Here's the TRUTH... after 2 Years of full time VAN LIFE - this is what I can tell you!
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2024
- DEEP CHAT. This is quite vulnerable for me to say, but I wanted to...
Last month I hit the 2 year mark of full time van life and I didn't really mention it. So here's a start, I'm talking about my experience with van life :) something I've wanted to say for a while now. Hopefully this is helpful or at least interesting to you, I often show a lot of positive as there is a lot haha and I love creating videos that are fun, but I thought I'd share some deeper info :) There is so much that I am grateful for, but I needed to say this.
I'm grateful for each and everyone of you, so much love,
Ame x
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hey guys! DEEP CHAT. This is quite vulnerable for me to say, but I wanted to...
Last month I hit the 2 year mark of full time van life and I didn't really mention it. So here's a start, I'm talking about my experience with van life :) something I've wanted to say for a while now. Hopefully this is helpful or at least interesting to you!! I often show a lot of positive as there is a lot haha and I love creating videos that are fun, but I thought I'd share some deeper info :) There is so much that I am grateful for, but I wanted to say this to you all aswell, as I think it's necessary !!
I'm grateful for each and everyone of you,
SO much love,
Ame x
Also sorry for the vid quality, I had to film this on my phone :(( xxxx
I have watched all of your videos Ame & I think we can all agree that even though you are a baby duckling, you are mature & wise beyond your age & also gifted with an impeccable sense of humor..
I'm pretty sure you will be able to overcome whatever curve ball life throws at you with your infectious smile...
Oh yeah & also thanks for the amazing free tours around Europe..
I'm 26 stuck in the corporate world in USA 🇺🇸 but one day I will surely embark on my dream world tour.
Keep shining and thriving Baby Duckling 💕.
Stay safe.
Thank you.
Thanks for sharing the good and bad of Van life and Congrats on 2 years and did your parents start about the same time?
You’re amazing and so much more brave than I could ever be. But always put your mental health first because in the end that’s all that matters.
Would you date a older man My name is Daniel
I have found myself, in retirement, watching a lot of people trying different ways to live. It fascinates me even as a lifetime bricks and mortar dweller. I think your video should be required viewing for anybody setting out on such an adventure. The other thing that occurs to me is that the day to day hassles would wear anybody down after a bit - I can see why some people opt for the tiny house alternative. Anyway, thank you for taking us all on this journey and I look forward to seeing how you move forward because move forward you absolutely will.
Ame, YOU living in a van is another level of freedom, it is not a shit show, not living in a house and being confined to one area for a long time is your advantage. I watch your videos because I envy the fact that you can go anywhere you want when you want. That within itself is true living!!!
Ame, the most important thing in anyone’s life is their own well being. Your health and your happiness comes first. You did this van life thing and it is an extremely brave thing to do. The fact that you built the van yourself and started out on that journey. WOW. That is amazing. And now, you’ve been living in a van for two years. Bravo. But there is only so much anyone can do that. If you feel it’s time for the next chapter in your life, then it’s time. You have SO MUCH potential, it’s bursting out your beautiful smile. Whatever it is you want to do, I have no doubt you’re going to be a success at it. Big hug to you & Gigi for bringing a smile to our faces. 😊😘
Very helpful!! I currently car camp some. Literally in a car for fun. My plan is to keep the apartment and get an SUV or van for travel. I truly enjoyed listening to your knowledge!! Excellent channel. Great work. Love it!!
Ame, you're a true rare gem of a person. When I was 23 there's no way I would of done anything close to what you're doing. That's not saying it doesn't intrigue me. Now in my 50s, more established, and better off financially I think van life sounds like a great retirement alternative with a special person in your life. Seeing the world, and sharing adventures either by yourself or a loved one. I see white vans like your's everyday here in the NH mountains in my travels, and say to myself there goes Ame, only to laugh and say to myself, Nope, she's in Europe. But, they're doing their thing like you are, and just trying to live a normal happy life. What is normal? Whatever makes you happy, and gets you through this obstacle course called life. When I was 23 it was go to school, get a job, get married. buy a house, and raise a family. Nothing wrong with that, but it's not for everyone. People love freedom, and want to do their thing. Tradition is what you make it in your mind, not what is considered normal by the masses. I give you credit just talking non stop for 45 minutes about this topic. After 5 minutes I'd bore myself to sleep...LOL The way you talk it resonates a philosophy way beyond your years. you have a deepness about you that's very calming and yet it comes across as very simple and appealing. That's rare for a person your age. To make it to 2 years, you should be very proud of yourself. Thanks again for the wonderful video and as always safe travels and best thoughts always from the White Mountains of New Hampshire USA. NH motto "Live Free or Die"
Well said Victor!! Ame is an amazing person and it took so much courage to say all this, a real insight into her life and the challenges for two years. Respect to Ame - I am proud of her doing this, she is a philosopher among many other things! I hope she can vary the lifestyle and still continue van-life in some way or go for the next dream. It would be the end of an era and sad for many of us, but I'd hope we could follow her on the next journey in YT/Insta/Patreon. The most important thing is Ame is happy and doing well in my opinion (she is so talented she can achieve anything!). I think so many supporters will be rallying around her, which she deserves. And your support matters.
Well said...
I loved your talk. But miss seeing the choreography of your dance. YT forbid it? And your mom? It wasn't sexual it was real and expressive. 🎉
I see others have beat me to the draw Victor so I am in agreement with their "Well said."
I think she already is living the dream. When you're that young you never really know what you want, or you're just doing what everyone else does. When I was her age, yes times were a lot better pre internet, but everyone did the same thing, "the normal thing", but then that got stale and mundane. To do what she does at such a young adult age is remarkable. I saw where a 14 year old girl has just bought a fixer upper camper van and will be doing the same thing, but that's becoming the norm now in the 21st century.@@MJackson1999
Ame, thanks for being so honest about your van life. It's rare to see on UA-cam.
