Asking my GUY best friend questions GIRLS are too afraid to ask | Giving head & rebound sex...

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
  • insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
    jahvis's:
    channel: / @somethingdeadly
    insta: / jahvisloveday
    Back by popular demand! We finally filmed another 'Asking guys questions girls are too afraid to ask' this time with YOUR questions!
    Hopefully this was comforting and uplifting.
    We love you guys!!
    Joy xx
    📍timestamps:
    00:00 - intro
    02:33 - do you think emotional cheating exists?
    03:12 - do guys still watch porn in a relationship?
    03:54 - how do you feel about rebound sex?
    04:40 - how to tell a guy he’s not doing it for me sexually?
    05:41 - how to ask a guy to go down on you?
    06:34 - do guys judge girls who are still virgins?
    08:20 - does a confident women attract or intimidate?
    09:19 - what is your fav move whilst receiving head?
    10:45 - he didn’t get hard, was it my fault?
    11:50 - biggest insecurities for guys?
    13:24 - can guys be in love with you & want to have sex with other girls?
    15:09 - do you feel the need to act “manly”?
    16:16 - should you tell the guy if it’s your first time?
    16:51 - is it a red flag if my parter doesn’t like PDA?
    17:55 - do guys find girls masturbating a turn off?
    18:19 - How to ask my partner to get tested for STDs?
    19:06 - Why are most guys afraid of commitment?
    20:56 - is blue balls real?
    22:00 - what is the nicest way to tell your bf you’re not in the mood?
    23:51 - are boys aware there are different types of vaginas?
    25:04 - outro
    💌 contact me:
    insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
    email: joybenhur@gmail.com
    💌 music:
    Epidemic sound
    💌 equipment:
    canon m50
    sigma lens 16mm 1.4
    Sony DCR-SX65 camcorder
    iphone 12
    manfrotto tripod
    edit on Final Cut Pro X!!
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  • @isabels33
    @isabels33 2 роки тому +611

    I love his mentality! There is so few people with his mindset and it’s so appreciated when guys like him actually listen to girls and state their opinions based on both sides. They don’t make it all about them. He has the mindset of a true man and not a little boy who’s disgusted by everything.💙

  • @mariannamorozova2133
    @mariannamorozova2133 2 роки тому +671

    I can't exaggerate this enough but your channel is just a blessing ❤️

  • @sstories7178
    @sstories7178 2 роки тому +752

    24 here, still a virigin and still ain't had a first kiss. So if anyone young people here are embarrassed don't be. Its more common than you think x

    • @liviniaflorisson3484
      @liviniaflorisson3484 2 роки тому +54

      You go! At the rate I’m going, I’ll probably be in the same boat by the time I’m 24. It doesn’t bother me though. Absolutely don’t be embarrassed. It can be something to be proud of.

    • @Hans12352
      @Hans12352 2 роки тому +42

      Agreed

    • @AstridFernandaintensity
      @AstridFernandaintensity 2 роки тому +26

      23 same, and feels good not giving that, to someone that don't really cares about you

    • @elliebell842
      @elliebell842 2 роки тому +19

      23 and same girl!!

    • @linetkemuma197
      @linetkemuma197 2 роки тому +13

      21 same

  • @carlee_ms3673
    @carlee_ms3673 2 роки тому +82

    What a lovely boy. He really considers what you ask him and explains himself so well 💗

  • @albertina03
    @albertina03 2 роки тому +110

    his facepalms are the cutest thing ever. 😂
    Joyish has become my favorite person on youtube, i wish more people could find this channel.

  • @arianatriskelidis1620
    @arianatriskelidis1620 2 роки тому +448

    what a special friendship you guys share - reminds me of my guy bestie and I!! thank you for your honesty and openness, love your channel and your bright vibes

  • @keksfresse8553
    @keksfresse8553 2 роки тому +209

    Uh Joy, you are so so underrated. You deserve the world, girl. 🌍 It's just so inspiring to see a confident, honest and happy young woman who creates content on UA-cam not to please her audience but whenever she feels like it and whatever she wants to. I love how you just bring joy into all our lives, I mean you can clearly see that in the comments 🤗 Keep it going ❤️

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +6

      🥺🥺🥺

  • @keelyshae427
    @keelyshae427 2 роки тому +61

    If y'all had a podcast I would listen to every moment 🥺 I love hearing you guys talk

  • @ele9875
    @ele9875 2 роки тому +12

    15:38 i like his mind. "masculine and feminine self" he worded it so well🥰he is beautiful inside and out

  • @shelley9565
    @shelley9565 2 роки тому +28

    blueberries all the way- gosh the maturity coming out of this conversation is great. Well done for being open, kind and very honest people. Showing younger people that communication is the centre of a relationship even before sex. So great!

