Hi Buck I'd love to do a interview with you on UA-cam livestream ❤ over this biological male who identifies as " non binary" once he told me " I'm a woman now called me Skylar" he SA me while he was cheating on his "girlfriend" who has a intellectual disability.. his excuse was " oh I'm aromatic" he groomed me 😢 On my 19th birthday he kept buying me shots of Vodka then we kissed and he brought me to unisex bathrooms
And we made out ,,, eventually when I was in college he begged me to have $€x with me in the disabled bathrooms TWICE now he trying to SA my best friend she only just turned 18 he said when he was an adult and she was only 16 " Hi I have a crush on you " he a midget with a 12 year old body it was awful I felt transphobic over hating him
He reported me for apparently seggual abusing my emotional support pet Django my precious rescue dog 😂😂 jokes on my ex I still have my wonderful furry BFF 😊
What pisses me off is a woman who is in a severe situation and wants a hysterectomy but the drs won’t give one cause she’s not over 35 but these kids are getting them when they’re 16 or 18!!! That’s just nuts
Theres a reason doctors balk at early hysterectomy, mainly the cessation of oestrogen production which means instant menopause, which, if you are not aware, is the harbinger of osteoporosis, psychological problems and a host of other conditions not least vaginal atrophy which I wouldnt wish on my worst enemy.
@@AnneAndersonFoxiepawsthat’s only if you have your ovaries removed, which you don’t necessarily have to depending on what is wrong. I have endometriosis and want a hysterectomy, but I am not letting my ovaries go unless something like a cyst rupture happens and they have to be removed to save my life. I am not allowed to take estrogen due to it raising my clotting factor so I’d be in a real mess and I agree with the doctors we shouldn’t do that.
@AnneAndersonFoxiepaws yes but they did say in a severe situation. Endometriosis is awful, every one of my internal reproductive organs is coated in webs of scar tissue. The pain is unbearable when I'm on and barely bearable when I'm not. I was refused over and over again when younger and now I'm "too old and not in the right weight range" but can't exercise because of other health conditions so am stuck until I have menopause. Osteoporosis has treatments that can be given to compensate for the lack of hormones too, they aren't particularly pleasant but better than severe endometriosis. There are ways around most of the side effects of having a hysterectomy and women in my position would happily jump at them. Either they need to get better at treating the underlying conditions that cause women to ask for hysterectomy or should stop policing the best current remedy available which is a hysterectomy. Even having tubes tied for women with early stage endo can massively help with symptoms and is reversible so why not do that.
@@OhDontMindMee sorry you're right it doesn't. That was something I was told twenty odd years ago and the thinking at that time was it would stop the periods causing more damage but the latest advice seems to contradict that and says it doesn't make any difference.
They think that because everyone has both types of hormones, it's no biggie to just increase the one you only have a tiny amount of. They have zero understanding of the endocrine system.
I think a lot of people especially young folks are getting body dysmorphia and mistaking it for gender dysmorphia. Body dysmorphia is very normal and a part of low self esteem, low self confidence and anxiety. It’s the same dysmorphia that leads people to having too many boob jobs or 5 rhinoplasties but it’s also the same dysmorphia that settles away with proper therapy, life experiences and for most adulthood experiences & healthy sexual experiences boosting confidence about the dysmorphic body parts. Kids are not hearing older women and elderly women speaking about their bodies. Their not hearing older men or seniors talk about their bodies. Why? Because they don’t have big families, live isolated or don’t have relationships outside these age ranges. I really believe being a young woman for example around older women can truly change how you think about your body and accept it.
Mostly it comes from being brainwashed from social media. At least back in the day there was some sort of a fighting chance by turning off the tv or distracting kids at the checkout from the magazines. But today there’s NO escaping it. It’s everywhere
I believe this too. I struggled with some dysmorphia issues after having my 4th child. It makes total sense to me why young people especially might not feel comfortable in their bodies in their teens and 20s- especially when women are sexually objectified at a very young age.
Well said Buck. I waited until I was 32 to transition to make sure I really wanted this life commitment. I tried so hard for years to live as a female. I had relationships with men to try and fit in and then later on women to try and fit in the lesbian world but I realised that I couldn't carry on. I was close to ending my life as there was no support, the internet was a new thing. I am now 52. I had a lot of therapy before and knew that it was a life changing permeant decision. I am old school and cant understand the new generation of trans people that don't take it seriously. I know that everyone is different but I couldn't wait to have my hysto and ooperectomy because of my dysphoria. I had to wait 10 years to have phalloplasty because at the time funding was different and it came from a local authority and wasn't centralised. To say the wait was tough is an understatement. I don't regret transitioning and I took on board the risks. Who knows what my life expectancy will be now, but that is the cost you pay for taking hormones that aren't designed for your biological gender. It is serious stuff and I wish the newer generations would realise this.
absolutely agree as another trans man in his late twenties. I'm sick of dealing with trenders who think this is all fun and games and who clog up the wait lists.
Thank you Buck, you know you've probably already saved a lot of trans dude's lives by speaking about this stuff! EDIT: I take everything back, you nearly murdered me by exposing me to that horrendous Jeffrey Marsh clip LMAO YIKESSSSS
Wow, thanks for the warning. I usually turn down the volume and cover the screen with my hand whenever I see that "hey kids"-predator-creature in someone else's video.
I'm really glad theres an elder trans giving out advice. All the "advice" I see on trans topics is from people younger than me in gen Z. I swear they'd rather get views than give actual helpful advice because a lot of what they say is dangerous and outright false.
The doctors are usually in the community or have some kind of agenda. I was so blessed to have NORMAL doctors and therapists to discuss this stuff with.
The doctors don’t know much about the long term effects of gender care, so it’s a bit pointless to look to them as the authority. It’s not an easy time right now, until we have more studies that doctors can rely on to provide care it’s anecdotal evidence. It’s hard to find a doctor who knows what they’re doing. I struggle as a woman to find a doctor who knows what they’re doing, and I don’t even have gender issues.
It's a sad truth though that people have come to distrust doctors and medicine to such a degree that they feel the need to turn to the community instead. Of course they need professional guidance, but the distrust is not without cause.
Having recently watched a person die from it, I'd rather be NEUTERED than not have kidneys. My Dads generation drank and smoked for 45 YRS to make kidney and liver failure happen , this generation is getting it ,with doctors assistance, in their 20/30's !?
That's right. Can you imagine what would have happened if he was given estrogens ? Less strokes, less heart attack, better vascular health, longer life span, less testicular cancer, less impulsive decisions, no more baldness. We should give estrogen to men from birth, it will avoid a lot of tragedies
@@leshommesdupillyAre you nuts? Estrogen causes certain cancers and strokes, heart attacks, and even severe psychological issues. Especially when you are dosing estrogen rather than what your body makes naturally. A person's body is made to balance the hormones needed for you specifically to be healthy. No doctor can do that ever. I don't care how many blood tests they do, they can't balance what you need like your own body can. Doctors know that. They also know they can't make money that way so they'll never say that out loud. This is just one big cash grab like lobotomies. They are gonna ride this gravy train till they are forced to stop.
You are the only Trans person I have listened to that has assisted me to understand Trans. I am not trans, just trying to understand. Thank you. I love your videos.
Well there are other complications of complete hysterectomy. Remember the mesh failures? They made those to help with the issues around removing an organ. On top of the fact that estrogen doesn’t just affect the reproductive systems. Estrogen can affect cholesterol, bone density, etc. We really need to teach biology in high school. In particular, sex education which needs to have biology as a focus along with psychology
Estrogen is produced by the ovaries, that's why when women do get hysterectomies they tend to leave the ovaries in to stop a disruption in normal hormone production. At least that's what good doctors do, lord knows there are some bloody awful doctors out there
@@BuckAngelOfficial "There is nothing wrong with getting a hysterectomy" - literally you in this video. Elective hysterectomies are Dr. Mengele levels of insanity. It's the same as a doctor amputating a health leg for no reason other than dysphoria. Both are sick beyond sick. You are an intelligent and well meaning individual but your dysphoria prevents you from seeing things clearly on this subject. I still enjoy your videos though. You are a net positive.
I love you Buck! When you had that little mini-breakdown at around the 15:00 minute mark, you looked like your soul momentarily left your body out of total frustration with these youngsters who in such a rush to get from A to Z without going through the proper steps and yes, having gatekeeping be a proper step in there, including therapy and education. You must be exhausted by now but thank you for keeping up the good fight and trying to educate these kids who think it's a cool new fad to dip their toes into.
I am sad for these kids they will have to deal with the lifelong stuff and no one will remember them when they get older and I see a future of so many bad things and why I know they hate me now but later they will see, Its just like being a parent sometimes you have to be the bad guy for the future of your child and when they grow up they love you more🥲😍
An ER nurse friend has seen these and other complications quite a few times. People have ignored biological reality and it delayed diagnosis of the real issue, sometimes dangerously. The effects of puberty blockers and hormones will be felt for a long time to come. Children are not equipped to make decisions of this magnitude and adult patients deserve true informed consent and continued education/follow up.
I just read an article talking about two men showing up to an ER, one with abdominal pain - well the one in pain had a chart that showed MALE so the med staff didn't even consider this person might actually be female and pregnant. turns out, they were a transman who didn't know they were pregnant and they ended up losing the baby because the med staff didn't realize it was an emergency situation.
