Divorced & Dating a Younger Woman
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hey you came into my work today! You were with your family so I let you be but it was cool seeing you,
Try not to move your mic too much, brother.
PEACE!
Holy Fuck, why does everyone write you in a 14 page email???
I divorced at 38, hooked up with a smoking hot 24 year old psycho single mom. We had absolutely nothing in common outside of the sack. I cooked and prepared all of the meals while she played on her phone, teasing her exes on social media. She was worthless around the house. Total princess mentality. She also didn’t want people to know about us - total nutjob.The novelty didn’t match the reality of my situation. I ended up just ghosting her out of my life. Was a huge learning lesson.
When a long marriage goes to dumpster, one should back off and live a little for the self.
Get to know the only person that will only be there for you.
Too often men crave a female bosom, like they are missing their mommy - learn to be alone.
True
@Jose Diaz very on point very on point
Yes learn to be ALONE & FIGHT THOSE URGES TO GET BACKIN THE GAME. GO USE WHAT YOU'RE. GOING THROUGH ON HITTING SOME WEIGHTS GETTING STAYING IN SHAPE REBUILDING YOUR BRAND,DON'T CHASE ONE TO REPLACE ONE
Yes you are correct. After being shafted pfollowing 24 years of marriage, I failed to listen to advice from others to at least not date for one year. I did not heed the advice and paid dearly. Take time following divorce and spend time on yourself.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me . Great advice. I was married 28 years. Waited a year to date. I dated a few women for the next few years. Every woman made me feel trapped again. Always wanted everything! I had no time for myself. I made up my mind to stay away from females for 6 months. I have never been happier. I’m traveling and spending money on myself. First time in my life.
She will have your kid you’ll marry her she’ll get resident status then the honeymoon will be over
Do mail order wives get tariffed now? They are imported goods, so to speak. Want a foreign bride? Just throw around some game at a INS office.
Thats all I can think about when I see dudes in comment sections saying all is well if you get a non-western woman. The internet is vast. Men just started spreading redpills over thr last half decade, or so. Women have been spreading their hypergamous bullshit for 3x that, at least. Then you have imported talk shows, or ideas from the west that reach foreign ears. The West is the most copied region in the world, from music to sports to feminist horseshit.
Same shit, different woman
So long as she pays for it.... bet that never happens! that is a test on its own
I've known men tht married foreign women, and pumped out some kids. They just look sooooo.... happy now. {sarcasm}
I'm going to be brutally honest. Having experience with Eastern European women myself, she is in it for the resources, there is not way around this fact and the dude needs to accept it. Love? Meh I don't think so.
Swedish guy needs to slow down. If not, he could Potentially be going into a relationship worse than the first one.
A fool and his money shall soon part....
A woman’s friends/family will sway her buying decisions, and create feelings of RESENTMENT and ENVY as they share stories of how much money the men in their lives are willing to spend on them. Friends can have an impact of your wife’s diet, appearance, vices, spending habits, politics, the location she wants to live, and they’ll weigh in on how they think you should be behaving as a husband.
That was really well written 👌
@Billy The Buffalo i second that
Yes. Most have no brain of their own.
Remember women cant ever go to the bathroom by there self ... A women friends will crash your marriage..
@Youb Cbr .. My divorce was pushed my her friends for sure..
So glad I got to 57 after 3 failed relationships kids etc much heartache lots of dough but free now free free free I am free i got a German shepherd motorcycle atv and a sled property up north camp business in gta I have zero interest in any woman at any time and why do I feel and think that way it's cause I spent close to 40 years being with them wish all guys best of luck u gonna need it
David D sit alone for 20yrs ain't fun. Oh yeah, no sex too. Unless you want to hook up but no emotion behind sex is sad.
