HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE | Bilal Dannoun Podcast
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- Опубліковано 13 лют 2020
- In this Podcast we sit down with "the love doctor", Sheikh Bilal Dannoun, to discuss all things marriage. Sheikh Bilal is a marriage celebrant, marriage counselor and a divorce facilitator who has worked in the field for over 15 years.
We talk about how to get married, what to look for in a spouse, the difference between men and women, having a halal wedding and of course how to avoid falling into divorce.
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Great lessons learnt from this episode.
1. Before you consider the D word, try to utilise the C word.
2. Marriage is a cycle of problem and repair.
3. Repair your relationship with the Creator and He'll repair the relationship with the creations.
d word c word?
Roonz AKA HR60
Divorce and Creator .... not the naughty words
3. Is so beautyfull jamila. If better If still Peace of Point.
@@haroonq2456 38:19 divorce and counselling
Jazakallah for rephrasing...
May Allah give me an attractive, pious and powerful husband. A person who can be a beautiful garment for me. A best friend. Ameen. Am a 28yr old sister and i shall never give up hope.
Ameen, may Allah make is easy for us all
Aameen Allahumma aameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
“Good marriages keep us happier and healthier.” ❤️ So true, Masha Allah.
King 8
87
King
Polygamy marriages destroy happiness!
@@JahannamHellfire it only makes womanizer men happy but makes women and children unhappy
What a gem "Don't make permanent decisions from a temporary situation" Subhanallah this applies to all parts of life!
-Sheikh happy Valentine’s Day
-Are you serious?
😂😂😂
“Do people still celebrate that?!” 😅 Oh boy!
😄😄😃
😁😁🤪
What? Please Time stamp.
El Othemany right at the beginning
It would be nice if there was a talk on step families. No one seems to talk about this part of the community. Also the new issues that are arising from ex wives and husbands being "friends" the chit chat that happens between them causing problems in the new marriage. What are the does and don'ts with ex spouses. So many second time marriages are failing because of this. And using children to meet up and so on. It would be great to address this part of the community life.
Yea step families
Ah this is very true.As sadly higher rates of divorces in modern times this is a real issue you mention.
@@faebalina7786 yes, more rates of divorce and forming marriage with new spouses who come with children from both side if not one side. But the new issues really are the issues with ex husbands and wives still thinking they have rights over the person they are divorced from. I know a case where the ex wife still lives in the house with the man she is divorced from! And the man wants to marry and doesn't understand why his new wife has a problem with his ex wife! Crazy situation like this do exist. Then theirs the children card, we've got children so we do have to chit chat about them like as though we are still married. It's just chaos for anyone to move on. Also what is it teaching the children about divorce? It's okay to divorce but you can still be friends, when did islam allow friendship between men and women just because they have children. New spouses are told to just put up with the demands of their husband or wives ex spouses. This is not fair for any newly married person to put up with, too much unnecessary baggage. Anyway, these issues need to be sorted.
16:20 This always amazes and touches me! Allah swt created us in pairs and He did this so beautifully. When we embrace our male and female traits we complement each other so well and are able to live harmonious symbiosis subhanAllah. The relationship between husband and wife is such a beautiful thing!
Masha Allah, i was watching this randomly, had just woken up, now i know why "my marriage" is postponed SUBHAN ALLAH THERE IS SO MUCH and so much to know, i should write this now BARAKA ALLAHU LAKUMA,
Calmly and interestingly discussing a very important topic. I really enjoy the sheikh being very practical.
" *Sometimes we are not in our right head Space and it's unfortunate to take a Permanent Decision in a Temporary Situation!* "
I love Sheikh Bilal. He has the knowledge and I absolutely adore his sense of humour. This is the 10 time I watched this episode on here, Facebook and spotify. May Alleh SWT reward you on everything you did for the umah. ❤
I have been married for 9 years but the advice I got in last 49 minutes is better than what I got in the entire last 9 years
MashaAllah brother
Maashaa2Allah
Definitely we need more fruitful episodes like this. Jazakum Llah khayr.
Man I love these pod casts please keep going guys
A very important podcast and I definitely think all people about to get married or are already married should watch! Jazakum Allahu khairan
Jazaaka Allah khairun for the good work done... We want more videos like this
I love this interviewer, your points are very well articulated!
JazakumAllah Khayr. Please continue making podcasts..
No wife, only have life, no spouse, only have house. :D
we live in a time where it's much easier to do the haram than to do the halal.
😂
Oh Aramco! Still no wife?😊
@@sarahqamar6377 Sre
inshaallah you will got married
Because you want to do haram
Saw this on digital mimbar, really entertaining! May Allah bless your marriages, i am really grateful for such a great video. The podcast format fits really well 😊
You guys have very beautiful beards. Ma shaa Allah, Allahumma Baarik. I am jealous. may Allah forgive me and protect you from my jealousy and all others. aameen.
@norah Leah jazak Allahu khair.
norah Leah arent they the same?? Don’t you mean white jealousy??
