity and empathy. It’s so important to recognize when a relationship isn’t progressing as it should. Your advice on asking direct questions and setting clear expectations is invaluable. Angela, I hope you find the answers you need and remember that your happiness and clarity are paramount. 💖
Your commentary is absolutely lovely zodiac connections. Thank you for that. And thank you for being so compassionate as well. I send emails to each person for whom I have created a video sometimes they notice and sometimes they don't. Occasionally, they will come back and find it by accident. That's why I tell all of the people who write me with requests to make sure to be checking their emails.
You are such a wise lady. You look fantastic as always, and give solid, practical advice about a subject that is ruled by anything but practical emotions. I love your videos, please keep them coming ❤
Elise, this is beautiful. Thank you so much for this. And by the way, you are not alone. We are all here on this channel supporting each other. I start my live shows again in October. I hope you can join in. They are 2 o'clock Eastern on Thursdays. And, just know that we all wish you well myself, especially
Le monde change pour le meilleur ou pour le pire, tu parles toujours avec une voix de raison. Je t'applaudis de le faire avec un courage sans entraves !!! Continue comme ça !!! Salutations d'Annecy, France !!!❤👩
Hi Susan.. Thanks for another video with a great topic.. I really love that you are giving a peek into your home.. I suppose it's Nikka sleeping on the bed.. ❤
I agree with you because I like it too. This is my little studio apartment in Manhattan. And I realize that one of the viewers has an issue with the background. Honestly, I'm not supposed to be sitting for long stretches of time. I've just had back surgery, and it was unsuccessful. So I think standing is working for me and there's not a lot of feng shui that can be done in a studio apartment. But I kind of like the cozy feeling as well. It's a glimpse into my personal life and for those who want to know, the other side of me, I am happy to show it
@@SusanWinter I'm sad to hear about the unsuccessful back surgery . Hopefully your doctors could come up with something to help with the situation. Behalf of everyone from this community built by your efforts, I wish you abundant health, comfort and Love..
Met this woman in a dating app and she had her life in order. She said she wanted a relationship and to form a bond with whoever she had met. We went on 10 dates in 5months, kisses, held hands and good morning text. I should have told her blatantly if she was interested in dating me. After our last date she called me and said she didn't feel a spark and she doesn't want to waste my time. I was in shock i couldn't say anything. She said she would let me decide if we wanted to be friends. I was so upset that I told her I didn't want to be friends. She later apologized for hurting me and said I would be lucky to be with anyone.... I don't know WTF was going on with her mentally to have strung me along for so long... We're 32 and 34 years old.
@@SusanWinter Thank you Susan. It's so good to hear you say that after I had been convincing myself for so long. I actually get it now. You are a wonderful person thank you.
I'm one minute in...if the writer wants more of what he is giving her then stick around. If it has not met her expectations and she wants more, then it seems like a closed deal. Granted, will she always want "more" and is he just feeling her out to see if he can trust her. What does her gut tell her? Looking forward to watching this! Huge fan here, sign me, in AZ!!!
reply to edit: Awesome! Gosh, maybe he has been waiting for her to stand her ground and she is still being a doormat a year later. Sign me, Horse owned lady here too. Oh gosh, sitting on fat pony story, awesome!!!
@@mysticzyoga from one Arizona cowgirl to another, you know what it's like to have a fat pony that won't do what you want. So I think the writer has a fat pony that simply won't budge. And unfortunately, she has been stalling the entire process, by saying, "he's going where I want to go, which is absolutely nowhere, but I think I'll wait!"
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR HANDLE! MustangMare- you have offered great advice. And here's the interesting thing about it… Those of us on the outside can always see the right move to make. But when we're on the inside of the romance and the hope and the dream and the fantasy… Sometimes we just go blind.
Should I leave my gf? Because she once told me she dreamed and missed her ex for few times who she broke up in 2009, people under your videos missing their exes indicate they still crave their exes, this is horrible
Thank you for your wisdom. I feel you need a plain background; all the stuff behind you is distracting. Your bedroom is your private space we don't need to see it.