Such a heartfelt honest episode. Ame is a beautiful old soul in a beautiful young container. If the time is near for her to stop her van life, I hope she continues to be in the public eye. I can see her easily having her own travel show on the Travel Channel. With her talents, she could produce and direct the filming as well as being the host.
Ich sehe das genauso, Ihre kleinen Video sind Klasse und ich schaue sie mir gerne an. Sie ist ehrlich. Aber für so ein hübsches junges Mädchen ist das kein Leben auf Dauer. Es mag sehr viel Spaß machen und auch Interessant sein. Und gut finde ich, dass Ihre Eltern zum Teil auf Sie aufpassen. Das Leben in einem Van ist eigentlich nur etwas für einen Urlaub. Sie ist hübsch und findet ganz bestimmt einen anständigen Freund der mit Ihr unterwegs ist. Ich wünsche Ihr das von ganzem Herzen.
STOP cursing her-why should she stop and why do you entertain such evil thoughts out loud??
Ame such amazing beautiful person 😊❤😊
Evil thoughts? You need to see a specialist.@@KingoftheRoad-2023
Well put, she’s definitely an old soul I love the way you see the world ❤
Hello, this is Doug from the United States. I enjoy watching your videos from time to time. Please do not stop posting and doing what you are doing! It’s very authentic. You are a very wise young woman. More wise than your age that’s for sure. I appreciate your cute personality and your honesty. Keep it up! Don’t stop! ✊🏼Keep tuning into your heart and your soul. So far it seems to be working very well for you. ❤
Ame is honest, speaks her mind, loves vintage and has a unique style of her own. I never like vanlifers all the much because they seem to be false, so on seeing Ame for the first time, I was hooked. I love her very laid-back way, and no matter if she's having a shit day, is always honest. Her backstory is authentic; Ame is truthful and full of fun. And this is why I tune in as soon as she puts out another video with her adorable Gigi. Much love to you Ame, ~Wendi 💝💕 🌟
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You are my favorite person to watch on youtube. Everyone learns lessons in life. People just learn differently, and a lot of times, based on their own lives, they come to different conclusions. I admire how you and your parents have decided to live your life. Free spirits, like me. I lived the corporate life, which was aweful. But never being married or having never had kids, I could always decide when to move on. It's a nice thing to have, freedom.
You know, you don’t owe « us » anything. No explanation. No nothing. You produce videos about your life and either that resonates with people or it doesn’t. There will always be people who think someone is too much, too free, too individual, too whatever.
I admire how true you are to yourself, and at the same time you’re not the same person you were when you started. You’ve grown. Learned. Changed. And nothing ever stays the same.
I keep thinking g about having spent five months in my husbands van and how I couldn’t wait to get home. It was too much for me. I loved travelling but I also loved coming home. And I know that being with a person 24/7 is a massive and complex challenge of both people aren’t dedicated to self reflection and growth.
Whatever you do, do you for you and forget what anyone says here. It’s YOUR life and all of your followers will go on with their lives whether or not you continue to make videos.
I, for one, want to thank you for your spark, joy, silliness and honesty.
Be well Ameline.
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Your demystifying the Insta Vanlife is courageous, as is your sharing more of the authentic, delightful self in recent videos. Ultimately, every lifestyle has aspects that suck. Living in a house can be plenty unhealthful, too. But many of us don’t admit the flaws of our lifestyle. I suspect you may be reaching a point where you crave another on your journey, as you deserve. I hope you find that person; it will reenergize you. Cheers, Ame. I wish you the best!
Ame & Gigi always brighten my weekend.
Keep shining and thriving Baby Duckling 💕.
The world is at your disposal, Ame, and you make the most of every opportunity that is presented to you! You see the positives as well as the drawbacks of van life, and carefully work your way through the maze. Thank you for your honest assessments and for realizing all the strengths that you
possess! Enjoy your van life and all of your adventures with sweet Gigi!💕
Hi Ame, we have been living vanlife in Europe now for almost 8 years and there is a vanlifers community out there somewhere. We always stay at free park4night spots and there we usually meet the other likeminded vanlifers. We often seem to return to the same places and then meet more or less the same people. Some are very helpful, become friends and are of all ages and nationalities. The oldest being a German couple of 95 years old and still enjoying the vanlifestyle. Also we encounter a lot of young solo vanlifers like yourself, both male and female solo travelers. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone, there are many others vanlifers out there waiting to become your new vanlife friends. Also, so very cool your parents are vanliving it too ❤. Cheers from Pet & Pat
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Untill a bunch of criminals rob you or worse . EU isn't that safe a place In A lOT more places and growing
Do you use your UK insurance ? Or get an international one?
Ame, you are so brave wearing your heart on your sleeve, and sharing the positives and negatives of van life for you. You are undoubtedly wise beyond your years, and understand how certain periods and events in ones life can have a negative affect on your health, but recognising it is part of dealing with it. Plus even though you are a independent Lady having Mom & Dad when times get difficult is a blessing. The videos you make to keep us all entertained are really funny witty and very well executed. Thank you Ame.
