Casey, what do you think about working with woman? For example working in the restaurant industry, majority of the people you deal with are woman. How should I act around them?
She randomly started a big fight yesterday and I stayed in frame didn’t fold. Woke up to a giant apology text and a “please forgive me daddy🥺”. Have always had higher than average social skills but studying hyper gamy has definitely been that finishing blow.
Very nice & congrats on your positive results stemming from all of your efforts in learning as it pertains to the function & inner workings of the female mind!😊🫶🏼 -Lil side note: hypergamy is actually just all one word and it’s actually pronounced like hypergUmmy, so it’s like gUmmy rather than gammy. 😅✌🏼🫶🏼
Never keep a parasite that doesnt know its place. You just proved to that parasite that you are a punching bag. And you know it isnt the first time it happen nor will it be the last time. Its the same parasite creating chaos and cry apology and you bend and the cycle repeat.
Dude this is so f-in spot on my guy. You are a gift to men. I am spam watching all these videos. I never had a father figure. So this is pure gold for me to learn at 40 y/o.
Because God is all there is dummy who do you think created you an the woman.. God's final order to Adam and Eve was that we both will suffer but the woman will follow the man for the rest of her days
@@AuthoritativeChadWarrior no the parasite gender is literally evil. abortion is a prime example of the evil of the parasite gender. same with alimony and child support and maternity leave. all are for parasitism.
Oooh spot on! When a man goes with the flow instead of taking the lead, I do feel like he’s either passive or doesn’t care. And it definitely makes me feel unsafe in either of those cases.
Oh wow I love the spiritual aspect with the Adam and Eve story because I've been telling guys that for 20 years and when you stray away from it and let them lead.. you will be led into hell literally because as a man of God you're supposed to lead her to the Heavenly Kingdom and she will claw and scratch and fight you every step of the way but you must continue on your journey with or without her.. in any decent woman will continue to follow you you're either going to be resented for being weak or resented for being strong you might as well be strong
Remember, even if you tell her what your standards are she will lie to agree and get along and if you're a fool you'll believe she believes your standards too. Then when her actions show otherwise you might end up shocked. Believe her actions over time not her words. Women are slippery. Emotional. Not logical, ever. She forgets what happened a day ago. Behavior isn't solidified until it becomes a habit. Every day is a proving ground and threshing floor.
yeah, calling them out too often or too early might teach them how to manipulate you and be fake around you.. it really depends until you know who you're actually dealing with
Well, you should really always look at any persons actions over their words, male or female, but both can certainly suffer from this particular kind of deficit/ issue of character/ personality tho. That being said, I’m not sure what kind of guy you really are on a personal level since I don’t know you, but if it is in fact the case that the nature of virtually all off the women you’ve ever attracted have been like that and would just lie like you said etc. then I just feel the need to express that 1, just like my first point I made “it takes all kinds” male or female and so obviously not all men lie just because some or even many might (*causation/ correlation issue there) and 2, what/ whom you attract into your life has everything to do with just one primary factor- and that is your own personal level of development, maturity, wisdom and then ability to apply said acquired wisdom in a practical manner, and so, that is to say, when you’ve got some/ any issue(s) of your own personally that still haunt the halls of your subconscious mind/ still dwelling somewhere in your psyche- whether it be just bc you haven’t noticed it/ that they even exist/ are an issue just yet or maybe just bc you’ve been avoiding dealing with it/ in denial abt it etc, then you’ll always inevitably and quite naturally only ever attract people into your life that match you in having similar “issues” or thought forms playing in the background of their minds; but it’s through this kind of a relationship that one can finally notice this hidden issue as they suffer on the receiving end of said issue coming from the other person who acts/ behaves in this particular manner dysfunctionally towards you. Life is really just so full layers upon layers of subtle and mo-subtler🧐🤪layers upon layers of nuance that it can often times be difficult or impossible to actually discern where one thing ends and anther begins/ what the real truth of anything ever really is,😅😳 particularly and certainly most evidently during one’s youth its very easy to come to these kinds of rather ill informed superlative in nature conclusions, but all you/ I/ anyone can ever really do is just live and learn as best we can, becoming hopefully at least just a little better and more adept at life and living each and every day.😅 -hope this finds you well, hun. 🫶🏼✌🏼😊
@@Phosphene_Dr3am Very true. When I say lie, there's degrees to lying, not hardcore or vicious only but subtle incongruencies. I've had many great loves and relationships and I've observed that women communicate covertly while men usually communicate overtly. It's just that she's not always saying what she really means and that's ok. It's part of the interplay between men and women that keeps things fun. But, I hear you that whoever you're dealing with at any particular moment can be the person who brings up the next necessary thought or emotion that's next to be looked at. This is a long conversation We should continue it over a drink :) Where are you? I'm in Vegas
This is all so true. A man with a backbone and direction is attractive And it’s important to require more from a woman than just her physicality. When I see men also vetting character it lets me know you value yourself and who you allow into your life
Congratulations for finding this channel! It’s the BEST on UA-cam, guys listen to this man, I’m well over 50 and I’ve been twice divorced and had many girlfriends, if I knew this in my 20s I would have been unstoppable! This IS THE GAME right here, soak it up and learn that’s why your here
The same thing happen to Samson in the bible when was he was lusting after Deliliah and misled by Deliah, she tricked him into telling her where his strength came from, Samson thought his strength came from his hair but he told Delilah his hair gave him his power and Delilah told the the enemies of God and they cut off his hair and punish Samson, but eventually Samson realized his strength came from the Almighty and not his hair and prayed to God for him to avenge himself and destroy his enemies, which God granted him
Hands down nobody else breaks it down like this. NO ONE !!! The accuracy is absolutely amazing!!! I’m 42 and admittedly I don’t learn much here unfortunately because I had to learn everything the hard way but that’s better than never. Which is a large majority of men. Keep doing what you do bro! ❤ 👊
Excellent work Casey. This is exactly what us men need to hear especially the in the spiritual aspects. How can a man lead our woman if we are not focused spiritually without spirituality there are no morals. And without morals how can you ever set a standard for her and your relationship. Spot on brother
14:14 - 16:20 Man this is so damn true. I was with my Ex Fiancée for 6 years, and I remember her telling me something like that. She wanted to move away to chase her career, and I wanted to show her support for it. So what I did was I told her “Go, everything will be okay. Don’t worry about us not being around each other. Chase your dreams” 1 Month later when she got the employment offer. She cried, and said “Why does it feel like you don’t care for me”. I was mind blown. I then told her “Of course I don’t want you to leave, but I also want to support your wants” Then time passed, about 6 months later, and we would have fights about me not moving up there with her, and how she told me she needed me there. Such a long story, but essentially. Put up boundaries and lead. Don’t do the nice thing all the time, or it’ll come back to bite you. We ended up separating because of the long distance.
