Pastor Kills “Sister-Wife” After She Gave Birth To Their Baby: The Case Of Marie Carlson

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  • @asuka-ryo
    @asuka-ryo 4 місяці тому +4273

    Finding out that woman is still raising Marie's baby...speechless

    • @michelleclarke8500
      @michelleclarke8500 4 місяці тому +220

      Thank you. I’m not even going to finish watching. That’s just rubbing salt into the wound

    • @lady4vols
      @lady4vols 4 місяці тому +109

      This is beyond despicable.

    • @smithcrystal2000
      @smithcrystal2000 4 місяці тому +11

      @@lady4vols
      I’m ✅ 😊oi

    • @wilmatitzgreaux5086
      @wilmatitzgreaux5086 4 місяці тому +39

      @@nathalierae8956
      That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking

    • @maddie8415
      @maddie8415 4 місяці тому +68

      Didn't she even tell the investigators that she didn't believe her husband was capable of murdering Marie, but *she* was? And here she is raising Marie's baby. Sickening.

  • @anythingforselenas806
    @anythingforselenas806 4 місяці тому +298

    As a Christian myself, I can honestly say some pastors can be the creepiest people I’ve ever met.

    • @caradowray
      @caradowray 3 місяці тому +24

      They think they are God not serving God. Its Gross.

    • @resurrectionkratos
      @resurrectionkratos 2 місяці тому +9

      As a Christian, amen

    • @anythingforselenas806
      @anythingforselenas806 2 місяці тому +1

      @@caradowray 💯💯💯

    • @sighthoundlady15
      @sighthoundlady15 2 місяці тому +19

      I don’t think it’s being a pastor that leads to them being creepy it’s that creepy people (i.e. predators) are drawn to the position exactly for the power it gives them.

    • @divingduck9
      @divingduck9 Місяць тому +4

      especially christians, cuz THEIR god forgives EVERYthing

  • @jessicamack8907
    @jessicamack8907 4 місяці тому +3027

    Can you imagine being raised by the people that killed your mom? What judge allowed this?

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px 4 місяці тому +127

      It's weird

    • @mmc3731
      @mmc3731 4 місяці тому +175

      The child stands a big chance developing PTSD or major mental disorders

    • @Muz11k
      @Muz11k 4 місяці тому +83

      Florida 😂

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 4 місяці тому +95

      A stupid judge, that's who.

    • @vallie_bear
      @vallie_bear 4 місяці тому +44

      It's honestly mind-boggling how often this happens in these cases

  • @faithgreen8402
    @faithgreen8402 4 місяці тому +475

    I’ve followed Kendall for years, and it is so surreal to have her cover this case.
    I was a part of this church and this situation basically destroyed church. I know Kendall has an obligation to go only off of the facts rather than hearsay. But my understanding has always been that the senior members of the church were very complicit and even refused to talk to the police when Marie first went missing. Which dramatically slowed down the investigation. The interview with the woman from the church, (about Marie wanting James to herself) did not happen until 2015.
    During that time James was able to file for Termination of Marie’s parental rights in 2013 on the grounds that she had disappeared.Him and Tonya were then able to legally adopt grace, which is why they still have full custody even after his conviction.

    • @debbiebarrow7557
      @debbiebarrow7557 4 місяці тому +57

      Thank you for the above I pray it did not shake your faith

    • @k8tina
      @k8tina 4 місяці тому +24

      Thank you for sharing this. I live in FWB and remember all the rumors that went around the community when it all happened. Talk about small town gossip!!

    • @jennifertashik298
      @jennifertashik298 4 місяці тому +22

      Yes I remember this as I born and raised in Niceville
      My sisters in laws family all went to this church. They left the church bc of all this.
      So sad and unbelievable.
      This was such a popular church so many people I know went there for him, it was starting to grow big till that

    • @debbiebarrow7557
      @debbiebarrow7557 4 місяці тому +30

      @jennifertashik298
      Should worship GOD not MAN 🙏🔥💯

    • @allisonweathersby4406
      @allisonweathersby4406 3 місяці тому +38

      This is just disgusting. The elders of the church needs to be held accountable as well.

  • @leilanidarrett5158
    @leilanidarrett5158 4 місяці тому +2960

    There’s no way she should have custody of that baby! I don’t believe for one minute she had nothing to do with anything. That’s so sad.

    • @setghanbingfest4988
      @setghanbingfest4988 4 місяці тому +73

      AGREED - totally!!!!!

    • @JustShayShay
      @JustShayShay 4 місяці тому +106

      wonder what they'll tell the child when she grows up what happened to her mom, her REAL mom.

    • @Jessica-wo6px
      @Jessica-wo6px 4 місяці тому +10

      Yep exactly

    • @janefreda7034
      @janefreda7034 4 місяці тому +62

      I am shocked she got to keep the baby! Even if she had nothing to do with the crime, it's not her child and there was no legal adoption.

    • @MarieA22
      @MarieA22 4 місяці тому +22

      They will probably never tell babygirl that she was adopted, unfortunately. I do not understand why Monster Tayna was able to keep the baby. It's clear she was involved. They used Marie and then disposed of her as trash. Such a devastating case 😢💔​@JustShayShay

  • @vadore05
    @vadore05 4 місяці тому +211

    if she was a true "sister wife" why was it she was being forced to leave after the birth of the baby? Sound like she was totally used to make a baby and then dumped. Horrible people!

    • @marilynl335
      @marilynl335 4 місяці тому +19

      Exactly. The correct word is handmaid.

    • @kathleenchaffin2591
      @kathleenchaffin2591 3 місяці тому +1

      Revolting!

    • @kokuhakuqiun4215
      @kokuhakuqiun4215 2 місяці тому +1

      She’s basically a handmaid. She conceived for people she didn’t want to give her kid to but had no choice in the matter.