Ame, thanks for sharing your heart and thoughts in this overview of your journey! You are such a beautiful person, your character and standards. I appreciate that you don't compromise those standards by yielding to peer pressure. No excuses are needed about the lifestyle and the 60's style clothes because it says so much about your character. You're a beautiful soul, positive in the face of difficulty, and humble enough to open your heart about the tough times, and sharing the positive. In my mind you are a picture of perfection, someone who cares well for herself, and has respect for herself and others! I pray 🙏 for your safety and happiness. God bless you young lady and prosper your future. Much love to you 💯💞🌺🌺
Brilliantly said Merlynn. I really hope our support helps Ame and reminds her how much of a gem she is! Ame has had many challenges through these two years, which I am sad to hear. I think she needs to get creative now on how to continue van-life, varying things and improving her life so things are easier and work more with her creative/content making lifestyle. Maybe a Gloria 2 is on the cards, I would be sad to see Gloria go but Ame could keep her forever in storage (so many fond memories). Maybe Ame will aim for the next dream of hers and that would be a sad end to an era. She can achieve anything she sets her mind to. I believe in her. And I am proud of her speaking so much truth here, she is amazing. I hope we can continue to follow Ame's journey in whatever shape it takes here in YT/Patreon/Insta and support her.
Thank you Ame for going deep there, sharing so much of your life and thoughts - you are a veteran of van-life and there is no one better to speak of it 👏 What a speech, I was captivated and I could listen to you speak for hours!! You can be proud of this effort. Speaking truths, weighing the good and the bad. Which you have always done but not to this extent. You are living a fantastic life of freedom that many dream of and you are fulfilling your purpose of being creative. You went for the dream, made that leap, executed your plan and Gloria build and achieved it! What a two years! But I also understand it has so many challenges and it's not the easiest life and difficult for you to keep healthy at all times. You have a lot of creative/content work to do, so you are not sitting out, chilling all day watching sun rises, sunsets and the moon ; )
I am really glad you did this, a real memorable episode! 🔥 I love working out and running, cycling every week so I empathise with you on wanting to be healthy and in shape, being the best of version of you. Will you be continuing van-life or varying life up abit to get some more balance and a healthier option for you? Maybe a larger Gloria 2 would give you some more comfort, but I am not sure it addresses everything you spoke about. You need to look after yourself and you need to be happy, this is your life, your script. Or is this the end of your van-life adventure? If so I am sure a huge part of your fan-base, if not ALL, will follow your adventures wherever you choose to go next. I am with you for that journey! Because you are a fantastic and likeable person, with so many talents and abilities and you can achieve anything you set your mind to! ⭐
Take care, Michael
Simp. Lol there are van lifers that have done it for 15 years or more. Shes still a newbie
Thank you Ame for being so candid. You really laid it out there. It was interesting to hear a more serious perspective on your lifestyle. I guess we, your viewers, never really think about what efforts you expend in order to keep us smiling. No doubt van life has been a journey of growth and experience but maybe it's time to take a breather for a bit. I forget sometimes you're only 23. You've a lifetime still ahead. Who knows where what you have learned, and will learn in this current process will lead you. The sky's the limit!!
P.S. I'm probably not wrong in thinking that most, if not all of your viewers would've liked to have been able to give you a friendly, supportive hug right there at the end of the video. Thanks again, Ame!
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New to your channel, about 2 months. Jumped around liked everything you put out so far, and thanks for your candor in this episode . I am thinking about van life myself in America . Nothing in life is easy but it is always an experience. I hope you get what you want in life. If van life was just fun all the time it would not be real. You learn and with every day on the road. You have had such an experience so far to live life to it's fullest potential. (Potential that is right for you at this time). So much to look back on one day. Stay Safe, keep your guard up but don't be afraid to let people in, you will make friends for life. Mike.
Ame, I have been totally impressed with what you have done and who you are and I still am. I am a senior citizen now and life is not easy sailing and very stressful, especially with all the monthly bills. I envy your freedom.
You are also always so well presented and I love your individuality, don't change for anyone. You are the way you are and we all love you for it. You have recreated your life once so there is no doubt you can do it again. One last thing, you are looking absolutely beautiful today.
The brutal honesty of Ame is so refreshing. I love how she doesn't sugar coat it. And open about her struggles. As a middle aged person I wish I was as brave as her and just say fuck it, I have to do what's best for me. I look forward to her channel weekly, because it brings a bit of peace in my otherwise chaotic life of mine. So thank you. For sharing your journey..❤❤❤❤
Actually this was one of my favorite videos of yours. I get that you like to be able to indulge your creative side on your channel, and you do a great job with that by the way. But to break that up with a heart to heart chat about your van lifestyle and all the things that go with it good or bad, enables you to truly connect with your audience on a whole other level that's surprisingly effective. Although I would never chose the lifestyle personally, it was still so very interesting to hear about so many of your experiences and your range of emotions as well as things that I had never before considered. So very thought provoking and well done Ame, and I look forward to seeing more of this in the future!! All the best to you!!🙂🙂
Hi Ame!😃 We already traveled without filming and now we are filming and sharing it on UA-cam too! When we traveled without filming it was easier to create relationships and talk to people! When we are creating content we are always thinking about what we can do next and a bit closed in our world! The hardest part is finding a balance! We really liked your videos and until December we will be in the south of Spain, if you come to these parts we would love you join us 😘
I know sometimes people just like to rant and don't want solutions, but if quitting vanlife for health reasons isn't an option, at least think about upgrading to something less stealthy but more comfortable and spacious.
I appreciate the level of honesty put into this, cause it's really easy to romanticise that lifestyle and overlooking all the little things that end up wearing you out in the long run.
Personally I could never imagine myself in a converted sprinter, I need more space (and a proper bathroom), so I applaud you on managing to live in Gloria happily for so long in the first place.
Hopefully to another 2 good years on the road then and if not...that's not the end of the world either, just the start of another chapter. ^^
I've sensed for many weeks that the deracination of van life was getting to you. Sometimes it's good to stop and gather moss. You are so intelligent, interesting and articulate and I found this broadcast fascinating and psychologically insightful. You have done amazingly well in going 0 to 400k followers in such a short time, and we've all enjoyed the trip. If it's time to move on, so be it. I'm sure a great future awaits whatever it might be.
