How to Avoid Sexual Sins with Ken and Tabatha Claytor
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2023
- We tackle complex topics around sexuality, identity, and gender. We bust the myth that marriage and sex with one person can become dull and stress our worth and value in the blood of Jesus. Whether you are grappling with temptations outside of marriage or dealing with feelings of worthlessness after sexual violation, remember that God can still use you powerfully. So, let's embark on this enlightening journey towards truth and freedom together!
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If you've been living in sexual sin for a while, I will tell you, it's not easy. The first year was the hardest. I did a lot of crying and praying, but in the end the peace you're going to experience is like none other.
It brought a tear to my eye repeating the prayer of submission at the end, "Thank you for forgiving me." I've been same-sex attracted and addicted to pornography for as long as I can remember, and grew up often feeling like in order to be redeemed and freed I needed to overcome both struggles before coming to Jesus. In reality, I needed to come to the savior to have the power to overcome and accept salvation!
I was brought to this channel after watching a brief clip on TikTok and I greatly appreciate the vulnerability and scripture-based views presented in this podcast, without judgment but with truth and love which is the embodiment of Christ. I certainly will be watching past and future episodes and request an episode on the very timely and pervasive topic of pornography and masturbation. Thank you for this!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Said a prayer for you
Thank you for sharing with us! We believe God is going to do a mighty work in your life! Head over to our church youtube @myalivechurch to hear our current series on Sex God's Way.
You’re gonna make it 💕
@@KayQhosa Thank you so much I appreciate it!
@@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha I recieve that, thank you!
I’m sharing this. This is really good wholesome teaching that’s filled with grace and truth. Just like the woman at the well who was caught. Jesus shed light not condemnation. Love it. God bless you two.
Thanks for sharing!
Yea your thought is really seasoned with salt and encouraging
@@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
I can’t tell you how much I loved the banter between you both when you discussed times when you’ve been tempted to be tempted … I love the realness … and the fact that you all are discussing stuff that’s vulnerable in our presence … I really appreciate this
Praise GOD I came upon this podcast by chance and I shared it with friends and family. It is so sad how the devil is trying to trick and manipulate our daughter into lesbian relationships. 12-.14 yrs old. I bind and rebuke satan in Jesus name and all ancestors curse are BROKEN WITH JESUS IN JESUS NAME.
Bless you all 100 fold for the realness and put scripture on all Immorality
Yesss and the thing with children today, I’m 17 but I remember that spirit trying to come on me and i went to the bathroom at my school and told it to flee in the name of Jesus! And it fled. But that’s because i understood what it was. Children today don’t understand what homosexuality is what it’s assignment is, and how evil it is. But glory to God I have parents that built me up in the Lord from birth and I do not identify as a Homosexual. Hope this testimony helps you.
Talk about the adulterous relationships from the standpoint of the couple being separated, but still married please
We need more episodes like this! When I first got married I thought all of the lust, thoughts and temptations will go away but not true!!!
I love what you said in this episode about the same discipline we need when we are single is the same discipline we need when we are married and over the years I’ve realized how true that is.
Thank you all for opening up and sharing this with us!
We went to the court house and got married…. $50.00.
It’s better to marry than to burn.
I love the fact that God leads me across your contents. I've been looking for teachings, contents to learn more about marriage, sexual purity, and to connect with a christian couple to learn more and prepare myself. I'm glad that i came across you guys. May Father bless you and make you more fruitful
Thank you so much for this message ❤
This is so needed! Your Podcast is such a blessing ❤ God continues to bless you 🙏
I love how real this conversation is. Thank you!
Amazing talk today!! Love from Iceland 🇮🇸🇮🇸🇮🇸🇮🇸
You both are really helping the marriages out here. Thank you for this!!
I love this conversation…it’s so real. Thanks for being real.