    • @kokuhakuqiun4215
      @kokuhakuqiun4215 2 місяці тому +3

      (Commander) James and (Wife) Tonya need to know Gilead is calling and wants them back.

  • @valeriew2541
    @valeriew2541 4 місяці тому +2567

    If the wife didn’t know, why was she willing to pack up and leave,suddenly? Marie’s family should have custody, in my opinion.

    • @jaybee2337
      @jaybee2337 4 місяці тому +225

      Plus, police said that the hole he dug in the backyard was so deep they weren’t able to find her during the first search. How could the wife not notice something like that?

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch 4 місяці тому +130

      @@jaybee2337 this also means he would've had to dig that huge hole in the backyard, bury her, clean up the area where he callously took her life, and then set the scene for her 'disappearance' (the packed bag, the text messages, the car) all without his wife coming home early or seeing it. there's no way

    • @BernicePhone
      @BernicePhone 4 місяці тому +2

      😊😅

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 4 місяці тому +50

      @@seducedbysasquatch I have the hypothesis that Marie packed the back herself and wanted to leave with the baby, and then everything escalated. It all seemed very unplanned, he didn't even know what to do with the car, definitely, and burying her in the backyard is also an odd choice. I wish his deal would have ceased to exist after he lied about the manner of death, but as long as it is not provable they have to take his lying word. The wife, at least, knew what had happened.

    • @jaybee2337
      @jaybee2337 4 місяці тому +16

      @@seducedbysasquatch I agree. Also, I love your username 😂

  • @Christina-fr2fv
    @Christina-fr2fv 4 місяці тому +112

    How does a non- related person, married to the killer, have custody over blood related family?

    • @soude85
      @soude85 3 місяці тому +6

      They adopted her after the mother “left”…

    • @Matilda-y
      @Matilda-y Місяць тому +1

      Profits of crime surely

  • @msa8408
    @msa8408 4 місяці тому +1482

    The absolute betrayal that child will feel once she figures everything out. She should have never had her actual mother ripped away from her.

    • @Valeria-mq3qn
      @Valeria-mq3qn 4 місяці тому +86

      Imagine if James and Tanya get back together when he’s out? Please God, no. Hopefully that wont be allowed.

    • @mirzamay
      @mirzamay 3 місяці тому

      Or worse, she'll be brainwashed to believe Tanya is a saint mother and Marie was just some crazy woman with bi polar who tried to kill them all and kidnap her.
      It's this kind of creepy, gross hypocrisy that caused me to take my faith in directions not guided by "pastors". Too much hollow ringing.

    • @roxyvickers3011
      @roxyvickers3011 Місяць тому +4

      Please tell me the family has some right to get this child away from them and raise her?

  • @Appellonia
    @Appellonia 4 місяці тому +171

    Wait....so when he gets out..if his family is still involved with that baby..then he will more than likely be involved or at the very least around that baby. THIS MONSTER IS GOING TO BE LEGALLY ALLOWED TO BE AROUND THE CHILD WHOS MOTHER HE MURDRRED?!?! Im absolutely shocked and horrified at that thought. ITS ABSOLUTELY SICKENING. THAT NEEDS TO BE STOPPED!

    • @naturalhabitat7310
      @naturalhabitat7310 Місяць тому +1

      At least the kid will be 18 by then, and able to walk away from him with a one finger salute if she wants

  • @yvetteschneider5172
    @yvetteschneider5172 4 місяці тому +964

    For the wife to not have known her husband had dug an especially large and deep hole in her own backyard , I find it incredibly suspicious and unbelievable!

    • @mistyhayden2855
      @mistyhayden2855 4 місяці тому +38

      Very strange..I know when someone’s in my backyard,and I constantly check on them,asking bout drinks etc ..or I’m out there with them.She definitely knew a big hole was dug 💯%

    • @meowmachine9147
      @meowmachine9147 4 місяці тому +72

      She was also willing to move to Arizona or leave the country with him at a time. She absolutely knew. Vile. Vile. Vile.

    • @keciathompson989
      @keciathompson989 4 місяці тому +31

      She’s definitely lying. I don’t believe for a minute that she didn’t know.

    • @ellatomblin3001
      @ellatomblin3001 4 місяці тому +7

      This! I thought the exact same thing.

    • @mpalmer7800
      @mpalmer7800 3 місяці тому +7

      She deserves to be in prison

  • @Hannah-dx4rk
    @Hannah-dx4rk 4 місяці тому +309

    True crime bingo:
    Cameras weren’t working
    You have to wait 24/48 hours
    They ran away
    Mental illness
    Suspicious spouse
    What am I missing?

    • @Skye-09
      @Skye-09 3 місяці тому +39

      Inconclusive DNA evidence

    • @rooder8827
      @rooder8827 3 місяці тому +19

      Killer bear hug
      Light sentence

    • @ghost-husband
      @ghost-husband 3 місяці тому +20

      Everyone knows who did it, but there's not enough evidence

    • @ghost-husband
      @ghost-husband 3 місяці тому +9

      Or the video evidence but it's too blurry

    • @arendelle6531
      @arendelle6531 3 місяці тому +6

      Suspect in question doesn't know/remember anything possibly incriminating.

  • @نيشا-د2م
    @نيشا-د2م 4 місяці тому +993

    I don’t understand how the wife of James was able to keep the baby despite everything. It’s disgusting.

    • @crystalcraft2617
      @crystalcraft2617 4 місяці тому +11

      LITERALLY

    • @keciathompson989
      @keciathompson989 4 місяці тому +9

      If I’m not mistaken, she had adopted the child. But I might have it confused with another case. Because it doesn’t seem like that would even be possible.

