siblings or dating?? + a much needed honest catchup...
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- Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
- Insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
🐙 jahvis:
Channel: @JahvisLoveday
Insta: @javisloveday / jahvisloveday
A much needed catchup answering your juicy questions about my boyfriend and Jahvis and being honest about everything. I'm kind of addicted to playing Siblings or Dating so I hope you enjoy that segment and you played along with us!
We are so grateful for your support always!
Joy xx
📍timestamps:
00:00 - intro
02:22 - sunset time
03:00 - does jahvis like ethan?
03:30 - has your friendship changed?
03:52 platonic intimacy rant
07:07 - getting pizza
07:56 - when was the last time you cried?
09:30 - siblings or dating
12:49 - we love you!
💌 contact me:
insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
email: joybenhur@gmail.com
💌 music:
Epidemic sound
💌 equipment:
canon m50
sigma lens 16mm 1.4
iphone 12
manfrotto tripod
edit on Final Cut Pro X!! - Навчання та стиль
I really resonate with what joy was saying about women needing physical touch, I feel a lot more loved and connected in all friendships with hugging. I adore your friendship with each other so much and wish it was normalised a bit more. I wish I had friends and community that was all about connection and vulnerability, it's just not something I have ever found.
I want a friendship like theirs 😩😩
touch is so fkn important in life.....literally last night I had a whole 2 hr meltdown just cuz I wanted someone to hold me
I know that feeling so well🥺❤️
omg literally me every night
Tia Jain I’m sorry ❤️
Yes, i know this feeling as well
I strive to have friendships as comfortable as yours
I wish I had a friendship like theirs it looks so comfortable
I like your pfp hehe
Jahvis and Joys Friendship duo>>>>. I literally envy you guys‼️
my relationship with my best friend completely changed after he got a girlfriend, the friendship that you two share is exactly the type of friendship that I want, and I'm pretty sure I'll find it someday. Love you both so muchhhh. Also Joy I hope you reach 10k soon!!!!!!!!
Thank you!!!!
Remember everyone, I'M READING! Love u Joy xx
Love you jahvy!!!
Im subscribing bother your just pure awesomeness
Even though I don't know you personally but you have such a beautiful way to bond with different people in your lives.. i am older to you and yet i look upto you for this ! 🥺 Alsoo you have such a beautiful healing soul just like your mother !!
Thank you so much 🥺❤️
i honestly love your bond with jhavis so much ... gosh i manifest friends like this... i am a very touchy person too and its great to actually see you guys acknowledge the love we express through touches and cuddles
Ahhh yes your story about physical touch is so true. My friends and i are not really touchy like you are with yours and when i was single (after my relationship of a few years ended) i didn't really hug anyone in a long time (bc my parents also live in another country). Then when i did hug a friend of mine after some time, i just remember it feeling so good and i was literally just shocked by how much i needed that without knowing! Anyway, I love your friendship with Jahvis it's so entertaining to watch!!! Tbh i do always feel a little bit lonely after watching your vids bc i don't have that many close friendships as you have 😂 But it's totally worth it bc they also always make me feel very happy :)
Sending you a big virtual hug❤️❤️
Jarvis is so right saying that people who are dating over time start to look alike .. I always thought I was the only one noticing that 😂😂
I am in love with this whole video... Like it made me genuinely feel good. But thats what your videos always do. I don't know what it is maybe its your vibe or just your beautiful personality but ahhh. Oh and btw where can i order a jahvis? I love the friendship you have like its so cute and i wish i had one like this
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We need longer videos of you two🥺 your videos always calm me down hehe
i lovee their friendship, it's soo healthy ♥️love this.
You know God has favs when you see them. Love ya.
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Joy I love your videos! It makes me so happy. This video gave me a new perspective on the importance of touch in a friendship/relationship. Not everything needs to be sexualized and that touch is just a human way of showing love. Thank you for sharing your thoughts joy and Jahvis
It's amazing seeing the dynamic between you two. So real and pure
I always needed such friends whom I'm more comfortable with as a friend and gender doesnt matter
I just want to say how peaceful this video was for me.. it made me feel like I've known you guys for years and we're all friends, it's an incredible vibe. Greetings from Mexico!