I got married at 22. It didn't last long. It took every penny I had to escape. I still had testosterone induced insanity. However, I was now wary of the consequences of marriage. I chased pussy for the next 25 years. I didn't have many girlfriends. The testosterone induced insanity faded at 47. I quit pursuing women. I am now 68. I was able to retire with the wealth I earned over a lifetime. I used to be bitter toward the many rejections I received. Now, I consider those rejections favors.
@@armadefuego5907 wow 22? Fuck man
shilosheena you gotta firm choice my brother,thumb up, better know yourself,men must learn to be independent,wild n free,full contented coz,you born alone, end up to the grave alone.still life gonna be more wonderful without romantic relationship. thanks much love from East Africa Tanzania.
Arma De Fuego I hope so my brother
I’m not married and don’t plan to, I hear too many married people say, “I stay just because of the kids”. So divorce rate is at 50% and if people who unhappily married didn’t stay just because of the kid then the divorce rate would be at 80% or higher, no thank you!
All I have to say to that swedish guy: know thyself, learn to be alone.
And master no fap
I didn't waste 5 sec, and you've wasted your life
Yep I’m hoping
Date younger and hotter
Ha, the jokes on you, I'm a speed reader, I read your screen name in about 1.5 seconds..............I'm a slow typer though so I wasted about a minute typing this...............you win this round buddy.
I'm living in Thailand and I see 40 year olds dating 20 year olds every day! If you have a lot of money the dating pool gets a lot bigger 😂
poor gold diggers
The difference in currency between the US and other first world countries and Thailand allows average people too seem rich
@@DanTuber Like western women are not?
It’s funny how haters who are often ugly, whimpering little snowflakes, soft bitch maids who have not the first clue of how women respond to men, are the FIRST to see a older man pulling much younger women and say “oh I bet he’s got a lot of money”...he likely does but for many it’s a deep understanding of how women operate and this thing called CONFIDENCE! Thailand is prostitute central. I went to Phuket, they should rename it whore island. Shit is just SAD.
Stop hating on guys who have it figured out, and maybe get your shit together!Trust me, just having money isn’t the answer. It’s one piece of the puzzle.
@@Dbf1339 Unfortunately this is no longer the case with Thailand. Maybe with much poorer countries. However, the poorer the country, the less you want to be there.
Just to back up what Rich is saying the only way you're gonna know for sure is by observing and assessing her responses to stressful situations and how long she keeps up the "perfect woman" persona. Throttle back, just because the new car is running great after 10, 000km does not guarantee it will run well at 100,000km. Thanks for the video Rich. May your success continue to breed more success 👍
I did a 6 week trip through india and nepal before i considered asking her to marry me. i had enough money to get home early if it went badly and it was good to see how she coped when things got stressful and being so close all day every day (as opposed to just after work). we had our moments (everyone is going to get grump 6 weeks in a 3rd world country), but i was happy that we did the trip so i could see how unreasonable she could get, and she was fine (or at least not irrational). 5 years and 2 kids later, i am happy i did the test as we have had other stresses to deal with and that experience helped me work out how to manage her through them.
did u guys bang on the trip alot
The honeymoon phase is not even love. It's more like a attraction/infatuation stage. After around 6-12 months reality kicks in. We fall down from cloud 9, and we start seeing if we're truly compatible or should go separate ways.
Don't date anyone for at least a year after your divorce is final. Do the things you want to do. You'll find in that year that getting into another relationship won't change your life for the better. Being by yourself makes it better. Trust me on this. Friends, family, people you know people from church, everyone will try to fix you up. Why? Because they want you to be as miserable as they are. I speak from experience.
I agree. Divorced 11 years. Happy, content enjoying my life. Never marry again.
Rich even here in Canada they masculinize girls and feminize boy in SCHOOL.
My son is very competitive and was over diagnose by school with BS - A.D.D.
Told him to spit the medication .
You can have drama with an old clunker or drama with a hot sporty model... Just do not knock her up.. You tell me
My first wife I met in the Philippines and the second in Guatemala now together for over 20 years. She works and isn't totally dependent does a good job and is a good mate. An American woman isn't something I'd seriously consider.I teach English as a second language and meet many Mexican woman that would work out well if the need ever is there.