I hope you get everything you want in life ❤ and whatever you decide to do, we’ll always be here watching and supporting
Ame. You shed light on a lot of feelings I've had in watching your channel. I thought it was because I was seeing your life out of my lens and being such a free spirit, that it perked my interest. I've shared your channel with many people and the responses have been creepy. I'm an older man and people think it is weird, but honestly I get to learn about different places, see how you get through some dicey situation, and am on the sidelines rooting you on. I like people that are out of the box because as a spiritual psychologist, I am out of the box myself. I've often wondered if not having social interactions and being in a relationship would pay some toll on you - knowing that we all need social bonding, but it seems that your parents have stepped into that role when things are a bit rough. Thanks for your honesty and keep the faith. Continue to do you and know that I am a big fan and you have made an impact on me.
Thank you for the chat & being so honest & open, you've built the most strange & wonderful channel & are always an entertaining, charming, intelligent, hilarious & thoughtful host. I hope you can get better sleep in the days ahead & maybe reconfigure your van for a more comfortable arrangement for that. In your younger days you can get away with a higher level of discomfort & sleep/rest deprivation but it will catch up to you at some point & I don't want you to do anything or be stuck in things that are doing damage & will make your life suck in the long run. I do love your energy, enthusiasm & resourcefulness, & would love to hear more about your experiences in whatever format you want to film in, travelling, confessionals, whatever. You should write a book & film a documentary or biography story, you've got a unique voice & I really like how you speak & how your mind works, & how you put your ideas together & let them tumble out & discover their connections to each other, not to mention you have top taste in soundtracking music. It would be amazing if you could go back through your archives & put together a playlist for the channel of all the funky jams & outstanding songs you've had in your videos. I know why you dance & I like what makes you happy, & hanging out with you makes me happy. Have a fantastic week & get as wild as you want to be, cheers, Tom 💗🔥💗😊🙏
Simply brilliant, start to finish. You've grown so, so much since I first started following you. Keep strong!
This is one of the greatest episodes ame and I love how you have opened up your heart to the lifestyle you live.
I have often wondered how you will be able to build on what you have achieved and how the next two years of your life will look.
At the age of 23 you have the world at your feet and with a creative mind you have I am sure it will be absolutely incredible.
Keep doing what you are doing ame and thanks again for sharing with us all the last two years of your daily life.
You are a one in a million.
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Ame! You've been so kind in sharing your ups, downs with the life you now have. Being on the road all the time, does not allow you to effectively lay down roots, be part of a community, have persistent friendships, etc. Also too, your closest connections - your parents, are also on the road, so its hard to "come home" to a place where you can totally relax, have room, lounge around, etc. It would get to ANYONE after awhile. If I may Ame, I have some suggestions, maybe as a way of getting close to a "sweet spot". Here's what I'm thinking:
1) Sleep situation - get a hammock, and have two hooks diagonally in your van from the ceiling to hang the hammock down. This will allow you to stretch fully. Try a hammock first in a campsite or forest, see how you sleep.
2) Friends and Community - You need a touchstone location(s) that you always make your way back to, that you can participate in its activities, and get to know the people and make connections. There is the language barrier outside of the UK - however, there is one location in warm weather Europe where most young persons speak English. Its Portugal. I suggest you spend some time down there and speak with all the young people you meet. You'll find that pretty much everyone under 40 in Portugal speaks English. Add to that, there are fesitvals that run in various places that you can choose from. Chat with the young locals, find out when these festivals are, meet up with them when the festivals happen, and volunteer to help in getting the festival going. Since these are recurring, and if you help out each time, you get to know the locals, they trust you more, and you can have even better connections, find yourself being fed by a grandma, get sent off with a pile of food, and with any luck, you'll find a strapping young lad to focus your affections on. By that time, you may wish to put down roots. Besides, Portugal has cork oak forests - the trees you liked and saw in Spain - remember? Also, while Europe was roasting in 40C weather, I experienced 28C in Lisbon in this past AUGUST. The biggest parties btw, are the Feast of St Anthony in Lisbon, and the Feast of St John in Porto. Also, if yu need a BritFix - head down to the Algarve...you'll run into loads of Brits to make you feel more at home in the warm weather by the sea.
3) I don't know how much they are in Europe, but in Canada (I'm Canadian), there are many "virtual office" locations that you can rent per month (anywhere from $30 - $100 in Canada) where you can use their address, receive mail and packages, use meeting rooms on occasion, etc. This may help with having a central location to receive everything you need, and the staff there can scan and email all the documents to you.
4) When you have coffee, only have it in the morning, and also try going a day or two with coffee at all but a herbal tea. You may find that you sleep better - caffeine can linger in your system for many hours affecting sleep.
Keep exploring Ame. Stay safe as you go about your days, and be kind to yourself. You don't have to solve all your problems at once. Continuous small improvements add up, and in time, can put you in a completely different place. Be well luv!
Wow Ame, just started watching. What a title!! You have my full attention, will comment again once I am finished. 35min episode as well, must be the biggest ever! As you well know I like the deep and heart to heart chats you have done in YT and in messages, its REAL and for me that is the most valuable 🙏. And what a good time to do it, after 2 years of van life, alot of life lived in that time!! Hope you are well❤
Thanks so much Michael :)
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Hi Ame! I can totally relate to everything you say here! I've been living on the road for the past 3 years. Been watching your videos from the beginning of your journey. Good stuff! Stay awesome!
That was intense, Ame! You are authentic and an inspiration to many. You're doing a great job and are so funny and entertaining. Please look after yourself and put you health first. You certainly are unique and many people have grown fond of you. Stay strong and you'll figure out the best path ahead. Much love.
