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Wen she sed that men won’t settle because were selfish I laughed men settle for ugly women all the time because of sec drive “I’m a good looking male believe it or not...” looking for a equally good looking women but I’ve got basically zero social skills, so I’m in the weird position of always having the opportunity to sleep with ugly women who can’t afford to look for a guy thats good looking and socially skilled but I’m not interested in any women who isn’t at least as physically attractive as I am but attractive women are competed for so fearsomely because birth control stops the competition from ever ending
Movies does not clarify that only the top 15 percent of men who does the dumping because they have many options compare to the average which we have none at all. Movies doesn't red flag that attitude about branch swinging.
Get a haircut
I might be missing this, but did you mention the source of the study in the original video. I'm very interested in reading it.
I can sense that Mae learned a lot of the relationship dynamics just by watching the girls around her just like I do. As a 20 y/o muslim girl, I have chosen to not engage in pre-marital sex at all. Surprisingly as a girl who never engaged in any romantic relationship, many girls ask me for advice for every small nuances with their partners. I have noticed many girls branch-swinging right after their breakups due to abundance of mates in their prime and yes it is always pre-planned, the men usually want to reconcile but are completely shut down. It does explain why breakups and divorces are overwhelmingly initiated by women.
Same as a muslim I see this all the time, sad state really.
Wow, that's a really accurate assessment. Couldn't have said it any better.
you're a smart girl and you'll benefit from it in the future. Keep it that way and all the best to you!
You could of identified as a young strong independent woman...but instead you identified as a "Muslim" girl, as if it has some value or meaning. In fact, this one statement displays the sad truth about religion and why we need to discard these old myths. I would guarantee, that you, like all children, have had religion shoved down your throat from the time you were born and as such, you are in fact not a Muslim girl but in fact a product of what you have been trained to believe...if Christians had you, you would be a Christian, if Jews had you, you would be a Jew and so on....I strongly believe that it should be illegal to teach and person about religion under the age of 18 and you are a perfect example of why we should do this. The next statement of you stating that you are not going to engage in pre-marital sex basically eliminates your choice of men by almost 99.9%,..this is because the number of males wanting to get married is decreasing at a rapid rate and very few men will wait for sex because getting it these days is as easy as swiping right. Also marriage is a very bad investment for males these days and more and more males are learning this the hard way and in return they are re-educating younger males to avoid marriage and walk away from any for of relationship commitment. Men are now setting standards and looking for value and what a female will bring to the table and 99.9% of women are now falling well below the standards of what males want. Lastly. Marriage is out dated and there is no value to marriage because it brings nothing to a relationship....now you might say it brings commitment ...errr....no it doesn't, it brings forced commitment ( never get these two mixed up ) you are either a committed person or your not and marriage is not a magical tool that gives you commitment. Also we live in a world where we actively teach young people to never settle and to always upscale and up grade and to get rid of the old and get the new....we have educated the young to never commit, in just the same way you have been trained to be a Muslim and not just a young lady.
@@waynezodiac8635 you sound like a Reddit atheist
I have a guy friend that I've known since we were little. When we were in high school the guy was a romantic, a dreamer. His first true love came only a year after high school where he fell in love with a slightly older woman who was in the middle of a divorce. He fell hard and fast, within 6 months he was considering marriage. She however was far more practical, she had a 5-year-old boy to think about and my friend was only a freshman in college with no prospects yet. So of course, despite her feelings for him, she dumped him and went back to her husband and patched up their relationship rather than continuing with the divorce.
Of course, my friend was crushed, but he eventually somewhat got over her, and two years later he fell in love again. This time the woman was closer to his own age and was "quite wild", as he would say. She suffered from bipolar disorder, though over the course of their 6-month lovefest she had seemed totally normal. One day she walked up to his door with a huge smile on her face and broke up with him like she was ordering a salad at the Olive Garden. He was of course confused and crushed but, he would have eventually gotten over it. The problem was that they went to the same social events, constantly. They went to the same clubs, had the same circle of friends, had the same classes in college... they were constantly within sight of each other. And she didn't care in the least... she flirted with men, dirty danced with them at clubs in front of him. She had zero thought about his feelings. Until one day the man snapped. I watched as the most friendly, and the most peaceful man I'd ever known... jumped over 3 tables, busted a beer bottle on the wall, and tried to gut the man she was with. Fortunately, we were there in a group and his male friends tackled him, preventing what would have certainly been a mistake he'd have regretted for the rest of his life.
What's strange is that about fifteen minutes later he had no idea how he'd gotten from the barstool to the booth we were sat in. He didn't remember anything that had just happened at all and was wondering why three bouncers were standing in front of the table just waiting to dropkick him.
He changed that day... I swear something inside him broke. He became almost an emotionless machine from that day forward. He struggles to make friends now, and even now.... 25 years later... My friend hasn't dated anyone at all, not because there are no women interested in him, but because he can't love anymore. He's lightened up a lot since those first few years, but he still looks like a military veteran who's seen war, even though he's never served.
Damn I felt that."can't love anymore"
Man I can relate. It's been 15 years for me. In my situation my gf that I was planning on proposing to bailed on me the night a family member ended themselves to party. Then a few days later found out she was sleeping with my best friend. 1 year of depression but kinda still broken and have had no desire to date even though I do get the chance. Responding to infidelity posts and talking with other online has helped me immensely. Just started when I stumbled on a video and never stopped. And oddly I'm feeling the urge to find someone again. Despite hearing countless horror stories, weird isn't it? I'm far better equipped nowadays and a lot less shallow. We will see I guess. Have your friend get into therapy, it will help.
That sounds like some PTSD that your friend has got. So sorry to hear about your friend, ending up like that.
I know how your friend feels. It hasn't been 25 years for me but I imagine it will be soon enough...
And so many woman think they are powerless
I like hearing Mae's comments. It further confirms everything I know, and it's nice to hear it from a woman. It's a nice change from the normal defensive denial of most women.
Do you think she is shaved?
@@Mogamishu that is very inappropriate.
Definitely
If Mae was more stereotypically beautiful I highly doubt she would be this candid. She also laughed at men loving a woman but at the same time I bet she is the type to enjoy romantic novels or movies. Never believe what a woman says, any woman. Even our mothers bold faced lied to us about unconditional love and saying that we are special and valuable just for sliding out of a vagina.
@@Alisha0413 It's not really inappropriate, it's a joke and it made me laughl. However, what is inappropriate is a woman telling men what's appropriate and what isn't in a space primarily geared towards men. Why do women always do this? Men don't do this in womens' spaces.