This guys absolutely using his intuition, and needs to listen to it. Nothing can beat experience, great video.
Don’t deal with imported cats 🐈 they are just as feral as the locals!
Run bro! Run! And take more red pills. You're still blue as a Smurf!
I've dated foreign women, because I used to live overseas. I dated one for years, and honestly wanted to marry her with the best of intentions, we were young and in our 20's. Come engagement, and possible marriage time, things changed. You see only when things get super serious do the REAL cultural differences rear their head. And because of that, in a variety of ways, I left her.
Heard a comedian say this once about babies and bad relationships:
"Imagine a relationship is like a boat. Eventually that boat is going to spring leaks here and there. Sometimes the leak gets out of control and you have to abandon ship. SOME people however will try to plug the leaks with things in desperation - flowers, chocolates, engagement rings...and some assholes try to stuff a baby into the leak thinking that'll solve the problem."
It won't. Abandon ship. The water isn't that deep and boats aren't that scarce. You'll swim your way and she'll swim hers.
He gone mess up again watch.
Long distance relationship.... I've heard many stories from close friends where the girls "weaken" for another man when they are "back home" and You're not there.... then they cry and ask for forgiveness..... eyes open, and be very careful. Live with her for a while before planning children at least over a year, before children or marriage....
I wonder how many middle age mens death certicates can be typed up: Cause of death: "Bitchitis?" Instead of heart attack.
brian wings nagged to death.
Guy chose the easy way out.
Robin Williams is one who was driven to the grave by women.
@@Tony-dh Maybe his creator kindly stuck him down, like a mercy kill.
@@jshepard152 And he drank too much. I've seen men stop the booze, when they got rid of the broads.
lots of wisdom there, Rich. much appreciated.
Isnt the golden rule with foreign women is to stay in "their" home country
Had a woman tell me she was pregnant and I got so excited. In hindsight maybe she was trying to scare me off but she got the opposite effect, I went into overtime mode. She was picking fights with me every day for a couple weeks and I was taking it. It just made her more upset. She finally wanted to go to counseling. The counselor gave us limits and exercises like go on 3 dates a week, only talk to each other in the evenings, stuff like that. She twisted all of it to basically tell me the counselor thinks I’m as much of an asshole as she does and she hates me and wishes she never met me and then aborted our baby. For the longest time I was upset and thought i missed her but I was fooling myself. I was absolutely crushed about the abortion but I’m much better off with her not in my life. I mean she started complaining that her boobs shake too much on the back of my Harley, wtf is that? She was lucky to be on it
Michael Osmon that kinda made me cry thinking of your child dying
@@Libtardo123 my eyes began to water as I typed it, I had to remind myself that it was beyond my control and the choice was made for me. The lesson for me in that situation was that i really want to have a family and be a father. Every woman in the world is a nutcase tho, how could I in good conscience subject my child to that? I meant that in jest but maybe not entirely....we can't always get what we want. As luck would have it, my brother told me to look up entrepreneurs in cars on UA-cam and every day i gain understanding. Thank you Rick Cooper
Michael Osmon there are good women out there. You did the right thing trying your best to make things work. Some day a good woman will come along and see your good heart
@Steve Miller it occurred to me as well. I doubt I'll ever know. Its a very cruel thing to do to someone though
@@Libtardo123 thank you for your kind and supportive words
Dislikes? Thanks Rich, we appreciate the content keep up the good work.
Here's what's funny, the same women who shames you for dating a younger girl are the same ones who dated an older guy when they were young. They just bitter you don't want them now. The wall is undefeated.
Stay out of women's frames. Far too many men pay a lady's way, or otherwise until they are over invested and become beggars through placating them. Quit that! Keep your power to yourself!
Unfiltered wisdom.