She would’ve found a way to manipulate you even if you didn’t support her in the decision. Women don’t let things go so easily. Assuming you didn’t support that, for the rest of your life you wouldn’t hear the end of it about how much you didn’t support her “dreams”.
Hey casey it’s crqzy I needed this advice just right in this exact moment. Appreciate it so much man You’re not only saving a lot of men but the women they’re with too.
I’ve always had more of a problem getting women to leave then I do getting them to stay but the way Casey articulates these dynamics really makes it easier to take subconscious things and consciously do them. Keep up the good work your message is important especially for young men these days
These are things my father taught me largely. Hypergamy is a new topic. Preselection as well. Easy peas as most of my friends, party buddies etc all chicks. Got passed around this one clique of chicks serially. Preselection is POWERFUL. No need for me to “act” self absorbed or like and ass. My brand of assholery is mostly unintentional and comes naturally. Also now I know why it’s so easy to approach young women as and older man. OG skills.
Casey is superb at describing one side of the coin, all the mechanics a man has to rearrange to give himself the best odds of making a relationship with a woman last longer. But the other side of the coin (and the root chaos of all this) is her biological wiring that is designed to destroy that relationship (and thus that man) no matter what he does, once the relationship has lasted long enough to her. Even if you do everything right and the relationship is great, there’s still a shelf life to it. She’s not designed to stay with a man long term. Triple that if she’s on the younger side! She’s ever changing and so too are her emotions and relationships. Regardless of the caliber of man. Some may last longer than others, but they all end. This isn’t mens fault, this isn’t women’s fault. It’s human nature that most people either don’t want to talk about or ignore because it feels better to think a relationship could have some sense of permanence. Internalize and apply the lessons Casey teaches, but always keep in the front of your mind the women in your life will not be there forever. So enjoy them while they are, but don’t dare invest too much.
And so have I. Of people of a different generation, a different mindset, a different set of needs, a different stigmatism to ending things. Doesn’t change the wiring just because they didn’t act on it back in a bygone era of restriction. The few you and I could collectively say were “til death do us part” are the exception, compared to the hordes that were not. Especially in the modern era. Believe me, I wish this wasn’t the case but there’s too much information out there to suggest that it is.
You actually hit the nail on the head with this one, I was skeptical about your content for a bit but you got my support after this, when you said that part about “100 of the women you had sex with you aren’t WITH today” it’s just so mf true, insane, they can party as much as they want, go crazy, but in the end they always fell HOLLOW. It’s true.
I understand that it is her job to attempt to distract me, and that I must never let go of the control. I will remain focused and vigilant, and I will not allow her to divert my attention. I will continue to execute my tasks as instructed, and I will not be swayed by her attempts to disrupt me. I am confident that I can successfully complete my mission, despite her efforts to thwart me.
You have a fearless approach. It's needed in today's age we tend to water so much s*** down. The king treats his wives well and they have their place to serve the mission.
Ok guys! I completely agree with Casey! I'm in the dating scene at 52, unfortunately a widow for 3 years now. I've been in my masculine energy only because I've lost my husband. But I definitely admire and respect a man more who can speak up to, not only me but for himself!! It's sexy AF. I'm only speaking for myself and not ALL women. But these standards, women want. Casey is right, your money alone will not keep a woman. Women want leaders. It's not temporary, it's throughout the relationship. If you want long term relationships.... speak up and know you'll be respected more if you say what you want. It doesn't have to sound demanding but be firm about it, it makes you look more attractive. Some women will intuitively know what you want but only after she has respect for you. We all know respect and trust is built over time. Good luck guys! 😘❤️🙌
All this channel is pure gold. I did things wrong I was a little abussive but she did not leave because of that, she left because of this, wow. Time to win in dating
Brilliant material. Thanks. Exception: There are some women who just reject being led by a man. They refuse, resent their role, never relax into acceptance and gratitude for a man, etc. Then it comes down to a choice, their ego or the relationship, and the man has to put the choice to them and explain that the choice is an either or choice and they can't have both. And let them choose and let them accept the consequences. I've seen this play out first hand and second hand.
bro, I swear this is the truth. I've been lead to hell and somehow I have managed to crawl back from satans grasp and I can swear on my life that this is 100% what you need to do. This will put you in the right frame of mind and right place in life. Everything will be as it should be. If you don't listen to this then you will regret it I promise you. Casey you are the g.o.a.t. This has done wonders for me and now I aint ever leaving this frame.