Missed yall vids together, your vibe is so pure it's amazing to watch
this video just feels like a warm hug, I love it
You have such a special inspiring personality (even though I don’t know you in person I think one can tell by your videos) and seem to always really invest into the things you do if you know what I mean and I think you can really see that kind of reflect in the people and special bonds in your life and all the love that seems to surround you. I truly admire your way of living and you as a person
You two are simply the sweetest. The other day, I chased the sunset and saw the cutest deer running after each other. It was so damn adorable, I burst into tears and parked my car next to the road and just relished in this weird happy solitude. I don't know why I felt the need to share that, but I enjoy days where I can just relish in empty time and hidden beauties. You guys just seem so free, and since following you both, I find myself implementing the sort of lifestyle you both live in small ways that help me.
love how you both wore matching outfits. Idk why but that shade of red looks very flattering♥️
ahhh i was asleep when you posted but i will watch it when i get homeee AND I CANT WAIT. 💕💕
I missed jahvis lmao
The cutest friendship! Your videos just radiate such positive, happy energy and I love it! :))
You guys are so chill, I love it!
And I really want some pizza now :)
Your friendship is lovely. I am inspired by your gentle open communication about so many personal topics. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with the world. 🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕
you're guy's relationship is so comforting to me for some reason. like. i feel as though we're all friends and it's so nice !! lol
this is the purest form of friendship, you guys are so lucky to have eachother!! so much love to you both xoxo
Your videos are so wholesome!❤️❤️
Joy, you said it was a "random video between different scenes" - nooo noo, it was lovely and a big pleasure for me ✨💕
I’m surprised how honest you are with your audience!🥺❤️
Joyishhh i love your relationship with your friends actually i love your relationship with people in general even in your relationship with us you make me feel very valuable:) 🌻
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you guys have an adorable friendship I love these videos with Jahvis 😭 you guys are so funny
Physical touch is so important and I don’t think I can stress enough how much people need it. Although I know this I have always struggled with physical touch. I have had some very toxic friendships and I feel like that has effected my view on physical touch. They used to hug me and make contact with me constantly. Now I feel like when anyone else does it my brain can only relate it to all of the bad memories and experiences I had with my previous friends. Well this is just my experience with it but I hope you have a wonderful day! 💙
Sorry to hear :( hope your heart heals ❤️❤️❤️
Aw, I want a Jahvis too!
Used to have what you both have! But life happens. Honestly missing the feelsss. Hope you guys can keep the friendship going for the longest time. xx
the best duo!!!
Your videos just bring me so much peace. Idk what it is, maybe the video editing style or honestly just your energy and vibe. any who, I know everyone here’s already said that they want a friendship like you and Jhavis and yea me too, but I just wanted to thank you for just being yourself and sharing these parts of your life with us. I actually live in Brisbane and is currently a year 12 student who has never gone out much with friends and still can’t (due to exams and strict immigrant parents ofc). But watching your videos gives me some hope that once I get into uni I’d be able to really build some great relationships and strengthen the ones I have rn. Sorry for the big rant but hope y’all are having a wonderful week😊🥰💗💗
So much love!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for the captions! Would be great to have them throughout the entire video :)
You guys are the cutest ever!
I just know y'all give the best hugs!! I love you guys
awwh you guys are the cutest! love your videos together!
Just found your channel and I love it!💞💞
Best video for me this week!
Yoo...you guys are soo...authentic...!
It's so great to watch your videos...!!
keep it up guys..!
Comments is at 111!🥰❤️ I love you two together and your friendship is simply so beautiful. I hope to have this one day very soon-and wish everyone else watching has/will have this too. Anyway much love💞
I totally agree with jahvis people morph into their partners after some time its so weirdddd, btw love you guyssss❤❤❤
ive watched one of your vid, and now binge watching. not complaining tho. this channel is wholesome.
Joyish could you please update more often? I really love your videos, but more than the content its the ~vibes~💕
At first, I thought that you guys liked each other and just didn't know it cause you're such good friends but now I think that that's all you are; good friends and that's really nice.
I’m literally watching this while eating pizza 😂 love you guys so much!
This is something about Korean culture that I find so interesting; skinship, it's like normalised platonic affection between close friends, and I really wish it was more normal in western countries, touch is so important like newborn babies can die if they don't get held
I’m also like really touchy and I love to cuddle but I can’t really do it with friends especially not with my boy best friends because all of them starts thinking that I’m into them when it’s actually just who I am..
That’s soo annoying.. I would love to have the kind of relationship that u guys have🥺
I love them so much.. and I am looking forward to every video with each other. It is crazy how they don't know me like I am the girl from a different country from north Africa different language different lifestyle different religion different culture. Yet I connect with them and they literally give me positive vibes and comfort.
North Africa, me too!
this video is so aesthetically pleasing like all your videos. I feel like I'm watching a movie.