  • @nicola2815
    @nicola2815 2 роки тому +25

    love your honestly! this friendship is so pure as well. definitely one of my favourite type of vids xx

  • @merelvanspauwen641
    @merelvanspauwen641 2 роки тому +9

    idk why but I just LOVE this!! it’s so educational and I love to hear you guys’ perspective on these topics💕

  • @aftarahmed05
    @aftarahmed05 2 роки тому +27

    Blueberries.
    I love how you guys are so comfortable and open with each other. Love the chemistry

  • @morgandemers691
    @morgandemers691 2 роки тому +20

    You two are perfection! Literally the coolest, sweetest humans. Love this friendship and love these videos so much! ❤️❤️

  • @remika7549
    @remika7549 2 роки тому +14

    I've been waiting forever for this video!! You guys give off the best vibes and I'm so beyond excited to watch ahhh

  • @belleliu1639
    @belleliu1639 2 роки тому +9

    I rlly like how u guys just chat with us like we r frds, giving me a feeling that the ways n content u guys talked r just just for filming a UA-cam video but a deep talk session with us🥺💖💖

  • @katehakanson310
    @katehakanson310 2 роки тому +4

    I appreciate the point that starting a new relationship can be equally scary or more scary than the end of a relationship... Thx for being berry-best-friend goals and sharing your friendship with us all! ❤❤❤

  • @efiblv
    @efiblv 2 роки тому +43

    this channel has become genuinely therapeutic to me over the past few weeks. thank you joy for the immaculate vibes !!!! sending you and jahvis all the love

  • @aditisinghshekhawat4018
    @aditisinghshekhawat4018 2 роки тому +12

    I love both of you a lot. I found your channel 1 month ago and I'm obsessed since then. can't wait to see more Jahvis and Joy content.

  • @alishabulmer
    @alishabulmer 2 роки тому +87

    you just made everyone’s day better by uploading! love these videos please continue to make them in the future 💗 hope you have a beautiful day and you look stunning too 🥰

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +7

      💓💖💖💓

  • @lilyvs9197
    @lilyvs9197 2 роки тому +29

    Joy your channel is amazing and so inspiring!!

  • @marielou868
    @marielou868 2 роки тому +15

    I'm so happy, every time i see Joy posts a new video ! ❤🤗

  • @AmyyCXxX
    @AmyyCXxX 2 роки тому +4

    Wow, I very recently discovered your channel & I really love how you speak your mind and just say things as they are. You seem so down to earth and don’t take things to seriously. This world needs more people like you ♥️💙🫐

  • @nai4716
    @nai4716 2 роки тому +8

    ahhh thank u joy for posting. I'm stuck in lockdown and this has really made my night!!

  • @colourfulsouls
    @colourfulsouls 2 роки тому +76

    Though I’m older then you guys (in my 30’s) with 3 teenage kids, I love watching these videos. You guys have such great conversations about these topics.
    I wish there was stuff like this out when I was younger, and glad my kids are growing up with more knowledge and perspective on relationships than I did.
    * also, I meant to mention that even though I’m older, hearing these questions and your answers/perspectives is still helpful to me

  • @mijatmilanovic1703
    @mijatmilanovic1703 2 роки тому +6

    Thanks for sharing so much! Being open in such a way is a true gem! This is my first vid in your youtube and i already love you guys! Sending love!

  • @yonge3953
    @yonge3953 2 роки тому +11

    Literally obsessed with your channel 😭🥺😻

  • @puck2261
    @puck2261 2 роки тому +7

    This was such a great video!!! Love the mutual respect you have for each other 🫐

  • @erikah4186
    @erikah4186 2 роки тому +19

    Thank you for you channel. Honestly, it’s so heartwarming and informative at the same time. It’s hard nowadays to see young people being so open minded and that respectful towards other people and their intimate lives. I’m so glad i found your content, it has helped me so much. Keep being you❤️ Lots of love from Brazil🇧🇷

  • @tamarasmith7227
    @tamarasmith7227 2 роки тому +3

    🫐 I am older than you both but I am still so inspired by your open and honest communication. Your friendship is one to cherish. Wishing you well from NYC.

