Dating Coach Reacts to CHARISMA ON COMMAND 2!! (w/ JOE ROGAN)
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Wow! This is the best advice on confrontation I have received since the time I learnt about “the shit sandwich” 😂 At work, we usually sandwich a confrontational message in between 2 nice things about the other person. But I love how simply you put it here. All you need is love and be direct. That is the most respectful/least patronizing way. And 2 adults can get real the fastest.
The other tip I wanna add- usually when someone is being a dick to us, it turns into a match of who can be a bigger fuckhead. I have been down that road for years, and let me tell you it leads nowhere. It will lead you on an endless spiral of attracting more and more fuckheads in your life to bang your head against.
If you give them the irritated reaction they were seeking, they already won. Instead double down on your joy and optimism, and laughing about the whole situation, simply tell “what’s wrong with you pal. why you gotta do that?”
Coming from a place of love, you will get the message across. From a place of rage, you would just start an ego validation war.
What another person does is never in your control, but your internal state of joy is 100% in your control. Unperturbed Joy is just a choice you make.
I agree on average when people are being rude to me I ignore or just simply smile. Thanks for the advice.
Me as a person who have been defenseless and bullied when I was kid. When I learned martial arts I became more confident in speaking up
thats soo cool!! i am so passive and shy, i intend doing krav maga after quarantine...hope it helps me with confidence too
@@katrin6388 I'd recommend wrestling, jiu jitsu or boxing over that, probably muay thai too, although that's a bit more full-on
@@matthewread1671 why? whats wrong with krav maga?
@@katrin6388 krav maga focuses on dealing the most damage possible, with no restraint. 0 to 100. with wrestling and jiu jitsu you can easily control the opposition safely for yourself and the other person. Also krav maga gyms are pretty hostile, whereas jiu jitsu gyms almost always have an excellent environment. Everyone is really nice and welcoming, then you practice pretend killing each other for an hour and a half
@@matthewread1671 hahah ok! i guess ill have to have a try out session in the future to see whats best for me. why do u think they are hostile tho? what do you think of kung fu? my two choices where kung fu or krav maga...they said krav maga is good for self defense n stuff, since there are no rules and i am shy and passive and need to learn to be more agressive
The point of being confident in martial artists is to have the calmness when situations like that could arise. It IS very helpful
And Joe handles this in a calm way. He didint use violence he neutralized the guy attacking
“Not every confrontation has to lead to a fight.” This feels different for someone who has experienced domestic abuse at a young age because it always feels like that. The fact that the people who were supposed to show you unconditional love are able to hurt you teaches you that if they can hurt me, then anyone can. Maybe you can touch on this topic in a video?
Elizah Mendoza I totally agree. I’ve noticed that he doesn’t account for these types of situations and/or mental illnesses but at the same time he is just a dating coach who is more psychologically switched on than the others, but he’s not a psychologist. I’d like to see his opinion on this topic and other surrounding topics!
I used to be in the national guard and when they taught us combative they made it very clear do everything we could to not use these skills in the civilian world ( even though as national guard we were pretty civilian lol) but they made it clear to only use it as last resort
Yeah you do that and people take advantage... you got to treat people like shit in order to get respect or calm a situation down
Amd Joe did what needed to be done
The whole martial arts confidence thing is more of an absence of fear when disagreeing with people, if you are afraid that voicing your opinion could potentially result in conflict or violence then you're more likely to stay meek and quiet, martial arts knowledge and training is kind of like people who carry weapons, even if they never use them it's nice to know they are there as a last resort/back-up plan in case things go south, with knowing that they are covered if things were to go poorly it's easier to speak your mind
I feel like he’s never been in an environment where he’s had to fight or defend himself maybe🤷🏽♀️. Like he’s been in a very tightly nit bubble all of his life because in rougher neighborhoods you never know what’s going to happen and just not matching their aggression could not be enough to deflate the situation. Running away or ignoring them isn’t an easy fix all the time.
Now, I love all of your content and my assumptions could be ABSOLUTELY wrong, but I just think people should take this advice with a grain of salt🤏🏽❤️❤️
FACTS.