Love your videos!! I watch them all❤️❤️ you both should be models too😌
Just appreciate the editing
It's so Damn good
so happy watching this
Love u both sooo much 💗
To be honest, it is so different for me to see a friendship like yours. So far in my 19 years of life, anytime I had a guy friend they ended up wanting to just have sex with me or had a big crush on me and I didn’t feel the same way, and everytime I responded with “sorry I don’t want that can we still be friends ?” They say yes but never talk to me again and I lose them as a friend. This has led me to believe that I can not just have a guy best friend like you and Jarvis because they either want sex or want to date me though I just want them as a friend. The three guy best friends I’ve had, ended up being my boyfriend so I don’t count those. I guess I just admire but also think is weird that you have a Friendship like this with a guy friend. Also a little jealous... You guys are so cute and really enjoy watching your friendship.
u guys are so entertaining and funny
You guys have such a amazing friendship 💟
Whoever disliked this video is rude and has zero taste. I envy your friendship so much! I used to have so many opposite-gender friends friends in school that I’ve grown apart from now in my 20s, and I had a yucky boyfriend who cheated with female friends, so I’m not sure how to get back to that place of trust and comfort. Watching you two gives me a lot of hope 💕😊
. . . And also what was that thirst face there toward the end, Jahvis? 😂
Sending you love, I’m sure that would be so hard ❤️❤️
We need more videos like this!!)
Yess Joy! Get that paycheck💙💙
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my favorite people ❤️🔥
Everyone needs a Jahvis in their life
The matching sweaters and overall vibe reminds me of videoclub
I had what u guys have with my childhood friend for like 18 years or so .. we were inseparable but once he got in a serious relationship we stopped bonding we only meet in occasions and now I'm 25 and it gets hard everytime i think of him .. friendship is important i dunno how I'm keeping up
Love u two
I always feel like having a beautiful voice can make a person really attractive and I think that‘s also the case for Joy. Obviously she is a lovely person inside out but I feel like the voice makes her even more beautiful.
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Oh my god Round the Twist was such a good show! It was huge in the U.K. when I was little! I now live in Australia and I have no friendships this deep :( makes me kinda homesick in a way. I need friends haha.
I neeeed another journal with me please
Also what did you use to film after the camera battery died? The slightly less saturated effect looks really cool :)
wait what, I never knew Joy and Ethan are dating. I am so late for this news. :D love love love this friendship, just warms my heart.
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YESSSS OUR REQUEST HAVE BEEN GRANTED THANK YOUUU MY MONTH IS COMPLETE NOW
Hahaha ❤️❤️❤️
@@Joyish wishing my friends watch you too so that they can relate to what im feeling everymonth ahaha
Lots of love from Philippines
A miss My bff .....love you both 🤗
I am literally watching round the twist rn and btw I live in Australia too
am i the only one who didn’t know about the new boyfriend?:D loved the video and your energy ❤️
Yay jahvis!!..I luv u too joy 😂
nooo i literally get so sad when rue dies as wellllll!! i don't cry over a lot of videos but that is just too 🥺🥺🥺
Last time I cried like for real I was watching toy story 4 and I was surprise that the movie actually got me.
Stay safe guys.
Joy big fan❤❤ think you a javas's friendship is so cute....I agree you can be in a relationship and have that one close bestie no matter the gender 😊😊 love you keep smiling and shout out to javas 😂😂 his company was really nice in this video 😊😊 bye.
i still haven't figured it out. are they dating or they're just friends?
Imp question. Was the colour coordination an intentional effort... or just some mad synchronicity
A last minute choice ;)
Omg wait a damn minute!! Shearwater as in Shearwater Steiner School!!??? 🥺 You guys went to a Steiner school?? I did too in Brisbane:) 🍃🍄🐎💞
Yes!! Steiner is the best ☺️
They're both super attracted to each other, though... lol. Joy looks him up and down constantly.
Still think they’re end game
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anyone else's frienship goal to the max too?
Just leaving this comment hoping you send it to each other hahahah. I love your combo and you two!! Your biggest fan from Germany 🥰
Hehehe
Uhhhh guys, when did Joy get a boyfriend?
It's insane how beautiful and handsome Jahvis is... Can we clone him?
I thought u guys were dating and when she said she has a boyfriend and it wasn’t him I was like what?
My first time i was 16y.o
Where is your jean from ?
And the name of the style
They are vintage Levi so not sure on the style :( sorry xx
@@Joyish it’s okey, thank you
second 😘