    • @kennedystarr8094
      @kennedystarr8094 4 місяці тому +9

      Florida Justice System.. it’s great right? 🙄

    • @TwichMcvey-mc3pv
      @TwichMcvey-mc3pv 4 місяці тому +4

      She should not have custody. I feel she is abusive to the poor child

    • @bellaperuana64
      @bellaperuana64 2 місяці тому

      Don’t worry that little girl will be future 👺. They are raising a future evil 👿 little monster 👿, so sad Marie was bipolar, that girl will be a real real monster 👺 poor Marie didn’t deserve.. but of course her mood changed after having the baby “she was bipolar”

  • @kengelina
    @kengelina 4 місяці тому +57

    How did Pastor’s wife not get any kind of repercussion when she was clearly involved? She should not be free, raising that child.

  • @naewa5108
    @naewa5108 4 місяці тому +2214

    15 years for cold blooded murder is just baffling

    • @courtneypuzzo2502
      @courtneypuzzo2502 4 місяці тому +18

      @Naewa5108 depends on what the sentencing guidelines are in the particular Jurisdiction the case took place in and if the person is a model prisoner can get released early

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +172

      Unreal 😡

    • @KingOfGaymes
      @KingOfGaymes 4 місяці тому +93

      @@courtneypuzzo2502that doesn’t make it better. Murderers shouldn’t get anything for “good behavior” as they literally killed a person

    • @courtneypuzzo2502
      @courtneypuzzo2502 4 місяці тому +22

      @@KingOfGaymes I didn't say I agree with it I was simply pointing out how sentencing guidelines work as the daughter of a retired police officer Yolanda Saldivar is eligible to be released from prison on March 30th 2025 after 30 years for murdering Selena Quintanilla Perez but likely won't due to the victim impact statements from her family and former bandmates Selena would be in her 50s now

    • @junederksen9205
      @junederksen9205 4 місяці тому +32

      Gotta love the injustice system

  • @hanatemonstas4485
    @hanatemonstas4485 4 місяці тому +44

    I appreciate how much you focus on Marie and her personality, her dreams, her relationships, and the positive effect she had on others. Lot of true crime channels treats the victims very poorly and center their life solely on the tragedy as if they had not lived a life before that.

  • @Christy-sf6vt
    @Christy-sf6vt 4 місяці тому +701

    I would like to know how a non relative has been able to keep the baby of the woman her husband murdered!!! That's insane. They should take that ruling all the way to the supreme Court!!! WOW, my heart breaks for her family and baby Grace. Especially baby Grace, considering he could be out of prison in 4 years and help then raise her as well. Something is really not right here. According to the wife, they were sister wives. So that baby still is not hers. It's just F'd up.

    • @AlexaSmith
      @AlexaSmith 4 місяці тому +74

      the supreme court would probably side with tonya the way they've been acting

    • @sisterseverus
      @sisterseverus 4 місяці тому +20

      It's Florida

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 4 місяці тому +32

      If she is officially stated that she is the child's mother (adopted or through surrogate) than she sadly is legally allowed to keep the baby, especially since she was never implicated in the murder (it's clear she must've known but if that is not provable you can do nothing).

    • @ericaalzamora2174
      @ericaalzamora2174 4 місяці тому +1

      @@sisterseverusthat part

    • @amandakesterson224
      @amandakesterson224 4 місяці тому +25

      @@MsSonali1980what is provable is when the police started seriously investigating them she fled with her husband in the middle of the night.

  • @thaisttx
    @thaisttx 4 місяці тому +42

    I could never be a detective. If I get to a scene and people are like "yeah cameras dont work" I'd throw a tantrum and angry cry

  • @victoriastang
    @victoriastang 4 місяці тому +409

    How does she possibly have custody of this woman's baby!? How is that even possible!? I'm sick. Truly sickened.

    • @Kassie-gs5oj
      @Kassie-gs5oj 4 місяці тому +12

      I just can’t let this fact go! 😭

    • @victoriastang
      @victoriastang 4 місяці тому +5

      @@Kassie-gs5oj Same!

    • @barbarapaige4587
      @barbarapaige4587 4 місяці тому +8

      The couple adopted the baby after Marie went missing, so legally she is the child's mother.

    • @Justice-ef9sk
      @Justice-ef9sk 3 місяці тому +3

      @@barbarapaige4587Yep. I came here to comment the same thing because so many people are asking how she “was able to keep that baby?” Because legally, she IS the child’s mother.

    • @Monada79
      @Monada79 3 місяці тому +4

      This screams Handmaid's Tale!

  • @Maya-vc3tt
    @Maya-vc3tt 4 місяці тому +23

    I've been waiting for you to cover this story. I went to this church as a kid. It's sick what happened to her . Thank you for bringing awareness!

  • @melissaknoesen7991
    @melissaknoesen7991 4 місяці тому +572

    The hug I remembered from the Crystal McDowell case. Her husband claimed in his defense that he killed her from a hug that got out of control

    • @lenacrable
      @lenacrable 4 місяці тому +27

      Came to the comments to say same thing

    • @laurabambrough6351
      @laurabambrough6351 4 місяці тому +14

      Yep. Same.

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +171

      Yes! That's the one I was thinking of, thank you!