High testosterone is common in females with autism because it results in cancer and cardiac issues. I know someone who had a complete hysterectomy and almost died just because her organs were reacting to the high testosterone that happened naturally. This is serious stuff and y'all are playing with fire if you are transitioning to the opposite sex voluntarily. These doctors are EXPERIMENTING on you!
Everyone thinks I am crazy ( more so doctors)when I tell them that my grandma got breast cancer within 5 years of her hysterectomy the exactly the same with my mom within 5 years of her hysterectomy she got colon cancer I was messed up throwing up for 3 days after my C-section was trying to get over that and was messed up on painkillers that I couldn't ask anyone about if I was without permission given a hysterectomy that doctors seem to be doing like handing out hormones and yes autism is strong in my mom's side
Back in the 1960's and 1970's, a lot of ob/gyn doctors were prescribing hysterectomies to women. Most of my mother's female friends underwent this surgery even though she never had it. I think the surgery affected their health quite a bit.
I’m very curious about this link. I’m late diagnosed with ASD and I feel like I’m in perimenopause. Looking back I had the ASD signs as a child but not as severely as lately. I have to wonder if the hormones exacerbate it.
@@BuckAngelOfficial yeah but you got some sense, Buck These kids don’t know shit from Shinola and think it’s a fun game. Please keep speaking out! Hopefully, some are starting to listen
I am a transsexual man who works in healthcare. When that trans masc said his testosterone level was close to 5000, my jaw dropped. No wonder his kidneys are failing! Hormones are not something to mess around with. I appreciate you for telling the truth, HRT is not all sunshine and rainbows. It's a wonderful medical advancement for those of us who truly have gender dysphoria, but it's a process that must be treated with caution. We 100% need reasonable gatekeeping to ensure kids aren't getting on it because it's trending on TikTok.
@@stigmoto228 He mentioned he was using testosterone gel 3 times a day. That's a lot, and gels can be hard to dose precisely. I don't know if the doc ordered that or if he decided on his own to take it that often because "it wasn't working fast enough", medication non-compliance is a very real problem. Plus, I'm willing to bet he wasn't seeing his endocrinologist as often as he should have been. It's possible this could have been caught before he went into kidney failure.
Gate keeping is always good, and that's coming from someone who despised all the gate keeping I had to go through to transition. It should be harder, not easier.
I keep getting bad cramps and I've been on T for 7 years but everytime I bring it up they tell me everything's good and I am just waiting for a call to get my hysto but lord knows when that will actually be so just gotta deal with these random painful cramps for however long lol
I've been a bodybuilder for over a decade. I've seen up close and personal what happens to women (not trans, just wanting to be more muscular) when they go on T. And they are on less than what most teans men are on. It never ever ends well. One girl i knew wrecked her health and died before 50 from steroid use. They use T and estrogen blockers, just like what they want to put these kids on. The women i knew were grown and have full capacity to decide. No frigging way, they should be so cavalier with this stuff. It's dangerous...period Edited to add, i have used anabolics sparingly in the past and now have kidney damage myself, and that was just the mild stuff (anavar cycled only 6 weeks at a time over a couple of years) So yeah, definitely think long and hard
Buck, thank you for being so straightforward about the medical aspects of transitioning. If we truly want quality medical care for everyone- including trans folks, we need to be honest and factual.
That Jeffrey Marsh tiktok looks like a promo for that TV show American Horror Story. .. "You are not in trouble. You are OK", with his creepy voice. He would fit right in as a regular character.
Thank you Buck for shining a light on this. I was just at the fabric store and the person cutting the fabric was clearly transitioning female to male, very sweet and friendly person, but all I could think was please please please educate yourself as to what you are doing and the risks that come with it. It’s sad to think of these young people that are possibly compromising their health and their life. I pray that lovely trans masculine person is getting really good advice so he can live a long healthy life.
That Jeffree Marsh guy is explicitly targeting abused kids who live in deadly fear of their abusive parent with that "you are not in trouble" tiktok. As someone who grew up with a mother who would fly off the handle if I breathed improperly and yelled at me from sun up to sundown, if an adult would had given young me that understanding, I would have followed them anywhre. all I longed for was someone to tell me I was doing nothing wrong, because I never did do anything wrong. But all i got was "please stop triggering your mother, she has mental issues"
Same and same. My mother had such a bad temper that even now I can’t bear to watch movies where people scream at each other. I have so much residual trauma from her abuse. If someone like Jeffrey Marsh had popped up on my teenage radar I would have definitely followed them.
I love the work you do. I can't help but feel like I would have been cohersed into being trans if I was in school now. I was a sexually confused teenage girl (bisexual but identified as a lesbian because I wasn't comfortable being vulnerable around men) and was fully developed by 14, with a huge chest. If someone in authority had told me having my breasts removed and taking medication to stop my period was an option, I'm sure I would have done it. Now, I'm 36, married to a man, and looking to see if it's still viable to have my own children. I'm happy with my body and my identity, and the idea that I could have made such a huge mistake because puberty was hard is scary enough. I can't imagine what these people are going through and my heart hurts for them.
I transitioned in 2010, in my late thirties, after years of knowing I should have been born male. I started thinking about it at 12, and in my twenties, I began discussing it and dressing more male. By my mid-thirties, the anger and depression became unbearable. I found an LGBT-friendly psychologist and, after a year of therapy, received a referral letter for an endocrinologist. The endocrinologist started me on a low dose of testosterone after a careful evaluation. When I sought top surgery, both the surgeon and nurse ensured I was fully committed to the procedure. Though frustrating at the time, I now see the importance of these precautions. I had three trans male friends; two have since detransitioned. This baffles me and makes me think they might not have had enough support or deliberation from the medical community.
Important to cover this. One thing I don’t hear spoken about is osteoporosis for f-to-m transitioners. Osteoporosis results from low estrogen in females. Given you are taking high doses of testosterone for the female body, bone loss is reality. That’s another lot of drugs to take. This episode shows how important it is to NOT transition children, and also how negligent the medical industry is with regards trans.
It's true. I found out I have very thick blood due to a type of blood cancer after getting my CBC blood tests for the testosterone prescription. It's making it all worse and my organs are failing. Chest pains and sleep apnea. Only did 6 months of T before quitting
I can't imagine matter-of-factly announcing my kidneys are failing, as though that's an ordinary event! And to be using THREE doses of a T a day! These Dr. Frankensteins need to face serious consequences.
I have a strange feeling that you overheard my conversation with the psychologist. We were arguing about the body's unpredictable response to hormone therapy 8 hours ago. We agreed to look for information, аnd now I see this video.
@@ncrob391I would have thought so too if I had not been a subscriber to this channel. It is a coincidence or fate that Buck decided to publish this video today. If he have no access to my phone)
I wish some of this younger generation would do some research on what happens to women bodybuilders who take a lot of testosterone in order to compete. They should also be required to watch the documentary about the Russian women in the Olympics back in the 1970s who were given steroids without their knowledge. Very eye-opening and sad too.
It’s so scary these young people take hormones so lightly vs the scheduled drug testosterone is. I don’t think the medical team helps by not following the young people closely with labs and exams. The medical system isn’t properly educating them and it’s tragic. MD are exploiting young people while they struggle with all of this. It’s a serious health concern. Dangerous. I hope there gets to be some actual guidelines and doctors who are prescribing hormones like this are held accountable. I don’t want anyone harmed.
6:38 this! I was hospitalised not too long ago and ended up missing a shot, I was absolutely mortified and beat myself up over it despite it ultimately being out of my control. The visceral feeling of disgust and discomfort of GD is something I'd never wish on my worst enemy.
our organs are sexed! they are genetically designed to function in the presence of our naturally produced sx hormone - and unfortunately we have no way to predict who will end up with liver tumors/kidney failure/pancreatitis caused by cross sx hormone usage. it really is a roll of the dice!
My friend is trans female to male and he 400lbs and thinks that going on testosterone will take care of all of his health issues. He has not started hormones yet, I told him to be careful because of the health issues that can happen. Of course he didn't believe me and said i am full of shit. He believes that testosterone is reversible because the community says it is. 😢
your friend is going to end up with diabetes at that weight if they start t - it damages the pancreas in females and causes pancreatic insufficiency, diabetes, chronic pancreatitis, and even pancreatic cancer. also, t literally thickens the blood which highly elevates the risk of cardiovascular disease and adverse cardiac events (heart attack, acute heart failure, stroke, blood clots, cardiac arrest). your friend is going to end up in the hospital very quickly if they start t.
@BuckAngelOfficial that's what I tried to tell him cause I think you mentioned it in one of your videos. I mentioned he should check you out one time and I guess he heard of you from the community. He claims your a transphobe. It's getting to the point where he is gonna learn it the hard way cause he won't listen to anyone, but the pee pee poo poo cult.