Guys never assume you've mastered the Red Pill. You always have a lot to learn and you always have a lot to keep in mind with every encounter. Sp always take the position that you are a student of the Red Pill. Operate on that mindset even if you've "mastered" the basics.
P.S. Richard is right. Never import a woman into a society that is subsumed with rabid feminism. Instead move to her country where masculinity is still viewed as a valuable trait to have. Otherwise you are just paying for her to come in and turn on you in the future.
I’ve had more sex being single, then being married for 6. Damn, that shit just hit me☠️
I mean this from the bottom of my heart. brothers - if you *cannot* express your point in 3 or 4 clear, CONCISE, direct paragraphs - that is part of the problem right there; you're all over the place!
get laser sharp in what you want, and laser sharp in execution and expression.
it's impossible to respect anyone who's not direct, honest, and efficient!
That quick list Rich rattled off at 14:00 sounds quite natural and simple right. Most, nearly all American women can't do that.... especially last 2
Hey Rich, just want to say that I enjoy and appreciate your content
Great video. Guy is falling too fast for new girl he should take it easy very slow
Apply heat to food and make it taste good😂 awesomeness
New to your channel, had to chuckle regarding "Marriage Counselling" .... The Advice I got was get out now ! lol (-for a friend-)
Great vid brother! (Again.) Thumbs up from Norway.
It's funny how this divorced guy raising two kids thinks he's such a great catch that he even wants to take away from her the only thing he brings in this relationship to the table (money). Pathetic..
At first I was sceptical and thinking that was dumb paying to listen some obvious things that anyone can tell you... but at the end of the video I ended speechless. Awesome content! (sorry for my english)
Marriage counseling is beneficial as getting an autopsy to find out why you feel sick.
Oh come on, no one liked this comment?
Marriage counseling only benefits the woman...especially if the counselor (most) is female. The woman will cry and lie to get the counselor on her side....happened to me and I said Im done, you hags arent ganging up on me...they tried tho. Seeing how easily she manipulated the counselor told me all I needed to know
Don't do a prenup, find a good asset protection attorney who can set up offshore entities for you. It's legal and bulletproof
All men being told to get a prenup should spend a week researching them. Log onto your state appeal court and type prenuptial in the search bar. Men, prenups are not state statute. Attorneys love them because they get years of hourly income defending them, knowing they are worthless. Mine was overturned!
He's 38. She's 32. She's not a younger woman. They're the same age. If she was 22 then yeah, go for it, mold her in your image. But at 32? Man, no deal.
Under no circumstances do you move out until the house is sold and you get your share of the equity especially if kids are involved
Awesome video. Great lessons. Thanks a lot brother.
So basically this guy is not only trying to negotiate desire, but he is also trying to negotiate, stability, compassion, and basic household skills, and so far he hasn't even mentioned a prenup again. What could possibly go wrong? Hmm.
As a divorcee, I can tell give yourself some time. Maybe 2-3 years. Jumping right into LTR is a bad move. Part of your mind is still blue pilled. But another part will eventually go red pilled. And that chick will be your burden. Take some time make sure you really want LTR. Otherwise you will end up in another divorce. I hear so many red flags there.
Men Superb advised and you are very clue up!!!They are teaching women here in Europe to think more like men and now they do not respect men!!!
Yeah 3 months is to fast for kids to be introduced too
I’m really tryna be serious and watch the video without judgement. but rich has that “Let me see that report card” dad face 😭😂
He does 😄
ADVICE FOR THE WRITER:
Don't move in with her; Tell her that you have a rule of "not moving within 1 year (or a period that you would like, but 1 year I think is a minimum)" and you will slowly get used to her nice mask and start to see her for what she is (red flags); moreover, she will strive to put on her best foot forward and make you feel good, so you can emotionally manipulate her using her desires and hipergamy.
EDIT:
She may get pregnant "by accident" to lock you down.
