@@BuckAngelOfficial Thank you for all you do to help spread awareness and educate people. You are doing important work in this world. I am grateful for your ability to speak from your unique perspective on these topics, as many of the rest of us would get completely lambasted for speaking the truth. You are very much appreciated!
Does that total cost also include ALLLLL the complications too?! 😮😮 omg who is covering all this? Especially the complications long after the surgery...... ypu could buy a decent home for that amount and work on the inside stuff w a therapist instead of the outside "junk" ....so crazy that people are back to labels and fixing up the outside while the inside is also dying. Also, didn't ShapeShifter also use a Dr in Boston that botched the surgery and refuses to fix it?!
Thank you @BuckAngelOfficial for making this video. Getting any type of surgery comes with risk of complications. Part of this issue is that elective surgery and procedures to people’s bodies has been heavily advertised through tv and social media normalising it. I hope Griffin is now in peace without all the pain, & their death hasn’t been at least in vain 💔
Buck, I hope you see this. There is a detransitioner I was online friends with called Yarden Silveira (trans name Emily Silveira) who suffered immensely due to vaginoplasty and no one would help him no doctors. He threatened to do himself many times and used to post on Facebook and message me that he was going to commit beep because he couldn’t live with his destroyed body. I tried to help him and along with others, talk him out of it. He then wrote a post on Facebook about saying this is it, he is done,. and he completely disappeared. I found out later he passed away and has an obituary online, I wondered where he went as was so scared after his online words about sewer beep and he just disappeared. I find out he did in fact pass. He wrote in his last message just before about how the surgeons are responsible for his death. Like the recent trans man story, we don’t know if he did in fact take his life, but if you out the pieces together, it sadly seems this way. Please can you talk about him, and give him a voice? I would at least like him to be able to help others, so his passing isn’t in vain.
I'm 62 like Buck. When i was a miserable teenager, my mother used to tell me that in 5 years, everything would be different. She was right. Why aren't we reassuring our youngsters that everything will work itself out? 99% of the time it does. It's part of the maturation process.
A need for instant gratification or solution is being encouraged so much now, I’m in my 30s and the kids 2-3 years younger longer than me where the ones that where showing this effect from social media. I’m probably still alive because of the premise “this is just for now, things will change” it’s a hard one to live by but it’s inevitably correct, time moves on.
We have this expression in French that is called “ la crise d’adolescence” which translates to “teenage crisis” . I’m 20, still changing but I’m finally on the other side of that teenage feeling despair, and I really feel like this is the perfect way to encapsulate this phenomenon. Being a teenager is hard.
If I am understanding the timeline of this individual's medical transition correctly, they went on testosterone at age 14, got top surgery/double mastectomy at age 17, had a hysterectomy at age 19, and bottom surgery/ phalloplasty at age 21. Tell me again that they aren't medically transitioning minors, that that doesn't happen. This is such a tragedy.
At 13yrs old my daughter told me and her dad that she wanted to be a boy. We told her she hasnt lived life yet, become an adult and if she still feels the same way we will support her.We stepped back and let her grow into the person she wanted to be. Now she is 21 and happily in a hetrosexual relationship. Kids are very impressionable and they change like the wind. They should not be able to make life changing until they have experienced life.
Glad you didn't have shrinks telling you that your choices were either a trans child or a dead child. That's what my sister was told. My 16yo niece has now been on hormones since 14, had top surgery and is the proud first trans athlete at his school. Any friends or family that questioned any of this was pushed away. Worth noting that he has autism and was very active on social media with no parental supervision before age 10. His brother, also autistic, has stated that he is asexual and non binary and has been unable to finish HS or get a driver's license at 19, despite being an A/B student before his sibling began transitioning.
"Kids are very impressionable and they change like the wind" It's that they want to profit from. Kids being impressionable. Kids should NEVER be able or make a decision like this!
