Answering your Q's about love, friendship & life after school (ft. Jahvis❤️)

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
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    Hey guys, hope you enjoyed the video!
    It felt weird watching back footage before all the floods occurred but I'm hoping this video can give a little light and joy in these times.
    I will be donating all the revenue from this months video to help the flood crisis, so thank you for watching❤️❤️
    🍊JAHVIS: / jahvisloveday
    / jahvisloveday
    📍timestamps:
    00:00 - intro
    01:55 - how are you? How’s life treating you at the moment?
    03:16 - how to deal with having feelings for your best friend?
    04:53 - how to deal with loosing friends?
    05:20 - is it rude to turn down plans with a friend?
    06:20 - what helps you get out of your comfort zone when with new people?
    08:20 - what’s your favourite thing about being close friends with each other?
    09:48 - ways to maintain a long distance friendship?
    11:46 - do you find it annoying when people suggest you’re more than friends?
    12:51 - what did you think your life would look like when you were fifteen?
    14:41 - Did your final score in high-school affect you life after school?
    15:20 - how did you feel when leaving high school? Career confusion?
    17:27 - pressure to not feel behind friends in stages of life?
    18:30 - what do you do to get back to yourself after being energetically drained?
    20:53 - advice on the early stages of a romantic relationship?
    22:09 - How do you know that you’re with the right person?
    23:33 - How long after ending a relationship should you wait until getting into a new one?
    24:12 - what colour do you associate the other with and why?
    25:33 - outro
    💌 contact me:
    insta: @joyishhhh / joyishhhh
    email: joybenhur@gmail.com
    💌 music:
    Epidemic sound
    💌 equipment:
    canon m50
    sigma lens 16mm 1.4
    Sony DCR-SX65 camcorder
    iphone 12
    manfrotto tripod
    edit on Final Cut Pro X!!
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  • @sheillalimn
    @sheillalimn 2 роки тому +152

    your qna’s is always the ones i dont skip, this is very helpful in times of navigating friendship, relationships, and life, i can imagine coming back to your qna’s in time i feel lost or disconnected it felt very natural but casual, i also kept laughing along with you! thankyou for making this💓🌸🥺

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +2

      🥺💝❤️💌

  • @eszterfischer2559
    @eszterfischer2559 2 роки тому +93

    I so agree with Jahvis being orange for some reason, but I think Joy is green. I don't know why, green is just a so calming color, the color of nature and Joy is just so down to earth💚 But pink and yellow definitely describes you're bubbly sides

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +2

      Awwwww💚💚

  • @zeynepnursozer
    @zeynepnursozer 2 роки тому +102

    You and Jahvis have such a beautiful friendship. It reminds my friendship with my best male friend, everyone used to think we like each other and we used to make fun of that. People should start accepting all forms of love. You can love your friends, your family, your pet, your partner and all sorts of love is valid and beautiful. Lots of love from the Netherlands 💓🌸

  • @psp3545
    @psp3545 2 роки тому +61

    I love the joy and jahvis series 😭

  • @itsautomaticfaegirl
    @itsautomaticfaegirl 2 роки тому +35

    Ahh I really love that Jahvis likes to write letters to his friends! Because same, it’s so nice to really take time and tell your friends all kinds of things via words written down in a personal letter♥️ Even though I’m in my early twenties I sometimes like to add a little surprise in the envelope in the form of a sticker haha:) ✨

  • @amymargaret7314
    @amymargaret7314 2 роки тому +13

    pls make a podcast!! both your voices are so calming and i love your advice

  • @akshitapandey178
    @akshitapandey178 Рік тому +1

    These guys make me think how good and non toxic and encouraging the social conditions are in Australia. Or at least where they live. They radiate free vibes. Independent and wise vibes.

  • @viktoriamatt6318
    @viktoriamatt6318 2 роки тому +12

    „you know what, i‘m gonna let you guys figure that out for yourself“ - i‘m dying HAHA

  • @nai4716
    @nai4716 2 роки тому +43

    love love love this video. i’ve honestly been having a really tough past couple days & seeing you post has brightened my day. sending you so much love & hope your safe and well

  • @aliciaasc4996
    @aliciaasc4996 2 роки тому +22

    I love the vibe of this video. Love the new room space Joy

  • @ree-ree8030
    @ree-ree8030 2 роки тому +5

    Off topic but I would love to see a bookish video from you. Maybe a bookshelf tour, highlighting your all time favorite reads and maybe why you love them? I'm so curious 🔖 + I think you're a lilac

  • @naveena5831
    @naveena5831 2 роки тому +7

    Heyyy joy🥰🥰
    Glad to see another joy and jahvis video🥰

  • @graciegirlinspo
    @graciegirlinspo 2 роки тому +14

    Yay! Love when y'all do videos together☺

  • @ella-wg4du
    @ella-wg4du 2 роки тому +5

    This is the absolute best UA-cam video you could have done back from the break 🥺 I LOVE U TWO so much. Thank u thank u for sharing this !! ❤️❤️ made my day. Sending love to u both

  • @luise8111
    @luise8111 2 роки тому +5

    I love love love all of these!💛💛

  • @maychan9642
    @maychan9642 2 роки тому +3

    thanks for brightening my day with this! ♥

  • @jacquelinefausto3989
    @jacquelinefausto3989 2 роки тому +5

    Your notifs are only reason why I go onto UA-cam anymore

  • @savannahcrt6471
    @savannahcrt6471 2 роки тому +8

    just love, love, love your videos Joy

  • @bellatrudel9477
    @bellatrudel9477 2 роки тому +20

    Thank you BOTH for your wisdom and inspiration. I loved this video, it brightened up my hard week.

