Amen to this. Lust of the flesh has always been the struggle that comes back to haunt me. I was 29+ years virginal and consecrated myself hard in my 20s. It was easy because I wasn't in a relationships and trained my mind/heart to focus on literally everything else. The sexual desires returned full throttle in my 30s... I actually found a man I enjoyed on a emotional/mental/friendly level. He amis supporting my mission for purity but it is difficult ya'll. Slipped but am returning back. These child bearing years are worst than my teenage years. I've always had a super strong libido. God has really been with me for it to take me 30 years until I've been with a man. If you fall into sin, get back up and restart. Don't let guilt, shame, disappointment keep you away from God's love and presence. Praying for you all.
This video is right on time for me! I've been celibate for years but temptation still rears its head every so often. I love the story about how your husband ran away from you when you were dating - you really were blessed with a godly man! It's good for women to hear that these kind of men exist - who want to please God - and that we don't have to settle for sexually undisciplined men.
Thank you. I have struggled w this for 27 of my 38 years. I have fasted and went to recovery groups over the years. I go weeks and months and then fall back into it. Feel hell bound for not overcoming it the way that you and others have
This is the helpful information. I’ve looked up several articles over the last few days to figure out how to navigate the single and sexless life while in pursuit of Christ. As I get older (early 30s) it’s challenging to ignore sexual desires with no sign of a partner and marriage in sight.
I thought I was a good girl. Still a virgin. But I've been exposed to masturbation and horny guys. I want God in my life. I want to be innocent because I never want to be a bad girl. But the hornier I get the harder it is to think about fully surrendering my life where that is something that can only be obtained through marriage 😭
Karolyne!! I struggled for 25 years of lust and sexual sin, its been a struggle but the desire is gone!! Like the Lord took it away….i read your flashcards w verses on them last year just pray others can be delivered!!!
I’m so glad you mentioned your transparency when you asked God to help you with your desires. I have been chaste for 10 years after I was raped by my first boyfriend. My second boyfriend and I had no restraints because I didn’t care; my purity had been taken from me. The third guy I liked used me for 1 night then threw me away like cheap trash! That was when I said “God, never again will I lay down with another man before marriage!” And I have kept that vow! Now I met this incredible man of God who is literally everything my heart ever desired. He’s pure in body and spirit and it is ME who is struggling with these sins because of my past. When I have these thoughts, I lay in bed and just cry because I do not want to break my vow and I do not want to take HIS sexual purity from HIM. I’m glad to know that it’s ok to have thoughts about your fiancé but to run from them and to ask God for help. Thank you so much!
I cant no longer retain myself. Went through a huge spiritual attack last year. Didnt really for one year. Dealing with a lost right now, depression, no job, witchcraft etc...fasted 3 days last week and now i masturtabed. Its like i have mo desire to flee away from sin. Im so tired. I dont even want to pray like i used to.
Please do not give up. Do you have a church or people who can encourage you right now? Even if not, cry out to God and be honest about where you are and keep getting up. The enemy wants you to throw the towel in and wallow in sin but refuse to. Repent and ask God for strength to look to him. I used to struggle with masturbation and the enemy would say you will never be free but here I am free! Its not easy but freedom is worth the struggle. Also seek help for what you went through, masturbation maybe a way for you to comfort or heal yourself but God can do that infinitely better! Praying for you.