Another great Vid Rich!
i dated a russian girl in the past and i didnt realize until watching this video how much of her shit i fell for. they are really good at that... shaming and shit tests. it was like non stop
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Buddy. It’s hard but there really is plenty of girls who is dying to find a guy they can dedicate their mind, body and soul to. Don’t let your hormones rush you into this. Spend time with other girls before you make this decision.
I was married once when I was 30 it lasted until I was 42 and I will never ever make that mistake again!!!.
Overall I think he should break away from her.
Not always true about travel. Did 14 days straight early on with a girl and it went perfectly with her despite several travel issues that should have stressed out most women. Turns out, those were just not her stress triggers. 13 months I found the stress trigger and she turned out to be flat out, bat-sh!t crazy. Full on BPD, but no trace of it prior.
full5rounds, She hid that from you until she felt she had control. Glad you got away. My ex a narcissist. And yes bat shit crazy. I’m free now red pilled. Be well brother.
Can you tell us what that stress trigger which ended the relationship was?
They know how to keep the crazy under wraps until they get a ring on the finger.
@@nobody-mq7fr Get ready to roll your eyes: "accidental" pregnancy followed by a miscarriage. I understand that this could be a traumatic event but I didn't cause it and certainly didn't deserve to have her blame me and scream at me uncontrollably for 3-8 hours (no exaggeration) sessions once or twice a week for months afterward. It was exactly like a two-year-old throwing a tantrum except a grown woman that knew exactly what to say to try to do the most emotional damage to me, not to mention a few physical attacks. I'd mostly check out of the events, but with BPD not fighting is worse to them as they think you don't care and are abandoning them (both true in this case!) so they amp it up until they can get a reaction from you. One ugly mess!
@@full5rounds449 That's bad,glad you're out of there.Thanks for sharing the story,this comment might just save someone from a horrible marriage.
Well, whatever you do, have a plan B. It sounds good, but things can sometimes go in a way that will surprise you. You are right about problems, no one is perfect, and there will always be issues, but if you get into a relationship and it changes, you want to be able to keep your wealth.
I like your channel and understand why men have to be extremely cautious especially these days. I have 12 year old twin sons and the first thing on my list of things to teach is for them to know how to be respected by women and that they need to respect women there is no order. I just want to ask with all due respect ( I am a woman who has made many mistakes and caused a lot of trouble for men in the past. I have seen the “light” in it all and want to remain single for the rest of my days) I know men work hard and provide (rightly so) how else do you think he should love his woman or is it all in her to prove herself ( I’m new to your channel) I do believe men & women bring out the best in each other. I have watched the red flag series and agree with you 100% I’ve been that bad catch.
Great episode and great advice
2:20 7 7 means you get the children equally. 7 days at one parent, 7 days at the other parent. Usually you end up with somthing like 4/10, 4/6, 7/7.
If she is already 65kg she is already pretty huge unless really tall
@gullars83 Honestly man I can scarcely bring myself to get freaky with anyone over 45kg! Plenty women might think that is shallow, but when I was crazy skinny most my life, that was a deal breaker for most of them. If they won't date skinny, no reason we should have to date fat. Fair is fair
@gullars83 pretty much yeah, lived all over SE Asia for nearly 6 years and heading back there pretty soon after trying and failing to re-acclimatize back home
I agree. My wife and I just had a baby and my wife only got to 145 lbs while pregnant. Now 5 or so from her original weight
can someone explain to me why staying home and not move is a good idea? I haven't seen his other video so just was wondering.
I think the part that says she was on a work vacation, has only had low paying jobs and has nothing and he pays for everything gave the answer: RUN!!!!!
Sorry but this guy is entranced at the idea of having a younger, hotter mess than his ex. He's got blinders on.
For all the problems in Sweden, one thing they have correct is alimony and child support. Alimony is always very temporary and only in extreme cases, and child support is capped at reasonable levels with the default being shared custody and no child support.
@Rich. Solid advise. 👍
You: "Divorced & Dating Younger Woman"
Me: Yes...