    • @brandewhite8220
      @brandewhite8220 4 місяці тому +77

      The other case I was thinking about was the newlywed couple from Alabama I think that were honeymooning in Australia and the husband said his wife started to panic and he bear hugged her to calm her down but then she stopped breathing and just started sinking to the bottom and even though he claimed he was a rescue diver he just watched her sink and didn’t bother to try to resurface with her to get her aid! So sad😢

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch 4 місяці тому +11

      @@brandewhite8220 shit thats sad as hell

  • @alyssamiller8680
    @alyssamiller8680 4 місяці тому +43

    As someone who has personally had to utilize Safe Space Florida thank you for making that donation. I don’t think I would be where I am today without them. Maria deserved to live her life with both of her daughters, it’s heartbreaking she was taken away from them💔

  • @aileenelizabeth7367
    @aileenelizabeth7367 4 місяці тому +751

    Been here since 2012 when you would record from your room sitting on the end of your bed & still going , I love watching you Kendall, blessings 🫶🏻

    • @alixbresler1913
      @alixbresler1913 4 місяці тому +28

      I’ve been here since I think 2018-19 ish!!! I did watch some of her older videos!! Such a Sweet Community. Sending love

    • @kasandramckenna3250
      @kasandramckenna3250 4 місяці тому +12

      2015!

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +125

      Thank you! Lol we’ve come a long way

    • @carrielynne3491
      @carrielynne3491 4 місяці тому +20

      Same! Those OG vids are still bangers😊

    • @oliviajade3655
      @oliviajade3655 4 місяці тому +13

      I remember watching the video on how to sharpen the Nyx eyeliner pencil properly years ago and falling in love with Kendall. After that I just kept watching

  • @jenniferharrelson7218
    @jenniferharrelson7218 4 місяці тому +37

    My big wtf moment was hearing about a hole dug in the back yard so deep cadaver dogs could not pick up the scent. That’s crazy! Can one man really do that alone with no help from machinery?

    • @soude85
      @soude85 3 місяці тому +7

      Especially without his wife or the neighbours noticing…

  • @vromss
    @vromss 4 місяці тому +342

    been a silent viewer for a few years. thank you for getting coverage on these stories.

  • @leanne9596
    @leanne9596 4 місяці тому +31

    Shes not the child's mother and James is in jail so custody should be removed from them!

    • @yolandapichardo9052
      @yolandapichardo9052 27 днів тому

      I agree. How is that legal? Who is to say that’s what the Marie wanted and not Tanya putting words in her mouth? Their story was all over the place from the start so that should be looked into again.

  • @JeannieRinger-qh8rt
    @JeannieRinger-qh8rt 4 місяці тому +203

    The 'bear hug' I remember hearing was the husband who killed his wife scuba diving! The witness said he saw him 'bear hugging' her and when he let her go, she floated away...

  • @s1eepymommaaa
    @s1eepymommaaa 4 місяці тому +19

    Good grief, the details about her relationship with the Flanders in Marie’s story somewhat reminds me of the Handmaid’s Tale. Absolutely breaks my heart.

  • @LyKe-5184
    @LyKe-5184 4 місяці тому +432

    This was my Pastor and was a family friend. Helped us through difficult times. He sure changed. My heart goes out to Marie’s family and daughters. ♥️♥️. Marie’s family should have custody of Grace. Tanya , I feel is a part of it. She’s not innocent. IMHO

    • @Fireproofwitchnz
      @Fireproofwitchnz 4 місяці тому +175

      Did he change or was he just good at hiding his true colours?

    • @marilynking2358
      @marilynking2358 4 місяці тому +25

      WoW! I can’t imagine having a friend do this. I’m sorry you had to go through this.

    • @corriegrace25
      @corriegrace25 4 місяці тому +11

      I'm so so so so sorry 😢

    • @LyKe-5184
      @LyKe-5184 4 місяці тому +80

      @@Fireproofwitchnzhe hid his true colors.

    • @pig3292
      @pig3292 4 місяці тому +9

      ​@@Fireproofwitchnz They were answering your question

  • @brandylou9132
    @brandylou9132 Місяць тому +2

    Appreciate you sharing this story, and for making the donation. It's good to share about the diligence pf the detective's work.

  • @naewa5108
    @naewa5108 4 місяці тому +725

    Scary how those who seem closer to God are far from it.

    • @ItsAlannaBanana
      @ItsAlannaBanana 4 місяці тому +92

      That’s exactly why I’m super distrustful of people who are religious

    • @setghanbingfest4988
      @setghanbingfest4988 4 місяці тому +40

      @@ItsAlannaBanana I'm a little religious and I'm suspicious of people who are religious! CRAZY!

    • @rickjames7576
      @rickjames7576 4 місяці тому +41

      ​@@ItsAlannaBanana Then you should be super distrustful of ALL people, because a wolf in sheeps clothing can be hiding in any category of people. Just don't distrust God because of the wolves that totally misrepresent Him. There are more and more everyday.

    • @rickjames7576
      @rickjames7576 4 місяці тому

      ​@@setghanbingfest4988 That's not crazy, that's discernment.

    • @Jo-hi9oc
      @Jo-hi9oc 4 місяці тому +4

      @@rickjames7576im not super religious but i agree!

  • @kittykat6421
    @kittykat6421 4 місяці тому +9

    Is my first time watching. I like it so far! Very soft voice and no extra music or flashy images

  • @daaiyahgreen
    @daaiyahgreen 4 місяці тому +164

    That's beyond odd that Marie's sister wasn't able to get Grace. Why the hell would the court allow Tanya to keep her.

    • @Tropicalmama58
      @Tropicalmama58 4 місяці тому +3

      For Grace I mean

    • @chrissybouchat101
      @chrissybouchat101 4 місяці тому +12

      They are married so by law she has rights to the child. Just like in some states if a woman gets pregnant by somebody other than her husband, her husband still has rights to that child.

    • @Justice-ef9sk
      @Justice-ef9sk 3 місяці тому +1

      Because Tonya adopted the baby. Legally, Tonya is the child’s mother.
      Not saying, I agree with it… But that’s the law.

  • @heatherk5567
    @heatherk5567 4 місяці тому +39

    It seems insane that the justice system didn't place the child with her mother's family.