Thank you for keeping it real. 💯
God got with me about purity. I love this message and wish I had heard it in my youth ❤
I love you so so much, you're such an asset in the Kingdom. Let it shine 💪
Love this video, I pray to have a transparency and this great humor and honesty with my future spouse when the right one comes. Very great teaching and makes me feel like I am as well a human being. Not many churches or leaders teach any of this or even speak about this. God bless you two and to continue speaking and teaching with the word. ❤
Thank you so much for this Ken and Tabitha!!! Me and my girl got off to a rocky start as well but we will continue growing. I thank God for you, for her for sending this video, and for the grace of God that freed me from the bondage of sin. Thank you once again, ALL GLORY AND HONOR TO THE ONE TRUE GOD, the KING of kings… hallelujah!!!
Thank you for this!!!
Thank you’ll for sharing the truth and love of Christ
Love you all’s conversation very very good info
So greatful for this podcast. Thank u❤
Thanks for listening!
I’m going through a rough patch I. My marriage and this is golden information!what a blessing to to world you guys are!!!!
Thank you this was beautiful!!! I will continue to walk in faith🥰
Really good conversation for marriages and how to make it stronger. Thank you. God bless🙏🏾
Beautiful teeth, Miss Tabatha! You're shining!!
Sooo good! Thank you both for your honesty and being so open to sharing your stories!
Thanks for watching!
I ❤you guys! Thank you so much for this teaching and message. I’ll be honest and say I’m a young widow and it’s so hard to remain to myself pending whenever I get married again not knowing if that will happen again, I’m hopeful, but it’s concerning.
So helpful as a woman you got it wrong before BUT God! I am learning to wait well and trust God for my future spouse. 🙏🏽
This podcast was soooo helpful, Thank you so much sir, thank you so much ma'am ❤❤...God please help me to obey your commands always🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 and i rebuke the
spirit of falling into sins 💔😭 because others are doing it
Love this podcast! Keep going ! Hod bless you and everyone who comes in contact with this message ❤
God*** the devil is a lie 🗣️🙏🏾
I love how you are more leaning towards one another in your conversation. And contributing to the discussion . Also PASTOR THANK YOU FOR OWNINGBUP TO YOUR PAST MISTAKES. Glory to God for your ministry!!!!
I would love to hear Tabitha’s story . A show with her telling about her triumph battle ❤🙏🙏🙏
This podcast was enjoyable and distinctive from others I've listened to. I made numerous notes. I was especially fond the way Tabatha gazes at him, listens to him speak, then uses her own voice. It clearly displayed feminine vitality and her self-assurance. It also made me think about how I feel like I have to say so much when I really don’t. Less is more. it also made me think about how I feel like I have to say so much when I really don’t. And it's clear that Ken is self-assured as well.
Thank you for sharing this powerful message. Not my will bit your will God!
Im not new to biblical teaching on sexual. Sins. But I'm new to you both. I'm so grateful for such honesty sharing of your marriage journey. You are a blessed couple in Chris. You are filled with love and peace. Please keep sharing and pouring out to people. We are all sinners saved by grace. Amen❤
I love this channel.
Great conversation, thanks for sharing.
It would be great if you could link up the scriptures as you go along or write them in the description box ❤️
This is the realest and most helpful conversation I've heard on this topic on UA-cam ever! Thank you!
Glad you liked it!
Thank you for the enlightening message....God bless y'all,sending love from Namibia 🇳🇦 😊
NAMIBIAN team 💪🏾💪🏾❤️
Thank you God for this message 😢I've been really struggling with this topic.
Glad it was helpful!
Great information.... From a women's perspective (wife), great point Ken on being aware of the tricks of the enemy... Scripture Reminder, 2 Corinthians 10:5 and Scripture Take away, 1 Thessalonians 4:3... Thanks for taking this back to God's word....
I LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU BOTH🙏✝️❤😇👸
We love you!!
I enjoy you guys podcast very informative and it speaks value to me❤
Glad you enjoy it! God bless & Thanks for watching!
Good Good!!
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Thanks!