I'm 39 yrs and only dating 20s something.
Very good advice, going by the 500+ comments on this thread.
If this man is even considering a LTR with the Russian women, and maybe having a child with her, he's definitely beyond help.
Russian women are the best manipulators known to man.
This man is obviously blind to this fact.
So my advice is, if you want to be miserable, depressed, confused, starved of sex and the list is endless of drama filled living, go for it, and enjoy.
I need to watch these vidoes every day so that I know I am not the only one
That’s what I’m going to do I’m learning the language of that country with a phone app for now, but my plan is to get work in her country and move there.
My mother once told me an old wives tail when it comes to the gender of your kids: " if the woman is more dominant in the relationship... you have boys. If the man is the more dominant one ... you have girls."
I've been paying attention to that for years and I think its true.
😂👍🏿
What is this guy's weight loss plan? I need it
As someone who divorced around the same age he did, being with the woman about the same amount of time as he was with his ex....he is jumping back into something serious way to soon!!!!! This guy needs to pump the brakes a bit and slow down. Meet other women.
7/7 is 50/50 custody as 7 days with mum then 7 days with dad.
Marriages are great until you have kids. Kids make women crazy. The more kids they have, the crazier and bitter they get.
As soon as you have a child with the new one, guess what? Crash and burn too.
I am currently with a woman from the east for almost 8 years now so here some tips which I hope might be useful.
1/ the communist system even if over for a while now did force people to rely more on eachother for support as life was hard. Thus friendships and network in general if often of higher intensity than in the west where people have a general tendency to replace human relationships with pleasure related with things one can buy. Thus a eastern woman who is ready to give up on her local relations network for a western guy she barely knows and who thinks he can put a long list of pre-requisites on her because she is from a poorer country is often not a good way to ensure correct filtering of high quality women.
2/ the brain "chips" of eastern women are usually somewhat more "basic" than those of western women. Good news is that they are often hard working and used to men "flaws". They will not put a list of prerequisites as long as her arm. He does not drink ? He does not beat her ? He got some income ? Great !! I take him. That's a nice change as compared to the often completely unrealistic requirements western girls would put forward. Now the bad side of that more basic "brain chip" is that in many eastern women's view men are not the strongest pilar of society. The demographics are such in many eastern countries that women are more numerous than men by a few percents. There is often not that much loyalty and commitment from men and women are used to that. Thus these low expectations have their price too. In the way that eastern women will more often than not find it not easy to strongly bond emotionally with men. They will bond strongly emotionally with their women family members, female friends. You may find yourself a bit lonely and often handled with loads of pre-judgements regarding men (men are all pigs etc...) often more than with western women.
3/ Check for daddy issues. Huge number of families in the east are broken ones. The father isn't there anymore since the very begining. Either he died, or he left, or has alcohol problems.
Dating women with daddy issues can be hard. You are more of a disposable object that with women who had a strong & healthy relation with their dads. It's not all bad, but it can be tough. Plus women with good relations with men usually find a husband in their own country.
4/ If you go with an eastern woman because you think that you can get more because she is poorer will send her a clear message that you deserve to be screw.d as soon as she establishes herself more securely in that wealthier more equalitarian country of adoption. Reason is that you establish a transactional relation right from the begining. Loyalty is not something that can be obtained through a contract. So I would instead advise that you make sure you trully love her as a person (and it takes a lot of time to get to know her well). That only will trigger loyalty. Question her about herself, about her childhood. Being interested in who she really is will likely hugely increase your chances of long term success . If you don't do the work, don't complain if you get screw.d later on. They are much tougher people than you western guys, she comes from an environment like 5 times tougher than Sweden and that list of yours run the risk to be teared to pieces sometimes in the future when she is strong enough in her new country of adoption, and righfully so.