That just breaks my heart. The activists have told so many lies, claiming that “the other side” is causing a “trans genocide”, but I think the opposite is true. I have zero issues with trans ppl, I’m speaking out as much as my tiny microphone will allow (I have no platform, nor do I want one, I’m just speaking to the ppl I know) for 2 reasons-the kids, and the ppl who are dying and will die in the future if the narrative doesn’t change. As for your friend, being that overweight already, and then adding testosterone, which will likely enlarge the heart, is so freakin dangerous. It’s very sad.
my friend was 360lbs and they said he needed to be below 200lbs to even CONSIDER getting hormone treatment 😬😬 i can’t imagine what taking it that overweight would do to your organs
Atrophy=an organ shrivels up and dies. Such as atrophy of muscles if you are in a coma for months/years. The muscles atrophy. But in these cases, testosterone is DANGEROUS for the female body!!! It's even worse than menopause because you put much higher doses of testosterone into your body than female bodybuilders!!! You need to go to a GYNECOLOGIST!! Eventually a woman on high testosterone doses for years will get horrible health problems! I'm so sorry for everyone who does this and becomes patients for life!
First of all, may I just say for a 62 y.o. you look fabulous! Second, I love how you're advocating for people going to therapy first before deciding to go through transitioning. I understand the past history of conversion-therapy and many other forms of therapy that were designed to "help" the LGBTQ+ community, but instead ended up hurting them. But to go through such a drastic and dramatic life change, and then you're playing with your hormones or not taking it seriously, shows that a person may not be as gender dysphoric as they think. Maybe they're just following a trend, weren't educated about puberty or their body from a young age, or even just trying to avoid emotions from other things like an eating disorder or body dysmorphia. Keep on making your videos, ur fire.
Wow, sweetheart, I'm so thankful you're OK. I'd love an episode just on your health from beginning to the long term picture of 80 year old tranpa lol. PS, that last thing could have just been skipped LMAO that was so scary HAHAHAHAHA!!!! I need advice! So my niece is transitioning to male and is on hormones. To be very honest I truly believe she is just a girl who doesn't feel girlie and is a product of her environment. She is 22. Her parents were completely inept and did the bare minimum to "raise" her and her brother, so the world has had way more of an influence than they ever did. I've been close to the LGBT community since the steps of the capital building back in the 90s when we fought for marriage rights, so I feel like I know what a real trans person is like. She genuinely does NOT seem trans-she seems confused and influenced-she is exactly like all the other Gen Z girls who are playing this game. She has zero plans to do any surgeries either top or bottom. She is also dating a man who wants to be a girl and they live together and are sexually active...Dude....it's a lot. ANYWAY, how can I encourage them against hormones and all this other stuff? If they want to be different then why can't they just be different without harming themselves?? Any advice on how to have this conversation????
Its so hard as they are adukts and now in a CULT! I am so sorry and if you can talk them into therapy I suggest looking athe organization called Therapy First I have a video with them on this channnel😍
Well done Buck for discussing these complex matters so clearly. People need to know this before they even start on this journey. Loving parents need to discuss this information with younger people before allowing young family members to make irreversible life decisions.
Jeffrey Marsh is soooo creepy. On the other vids, I'm so sorry for the folks who are now basically drug addicts. When you're young, nothing seems serious and your health is a given. Thank you for spreading the truth, Buck! Your upbeat personality always makes my day!!!
3:44 it is dangerous, but the word you were probably looking for was ignorant or misinformed. Too many run their mouths on their own personal thoughts rather than speaking to elder members who have gone through the same thing. I'd normally say health professionals - but mine told me "atrophy is caused by low T" and tried to force me onto E blockers which I refused, as thankfully you educated me many moons ago about atrophy. Thank you for your wisdom and saintly patience!
First of all, I have a mad respect for you. Second, it's not just that their bodies are shuting down, but what will happen to the babies born from these transmascs? There is an intersex condition in female babies called virilization, where the mother was exposed to high levels of testosterone, either by a tumor or other causes. Transitioning is not a joke.
Yeah, that's something I don't think I've ever seen UA-camrs talk about in a nuanced way... Trans men and pregnancy doesn't make sense to me at all, but video responses are always either 'eww, gross and wtf!' or 'this is totally fine, more trans men should do it!' Both are very unhelpful, people need to hear facts instead of heavily biased information. When trans men don't freeze their eggs and just stop the testosterone to get pregnant - surely after years on a synthetic hormone, there's some impact on the ovaries? Even if they do freeze their eggs but they want to carry the baby - surely after years on a synthetic hormone, there's some impact on the womb and other essential parts of the reproductive system? To my knowledge, the babies born so far seem healthy, but who knows? Would be good to hear insights from a physician in a relevant specialist field.
@@RaefonB The glittery part is always exposed, but the ugly part is supresed and silenced. Transactivism has ruined thousands of lives and is brewing maybe the biggest medical, legal and political scandal in history. Denying biology and women's rights, pushing vulnerable or traumatized kids into transition, giving cover to predators and fetishists, not talking about the possible effects on babies born from women on T, parents seeing their children taken away and women ending up arrested or in jail for not subscribing to the transcult... Not even the alt-right could have done so much damage in such a short time.
Wait, so he’d prefer not to take HRT for a while instead of taking oestrogen gel? What? Surely that would be way less dysphoric. They really need to start talking to actual doctors instead of “the community” An actual gynaecologist would know what’s happening.
Pumping yourself full of exogenous test, even if you're male, can cause serious problems. Are people not being told what the potential complications are? I imagine there's enough data at this point.
There’s so much data for so many things but people don’t want to hear the truth, they’d prefer to be in an echo chamber regardless of the costs, even if it’s their life! It’s crazy
I read the waiver they give teens here. I'm being kind when I say it's woefully inadequate. Just as an example, the word 'atrophy' does not appear at all in the document.
Let's not forget that if you still have female reproductive organs, you are susceptible to uterine, ovarian, and or uterine cancer. Some seem to think that they no longer need care & I understand that the dysphoria is real and pelvic exams can feel very unusual with that condition. Hey, it doesn't feel great for women living as women, but it needs to be done. Why are doctors not advising these folks to take care of themselves???
I think they do it to use language people understand, but IDK why they can't say something like "atrophy, like when your vagina gets thin and hard" Those are all basic words to describe the medical word, to educate them.
The other day I waited on a girl and her boyfriend. She had a deep voice from taking testosterone. At this point I think it's just a trend to get a deeper voice. Everything else about her was super feminine.
It's particularly trendy in geekier circles like cosplay and furries due to the anime BL/gay fetishism - a lot of desire to "twink-ify" themselves and imitate yaoi content.
Transitioning literally means “to change from one state to another”. So, why do some of these “transitioners” treat it like there’s fluidity in between each state? Like, it’s not a giant pool where you can swim back and forth. In this case, it’s odd to me that these “transitioners” aren’t being educated by the doctors that provide the treatments. Like, are these doctors experiencing some sort of dysphoria themselves? Like, are they completely unable to disclose these things because they’re blinded by the desire to make the “ill” “well”? Like, maybe a “doctor dysohoria” of sorts?
I’m sure they’re not being treated by doctors who are specialists in their field. Anyone with a prescription pad can prescribe these dangerous massive doses of hormones including naturopaths (in certain states) physician assistants and nurse practitioners.
Buck, there is a whole industry of "men's clinics" you might also talk about. These clinics go through the motions of testing a middle-aged man's T, then for 200 or 300 dollars a month they will supply T supplements. That's why you see the guys in their 50s and 60s getting huge at the gym. Their bodies don't crank out that much T at their age. Their suppliers do.
I have kidney atrophy to the point where my kidney doesnt work anymore. The constant pain was so unbearable i could only imagine what uterine atrophy feels like. And even with my kidney, doctors would always tell me "well theres no pain with atrophy so we dont know why youre in pain. Take Tylenol "
@@claire2.097 unfortunately not a definitive reason for why it happened but I was born with kidney reflux and they assumed I'd grow out of it but they guess I never did and then had an untreated UTI before the pain started bad and the untreated UTI I assume is like the direct cause. My other kidney thankfully is good 😊
They never found any evidence of me still having kidney reflux but that doesn't mean it for sure is gone but I assume it contributed to the infection going to my kidney and killing it essentially
I knew someone years ago that had that same condition. He was around 4 or 5 when they caught it, but it had already destroyed one kidney and damaged the other. When I met him, he was 23, on dialysis 3 times a week, and on the list for a transplant. @@rosej2895
No one told me 20+ years ago that being on Testosterone would increase my risk of breast cancer -- even post top surgery, there's enough residual breast tissue to grow a tumor
It's so hard to find sane and real people in this community! I HAD TO subscribe! I'm not trans, just bi, but watched a different video and had to check it out. I'm glad I did!
I started at 26, and have been on for 6 years now and have had top surgery and then two years later had my hysterectomy, and I needed my hysterectomy because of the T and that was okay with me cuz i don't have to give birth because that would make so really dysphoric. I am sad I have to explain things to people about hormones cuz doctors are not telling them and people are telling them lies on the Internet. The biggest thing I get in the discussions about people with is that they have body dysmorphia not gender dysphoria two different things..... Smh
I'm so glad that you are addressing these important issues. People don't realize that this can happen, and people that transition should be fully informed so they go into it with their eyes open.
Thanks for you video. I stopped taking testosteron because i can still live as a man, without ki**ing my body. I am glad i stopped. I dont have a lot of Dysphoria, i had good therapy and good surroundings. 😊
I feel you! I'm a trans man too but I'm not going to do anything with HRT unless my dysphoria gets to a point where it's dangerous. I was luckily blessed with a small chest and a family that was supportive but not TOO supportive, and I don't plan to do anything that could seriously damage my body.