  • @lauzn2458
    @lauzn2458 2 роки тому +7

    We loooove Jahvis 😍 and your videos are always a blessing for everyone!!!

  • @anitha4987
    @anitha4987 2 роки тому +14

    Joy's videos brings us joy!🥰❤

  • @vanessaa6421
    @vanessaa6421 2 роки тому +18

    I discovered your channel a week ago and now I’m obsessed

  • @candicec3
    @candicec3 2 роки тому +4

    recently discovered ur channel last week and i’ve watched like twenty videos,, i love ur personality sm

  • @bethalbiston2272
    @bethalbiston2272 2 роки тому +2

    Jahvis is honestly just the best guy!!♡ great video Joy🤍 xxx

  • @ella-wg4du
    @ella-wg4du 2 роки тому

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!! I Love you both so much. Whenever you two film it’s like magic and my day is made ❤️❤️❤️ SENDING LOVE UR WAY JOY

  • @ek3415
    @ek3415 2 роки тому +1

    Jahvis’s personality is it👏🏼I’ve watched your videos for a couple yrs, and I’m still not over it hahha

  • @MelanieJay
    @MelanieJay 2 роки тому +64

    Joy you've done it again!! A fantastic video, that brought me only pure joy.

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +5

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mayaengel6931
    @mayaengel6931 2 роки тому +6

    You’re abele to make content that is so relatable, helpful and so heartfelt. 💓

  • @mira-kk6pm
    @mira-kk6pm 2 роки тому +13

    thank you two for putting this amazing video into the world

  • @MarianaBarata16
    @MarianaBarata16 2 роки тому +3

    watching you both from Portugal! Found your channel 2 weeks ago and it’s been a really nice surprise 🫐

  • @mira-kk6pm
    @mira-kk6pm 2 роки тому +285

    about 🫐: something I maybe want to add is that although blue balls are real and apparently pretty uncomfortable (I'm sorry for that😅), they don't mean that the guys sexual partner is obliged to make him finish. Blue balls can be an issue to pressure girls and women to let the guy or man finish or continue in a sexual activity they maybe don't want to continue for the sake of him not experiencing blue balls. Maybe keep that in mind. It's uncomfortable to experience and not very pleasant but it's never a reason to keep going even if it's unwanted. Blue balls are not deadly and also he can maybe finish off himself or there are plenty other ways to either evade blue balls otherwise or to just accept that they sometimes occur.
    lots of love from switzerland, thank you so much for the video💕

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +49

      Very well said and very important ❤️❤️

    • @somethingdeadly
      @somethingdeadly 2 роки тому +9

      Exactly right! I forgot to mention this so thankyou

    • @rebeccagershoni
      @rebeccagershoni 2 роки тому +3

      yesss thank youu!
      so truu
      and hi fellow swiss ^^

    • @sjoerdgersonius1914
      @sjoerdgersonius1914 2 роки тому +15

      As a guy I totally agree. I sometimes experienced this when after a lot of buildup (hours of making out) and then driving the girl home, it would hurt like hell (like a hard kick in the nuts).
      But coming home you finish off yourself and everything is back to normal. In no way it should be a reason to go further. Hell, I even got this after letting the girl climax. Even then it doesnt mean she owns something.

    • @mira-kk6pm
      @mira-kk6pm 2 роки тому +2

      @@sjoerdgersonius1914 thanks also for such a respectful perspective and your insight as a guy! groeten naar nederland, am I right?:)

  • @elmirastayinalive
    @elmirastayinalive 2 роки тому +6

    Another amazing video!! Ily Joyy 💜

  • @maryymoment
    @maryymoment 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t know much, but I gotta say this video is a breath of fresh air. Thank you guys!!! 🫐🫐🫐

  • @emily-ek7wq
    @emily-ek7wq 2 роки тому +6

    i just subscribed because your personality is just *chef’s kiss*

  • @avahuehn2725
    @avahuehn2725 2 роки тому +2

    love you both so much!!!! ahhhhh you guys are the best🫐❤️💗💕

  • @C.liyahh
    @C.liyahh 2 роки тому +1

    Cannot get over how much I love your channel ! ♥️

  • @bang_chan_my_man
    @bang_chan_my_man 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely amazing video Joy, I love you so much ❤️❤️

  • @sshreyaa444
    @sshreyaa444 2 роки тому +4

    no bc i love this youtube channel sm omg

  • @cathrinapalmer4214
    @cathrinapalmer4214 2 роки тому +1

    Y'all are so positive and adorable ❤️ love y'all.