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +1

      🥺❤️💖

  • @sassybdassi6686
    @sassybdassi6686 2 роки тому +6

    Jahvis laughing at your Dad making funny faces gave me the serotonin I needed

  • @ryanneliza
    @ryanneliza 2 роки тому +11

    Torn between being happy for Jahvis’s new relationship and being sad he’s no longer your single friend we all think is beautiful lol. Your videos bring me life ❤️

  • @user-pn4wm6lb7y
    @user-pn4wm6lb7y 2 роки тому +4

    The happiest time of the day is when you upload a video

  • @MoeffMaehUndMuh
    @MoeffMaehUndMuh 2 роки тому +3

    I have a good tip for if you want to cancel on someone because you don't have the energy that day: do cancel, but suggest sth else. So ask if you can postpone to another day (and name that day if possible) or make an effort to schedule something else. That way you can take care of yourself but still make them feel important and show that you appreciate their company:)

  • @ioannap4387
    @ioannap4387 2 роки тому +2

    love u guys❤️

  • @gee5147
    @gee5147 2 роки тому +9

    loving the matching outifts 🥺😊

  • @outperformancelife3145
    @outperformancelife3145 2 роки тому +5

    So your best friends but not courting or dating? Loved this QNA! Yeah I totally relate to feeling like my life is WAY behind where I should be at. It feels like a punch to the solar plexus of esteem but I just have to reduce my opinion of myself to myself and know that God is taking me down the road at life at a different pace than everyone else in this world.

  • @ellzzzzzu
    @ellzzzzzu 2 роки тому +11

    Please make a podcast together!!!

  • @amberjanssens4155
    @amberjanssens4155 2 роки тому +3

    Love this so much

  • @gracemorrison6354
    @gracemorrison6354 2 роки тому +5

    We NEED a Jahvis "oh shit" compliation

  • @glenndarragh
    @glenndarragh Рік тому

    ❤ today I saw the first roses when I discovered your channel !

  • @eloisea.r.h.5795
    @eloisea.r.h.5795 2 роки тому +5

    “an alaskan school” as an alaskan i can confirm we do indeed have schools 👍👍 and it is cold

  • @erinkswart
    @erinkswart 2 роки тому +14

    i dont think u understand.. i’m literally obsessed with u and will forever be 💓

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому +2

      🥺❤️❤️

    • @erinkswart
      @erinkswart 2 роки тому

      @@Joyish ily!!

  • @rakshithakadekar
    @rakshithakadekar 2 роки тому +3

    It was great!

  • @tehilla5661
    @tehilla5661 2 роки тому +3

    I love you guys

  • @JahvisLoveday
    @JahvisLoveday 2 роки тому +3

    Mwuah, love to everyone x

  • @fee2222
    @fee2222 2 роки тому +4

    Joy your side profile is so pretty💫

  • @tamaradubeni6866
    @tamaradubeni6866 2 роки тому +2

    I simply send ❤

  • @stellarjovitas5473
    @stellarjovitas5473 2 роки тому +3

    Was missing yhew❤️

  • @jaimemcgown3349
    @jaimemcgown3349 2 роки тому +5

    Please start a podcast!!

  • @existentialysha
    @existentialysha 2 роки тому +1

    sending me how you guys don’t know how centuries work 😭

  • @sofialaramigliorini5477
    @sofialaramigliorini5477 2 роки тому +1

    I would saw joy's color is yellow too hahah and javis's brown maybe idk haha

  • @HanNguyen-dn8nk
    @HanNguyen-dn8nk Рік тому

    They are literally Alex and poppy from the ppl we meet on vacation

  • @haileyhudson4157
    @haileyhudson4157 2 роки тому +1

    Stephanie from Alaska 😂😂😂

  • @RoyalKiwi206
    @RoyalKiwi206 2 роки тому +4

    Why aren’t you guys datingggggg

  • @skypie2083
    @skypie2083 2 роки тому

    18:51 my moms name is stephanie 😭😂

  • @davidadam4495
    @davidadam4495 2 роки тому

    Where were you born Joy? I can't trace any signs of an Australian accent.

  • @lauren2103
    @lauren2103 2 роки тому +2

    17:03 😂😂😂

  • @davidadam4495
    @davidadam4495 2 роки тому

    Joy, have you ever thought of reversing your Q&A vidoes and having Javis ask you questions? If you didn't allow yourself to become embarrassed the world might learn some interesting things! I don't mean in roleplay as there you are not answering as yourself. I've spent years teaching girls not to allow themselved to become embarrassed about anything. Embarrassment is NOT an emotion, it's a cognitive learning process which starts the day we are born and as we grow we pick up things from our parents

    • @davidadam4495
      @davidadam4495 2 роки тому

      To continue... We pick up things from our parents and our friends till we are slowly brainwashed into their way of thinking. If you don't believe that just think, were you ever asked the question "Which church would YOU like to belong to?" Like most of us I bet you weren't! As a child you don't know any better about most things so you just go along with it. So don't allow yourself to be embarrassed about ANYTHING. You'll find you feel much better for it.

  • @Danielle-ii8zc
    @Danielle-ii8zc 2 роки тому +4

    Does this sexy man have a UA-cam channel ??

    • @Joyish
      @Joyish  2 роки тому

      Linked in description honey !