@@jawjagrrl as an older sister to an Asperger brother, I am of the opinion that no one classed as ‚neurodivergent‘ should ever be offered my gender related ‚affirmative therapy‘. My brother couldn‘t even decide he was hot….if he was sent to school on a spring or autumn morning with a 4- 8°C Temperature range at 7 a.m., he returned with his winter jacket still on, even though the temp had risen up to 22°C! If someone has no internal sensors for his body, how in all heck are they going to claim to be ‚born in the wrong body‘?!
I'm 37 and I still can't get my tubes tied because "I might change my mind and want kids", but it's okay for a teenager to make a life altering surgical decision. It's sad that his life was lost at such an early age. I truly hope he's at peace now.
I feel you! When I was 40 and after 3 miscarriages due to a weakened cervix after laser cone biopsy, my then gyno told me "You'll have to come at me like a lion to convince me you don't want any more children. At that time my two boys were nearly grown and I couldn't take birth control. That was my only visit to that dr, but yea, it's fk'd up!!
I had endometriosis my entire life. Never was given the option of hysterectomy “in case I wanted kids.” I never did want kids. I did have two laparoscopy surgeries which somewhat helped as well as taking birth control, but at 44, it got worse. Still no option for hysterectomy. Only since I went through menopause did I actually get relief. WTF?
@@ariannawiniarski5889 It just doesn't make sense! It's all about money! Also seems like the quality of medical care has vastly declined over the last decade. I'm 56 now & been taking HRT meds for about 2 yrs now. I'm so tired but so glad that I didn't have to grow up in the world as it is today. Absolutely nothing wrong with never wanting kids & I've never understood why some ppl can't understand why some women choose not to have kids.
Thats so wrong that as a 37 year old they won't respect your desicion. But if you'd gone to the Dr and said you wanted to be a man they would have given you any surgery you wanted!
And my niece is fighting with insurance to cover a reconstruction after a double mastectomy fighting breast cancer at 31 to live to raise her children. This world is f'd up.
@@Cameraman61we unfortunately have not gotten to this point yet places like Boston children's hospital ruining people's lives putting children on dangerous hormones before puberty it's satanic.
We recently had to put down our beloved cat, Mr. C. He had surgery for a blocked urethra in June and had bladder stones removed. When his blockage returned in August, we were told that really the only course was to basically turn him into a female. They carefully explained the procedure, then cautioned us that it might not heal properly, or that there might be new issues such as infections. We decided the most loving thing we could do for our guy who _hated_ vet visits and being restrained in any way was to put him down. I was a mess, and I’ve never seen my husband cry like he did in the “quiet room.” Mr. C was a CAT, and he/we were treated with more honesty and integrity than this young _human being._ God, it makes me sick.
Sorry for your loss. You obviously loved Mr C very much. I believe you did the best kindest thing to not make him go thru a big surgery. It is devastating to loose him but the suffering would have been worse.
@@watcher235711exactly, it’s plastic surgery, if any one should qualify for free plastic surgery why Not women who have children who suffer from post partum depression due to our bodies changing
What do you think the entire structure is built on? It's all about money. From the meds, to procedures, to therapy, more meds, reverse procedures. On and on, lifelong patients. The ones pushing this from the top clearly know how many billions are possible through the industry. The ones falling for it are braindead pawns in one, if not the, biggest money making scheme the planet has ever seen. To think these institutions truly care about your feelings, and just want to be "nice"...naive doesn't even begin to describe it.
Do you know of a more effective treatment for gender dysphoria? Because bottom surgery got rid of most of my gender dysphoria. Yea it's a serious surgery. My vaginoplasty took 8 hours. But worked wonders for my dysphoria. I am really glad that I was able to get it done.
@@wildwaning9427 I can't talk for her but gender dysphori is a disorder that is chronic... like we can have all the hormones and surgerys but we can never become the other gender. We can't change our biological... dysphori can only be managed by transition and make the life better...