@norah Leah oh ok
May Allah bless you
norah Leah eloquently said
Why you jealous of the beard are you trying to impress the creation or the creator
I loved this talk ... Thank you .. please keep posting
MashaAllah. Loved this podcast❤
Brother Kamal, Love from Bangladesh. 😍
No No, love from Dhaka lol
Thank you for these Golden King Advices 🙂
Alhamdullilah i think you brothers need this subject to turn a series. A few episodes subjected on marriage. May Allah swt reward you brothers
Kamal please bring Sheikh Bilal back. We love him❤
I love and wait for any videos u upload. May Allah reward you in this world and the next world.
What a sweetie Sheikh Bilal, mashaALLAH. May ALLAH bless him, his family and his work, amin 🤲🏻 I am so happy to meet him for the first time here alhamduliLLAH I will be looking for his videos inshaALLAH 😊
May Allah swt reward your efforts my brothers very beneficial
In my private elementary school we had to bring valentine cards for everyone. We decorated shoe boxes and milled around delivering cards. As a grown up looking back, it was quite silly, but it was fun for us as children. High school wasn't fun because it was different and no one delivered a rose to me and nothing was dropped in my locker. It was quite painful at the time, but no permanent scarring. That is such a problematic "holiday" in multiple ways.
Ma shaa Allah so inspiring talk...jazakallah sheik. May Allah grant us happier healthier marriages... Ameen
Ma sha Allah.. very well presented. Truly beneficial knowledge to impart to the youth.. Alhamdulillah .jazak Allahu khairan katheerah.. Aameen
mashallah really enjoyed your conversation, may allah help this ummah to build healthy relationships and facilitating an enviroment for rightous generations
Assalamu'Alaikum..
How nice talk show and useful for us..
Thanks Shayekh..
JazakAllohu Khoir...
Allahuma barik may Allah bless you and grant you jannah alferdous
Can you bring back the sheikh we need another episode please. Very fruitful indeed.
Thank you
It's a beutiful lecture...so sweet to listen to... Alhamdulilah
Al salamu alaikum. barak Allah feekum for this great episode. you mentioned that before a couple go into divorce you ask them to try your way and give them strategies, PLEASE please make a part 2 where you go into details on what are some of the tips or the strategies you give to couples so at least we could start implementing them before it is too late.
I loved this interview mashallah
Brother i was waiting for your video eagerly.
ما شاء الله تبارك الله
استمتعت كثيرا بالحوار، اكثر من رائع
شكرا لكم جميعا
وبارك الله فيكم
loved the podcast, MashaAllah
Why don't you have these on a podcast platform too? would love to hear it on the jog / walk
Definitely agree! I would love doing other things while listening to these podcasts
These are on podcast platform too
@@alineaeuropa Thankyou, alhamdulillah was able to find them on podcast too !!!
MashAllah
Alhamdulillah
JazakAllah khair
Love the banter between you two, lol
Ihsan-- excellence in worship of The Merciful Rabb-- gratitude, dikr and shukr, for all the Ni'mah leads to more Barakah in the relationship... la'in shakartum la azeedannakum..Subhan Allah
May Allah bless you all ✨
Barakallahu fiikum one path network
Very good discussion. Thank You.
Jezklahu kayren. 🙂
Masha Allah Happy wife happy life and happy spouse happy health
جزاكم الله خيراً
Thanks a lot
جزاكم الله كل خير
"هل جزاء الإحسان إلا الإحسان"
WHEN WE REPAIR OUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH ALLAH HE REPAIRS EVERYTHING
ELSE FOR US. 🎯
jazakaAllah both it was awesome
I would also add reading seera of how prophet dealt with certain situations with his wife's and copying the exact same way , this helps alot
Yeah,I feel like when it comes to the prophet's character (SAW)and how he dealt with his wives, it seems like some or a lot of men do not really take on that Sunnah, or else women wouldn't be asking for divorce
Very beneficial pod cast. May Allah reward you .Brothers
Brother, maybe for next time you have him on, tell us to send in questions about marriage which he can answer iA
Very nice topic and we need to know more about it.....🙂
I like this room, is so antique. Light bulb ! Very old TV ! Old is gold. Like the environment.
Nice. Informative video.
Couldn't agree more subhanallah 100% facts and truthful. ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤
Nice to find your channel
I like how he says jokes without any emoji😂
May Allah reward you brother
Allahumma baarik, may allah bless you brothers and also our fellow Muslims who are involved in producing all of these extremely beneficial videos. If possible, please could you continue this particular topic/discussion by releasing further versions/episodes e.g. part 1, part 2 etc. Jazakallahu khairan
Allah,don't write Allah's name with a small letter, that's disrespectful
@@purplelove3666Sorry about that, thank you 🙏🏽
How do you find a non-abusive, non-manipulative but non-boring spouse, with zero drama! Thanks for this clip!
@@moudalan4462 2 :P
25 is long gone for me friend
Fairy tales
Only jennah. I hope that Disney princess syndrome is working for you
Be the kind of person you want to marry, have those qualities you want to see in him/her and you will attract Ur kind.
wow , thank you
Sheikh Bilal is so sweet and knowledgeable! So much good advice on a range of topics that I think the Sheikh can provide more advice and insight on. Please do have him on the show more. Thank you for this episode. Also, please have more female scholars and experts too. jzk
Barak ALLAH in you both .