It's nice to hear your thoughts and feelings, Ame. I suppose there's always pros and cons to how we live our lives...we just hope the pros outweigh the cons, and if they don't then even small changes in our lifestyle can make a dramatic improvement. I think the reason people may stare at you when you go out is because the clothes you wear are really amazing, like the dress you wore in this video. I don't think they're scoffing at you, it's probably more like admiration.
You said it how it is, Vanlife is great but can be hard and difficult. I didn't get my shit together until I turned 30ish. I was too busy having a great time, didn't want to get serious or conform to the 9 to 5. My 20's was the best part of my life, so many treasured times and people. Yes it was somewhat hedonistic and am ever thankful for it. Your Vanlife journey is teaching you and steering you towards your next gig, whatever that maybe. Keep on embracing life and you'll find it, much love and thanks, take care 😘
“ Its beneficial to a certain point to do this kind of stuff alone, and then once you reached a really healthy point, you can then start going down, because you live to much in your own head and your own world and sometimes we’re not accurate about things”
Wise words and I think not just for Van life but Life itself. Tnx for sharing your experiences Ame”
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After 2 years of watching your van life, I can say I've truly enjoyed every minute of the ride!
I just love how honest and upfront you are every single video.
Hi Ame Thank you for your honest and open views on vanlife. This is a great video. As with all things there are advantages and disadvantages, but I feel that you have achieved so much of your dream lifestyle even since I have been subscribed to your posts. You have always stayed happy and optimistic in your videos, which can't always have been easy. Taking the good with the not so good with a positive attitude is a real gift that you have. Above all, you have to consider your wellbeing and stay healthy, Maybe you could do more info videos like this ? Look after yourself (and Gigi) ❤
Thanks for sharing, and so eloquently. I’m six years into van life, and although decades older than you, so much n common. Mostly those who have not traveled or lived an alternate lifestyle have no idea of the reality. But my life leading up to van life wasn’t ‘normal’ anyway and never had been, and that comment you made about seeing everyone at the fast food place made me laugh. Sometimes the outsiders can see the craziness much clearer. Anyway, trust your journey and keep being creative-that’s the necessity!
Hey Ame! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being so honest.
I've been living in a small van for 8 months, travelling and living off-grid for the past 5 months. I came to it the same way you did, via an interest in tiny home living. I can definitely relate to you when you speak about wanting to look after yourself, physically and mentally. I used to do yoga every morning and play volleyball, and now the opportunity to do any exercise is becoming few and far between. Living in such a small place of my own is wonderful and freeing to a certain extent, but it can also feel restricted and you are always open to the elements - feeling the effects of Storm Ciaran as I type...! Recently I have had moments of sadness, I think mainly due to the instability of van life. I guess with everything though, there needs to be balance. Balance that seems quite hard to find when you are almost living life from scratch. I think what may make it difficult for me is that this lifestyle is so far removed from the "norm", as you point out in the video, that you feel not entirely supported. That anything could happen to you and certain people might not have your best interests at heart. I think that can get me down.
There is something that interests me regarding your journey; do you feel like you wanted to create a community on some level from the very beginning, which is why you created this channel?
Thanks Ame, and all the best!
Love hearing your real perspective!. Easy to see how the insta image of it could hide the reality. Suppose it's like anything...until you try for yourself, you won't know. I want to try van life, but I can see how it could be lonely and isolating. You're lucky to be at the beginning of your life journey, so you've many more things to look forward to, and I'm quite certain you'll soon have the home base you might be looking for and well deserve, and could have the best of both worlds xxx
I've been watching you for awhile now . I live vicariously through your travels. I'm disabled so I really look forward to seeing all the places you go and your adventures. I do understand that it must be very challenging at times. I definitely don't have the courage,even if I could physically and mentally, do the things you do everyday. I would be in a pure panic if I couldn't speak the language or was alone and needed assistance with something. I live in a tiny home but it is on the larger side(399 square feet with a loft) .I am blessed that my mom allows me a place on her property to put it. It can be moved,but only by a special vehicle.
If you ever had the opportunity to visit the states,I would let you park here in a heartbeat. I love my tiny space and I think you would definitely fit into a tiny home community. Not sure if there is anything like that where you are at. You could still travel in your Van or even a smaller tiny house,while having a home base to just settle sometimes.If you decide to move on from Van life,I hope you will continue to make videos. You have such a personality for entertainment,and brighten my day. Also love the fact you are into the 1960's. I was born in 1976,but if I could have experienced life as a young adult in the 60's ,I would have loved that (the music,clothes, everything) Take care,and keep just being you. We all are here for the journey ❤
Mark your calendars. I knew this was going to happen. Ame has officially absolutely destroyed the internet. Please be grateful to Ame. And I love her.
WTF??
Stop simping
It's embarrassing
@@info_foxdon’t shoot the messenger
oh god that classic Ame kiss at the end of all your video's ! ....its like icing on a cake , a beautiful bow on a x-mas gift ,a pretty bow on gigi's head , beautiful way to end a video ! thank you for sharing......
Thanks for being honest! ❤ You aren't the only van-lifer who has changed their mind and settled down into a fixed home.
It sounds as if you are reaching the next stage of life. It can not be an easy lifestyle.All the best for the next, looking after your body, your self, and the next dream.I am sure 90% of us here will follow you on your next adventure.
Hello Ame, a little advice ? I love listening to you and watching your adventures so much. But, at the end of the day it is your life. So, do what your heart is asking you to do and you will b fine... If you keep making videos for UA-cam, I will continue watch your stories. I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.. Nothing but love. Rek
I'm 52, Over the road truck driver, and can totally respect & concure you thoughts & feelings. Keep on keeping on.
Death Stranding ? 😁
I will miss Ame’s weekly video if she decides to call it quits… But can certainly understand. Thank you Ame. You are so talented. You have brought me many moments of joy. I certainly get the importance of self care though. All the best to you.