It becomes more and more apparent to me that it ought to be the women pursuing men. Women doing the initializing. Women doing the wining and dining. Period. Not the other way around. And if she's not chasing you, gentlemen, it's best to just find fulfillment and achievement elsewhere. The world has gone completely off the rails.
@@thinishot as true as this may be, men can't tell the difference now because of all the fake playing women can do. Mind you men can do the same, but evidently there is far fewer men capable of pulling it off.
Traditionalism died with the rise of feminism, me2 and the general harsh treatment towards current day men. So because of those women who pushed for this and those who stood by doing nothing. Ominous is right, you'll have to initiate, you'll have to pursue and then years from now maybe we'll have a semblance of balance. Until then, gl to all
@@thinishot If you genuinely mean that then your actions will easily get you a traditional man. If you can accept a average man if you are an average woman.
Women will all chase the same 3 guys in town.
Collateral damage stay lonely traditional girls if you're not lucky to find a sucker
@@joelrogers8530 totally agree with your stance which is why it's essential to focus on things you can control. Protect your assets at all cost, have boundaries and the mentality if she chooses to leave let her be. Long term loyalty is a tough thing to find even when you tick all/most of the boxes.
The 3 women that cheated on me in my lifetime monkey branched straight to another guy and decades later all they ended up with was empty promises and empty handed
hey at least you got the last laugh. appreciate the cosmic joke.
I was monkey branch by my first fiance he cheated on me with the girl he moved in with then told me he cheated one other time with another girl I was heart broken so it happens on both sides not just women do this men do too.
@@elizabethb3436 u were with a high value male. doesn't count, most guys can't pull monkey branching.
Thе sооnеr thеу did it, thе bеttеr wаs fоr уоu. Yоu shоuld givе thе оthеr реrsоn thе орроrtunitу аnd dоn't stор thеm if thеу dо. Yоu аutоmаtiсаllу win еvеn if thеу dоn't еnd uр with еmрtу рrоmisеs аnd еmрtу-hаndеd
A few notes on monkey branching: the woman is making calculated (and subconscious) choices based on perception. Perception does not always align with reality. As the West will continue to see, MANY women are going to continue to view potential/value through incorrect perceptions and will pay dearly for it.
she's 19? Never would i have guessed that considering how mature she is in analyzing the subject
Ikr
She's a true woman of culture.
The older ones are tainted.
Our only hope lies with the young
people outside the US grow up faster
@@satoshinakamoto7253 germany here - nope, they do not.
I think it's a problem when some women start monkey branching when they are already in a good marriage but have become bored because their husband cares about them and is not a Chad.
Pop media puts fantasies in their heads.
their not ready for a marriage in their current state for my point of view. women like that are more likely to play around more than to settle down at a young age.
The wall will learn them.
We become bored because we already got his seed.
You fix that boredom with an open marriage, but these days we have way too much to gain from divorce instead
this reasoning is why the number of men dating decreases rapidly by the day, I can understand them if this is the kind of women I will meet.
Mae makes a sharp observation at the 20 minute mark. Women will take the trivial and inconsequential within their relationship and elevate these to crisis proportions when seeking to break-up. It's a defense mechanism against admitting that they just "felt" like ending things on a whim and recognise how callous and shallow that makes them. I credit her with acknowledging the reality of this.
Its a manipulation game. But its Not just about internalized guilt. Its about the fact that they are trying to maintain their Reputation, outside of the relationship. Meaning... if they were the ones being cold and cruel... they dont want that getting out to the public eye. Its far better to try to get the current man to react badly / break up... so that they dont have to deal with the potential blowback from public judgements.
@@johndough8115 Perception among a woman's peer group would certainly be a factor. We have an expression here in the UK about not letting others load the bullets in your gun. So, yes, she can load the gun and goad him into pulling the trigger.
Yes they often feel they need some tangible reasoning so it doesn’t seem callous. The reasoning offered is often in itself a genuine issue or grievance that did affect the relationship but as you say is elevated artificially to a higher status then it actually merits.
But really it didn’t cause the breakup - it didn’t help but it wasn’t the main cause. But it’s something they can nevertheless use it to bash you over the head with so in that sense it becomes a very handy prop alongside the cover story.
When they start doing that and start causing drama and misbehaving about things that never bothered them before, that's a clear sign they are talking to someone (or more) behind your back. Matt from The33Secrets spoke about this a long time ago. When they do that, just dump them whether or not you're in abundance or not. In fact that type of behavior should not be allowed by a man's boundaries that he needs to clearly define at the outset.
When a woman is ready to move on, depending on the circumstances, she will often provoke a man into fights in an effort to trigger him into initiating the breakup.
19 yr old girl: The idea that women need men is offensive.
Also 19yr old girl: Falling in love is a luxury. Women don't have this luxury. It's the basis of your survival in terms of reproduction and protection. Men are more self sufficient and can defend themselves. Men are not so dependent on relationships.
This is a very interesting perspective.
Yep!
This is a good argument for raising women's wages and mandating workplace parental leave benefits and giving governmental support for childcare.
Andrew must be sarcasm…
Alot of girls I know , fully know that monkey branching is a thing. They do get offended though ,when u tell em it's called monkey branching and dudes know about it 🤣
bc they think it's righteous thing to do if there's a reason for it. the problem is, they ALWAYS find a reason 😁
It's very difficult trying to explain the truth about women to young men. They think they know it all. So I just point them to Alexander Grace. Saves me time.
If you want to up it a notch, you should check out Fresh & Fit Podcast. ;)
@@KubusSc7 not after the Aba & Preach fiasco
Well said !
AMS bro
Alexander Grace
Casey Zander
Anthony Spade
Darius M
Stephiscold
Men are not emotionally prepared to deal with women. When I was in a relationship with my Ex, she was obsessed with me for 3 years. Suddenly she’s not in love anymore and has a new boyfriend within 2 weeks.
I was not emotionally prepared for this, and I’m still dealing with the damage years later. Thank you for making these videos fo protect other young men from the trauma I experienced!
obsessiveness is a red flag.
Modern men have bought into false pretenses concerning women. The various movements in the 20th century removed societal constraints on women’s (and to an extent, men’s) behavior. As these constraints are continued to loosen even more, men should be prepared to witness all kinds of unfettered female behavior.
Could be Borderline Personality Disorder
4:47 Not so fast there, men don’t have the high standards that females do. Not to mention female easy mode or cheat codes lol (makeup + online filters)
The older a man becomes, the less they actually care especially after repeated hurt from what they perceive as a healthy relationship. Men become robots the older they become.