I'm in NYC, and unable to bring you the background you request. You may prefer my winter home, though there is furniture there as well. But to be honest, I don't mind the fact that you can see Nikka and as i retain a studio, I'm afraid you will be chronically disappointed. Perhaps you'd prefer the podcast version: The Susan Winter Show. On all streaming platforms. Just the voice. No distraction.
This is millennia of agency taken away from women and lack of emotional maturity. To this day some of us still doubt ourselves and need to be told what to do, although we know deep down things are off, willing to waste our time, energy and life accommodating men when they don't consider and appreciate our efforts, patience and time. Men don't need years to know what they want with you, most of them know instantly but up to three month. Stop giving loyalty and waste your time with men that are just liars and users. Stop being a place holder waiting for him to figure himself out or try it on with other better options first. As women our time is precious, don't waste it. The problem is women attach emotionally too soon in relationships and then cannot think or don't trust their judgement and men know that and take advantage. You decide how much time you give him, not him. If you are willing to give, they'll just take and take.
Thank you Love Goddess for another video on a subject I know nothing about. Knowledge is a vector, and vector is power. Your ability to pass on that vector gives you power !!!
And thank you for the lovely commentary. I know it seems inconceivable that somebody could wait an entire year for an answer as to whether "they were worthy enough to be in a relationship" it makes me really sad when I read these things. I am emailing this person now and hopefully, they won't waste any more time
Susan, you're glowing!
Thank you Shiloh
A year is WILD! He’s not into her, he’s just lonely and many men want female energy around them because they like the attention and the ego boost. He’s just using her until he wants to be in a relationship and/or something better comes along
I'm sure many people watching this video feel the exact same way. For whatever reason… Avoidant, commitmentphobe, has a couple of other people on the back burner… It doesn't matter. He's stringing her along and no matter the words he says that is the actions he takes. Thank you for your commentary.
Not dating related: that blue is gorgeous on you. Ty for the video
Lori, I love the compliment! Thank you!
It really does bring out her eyes
Hi Susan, thank you for addressing Angela’s question with such clarity and empathy. It’s so important to recognize when a relationship isn’t progressing as it should. Your advice on asking direct questions and setting clear expectations is invaluable. Angela, I hope you find the answers you need and remember that your happiness and clarity are paramount. 💖
Your commentary is absolutely lovely zodiac connections. Thank you for that. And thank you for being so compassionate as well. I send emails to each person for whom I have created a video sometimes they notice and sometimes they don't. Occasionally, they will come back and find it by accident. That's why I tell all of the people who write me with requests to make sure to be checking their emails.
You are such a wise lady. You look fantastic as always, and give solid, practical advice about a subject that is ruled by anything but practical emotions. I love your videos, please keep them coming ❤
Thank you Jayne Grace ❤
You always have the most relevant topics when it comes to dating. I feel less alone ❤
Elise, this is beautiful. Thank you so much for this. And by the way, you are not alone. We are all here on this channel supporting each other. I start my live shows again in October. I hope you can join in. They are 2 o'clock Eastern on Thursdays. And, just know that we all wish you well myself, especially
Le monde change pour le meilleur ou pour le pire, tu parles toujours avec une voix de raison. Je t'applaudis de le faire avec un courage sans entraves !!! Continue comme ça !!! Salutations d'Annecy, France !!!❤👩
Merci! I was just in Monaco... wish I could have met you!!
I love when you do answer questions! ❤. That’s the best!!
❤❤Super video, thank you. I needed to hear this…
love your work susan
thank you Geoff
Hi Susan.. Thanks for another video with a great topic.. I really love that you are giving a peek into your home.. I suppose it's Nikka sleeping on the bed.. ❤
I agree with you because I like it too. This is my little studio apartment in Manhattan. And I realize that one of the viewers has an issue with the background. Honestly, I'm not supposed to be sitting for long stretches of time. I've just had back surgery, and it was unsuccessful. So I think standing is working for me and there's not a lot of feng shui that can be done in a studio apartment. But I kind of like the cozy feeling as well. It's a glimpse into my personal life and for those who want to know, the other side of me, I am happy to show it
@@SusanWinter I'm sad to hear about the unsuccessful back surgery . Hopefully your doctors could come up with something to help with the situation. Behalf of everyone from this community built by your efforts, I wish you abundant health, comfort and Love..