Great post! Very professional and smart UA-camr! 👍
Great informational psa and update. Thanks, Amè. I truly hope you never go away, but you've gotta do what's healthy for you.
Wish I could be there as a friend, but I also respect and understand how important your independence is to you.
*I adore it when you dress retro 60's chic, beauty.
Hi Ame. When you go out in your 60's fashion, the reason people are staring at you is because you are beautiful and you really look like a movie star. They're just trying to figure out who you are. I bet there's not a single person in the comments that doesn't agree with me.
Made the same comment, but accidentally deleted
it. Hey Ame, he's right. you are a star in'24! You have the expressiveness. beauty, and style of the 60s.. Don't let the isolation bring you down. Find your tribe , stay. level, Love as many family members as you can, and forget the rest.
I think folks want more of YOU, whatever form that takes. You have a talent for connecting with people. Be well.
Thank you Ame for your honest perspective on van life. I love your weekly contributions, your beauty, your cheerfulness and your unique approach to life. Keep going!
I follow you and 4 other vanlifers because the lifestyle is so different from my own. I am curious about their background and what makes them tick, so I am glad for this talk from you and would love to hear more of this info type of content now and then.
I can’t believe you are only 23! In a good way. I think that is the wisest most insightful 30 minutes I have ever spent listening to some one talk about van life. I think we all get trapped in our lives for various reasons and want or need to escape - want and need are very different. And I sense you’re probably little stuck where you are right now. What ever you do next don’t stop being creative and beautiful. What you create is so interesting and different to everything out there. I think you have found your community we’re just all 1000s of miles apart. I could certainly talk to you for hours. I don’t normally comment on your vids, but I’m betting you get more comments on this vid than any other, because this without doubt is the best example I have seen of a creator connecting with an audience ever. I could talk / listen to you for hours. Be gentle with yourself.
Warmest Rgds, Brian
Especially on the weekends, have you heard what plays on radio….Ame is just realising what she’s hearing on public radio
Hello Ame thank you for your honest talk on your experience I appreciate your perspective. I my self live in a truck camper for 1.5 years now and i can relate to what you are sharing. One thing i find frustrating is vehicle maintenance when it happens unexpectedly. Also i dont care for the gym, but i wanted to suggest maybe getting a bicycle as it is good for the whole body. Anyways thanks again for your experience and safe travels to you and puppy...
You're gonna do well in life without effort. Enjoy the journey!
Thank you, that's sweet of you to say
@@ameinavan 🙏
Nice to see you again Ame, keep the video's coming. Stay safe x
It's always wonderful to see a video from you Ame. You're the beautiful, elegant side of vanlife, that's why you fit right in. No one does it quite like you, such a fine lady. I'm happy to hear you're still so enthusiastic, but not surprised because you know how to have fun. Safety has always been my concern with you, your staying safe is appreciated, we want you happy, but safe and sound every day and every night because you're special to so many of us. You make cool movies too, so much fun, Love you Ame.
Ame, this was such a great video. I love that you are who you are unapologetically. I wish more people could be like that in this world. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. I do look forward to your videos and adventures every week. It's like seeing what "friends" are up to. Have you ever considered doing upgrades or changes to Gloria to fit your current lifestyle better? You do seem to have some options in that category. Stay happy and stay safe!
Its wonderful hearing you pour your heart out.....
I miss a bath too! Lol
Whats your next plan? I hope the best for you! And stay safe....
Were u single during this time?
Hi AME, I think its time for GLORIA 2. A new build to make your living easier and freeing up time for other stuff.
A thoughtful, honest and reflective sharing of your experience of vanlife. Hope you find the parts you feel need balancing out. ❤️
Great chat, Ame. Best of luck to you!
Take a vacation, find a roommate situation in an interesting place, and keep filming. We'll still be here following you. There are lots of van-lifers who settled down and their following is still growing, watching them grow. Ambition Strikes, Van Wives, ... have all stopped traveling and still keep their business. I wish you all the best, and your creativity is unlimited!
This is 💯 relatable for me.
Dude it’s for sure easier here in the USA.
Plus being an introvert makes it hard to trust someone to let them into your personal bubble.
That makes it hard to find friends no doubt. About to finish my third year in my van with no friends 🤣 ready to live in a house too. Hope you figure the situation out and get your soak on.
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Thanks Ame, you provide a much-needed warmth to yt!
Imagine you buy a cheap house in the middle of the US and have it as home-base. you could venture to all corners of the America while having a place to take a break!
but also if you just flat out need break from the van don't worry we will all be here still watching the vids!
I'm so glad you did this episode, I'm thinking of living in my van and it's been so informative, you have been so REAL. If you are finding it difficult communicating with people you should try a few live videos, you can then interact with your fans. It might make you feel a bit better. I look forward to more informative videos coming our way. 😂 take care of yourself.
I'm surprised Ame hasn't been approached by a professional van conversation company for a long term loan of one of their vehicles. She basically makes vanlife glamorous by being associated. They'd shift a lot of product ! 😊
They go with people with much more followers
There’s almost no way she hasn’t had offers to promote brands. The fact that she chooses to focus on her art (cinematography) and story telling rather than push product says everything about her personality.
Her authenticity is refreshing in a space where people regularly bend into whatever let’s them be successful. I’m May be projecting but I think she realizes what a trap it would be to get cornered in a deal that requires you to conform to someone’s demands.
she takes pride in building her own van , if some van company gave her a new van it wouldnt be the same gloria.....she loves her Gloria......
@jimbopeebles8210 she would most definitely promote a Brand. She actually does. The "jackery". And I think someone online work thing well. But she had agreees to limit how much she speak about them because she wasn't to actually use the products for a long period of time before giving reviews.