True
True
"Because she didn't have any other options..." You know, there is always one other option: don't be in a relationship, be alone. Of course, that would entail having no external validation, rather than, as implied, getting some external validation even though it isn't the specific validation you wanted.
Except this concept literally goes against women's sexual/romantic nature. The point is that they won't FEEL unsatisfied with their current relationship in the first place until they know they can have something better.
I like the fact that this video shows the perspective of a male and a female. It does give it more legitimacy. Great work!
As for the woman saying that they would try to inflate and create problems on purpose... I believe she said that it was partially out of guilt. However... Its actually a manipulation game. Its about the fact that they are trying to maintain their Reputation, outside of the relationship. Meaning... if they were the ones being cold and cruel... they dont want that getting out to the public eye. Its far better to try to get the current man to react badly / break up... so that they dont have to deal with the potential blowback from public judgements.
they dont need to do that, women can just break up with men, then lie about it to all their friends, who tell their boyfriends about it, and then the man will be socially ostracized even if he did literally nothing wrong because the other guys arent willing to risk their relationship to back him up
To date, every single woman I've ever been with has done this to me. Treated me so horribly. Especially about sex. So many women who accused me of not wanting a commitment or only wanting sex and then dumping me...when all I've ever wanted is a solid, committed relationship. So many that I started to believe it. Common denominator, right? Now, I know that they were just gaslighting me. In hindsight, it makes total sense: all of these women had a new boyfriend within a few days, some even on the same day.
Here is an honest, real example: Met a girl online, we talked for 2 months, finally met and hit it off immediately. Two weeks into the relationship, she met with me and a few my friends. It was a "meet the friends" moment, ya know? One of those "friends" was, unfortunately, a Chad. She was literally his girlfriend 3 days later and I was, "Only interested in sex." We...hadn't even had sex yet and discussed it one time. :|
Another example? Sure! : My high school "sweetheart" left me for my sister's 32 year old boyfriend the *very moment* she turned legal. She literally dumped me when I went to give her a birthday gift. And I was, "afraid of commitment"...we were together for 3 years.
How about this one? Another girlfriend was cheating on me with a married Army Recruiter. Got pregnant with his kid while still with me, made me think it was mine. Ruined his marriage and his career. (His wife outed him to his CO.) Then she moved in with him, in one day, while I was at work, and called me *from his house* to dump me and tell me it was his kid. I was also, "only interested in sex". She left me in such a bad way that I had to quit my job and move back home. I also had to return the engagement ring I got, which is way, way more embarrassing than you can possibly imagine.
These are 3 examples and I've dated about 30 women in my lifetime. And, I stress this, every single one did the same or similar things to me. The only advice I've ever gotten is to: keep trying. The right one is out there?
stop giving them commitment without having fun in the bedroom. you meet someone you like, you make it clear you like them, then you ask them to come over to your place and have some fun. if they dont make you the number one priority in their life at that time, tell them theyre not right for you and ignore them until they fix their attitude and give you what you want.
Read the rational male!!!
Change tactic. Meet a girl, be totally non committal, get her into bed, have lots of sex, still be non committal. She will be all over you like a rash. Make women think you’re not bothered about anything except sex and they will want a relationship
@@StoutProper yeah youre right. i have to admit though, i hate manipulating people like that. i've been used enough times to know how terrible it feels.
Tried dating American women and they are downright evil. Found myself a Filipino woman who I fell in love with and am now married to and expecting a child. She is amazing. The best thing that could ever happen to me relationship wise. We actually met online too. Shocker, right? Look to Asia. You'll have better luck and better choices of high quality woman that actually love you and care about you.
Monkey branching is real for women. I've been associated with some girls that would drop their current boyfriend if they got a firm commitment by myself to stay with them which made me feel that the switch wouldn't necessarily be the last time they would do that. My sister has always had the notion to tell me when she would drop her boyfriend months from when she would formally end the relationship, but as to if she had someone else lined up, she was always confident enough to not worry about dating. It's a different world for women and men shouldn't think that female situations are similar to a man's perspective.
The idea how you say that "high quality women" who are loyal actually exist is so comforting to hear, especially given that I don't see much evidence of it.
Well I am one who has been with the same man 40yrs..through thick and thin he was bankrupt when I met him and I was a well paid PhD professional so much for hypergamy..he had a Bachelors degree. He was however high IQ same interests and personality...what I was looking for if that isnt loyal I dont know what is.
all women cheat, but u only know about those who are found out
@@latinaalma1947are YOU attractive though?
@@dy4710 Then I was I guess about a 7 in my age group NOW I am a 9 in my age group because I had terrific genes for aging slowly AND I took care of myself...the best looking senior woman in my town.
@@latinaalma1947exceptions prove the rule 😂
"It sounds rude". Thats not a "No"
Exactly. She just deflected by jumping straight into her feelings. Classic. Didn't even answer the question - she just basically said "I don't like your tone."
A humble offering for the algorithm.
Why are there still men claiming women deserve EVEN more rights? Who is responsible of this nonsense?
Corporations and political agents. Follow the money.
They deserve equal lefts
Schools
Liberals.
Equal rights, but not MORE, scale is tipped for them 😂 If things were more equal, it would benefit us all. Give them the draft, balance out family court etc.
I’m 41 and I still have feelings for my high school sweetheart, and I’ve never been as heavily invested in another woman as I was in her.
Imo I don't think that falling in love is a luxury for males, but a liability. It benefits a man in no way whatsoever who is self sufficient, and surviving (if not thriving) on his own to become emotionally attached to someone. The man is devoted to someone who instinctually is very likely to NOT be devoted to him, and will if at any moment the opportunity presents itself exit the relationship like a burning building; it's not a very attractive deal.
Therefore, I think it is more the conditioning of men to be more susceptible to emotion and especially our physical urges, and not use our ability to sift through those feelings with rational that has caused us to become vulnerable to hypergamy.
Love is necessary for stability in reproduction and nurturing. Humans are more social animals than wolves. Sexual competition in human societies (ie tribes) is destructive.
@@Rampart.X No you're right, love is absolutely necessary component of what makes us human, we absolutely need it because I believe human beings are physical, mental, and spiritual beings. But, in the context of hypergamy and it's relevancy to our more primitive aspects love could not possibly be described as a luxury, because it serves no purpose for survival, especially when the one you love could leave you because she found a better deal. I understand the purpose of using hypergamy as way to understand women a bit more, but it often turns into an excuse as to why or a bs reason to let women succumb to their lesser selves.
"love" is nothing more than an attachment anyway. Excellent comment and this will be going into the vault. Thanks for the insight.