@@jennoscura2381*but were you an adult??* Because THIS young person was 14 when he started clinical FTM transition...that is unacceptable. In my mind, you should have to wait till a minimum of 21 YO to be able to do this, ideally 25, when brain is done developing. Many countries have reassigned adult age to 21 because 18 is still so immature in physiological and behavioral aspects. But 14?! If *YOU* were legally an adult, that is totally different. *The point of this video is that this young person was put on the medical conveyor belt from 14* ... that's 8th grade age, btw. That's obscene. I'm all for 21+ doing whatever they want, with medical and psychiatric clearance. Live your life. But don't butcher young people who literally do not have the ability to see many long term consequences! *There have been kids EVEN YOUNGER put on hormones and getting double mastectomies...as young as 12-13. Even pubertal blockers have HUGE risks, developmentally, both in the brain and physiologically* ...And anatomically. It's so wrong. There really needs to be a minimal age limit of 21 imo. I think really it should be 25, but likely there'd be push back on that. *It is just fact that the younger you are, the less able you are to be able to see long-term ramifications, same with old age. Children and the elderly have difficulty healing and are more prone to infections and complications than adults for a multitude of reasons. With kids and very young "adults", it's a concern due to physical & brain development, physiological & hormonal development and health, & the ability or INability to understand the permanency of this & the long-term potential consequences. I'm not saying no one should get it. Just no one under the age of 21, for developmental reasons.* I'm glad it worked out for you but people like Shape Shifter and many others like Jazz Jennings were botched and can't even orgasm...ever. How sad is that? Also... *No pubertal blockers because puberty is CRUCIAL for creating the neovagina* .. Poor baby...Jazz was botched because she had a micro p from blockers & not enough vascular tissue. My heart breaks for her. 21 & over. Period. No younger. I'm glad my state of FL has banned it for minors, including blockers.
“Please, Please be careful.” What does that even mean?? From this video I’ve learned that “being careful “ is only a catch phrase. “Rethink” is a better observation. Just saying. 🤷♀️
I’m a biological woman who had multiple natural breast deformities. No insurance would cover my reconstruction surgery as a WOMAN with a PHYSICAL DEFORMITY and they wouldn’t cover my $13,000 reconstruction. I hate the world.
don't feel bad, you aren't alone. my insurance wouldn't cover a kidney transplant, because they told me i could just live on dialysis for the next 20 years- i didn't NEED KIDNEYS to live. so i'm currently on my 18th year of dialysis.
there are a lot of procedures they will not cover for young hetrosexual women, but jump to preform on a person who claims they are transgender. I knew very early in life that I did not want to be a mother and began seeking permanent solutions at the age of 16.. It was not until I was well past prime child bearing years, and experiencing nonstop heavy bleeding for a year solid that I was "allowed" to have laser ablation but I still can't have a hysterectomy no matter how much I can pay out of my own pocket because there is "nothing wrong" with me. Yeah the medical community is broken at best.
This is what i think is weird too, they will do hysterectomy or more on these teenagers and young adults and often cover it w/ insurance through gender care clinics but biological cis women can't get the same care for legitimate painful medical problems.
Yes. It is pathethic. Insurance does cover some of this aberrations. I am not sure I feel sorry for these surgeries going drastically wrong. They want to put the blame solely on doctors performing these surgeries but they are performing these surgeries because these people are SEARCHING FOR AND WANTING THESE SURGERIES.
Not just seniors.......... a young couple who is paying monthly for insurance is going to pay more than $5,000 for the birth of their child and the average birth isn't more than a half a million. It's sad than young people are rushed into these surgeries so the doctors & hospitals can make money.
Your Medicare is being taken over by insurance companies. What do you think all those Medicare Advantage plans are about? They’re currently at the “Reel Them In” phase.
Yes, surely it is the fault of the miniscule population of 13,000 trans patients who get surgery and not the people in power who refuse to fight for your rights, of which healthcare should be prioritized.