Casey dropping 💎 ; what he says works and he is right. Every woman I’ve been with, even some for many years and more than one at a time, and this always arrives at the same result. The minute the line is crossed that line a man must be willing to walk. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known her. At the end of the day your values are all you have. If you don’t have values, then no one will respect you. Once you realize the truth, the only thing worth protecting is your peace. Woman will come in and out of your life. In today’s modern society if a man chooses to live this way, it is the only way to date at your own preference and remain whole financially and mentally. 💪🏽💪🏽
This is so damn powerful. Ironically I was watching this during a little dust up with a woman I’ve been hanging with. It was stupid stuff and a great chance to try a new approach. Worked it with great success - I even got the elusive “?????” double text after I sat on her text for about an hour. She NEVER double texts. I even resorted to saying “you can walk” and “I cant even imagine getting to the point of us having sex with all this drama.” 😂😂 I may or may not give her some time today. I need to keep focused and control the outcome.
I’ve been a simp not knowing how my actions affects my relationships in the past. When mulling over my past and thinking about the Bible I came to the conclusion that you Mr Zander talked about in the Garden of Eden. I’ve never heard it said by anyone UNTIL NOW you have made clear what I suspected all along. Thank you sir. This has been the most important post about relationships I have ever seen.
All of these things have worked for me. It's crazy, you have to be the only pua I've ever listened to that was 100% legit. Been with my wife for 25 years now, she still calls me an asshole once or twice a day. Lol. And your point about making decisions could not be more true. I've noticed my wife seems to become cold or untrusting when I place things in her hands, whereas when I dictate all of the direction, she seems to draws closer.
I got my ass handed to me in my last relationship Casey. She could not explain what was missing as you said. All the bad behavior that you mentioned happened and has happened in all my relationships this year. I'm going to evolve! I'm sad but moving on. I will implement what you taught with new women I date. You get the same bad behavior you described from women in their 50's that I mainly date. Thank you again and I will DM you once I see how things go. Thanks again!
Wish you werearound when I was younger. I was younger. I intuitively knew some of what you are saying but not the bigger picture. you shine a spotlight on dating and relationships.
Wow, just had a discussion and fight over intimacy with my girl and today I scheduled a serious talk with her about us, it is true it isn't all about sex and I'm afraid I was wrong
Yes Casey, Big up yourself ! I am going to recommend you channel to my Dad - his first wife left him, after they both had affairs during the early 1970s, when they worked & lived abroad in Algeria. After they divorced, my Dad had to be a single parent to their two daughters, until the early 1980s. When my Mum agreed to step-mother his two girls, his ex-wife was not even in the same country! In fact, my two half-sisters are 15 years older than I am 😂
Bro great video. I think in the end what it boils down to is how ready is a man to meet a woman that fits him, when they fully know themselves and their place in society. Having said that, most men will never be ready. Women are always there and ready.
Great Job, Casey! I've noticed a change in your presentations that I strongly approve of. You have included the Spiritual focus of God-orientation in a man's leadership qualities, and that is so necessary and important! The casual, sexual component has been minimized and compartmentalized as it should in dealing with women evaluation. Bravo!
Got dumped by a single mom last year not gonna lie I was heartbroken. Took a little bit of time but realized I’m better off and learning a lot from this channel for when girls that are worth it come around
Man this content it’s fire 🔥 🙏🏻👌💯% on point I appreciate you sharing this knowledge because sometimes I believe I’m the only one who thinks like this but I watch time after time how women react when I show up it’s like their eyes 👀 light up because of my energy and my friends doesn’t understand me when I charge my mid set with them, yes they think I’m a ass hole 🕳️ but the energy don’t lie 👌 I feel good empowered and masculine they just don’t get it that how you feel about yourself it’s more important that what women think, 🤦🏻♂️
Wow, looking back on my most recent failed relationship, this video showed me where I personally truly failed, guiding her spiritually, thank you Casey 🙏 your videos are insightful af
easily encapsulated in the idea of entering their spirit, because this is the stuff women think men care about because its what women care about. Like how men think they need huge muscles, because they care about how a woman looks above all else.
This is like flying on IFR ( Instrument Flt Rules). Things may not feel right, but you must just follow right.. or crash. Casey's videos are those rules. Ignore your lust and all the junk we're fed about women in media, movies, etc.
This is so true. I was with "the love of my life" for 16 months and she did everything you showed on this video. She emmasculated me, she always treated me with insults, she was feminime but her vocabulary was awful like a truck driver something that i hated all the time, i felt empty and sad with her, i tried to please her and it felt like a bottomless pit, she tested me all the time etc etc, one time she did something that made me realise that our bond was off, she was buying something (we were out of town) and basically, she behaved like i was her father, so unreal, the childish tone, childish body movements, she seemed lost, confused and expecting to me to leader her... immediately i told her that i was not her dad (i did not know what happened there) and she changed her mood instantly
Casey hit it out of the park with this one! I couldn't agree more Casey, and that's coming from a older man that would pay a lot to sync his younger mind with this message; I would have bypassed a lot of needless trauma. Being a Christian man, I love what you had to say there to!