Good morning Ken and Tabitha. First-time listener to your live podcast.
Welcome!! We'll see you at 3pm 😍
Tuning in from Namibia
Thank you
12:17 ❤ powerful point
ORU in the house!!! Whoop whoop!
Amen listening from Puerto Rico. Believing for a ministry wife, widowed 10 years. Great stuff 🙏🏻🤗
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Just pick a born again girl you like and ask her to marry you. Don't overthink it. Dating after marriage is the only right way to build a relationship
It’s like it’s easier said than done single vs married.
Great insights
Powerful wish I could be part of the conversation 👌
So good
Great job😊
Hi guys ❤ watching you from Ukraine and simply love what you are sharing 😊 thank you, God bless you. I believe you help me to be ready for Godly marriage 🙏
Glad to have you watching! Believing with you for your Godly marriage!
God blesss you guys 💪🏽🙏🏽
Wise good podcast ❤🎉
New Subscriber here
Not sure when I will email you all, nevertheless, I’m truly blessed & this brought me to a few tears, only for the conviction of the LORD. Yes standing in prayer to fight the good fight of faith 💪🏾 Thank you both for more than you know ❤🙏🏽
Welcome! Glad to have you on our channel.
I had to pause the broadcast at 31:52 into it because I felt were Tabitha was going or how she was feeling at that moment of hearing something “new” to her but “old” to ken. However, I totally agree with Ken that I’m that wife/woman that I don’t need to hear from my husband about any attractions towards another because I’m overcoming insecurity in myself and all that would do is give the devil grounds to play in my mind. Now would I want him to tell me yes lol but do I need to know absolutely NOT! Real talk. God working in me! Keep it 💯
Thank you from Ncumisa in South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏 ❤️
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Glad to have you here!
This almost went south pretty fast. God save you guys.
Flip the table Tabitha 😂😂😂😂😂. This is so good.
Knowing the truth is not about what's right or wrong it's about knowing the heart of God as our parent.
Many of us know the law and what not to do but we don't have grace (understanding) and truth (why/how does God care?)
My mouth won’t even close after that statement 😂 I can hear pastor saying, “COME ON SOMEBODY” 😩
I just went through a break up 3 months ago. We rushed into sex. And pretty much had sex almost every time we saw each other. Our conversations were about sex a lot. I’ve prayed soul tie prayer but still feel anxiety over relationship. It’s hard not missing her. But I’m trying to see that God saving me from that relationship but it’s hard to see it that way.
The holy scriptures says “Be not wise in your own eyes.” Just because you feel that what you are doing isn’t sin. Base it on what God say and not you.
There is no “my truth is!” I found truth is by reading the Word of Jesus. And yes the truth makes us free. By choice.
I love this video so much and am so grateful to both of you for making it! I just have a biblical question for you if you don’t mind? I am not trying to be argumentative, but I see on your Church website that you are both Pastors at your Church? Didn’t the Apostle Paul say that women are not supposed to be over men in the Church or to preach to them? Can you please advise on this concept? I just genuinely would like to know your thoughts? Again, both of your commentaries in this video were equally amazing. It’s just a question of confusion that I have regarding the Scripture’s teachings? Thank you very much! 🙏
we have a video about women in ministry where we answer your question!
Even a person who knows the word struggles BIG TIME
I said this to a friend and man that was the end of us smh
I love listening to unfiltered truth, flaws and all. I just want to know something at the end of this podcast Pastor Ken ask to repeat a prayer then stated born again. Do you teach Acts 2:38. Just a question I love you both.
lol yall are so cute “ who was it ?!” 😂
Love the convo! But what are some actual steps someone can take to avoid it?