Thinning of the vaginal wall = increased injury, tearing, damage, infection, pain. I am a woman, not in any way trans, but I had my period disrupted due to going on methadone where I didn't have my period for 2+ years. I am not sexually active yet still noticed that the walls of the vagina have thinned, and it not only caused a recto-vaginal prolapse, but even itching your labia or cleaning can cause tears!! This would never have happened to me back when I was regularly menstruating! I am only 30, and I'm really worried about my future fertility, to be honest. Now think of trans men, and how esculated these issues would be!! Take care out there, y'all. I know it might be dysphoric, but your genital health is your physical health, and it is very important.
This is why we listen to people that are older and wiser in our society we dismiss people that are older And that have gone through things that we could help them with It's an unfortunate turn but hopefully we can regain The common sense approach to life..... And please leave our children out of adult situations
I can't believe he just glossed over, “Oh, and my kidneys are failing.” OMG, are you not taking that seriously, kid??? He not only needs a PCP gatekeeper, he needs to see a psychiatrist.
Yea the cognitive dissonance was wild. "I'm taking a huge dose of T and my T is dangerously high. I have NO idea why. Someone should gatekeep me more."
Hi, I'm not even near these communities, but I Like keeping up with what's going on in the world. You are such a nice man, I love your videos. Keep up the good work.
Buck, your videos are amazing. Is there any way that you'd consider doing an 'in-depth' video about the similar health concerns but then also the different health issues that happen to trans men and trans women?
See, this is what I’ve been noticing, and thinking if I was crazy or not. The fact that people treat going through the process of becoming trans as a trend, fashion statement, or a game. It’s appalling, because it is NEITHER any of those. It’s a serious process that takes a lot of time.
This is such an important video. Your combination of knowledge and genuine love and concern for young people is important. And the creepy guy you threw in at the end just for funsies was hilarious 😂
Thanks for this, Buck. If you feel up to covering a whole series on trans health issue like this, from your informative and insider perspective, I bet a lot of people would appreciate them as resources. If there are any knowledgeable gynecologists/endocrinologists on this topic - in particular, non-partisan ones, who are fine with transsexuals transitioning but sincerely want to prevent people making mistakes that could cost them their health - it would be cool to see an interview between you and them. They could then provide a bit of (hopefully, simplified! 😆) medical science and support the points you're making.
All women that are going through perimenopause, Menopause or if estrogen is taken away your body, the vagina will suffer and adding estrogen cream to the area localised will not go into your system but will help the vagina stay healthy and happy. Three types of estrogen, Estriol is weaker and used in vaginal cream, Estradiol is used in HRT gels and is for women adding estrogen into the body and estrone is what we make after menopause from adrenal glands and body fat.
Here where I live, if you wanna start a hormonal therapy wether you're ftm or mtf, you have to go through a looooong period of therapy. My experience was this: I found a good therapist, made sure she was professional and knew what she was talking about. I went to her for months. She made me reflect, asked me a lot of questions, gave me tests. I was very self aware even at that time, I knew that hormones and surgery are no joke at all, and that there could complications. At that time I was very depressed, so much that I had to leave school, because I could not stand the thought of existing in that body (before anyone says it: I don't have childhood trauma. In fact I had a pretty normal and sweet childhood, and I could be as feminine or masculine as I wanted without anyone imposing anything on me). Ever since I was very little I just knew. Always, even if I didn't know what it was. My therapist immediately saw this but she still made me wait the right amount of time, and even though I was DYING to start therapy, I understood that and I still thank her. Eventually she diagnosed me and I started, Now, where I live, they just don't give you hormones without a diagnosis, and even when you get it, you still have to do exams and wait, do you got a loooot of time to reflect, and people aren't pushing. Quite the contrary, they warn you, which is great. I then learnt that my therapist had another patient that wanted to take hormones but she didn't diagnose them 'cause they couldn't answer the question "what is a man to you?" and I'm hoping things will stay this way. I am very, very happy with the changes I got. Didn't go to school for 3 years, now I started going again (I'm stealth),even thought I should be out. I'm confident, never felt so free in my life. There's no way I could ever do what that guy said in the video and I don't know how a real trans person could ever deal with that
Nowadays women don’t want to admit that but our bodies are delicate, our bodies have complicated hormonal processes and when those processes don’t work and the hormonal balance is disrupted we are getting sick. With men it is much simpler but still men also have hormonal issues. Our bodies are meant to be cherished and taken care of not to be destroyed pumping hormones. If you need to do that because you have gender disphoria and it is your only solution to get better you do it under doctors supervision and you should be aware it may impact your health negatively but it is your decision. I wish women would understand their bodies are special
Thank you Buck for keeping it real. It’s hard enough to keep a health body and mind without throwing all the drugs into a young body that shouldn’t receive any until they are 25+
"You are not in trouble" You're right, but you should be! Buck, you knocked it out of the park with this one, honestly. You outdid yourself. No one says it quite like you. You've lived it and it is your life. As a transsexual man, I'm proud to have you to learn from ❤
My personal experience being a woman with hormonal problem is: DON’T MESS WITH HORMONES as you say Buck! I totally agree with you. Unfortunately I am now experiencing a difficult hormonal time and I really don’t want to suggest anybody to “play DIY god” with your own body.
Buck, thank you for all the time you take in making these videos. You are a treasure of knowledge for the younger generation who are making life changing decisions without decent knowledge and without having proper therapy or being diagnosed as having gender dysphoria. All the best to you and cheers from Canada!
Hi Buck, thank you for your space and your education. I’m currently off of T cause PP decided to be uncommitted to me being a patient of theirs (ik it was a bad decision but was a whee young lad). Thankfully I’ll be getting a more committed team in IU health that will be more reliable. I’ve been in limbo for months and today sent me through a loop cause I woke up with a period. When you said you’d die if you got your period back I’m here to attest yea it’s not fun. Been feeling like a Frankenstein lately. Anyways just glad to find your page and will be asking for an estrogen supplement during me first appointment too
I don’t hate you. You’re like the EMS warning light on this issue, people - these so-called activists need to be listening here, you are along with so many others, the reality and experience. Thank you for these videos.
Thanks for being here, friends! Testosterone and estrogen are extremely powerful things. We need to talk about this more.
Hi Buck I'd love to do a interview with you on UA-cam livestream ❤ over this biological male who identifies as " non binary" once he told me " I'm a woman now called me Skylar" he SA me while he was cheating on his "girlfriend" who has a intellectual disability.. his excuse was " oh I'm aromatic" he groomed me 😢 On my 19th birthday he kept buying me shots of Vodka then we kissed and he brought me to unisex bathrooms
And we made out ,,, eventually when I was in college he begged me to have $€x with me in the disabled bathrooms TWICE now he trying to SA my best friend she only just turned 18 he said when he was an adult and she was only 16 " Hi I have a crush on you " he a midget with a 12 year old body it was awful I felt transphobic over hating him
He reported me for apparently seggual abusing my emotional support pet Django my precious rescue dog 😂😂 jokes on my ex I still have my wonderful furry BFF 😊
So I was told by the boss of the Autistic college that I was suspended she victim blamed me and so did my whole entire family
My phone was talking off me from June 2023 up until December 2024 Christmas ☹️😔 I am just some R£t@rd£d Wh0r£ 😂
What pisses me off is a woman who is in a severe situation and wants a hysterectomy but the drs won’t give one cause she’s not over 35 but these kids are getting them when they’re 16 or 18!!! That’s just nuts
Theres a reason doctors balk at early hysterectomy, mainly the cessation of oestrogen production which means instant menopause, which, if you are not aware, is the harbinger of osteoporosis, psychological problems and a host of other conditions not least vaginal atrophy which I wouldnt wish on my worst enemy.
@@AnneAndersonFoxiepawsthat’s only if you have your ovaries removed, which you don’t necessarily have to depending on what is wrong. I have endometriosis and want a hysterectomy, but I am not letting my ovaries go unless something like a cyst rupture happens and they have to be removed to save my life. I am not allowed to take estrogen due to it raising my clotting factor so I’d be in a real mess and I agree with the doctors we shouldn’t do that.
@AnneAndersonFoxiepaws yes but they did say in a severe situation. Endometriosis is awful, every one of my internal reproductive organs is coated in webs of scar tissue. The pain is unbearable when I'm on and barely bearable when I'm not. I was refused over and over again when younger and now I'm "too old and not in the right weight range" but can't exercise because of other health conditions so am stuck until I have menopause. Osteoporosis has treatments that can be given to compensate for the lack of hormones too, they aren't particularly pleasant but better than severe endometriosis. There are ways around most of the side effects of having a hysterectomy and women in my position would happily jump at them. Either they need to get better at treating the underlying conditions that cause women to ask for hysterectomy or should stop policing the best current remedy available which is a hysterectomy. Even having tubes tied for women with early stage endo can massively help with symptoms and is reversible so why not do that.
@@amyme4066getting tube tied can help with early stages of endo? How so? Why?
@@OhDontMindMee sorry you're right it doesn't. That was something I was told twenty odd years ago and the thinking at that time was it would stop the periods causing more damage but the latest advice seems to contradict that and says it doesn't make any difference.
Nobody talks about how serious transitioning is.
They act like it’s just a fun “cute” trend.
The transtrenders call it „transjoy“…. 🤦🏼♀️
They think that because everyone has both types of hormones, it's no biggie to just increase the one you only have a tiny amount of. They have zero understanding of the endocrine system.
