How Our Parents Feel About Our Music Careers ft. Eric Nam I GET REAL Ep. #9 Highlight

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  • Опубліковано 26 сер 2020
  • Eric, BM, Peniel, and Ashley talk about how their parents feel about their careers in music.
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  • @DIVEstudios
    @DIVEstudios  3 роки тому +16

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  • @kriskafle0130
    @kriskafle0130 3 роки тому +1256

    Peniel is a smart "air head". He speaks with a very casual tone but his insights is so right on. Just the comment about the Asian parents bragging rights is funny but so spot on.

    • @hera0621
      @hera0621 3 роки тому +5

      So on point about that tho! And I meant Peniel is on point about the Asian parent bragging right thing.

    • @vocaleader2993
      @vocaleader2993 3 роки тому +1

      so true!

    • @AZ-ob7yi
      @AZ-ob7yi 3 роки тому +9

      There’s specific people like that. People who undervalues their own intelligence to live out a certain lifestyle that they desire

    • @darrylmalonzo2124
      @darrylmalonzo2124 3 роки тому +26

      @@AZ-ob7yi I think understate is a better word than undervalue. He knows he is smart but he feels he doesn't need to show it because of his lifestyle image. It's kind of like skater boys here in the US they talk a certain way which makes them seem unintelligent like "newb, rad, stoked, etc." but they are probably deeper than that.

    • @RavenXCI
      @RavenXCI 3 роки тому +3

      Himbo lolol

  • @daniaefe2192
    @daniaefe2192 3 роки тому +539

    I couldnt stop focusing on BM he looks amazing with blonde hair

  • @minnieegg363
    @minnieegg363 3 роки тому +579

    ASIAN PARENTS love their children as long as they get their BRAGGING RIGHTS - who can relate ughhhh

  • @dreampinkreel
    @dreampinkreel 3 роки тому +317

    I like Peniel’s way of explaining things so much, I think he’s really witty and funny

    • @leenah1287
      @leenah1287 3 роки тому +1

      same!

    • @nadungbagoy7145
      @nadungbagoy7145 3 роки тому +5

      But he changes once he speaks korean lol he becomes pure innocent n cute around BTOB tho

  • @catbus3258
    @catbus3258 3 роки тому +265

    Why nobody is talking about how caring Ashley is 😢 ily gurl💘

    • @TLAKMS
      @TLAKMS 3 роки тому

      What group is she in?

    • @khoiruliaferdiani101
      @khoiruliaferdiani101 3 роки тому +1

      @@TLAKMS ladies code!

    • @walnut5203
      @walnut5203 3 роки тому +1

      ferdiani was* they disbanded like 8 or 9 months ago I think

  • @itsonlyjulian
    @itsonlyjulian 3 роки тому +191

    Im so happy to hear that Ashely is enjoying life right now !! she brings such a wonderful calming humble side to things. I really wish her the best in life, and hoping for the day to hear her sing again !!!!! a music collab with all 4 of them would be epic !!!!!

    • @hafsachaudhry369
      @hafsachaudhry369 3 роки тому +1

      What is ashely is she a singer?

    • @mooli7667
      @mooli7667 3 роки тому +3

      @@hafsachaudhry369 yes she is a member of a group called ladies code.

    • @itsonlyjulian
      @itsonlyjulian 3 роки тому +1

      @@hafsachaudhry369 an AMAZING SINGER !!! she was in Ladies Code and they have some amazing songs !! "I hate you", "so wonderful", "Set me Free" are great songs check them out !!!

  • @kristina1195
    @kristina1195 3 роки тому +232

    I looove this conversations, because things you guys talk about don't affect only certain group of people. All parents love their bragging rights and all kids want to get to that point in life where their parents don't have to work anymore, It's just natural.

  • @jhukaychannel
    @jhukaychannel 3 роки тому +67

    "That's like the worst nightmare for an asian parent" 😂😂 oh my gad ahahah so trueeee

  • @hera0621
    @hera0621 3 роки тому +196

    Lmao the way BM straight up was like "Hell NO!" Haha and then he's like ooop. Haha it was just so funny. And aww I wish my mom would kinda be like that with me like Ashley's mom changed. #asianprobs

  • @roses7659
    @roses7659 3 роки тому +51

    My professor once said if you want to scare your parents, be an Art Major. 😂

  • @aneisap7517
    @aneisap7517 3 роки тому +62

    I swear Eric was like if they want him he'll go and there he is...😂😂

  • @dorijanagecan3931
    @dorijanagecan3931 3 роки тому +71

    This was deep. And honestly super important and needed to talk about. Me myself, i have huge plans for my life that take a huge risk. I don't even share my plan with people cuz im on my own there. Leveling my self up as Eric said.

    • @anee7558
      @anee7558 3 роки тому +4

      i hope you get to achieve all your plans!!