Love u brother kamal from bangladesh
I wish am married...
With my sheikh's guide, I will obviously hv a happy marriage and enjoy happy life inshAllah.....
14:30
Why is it always said man wants respect and woman want love?
Mostly men are already disrespectful to their wives. Soothing them by such kind of statements!!!
Both need love and respect
Respect is earned and love is a 2 way street.
Both of them need to be given by both for one to feel them.
The average person understands they need to be able to provide both of their needs for a happy life.
But the thing about averages is that there are people who are below average. They want to just take take and take.
And 1 of those people leaves such a bad taste we need about 10 people to balance them out.
Really a fruitful discussion
fruit is a dangerous word my friend (as we are finding out)
0:38 lmao Sheikh Bilal was horrified 😆
Ashrafur Ahmed LOOOL I was looking for a comment like this. His “haram senses” were going OFF! 😭😂
I love you guys May Allah bless you
We would like to hear more about Ihsan within marriage. How to develop marriage relationship to that level, Ihsan. Jazakm Allah kharan.
MashaAllah it’s nice to see the Host making us laugh 😄😄 Jazakumullahu khayran 💛
Can you put the podcast on apple podcast
brother kamal 😍
Awesome topic full of wisdom but the moderator was so excited that he spoke more than his guest 😂
Can you tell me what equipment you use (For example, which audio interface?)
32:09 Divorce is not a problem by itself, we have made it a problem. The Mother of the belivers where married and divorced or widowed 2 times (most of them, Except Aysha RA) Before getting married to Messenger of God (SA). As well as the sahabias. They understood the way it was. It just didn't worked out and they were okay with it. Both of them (marriage and divorce) are by the will of ALLAH. And is best for our self development.
Marriage is a relationship of choice. Just make sure, you have the best intention and you do it by the way ALLAH commanded you to do so, and enter it and leave it as you like (with out doing julm on the opposite person.) Its a crucial medium by which you and your spouse improve as husband and wife.
Mohammad Mishkat Divorce is a problem. Your examples are not proving anything else. You should know despite being halal, divorce is hated by Allah SWT. Add to that the fact satan loves divorce more than adultery or fornication.
Unlike you brov, AlhamduliLLAH I actually know what I'm talking about, AlhamduliLLAH pretty well. And this is also the same stance on divorce of Dr. Yasir Qadhi. And most of my knowledge is, by the will of ALLAH, from YQ.
If I thought you to be any what knowledgeable, I would certainly take the time to research, again, and pickup the numbers and stats and names and inform you about it. But the fact that you have based your aggressive comment on a hadidh which is not authentic and is also considered by a lot of u'lama including ustad Nouman Ali khan to be fabricated, shows you knowledge base. And you are arguing with me with these 2 extremely week hadidh shows your aggressive and twisted mentality. So I suggest you go and research from the best u'lama and sources. Islam is so beautiful brov, not only that it is the most documented religion in the history, but also we Muslims don't have to believe in anything which is not authentic.
Let this be a reminder for you to gain authentic, dalil based knowledge. And of coarse ALLAH Ta ALA said, "Let the believers benefit from the reminders.
I apologize if I hurt anyone. Salam brov.
Mohammad Mishkat
I stopped reading at "Yasir Qadhi". I'm sorry to say but nothing I say either from Qur'an or Hadith will convince you if you're taking heed from a deviant like Yasir Qadhi.
@@hanzalaomar3234 thanks for proofing on the internet yourself, what I thought and said you to be.
Mohammad Mishkat You did that to your own self by bringing up a reformist Yasir Qadhi. Pity
Would you put subtitle on it brother....? Jazakallah khairan....
Happy wife happy life
Pray for me may allah give me good husband
happy wife happy life is not an islamic concept. if you want to be worthy of a man, what you should adopt as a moto, is happy husband, happy life. implement servitude and obedience.
Mashaallah 💙
What is the name of this presenter? Alhamdulillah I’ve only come across him in the last two videos and already want to watch more content involving him seems like a genuine and humble brother ma sha Allah
Kamal Saleh
Look for talk Islam you will find more video of him
Sheikh is going hard on the paint 🤜🤜
Where can I finf the painting on the wall from?
Nice video.😍
Allahummabaariklakumaa, that was really nice! Loved the mixture of seriousness and light jokes. These types of discussions always give me hope regarding marriage and finding a suitable spouse, as this can become quite an exhausting and disheartening experience. JazakumAllahukhairan!
jisse hmari shadi hoti hai..wahi suitable hota hai..islie marriges late i rahi hai..khud suitale dhoondne me umar nikal jati hai.or haram me parh jae hain.ye logon ki galt fehmi hai..suitable spous search krna parhta hai.
@@maryamkhan7138 sorry sis I don't understand 🙏 Urdu right :) ?
Alhamdulillah 💯
19:52 could you give examples on what sort of decisions you are referring to and which are not valid?
Exactly 1 year later 🥰🧐
Amazing
It would be great if you bring female sheikhah I guess. The talk would be more interesting.
Are there more podcasts? Where can I find them?
Happy valan------asalamualaykum