The language downplays it, mutes it- “top/bottom” surgery. “T/E”. It’s manufactured oversimplification
@@kellylyons1038 And zero understanding of the pituitary gland, which controls both the body's growth in size plus puberty
Fun, cute and REVERSIBLE!!
I think a lot of people especially young folks are getting body dysmorphia and mistaking it for gender dysmorphia. Body dysmorphia is very normal and a part of low self esteem, low self confidence and anxiety. It’s the same dysmorphia that leads people to having too many boob jobs or 5 rhinoplasties but it’s also the same dysmorphia that settles away with proper therapy, life experiences and for most adulthood experiences & healthy sexual experiences boosting confidence about the dysmorphic body parts.
Kids are not hearing older women and elderly women speaking about their bodies. Their not hearing older men or seniors talk about their bodies. Why? Because they don’t have big families, live isolated or don’t have relationships outside these age ranges. I really believe being a young woman for example around older women can truly change how you think about your body and accept it.
You are absolutely right about how beneficial it is to have friends and family from all age groups. It’s very important
Mostly it comes from being brainwashed from social media. At least back in the day there was some sort of a fighting chance by turning off the tv or distracting kids at the checkout from the magazines. But today there’s NO escaping it. It’s everywhere
I believe this too. I struggled with some dysmorphia issues after having my 4th child. It makes total sense to me why young people especially might not feel comfortable in their bodies in their teens and 20s- especially when women are sexually objectified at a very young age.
You can’t speak for all though maybe some but not all
from a 78 y.o. straight woman person. very well said, sweetie. i had no idea transitioning was this complicated. Enjoy and have a great day :) 🌷🌱
Well said Buck. I waited until I was 32 to transition to make sure I really wanted this life commitment. I tried so hard for years to live as a female. I had relationships with men to try and fit in and then later on women to try and fit in the lesbian world but I realised that I couldn't carry on. I was close to ending my life as there was no support, the internet was a new thing. I am now 52. I had a lot of therapy before and knew that it was a life changing permeant decision. I am old school and cant understand the new generation of trans people that don't take it seriously. I know that everyone is different but I couldn't wait to have my hysto and ooperectomy because of my dysphoria. I had to wait 10 years to have phalloplasty because at the time funding was different and it came from a local authority and wasn't centralised. To say the wait was tough is an understatement. I don't regret transitioning and I took on board the risks. Who knows what my life expectancy will be now, but that is the cost you pay for taking hormones that aren't designed for your biological gender. It is serious stuff and I wish the newer generations would realise this.
absolutely agree as another trans man in his late twenties. I'm sick of dealing with trenders who think this is all fun and games and who clog up the wait lists.
Thank you Buck, you know you've probably already saved a lot of trans dude's lives by speaking about this stuff!
EDIT: I take everything back, you nearly murdered me by exposing me to that horrendous Jeffrey Marsh clip LMAO YIKESSSSS
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Wow, thanks for the warning. I usually turn down the volume and cover the screen with my hand whenever I see that "hey kids"-predator-creature in someone else's video.
Hahaha which one? Lol
I'm really glad theres an elder trans giving out advice. All the "advice" I see on trans topics is from people younger than me in gen Z. I swear they'd rather get views than give actual helpful advice because a lot of what they say is dangerous and outright false.
Hey Buck, it's Nina from The Panic Button. Never stop speaking truth. You are saving lives!
Love your channel! One of the few outlets that are keeping me sane rn 😂❤
Love your channel too! You and jesse are so naturally funny!🤣
Love you girls ❤❤❤
Yes love you guys too!
It's so dangerous that people ask "the community" instead of proper doctors.
The doctors are doing the damage.
It’s very telling, I understand asking a little bit but this is like a whole other level
The doctors are usually in the community or have some kind of agenda. I was so blessed to have NORMAL doctors and therapists to discuss this stuff with.
The doctors don’t know much about the long term effects of gender care, so it’s a bit pointless to look to them as the authority. It’s not an easy time right now, until we have more studies that doctors can rely on to provide care it’s anecdotal evidence. It’s hard to find a doctor who knows what they’re doing. I struggle as a woman to find a doctor who knows what they’re doing, and I don’t even have gender issues.
It's a sad truth though that people have come to distrust doctors and medicine to such a degree that they feel the need to turn to the community instead. Of course they need professional guidance, but the distrust is not without cause.
Having recently watched a person die from it, I'd rather be NEUTERED than not have kidneys. My Dads generation drank and smoked for 45 YRS to make kidney and liver failure happen , this generation is getting it ,with doctors assistance, in their 20/30's !?
Your dad had more fun.
@@kellysouter4381 yep,he sure did, Mom took better care of herself and is off camping with her 68 yr old boyfriend....... she's 79!
That's right. Can you imagine what would have happened if he was given estrogens ? Less strokes, less heart attack, better vascular health, longer life span, less testicular cancer, less impulsive decisions, no more baldness. We should give estrogen to men from birth, it will avoid a lot of tragedies
@@leshommesdupilly Which he, My Dad? He lived long enough, thanks.
@@leshommesdupillyAre you nuts? Estrogen causes certain cancers and strokes, heart attacks, and even severe psychological issues. Especially when you are dosing estrogen rather than what your body makes naturally. A person's body is made to balance the hormones needed for you specifically to be healthy. No doctor can do that ever. I don't care how many blood tests they do, they can't balance what you need like your own body can. Doctors know that. They also know they can't make money that way so they'll never say that out loud. This is just one big cash grab like lobotomies. They are gonna ride this gravy train till they are forced to stop.
You are the only Trans person I have listened to that has assisted me to understand Trans. I am not trans, just trying to understand. Thank you. I love your videos.
Well there are other complications of complete hysterectomy. Remember the mesh failures? They made those to help with the issues around removing an organ. On top of the fact that estrogen doesn’t just affect the reproductive systems. Estrogen can affect cholesterol, bone density, etc.
We really need to teach biology in high school. In particular, sex education which needs to have biology as a focus along with psychology
Thats why I said to really think about it
amazing you remembered the mesh disaster ...it still is causing issues today with autoimmune disorders
Estrogen is produced by the ovaries, that's why when women do get hysterectomies they tend to leave the ovaries in to stop a disruption in normal hormone production. At least that's what good doctors do, lord knows there are some bloody awful doctors out there
My IVC filter is checked often. It hasn't moved so far.
@@BuckAngelOfficial "There is nothing wrong with getting a hysterectomy" - literally you in this video. Elective hysterectomies are Dr. Mengele levels of insanity. It's the same as a doctor amputating a health leg for no reason other than dysphoria. Both are sick beyond sick. You are an intelligent and well meaning individual but your dysphoria prevents you from seeing things clearly on this subject. I still enjoy your videos though. You are a net positive.
I love you Buck! When you had that little mini-breakdown at around the 15:00 minute mark, you looked like your soul momentarily left your body out of total frustration with these youngsters who in such a rush to get from A to Z without going through the proper steps and yes, having gatekeeping be a proper step in there, including therapy and education. You must be exhausted by now but thank you for keeping up the good fight and trying to educate these kids who think it's a cool new fad to dip their toes into.
I am sad for these kids they will have to deal with the lifelong stuff and no one will remember them when they get older and I see a future of so many bad things and why I know they hate me now but later they will see, Its just like being a parent sometimes you have to be the bad guy for the future of your child and when they grow up they love you more🥲😍
An ER nurse friend has seen these and other complications quite a few times. People have ignored biological reality and it delayed diagnosis of the real issue, sometimes dangerously. The effects of puberty blockers and hormones will be felt for a long time to come. Children are not equipped to make decisions of this magnitude and adult patients deserve true informed consent and continued education/follow up.
I just read an article talking about two men showing up to an ER, one with abdominal pain - well the one in pain had a chart that showed MALE so the med staff didn't even consider this person might actually be female and pregnant. turns out, they were a transman who didn't know they were pregnant and they ended up losing the baby because the med staff didn't realize it was an emergency situation.
High testosterone is common in females with autism because it results in cancer and cardiac issues. I know someone who had a complete hysterectomy and almost died just because her organs were reacting to the high testosterone that happened naturally. This is serious stuff and y'all are playing with fire if you are transitioning to the opposite sex voluntarily.
These doctors are EXPERIMENTING on you!
Exactly my point have done this 32 years I know stuff
Everyone thinks I am crazy ( more so doctors)when I tell them that my grandma got breast cancer within 5 years of her hysterectomy the exactly the same with my mom within 5 years of her hysterectomy she got colon cancer I was messed up throwing up for 3 days after my C-section was trying to get over that and was messed up on painkillers that I couldn't ask anyone about if I was without permission given a hysterectomy that doctors seem to be doing like handing out hormones and yes autism is strong in my mom's side
Back in the 1960's and 1970's, a lot of ob/gyn doctors were prescribing hysterectomies to women. Most of my mother's female friends underwent this surgery even though she never had it. I think the surgery affected their health quite a bit.
I’m very curious about this link. I’m late diagnosed with ASD and I feel like I’m in perimenopause. Looking back I had the ASD signs as a child but not as severely as lately. I have to wonder if the hormones exacerbate it.
@@BuckAngelOfficial yeah but you got some sense, Buck These kids don’t know shit from Shinola and think it’s a fun game.