All advice should be taken with a grain of salt, specially when it's not advice specifically for you or your own situation, the best advice is the one that considers the specifics about the situation
Yes! I agree, there are some circumstances where someone will intentionally berate or attack you simply to appear powerful to their friends. I've seen that a lot growing up and my mother's advice was always, if someone is picking a fight with you don't step down because they will continue to pick on you. However, I don't think this is common is most places. So his advice doesn't work for all environments.
I agree with the replies here. “Pick your battles” is the wisest advice I have gotten. Which comes back to what is your purpose in life- “get even with some guy who upset you with his words” or “to lead a happy fulfilling life”? Some people I have seen-once they develop some muscular strength, they are just looking to ‘pick fights/settle scores’ which is just to validate their ego. If you live in a developed conflict free nation, in a decent neighborhood, almost never will there be a real threat to your life. So most of us watching this video, ALWAYS have the option to avoid a conflict and stay on course with your own life goals. But of course if there is an obvious threat of bodily harm- do whatever you think will give you the best chances of survival - fight or flight 😂
I’m not Charlie, but I think your disagreement of his point about Martial Arts is off. It’s not about your willingness to get into conflict, or even having some implied notion that you can whoop ass if you need to. That’s not what he’s saying.
It doesn’t help that Rogan uses a clinch in that one clip, but what Charlie’s getting at, I think, is that the inner confidence and discipline that you develop through martial arts inherently makes you feel more confident with yourself.
Think about it. When you’re really good at something, you’re more confident in it. Martial Arts, in a lot of ways, goes beyond hobby and into lifestyle for a lot of practitioners, Joe Rogan is 100% part of that group. It becomes purpose, to use your phrase. That inner confidence-defined by your relationship with yourself, is where the fearlessness comes from.
I see what you're saying and I think it is a perfectly valid way to think about inner confidence, but I do not believe that is what Charlie was getting at, based on the clips we see. It really does sound like he is saying that it is easier to feel unafraid of someone confronting you in a rage if you do not fear that it would eventually turn into a physical altercation, and that it makes you more likely to stand up to the angry individual, rather than cower in fear despite knowing that what they are saying or how they are acting is wrong. I prefer the concepts that you mention, but I actually think Charisma on Command was going for a different angle, because I don't think they mention here anything about discipline or lifestyle about Joe with his MMA abilities in this video.
GlobusTheGreat Fair enough. I’m probably reading between the lines/conflating my own experiences here. But I 100% back up my points about Martial Arts being a catalyst for inner confidence/self-growth.
Keep an eye out for my “Some Internet Asshole Reacts to Dating Coach Reacting to Charisma On Command” video, out Dec. 2022
also martial arts desensitizes you to conflict through sparring and competitions, so hes not gonna be scared or unsettled when someone is in his face because hes used to it
in my experience
Dude Joe using the clinch movr neutralized the attacker and calmed the situation. Didint hurt the guy Joe wasn't violent. Joe tried to calm the guy down with words. The guy tried to attack. Joe neutralized him
I like how he teaches the output and you the input on behaviour
In the first clip, I think Joe got confrontational knowing her boyfriend wouldn't stand for it. Makes for good tv. Your advice is the most charismatic way to go.
I'm actually really proud to help a channel like this grow, and be a part of the channel even if it's just by watching your videos. Much love from Portugal ❤️
As part of learning martial arts, it is like my brain instantly knew to stay calm and keep my distance. I think that's what Charisma on Command was getting at. Was the fact that since the guy took martial arts, he was trying to calm down the woman by using the avoiding conflict. He started failing when the conflict got too much.
Those future video ideas sound awesome. Looking forward to it
seeing joe rogan gave me vivid flashbacks to my obsession with fear factor back in the early 2010's. that show was my shit so watching his other stuff... is interesting to say the least.