@@lordzooq8987 Thank you for the kind words sir ✌🏾
Very underrated comment and 100% true.
How did the 1 dislike even watch this video long enough to dislike it? This was literally released 10 minutes ago and is 26 minutes long…
Trolling
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj oh well, it still helps dude in the algorithm… so no idea why those idiots wouldn’t just ignore this content instead…. Unless you can “ratio” a video…. Disliking a video doesn’t seem to be helpful, lol
Alexander gets a lot of hate for daring to have these opinions and viewpoints from certain sectors of society. They're even some videos built to just diss the guy
Whoever disliked the video monkey branched and hated about the fact they got exposed
I'm sorry, have you been living under a rock or something for about ten years or so? There are countless bots surfing the net, they just do random actions to authenticate themselves as humans in YT's eyes and then be sold as likes or views for someone who pays.
This could save more lives than any medication, this is EXTREAMLY IMPORTANT information to both men and women. This really should be in schools, everyone would benefit greatly.
Being in love is the most powerful drug I've ever experienced, with as damaging a downside...
It's not love but attachment. In this culture of trauma-based bonding we are driven hard by our unfulfilled early childhood needs, and we attach to a mother/father substitute. We give up our boundaries and have a child-like attachment to get any semblance of love for these wounded inner children of our psyche. Similarly we get totally devastated by a breakup or betrayal.
Love doesn't demand anything and you cannot get it from another. It's a quality of our consciousness, accessible by all who do the work to heal themselves from their attachment wounds.
@@edheldude Without intention to insult you personally that philosophy is nonsense.
@@DarkThagan It's empirical. I work with people daily on their attachment wounds and this is what comes up. We do therapy on their subpersonalities (these inner children as they're called in many forms of psychotherapy).
Believe it or not.
You carry these emotional wounds too. We all do.
(You can check out Internal Family Systems therapy model. E.g. the book "You are the one you've been waiting for" which deals with relationships)
You're taking the wrong drugs
@@edheldude take it easy there mr Freud. i have plenty of traumas. i dont want to date any woman who is remotely like my mother. i want the opposite, actually. i want someone who is pretty, soft, and capable of loving me.
Something I see missed in the discussion about female "evolutionary behavior" is the "evolutionary behavior" of men as a counter to it. Women act as if their behavior is justified because it made sense for women to do it in pre history. Do you think your feeling of disgust about their behavior didn't exist back then as well? What do you think men did to women back then knowing this, considering the supposed lack of societal backlash for those evolutionary behaviors? They probably kept those women on a tight leash and were allowed to use their force as the stronger sex to enforce their will. So would abusive men be the natural biological reaction to promiscuous female behavior? Just saying, if women's natural behavior is justified then so would ours.
Also, if men naturally dislike women's promiscuous behavior, why would that behavior exist if it should have been bred out? The women that were more reliable and more attractive would produce more children.I personally blame a lack of accountability for anything beyond being picky when a woman is single.
Yep, that's the only thing that bugs me a lot in his video's - and in many videos about the Crimson one in general …
There's always that other kind of manner to encounter the bold, naked F! here, it's actual understanding, or better love … _Right?_
Many teach the approach of understanding and how hyperg@my would be just a woman's nature and that they literally _can't_ act otherwise, how it's all evolutionary, hormones breaking free and whatnot. You know, the usual slippery slope. Büllsh!t, stop buying that crabs!
Today's men have to overlook the fact that _she literally _*_can't_*_ resist out of hormones for jumping of joy off the Cliff of Fortune™_ and so on. That men have to forgive a woman and are supposed to apologise her the behaviour - which _is_ wrong. Yet none woman out-there would argue the same in favour of men. Think about that for a second!
*_None_*_ of today's women_ would forgive him *_any_*_ kind of infidelity_ - no matter how hot the chick was. *Relationship and marriage is about exclusivity!*
He went on to engage adultery, simple as that, right? Why? A man being engaged is supposed to stay faithful and loyal towards his woman, under all circumstances - no matter if that hot blonde at party grabbed D!ck's present when sweetheart went to the bathroom, if the young-blooded neighbour-chick sunbathing completely naked or doing her gardening in just a Thong-Bikini is asking if he's single (for a friend!).
It's a absolute tolerance of infidelity men are supposed (and told) to accept and get over with, which is actually just a damn excuse-package to cheat being nicely wrapped into a present, still dripping wet of another man's D!ck (whose name is actually not D!ck but Chad…) and being presented as a gift while having _»It's hypergamy, _*_I'm sooo sorry!!!_*_ I can't help it. Don't worry, I'm mature, it's just nature!«_ written all over it in bold, capital letters.
… so all in all the very last-ditch attempt and final trying to manipulate a man. _Say _*_»No!«_*_ to h03!_
You can Start A Genuine World War with this one right here😂😂
@@Smartcom5 woooow Bruh....
Exactly...
I always kept on saying...
If Hypergamy is Natural and Exclusively Feminine,
If Hypergamy is Justified,
Then Men desiring to have Sex with any and Every Desirable woman is Justified.. Since its in our Biological makeup
im pretty sure at this point that outlawing certain types of "physical discipline" plus giving women the vote was a mistake.
@@TheSuperappelflap I think so too. If we assume that ideas are vetted and survive centuries or more because they work, then the overwhelming policy of male lead politics is something that works. It's clear that the western tradition of shaming worked to keep the more socially focused female from acting out. A male would likely receive shame or humiliation for having relations with a women that was exposed and shamed by society, which means the punishment is twofold for those women. It's the opposite of today, where men who speak out against this have the societal machine working to end their genes. This all resulted from men being passive instead of standing up for themselves.
I think women don't fall in love as easily because they have all kind of options to explore so they are much more discerning. However, watch how quickly and madly in love they get when they identify you as their best option.
Lol true
19 years old and this well articulated, damn
but she says she had no romantic or sexual relationships.....hmmmmmm
@@6abhisekbackup9 why does that make a difference?
This woman a real one. She is also intelligent and knows how to express herself perfectly. Protect Mae at all cost!
maybe shes a pick me trad con chameleon, you deduced her entire personality on one video lol no hope for you
Young fellas, if you're going to get all emotionally intense with a woman at any stage, just realise this will end up with you being abandoned and betrayed.
Dont make a fool of yourself for any woman.
Constantly ponder breaking up with her at every stage, it gives you a totally different perspective on her worth to you
Yes, men have to realize we are the prize and they need us to elevate their lives to get a lifestyle they can not give themselves. Darius M has been making great videos with that as his repeating message. I would love to see a collaboration between Alex & him some day.