  • @andib1834
    @andib1834 4 місяці тому +142

    I think she had a hard conversation with wanting to keep her baby as it got closer to time for her to deliver and afterwards. The pastor's wife told the husband to kill her while she was away shopping so as not to be involved. The pastor tried to talk her baby mama out of keeping the baby for herself and he became enraged and went through with killing her.
    Any agreement for the baby to stay with the pastor's wife and family should be null and void after conviction and she should go to the sister or someone in the bio family. It's cruel to the baby to make her be raised by the family of the guy who killed and grow up not getting to be close to her moms family who was selfishly ripped away from her.
    15 years is a slap in the face to the family on top of not getting to raise the baby.
    I hope they all have extremely irritating days for the rest of their lives. (Ex. Stepping on leggos, shafting in public with no bathroom nearby, paper cuts in their finger crotches, UTI's and kidney stones, cat pee on EVERYTHING😂) feel free to add more.
    That's my opinion.

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch 4 місяці тому +4

      With your first paragraph, I could also see the mom getting understandably enraged (possibly struggling with post-partum?) which then caused the pastor to get enraged and kill her. Or maybe he realized there was no convincing her, and that the only way he thought he could have the baby and salvage what's left of his marriage was through murder. No matter what exactly happened, it's still so messed up. I feel for her family and the little baby.

    • @Champagnebabyyyyy
      @Champagnebabyyyyy 4 місяці тому +8

      Hot pillows, incorrect meals every time they order from somewhere, suspicious ongoing illnesses…. The list goes on🤣🤣 thanks for making me giggle at the end of this tragedy

    • @82hnlam
      @82hnlam 4 місяці тому +1

      Tick bites whenever James and/or Tanya steps out of the house; lemon cars; credit theft every year; long-term Covid…

    • @b4tman_and_Rob1n
      @b4tman_and_Rob1n 4 місяці тому

      ​@@82hnlamwhat are lemon cars?

  • @irrelevant66699
    @irrelevant66699 4 місяці тому +4

    i appreciate the respectful way you always cover these cases. no jokes, no lighthearted tone, just straight story and facts. you show the victims the utmost respect. ❤

  • @repurposedart9897
    @repurposedart9897 4 місяці тому +390

    What is the back story of the pastor's relationship with a women in the Philippians, getting her pregnant and than taking the child to America? Very tragic so many people took advantage on so many levels

    • @quasar8898
      @quasar8898 4 місяці тому

      Guessing that the girl's mother was a hooker.

    • @Switzer1234
      @Switzer1234 4 місяці тому +25

      Getting her pregnant THEN (not THAN) taking her child to America.
      THEN: What happens next
      THAN: Comparing

    • @erin2547
      @erin2547 4 місяці тому +228

      @@Switzer1234english isn’t everyone’s first language maybe think about that before being rude

    • @IndigoCave28
      @IndigoCave28 4 місяці тому

      @@Switzer1234seriously- su

    • @nanwood59
      @nanwood59 4 місяці тому +101

      @@Switzer1234
      Stop it! This is not a grammar channel. In comparison to the events of this case, grammar lessons are beyond irrelevant. Your need to nit pick reveals a lot about you.

  • @michellahunter1100
    @michellahunter1100 4 місяці тому +32

    Even if she is innocent she shouldn’t have the baby

  • @sob.prince
    @sob.prince 4 місяці тому +194

    The whole problem with security cameras never working is honestly terrifying for me. It’s sad how many families would have closure if someone would just fix a camera when it breaks how hard is that ugh

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch 4 місяці тому +15

      honestly makes me wonder if someone pays them off to destroy the footage before the cops come. then again, might be my brain rotting from watching so many crime shows.

    • @adaezea5963
      @adaezea5963 4 місяці тому +12

      I assume most cameras either aren’t working or aren’t connected to internet

    • @aliceepalermo5047
      @aliceepalermo5047 4 місяці тому +7

      People and companies should face civil liability for their cameras not working

    • @y2ksurvivor
      @y2ksurvivor 4 місяці тому +10

      ​@@aliceepalermo5047lol good one, fining people for cameras they bought themselves and that are on their own property.

    • @snowysugar8255
      @snowysugar8255 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@aliceepalermo5047 maybe companies but definitely not individual people. If it's private property the pigs have no right to those cameras or their footage. It's used to deter property theft not catch murders on the side walk. So who cares if they work or not? A lot of people even just have dummy cameras just to deter crime. It's absolutely ridiculous to fine individual people for something they're doing for themselves. If that slippery slope starts rolling before you know it it'll be illegal to not have a camera. It's a stupid idea.

  • @vadore05
    @vadore05 4 місяці тому +25

    Marie's family should have that baby NOT Tanya

  • @Wherealltherottenthingsbloom
    @Wherealltherottenthingsbloom 4 місяці тому +146

    Why does that woman get to keep the baby??? What claim does she have on it, it’s not even her baby at all!!!!

    • @Justice-ef9sk
      @Justice-ef9sk 3 місяці тому +4

      She adopted the baby. So yes… Legally, the baby is hers.
      It’s ridiculous, yes. But it’s the law.

  • @AmbeswaMgandela
    @AmbeswaMgandela 4 місяці тому +26

    15 years for murder is shocking 😢. He couldn’t even tell her family the truth about what happened.
    Tanya is not completely innocent here.

  • @katwitanruna
    @katwitanruna 4 місяці тому +81

    Ummmm if she was breastfeeding, she would have been limited in medication. Most of the medication for bipolar can’t be taken while pregnant or nursing.