@@barkharani2693 Thank you!! I'm going to keep moving and keep positive. Thank you for your lovely words.
"that is your decision, it is not their decision to make"
Met this woman in a dating app and she had her life in order. She said she wanted a relationship and to form a bond with whoever she had met. We went on 10 dates in 5months, kisses, held hands and good morning text. I should have told her blatantly if she was interested in dating me. After our last date she called me and said she didn't feel a spark and she doesn't want to waste my time. I was in shock i couldn't say anything.
She said she would let me decide if we wanted to be friends. I was so upset that I told her I didn't want to be friends. She later apologized for hurting me and said I would be lucky to be with anyone.... I don't know WTF was going on with her mentally to have strung me along for so long... We're 32 and 34 years old.
He's playing her, just say it!
Yes, I agree.
She did say it. just in a tactful living way. Some people can handle the truth bluntly while others need some sugar put on it ;)
I had an avoidant ex who did this.
Truly, that kind of person can waste so much time. It's not even worth the investment. I'm glad that you are referring to this person as an ex. 😊
@@SusanWinter Thank you Susan. It's so good to hear you say that after I had been convincing myself for so long. I actually get it now. You are a wonderful person thank you.
@@brego12317 thank you!!!
I'm one minute in...if the writer wants more of what he is giving her then stick around. If it has not met her expectations and she wants more, then it seems like a closed deal. Granted, will she always want "more" and is he just feeling her out to see if he can trust her. What does her gut tell her? Looking forward to watching this! Huge fan here, sign me, in AZ!!!
reply to edit: Awesome! Gosh, maybe he has been waiting for her to stand her ground and she is still being a doormat a year later. Sign me, Horse owned lady here too. Oh gosh, sitting on fat pony story, awesome!!!
@@mysticzyoga from one Arizona cowgirl to another, you know what it's like to have a fat pony that won't do what you want. So I think the writer has a fat pony that simply won't budge. And unfortunately, she has been stalling the entire process, by saying, "he's going where I want to go, which is absolutely nowhere, but I think I'll wait!"
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR HANDLE! MustangMare- you have offered great advice. And here's the interesting thing about it… Those of us on the outside can always see the right move to make. But when we're on the inside of the romance and the hope and the dream and the fantasy… Sometimes we just go blind.
Should I leave my gf? Because she once told me she dreamed and missed her ex for few times who she broke up in 2009, people under your videos missing their exes indicate they still crave their exes, this is horrible
Thank you for your wisdom. I feel you need a plain background; all the stuff behind you is distracting. Your bedroom is your private space we don't need to see it.
I'm in NYC, and unable to bring you the background you request. You may prefer my winter home, though there is furniture there as well. But to be honest, I don't mind the fact that you can see Nikka and as i retain a studio, I'm afraid you will be chronically disappointed. Perhaps you'd prefer the podcast version: The Susan Winter Show. On all streaming platforms. Just the voice. No distraction.
This is millennia of agency taken away from women and lack of emotional maturity. To this day some of us still doubt ourselves and need to be told what to do, although we know deep down things are off, willing to waste our time, energy and life accommodating men when they don't consider and appreciate our efforts, patience and time. Men don't need years to know what they want with you, most of them know instantly but up to three month. Stop giving loyalty and waste your time with men that are just liars and users. Stop being a place holder waiting for him to figure himself out or try it on with other better options first. As women our time is precious, don't waste it. The problem is women attach emotionally too soon in relationships and then cannot think or don't trust their judgement and men know that and take advantage. You decide how much time you give him, not him. If you are willing to give, they'll just take and take.
Communication is the key- open - play it out. If not oh well. F W.B.
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