@@valeriedahl Well we wouldn't want poor people to get paid to have children right? If the democrats did what they wanted, the parent(s) might get as much as $6,000 per newborn in child tax credits.
I do not care how talented a surgeon is- They can't replicate the creators design, or have normal biological function with their Frankenstein surgeries.
"Bottom surgery" has been off limits for many, many years. Insurance companies all of a sudden started paying for it after the community 's push for it to be done. Even thought it has always been E&I (experimental and investigational) now it's standard practice. Thanks to TikTok, many people will just keep doctor shopping until they find a doctor who will do it. Those surgeons want to be the first to make it work so they can further their careers and teach the procedure. That's where the $ is.
I think it’s completely abhorrent. It’s a non functional tube, it rarely even resembles the real thing let alone functions like one. You are pretty much guaranteed to have complications. It shouldn’t be legal. Same with M t F. Just a dry, usually very shallow hole that smells and is prone to infection.
The ideology should be banned off of all platforms and platforms that don’t comply should be shut down or be made to pay fines. They are knowingly promoting ideologies to children (who don’t understand sh!t yet) that are dangerous.
And the cost burden for these surgeries are shared by ALL of us through increased taxes (Medicaid), increased cost of insurance (employer), increased copays/coinsurance/deductible.
It's aaaalllll about the money. Nothing else. Is doctors and big Pharma they don't give a shit about gay people trans people or anyone's health. All they see is that green
As a gay man, I want to say God bless you Buck for brining these stories. The mainstream media won't show this. That poor young person had their life stolen from them. This insanity MUST stop.
No one STOLE this individual’s (life). This individual sought out the various surgeons and lead to her (own) death. It is sad, that people choose to try to change God’s creations, because they aren’t thinking rationally.
@@davidadausuel4537the frontal lobe(which is responsible for rational thinking, risk assessment and logic) matures towards 25 years of age. You really think that this person would have made their decisions like they were if more grown up people weren't pushing them towards it? Mkay
@@dalekayataiga I don’t disagree with you, I just simply stated, that (no one stole) this individual’s life as it was indicated. This is (not) an attack nor is it an argument, it is FACT.
The whole "gender affirming surgery has a regret rate of less than 1%" irks me so much because those studies did not include de-transitioners and relied upon questionnaires given to trans identifying individuals!
Also the fact that most of it is done pretty recent so even among those questionnaires I imagine that there is gonna be way more regrets later down the line.
The latest research on this say’s at 2-4 year mark it’s 30%. It get’s highest at around 7 to 10 year mark, but they are still doing the proper research on it.
In addition to the other comments here, I think also that people don't tell the truth. How many will actually say they regret having top or bottom surgery? There is no coming back so why admit you made a mistake. That is the saddest part.
All surgery has risk. Risk inherited in the procedure and risk specific to your individual situation. This is true of the routine and mundane procedures. Having your wisdom teeth removed has a risk. The more experimental the procedures, the higher the risk. Walk away from anyone who candy coated the risk. Get a second or third opinion. Do not be afraid to question. Surgery may be a group effort but as the patient you assume all the risk. Act as if your life depends on it because it does. So sorry this kid made the ultimate sacrifice for someone else's ego.
Wow, death finally came for this poor person. I watched this case for a few years, and he had horrific complications, and was at death's door multiple times. It's so sad. And he's 100% right about these surgeons. They only pretend to care so long as they get your money. They're monsters, and we NEED to finally hold them accountable!