    • @LoverMuffins
      @LoverMuffins 4 місяці тому +9

      Depends on how severe and what the doctor thinks is safe/necessary for the patient(mother)

  • @MoodMotivated
    @MoodMotivated 4 місяці тому +16

    So if he gets out in 4 years will he get back together with his wife? So Grace will have to live with the man who murdered her mother! Absolutely disgraceful. The wife definitely knew something and should not have custody of Grace x

  • @Avery906
    @Avery906 4 місяці тому +92

    Honestly, this case is horrible for so many reasons.James got off with a slap on the wrist and to make it worse, he didn’t actually confess to how he ended Marie’s life. How he still got a plea deal when he was clearly lying about how she died is beyond me. Also, Tanya… I have no words for her. I don’t believe she knew nothing about the murder and now she’s raising Grace!!?? That is abominable.

    • @maryashleyversace2659
      @maryashleyversace2659 2 місяці тому

      Everyone is offered a plea deal because trial is expensive and criminals are more likely to get off on trial if the case can’t be proved beyond a reasonable doubt

  • @katierose6599
    @katierose6599 4 місяці тому +8

    cameras not working in an airport of all things is shocking

  • @bellagiancola4952
    @bellagiancola4952 4 місяці тому +86

    Marie's love for karaoke just reflects her Filipino heritage. It also shows how fun she was as a person. ❤

    • @CarpeNutella
      @CarpeNutella 4 місяці тому +6

      They take that karaoke seriously. Just no "My Way," EVER lol

    • @bellagiancola4952
      @bellagiancola4952 4 місяці тому +9

      @@CarpeNutella if karaoke is an Olympic sport, we'll be taking them gold medals home. 😂 and yes, the My Way thing is sooo true. We call it the shanker song lol.

  • @jenniferdowling6391
    @jenniferdowling6391 4 місяці тому +6

    I live in the town this happened in. Honestly, I am not surprised the system is corrupt here. A lot of unfair cases go on. It’s the good ole boy system

  • @marilynking2358
    @marilynking2358 4 місяці тому +63

    Kendall, I listened to you everyday even before you were married. I’ve missed podcasts for a season of my life & am so happy to listen to you again. You are so good & very beautiful. Thank you for sharing your talents.

  • @michhaynes7272
    @michhaynes7272 4 місяці тому +11

    They shouldn't have left that baby with that woman knowing she more than likely at least knew what her husband had done, I don't think Tanya should have that child, it's so sad.

  • @sarah-ys1te
    @sarah-ys1te 4 місяці тому +51

    Wow..the people who were responsible for Marie’s murder get to raise her daughter…that just makes me sick. I really think Tanya knew about the murder..I don’t see how she couldn’t have known..and I can’t understand how murderers are able to have custody of that child

  • @kristenraee
    @kristenraee 4 місяці тому +12

    if you can know your husband murdered this woman and still keep her baby instead of giving custody to her family, you definitely have something to do with it and lack empathy.. my opinion. the baby should be with her family

  • @RosecityPortland503
    @RosecityPortland503 4 місяці тому +174

    Tonya is probably the one who called in the crime stoppers tip

    • @francinesanchez5402
      @francinesanchez5402 4 місяці тому +15

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @staceejohnson5911
      @staceejohnson5911 4 місяці тому +10

      No, she was in on it

    • @melanie62954
      @melanie62954 4 місяці тому +50

      @@staceejohnson5911 That doesn't mean that she didn't call it in. She may have had enough of the guilt and figured she could get away scot free--which she did.

    • @hvsvn.26
      @hvsvn.26 4 місяці тому +4

      That’s what I thought as well

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 4 місяці тому

      @@melanie62954 Also, the dude was losing his marbles and a liability because of that.

  • @summerttiimmee6337
    @summerttiimmee6337 4 місяці тому +9

    There’s no way she wasn’t involved or didn’t know?! How would you not notice that she was missing or that there’s a pile of dirt in your backyard??

  • @stacin821
    @stacin821 4 місяці тому +51

    I would say the wife knew. This man dug a hole in the back yard deep enough that they couldn't find Marie. You know how much work that would take? Meanwhile, the wife is taking care of a newborn? She didn't notice his absence? Oh & then she agrees to attempt to just up & move in the middle of the night? That's suspicious ...

  • @4fNReal-
    @4fNReal- 4 місяці тому +11

    Tania is just as guilty and went shopping as an alibi!! Also, I believe that the Flanders family shouldn't have anything to do with that child!!!

  • @EMILY4DAYS
    @EMILY4DAYS 4 місяці тому +31

    It's so disgusting they got to keep her baby & her sister didn't get her.

  • @alliefoster2015
    @alliefoster2015 Місяць тому +1

    Kendall, you are such a beautiful human. Thank you for bringing social media awareness and support to so many families left neglected & unheard. I’ve been watching your content for a few years now- inspiring me to start up my own research and channel soon. We love you. 🤍🦋

  • @graciewalton2477
    @graciewalton2477 4 місяці тому +95

    I’ve never been this early. I just have to say, your videos are constantly in the background of my life. Please don’t stop representing these people that no longer have a voice, and bringing justice to the families! Love your videos

  • @Pretty.Zombie
    @Pretty.Zombie 4 місяці тому +3

    I love that you make donations that our departed would love and in there name
    I think you’re truly a beautiful soul and you raise every victim and survivor up with your stories! They aren’t stories I know, they are someone’s lives but to us they are a story you tell and it makes us all think and feel and open our minds, thank you for your work and your passion

  • @beccamartin6270
    @beccamartin6270 4 місяці тому +42

    Your intro video is literally my favorite thing ever it’s so ethereal and cozy

  • @narindaovens8410
    @narindaovens8410 4 місяці тому +11

    What hapoens when the child grows up and finds out what happened.

  • @juliannajones6016
    @juliannajones6016 4 місяці тому +67

    The video of James talking about wanting to chock the life out of someone is creepy…

    • @valerietaft657
      @valerietaft657 4 місяці тому +8

      Not normal at all but definitely not in a sermon!!!