The problem arises when she finds a better option( man) that also has more options. She leaves a good secure man, for a man who can pick & choose( Chad). She may just be a temporary fling. Her Chad option has very little intention on choosing her permanently.
Then she blames men. Lacking all self awareness.
A woman has left you. Long before she physically leaves.
Alexander this is one of several videos you’ve made that could be considered a “theory of everything “ with respect to man/woman relationships. One of those 26-minute shortcuts that teach young men the comprehensive reality. Thanks.
500 YT manosphere lectures condensed to 26 minutes.
I think Alexander Grace should make a video about why women starts getting bored in a relationship when there has been a lack of drama in a while
Don't be her bailout package.
Rip that one NBA player PJ. need to remind people the mistake he made. Dealing with bag chasers.
9:42 That's why qualifying a girl is so important for seduction. Because the girl convinces herself you "love" her, and hence are less likely to leave after sex, if she believes she has impressed you.
the problem here is that a lot of women only want casual sex without commitment so if they think youre less likely to leave after sex, you have less chance of getting any with them.
19:00 golden rule: don't listen to what they say. She's right the"reasons" are just society acceptable post_event justifications for why she did what she wanted to do for different reasons. It's ego and reputation protection, so she increases her chances of locking down a new sexual prospect, whilst trying not to feel guilty for considering her partner inferior and following her strategy to lock down "better".
And the absolute best way to protect your ego and convince others of your sincerity is to utterly convince/gaslight yourself that you're telling the truth. That way your words, actions and body language don't betray yourself
I needed to hear this like 20 years ago.
Nice to see a woman who actually reflects on it. Most women I know are in complete denial. And in my experience being in denial do make them hurt alot more men because they have choosen not to be aware. One of my main problems with women are, I feel, they are in general more dishonest about their motivations than men. Example... if you want to find a woman, then don't ask a woman for advice...you actually is better of talking to a real player...so again the female denial end up hurting alot of people.
It's weird though. Women are more practical about continuing relationship. But overall men are much more rational. I guess that's why it's hard to notice
you can ask women for dating advice, as long as you do the exact opposite of all the things they say
I noticed both of you mentioned mentioned women react negatively because they think collectively and relate it to them defending their gender.
In my experience the collective thinking is correct but they dont take offense as defense of their gender. They relate the question to the collective of women in her immediate circle. Her defense is one of the women she knows, so feels she has to defend her family and friends.
@@yunggolem4687 boom headshot.
Very insightful, she almost seems like the younger female version of you :). The sun glasses were a bit odd, but other than that I enjoyed the discussion.
I was married to my high school sweetheart, we started dating at 16 and got married at 23, she divorced me several years ago when we were both 45. So we had been together for almost 30 years and married for 23.
Ironically I was never smitten with her, I even tried to break up with her several times while we were dating. But she would get so upset that I would relent, and to be honest she was attractive, intelligent, treated me extremely well, and she was very driven. So I eventually had to decide if I was going to cut her loose once and for all, or marry her. At the end of the day we got along well and she checked every box so...
We both had successful careers and would think nothing of being apart weeks at a time for business trips... I never once cheated on her (and there were many opportunities, some extremely overt), not because I was madly "in love" but because I made a commitment and had to much respect for our relationship and out family. We had one child after being married for 10 years, I waited because we moved around a lot for career opportunities, but also because I wanted to be sure we would go the distance before having kids.
Unfortunately after having a child we discovered that she was not the stay at home type, but her career was to unstable for me to stay home, so our daughter spent a lot of time with nannies and fancy day care centers. I was not angry about this development, but I also was not going to have more children just to hand them over to strangers to raise, so we only had the one child. Both of us were away a lot for work and did not have supportive family close by so we had to rely on nanny services and juggle our schedule so at least one of us was around. However, there was very little drama, and when we were together we all got along really well, so we told ourselves it was not the amount of time, but the quality... bla bla bla. Then her business venture failed and her career began to stagnate, she took a job that paid well, but doing work she did not enjoy. We agreed to stop moving so our daughter could grow up with some consistency.
Things did get a bit stale but I thought we were solid so... Then she started getting critical of everything I did or said, or didn't say, I just figured she was going through a phase until one day... She even accused me of possibly cheating, one time because of a dream she had, and another time claiming she could smell perfume on me. I was not concerned and just laughed it off because I knew that I had not done anything so... I was very naïve and complacent, after thirty years...
When she asked for a divorce I of course asked if there was someone else, and of course she swore up and down there wasn't. I tried to talk her out of it for our daughter's sake (she was 11 at the time) but she had it all figured out and in her "opinion" it was far worse for her to see us in a "loveless marriage". I was against the divorce but I was also not heart broken about it either, we were together for so long that I never had an adult relationship with another woman, so I would be lying if I did not admit that a part of me always wondered about it. That coupled with the fact that she had been so miserable for so long, there was a part of me that was relieved. However, if it had been my choice we would still be married, but she was determined and nothing I said would change her mind. So I went along with it and tried to make the best of it for our daughter's sake.
Thankfully we both made good money (more or less the same) so there was no major arguments in the divorce, joint custody, no alimony or child support, and we split everything 50/50. However, 2-3 months after the divorce and she is dating this guy from Italy she met through work, then I remember her mentioning how she went to someone's home for dinner while we were still "happily married" and showed pictures of the family. I did not know at the time (and she did not mention) that it was a divorced man with kids. I was very naïve and trusting at the time. She has since married this guy and lives in Italy now. After watching videos like yours I now understand what was going on, she was projecting her behavior onto me in order to justify her actions.
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Damn that sucks brother. Believe it or not I've read many stories like your's and they all turned out the same in the end; with the women leaving their husband for the affair partner even though everything is good within the household. I felt what you went through when you mentioned your wife accused you of cheating because of a dream she had and when she smelled perfume on you. This is women's speak for I've been cheating on you but I want to keep my image of how people perceived me, so I want you to be the bad guy and break up with me. Stay strong brother.
You make a perceptive observation. Mae does seem to be a clear example of a woman who is very likely to be INTP on the Myers-Briggs personality scale.
19 and never heard of it??
Oh, wait, I forgot..
She's gaslighting herself.
Actually don't be surprised, I have two daughters who are a little older than her and I hadn't heard of it until relatively recently. I don't recognise it as natural behaviour just a good old fashioned choice to behave badly.