@@tanyac7383 Thank you so much Tanya ❤️ and sorry for the late reply. I was at a point where even typing seemed difficult. Thank you for your advice and prayers. It means a lot to me ❤️ May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you as a vessel to encourage others. You are a gem! ✨️💕
@Karolyne I want to thank you for this UA-cam video lesson on "How to Overcome your Sexual Desires." God is an on time God with this practical yet powerful message to let us know you can still have the victory over lust. Blessings to you & your labor of love. Amen
Your video is my conviction litreally secinds after maturbation your email of this video was sent i litreally felt the holy spirit speaking thank you so much
1. Separate yourself from the world... ( do this by living a life of fasting and dedicating yourself to God and not worldly things) 2. Flee sexual sin....RUN!!!!!!!!!!! 3.pyt on your spiritual Armour and fight Ephesians 6: 10-17
thank you for the video ❤ // btw your voice sounds weird because you did not take out the audio of the camera and just added the audio from the mic, making your voice sound double. ❤
Glory be to God big sis Karlone I just want to let you know that I've been staying away from doing anything until I get my God ordered spouce my dad keeps trying to get me to lay down and cause another soul tie So anyways God bless you big sis Karlone and you're beautiful family 👪 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God 🙌🏿✝️🙏🏾🕊
I've been praying for a husband since I was a literal child I'm 33 with 2 kids now and no prospects in sight. I'm so desperately lonely that as the old song says I imagine faces of many lovers, to ease the pain of having no one in my life. I don't think God's ever going to send me a husband. So what am I supposed to do. I can't stop sexually fantasizing and I'm not getting any in real life anytime soon..... No soulmate yet unfortunately
Hey sis 👋🏾 as someone who's been celibate for almost 12 years my advice to you is to fall in love with Jesus. I know that sounds cliche, but once He's the satisfaction of your soul, everything else fades in the background. Truly, intentionally seek His secret Place. Psalms 27:4 has been my rock. Make Him your desire. By doing this all you need to do is seek, cry out, call, ask Him to show you Himself and He will not fail you. He's the only reason I haven't fallen. I've had opportunities to do so...literally had a woman invite me to her hotel room (I was a lesbian). But even then He gave me a way out. As you fill your heart/mind with so much of Him, nothing else will have room to get in. You'll then be able to immediately cast down the thoughts of previous lovers. If He has given you the desire for marriage, He'll come through. You first need to fall in love with Him and let Him complete you/make you whole. I hope this helps. Praying for your strength and victory 🙏🏾
❤️❤️❤️❤️it’s hard to be single as a Christian . Usually people talk about men feeling lust but we as women feel it too❤️
....and men have better chances of getting married than women 😢
Yeah even though I've never been in a real relationship I feel like it'll be harder to find a man that doesn't feel no s*x is a turn off.
Honestly I am struggling in this area too to appoint of masturbating
Amen to this. Lust of the flesh has always been the struggle that comes back to haunt me. I was 29+ years virginal and consecrated myself hard in my 20s. It was easy because I wasn't in a relationships and trained my mind/heart to focus on literally everything else. The sexual desires returned full throttle in my 30s... I actually found a man I enjoyed on a emotional/mental/friendly level. He amis supporting my mission for purity but it is difficult ya'll. Slipped but am returning back. These child bearing years are worst than my teenage years. I've always had a super strong libido. God has really been with me for it to take me 30 years until I've been with a man. If you fall into sin, get back up and restart. Don't let guilt, shame, disappointment keep you away from God's love and presence. Praying for you all.
Sexual disair do have womens? Please tell men
Same! I struggle with a powerful desire as well and often find it difficult to think about other things.
Thank you for this
Thank you so much as muslim girl I'm grateful that I heard something touched my feelings ❤
This generation need more videos like this.. thank you❤️❤️
For real
Maditation and prayer is the key. When we as a christian don't read the bible we live in open door for the enemy..
Definitely on time. Thank you Jesus ❤
This video is right on time for me! I've been celibate for years but temptation still rears its head every so often. I love the story about how your husband ran away from you when you were dating - you really were blessed with a godly man! It's good for women to hear that these kind of men exist - who want to please God - and that we don't have to settle for sexually undisciplined men.
Thank you. I have struggled w this for 27 of my 38 years. I have fasted and went to recovery groups over the years. I go weeks and months and then fall back into it. Feel hell bound for not overcoming it the way that you and others have
I’m at a point where I realize I can’t watch most popular shows , read romance novels , or even hear music that’s not Christian .
This is the helpful information. I’ve looked up several articles over the last few days to figure out how to navigate the single and sexless life while in pursuit of Christ. As I get older (early 30s) it’s challenging to ignore sexual desires with no sign of a partner and marriage in sight.
How do you ignore sexual desires please I want this every month i have to struggle with sexual feelings
I thought I was a good girl. Still a virgin. But I've been exposed to masturbation and horny guys. I want God in my life. I want to be innocent because I never want to be a bad girl. But the hornier I get the harder it is to think about fully surrendering my life where that is something that can only be obtained through marriage 😭
Karolyne!! I struggled for 25 years of lust and sexual sin, its been a struggle but the desire is gone!! Like the Lord took it away….i read your flashcards w verses on them last year just pray others can be delivered!!!
I’m so glad you mentioned your transparency when you asked God to help you with your desires. I have been chaste for 10 years after I was raped by my first boyfriend. My second boyfriend and I had no restraints because I didn’t care; my purity had been taken from me. The third guy I liked used me for 1 night then threw me away like cheap trash! That was when I said “God, never again will I lay down with another man before marriage!” And I have kept that vow!
Now I met this incredible man of God who is literally everything my heart ever desired. He’s pure in body and spirit and it is ME who is struggling with these sins because of my past. When I have these thoughts, I lay in bed and just cry because I do not want to break my vow and I do not want to take HIS sexual purity from HIM. I’m glad to know that it’s ok to have thoughts about your fiancé but to run from them and to ask God for help. Thank you so much!