Please keep speaking out! Hopefully, some are starting to listen
I am a transsexual man who works in healthcare. When that trans masc said his testosterone level was close to 5000, my jaw dropped. No wonder his kidneys are failing! Hormones are not something to mess around with. I appreciate you for telling the truth, HRT is not all sunshine and rainbows. It's a wonderful medical advancement for those of us who truly have gender dysphoria, but it's a process that must be treated with caution. We 100% need reasonable gatekeeping to ensure kids aren't getting on it because it's trending on TikTok.
And it’s not HRT.
Appreciate you and thank you:)
dude, that’s crazy how is it even possible to be at 5000?
@@stigmoto228 He mentioned he was using testosterone gel 3 times a day. That's a lot, and gels can be hard to dose precisely. I don't know if the doc ordered that or if he decided on his own to take it that often because "it wasn't working fast enough", medication non-compliance is a very real problem. Plus, I'm willing to bet he wasn't seeing his endocrinologist as often as he should have been. It's possible this could have been caught before he went into kidney failure.
I'm 💯 a woman and even my jaw dropped. Like holy hell how are you not dead?! Seriously
Dearest Buck, thank you for educating us about the reality of testosterone on transmen. ♥️
im trans female to male and this really helps to hear❤
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Gate keeping is always good, and that's coming from someone who despised all the gate keeping I had to go through to transition. It should be harder, not easier.
I keep getting bad cramps and I've been on T for 7 years but everytime I bring it up they tell me everything's good and I am just waiting for a call to get my hysto but lord knows when that will actually be so just gotta deal with these random painful cramps for however long lol
You can get bioidentical estriadol cream OTC online, legally, if that helps. @@SparkleZombies
I've been a bodybuilder for over a decade. I've seen up close and personal what happens to women (not trans, just wanting to be more muscular) when they go on T. And they are on less than what most teans men are on. It never ever ends well. One girl i knew wrecked her health and died before 50 from steroid use. They use T and estrogen blockers, just like what they want to put these kids on.
The women i knew were grown and have full capacity to decide. No frigging way, they should be so cavalier with this stuff. It's dangerous...period
Edited to add, i have used anabolics sparingly in the past and now have kidney damage myself, and that was just the mild stuff (anavar cycled only 6 weeks at a time over a couple of years) So yeah, definitely think long and hard
Buck, thank you for being so straightforward about the medical aspects of transitioning. If we truly want quality medical care for everyone- including trans folks, we need to be honest and factual.
That Jeffrey Marsh tiktok looks like a promo for that TV show American Horror Story. .. "You are not in trouble. You are OK", with his creepy voice. He would fit right in as a regular character.
He/she/it reminds me of Marshall Applewhite.
it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again
@@megsley Jeffrey Marsh is creepier than that
Except I would stop watching because he is a proper predator.
He’s a groomer, that encourages young children to keep it hush hush from their parents of what he “discusses” with them
I love how nonchalant the mention of kidney failure was. I'd be losing my shit
Also, I wanted to add that I have PMDD and hormones are NOT to be messed with so casually!
Yeah that sounds like it should be the first thing we hear 😅
Thank you Buck for shining a light on this. I was just at the fabric store and the person cutting the fabric was clearly transitioning female to male, very sweet and friendly person, but all I could think was please please please educate yourself as to what you are doing and the risks that come with it. It’s sad to think of these young people that are possibly compromising their health and their life. I pray that lovely trans masculine person is getting really good advice so he can live a long healthy life.
That Jeffree Marsh guy is explicitly targeting abused kids who live in deadly fear of their abusive parent with that "you are not in trouble" tiktok. As someone who grew up with a mother who would fly off the handle if I breathed improperly and yelled at me from sun up to sundown, if an adult would had given young me that understanding, I would have followed them anywhre. all I longed for was someone to tell me I was doing nothing wrong, because I never did do anything wrong. But all i got was "please stop triggering your mother, she has mental issues"
Same and same. My mother had such a bad temper that even now I can’t bear to watch movies where people scream at each other. I have so much residual trauma from her abuse. If someone like Jeffrey Marsh had popped up on my teenage radar I would have definitely followed them.
Same here except the "enemy" was my father.
Jeffree is going to get caught eventually.
Maybe they aren't into that. But if they are... I think they would be exposed by now
I love the work you do. I can't help but feel like I would have been cohersed into being trans if I was in school now. I was a sexually confused teenage girl (bisexual but identified as a lesbian because I wasn't comfortable being vulnerable around men) and was fully developed by 14, with a huge chest. If someone in authority had told me having my breasts removed and taking medication to stop my period was an option, I'm sure I would have done it.
Now, I'm 36, married to a man, and looking to see if it's still viable to have my own children. I'm happy with my body and my identity, and the idea that I could have made such a huge mistake because puberty was hard is scary enough.
I can't imagine what these people are going through and my heart hurts for them.
I transitioned in 2010, in my late thirties, after years of knowing I should have been born male. I started thinking about it at 12, and in my twenties, I began discussing it and dressing more male. By my mid-thirties, the anger and depression became unbearable. I found an LGBT-friendly psychologist and, after a year of therapy, received a referral letter for an endocrinologist. The endocrinologist started me on a low dose of testosterone after a careful evaluation. When I sought top surgery, both the surgeon and nurse ensured I was fully committed to the procedure. Though frustrating at the time, I now see the importance of these precautions. I had three trans male friends; two have since detransitioned. This baffles me and makes me think they might not have had enough support or deliberation from the medical community.
Important to cover this. One thing I don’t hear spoken about is osteoporosis for f-to-m transitioners. Osteoporosis results from low estrogen in females. Given you are taking high doses of testosterone for the female body, bone loss is reality. That’s another lot of drugs to take. This episode shows how important it is to NOT transition children, and also how negligent the medical industry is with regards trans.
It's true. I found out I have very thick blood due to a type of blood cancer after getting my CBC blood tests for the testosterone prescription. It's making it all worse and my organs are failing. Chest pains and sleep apnea. Only did 6 months of T before quitting
Buck, it must be heartbreaking watching all this kids make bad decisions when you have sincere advice that would help them.
I can't imagine matter-of-factly announcing my kidneys are failing, as though that's an ordinary event! And to be using THREE doses of a T a day! These Dr. Frankensteins need to face serious consequences.
I have a strange feeling that you overheard my conversation with the psychologist. We were arguing about the body's unpredictable response to hormone therapy 8 hours ago. We agreed to look for information, аnd now I see this video.
If your cell phone was in the room, that's why you're seeing this video.
@@ncrob391I would have thought so too if I had not been a subscriber to this channel. It is a coincidence or fate that Buck decided to publish this video today. If he have no access to my phone)
I wish some of this younger generation would do some research on what happens to women bodybuilders who take a lot of testosterone in order to compete. They should also be required to watch the documentary about the Russian women in the Olympics back in the 1970s who were given steroids without their knowledge. Very eye-opening and sad too.
It’s so scary these young people take hormones so lightly vs the scheduled drug testosterone is. I don’t think the medical team helps by not following the young people closely with labs and exams. The medical system isn’t properly educating them and it’s tragic. MD are exploiting young people while they struggle with all of this. It’s a serious health concern. Dangerous. I hope there gets to be some actual guidelines and doctors who are prescribing hormones like this are held accountable. I don’t want anyone harmed.
That atrophy sounds so terrible. How can any teen understand that as a complication for gender affirming treatment incase they change their mind.
There is no “informed consent” because they are never INFORMED. Lied to by omission from day 1. It’s absolutely sick
6:38 this! I was hospitalised not too long ago and ended up missing a shot, I was absolutely mortified and beat myself up over it despite it ultimately being out of my control. The visceral feeling of disgust and discomfort of GD is something I'd never wish on my worst enemy.
our organs are sexed! they are genetically designed to function in the presence of our naturally produced sx hormone - and unfortunately we have no way to predict who will end up with liver tumors/kidney failure/pancreatitis caused by cross sx hormone usage. it really is a roll of the dice!
Well said 👏
I wonder if this is a factor in organ transplantation?
I am not Trans, but I have deep respect for all of you who are going through this.
Same
My friend is trans female to male and he 400lbs and thinks that going on testosterone will take care of all of his health issues. He has not started hormones yet, I told him to be careful because of the health issues that can happen. Of course he didn't believe me and said i am full of shit. He believes that testosterone is reversible because the community says it is. 😢
your friend is going to end up with diabetes at that weight if they start t - it damages the pancreas in females and causes pancreatic insufficiency, diabetes, chronic pancreatitis, and even pancreatic cancer. also, t literally thickens the blood which highly elevates the risk of cardiovascular disease and adverse cardiac events (heart attack, acute heart failure, stroke, blood clots, cardiac arrest).
your friend is going to end up in the hospital very quickly if they start t.
OMG they used to tell us we needed to lose weight if we were 50 ilbs over and this person is in for serious health problems wow just wow
@BuckAngelOfficial that's what I tried to tell him cause I think you mentioned it in one of your videos. I mentioned he should check you out one time and I guess he heard of you from the community. He claims your a transphobe. It's getting to the point where he is gonna learn it the hard way cause he won't listen to anyone, but the pee pee poo poo cult.
That just breaks my heart. The activists have told so many lies, claiming that “the other side” is causing a “trans genocide”, but I think the opposite is true. I have zero issues with trans ppl, I’m speaking out as much as my tiny microphone will allow (I have no platform, nor do I want one, I’m just speaking to the ppl I know) for 2 reasons-the kids, and the ppl who are dying and will die in the future if the narrative doesn’t change.