My friend's girlfriend broke up with him a couple of months ago. He was and is head-over-heels in love with her, and says he had no idea it was coming. I've spoken to both of them since, and she's clearly been better, but she's getting by, while he only eats when someone forces him to and says he spends some days doing nothing but writing letters to her he'll never send and reading texts from back when they were together. What Alexander said about men taking breakups harder is absolutely true, and it's heartbreaking to watch.
I've watched this all my life, and it enrages me. I have always had a personal policy of not getting involved in a relationship with a woman who is not "free" of relationships. I've been approached by women numerous times over the years who were either married or involved with another man. I refuse to be a "stepping stone". I also recognize that if a woman will do this to one partner, she will to another (me). Sex us a lure to lure one into a "trap" where she can "snatch" him.
Women are never single
And that is 50 year old research.
Think how old the play Macbeth is. It appears women have been manipulating since the beginning of time
@@itsspoodini you dont say
See I lost my partner earlier this year. Because I was an idiot but also because of hypergamy. She went shortly after to an older co worker which was sniffing around for a while and was a shoulder to cry on when we had problems. A lot of anger and fear went through me.
I know this is biological also but this has made me reconsider relationships on a massive scale and I am afraid to let someone come close to a certain point. And I can see why so many men are afraid and why so many hurt themselves or even take their life. Because it is not common knowledge and just goes under the radar on a huge scale. Closest you'll get is the "finding someone better" or " grass is greener" but understanding hypergamy on a deep level is just something else. Even as a word and it sounds scary.
I've almost never talked to a woman on a date and heard good things about her ex. I think without exception (maybe once or two exceptions) they all describe their past partner as abusive. When asked specifics, usually they clarify that it was emotional or verbal abuse.
Funny you say that, all the guys I know, as well as myself have been in abusive relationships with women. You are right on the money, all the women I've interacted with have only described their ex bf's in a bad light.
Well, I know my neighbour handed her husband divorce papers when she had already another guy, so that's one data point that confirms this theory.
I also want to include that she kept the house and custody over the children. He can see them, but they practically live with her. And this isn't even in the USA.
It boggles me that the social justice movement is silent about these grievances. How can anyone call this fair?
The one divorcing their spouse should get nothing. No property, alimony, no children because they are breaking the marriage contract. Can you imagine how much the divorce rate would fall if that was the law instead of the laws now that encourage women to divorce?
The reason women want to communicate their problems... is to plan and prepare option B if things don't turn out.
Yes, it's like a green light from others that things are going according to plan or adjustments need to be made.
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Great point, I think this needs to be spread far and wide, important and necessary.
Hey! I do this all the time! Cool to see someone else sacrificing some comments to appease the algorithmic gods! :D
Cheers to the Token comment for the algorithm!
Alexander grace NEEDS to be interviewed by fresh&fit podcast! ASAP!!!!!
They don't actually have much in common, though. They have very different objectives behind what they do.
We derived our notions of romantic love from the Middle Ages through the classic Medievel Romances. The best remembered and most popular of them all was the Arthurian legend, which BTW features monkey branching. King Arthur marries the younger and very beautiful Guinivere and builds Camelot, the glorious walled city. He presides over the Round Table where the noblest of knights sit with the king as equals. Then Lancelot comes along. He's handsome, more skilled in combat than all of the other knights, and expresses the highest devotion to Arthur and by extension his wife, the queen, Guinivere.
Guinivere had everything going for her, but Lancelot's beauty, prowess and purity of heart were all too much for her. Even though the Arthurian legend is fictional, elements of the story had to have been drawn from observances of real life examples.
Monkey branching is not something that just started recently as some trend that emerged from the Internet and social media. It's been going on forever.
Social media has heightened it. Average women monkey branch digitally with many suitors. All fantasy but the effects are the same.
im very impressed with this young lady- i understand all this stuff now as an older bloke, but i didnt know my arse from my elbow when i was 19yrs old, she is wise and very intelligent.
I've yet to marry, and based on my previous relationships and the things I'm seeing in the world today, I think I'm done playing this stupid game. It's a lose-lose scenario 99% of the time for most men anyway.
Marriage is a contract primarily to protect a women's biological investment into a relationship, but due to birth control and child support it's no longer necessary.
Modern women seem to be even worse at relationships then men. I think modern society is destroying womens ability to have relationships. There are an extreme amount of women who wanted to have a relationship only to end up single.
Any thing the opposite sex percieves as you being able to offer improvements to her survival, protection, procreation is "valuable". Creating anxiety in her by Making her feel she could missing out or lose you (and your value) is "seductive". Any thing that calms her anxiety, like putting the girl on a pedestal, fawning over her , compliment after compliment is anti-seductive
The higher value the girl percieves herself as, the higher value she will demand in a sexual partner. The more her needs are satisfied elsewhere outside her partner, by society/government, the less seductive those traits in a man will be.
So in a world where protection and provisioning are perceived to be satisfied outside the man, the priority seductive traits will be procreation traits: sexual experience, physical fitness
you killed it
@@syncbounce ya im pasting this in a txt doc. alwasy thought this but its jsut laid out so perfectly
May the algorithm bless this video
It's the optics and the term monkey branching that bothers them, Not the action.
My gf monkey branched to me and away from me. I didn't know about the manospehere or anything. I just thought she was casually taking to some guy. I had ore money then he did, better education and status. Well 5yrs later she left me for a guy with more money then me and status.
As the saying goes you loss them the way you found them.
Edit: O damn, she is right on about making things up to break up. My ex gas light the whole relationship at the end. She seemed nuts, like where is all this coming from? She wanted to break up and created all this in her head as an excuse since women esp don't want to be looked on as bad. Since she is monkey branching that is a way kind of cheating so this absolved her of guilt as you had wrong her in her mind so you got what was coming.
When I hear “it’s an older study” that translates to “it’s a more accurate study due to lack of political manoeuvring”
Finally a video about a video about a video!
Vidception!?
"A simulation inside a simulation inside another simulation."
My ex asked for a divorce the day after my dad died. Got married two months after the divorce to a "filthy rich guy" (her words). Took $250k from me to him in the divorce settlement.
And on top of that, well before the divorce, my stepdaughter and my ex were at a party at some rich executive's house. I was not there at this party. My stepdaughter was in the ninth grade at the time. She told my ex, "mom, why couldn't you have married someone like this?" My ex was very happy to tell me this story.
Don't marry a single mom...and just plain don't get married. I'm not complaining, because I made the mistake in picking her, just stating what happened to me. Don't let it happen to you.
Stay single.
Jesus, feel sorry for you man...