I cant no longer retain myself. Went through a huge spiritual attack last year. Didnt really for one year. Dealing with a lost right now, depression, no job, witchcraft etc...fasted 3 days last week and now i masturtabed. Its like i have mo desire to flee away from sin. Im so tired. I dont even want to pray like i used to.
Please do not give up. Do you have a church or people who can encourage you right now? Even if not, cry out to God and be honest about where you are and keep getting up. The enemy wants you to throw the towel in and wallow in sin but refuse to. Repent and ask God for strength to look to him. I used to struggle with masturbation and the enemy would say you will never be free but here I am free! Its not easy but freedom is worth the struggle.
Also seek help for what you went through, masturbation maybe a way for you to comfort or heal yourself but God can do that infinitely better! Praying for you.
@@tanyac7383 Thank you so much Tanya ❤️ and sorry for the late reply. I was at a point where even typing seemed difficult. Thank you for your advice and prayers. It means a lot to me ❤️ May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you as a vessel to encourage others. You are a gem! ✨️💕
Always on time ! Stay blessed sister 🙏🏽❤️
@Karolyne I want to thank you for this UA-cam video lesson on "How to Overcome your Sexual Desires." God is an on time God with this practical yet powerful message to let us know you can still have the victory over lust. Blessings to you & your labor of love. Amen
This was so needed 🙌🏽
I really needed that ! Thanks a lot Karolyne
Although I am a male, this has been enormously helpful.
Good men exists.
May God bless you sister.
Thanks so much Karolyne....your videos are super helpful...may God strengthen you always.🙏🏾
Thank you for this information I needed it 😢
Thank you, Karoline… I needed this !
Thank you so much for this video! I definitely needed this.
Your video is my conviction litreally secinds after maturbation your email of this video was sent i litreally felt the holy spirit speaking thank you so much
1. Separate yourself from the world... ( do this by living a life of fasting and dedicating yourself to God and not worldly things)
2. Flee sexual sin....RUN!!!!!!!!!!!
3.pyt on your spiritual Armour and fight Ephesians 6: 10-17
thank you for the video ❤ // btw your voice sounds weird because you did not take out the audio of the camera and just added the audio from the mic, making your voice sound double. ❤
Love your message! Keep up the good work 🙏🏽
Great wonderful very helpful Thank you so much
I really don't understand this reality in which we overcome sin continuously. It's my biggest challenge.
Thank you for this sister
Amen, keep up the good work!
Thank you really needed this❤️
So luv this Kar!
Thank you sissy!!
Glory to God. Alleluia
Glory be to God big sis Karlone I just want to let you know that I've been staying away from doing anything until I get my God ordered spouce my dad keeps trying to get me to lay down and cause another soul tie
So anyways God bless you big sis Karlone and you're beautiful family 👪 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God 🙌🏿✝️🙏🏾🕊
Thanks you I appreciate the wisdom
Thank you❤
Thank You ❤🏃🏽♀️
You are a Star ✨
Thanks alot for this 🙏🙏🙏
Timely ✨
If you're starving to death, you don't need to fast.
I WAS CHEATED OUT OF MY RIB!
I've been praying for a husband since I was a literal child I'm 33 with 2 kids now and no prospects in sight. I'm so desperately lonely that as the old song says I imagine faces of many lovers, to ease the pain of having no one in my life. I don't think God's ever going to send me a husband. So what am I supposed to do. I can't stop sexually fantasizing and I'm not getting any in real life anytime soon..... No soulmate yet unfortunately
Hey sis 👋🏾 as someone who's been celibate for almost 12 years my advice to you is to fall in love with Jesus. I know that sounds cliche, but once He's the satisfaction of your soul, everything else fades in the background.
Truly, intentionally seek His secret Place. Psalms 27:4 has been my rock. Make Him your desire. By doing this all you need to do is seek, cry out, call, ask Him to show you Himself and He will not fail you.
He's the only reason I haven't fallen. I've had opportunities to do so...literally had a woman invite me to her hotel room (I was a lesbian). But even then He gave me a way out.
As you fill your heart/mind with so much of Him, nothing else will have room to get in. You'll then be able to immediately cast down the thoughts of previous lovers. If He has given you the desire for marriage, He'll come through. You first need to fall in love with Him and let Him complete you/make you whole.
I hope this helps. Praying for your strength and victory 🙏🏾
@@bbrochelle77 Amen 🙏 thank you 😢
Antidepressants can take away a lot of sexual desire, especially Prozac. It takes about 6 months to clobber your sexual desire entirely.
thank you
First timer here
Amen!!!!
Thanks
I was hoping she took the family guy version. If you know what I mean😛🙈jk! The video made a lot of sense.
🔥🔥
There was no link where you pointed
thank you 🙏🏾