    • @ewaokes
      @ewaokes 3 роки тому +3

      Goodluck!

  • @callmema14
    @callmema14 3 роки тому +43

    I love how introspective and real these podcast have been! It's the most honesty I've heard from idols in a while!

  • @julyjuly7613
    @julyjuly7613 3 роки тому +167

    Wow never been this fast.

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 роки тому +6

    When Peniel said now everyone knows Eric Nam as a singer that hit me in the feels😭

  • @yangzeysherpa5595
    @yangzeysherpa5595 3 роки тому +16

    Relatable mostly Ashley at 3:23
    Asian parents and Asian Kids we just don't know how to express our emotions, towards eachother that's what I feel

  • @dominique2o06
    @dominique2o06 3 роки тому +11

    Eric is on the perfect episode if your Nam Nation you know what to expect already ... I see many idols either brought their family back to Korea or some just rather live overseas Ashely I hope your parents move back if it's what they want ❤

  • @boingboing4152
    @boingboing4152 3 роки тому +30

    ok but like BM looks really gooooood here

  • @lisanhuang526
    @lisanhuang526 3 роки тому +2

    Eric’s mum reminds me of my own mum at 1:23, those whispers to quit because she sees how stressful and difficult my job was. Aww~

  • @seokguk7071
    @seokguk7071 3 роки тому +42

    yes very important sunject BUT BM'S HAIR PLZ OHMYGOD he looks Gooo00000o00O000oooOOOOD

  • @pensuberry3103
    @pensuberry3103 3 роки тому +4

    i love how raw get real podcasts are. it’s so refreshing and makes you realise the point of view of these artists. great job peniel, ash and bm! you too eric 💕

  • @milkmysiNZ
    @milkmysiNZ 3 роки тому +2

    These four are honestly the best podcasters out. Although their sessions are really long they make it entertaining and really gives us entails on how their lives were of how their brains work and all. Loving them 💜💜

  • @jrt2394
    @jrt2394 3 роки тому +1

    love how insightful this discussion is! also really happy to see eric nam as a guest in this program with the 3 👌🏻

  • @karaxxii
    @karaxxii 3 роки тому +1

    My parents are just like Ashley's! Gawd, I am so thankful for them everyday, and what she said is true. It is a natural pressure, especially for the oldest child, and a single one at that, to make sure that your parents are okay and they are in good health and living their life comfortably.

  • @felicechen5485
    @felicechen5485 3 роки тому +3

    Ashley is so lucky to have a mom like that... MY mom is constantly reminding me I'm not married yet and when I will and start a family. Like I'm ready and she knows it but my boyfriend of 5 YEARS still "isn't ready". He himself doesn't know why he "isn't ready".

  • @ClintAndrie
    @ClintAndrie 3 роки тому

    I'm really glad these kind of episodes exist, knowing that the struggles of artists are practically universal

  • @v.madisonford6083
    @v.madisonford6083 3 роки тому

    Can't wait for the whole episode!!

  • @janelledonayre3931
    @janelledonayre3931 3 роки тому +3

    Ashleys parents resembles my parents and i feel ashley very well.. the more they didn't pressure me to help.. the more i think about the things i want to do for them

  • @meghanpartap9785
    @meghanpartap9785 3 роки тому +2

    Can’t believe I was so excited to watch this podcast and I just started listening like less than a month ago. It’s super good..!!!

  • @katherinleon
    @katherinleon 3 роки тому +4

    Eric, thank you so much for following your dream and becoming a beautiful voice that sings really great songs in my life.

  • @auroramarixx
    @auroramarixx 3 роки тому +1

    I love how ashley’s heart is so soft for her parents 😭

  • @alishbakhan7178
    @alishbakhan7178 3 роки тому +6

    Oh im so excited

  • @ArtisticMary
    @ArtisticMary 3 роки тому +3

    My parents are not Asians but I can totally relate! Especially that pressure that Ashley was talking about. So true!

  • @btslivevids8389
    @btslivevids8389 3 роки тому

    One of the best episode so far

  • @jennytam9704
    @jennytam9704 3 роки тому +32

    I'm living for this podcast

  • @neha3544
    @neha3544 3 роки тому

    Peniel seems so chill and laid back I love him

  • @AS-rg5wc
    @AS-rg5wc 3 роки тому

    I just love listening to them talk so much

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 роки тому

    It never fails to amaze me how much Eric had to strive to make his dream possible.. 🥺 it's so hard to go against parents let alone Asian parents!