  • @bia-lu5mc
    @bia-lu5mc 2 роки тому +14

    ok, im literally so in love. where do i find a guy like jahvis?!

  • @SofiaLimatube
    @SofiaLimatube 2 роки тому +15

    your friendship is amazing! you both comfort me so much! much love from brazil

  • @elfsieben1450
    @elfsieben1450 2 роки тому

    Wholesome video, totally feeling your friendship vibes, relaxed and comfy and trusted. 🧡💚

  • @sheillalimn
    @sheillalimn 2 роки тому +2

    my gurus out here! i love this video joy🥺💓🍒

  • @ellybean15
    @ellybean15 2 роки тому +2

    This conversation needs to be had in high schools in the U.S.! You both seem like awesome people!!

  • @drewpocernich2540
    @drewpocernich2540 2 роки тому +4

    6:25
    So true. I've never been in a relationship, and I could tell you. Early in my life, I developed the philosophy that "why wouldn't you criticize me? It's ok to criticize, just make sure you're polite in the process."
    You have to be direct. In any relationship, be direct. Imagine a couple, they dance around their feeling for each other as if they're high schoolers crushing on each other except they are romantically dating.
    If you have a high EQ, you just cringed at that thought. That's because who would care about this hiding emotions when you're already dating. If you're dating, I guarantee that your partner wants to hear that you love them. Show them your affection and let out that repressed hopeless romantic within yourself. It will work wonders for your love life.
    Communicate, and be direct.

  • @trinity-victoriaernst5899
    @trinity-victoriaernst5899 2 роки тому +1

    This was really interesting and helpful. And u guys have great energy 🫐

  • @kev501
    @kev501 2 роки тому +6

    another candid conversation with Jahvis well done 👍

  • @mariap9826
    @mariap9826 2 роки тому +2

    You both are the cutest!!! 🫐 I want a friendship like this!

  • @soumyapande678
    @soumyapande678 2 роки тому +2

    You are so underrated Joy!🥺💖

  • @angharadmay1136
    @angharadmay1136 2 роки тому +6

    Love you Joy!! ❤️

  • @amyhilbrig156
    @amyhilbrig156 2 роки тому +87

    How is Jahvis literally the most perfect guy on earth 😍
    I‘ve been watching your channel for two years or more now and I just love your videos Joy😘😘

  • @samaramalawwethantri2910
    @samaramalawwethantri2910 2 роки тому +40

    "The world revolves around me" 😂😂❤️
    - Jahvis Loveday (2021)

  • @sach4525
    @sach4525 2 роки тому +3

    Finally getting to watch the video
    I love ya'll so much
    Cuties💓

  • @sunset5907
    @sunset5907 2 роки тому +1

    you guys need a podcast, honestly. There are so many reasons to do it!! It would be such a healthy and positive impact on younger generations (or uneducated people actually), your voices and way of talking make me feel like home and I am from Spain so idk why hahaha maybe it's the way that you guys are so respectful towards eachother, not judgemental at all, communicate so well but chill and relaxed at the same time. Just a blessing, for real

  • @dennijoesgeneral4797
    @dennijoesgeneral4797 2 роки тому +1

    I'm super glad for UA-cam recommendations, I'm literally bingeing your videos😁. Thank you for your honesty and your content is dope and amazingly wholesome, on getting a tesla great job👏👏👏

  • @aishwaryakota4378
    @aishwaryakota4378 2 роки тому +2

    I love you so much joy!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AydanJane
    @AydanJane 2 роки тому +7

    I so wish I could hang out with you two! I love that you have these conversations, especially for those who don't have people they can comfortably talk to about sex and relationships!