    • @jaybee2337
      @jaybee2337 4 місяці тому +8

      Isn’t he supposed to “turn the other cheek”? Disturbing.

    • @seducedbysasquatch
      @seducedbysasquatch 4 місяці тому +3

      chock 😅

    • @jessicacoley9685
      @jessicacoley9685 4 місяці тому

      @@seducedbysasquatch😊e

    • @MsSonali1980
      @MsSonali1980 4 місяці тому +13

      Is it normal for US pastors to talk mainly about themselves? I only saw the two clips of him, but he was only blabbering about himself. Same with that JP dude from Mica's case.

  • @kekedubbs
    @kekedubbs 3 місяці тому +2

    It’s my first time to the channel and I love it ! Great work and looks like you little friend back there love your story time too🥰

  • @torihart7621
    @torihart7621 4 місяці тому +23

    I love love love the way you cover these cases it brings light to those who so desperately need it 😭❤️

  • @JS-yf9xh
    @JS-yf9xh 4 місяці тому +6

    Why are the cams always broken in all these damn cases?!!!!!!

  • @reshmabalan9382
    @reshmabalan9382 4 місяці тому +30

    Hey Kendall, I am just going through a rough couple days and just listening to your voice is really soothing. Thank you for that ❤

    • @DameWhoGames.
      @DameWhoGames. 4 місяці тому +1

      I hear that girl. Stay strong!

  • @wanjikumaina8635
    @wanjikumaina8635 4 місяці тому +5

    How could she have dug all that whole without her being aware? She knew and 15 yrs is a joke

  • @dawnwilson1529
    @dawnwilson1529 4 місяці тому +28

    People like this are experts at spotting people's weaknesses and using it against them....they are predators who can sniff out the weak and isolate them...

  • @sophiaelizabeth5860
    @sophiaelizabeth5860 Місяць тому +1

    every time you say destin, fort walton, or pensacola my heart drops because i grew up on the emerald coast in navarre Florida🥺 these cases hit so much harder for me, prayers to everyone involved

  • @thesecretwindowspot1298
    @thesecretwindowspot1298 4 місяці тому +9

    The cameras not working again making me so frustrated. Seriously so important that people have them working..it’s like nobody cares.

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +7

      It’s maddening

    • @tonyabrockway5519
      @tonyabrockway5519 3 місяці тому

      What happens when someone is really innocent and the damn cameras aren’t working? Now that’s scary…

  • @NatTy1999_
    @NatTy1999_ 4 місяці тому +7

    When you said Tanya is raising her child , my jaw DROPPED. BYE! Disgusting

  • @avaearles5609
    @avaearles5609 4 місяці тому +20

    The wife definitely knew something. With a hole that deep you don't not notice it at all. It would have either taking days for him to dig it or heavy machinery. There's no way she just didn't notice

  • @karenthorngren3460
    @karenthorngren3460 4 місяці тому +7

    Why didn’t Marie’s family fight for the baby and get custody of her?

  • @saragiocolo6753
    @saragiocolo6753 4 місяці тому +7

    Marie’s case has stuck with me for years since hearing about it. Thank you for bringing awareness to her loss and the utter injustice of her remains not being found at first, not every party being brought to justice, and her sweet baby Grace not being raised by her mothers family. God bless ❤️

  • @adrianahernandez3936
    @adrianahernandez3936 4 місяці тому +14

    How disgusting that when he gets out baby grace will probably still be a minor and he will be raising her after he killed her mother 😡 that’s so messed up and my heart breaks for that young girl.

  • @Benleyy
    @Benleyy 4 місяці тому +34

    Kendall getting sassy towards the perpetrators & saying "wtf" 😂😂is the light-hearted touch these dark cases need ❤

  • @kayseagrey81
    @kayseagrey81 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Kendall. I just really love and appreciate your channel. To date I was listening to you on Spotify and thought I'd have a look at your UA-cam channel and low and behold there is a gorgeous ginger fur baba with you just chilling!! Awesome little addition!
    Thank you for your channel and your coverage of cases that many of us would never have heard of elsewhere. I live in South Africa and so, I always wish I could also find a way to share when especially you cover a case of a missing persons... I guess you never know - perhaps sharing here could be a chain reaction of sharing to someone who is back in the States.
    Anyway, thank you again for your fantastic channel.
    Kay

  • @charysmaprausa4134
    @charysmaprausa4134 4 місяці тому +8

    I am here almost uncomfortably early. Yay! Thank you for raising awareness, being the voice some of the victims never had. We appreciate you!

  • @mikeybynature
    @mikeybynature 4 місяці тому +2

    I remember seeing this case on ID. I forgot what show, but I was so angry for Marie and her family. May she continue resting peacefully.

  • @ginanava922
    @ginanava922 4 місяці тому +66

    Just left UA-cam because I had no new episodes of any of my shows ... and soon as I clicked out, you posted. Perfect timing. 🍃 and TCKR ... best combo 👌 🙌

  • @kaylaanderson1960
    @kaylaanderson1960 4 місяці тому +5

    People really don't understand how cell phone GPS works. It is ALWAYS tracking you.

  • @lilymonique4588
    @lilymonique4588 4 місяці тому +36

    Absolutely disgusting. Grace should be protected and away from Tonya

  • @gerrisorg8780
    @gerrisorg8780 Місяць тому +1

    That's awesome that they really were sisters. I've had the same best friend for 28 years and we feel like sisters

  • @professormph
    @professormph 4 місяці тому +22

    I just realized how much your cat looks exactly like my sweet boy who passed over the rainbow bridge yesterday. Those flame point ears. I don't know if I should watch and stare or bawl my eyes out.