As for your friend, being that overweight already, and then adding testosterone, which will likely enlarge the heart, is so freakin dangerous. It’s very sad.
my friend was 360lbs and they said he needed to be below 200lbs to even CONSIDER getting hormone treatment 😬😬 i can’t imagine what taking it that overweight would do to your organs
The Jeffrey Marsh video made me feel like I was strapped down to a chair while he sharpens some knives.
Atrophy=an organ shrivels up and dies.
Such as atrophy of muscles if you are in a coma for months/years. The muscles atrophy.
But in these cases, testosterone is DANGEROUS for the female body!!!
It's even worse than menopause because you put much higher doses of testosterone into your body than female bodybuilders!!!
You need to go to a GYNECOLOGIST!!
Eventually a woman on high testosterone doses for years will get horrible health problems! I'm so sorry for everyone who does this and becomes patients for life!
This makes me feel slightly better in a weird way. I was wondering if this was a horrifying thing to look forward to in menopause.
First of all, may I just say for a 62 y.o. you look fabulous! Second, I love how you're advocating for people going to therapy first before deciding to go through transitioning. I understand the past history of conversion-therapy and many other forms of therapy that were designed to "help" the LGBTQ+ community, but instead ended up hurting them. But to go through such a drastic and dramatic life change, and then you're playing with your hormones or not taking it seriously, shows that a person may not be as gender dysphoric as they think. Maybe they're just following a trend, weren't educated about puberty or their body from a young age, or even just trying to avoid emotions from other things like an eating disorder or body dysmorphia. Keep on making your videos, ur fire.
Wow, sweetheart, I'm so thankful you're OK. I'd love an episode just on your health from beginning to the long term picture of 80 year old tranpa lol. PS, that last thing could have just been skipped LMAO that was so scary HAHAHAHAHA!!!!
I need advice! So my niece is transitioning to male and is on hormones. To be very honest I truly believe she is just a girl who doesn't feel girlie and is a product of her environment. She is 22. Her parents were completely inept and did the bare minimum to "raise" her and her brother, so the world has had way more of an influence than they ever did. I've been close to the LGBT community since the steps of the capital building back in the 90s when we fought for marriage rights, so I feel like I know what a real trans person is like. She genuinely does NOT seem trans-she seems confused and influenced-she is exactly like all the other Gen Z girls who are playing this game. She has zero plans to do any surgeries either top or bottom. She is also dating a man who wants to be a girl and they live together and are sexually active...Dude....it's a lot. ANYWAY, how can I encourage them against hormones and all this other stuff? If they want to be different then why can't they just be different without harming themselves?? Any advice on how to have this conversation????
Its so hard as they are adukts and now in a CULT! I am so sorry and if you can talk them into therapy I suggest looking athe organization called Therapy First I have a video with them on this channnel😍
"deep breathing" with Jeffrey is the most non relaxing thing ever... GOSHHHH he creeps me out. Thank you for protecting our kiddos!! ❤️😘
Well done Buck for discussing these complex matters so clearly. People need to know this before they even start on this journey. Loving parents need to discuss this information with younger people before allowing young family members to make irreversible life decisions.
I will always call Buck Angel my Transpa but everyone needs to listen to him because he knows what is going on 😊
Jeffrey Marsh is soooo creepy. On the other vids, I'm so sorry for the folks who are now basically drug addicts. When you're young, nothing seems serious and your health is a given. Thank you for spreading the truth, Buck! Your upbeat personality always makes my day!!!
3:44 it is dangerous, but the word you were probably looking for was ignorant or misinformed. Too many run their mouths on their own personal thoughts rather than speaking to elder members who have gone through the same thing. I'd normally say health professionals - but mine told me "atrophy is caused by low T" and tried to force me onto E blockers which I refused, as thankfully you educated me many moons ago about atrophy.
Thank you for your wisdom and saintly patience!
Good. Bit please go to a gynecologist for this because they know what they are talking about.
First of all, I have a mad respect for you. Second, it's not just that their bodies are shuting down, but what will happen to the babies born from these transmascs? There is an intersex condition in female babies called virilization, where the mother was exposed to high levels of testosterone, either by a tumor or other causes. Transitioning is not a joke.
Yeah, that's something I don't think I've ever seen UA-camrs talk about in a nuanced way... Trans men and pregnancy doesn't make sense to me at all, but video responses are always either 'eww, gross and wtf!' or 'this is totally fine, more trans men should do it!' Both are very unhelpful, people need to hear facts instead of heavily biased information. When trans men don't freeze their eggs and just stop the testosterone to get pregnant - surely after years on a synthetic hormone, there's some impact on the ovaries? Even if they do freeze their eggs but they want to carry the baby - surely after years on a synthetic hormone, there's some impact on the womb and other essential parts of the reproductive system? To my knowledge, the babies born so far seem healthy, but who knows? Would be good to hear insights from a physician in a relevant specialist field.
@@RaefonB The glittery part is always exposed, but the ugly part is supresed and silenced. Transactivism has ruined thousands of lives and is brewing maybe the biggest medical, legal and political scandal in history.
Denying biology and women's rights, pushing vulnerable or traumatized kids into transition, giving cover to predators and fetishists, not talking about the possible effects on babies born from women on T, parents seeing their children taken away and women ending up arrested or in jail for not subscribing to the transcult... Not even the alt-right could have done so much damage in such a short time.
Man I love this channel. I love how blunt he is and how he understands this is a mental health issue.
Wait, so he’d prefer not to take HRT for a while instead of taking oestrogen gel? What? Surely that would be way less dysphoric. They really need to start talking to actual doctors instead of “the community” An actual gynaecologist would know what’s happening.
Pumping yourself full of exogenous test, even if you're male, can cause serious problems. Are people not being told what the potential complications are? I imagine there's enough data at this point.
And a lot of these doctors start them out on high doses of testerone to push them along
There is no “informed consent” because they are not being INFORMED. It is criminal!!
There’s so much data for so many things but people don’t want to hear the truth, they’d prefer to be in an echo chamber regardless of the costs, even if it’s their life! It’s crazy
I read the waiver they give teens here. I'm being kind when I say it's woefully inadequate. Just as an example, the word 'atrophy' does not appear at all in the document.
Let's not forget that if you still have female reproductive organs, you are susceptible to uterine, ovarian, and or uterine cancer. Some seem to think that they no longer need care & I understand that the dysphoria is real and pelvic exams can feel very unusual with that condition. Hey, it doesn't feel great for women living as women, but it needs to be done. Why are doctors not advising these folks to take care of themselves???
This is one of the MOST important vids you’ve ever produced. People - transitioners, Need to KNOW this!!
I cant believe the amount of medical professionals that speak like teenagers.
I think they do it to use language people understand, but IDK why they can't say something like "atrophy, like when your vagina gets thin and hard" Those are all basic words to describe the medical word, to educate them.
The other day I waited on a girl and her boyfriend. She had a deep voice from taking testosterone. At this point I think it's just a trend to get a deeper voice. Everything else about her was super feminine.
It's particularly trendy in geekier circles like cosplay and furries due to the anime BL/gay fetishism - a lot of desire to "twink-ify" themselves and imitate yaoi content.
Never know could be pcos or maybe it was a trans woman? Who knows these days
she might be a detransitioner
@@HereComesWheely WTF?????
Maybe she had just PCOS or some women have naturally deeper voice as Cher. Some women can be cotraltos😊
I so appreciate your honesty and authenticity.
Transitioning literally means “to change from one state to another”. So, why do some of these “transitioners” treat it like there’s fluidity in between each state?
Like, it’s not a giant pool where you can swim back and forth.
In this case, it’s odd to me that these “transitioners” aren’t being educated by the doctors that provide the treatments. Like, are these doctors experiencing some sort of dysphoria themselves? Like, are they completely unable to disclose these things because they’re blinded by the desire to make the “ill” “well”? Like, maybe a “doctor dysohoria” of sorts?
Doctors suffer from wallet dysphoria. They identify as ridiculously wealthy and will do anything to transition.
I’m sure they’re not being treated by doctors who are specialists in their field. Anyone with a prescription pad can prescribe these dangerous massive doses of hormones including naturopaths (in certain states) physician assistants and nurse practitioners.
I don't hate ya I love ya , you're covering one of the most pressing issues of our time , the destruction of our youth .
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Thank you so much for this video, this feels like something that isn't talked about enough for transmen.
Buck, there is a whole industry of "men's clinics" you might also talk about. These clinics go through the motions of testing a middle-aged man's T, then for 200 or 300 dollars a month they will supply T supplements. That's why you see the guys in their 50s and 60s getting huge at the gym. Their bodies don't crank out that much T at their age. Their suppliers do.
I have a few mental disorders but I'm so glad I don't suffer from gender dysphoria, it just seems so difficult from every angle.
I have kidney atrophy to the point where my kidney doesnt work anymore. The constant pain was so unbearable i could only imagine what uterine atrophy feels like. And even with my kidney, doctors would always tell me "well theres no pain with atrophy so we dont know why youre in pain. Take Tylenol "
I'm so sorry for you ((( i hope it's just one of the kidneys. And the other one has taken its function. Did you find out why it happened?