  • @sanyaa7341
    @sanyaa7341 2 роки тому +2

    love you guys!!❤🥰

  • @madelineforet9460
    @madelineforet9460 2 роки тому +3

    When Jahvis says “I thought I knew what love was…” and that whole interaction 😭💀 felt thaaattt! I feel like that’s just the awkward 20-25 roller coaster though

  • @audreyhulsey1656
    @audreyhulsey1656 2 роки тому +2

    I love how honest Jarvis was through out the entire video

  • @olabanacka6759
    @olabanacka6759 2 роки тому +9

    Thank You so much guys! 🫐🫐 Please do more videos together ☺️

  • @blueladybug9017
    @blueladybug9017 2 роки тому +2

    Love you guys! 🫐💙

  • @ntando_mgabadzeli
    @ntando_mgabadzeli 2 роки тому +2

    Having a bad day but here for some morning JOY😊

  • @kavya_bhat
    @kavya_bhat 2 роки тому

    Watched a couple of similar videos and always felt these kids need a mature/experienced person's perspective but loved Javi here

  • @anajuliaribeiroderezende1437
    @anajuliaribeiroderezende1437 2 роки тому +4

    Loved it, much needed words, thanks for sharing. I didn't know you guys live in Australia, that's awesome. Commenting from Brazil ;)

  • @catytherese
    @catytherese 2 роки тому

    It’s so great to see your friendship and how open you are with each other 🥰🥰 blueberries ;)

  • @chicita108
    @chicita108 2 роки тому +2

    I love you both!! So sweet 💕

  • @lillyl.9614
    @lillyl.9614 2 роки тому +5

    Uhh the best way to start the day 😍🥳

  • @victoria.b5
    @victoria.b5 2 роки тому +1

    JAHVIS IS SO NICE, LIKE HOW

  • @josyb2508
    @josyb2508 2 роки тому +3

    Ok but i am obsessed with you two!!!!!!!!!! ♥️

  • @sonia7960
    @sonia7960 2 роки тому +7

    This video just made my day🥰

  • @larauerc
    @larauerc Рік тому

    🫐🫐!! this was so fun. I love your energy!! please get a podcast ^^

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  Рік тому +1

      Coming 🥰🥰

  • @chloeb43
    @chloeb43 2 роки тому +8

    aw I love your videos so so much! the way you guys talk about uncomfortable topics really helps to normalize this kind of discussion and makes me feel less awkward talking to my friends about these things. thank you guys! ♥ (my computer doesn't have a blueberry emoji so here are some grapes instead :3 )🍇

  • @KONDRATOSHA
    @KONDRATOSHA 2 роки тому +2

    I just love you both so much 🥺❤️

  • @bessyguevara6212
    @bessyguevara6212 2 роки тому +2

    🫐 Loved this video and love your channel Joy!

  • @GJ-kq3cb
    @GJ-kq3cb 2 роки тому +5

    Hi Joy! Hope your day is going well queen :)

  • @marinagalvao9889
    @marinagalvao9889 2 роки тому +2

    MY FAVOURITE DUO

  • @maisorour4354
    @maisorour4354 2 роки тому +1

    Iam a simple girl I see a notification from this channel I click ❤ also I loooooove it when i see you both filming together.

  • @igirlgeek
    @igirlgeek 2 роки тому

    Loved the video! 🫐

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary 2 роки тому +6

    The best 27 mins of my life ❤️

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +2

      🥰💕❤️

  • @tanyanorgaard8563
    @tanyanorgaard8563 2 роки тому +2

    Loved the video 🥰🫐

  • @tamaravrahami7954
    @tamaravrahami7954 2 роки тому +3

    He’s so cute I can’t😍😍

  • @maleeka6312
    @maleeka6312 2 роки тому +4

    yayyy finally

  • @maiziestone7660
    @maiziestone7660 2 роки тому

    🫐
    You are amazing, guys! Lots of love! 💝

  • @shresthjain2355
    @shresthjain2355 2 роки тому +3

    I might get hated for this, but she is so in love with that dude.

  • @sarah__9041
    @sarah__9041 2 роки тому +2

    Joy you should start a podcast!!

  • @haileyhudson4157
    @haileyhudson4157 2 роки тому +3

    ✨ hectic ✨

  • @moreofalyssaw1921
    @moreofalyssaw1921 2 роки тому

    I love these videos helps a lot

  • @brydiecuthell7420
    @brydiecuthell7420 2 роки тому +3

    Love ya joy