  • @oniisenpai2497
    @oniisenpai2497 3 роки тому +3

    i think eric did the right choice from being silent office worker to famous singer. He is not supposed to be someone who have to do office work silently for all his year. He is born with to be known popular and respected by other people. No korean american person can beat his great personality and popularity. He is popular for being himself. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 роки тому

    This has to be my most fav ep from #GetReal so so relatable ❤️

  • @Nimbusstar17
    @Nimbusstar17 3 роки тому +9

    Just fyi, eric got into one of the big 4 accounting firms

  • @samriddhijain1651
    @samriddhijain1651 3 роки тому +81

    Ahh either I'm reading into this too much or Eric was seriously thinking about his own stance on marriage while talking with Ashley in the end.

    • @NikkaVim
      @NikkaVim 3 роки тому +3

      HAHAHAH same

    • @DB-ww9zg
      @DB-ww9zg 3 роки тому +3

      soo curious about that we should ask him

  • @yalazha
    @yalazha 3 роки тому

    Ashley's mom is so sweet!

  • @shinta1172
    @shinta1172 3 роки тому

    This conversation was so deep, this is what happen to me rn, when you get older you just wanna make more money and make your parents happy

  • @TheRaySauce
    @TheRaySauce 3 роки тому

    And look at how you've all come so far, achieving your goals and making visions come alive. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @TheArtosLP
    @TheArtosLP 3 роки тому +8

    new episode lets go

  • @lyka9973
    @lyka9973 3 роки тому +1

    eric i wanna give u a hug

  • @eshap731
    @eshap731 3 роки тому +1

    Honestly tho I’m so glad that they speak out about it cause like nobody does

  • @Whammytherammy
    @Whammytherammy 3 роки тому

    ashley is soo precious

  • @zareen6690
    @zareen6690 2 роки тому

    even i did'nt know that eric was a singer I first saw him at AC but then i saw a video of him and jackson he was there to promote his album or something like that then after that i started listening to him.

  • @luciapalacios6913
    @luciapalacios6913 3 роки тому

    Love you guys

  • @chandanavanam1123
    @chandanavanam1123 3 роки тому

    Ashley I feel you yess u got supporting parents just be happy

  • @cathyzhang6933
    @cathyzhang6933 3 роки тому

    I like these conversations

  • @nini0673
    @nini0673 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so of proud of Eric Nam.

  • @ComedyGlor
    @ComedyGlor 3 роки тому +11

    “My BrAgGinG RiGhTs” 😂😂😂😂 ily peniel

  • @sarahnada4277
    @sarahnada4277 3 роки тому

    I can relate. My cousin and I are always talking about this topic.

  • @misskatmille
    @misskatmille 3 роки тому +6

    Lowkey Eric n Ashley sitting next to one another is a pairing I never knew I needed LMFAO

  • @kpkafle
    @kpkafle 3 роки тому +41

    I don't know what their current status is separately but I really ship Eric and Ashley. Their personalities seem to mesh and they're both cute.

    • @NikkaVim
      @NikkaVim 3 роки тому

      ♥♥♥

    • @Finalleigh
      @Finalleigh 2 роки тому

      Me too . I was searching for this comment.

  • @mahrukhbatool3447
    @mahrukhbatool3447 3 роки тому +1

    0:47 relatable 😂😂😂😂

  • @eajparkian1446
    @eajparkian1446 3 роки тому +1

    Mini reunion of *"HWAITING"* 🥺🥺

  • @YanKenPon
    @YanKenPon 3 роки тому

    Esto se va a descontrolar!

  • @happyquokka4242
    @happyquokka4242 3 роки тому

    Ashley's hair looks soooooo pretty

  • @jsanlovely8880
    @jsanlovely8880 3 роки тому

    Real Talk it is 💯

  • @gealeco93
    @gealeco93 3 роки тому

    It's a great video!

  • @magicscoolbus3834
    @magicscoolbus3834 3 роки тому

    FACTS Ashley!!!👏👏👏👏

  • @echizen531
    @echizen531 3 роки тому

    Peniel sounds so cool..

  • @blahwhatever4162
    @blahwhatever4162 3 роки тому +5

    Why do I feel so early, yet so late

  • @mivamoon8264
    @mivamoon8264 3 роки тому +1

    Yo i need tablo in this podcast

    • @avelye5200
      @avelye5200 3 роки тому

      Miva Moon agreed. It would add a notch of interesting. But I read Tablo’s parents supported him.

  • @ogabugabedj1977
    @ogabugabedj1977 3 роки тому +3

    Lowkey got a crush on Ashley

  • @budingz
    @budingz 3 роки тому

    To Ashley's Mom: You're nice. Keep going! 👌

  • @namjooning5503
    @namjooning5503 3 роки тому

    jesus it's literally 5AM in here but nvm I loved them

  • @gadis6532
    @gadis6532 3 роки тому

    Oh wow "i dont know if i want to get married", that thought slowly came to my mind hahaha

  • @kimberleyfan4559
    @kimberleyfan4559 3 роки тому

    dam eric respect to you dood

  • @diladila2176
    @diladila2176 3 роки тому +2

    "my bragging rights!" kill me :'''DDDD

  • @samriddhijain1651
    @samriddhijain1651 3 роки тому +12

    This is so true tho, everybody is working for and just wants a good life for themselves and their family. To make enough money so that it is no longer a huge differentiator in your life and happiness.