@@claire2.097 unfortunately not a definitive reason for why it happened but I was born with kidney reflux and they assumed I'd grow out of it but they guess I never did and then had an untreated UTI before the pain started bad and the untreated UTI I assume is like the direct cause. My other kidney thankfully is good 😊
They never found any evidence of me still having kidney reflux but that doesn't mean it for sure is gone but I assume it contributed to the infection going to my kidney and killing it essentially
I knew someone years ago that had that same condition. He was around 4 or 5 when they caught it, but it had already destroyed one kidney and damaged the other. When I met him, he was 23, on dialysis 3 times a week, and on the list for a transplant. @@rosej2895
No one told me 20+ years ago that being on Testosterone would increase my risk of breast cancer -- even post top surgery, there's enough residual breast tissue to grow a tumor
You, sir, have a very rare commodity these days. A brain. Thank you for saying what needs to be said.
“Also, my kidneys are failing” like … what?!?! Kidney failure/AKI is a serious condition, that will make you un-alive smfh 🤦🏻♀️
I'm so glad you talk about these things, it's so important. God bless you Buck
It's so hard to find sane and real people in this community! I HAD TO subscribe! I'm not trans, just bi, but watched a different video and had to check it out. I'm glad I did!
I started at 26, and have been on for 6 years now and have had top surgery and then two years later had my hysterectomy, and I needed my hysterectomy because of the T and that was okay with me cuz i don't have to give birth because that would make so really dysphoric. I am sad I have to explain things to people about hormones cuz doctors are not telling them and people are telling them lies on the Internet. The biggest thing I get in the discussions about people with is that they have body dysmorphia not gender dysphoria two different things..... Smh
I'm so glad that you are addressing these important issues. People don't realize that this can happen, and people that transition should be fully informed so they go into it with their eyes open.
Thanks for you video. I stopped taking testosteron because i can still live as a man, without ki**ing my body. I am glad i stopped. I dont have a lot of Dysphoria, i had good therapy and good surroundings. 😊
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I feel you! I'm a trans man too but I'm not going to do anything with HRT unless my dysphoria gets to a point where it's dangerous. I was luckily blessed with a small chest and a family that was supportive but not TOO supportive, and I don't plan to do anything that could seriously damage my body.
Thinning of the vaginal wall = increased injury, tearing, damage, infection, pain.
I am a woman, not in any way trans, but I had my period disrupted due to going on methadone where I didn't have my period for 2+ years. I am not sexually active yet still noticed that the walls of the vagina have thinned, and it not only caused a recto-vaginal prolapse, but even itching your labia or cleaning can cause tears!! This would never have happened to me back when I was regularly menstruating! I am only 30, and I'm really worried about my future fertility, to be honest.
Now think of trans men, and how esculated these issues would be!! Take care out there, y'all. I know it might be dysphoric, but your genital health is your physical health, and it is very important.
such an important video and topic, thanks for talking about this so much. It needs to be talked about
Thank you for your videos buck. You're so valuable to us real transsexuals out there.
This is why we listen to people that are older and wiser in our society we dismiss people that are older And that have gone through things that we could help them with It's an unfortunate turn but hopefully we can regain The common sense approach to life..... And please leave our children out of adult situations
Buck, the second I heard you say "it is not about me" you have proven to me that you are the real deal. Stay strong Bro.
I can't believe he just glossed over, “Oh, and my kidneys are failing.” OMG, are you not taking that seriously, kid??? He not only needs a PCP gatekeeper, he needs to see a psychiatrist.
Yea the cognitive dissonance was wild. "I'm taking a huge dose of T and my T is dangerously high. I have NO idea why. Someone should gatekeep me more."
I’m a bit late to the stream but I’m listening to ya while I get things done!
Hi, I'm not even near these communities, but I Like keeping up with what's going on in the world. You are such a nice man, I love your videos. Keep up the good work.
Buck, your videos are amazing.
Is there any way that you'd consider doing an 'in-depth' video about the similar health concerns but then also the different health issues that happen to trans men and trans women?
See, this is what I’ve been noticing, and thinking if I was crazy or not. The fact that people treat going through the process of becoming trans as a trend, fashion statement, or a game. It’s appalling, because it is NEITHER any of those. It’s a serious process that takes a lot of time.
This is such an important video. Your combination of knowledge and genuine love and concern for young people is important. And the creepy guy you threw in at the end just for funsies was hilarious 😂
Thanks for this, Buck. If you feel up to covering a whole series on trans health issue like this, from your informative and insider perspective, I bet a lot of people would appreciate them as resources. If there are any knowledgeable gynecologists/endocrinologists on this topic - in particular, non-partisan ones, who are fine with transsexuals transitioning but sincerely want to prevent people making mistakes that could cost them their health - it would be cool to see an interview between you and them. They could then provide a bit of (hopefully, simplified! 😆) medical science and support the points you're making.
Your literally my favorite trans youtuber, Buck! Thank you, for always speaking out on this and not fearing to educate us all. ❤❤
u r doing what needs to be done. thank you!
I'm sorry what really caught me was how they said I have kidney failure so easily😬😵
I wonder if any of the medical professionals also mentioned to him that T levels that high can also cause cancer.
This is crazy 😩 imagine the kids who transition very young?! By the time they’re 20 their poor bodies would be falling apart 😩
Thanks for the info AS ALWAYS BUCK!!! ❤
All women that are going through perimenopause, Menopause or if estrogen is taken away your body, the vagina will suffer and adding estrogen cream to the area localised will not go into your system but will help the vagina stay healthy and happy. Three types of estrogen, Estriol is weaker and used in vaginal cream, Estradiol is used in HRT gels and is for women adding estrogen into the body and estrone is what we make after menopause from adrenal glands and body fat.
One of the most honest well done videos on this subject.
Here where I live, if you wanna start a hormonal therapy wether you're ftm or mtf, you have to go through a looooong period of therapy.
My experience was this: I found a good therapist, made sure she was professional and knew what she was talking about. I went to her for months. She made me reflect, asked me a lot of questions, gave me tests. I was very self aware even at that time, I knew that hormones and surgery are no joke at all, and that there could complications. At that time I was very depressed, so much that I had to leave school, because I could not stand the thought of existing in that body (before anyone says it: I don't have childhood trauma. In fact I had a pretty normal and sweet childhood, and I could be as feminine or masculine as I wanted without anyone imposing anything on me). Ever since I was very little I just knew. Always, even if I didn't know what it was. My therapist immediately saw this but she still made me wait the right amount of time, and even though I was DYING to start therapy, I understood that and I still thank her.
Eventually she diagnosed me and I started, Now, where I live, they just don't give you hormones without a diagnosis, and even when you get it, you still have to do exams and wait, do you got a loooot of time to reflect, and people aren't pushing. Quite the contrary, they warn you, which is great.
I then learnt that my therapist had another patient that wanted to take hormones but she didn't diagnose them 'cause they couldn't answer the question "what is a man to you?" and I'm hoping things will stay this way.
I am very, very happy with the changes I got. Didn't go to school for 3 years, now I started going again (I'm stealth),even thought I should be out. I'm confident, never felt so free in my life. There's no way I could ever do what that guy said in the video and I don't know how a real trans person could ever deal with that
Nowadays women don’t want to admit that but our bodies are delicate, our bodies have complicated hormonal processes and when those processes don’t work and the hormonal balance is disrupted we are getting sick. With men it is much simpler but still men also have hormonal issues.
Our bodies are meant to be cherished and taken care of not to be destroyed pumping hormones. If you need to do that because you have gender disphoria and it is your only solution to get better you do it under doctors supervision and you should be aware it may impact your health negatively but it is your decision. I wish women would understand their bodies are special
Thank you Buck for keeping it real. It’s hard enough to keep a health body and mind without throwing all the drugs into a young body that shouldn’t receive any until they are 25+
"You are not in trouble" You're right, but you should be! Buck, you knocked it out of the park with this one, honestly. You outdid yourself. No one says it quite like you. You've lived it and it is your life. As a transsexual man, I'm proud to have you to learn from ❤
I'm glad people like you exist
Wow,Trampa you are the best . You got plenty of knowledge on this material. God bless you and keep doing what you do.
My personal experience being a woman with hormonal problem is: DON’T MESS WITH HORMONES as you say Buck! I totally agree with you. Unfortunately I am now experiencing a difficult hormonal time and I really don’t want to suggest anybody to “play DIY god” with your own body.
Buck, thank you for all the time you take in making these videos. You are a treasure of knowledge for the younger generation who are making life changing decisions without decent knowledge and without having proper therapy or being diagnosed as having gender dysphoria. All the best to you and cheers from Canada!
😂...ending is so funny! I just love your honesty. It's so refreshing! ❤
Hi Buck, thank you for your space and your education. I’m currently off of T cause PP decided to be uncommitted to me being a patient of theirs (ik it was a bad decision but was a whee young lad). Thankfully I’ll be getting a more committed team in IU health that will be more reliable. I’ve been in limbo for months and today sent me through a loop cause I woke up with a period. When you said you’d die if you got your period back I’m here to attest yea it’s not fun. Been feeling like a Frankenstein lately. Anyways just glad to find your page and will be asking for an estrogen supplement during me first appointment too
I don’t hate you. You’re like the EMS warning light on this issue, people - these so-called activists need to be listening here, you are along with so many others, the reality and experience. Thank you for these videos.