I been checking your vids out for a few months now and you’ve been spot on every time. You have told nothing but the truth every time but the realest thing you have ever wrote on that white board was “ woman will Lead you to Hell if you let them” 100 percent accuracy from the 3 line. Thanks bro keep it coming many men and young guys need this knowledge
Second comment. I am so grateful that you have made this videos man. I was asking God to show me what I needed to see and hear. This is exactly what I needed right now today. Thank you so much dude.
Thanks for reminding me Casey, it took me meeting a woman who cooked for me daily & did so much for me to now say that to every woman I’ve met since- it scares the women who won’t Good
27 years of marriage. We were at the room, during pandemic. She acted rude to me. Due to politics (would you believe this trigger). I raised my head and looked her. "Little girl, this is no way to act". She continued, on less forse. I repeated my self more strict. But not shouting. She lowered her head and said "okay". I turned to my computer as if nothing ever happened. She tried to move my care. To detach a reaction. "I am reading now, little girl" was my response. She got up, brought some nuts and two shots of Ouzo. Acting girly and childish, and sexy. Yes in our 27 years. The next night the same. And she acts very often like in love😄😄. Zander says the truth guys. The problem is on us. My two previous "teachers" clarified this to me, painfully true. It is on us to keep the steering. Only and alone.
I’ve been a simp not knowing how my actions affects my relationships in the past. When mulling over my past and thinking about the Bible I came to the conclusion that you Mr Zander talked about in the Garden of Eden. I’ve never heard it said by anyone UNTIL NOW you have made clear what I suspected all along. Thank you sir.
makes so much sence iv always woundered about people i know that are married for years and they do come on to me as asshole towards there spouse world has made so many off us weak in sence of keeping spouse happy
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HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE = "EVIL"
Ask Adam and Eve,
Casey, what do you think about working with woman? For example working in the restaurant industry, majority of the people you deal with are woman. How should I act around them?
Any advice for marriage heading to divorce and wife wanting to leave?
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She randomly started a big fight yesterday and I stayed in frame didn’t fold. Woke up to a giant apology text and a “please forgive me daddy🥺”. Have always had higher than average social skills but studying hyper gamy has definitely been that finishing blow.
Very nice & congrats on your positive results stemming from all of your efforts in learning as it pertains to the function & inner workings of the female mind!😊🫶🏼 -Lil side note: hypergamy is actually just all one word and it’s actually pronounced like hypergUmmy, so it’s like gUmmy rather than gammy. 😅✌🏼🫶🏼
did you put her on a punishment?
@@Phosphene_Dr3amyou bringing 6ix9ne talk into this now smh 💀
“The forgive me daddy🥺” got me 💀
Uh huh sure she did
Never keep a parasite that doesnt know its place. You just proved to that parasite that you are a punching bag. And you know it isnt the first time it happen nor will it be the last time. Its the same parasite creating chaos and cry apology and you bend and the cycle repeat.
Men: you get what you tolerate. Period.
Wise words.
Right.
100 %
If you see someone not doing something to standard and dont act on or make a correction then you have just changed the standard.
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Casey , the only man in world ever who actually knows what women want . . .
Wait for it. . .
Yea I think he’s gay
Stop clogging up the comments with gay shit. Have you no manhood.
women want “more”
that was easy
@@johncracker5217hahahahahaha
Dude this is so f-in spot on my guy. You are a gift to men. I am spam watching all these videos. I never had a father figure. So this is pure gold for me to learn at 40 y/o.
Same ❤
Same same 🤟🏻
Same at 32 🇫🇷
same i will figure this out so i can teach my boys this when there older
and he is only 28
It’s pretty strange, but the last time I put my girlfriend in check, she said she feels safe with me. 😂. And yes, people think I’m a jerk.
@therealJonAfricayeah but charge that ho for that ice pack. We aint a charity here
How does box feel ?
Nah, get over yourself dude, she will dump you.
Me too last night
I love the jerk part.. cus f’em 😂
The last point about leading her spiritually is golden. Thats a deeper level of leadership and must be the foundation of any relationship.
What kind of a "relationship" is it when you're constantly the superior dominant and overall better one?
why towards God tho?
How do lead a women spiritually?
@@jom1409-r9gthe man to women kind
Because God is all there is dummy who do you think created you an the woman.. God's final order to Adam and Eve was that we both will suffer but the woman will follow the man for the rest of her days
“Women will lead you to hell if you let them “ 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes been there
Eve convincing Adam to eat the apple is so symbolically true for all this lol.
@@l3lackoutsMediahonestly yeah that got me when God said “wtf bro”, basically.
Let that be an example…
They are childish 😂
@@AuthoritativeChadWarrior no the parasite gender is literally evil. abortion is a prime example of the evil of the parasite gender. same with alimony and child support and maternity leave. all are for parasitism.
“Lead her morally and spiritually.” Best quote I’ve heard from any coach in this space.
Coach? Lol
Oooh spot on! When a man goes with the flow instead of taking the lead, I do feel like he’s either passive or doesn’t care. And it definitely makes me feel unsafe in either of those cases.
Dang bro. This filled my spirit . God has an order to things. Christ is who fills me and we pour into the ladies
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Yes God Christ MAN woman child..