To everybody disagreeing with Anthony about the martial arts part, Anthony is talking about CHARM not confidence. It’s not charming to assert your physical dominance, even if it improves you confidence in speaking up
The thing is he criticizes Joe when he did the right thing here. He tried to de escalate the situation. The guy was not listening in a rage so Joe did the next best thing
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Jordan peterson said something along the lines, that the most competent person is someone secure enough to possess a dangerous weapon and has the prowess to weild it, but is never tempted to use it. Joe Rogan is a good example of competent person considering his combative skill and the way he resolved the confrontation.
Anthony is kinda like Dumbledore.. they both talk about love a lot and I love that
Pewdiepie watched your video
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Brilliant video my friend. ❤️
We need a “Jake gyllenhaal classic charm” next pleasee 💖
i love charisma on command and you aren't so bad urself
Lol the sleeper
Bruh i used to binge Charisma on command like I’m an alien learning about humans. ☠️ ✨ 😭
Omg that’s how I felt. Does everyone know this shitt? Why don’t I know this shitt?
@@lineagewarrior7378 I used to watch it then say...”I’m finna go meet up with people tomorrow and show them how charismatic I am 😌”
@@AA-uq4fy 😂 did it work?
Oooo could you please do the analysing the magnetic attractiveness of Shawn Mendes? I love the one you did with Tom Holland♥️
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Hi Anthony, I've been loving your videos so much, thank you for this content!!
I would like to sugest someone very interesting for Classic Charm, I would like to understand better Michael Jackson's charm, he was a very reserved and shy person, but everyone who interacted with him, seems to have felt his charm and his aura, although he was super shy!!
Anyway, keep up the great job🙏❤
I've been doing tae kwon do since I was a baby, my dad was a student for a long time & taught us when we were small. I never had to fight until middle school, it was like I was fighting every week at my school lol. When I got into high school though everyone was so chill & just wanted to get through classes to go home that no one really caused drama. A few tried to but when I squared up to fight they changed their minds xD. I haven't had to fight anyone in the streets for a long time just at my gym & that's just for fun.
It's extremely different for my brother though, he's a big guy. I think because of that people try to make themselves look good by taking down a big guy so he's always getting into small fights wherever he goes. He's always a chill guy but he doesn't mind people starting fights too because he's always down to fight.
Yo, PewDiePie saw your video and reacted to it man, nice!
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I think your method and joe's method on de-escalating confrontations are both valid and it's just a matter of preference.
React to Pewdiepies video of your video reviewing him and Marzia's Relationship pls.
Love, this channel love that it's not about that fake ass tough guy stuff. Love, that it's about being genuine, and building relationships that smooth the pathways of life. That being said, it may be wise to consider that in certain areas or regions of the country peoples willingness to fight are a little different. I'm sure the LA types are not there to fight at all. But, unfortunately in other places. Like my beautiful home state of Louisiana people absolutely love to fight, and it's really not that big a deal them, and they will gladly assault you. It's important not to project our personal experience onto everyone in different situations.
Edit- For instance, I have literally been in this position and tried the whole calm, no ego walk away shit. Got grabbed by the sleeve turned back around into about 8 or 9 right hands. I shot a single leg, and handled it after that, but in no way was he going to calm down. He had decided that night, he was going to fight me, it's a real thing. Happens all the time. I've been at parties where friends of mine were suddenly hit in the back of the head for genuinely no reason by strangers in fact I've seen this happen multiple times. Not every place is Los Angeles .
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This is a fantastic video, Charisma on Command has a few decent points to make but he also has this weirdo masculine thing that means he makes some crazy takes and it's beautiful to see someone actually call him out for it.
ANTHONYYYY YOU MADE IT!!! PEWDS SAW YOUR VID!!!
The most efficient path isn't always the path of least resistance.
28:26 Charlie Runkle is the guy from Californication 😂
You should react to his video on 3 steps on how to influence people
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The shit thing about Rogan calling that guy out on stage was that Joe's agency dropped him afterwards. They were with the same agency and the guy on stage was more valuable to them at the time so they told Joe to either apologise or he's not working under them any more. He said there's no way he's apologising so agreed to part ways.