Seeing how he lived in the last few years and all those horrific complications. This is crazy. I couldn't get my tubes tied "in case i change my mind" but they're happy to mutilate this poor guy. This is just so sad. He lived in horrifically and in pain after this surgery. After this butchery. And now he's dead There's no way we're gonna look back on this time in history as anything but insane and barbaric And some of us, in fact a lot of us, are saying that NOW. But if we say that we're transphobic. This is just depressing
Meanwhile I have a friend who was hit by a car as a child and crippled. During his 20’s he became wheelchair bound. Fast forward to his 60’s. His shoulder needs replacement due to continuous wear and tear but his insurance company refused to cover the surgery even though he has to have his shoulders to lift himself out of his chair to get into bed, go to the bathroom, shower and get in his car. After 3 denials he tried getting state help but again was refused. Finally his doctor told him to stop because his shoulder was so far gone, surgery was not an option. Unbelievable!
I am truly sorry for your friend and sincerely hope that they are able to find another viable option to improve their quality of life and that they have a good support circle (I say that as someone who has been the full time carer for their mum who has multiple sclerosis for the last twenty years and as such understands the physical demands of both disability and the care of someone who is) to help them with the tasks that are liable to put them at risk. Respect and admiration from the UK, Bill.
Omg this comment is so heartbreaking.. I am handicapped myself and knows the struggle that comes with it and believe me it is a hard life.. I hope he is well and that he has gotten some kind of help.. plz tell him that a girl in Denmark is wishing him the best👍❤️
I am so sorry about your friend but not surprised! I knew someone who was pretty much fully paralyzed from the neck down. She broke her foot and was in horrible pain. the doctors told her they could not reset her foot because she did not walk on it. But they could give her a lifetime subscription of pain meds to keep her from feeling the pain. Reset the foot and done - versus addiction to pain meds. Where is the logic any more? The medical profession & insurance CLEARLY needs an overhaul. (And by the way that wasn’t her worst medical horror story.) Really sorry about your friend!
The trans community isn't just letting it happen, they're encouraging it and shaming everyone that even suggests that it might be wrong. That's why what you do is so important as you spread awareness. The world is truely blessed to have you advocating for children everywhere. ❤ I hope that soul finds peace in heaven. It's heartbreaking that he had to suffer like that and worse that he was most likely mislead. 😢
That is absolute bullshit. I have a son and friends in the trans community. They absolutely do not advocate for this. Don't generalize. This poor kid who passed away was a sweet kid. I'm broken hearted he is gone. My eldest trans friend told my son not to get the bottom surgery, he doesn't want it. It's not anywhere near where it should be. My son is a male and really the only thing that he needs to get done is his top surgery. I don't think any kids should get any permanent surgery or medication. Stopping puberty is one thing taking hormones causes permanent changes. Rip kid. I'm so sorry that you suffered through so much hell. I hope that Dr gets run off from doing any surgery at all. I hope his family takes that Dr for all he is worth.
In 2013 in Belgium, Nathan Verhelst had his euthanasia done because of secondary effects of phalloplasty. I cryied that day. Knowing important facts from the past helps to live a good present and prevent bad things in the future. Thanks for sharing your videos Buck.
bottom surgery is just basically making a massive wound and it will never work like God-given bottom organs work at birth. For surgeons to do this at the cost of lives is just hideous.
This is why when people ask me why I won't get bottom surgery...this is why. I won't. Top surgery yes I'm working on losing weight ready for the surgery, and planning for T. But I think bottom surgery is so dangerous and I don't recommend it to anyone.
@bicelebi I will be perfectly honest with you, I will be sad if my friend's son has top surgery too. I don't have dysphoria though, so see it differently than him,who I would say most certainly does and has been binding for about five years. We're in the UK. I don't know if our health service would cover bottom surgery. I would guess you'd have to wait a long time. He won't be able to afford to pay privately and I would question whether any company would agree to cover bottom surgery on insurance given it would be quite blatant why a bio female, presenting outwardly as male and on cross sex hormones wants insurance. I know he currently doesn't have private health insurance. I haven't even started delving into options to fund surgery, probably in the hope he'll be content to not have it. Thank you for sharing your situation. I'm not forcing any opinions on him, but the more I know, the better equipped I'll be if he ever asks.