You are like “Brigitte Bardot in a Van”. You look allot like her! A true natural beauty! 💜 Would be interested to know when you started liking 60’s music and clothes….did you like 60’s stuff as a kid or did it start later in your life? I love 60’s stuff also…. But I am much older than you. Love your videos! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 You are a free spirit! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
GIRL. As a full time small van traveler myself, this is the most honest response I’ve ever seen on this topic. Especially the disconnection to reality and existential thoughts that being in isolation can bring it gets so fucking weird sometimes, the health issues that come from it too, never hear anyone talk about it. I will say that I have a very different experience than you doing seasonal work in the US, but all around you fucking nailed it. Thank you for sharing.
Looks like a lot of people have given you a lot of good advice. So here is mine. First you could do a partial rebuild of your van with a good shower. Everyone would benefit with a base. Tiny home, prefab home, apartment condo etc. I'm just a part time traveler. I own my apartment, it only costs $300/mo. while I'm away. You are young, beautiful, and very likeable. You have so much potential, my advice is to make the van life part time for a few years while you fulfill that potential with a happier richer life!
Very honest and sincere advice and recounting the risks and sacrifices of van life. I would suggest a retreat to take a month off at your grandparents and caring for yourself again. What you do is hard and very risky but everyone needs to pamper themselves from time to time. Stretch out in bed again and take a relaxing bubble bath while you plan your next adventure. ...Just a suggestion 😘
All things come to an end, good and bad! Everything has its season, and if the season for solo van life has come to an end, then that's fine too. It's not easy to be alone, especially to travel solo. Everyone needs and thrives with roots and social connections! We are social beings! Go out there and do whatever your heart desires and needs!
Amé is a Creative, an all around talent. Gifted, is what it's normally called but Creative is beyond that. She can create with little effort mostly because of the "in your head" issue. Being creative isn't on and off. It's a constant wave of thinking, from beginning to end of the creative process. You actually think and build it in your mind before it becomes a physical tangent thing. To others, that's why it looks so easy when we do it.
Is the- learning how to control it. "It" being a runaway imagination. That imagination can build scenarios out of thin air. And draw a conclusion that doesn't exist in reality. Stumbling blocks that hinder the project.
I'm saying this from experience. Self employed Artist. Self talk can be devastating to the Heart of a Creative. Self doubt can set in to defeat you.
There is an answer to this and it is a discipline for the mind just like exercise is to the body.
Structure, essentially. Filling your day with routine. Like putting a leash of a dog, the mind can run away if not held in check. That's the negative-ish side that comes with the Gift of Creativity. Don't ask why, it just does. There is no cure from it. One just learns to rein it in when it goes off the rails, so to speak.
I'm humored by it now, because I identify with it.
It was a damn struggle. It's a weight too heavy on the Soul to carry. And I don't want her soul to be crushed by it.
The cure is to structure nearly every moment of your day... and keep yielding to it. The change of the structure will feel like a cage to freedom but it frees you up more.
And Creatives desire accomplishments more than anything.
And, yes, at times you'll fail. Just forgive yourself and don't dwell on it.... Keep moving along. If you're not failing, you're not trying. Another lesson I learned. Life is full of failure and that leads to humility, and success is when the party starts. And confidence grows like weeds.
Life, has many forks on the path in this, our Journey. She'll chose wisely.... is my hope.
Your videos are always so creative and honest not a lot of you tubers tell the whole van life story as it is. This is a real down to earth vlog of what is really like this must have taken some doing as it's a very personal thing to do and it's much appreciated by all of us especially anyone thinking about doing it full time. I remember once you said at least once in your life time you should give it a go even it's it's only for a few weeks experience the living the life as they say and see if you like it.👍
You briefly mentioned the best motto, (in your own words): *Loving what you do; helps* , (makes all the effort of daily living of life; *sort-of fade* into the background). Glad you are here and keep on trying‼️
After living in Europe for 3 years and now doing vanlife in the US (home) I feel exactly what you’re saying about communication barriers and isolation.
I was so depressed and isolated in Europe and it’s just so much easier to do everything (even if I’m alone) in a country where I can easily communicate and relate to the people there. That was also very apparent when I got to visit the UK while in Europe. I wish had more opportunity to spend time there but COVID had other plans 😝
🤔🤔If you believe what's said on the internet this young woman is a millionaire.........well done babe!
Millionaire ..you Shaw. May be. $6 thousand ..for utube .payments ..I herd.
@@countrabricksbuildcraze8916I read she's worth a couple of million. They just pluck numbers out of thin air! Maybe 40K per year with YT advertising revenue and product placement. She could afford to stay in nice campsites but obviously chooses not to
It’s not true about her being a millionaire. There are people looking to make money so they set up their website claiming they have all this sensationalized information you want to know about someone and when more people check their page out thats how they start making money. That’s how it was explained to me.
What who's a millionaire? I know it's not Ame ...so when the heck we talking about?
😅😅😅😅 yeah ok man why is this negative info? She must hit something in you to try to take her shine, but I believe she could give a fck what you think LOL sorry Ame JS...
Would love more of these videos, they are so real and needed ❤
Thank you for this very honest video. It's interesting to hear your take on vanlife. I sleep in my van and live in it half time here in Sweden. My biggest worrie is when the van breaks down. A car is a car and it cant be trusted. I have a cheap appartment i rent..and thats for me pure gold. When ever i feel for it i can go there and do my landry..take a shower..sleep in a real big bed and have some space. I work so therefore i'm always not so far from home and the beautiful streams where i'm flyfishing. Thanks again for a great video. May the force be with you.❤
a house is a trap , you go to work all day to pay for it to just sleep in it, i want o buy a house but its 10x my salary, if i saved every penny after all my bills it would take me 32 years to buy anything affordable, not even a dream house
I see more and more young people sticking 2 fingers up to this whole concept life which is just debt. My first mortgage was three grand the same house now it would be three hundred grand , now how did that happen. The average house price in London is now £536 k and other cities and towns are catching up, its so friggin wrong that successive governments allowed this to happen with no control whatsoever
Very heartfelt Ame, you are an inspiration ❤❤
You need to take care of yourself and everything else will follow. Wishing you every good wish and happiness. There are a lot of people here who deeply care about you. Have a lovely weekend💗💗💗💗😊
We’ve all been there with you through your travels and you’ve been wonderful to us all. It’s not easy but you’ve been tough and tough enough to open up as you have. For that I, and no doubt thousands of others, thank you. 😊❤️ you’ve been and are an inspiration.