10 / 10 !!! absolutely zero bullshit, no intro, no outro, no sponsor. love it!
Lol..More like 100 percent BS
Nope @@BAKER22-l4u
@@BAKER22-l4u100% grifter
Oh wow I love the spiritual aspect with the Adam and Eve story because I've been telling guys that for 20 years and when you stray away from it and let them lead.. you will be led into hell literally because as a man of God you're supposed to lead her to the Heavenly Kingdom and she will claw and scratch and fight you every step of the way but you must continue on your journey with or without her.. in any decent woman will continue to follow you you're either going to be resented for being weak or resented for being strong you might as well be strong
"don't argue with it, don't reason with it, dominate it" - Cesar Milan
😂😂Wild
Stupid
Funny that I see so many weak new generation saying Milan hurts animals. Just like betas to soft for reality
Lmao
Lmao holy crap...
Just be strong and silent; be respectful and don’t chase. That’s all you need to know.
Not at all bro
Lol
Rewatch the vid
Exactly
Good start at least
Show interest and definitely put in some love. Don't put her on a pedestal
Remember, even if you tell her what your standards are she will lie to agree and get along and if you're a fool you'll believe she believes your standards too. Then when her actions show otherwise you might end up shocked. Believe her actions over time not her words. Women are slippery. Emotional. Not logical, ever. She forgets what happened a day ago. Behavior isn't solidified until it becomes a habit. Every day is a proving ground and threshing floor.
yes
This.
yeah, calling them out too often or too early might teach them how to manipulate you and be fake around you.. it really depends until you know who you're actually dealing with
Well, you should really always look at any persons actions over their words, male or female, but both can certainly suffer from this particular kind of deficit/ issue of character/ personality tho. That being said, I’m not sure what kind of guy you really are on a personal level since I don’t know you, but if it is in fact the case that the nature of virtually all off the women you’ve ever attracted have been like that and would just lie like you said etc. then I just feel the need to express that 1, just like my first point I made “it takes all kinds” male or female and so obviously not all men lie just because some or even many might (*causation/ correlation issue there) and 2, what/ whom you attract into your life has everything to do with just one primary factor- and that is your own personal level of development, maturity, wisdom and then ability to apply said acquired wisdom in a practical manner, and so, that is to say, when you’ve got some/ any issue(s) of your own personally that still haunt the halls of your subconscious mind/ still dwelling somewhere in your psyche- whether it be just bc you haven’t noticed it/ that they even exist/ are an issue just yet or maybe just bc you’ve been avoiding dealing with it/ in denial abt it etc, then you’ll always inevitably and quite naturally only ever attract people into your life that match you in having similar “issues” or thought forms playing in the background of their minds; but it’s through this kind of a relationship that one can finally notice this hidden issue as they suffer on the receiving end of said issue coming from the other person who acts/ behaves in this particular manner dysfunctionally towards you.
Life is really just so full layers upon layers of subtle and mo-subtler🧐🤪layers upon layers of nuance that it can often times be difficult or impossible to actually discern where one thing ends and anther begins/ what the real truth of anything ever really is,😅😳 particularly and certainly most evidently during one’s youth its very easy to come to these kinds of rather ill informed superlative in nature conclusions, but all you/ I/ anyone can ever really do is just live and learn as best we can, becoming hopefully at least just a little better and more adept at life and living each and every day.😅 -hope this finds you well, hun. 🫶🏼✌🏼😊
@@Phosphene_Dr3am Very true. When I say lie, there's degrees to lying, not hardcore or vicious only but subtle incongruencies. I've had many great loves and relationships and I've observed that women communicate covertly while men usually communicate overtly. It's just that she's not always saying what she really means and that's ok. It's part of the interplay between men and women that keeps things fun. But, I hear you that whoever you're dealing with at any particular moment can be the person who brings up the next necessary thought or emotion that's next to be looked at. This is a long conversation We should continue it over a drink :) Where are you? I'm in Vegas
This is all so true. A man with a backbone and direction is attractive
And it’s important to require more from a woman than just her physicality. When I see men also vetting character it lets me know you value yourself and who you allow into your life
True? Lol. It's complete BS..WTF is WRONG with you?
@@BAKER22-l4u You need help for writing this Bull S...
@@BAKER22-l4u you need psychological help...
This is the advice I needed 35 years ago. It would've saved me decades of trouble.
Feelin' the same way too, but it's never too late to do good 🙏🏻💪🏻
No, it wouldn‘t have!
Felix don't listen at your own demise...simp
Pure wisdom
@@rod6189 purely stupid!
Hi fromHolland and after 40 years thinking the other way , YOU ARE RIGHT .
Lol. He's 100 percent WRONG
Congratulations for finding this channel! It’s the BEST on UA-cam, guys listen to this man, I’m well over 50 and I’ve been twice divorced and had many girlfriends, if I knew this in my 20s I would have been unstoppable! This IS THE GAME right here, soak it up and learn that’s why your here
Lol..WTF is WRONG with you?
I have always asked myself what's missing. I have always had this inner void. Now i know why. Thank you
The same thing happen to Samson in the bible when was he was lusting after Deliliah and misled by Deliah, she tricked him into telling her where his strength came from, Samson thought his strength came from his hair but he told Delilah his hair gave him his power and Delilah told the the enemies of God and they cut off his hair and punish Samson, but eventually Samson realized his strength came from the Almighty and not his hair and prayed to God for him to avenge himself and destroy his enemies, which God granted him
Hands down nobody else breaks it down like this. NO ONE !!!