Please react to Jasmine Cephas Jones and Anthony Ramos
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Can somebody please tell me the instrumental that Anthony uses in the beginning of his video before the intro ends?
Pewdiepie reacted to you.
Dude, nice
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please react to best charisma on command i love to see you both with experience and knowlegde
Oh my gosh, Pewdiepie reacted to your video of him and Marzia! That's so cool, congratulations!
I like what you said about confrontation, but I would like to know what to do when the people are being confrontational and aggressive.
Or if you arrive in the middle of discussion that's already agressive (like a family thing)
Edit: agressive in terms of lingo, the way they speak
If someone is trying to fight you, go away. That is the #1 advice the best martial artists give. RUN. If you are cornered and they are attacking you, then use mace. If no mace, then fight. If you are trained in martial arts, it can help. But that will likely never happen to you. It’s super rare. Most of the time, you can calm people down by having complete presence.
Anthony, I hope you react to more videos of Charisma on Command. I really would like to see your perspective on the videos. Also, there is another interesting channel you might find interesting, it's called Better than Yesterday. I would like to see you react to one of their videos as well. Also, on a side note, as far as reacting to couples on UA-cam, I'd recommend reacting to Henry and Jeannie from MxR Plays and Mika & Ethan from RIPMika/Crankgameplays. They have a different dynamic from the couples you've seen so far.
Can you do alpha m. as well? Love ur content btw
Pleaaase react to JJ and KIARA’s dinamic from OUTER BANKS
PEWDS REACTED TO YOUR VIDEO
You should react to MxR Plays, Henry "MxR" Liang and his girlfriend Jeannie "PotasticPanda" Lee.
Im honestly scared and curious
I really thought you where the guy from the fear factor episode when I clicked this.
Could you analyze Rue and Jules relationship from Euphoria? A lot of people ship them even though they’re toxic for each other.
Knowing jiu jitsu isn't essential, but it can definitely help with security, because if you know exactly what a violent road would look like, and have experience down that road. It makes you a lot more secure in your ability to stay peaceful.
Not to discredit you, but it's one of those things that you need to experience yourself. As you said, you don't know martial arts
As a woman - I am sorry, but no - you cannot calm down every situation with love. Sometimes you have to know how to defend yourself against creepy behavior and predators. Martial arts helps to be ready to do it.
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Please do Henry and Jeannie next from mxr plays.
Pewds reacted to you btw!
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Pewdiepie just posted a video with you in it! Congrats! 🎉
This anthkny guy was really fuxking condescending tho
I need you to do one for Miniminter (Simon) and Talia Mar
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It'd be interesting if you took a look at craig ferguson and his talk show
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Anthony Recenello, Charisma on Command, and Joe Rogan in one video??? Heck yeah dude, great video🔥🔥
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Just to comment on the suggestion about pulling the joke-thief to the side... Joe actually tried that numerous times. Since that didn't work and the comedians getting robbed was afraid of the more famous thief, Joe decided that he had to go to more drastic measures.
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I'm with Charlie, sorry Anthony. I think you're wrong about the Martial Arts . If you do Martial Arts, you become more confident in yourself and life and if you KNOW you've mastered something. You're at ease and comfortable with yourself so you can come with love at the person ☺
But is it tied to martial arts itself? what if you’ve mastered a topic in Mathematics? You still know you’ve mastered something, so why should that person even consider martial arts if he’s not into it? Should the whole world consider martial arts?
@@blueis910 The purpose of someone learning a fighting style is because they want to know how to defend themselves. If they mastered it, they won't feel like someone's gonna kick their arse because they know they'd be able to physically beat them up hence why they feel comfortable because they're confident with their own skill of that, and comfortable in their own skin. They can rely on talking out of situations and know they can lay the smackdown on someone who goes for them ☺
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U dont need to kno martial arts but it helps a lot
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What are your credentials?? Anyone can call themselves a coach, would love to know how you are qualified? Thanks!
11:00 that actually was not an option because Mencia had become extremely popular and would do the no one's gonna believe you over me shtick with people that confronted him in private...
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