    • @blueskythinking6674
      @blueskythinking6674 4 місяці тому +4

      So sorry for your loss. We do get attached to our furry friends and it hurts when they leave us. I hope your pain lessens with time. 😢😢💔💔

    • @prg1982
      @prg1982 4 місяці тому +3

      Sorry for your loss, I've got 4 urns in the last 2.5 years I know how you're feeling. My most recent was January this year.

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm so very sorry for your deep & terrible loss.
      May your fur baby rest in peace.💗
      You will see your sweet boi again, I know it.❤️
      Until then,
      may you find comfort, healing, strength, support, Light, Hope, & ever-increasing Peace.💗
      God be with you.

    • @lydibug51
      @lydibug51 3 місяці тому

      I hope you're doing better while dealing with the loss of your beloved cat.

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 3 місяці тому

      @@lydibug51
      You are very kind. ❤️

  • @BlueChloe99
    @BlueChloe99 4 місяці тому +3

    This is extremely messed up. I can’t image what that child will go through once she’s old enough to find out what her mothers story is. And how lost she will feel knowing that the person that raised her all her life could potentially be her moms killer . This is insane. She should be with her mothers family!

  • @svddenevphoria
    @svddenevphoria 4 місяці тому +8

    your videos are so calming despite the content you cover. i don’t comment often but i truly am a huge supporter of all mile higher media ❤

  • @tinaarabia825
    @tinaarabia825 4 місяці тому +12

    Truly it's frustrating that an airport parking lot doesn't have a working camera, or a functional CCTV 🤬😡

  • @rm473
    @rm473 4 місяці тому +7

    KENDALL!!! I just want to say how much I appreciate you! Feels like you are working overtime with The Sesh, Mile Higher, and your own channel. You are constantly feeding us, thank you !!

  • @Nemo0279
    @Nemo0279 3 місяці тому +1

    Usually the gruesome cases are the heaviest. However because the child is still being raised by the people involved with her death, this just makes this case so much more heavy than any case I've heard

  • @JinxyXO
    @JinxyXO 4 місяці тому +51

    The fatal bear hug happened in an underwater case! Tina Watson ❤

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +28

      Lots of comments about this, but I don’t think I’ve even heard of that case! I may have to look into it

    • @JinxyXO
      @JinxyXO 4 місяці тому +3

      @@KendallRae it's a crazy one!! I'd love to see you cover it 💕 100% love you and your team, all of your podcasts get us through the weeks!

    • @CHIED.C.
      @CHIED.C. 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@JinxyXO
      Is that the case based in
      Great Falls, Montana?
      The guy who killed his wife after a night out of drinking?
      I remember now, Roy Scott is his name.

    • @momopeach23
      @momopeach23 4 місяці тому

      @@CHIED.C.i couldn’t find anything on that, but if you can find the details of the case i’d love to look into it!

    • @traciehart4470
      @traciehart4470 4 місяці тому +3

      Isn’t that the one where the husband killed his wife, while on their honeymoon here in Australia, up on our beautiful Great Barrier Reef? If it is that one was truly heartbreaking also. He only got something like 18months for it here, because police both here and in the US couldn’t find enough evidence of actual murder, even though everybody absolutely thought/knew it was. So incredibly sad and frustrating

  • @Bellalagoo1967
    @Bellalagoo1967 4 місяці тому +3

    Hard for the wife not to notice a huge hole in your backyard. Flanders should not have access to that child. Disgusting.

  • @ILJ68
    @ILJ68 4 місяці тому +105

    The Bear Hug was a murder method in an Agatha Christie story

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  4 місяці тому +11

      Hmm not the one I’m thinking of, I Havnt covered that case

    • @mmwalm
      @mmwalm 4 місяці тому +22

      @@KendallRaeit’s an old murder mystery book series.

    • @NathalieCwiekSwiercz
      @NathalieCwiekSwiercz 4 місяці тому +19

      ​@@KendallRaegirl what, "not the one you're thinking of", it's not even a case, it's the name of famous crime book series 😂😅 why did you make it sound like you knew "that case" when it's not even a case, like it's okay not knowing every case there is haha this was funny ❤😂

    • @carsonsmith8607
      @carsonsmith8607 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@@NathalieCwiekSwiercz🤣🤣 thought the same thing

    • @AngiedaCosta-pq1xp
      @AngiedaCosta-pq1xp 4 місяці тому +22

      @@KendallRaeit was Tina Watson. She was on honeymoon w/husband. They were scuba diving.

  • @MF-Dog-Mom
    @MF-Dog-Mom 4 місяці тому +1

    Seeing your sweet kitty in the background really helps sometimes when hearing these awful stories

  • @MsGoody91
    @MsGoody91 4 місяці тому +9

    Kay is a real one for turning that laptop right over to the cops, unreal the wife got to keep that baby, I am horrified.

  • @Axelsmom
    @Axelsmom 4 місяці тому +2

    Just found this podcast and subscribed! Love your sweet cat in the background!

  • @patricianolan5053
    @patricianolan5053 4 місяці тому +7

    I feel so sorry for the child she will find out this shocking story one day

  • @cheetahlees
    @cheetahlees 4 місяці тому +6

    the bear hug makes it sound like it was accidental and it definitely wasn't, he said it himself that he got scratched by marie during that final argument

  • @n.r.perkins527
    @n.r.perkins527 4 місяці тому +31

    They are both guilty as hell.

  • @juliakrzywdzinska820
    @juliakrzywdzinska820 4 місяці тому +7

    the fact that tonya isn’t even biologically related to the child but is raising the child is absolutely beyond me. who allowed that to happen?

    • @chrissybouchat101
      @chrissybouchat101 4 місяці тому +1

      In some states, if your spouse has a child during your marriage with someone else, you have rights to that baby.