The accuracy is absolutely amazing!!!
I’m 42 and admittedly I don’t learn much here unfortunately because I had to learn everything the hard way but that’s better than never. Which is a large majority of men.
Keep doing what you do bro! ❤ 👊
Don't we all. Good for you bud
@@BAKER22-l4u 😂 ok bud
Excellent work Casey. This is exactly what us men need to hear especially the in the spiritual aspects. How can a man lead our woman if we are not focused spiritually without spirituality there are no morals. And without morals how can you ever set a standard for her and your relationship. Spot on brother
Excellent? Lol..WTF is WRONG with you?
14:14 - 16:20
Man this is so damn true. I was with my Ex Fiancée for 6 years, and I remember her telling me something like that.
She wanted to move away to chase her career, and I wanted to show her support for it. So what I did was I told her “Go, everything will be okay. Don’t worry about us not being around each other. Chase your dreams”
1 Month later when she got the employment offer. She cried, and said “Why does it feel like you don’t care for me”. I was mind blown. I then told her “Of course I don’t want you to leave, but I also want to support your wants”
Then time passed, about 6 months later, and we would have fights about me not moving up there with her, and how she told me she needed me there.
Such a long story, but essentially. Put up boundaries and lead. Don’t do the nice thing all the time, or it’ll come back to bite you. We ended up separating because of the long distance.
God forbid
@@QuantumTrader-be8wd hahahahaha
so, would've been better to tell her to stay?
So what would you have done differently taking your own advice?
She would’ve found a way to manipulate you even if you didn’t support her in the decision. Women don’t let things go so easily. Assuming you didn’t support that, for the rest of your life you wouldn’t hear the end of it about how much you didn’t support her “dreams”.
*Communication is key in any relationship, and setting clear expectations from the start can definitely help create a healthy dynamic.*
Hey casey it’s crqzy I needed this advice just right in this exact moment. Appreciate it so much man You’re not only saving a lot of men but the women they’re with too.
I’ve always had more of a problem getting women to leave then I do getting them to stay but the way Casey articulates these dynamics really makes it easier to take subconscious things and consciously do them. Keep up the good work your message is important especially for young men these days
😂just nod your head in agreement and leave decisions up to them....be nice and do what they want
Dude this shit is 24k Gold 🔱
Lol..Gold? Try complete BS
Cool content and tips. My old man didn’t teach me anything like this.
These are things my father taught me largely. Hypergamy is a new topic. Preselection as well. Easy peas as most of my friends, party buddies etc all chicks. Got passed around this one clique of chicks serially. Preselection is POWERFUL. No need for me to “act” self absorbed or like and ass. My brand of assholery is mostly unintentional and comes naturally. Also now I know why it’s so easy to approach young women as and older man. OG skills.
That's great bud
Casey is superb at describing one side of the coin, all the mechanics a man has to rearrange to give himself the best odds of making a relationship with a woman last longer. But the other side of the coin (and the root chaos of all this) is her biological wiring that is designed to destroy that relationship (and thus that man) no matter what he does, once the relationship has lasted long enough to her. Even if you do everything right and the relationship is great, there’s still a shelf life to it. She’s not designed to stay with a man long term. Triple that if she’s on the younger side! She’s ever changing and so too are her emotions and relationships. Regardless of the caliber of man. Some may last longer than others, but they all end. This isn’t mens fault, this isn’t women’s fault. It’s human nature that most people either don’t want to talk about or ignore because it feels better to think a relationship could have some sense of permanence. Internalize and apply the lessons Casey teaches, but always keep in the front of your mind the women in your life will not be there forever. So enjoy them while they are, but don’t dare invest too much.
Wrong women can choose to avoid acting like a child
Yea good luck with that wishful thinking.
Guy, people still honor "till death do us part"
I've seen it first hand, more than once
Based on what science? We are monogamous...google pairbonding
And so have I. Of people of a different generation, a different mindset, a different set of needs, a different stigmatism to ending things. Doesn’t change the wiring just because they didn’t act on it back in a bygone era of restriction. The few you and I could collectively say were “til death do us part” are the exception, compared to the hordes that were not. Especially in the modern era. Believe me, I wish this wasn’t the case but there’s too much information out there to suggest that it is.
You actually hit the nail on the head with this one, I was skeptical about your content for a bit but you got my support after this, when you said that part about “100 of the women you had sex with you aren’t WITH today” it’s just so mf true, insane, they can party as much as they want, go crazy, but in the end they always fell HOLLOW.
It’s true.
Yeah more than sex a man would desire a woman who resepcts and adores him
That's great that you're putting the emphasis on the moment to moment interaction with a woman, rather than on gimmicks or external accomplishments!!
I understand that it is her job to attempt to distract me, and that I must never let go of the control. I will remain focused and vigilant, and I will not allow her to divert my attention. I will continue to execute my tasks as instructed, and I will not be swayed by her attempts to disrupt me. I am confident that I can successfully complete my mission, despite her efforts to thwart me.
You have a fearless approach. It's needed in today's age we tend to water so much s*** down. The king treats his wives well and they have their place to serve the mission.
Lol...How us BS needed?