  • @blahwhatever4162
    @blahwhatever4162 3 роки тому +8

    Every Asian can relate to this to some extent ✊

  • @suna_rintarouweneedmemorie4639
    @suna_rintarouweneedmemorie4639 3 роки тому +2

    "my bragging rights.." lmaoo, why can i hear my mom saying that😂 sorry mom I'm trying to be ur straight A+ student!!

  • @astriyustinakambu2812
    @astriyustinakambu2812 3 роки тому

    Full episode please... 🇮🇩

  • @YukinaHawmie
    @YukinaHawmie 3 роки тому +5

    damn how much i can relate to hahahaha i'm a bachelor in English Literature, but currently i'm working as a craft artist. i used to work as a freelance translator for about 3-4 years before i decided to become a full-time independent craft artist. until this day, my mom still proudly tell people (i'm from a very small town where you can still see monkeys or wild pigs crossing the road in broad daylight--the bragging rights hahaha) that i'm working as a translator and a writer even though i have changed job completely XDXD

  • @snowiiesan
    @snowiiesan 3 роки тому

    Damn i can relate so much.. but i still chose to give up on my dream and just work in an office... sigh.. regrets.

  • @brxnd1s
    @brxnd1s 3 роки тому

    totally not related but I got kards gunshot mv as an ad 🤩

  • @ComedyGlor
    @ComedyGlor 3 роки тому

    Any chance you could put the full episode up? I’m excited about Eric being here 🥺

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 роки тому

      they probably will upload the full episode on their second channel tmr

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 3 роки тому

      Hung Duong what second channel?

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 роки тому

      it’s called Dive Studios Podcasts

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 3 роки тому

      Hung Duong ah okay. I hope they upload it soon 🤞🏽

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 роки тому

      Glox Ali they just did go check it out

  • @innocentsouluwu1157
    @innocentsouluwu1157 3 роки тому

    ive never been this early omgggg

  • @rydachaudhary
    @rydachaudhary 3 роки тому

    👏🏼

  • @lesipapo7876
    @lesipapo7876 3 роки тому

    Peniel be so funny hahahaha

  • @heyxjay
    @heyxjay 3 роки тому +34

    I’m sorry but y’all need some new mics cause the audio kind of sounds weird

    • @LMChavez980
      @LMChavez980 3 роки тому +8

      I think there’s a lot of reverb, might be a matter of just adjusting the audio

  • @anjalichhawchharia8108
    @anjalichhawchharia8108 3 роки тому +2

    "The worst nightmare for Asian parents"😂😂😂😂

  • @moonchildbruh8565
    @moonchildbruh8565 3 роки тому

    We knew eric was gonna be on this episode, parents opposing careers? Eric said you called me ? Lmao

  • @VeronicaEtcetera
    @VeronicaEtcetera 3 роки тому

    How my mum and all of ours can relate to the bragging rights. Sorry Mum, xoxo

  • @marianabarreiro2957
    @marianabarreiro2957 3 роки тому

    can we have jackson on the podcast....it would be so fun

  • @2_vi_52
    @2_vi_52 3 роки тому

    Hope we can get mark got7 here...

  • @habsyahfitri9685
    @habsyahfitri9685 3 роки тому

    We r millenials a.k.a sandwich generation. No matter if its parents, society or ourselves, we always put a pressure and busyness with our life. I'm so glad these four ppl are mature enough to get back to the core which is love themselves

  • @n_z_a
    @n_z_a 3 роки тому

    Where is the full episode?

  • @horsesthatfliesareunicorns7105
    @horsesthatfliesareunicorns7105 3 роки тому +1

    Can we have eaJ onboard next please?

  • @shilviath1611
    @shilviath1611 3 роки тому

    Woww ashley parents are very supportive...im 26 and my parents started giving signal to get married bcoz u know they believe if i didnt marry b4 30 thn i wouldnt b able to conceive it will b too late blah blah blah

  • @itzmayy
    @itzmayy 3 роки тому

    They can understand me 😹😂

  • @naychi6986
    @naychi6986 3 роки тому

    I ship ashley n eric

  • @pancakeonarabbit
    @pancakeonarabbit 3 роки тому +1

    many asian kids are forced to play instruments but they're not supposed to enjoy it.
    you have to play out of obligation and that's the only music-contact they'll get.

  • @kimble90126
    @kimble90126 3 роки тому +1

    Lol Eric nam with Ashley, peniel and bm on one podcast