Good to know :)
There is something that I don’t understand: some men complain about toxic feminism but take full advantage of the 50/50 culture, which a product of feminism. In a masculine culture with feminine women the man takes care of everything and never complains. This guy will not survive for a week in this woman’s country so I wouldn’t advise him to go there even on holiday. Considering her natural expectations of a man, she is already making a big compromise dating a Swedish guy, probably because she is not at the top of her game by Eastern European standards. If you want to hear the opinion of the opposite camp, you should check out Anna Bey’s “School of Affluence” UA-cam channel and her TV appearances - she is Swedish and has a lot to say.
I take you are from russia or ukraine?
Viking Traveler I take it you are a Viking.
Elena H smarty pants.
@@elenah1384 No it is just a name I use for my video channel lol. My dad's grandparents were actually from Norway and Sweden henceforth the name. It is just like an attention grabber you could say. ты говоришь по русски?
@ Viking Traveler - Oh cool, I take it that you would like to grab someone’s attention ;) I’m sorry, I don’t speak Russian unfortunately.
Why not? Let that tired, old harpy who divorced you get a cat. However, don't get married in the first place. Smart men don't get married.
Man, Negotiating desire smh. I love this channel!
Good advice given: 2 years to know someone is key. Remember gentlemen, your testosterone levels are dipping with each passing year. After 50, your sperm can be inpaired and bring on genetic complications. Men's old sperm is the greater cause for impaired children. So, choose wisely and use intellectual property when choosing a partner. If a relationship feels rushed, get out.
Never do that or you will never retire. The man I know who have done that have to carry a heavy yoke until a very old age.
Lmaoooo that Eddie Murphy impression came outta nowhere
Wow, a prenup that actually didn't get thrown out by a judge
Adding kids to a bad relationship is like throwing a drowning man a 45lb dumbbell.
639 emails!!.....damn that must take forever to get through.
This dude sounds desperate and starving.
i been living single for 14 years/ stay and live in the back ground/ come out for a date then go hide again !
Exactly! Hide in the shadows.
Lol,you should be opened to friendship . It does help a lot. If you wanna talk, I'm a listener. You can reach me on my IG @Joan_edegbaiofficial
I had an ex russian gf in st petersburg russia. Some solid points made in this video.
Yeah, situation in Sweden is horrible for a guys. Only good thing here is economi, for now, as soon as that shit goes down there is no way I'm going to live there anymore.
Why would you settle with a 32 year old eastern euro chick?? Take 12 years off
Exactly what I was thinking and just said above. He even told "soon to be 33". The "younger one" part was a bit misleading, yes, she's younger than the previous and yet still very way post-wall. That's a fox right there. Not worth it.
Good video!
@Richard you really should mention that having a relationship with a foreigner and she is a foreigner is more challenging because there are cultural differences. Second Yes many women from eastern block countries see man as a walking wallet, however not every eastern block country was so poor. I am from Slovakia (former eastern block country) and we did not had a very bad economic situation over communism period compare to Russia, Belarus, etc so the WOMEN ON AVERAGE, are not so "wallet oriented". I am not saying that every woman from Russia will come after a man wallet!
If you put stipulations on a person it's a lose lose situation. If she abides by your request then she will have underlined anger feeling that she is being controlled, and if she doesn't abide then you break up. If you want to be in a relationship it needs to flow naturally. It's like having a dog, I don't want my dog to love me out of fear, I want my dog to love me unconditionally because it knows I'm a good person and i love the dog.
17:45 Yep, in term of keeping her from falling into the "feminist" trap, this is definitely true.
hahaha, "Dating". 2012 called, and wants it's word back. women killed dating with tinder
Why are you guys creating lists, and not staring into her eyes and telling her your masculinity is king, and if she disagrees, there's the door? If you create a list, you make her boss!
Guy needs a year of getting his shit together, definitely.
Help her become a citizen not by you marrying her or by you impregnating her. You will clearly know her after she becomes a citizen. If she stays like that that you like, good for you. If not, at least you're not tied to her :)