1. Go on a retreat immediately; at least 1 day to listen to teachings like this, pray for God's mercy and grace etc.
2. Pursue knowledge. Watch videos and listen to teachings on sexual immorality.
3. In partnership with the Holy Spirit, identify your triggers to sexual sin and set clear boundaries.
4. Join a community of believers; a church or something.
I hope this helps. ♥️
16:08 wow 🤯
😂😂😂this conversation gave me a good laugh...but am happy I learned something
I do enjoy this podcast and there are some things that are confirmation for me. I also felt it a little awkward when Ken asked Tabatha questions like if she was attracted to someone else or same sex,
and it seemed to catch her off guard? I think couples doing a podcast together should already know what they’re going to ask each other and what’s going to be discussed beforehand so that the other isn’t caught off guard, just my thoughts.
Hello, this have been a blessing already but what to do when you are separated and still married? What if the other partner is not doing anything about the separation?
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When Brother Ken’s wife told him about the dream about her cheating on him and he says “who was it”🤣🤣
I came here to confess my guilt to falling back into sexual lust and sin and masturbation. I am so exhausted on going in and out . doing well and feeling good about myself then I find myself drifting back looking at women in lingerie on the internet. I sometimes cant stop the urge. I am sick of this, I have let God down once more and I want to conquer this, I enjoy intimacy with my wife but when she is not in the mood I go back to pleasuring myself and feel guilt after. Lord I pray and ask for forgiveness I will not quit and will continue to pray to be delivered from this sin. Please forgive me father GOD , I will do better and fight this temptation. In your name I pray AMEN
Honestly i be lying to myself saying God will understand me satisfying myself since he knows my wife doesn't like sex and choose to only want it every blue moon since we got married. Now I'm tryna withhold from masterbation but it's very hard knowing i could be unsatisfied for weeks and sometimes months.
“If we died in a car accident, I didn’t even know how to minister to bring you over to salvation”……WHAT….🔥🔥🔥
Uh YEAH…Let me go have a sidebar with my GOD lol cause baby, this is thee only way🙌🏾😩
I didn’t know what fornication was either 😢
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38:50 is a shot at Michael Todd 👁️
I did not watch this one and although I have been abstinent for almost 5 years. I find it a bit annoying that people especially people like Ken that put such a sexual burden on their spouse to be available everytime they are horny which from his own accounts appear to be often and then tell others NOT to focus, worry or have sex themselves. Plus they all sinned prior and NOW want to counsel others for sake of a topic to do what they have never done. Stay close to GOD and listen for his instructions.
did not know what fornication was🤔
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So called Christian Men🤦♀️
Women please
Right now this scenario is taking place for the nth time🤦♀️
Just my opinion, but the temptation of sexual sin for a single person is more difficult because if you are practicing abstinence there’s this desire to give yourself permission to “slip up”. In marriage, you at least have someone to legally have sex with. A single person has no one at all to legally have sex with. One is the desire of excess and the other is complete absence, nada, zero.
Nonetheless, the peace, grace, and mercy of God are worth the abstinence.
@shannendaniels6175 absolutely of course
Where does masturbation fall in the sin category? Fornication?
Masturbation falls in the category of sexual Immorality, there it belongs to fornication, because it is a sexual immoral behaviour which leads into lust.
I wish they were more specific about this. I believe it as so but I wish they actually talked about masturbation specifically for clarity
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Why is Homosexuality is a topic for a married couple. Y’all think y’all helping but in reality it’s not and y’all have an agenda.
Why does it seem like Ken cuts off Tab a lot or undermines her point of view.. idk gives off narc vibes 😂
Yes, I noticed. I wouldn't say narc. That's pretty extreme, but sometimes people do it when a thought comes to mind and they don't want to forget or they really just excited to share, I would sometimes do it in high school until someone brought it to my attention. People with ADHD sometimes do it as well.
@@tamaranicholas6504yes, it’s true. I have ADHD and I do this. Sometimes it feels uncontrollable and sometimes I do it because I know I’ll forget what i want to say if I don’t hurry up and get it out lol
Yes I noticed it as well. But I wouldn’t put a “😂” emoji because it’s not Funny. I’ll pray for them on it, and I thank them for all their videos