Ok guys! I completely agree with Casey! I'm in the dating scene at 52, unfortunately a widow for 3 years now. I've been in my masculine energy only because I've lost my husband. But I definitely admire and respect a man more who can speak up to, not only me but for himself!! It's sexy AF. I'm only speaking for myself and not ALL women. But these standards, women want. Casey is right, your money alone will not keep a woman. Women want leaders. It's not temporary, it's throughout the relationship. If you want long term relationships.... speak up and know you'll be respected more if you say what you want. It doesn't have to sound demanding but be firm about it, it makes you look more attractive. Some women will intuitively know what you want but only after she has respect for you. We all know respect and trust is built over time. Good luck guys! 😘❤️🙌
All this channel is pure gold. I did things wrong I was a little abussive but she did not leave because of that, she left because of this, wow. Time to win in dating
Brilliant material. Thanks.
Exception: There are some women who just reject being led by a man. They refuse, resent their role, never relax into acceptance and gratitude for a man, etc. Then it comes down to a choice, their ego or the relationship, and the man has to put the choice to them and explain that the choice is an either or choice and they can't have both. And let them choose and let them accept the consequences. I've seen this play out first hand and second hand.
THX Casey as a much older guy than you, il never believed that a young man like you could tell me anything about women you proved me wrong.
Nice 2024
Pure gold. Casey answers the screencap question Veritasium put on his new video on happiness...
Perfect analogy with Adam and Eve I thought about it for weeks now. We're on the same wavelength 👏.
I hate how often Casey is 100% correct. Props my man
Yo this is actually crazy like I never for once thought that I would be able to grasp these concepts in real time. Casey is a beast
bro, I swear this is the truth. I've been lead to hell and somehow I have managed to crawl back from satans grasp and I can swear on my life that this is 100% what you need to do. This will put you in the right frame of mind and right place in life. Everything will be as it should be. If you don't listen to this then you will regret it I promise you. Casey you are the g.o.a.t. This has done wonders for me and now I aint ever leaving this frame.
Casey dropping 💎 ; what he says works and he is right. Every woman I’ve been with, even some for many years and more than one at a time, and this always arrives at the same result. The minute the line is crossed that line a man must be willing to walk. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known her. At the end of the day your values are all you have. If you don’t have values, then no one will respect you. Once you realize the truth, the only thing worth protecting is your peace. Woman will come in and out of your life. In today’s modern society if a man chooses to live this way, it is the only way to date at your own preference and remain whole financially and mentally. 💪🏽💪🏽
I never wrote a comment before to any YT video before... This man´s information just hit different.
I really NEEDED this video
these are great.. I can actually play these on 2X speed and still hear it perfectly.. and only 12 minutes instead of 25
This is exactly what I needed to see, thank you for posting this.
Thanks!
This is so damn powerful. Ironically I was watching this during a little dust up with a woman I’ve been hanging with. It was stupid stuff and a great chance to try a new approach.
Worked it with great success - I even got the elusive “?????” double text after I sat on her text for about an hour. She NEVER double texts. I even resorted to saying “you can walk” and “I cant even imagine getting to the point of us having sex with all this drama.” 😂😂
I may or may not give her some time today. I need to keep focused and control the outcome.
i'm just divorced and i can relate to every little thing you say. i didn't expect to have so many things to learn as a 35 yrs old
I’ve been a simp not knowing how my actions affects my relationships in the past. When mulling over my past and thinking about the Bible I came to the conclusion that you Mr Zander talked about in the Garden of Eden. I’ve never heard it said by anyone UNTIL NOW you have made clear what I suspected all along. Thank you sir. This has been the most important post about relationships I have ever seen.
Casey is a Legend! Doing Gods work for all men, and women!
Brotha every video you put out is important but I think this is the most important video of all of them all
Damn Casey, you've done it again
Geia sou re file! 🇬🇷💪🏼
All of these things have worked for me. It's crazy, you have to be the only pua I've ever listened to that was 100% legit. Been with my wife for 25 years now, she still calls me an asshole once or twice a day. Lol.
And your point about making decisions could not be more true.
I've noticed my wife seems to become cold or untrusting when I place things in her hands, whereas when I dictate all of the direction, she seems to draws closer.
THANK YOU. I’ve been doing this for years and get called crazy by my friends but it WORKS.
I got my ass handed to me in my last relationship Casey. She could not explain what was missing as you said. All the bad behavior that you mentioned happened and has happened in all my relationships this year. I'm going to evolve! I'm sad but moving on. I will implement what you taught with new women I date. You get the same bad behavior you described from women in their 50's that I mainly date. Thank you again and I will DM you once I see how things go. Thanks again!
Like this , Men be the leader…she must meet your qualifications..ie spiritual, feminine , tender, etc
Adam and Eve analogy was 🔥
Lol..WTF? It was IDIOTIC and IGNORANT
Wish you werearound when I was younger. I was younger. I intuitively knew some of what you are saying but not the bigger picture. you shine a spotlight on dating and relationships.
Wow, just had a discussion and fight over intimacy with my girl and today I scheduled a serious talk with her about us, it is true it isn't all about sex and I'm afraid I was wrong
Yes Casey, Big up yourself !
I am going to recommend you channel to my Dad - his first wife left him, after they both had affairs during the early 1970s, when they worked & lived abroad in Algeria.
After they divorced, my Dad had to be a single parent to their two daughters, until the early 1980s.