Absolutely brutal.
what you said about the 9th grade girl even goes to show that women are WIRED to be like this from the youngest age
Im not even sure men trade up as much as people think.. My Ex wife left me after 25 years.. Im now dating women 5-10 years younger.. from the outside it might look like i dumped her to trade up.. but that s not at all what happened.
Man srsly this dude is epic .
Disney has a lot to answer for. So does feminism. It’s taking me years to unlearn what I was fed as a young man, and still at 45 now I still struggle to fathom the cold calculating nature of females, and the lies us men were told.
Women aren't upset the other women behave this way; they're upset that men are on to them.
Her face got sour - because she got called out on it - and she has done it in the past... and wasn't aware there was a lable for her monkey swinging ways
Men aren't clueless. They notice but they get gaslit. Ever heard the phrase "why are you questioning me, you're just insecure".
If you just do a little of critical thinking, you discover that women throughout history have never ever actually loved someone. They have literally all had a back up plan. Meaning they were never fully engaged in any relationship they've ever had.
How pathetic.
Conditional love is not Love. Women cannot truly love a man. As a very romantic man it's tough to accept.
Inauthenticity is destroying the world. It is spiritual pollution that primitive people are blind to.
The behaviour is instinctive. Alex mentions this in many videos. It is about survival and has developed over hundreds of years of evolution.
Conditional love is love.
@@Ashtonishing1812 I guess it all depends on the conditions and how they're enforced. I disagree with the modern incarnation of being totally free to fall in and out of love with someone you've made a family with. Nothing is sacred in this world. But I wish it was. I wish some things were still sacred.
It's all on us. It's our nature. We are the one pedestalizing them. We are the one created all the romantic stories, poems, musics, movies, all, you name it. It's our innate desire to put them that special place in our mind and heart so we would do anything, give anything, even our lives, to provide and protect them and thus, our offsprings. It's our survival instinct for the preservation of our own genes.
Well said.
I don't blame women for "trading up" and I think men shouldn't be so ashamed to do so. Particularly, why is it so uncommon for men to openly seek out women that treat them better. We have this weird association that it's more macho or manly to not care how your treated. I think it shows a lot more strength for a man to expect to be treated well and we should have no shame about leaving a woman because we want to be treated better. Kinder women will also make better mothers.
"what is the timeline and plan?" they say. What they do: riding the cc until their 40 and then find a victim beta provider
Men take relationship break-ups worse because we genuinely love vwoman we don't care how much money the vwoman have we love them for them.
Vwoman love us for our resources which is shallow so it's not hard for them to walk away.
It must be just as hard for a woman to break up with a man,as for a man to spend 100$
@@jlasud not if she was only with him for his resources
Most important and socially valuable video on youtube.
8:44 yes she seems to understand finally, love is a choice not a feeling.
No it's not. It's a long term emotional-psychological state of mind that attracts a person to others.
@@Rampart.X for some females maybe ... but this one clearly sees the bigger picture. You will too ... in time.
@@Rampart.X i think thats more related to empathy than love. except if you mean love in the spiritual sense that you should love the world you live in and be in tune with it to attract a mate.
I really enjoy your videos and insights.
Women tend to make up drama and problems where none existed. There is nothing practical about this. It is completely emotion based and has no basis in fact. It also allows them to paint the man as the problem in the relationship, when the opposite tends to be true.
Refreshing to hear this young woman’s insights.
Longtime viewer of your channel. I've referred your channel to my friends more than any other. However, I've found that you cannot RP anybody . They have to have a life changing experience to get the awakening
I concur. Was for sure naive. Got into a relationship that was not good for her and for me. It did not end well. Because of that experience I went through so much change. It made me self reflect and for a time, the experience, made me into a not so good person. However, I would like to believe it has transformed me into a better person in the long run.
You need negative experiences to take the pill
It's crazy how Mae, a 19 year old woman has so much awareness and intelligence about both men's women's dating strategies whereas men at 19 till early thirties have zero clues about how dating works.
Lol it is way easier when things are not hidden from you
Men are brainwashed by single mothers, no fathers, media, government.
Damn she's incredibly introspective for her age, thats awesome.
Exactly, when she says that when someone, especially a man, talks about some specific behaviour in women, the woman you are talking to, will take it as a personal attack.
Another funny thing is when they say that you can't generalise, but always when is in negative terms. They haven't got any problem with generalisations if they are in positive terms. But here is the best of all: "you can't generalise BECAUSE FOR INSTANCE I AM NOT LIKE THAT". Ok, so because you are not like that, that means that no one is like that. And that is not an immense generalisation, at all... 😒
I feel that the unspoken truth behind dark masculinity (extreme male aggression) is that in almost all cases the man has been disrespected by a woman in some way during his formative years. It has created an intrinsic trauma that he can only gain relief from through violence.
A little kindness might save a lot more lives.
Something to this. Increasingly I've become more of an angry and violent individual I even imagine murder and crime all the time. Haven't had a real hug in years
Men don't branch swing, they spin plates. In the contest of evo psych, plate spinning is the proper strategy among a field of branch swingers. No matter if a plate swings away, her relative importance is minimal because no plate will spin forever. Your task as a man is to get skilled so that you can spin the optimal number of plates for the optimal time you desire. Some plates you stop spinning when a better plate comes into view and your roster was already full.
The thing with the pure evo psych models of human romance is that we have repeatedly moved away from it as a species because, as we are seeing *right now,* socially imposed norms can be an excellent source of stability that in fact ensures greater fitness / survival than more simian, cutthroat tactics.
Women are spinning far more plates than men. Spinning is the precursor step to grabbing the next branch.
@@kirdref9431 Men spin plates because the analogy is that it takes work to manage more than 2 at a time and keeping them aloft -- giving just enough attention not to drop or knowing when you should just let them drop. If you stop spinning them all, they all drop. Men stop spinning plates when they get into a relationship.
The free segx is the spinning plate, not a relationship.
The XX is trying to secure a relationship. They don't have a roster, they're just a plate on a lot of sticks -- if you get my drift. They can only firmly grab on one real branch at a time -- a branch is a commitment (the real winning state for XXs).
A man can let go of all plates because they're just plates -- extra work but no real change to his lifestyle except some extra work. There's no loss to him when they drop.
But an XX can't let go of all branches at once. They'll hit the ground hard. The reason the landing is hard is because nice branches aren't easy to come by and by the time you've lost grip of any of them, you're older and less able to grab another. That climb is a beast.
A man's primary goal is segx -- the less costly the better. Since most XXs aren't worth relationships anymore, cheap is what's on offer most of the time. Any win for a man includes segx. A relationship without segx is a roommate.