Also two years into the lifestyle - first without any job, now I work 10h a week which helped for my mental health (not too much to do, but more than nothing) - I also miss the gym, sometimes I manage to go running to stay kind of fit...
I agree in general with a lot of stuff, also about being alone. I'm more introvert, so this life made it WAAAY too easy to isolate myself... so I tried some communities (in Spain) which was fine for quite 4 months - but kinda still seeking my place in the world, which probably was the initial reason to start all this.
I appreciated the honest words - I always like when people talk about their inner world - people don't exchange enough on this.
Btw. it gave me chills when you were in Verona - I was there within the EXACT same time and passed maybe the parking you were staying (to start my trip to the city).
Anyway - greets from a (usually) silent follower. Good onward journey
This is super interesting hearing your explanation of 'observing the world feeling like your not being in it'.
such a good explanation , i love the idea of roaming free, also choosing the roads and people you give time too, always the best content :)
I am a vanlifer too so I can relate to most of your feelings and doubts. I think it will really help if you rent an airbnb for a few months in the year. I do 50/50 nowdays, summer mostly in the van, winter mostly airbnbs. Vanlife is chaotic and draining, so for working it is not good at all. Work really help to balance the mind. About feeling isolated, try to make friends among other travelers online. I have now long time friends this way, and this helps me a lot! random people you cross outside, not helpful because too far from your lifestyle, and as you said, too much of a language barrier.
Great video! Keep sharing your thoughts about everything you're going through
Ame is such an amazing and kind person. This was such a heartfelt episode. As with the extra insight into van life. I've never experienced van life. But I've always liked the idea of being off of the grid. And also to being a free spirit, to where I am not living in one area or city for the rest of my life. As there is so much life out there to experience.
In terms of a healthier van life experience, it might possibly be best to come up with a new van life strategy, that would suit all of your needs. So maybe some more regular / frequent visitations to your friends might be needed. Or for them to visit you at a location, for some valuable time with them. And also like you had mentioned you miss going to the gym. Exercise is also good for clarity of the mind, aswell as general fitness. So maybe a daily run could help compensate for when a gym is not in sight / for when you're not in a city.
But it would be brilliant to seeing you having the most exciting and enjoyable van life experiences in the future.
Love your honesty Ame, and I can identify with so many things you say. Hope you find an amazing community, group of friends and place to live. It’s only a matter of time I think. Take care 😊
Love your Videos and your unique style!
In my experience it all comes down to comfort in the long run. I started living in a small van in New Zealand and when I was back in Europe I bought a more luxurious big van and it made a big difference. Lived in the van for two years and now I'm living on a boat. Im never going back to a normal life. Check out boat life if you want to explore other parts of the world 🙂 With a sailboat you can go wherever you want.
Also the weather makes a big difference on how enjoyable van life is. When it gets cold it sucks. Only place you can go for winter is canary islands. Been there 2 times for the winter and it's sunny and warm there.
To stay in shape you have to find a active hobby like mountain biking or surfing or golfing etc.. That helps a lot aswell to be balanced ❤
Being true to yourself is amazing thing. We all love you and your journey. Thank you for being you ❤ and for this honest video. Stay positive, take care. 🙌🏻🙏🏻❤
Stay strong and take it easy, Ame! Keep us in your mind.
So well spoken and great describing van life and what it means for you. You are a beautiful soul as well as beautiful in looks..every time I see you you remind me of a cross between Bridget Bardot and Claudia Schiffer ( which I met when she first started out ) . Your humor and outlook and personality is what brings me in every time. I've been a professional photographer and I appreciate your style of filming. Stay true to yourself and stay fun and stay safe always. I and I'm sure so many appreciate you and what you do. It wouldn't surprise me to see you get into modeling or and acting at some point. You're a joy to watch.
A very good synopsis of two yrs of your van life. You put it very strait forward, the up n downs from when you first decided to hit the road, building your own home on wheels, finding an income to be able to sustain you. Your experiences along the way, you have a very strong self awareness n expressing those come out so freely with ease. Some struggle with expressing internal thoughts,feelings. You dont have that. You have a carefree outgoing happy attitude. I can see a book or film in the future making. You have what it takes, confidance, poise and courage. You also know when to make turns in your perspective of where you stand now as to when you first started. I commend you. You have my heartfelt encouragement and all the inspiration i feel. Take care stay safe and i wait for your next vlog with adventure. Yes, if this what i said makes any sense, keep moving forward. From Canada. Thankyou.😊
Thanks for posting Ame. You’re very multi-talented and excellent at filming, and would be an excellent artist. X
I suspected things were going awry! Your journey has been spectacular although I wasn’t aware of your site (channel) until about 11 months ago while I was looking at tiny homes / van (RV) life. It take a tremendous amount of amount of will power and determination to perceiver and tread a lone path. Especially at your young age. Having a dog is great for comfort but they do limit your flexibility as to where you can go but I suppose that having a dog give a sense of security and also a focus at low points.
Make sure you retain your individuality etc in the next part of your continued journey. Stay together and be proud of what you have achieved … for understanding yourself makes life’s choices so much easier further down the road.😊