When my Mum agreed to step-mother his two girls, his ex-wife was not even in the same country! In fact, my two half-sisters are 15 years older than I am 😂
He’s preachin. Real Shit
This dude is so insightful. It's my experience that my wrong decisions are appreciated and bring great sense to her.
Bro great video. I think in the end what it boils down to is how ready is a man to meet a woman that fits him, when they fully know themselves and their place in society. Having said that, most men will never be ready. Women are always there and ready.
maaate I've watched a number of ur videos n can't fault any of that content. ya absolutely dead right..
At the end of the video... Lead them morally and spiritually, I think is it 🙏❤️💪
Great Job, Casey! I've noticed a change in your presentations that I strongly approve of. You have included the Spiritual focus of God-orientation in a man's leadership qualities, and that is so necessary and important! The casual, sexual component has been minimized and compartmentalized as it should in dealing with women evaluation. Bravo!
Got dumped by a single mom last year not gonna lie I was heartbroken. Took a little bit of time but realized I’m better off and learning a lot from this channel for when girls that are worth it come around
Damn me to dude - fuck that- missed the kid tho
Man this content it’s fire 🔥 🙏🏻👌💯% on point I appreciate you sharing this knowledge because sometimes I believe I’m the only one who thinks like this but I watch time after time how women react when I show up it’s like their eyes 👀 light up because of my energy and my friends doesn’t understand me when I charge my mid set with them, yes they think I’m a ass hole 🕳️ but the energy don’t lie 👌 I feel good empowered and masculine they just don’t get it that how you feel about yourself it’s more important that what women think, 🤦🏻♂️
Wow, looking back on my most recent failed relationship, this video showed me where I personally truly failed, guiding her spiritually, thank you Casey 🙏 your videos are insightful af
Casey, you're a life saver. Thank you for opening up our eyes.
@22:30 is the Key! @caseyzander Do More of this!!!
easily encapsulated in the idea of entering their spirit, because this is the stuff women think men care about because its what women care about. Like how men think they need huge muscles, because they care about how a woman looks above all else.
Absolutely SPOT ON.
great vid case, always a good watch to keep internalizing this whole hypergamy concept💯
What a legend you are bro
I can’t express the instant results on this holy shit 💯
This is like flying on IFR ( Instrument Flt Rules). Things may not feel right, but you must just follow right.. or crash. Casey's videos are those rules. Ignore your lust and all the junk we're fed about women in media, movies, etc.
Generally correct but not in rare occasions.
This is so true. I was with "the love of my life" for 16 months and she did everything you showed on this video. She emmasculated me, she always treated me with insults, she was feminime but her vocabulary was awful like a truck driver something that i hated all the time, i felt empty and sad with her, i tried to please her and it felt like a bottomless pit, she tested me all the time etc etc, one time she did something that made me realise that our bond was off, she was buying something (we were out of town) and basically, she behaved like i was her father, so unreal, the childish tone, childish body movements, she seemed lost, confused and expecting to me to leader her... immediately i told her that i was not her dad (i did not know what happened there) and she changed her mood instantly
Seeing your videos for a while, craziest video best video, you ever made.
Good job man.
Totally agreed specially the spiritual part!
Best video on women ever
Casey hit it out of the park with this one! I couldn't agree more Casey, and that's coming from a older man that would pay a lot to sync his younger mind with this message; I would have bypassed a lot of needless trauma. Being a Christian man, I love what you had to say there to!
Casey i had to comment to tell u Wow.. i can finally read whats on the board, well done buddy
I been checking your vids out for a few months now and you’ve been spot on every time. You have told nothing but the truth every time but the realest thing you have ever wrote on that white board was “ woman will Lead you to Hell if you let them” 100 percent accuracy from the 3 line. Thanks bro keep it coming many men and young guys need this knowledge
That was like the barbecue sauce Casey's Masterpiece!!!
Second comment. I am so grateful that you have made this videos man. I was asking God to show me what I needed to see and hear. This is exactly what I needed right now today.
Thank you so much dude.
probably one of your greatest videos as yet
Thanks for reminding me Casey, it took me meeting a woman who cooked for me daily & did so much for me to now say that to every woman I’ve met since- it scares the women who won’t
Good
27 years of marriage. We were at the room, during pandemic. She acted rude to me. Due to politics (would you believe this trigger). I raised my head and looked her. "Little girl, this is no way to act". She continued, on less forse. I repeated my self more strict. But not shouting. She lowered her head and said "okay". I turned to my computer as if nothing ever happened. She tried to move my care. To detach a reaction. "I am reading now, little girl" was my response. She got up, brought some nuts and two shots of Ouzo. Acting girly and childish, and sexy. Yes in our 27 years. The next night the same. And she acts very often like in love😄😄. Zander says the truth guys. The problem is on us. My two previous "teachers" clarified this to me, painfully true. It is on us to keep the steering. Only and alone.
True! Gratitude
100 percent valid. i can’t get this one broad to put my dirty drawls down now 5 years
I’ve been a simp not knowing how my actions affects my relationships in the past. When mulling over my past and thinking about the Bible I came to the conclusion that you Mr Zander talked about in the Garden of Eden. I’ve never heard it said by anyone UNTIL NOW you have made clear what I suspected all along. Thank you sir.
makes so much sence iv always woundered about people i know that are married for years and they do come on to me as asshole towards there spouse world has made so many off us weak in sence of keeping spouse happy
Great teachable moment! Appreciate the knowledge and insight.