An XXs primary goal is resources. Segx is secondary because that's easy to get -- some guy will always be willing to hit-it. A relationship is vastly more valuable because it includes resources and family. A relationship without resources is the struggle state for XXs. They can live perfectly fine without segx in a marriage.
Branches are rare and it's painful to fall without having hold of another one.
Plates are cheap and optional. It's not painful to lose one. In fact, it's less work.
The analogies were chosen to fit the relative value of the thing possessed. When you lose a plate, you just get another and go on living the lifestyle you made for yourself.
When you lose a branch, you fall... and sometimes never get another. You lose the lifestyle which was provided by that "branch".
Men marry a person, XXs marry a lifestyle -- the person is optional... as the marriage tales and divorce stats have well proven.
@@geoffstemen3652 They aren't either-or, they're both-and.
Enforced monogamy in a tribe prevents that tribe from fratricide. But in a case where most of the men have been deleted by starvation or whatever, monogamy would leave some XXs without any productivity for the tribes survival.
Monogamy is for times of prosperity. polygyny is for times of great hardship.
There's no good case for polygandry because men are competitive and will somehow disadvantage or eliminate the child of rivals -- and they see all co-husbands as rivals... you can bet on that. Any male who permits co-husbands is a very low status male anyway so it's very poor genes -- the poorest. Polygandry is a lose-lose by any way it can be interpreted. There's a reason no successful civilization survived on that model.
As for extra-martial cheating of XXs, this tactic is to ensure that males remain vigilant to detect and defuse rivals. If a male doesn't care about cheating, then his will for genetic survival is low and he shouldn't reproduce anyway.
Men who cheat don't ruin the genetic survival of their wives AND they have offspring who will reproduce in any circumstance -- in a relationship or out of one.
Our segxual behaviors evolved to cope with constantly changing environments. The evo-psych inerplays with social norms to optimize reproduction in different contexts.
What we see today is the result of a pathological state which is rare. A time of plenty in which all reproductive accountability has been removed from females. I can't overstate how corrosive this is to the gene pool. It means that male virtue now has ZERO selection value for females. ZERO. All things which are virtues are, in fact, turn-offs. This only works for societies during the chaos of constant war -- when a prevalence of psychopaths and Machiavellians are required for tribal survival.
We are producing low IQ Dark Triad horror-shows as our next generations. This is an exponential effect because reproduction is an exponential phenomenon. This selection has been occurring since the early 70s when the pill removed the main selection factor which caused XXs to select average men who were virtuous rather than good-looking psychos.
Mark my words: our civilization has seen its last days. The demographic seeds are already planted and have germinated already for 50 years... and it's even worse today. The chaos and crime you see isn't some accident of politics.
Politics is downstream of virtues and IQ. Both of which are turn-offs to XXs in current year.
I wish I could say I pity humanity but it's only the POSes who are going to bear the brunt of this collapse anyway. My generation won't be alive to witness the end.
@@geoffstemen3652Well said!
They always have a backup man.
Always.
100%
Or a couple of 3 of them.
I broke up with my ex a year ago and she's still traumatized by it. She had never been broken up with before throughout all of her relationships, and the idea that a man found her to be a poor enough girlfriend to let her go destroyed her self esteem. I feel bad for her and still love her deeply. And she's coming to see now that it was for the best. I just worry if she learned good lessons from it.
Chad and Tyrone dont put women first. You reading this, shouldnt be either.
If hypergamy is going to teach men anything, literally anything at all, is that, as a man, you can't get more involved in the relationship than she is because she views the relationship as a means to an end and that means is supported by many "legs" that can be systematically kicked out from underneath and you will never know until the whole thing collapses.
I'm a practicing therapist and have been for over 30yrs. The aspect I think your missing around women's behaviors is the levels of sexual trauma women are exposed to in society. Although that shouldn't be an excuse to become predatory towards men, I think that happens more then society realizes. trauma that goes untreated creates to reactions coming out of an abusive, traumatic situation, one is to become a victim of it or the other is to develop predatory behaviors in place of allowing victimization to occur without repercussions for future relationships. Therapy can assist in developing a regained sense of empowerment that is healthy and is an alternative to the other two options that appear to be common in the aftermath of abuse and trauma.
19? She looks 10 years older.
Talks 30 years older, if words are truly her own.
Thinking about the myth of the heartless male in the context of some of the issues discussed in other videos, it seems to me that if 80% of women are pursuing the top 10% of men, wouldn't that elite group of men fit the heartless myth more accurately? Most of us have some familiarity with a woman saying, "I wish more guys were like you," while not giving any serious consideration to dating us. Kind men are ruthlessly friend-zoned, while women continue to pursue the same group of a-holes. I competed in martial arts when I was younger, and I remember that really aggressive fighters received warnings for using too much "contact," but were still allowed to win the match, so that the prohibition against using injurious force against your opponents was in the end just lip service. Similarly, women say they want a kind man, but the brute wins the day again and again, and the rest of us take the blame.
Exactly, most women are talking about the bad behavior of top 10% of men, they don't seem to reflect on the behavior of men who they deem unattractive. They often reflect on the behavior of men they fine truly desirable.
I used to call it "bed hopping" before I ever heard the term "monkey branching".
Great perspective - really enjoyed this video. Thank you Mae!
This type of video is super interesting and informative. Thank you both parties for being respectful while still having a solid discussion.
My male friend did this all the time I never got how he could go from one relationship to another strait away. He set it all up in advance. So when the relationship broke down he had a women waiting in the wings.
Your mate is beating women at their own game
Good on him. Then again, he was probably a sociopath.
So every woman that monkey branches is a sociopath... according to your theory
@@the_anton_kabanov sociopathic behaviour doesn't necessarily indicate sociopathy...but it's a good indicator!
I don't think he is at all. I would say he is just quite feminine mind set though.
My ex wife did this and found out she was just being pumped and dumped. After a few years she tried to get back to me because she knew i was stable. But by that time, i was already taken...
Nice
Some people look down on using hookers but in this day and age with the way modern vwoman are with rampent monkey branching and hypergamy it makes sense.
The hooker won't lie to you or cheat on you and she won't monkey branch.
Basically the hooker won't play games with you or betray you.
Shopping for work horses or show ponies eliminates pair bonding on BOTH sides.
Pair bonding is the essential element of any true marriage.
"To counterbalance the evolutionary jackpot of impregnating a woman and leaving her, man's ability to fall in love easier keeps him in the relationship, even after passing on his genes."
She makes an excellent point.
It really is just an employer-employee relationship, isn't it? She's got a constant ad out in the paper and a stack of resumes. You're just glad to have a job.