I HAD CERVICAL CANCER AND STILL HAD TO WAIT AND GO THROUGH SO MUCH RIGAMAROLL TO GET MY HYSTERECTOMY SCHEDULED AND THE DOCTOR WAS SUPPOSEDLY SUPPOSED TO BE “TOTAL” BUT STILL LEFT AN OVARY. THE FACT THAT THEYRE SO QUICK TO TAKE THE HEALTHY ONES… IS MIND BOGGLING! Rest In Paradise gruff you ARE SO LOVED! I’m sorry that this easily avoidable tragedy had to happen, but I hope it opens peoples minds.
You getting your surgery doesn't serve their interests. None of us are people to them we are all just dollar signs. Edit : for context these procedures make people a lifelong patient. Hormones cost money. Appointments revisions consultations. And more sinister it is population control - whether intentional or not. Who knows. It makes me sad.
@@evonekky3672 I didn’t know until they were like trying to sell me on freezing my eggs, and they were all just like “ but you’re so so yoooung?! I am 26 and have two kids. its just scary a lil because there is no other hospital in my tiny farm home town… think Pearl 🪓
This is insane & so very extremely sad... Griffin is from my home city in MA. My step sister was his friend. I met him myself, in my middle school class as the most quiet sweetest kid. I met him as Makayla;before his transition. I won't lie and say i was close to him... with that being said, in our class, it seemed as though he preferred not to engage much socially. Never saw anyone pick on him, but not too many talked to him either. Oh so quiet every single day & would not utter barely a sentence through the whole school day. Despite this was a stellar student and always so polite to teachers and other students, never disruptive ever... Everytime i looked at him i saw a certain sadness, so occasionally tried to talk to him(her at the time) back then & throw a few jokes & try to get her to laugh... it was always a chuckle back. A very quiet one but then the head would go right back down into school work. Such a quiet & kind & (at this point seemed like) a very misunderstood youth. I truly believe he was trying to find himself & the reason this sickens me & saddens me is because i truly believe he thought that was the way due to it existing in this nature and others allowing it to happen like this when he was still a minor. Griffin was indoctrinated into this. We ended up at different highschools yet, i still had him on instagram i believe. This is when i began to see transition posts. He ABSOLUTELY was given testosterone & started this as a minor because we were freshman in highschool i believe when he began posting leading up to it, & still in highschool while he was documenting his testosterone progress. Even back then, as a full supporter, and with me being gay myself, & at the time extremely left leaning, I believed still in my heart that he was just trying to find himself & that the people like doctors that should have been helping him with these things, were aiding in the destruction of his physical health instead. I wholeheartedly thought it was wrong, but i was not close to him like i said, nor did i believe it was my place to comment on it. I have literally witnessed this poor kid from a far become social & come out of his shell, which he didn't need to begin with physically transitioning as a child (like he was quite obviously led to believe), he needed true support from these doctors & to be told he is great & surrounded by people that love him & he should love himself without harming himself to do so. Who knows... maybe im wrong but i felt the need to share this because i was so shook & felt a little sick when i saw his face pop up in this video with the caption it had.... i immediately wanted to cry. I didnt have to be close to see how sweet he was & also how lost he was in this world and its always sad to see a familiar face in this context... They wronged him. I'll probably get hate from one person or another for this comment, but these are just my opinions, feelings & observations & its just so sad...
I think she/he should have had quite some counseling before any life-changing decision is made, and I believe there should be a quality standard these surgeons need to meet for them to be allowed to do a surgery like that. there should be correct information follow ups and consequences for surgeons that leave damage. Sure there are risks, but this is ridiculous man. I think we are having a generation that is very much focused on how do I look, in a way it is a luxury problem, what I mean is, in any country where peoples main worry to get food on the table nobody would think to have a sex-change operation, it would be just not available and so nobody would think about it. You get incarnated in a body, it has to function so you can survive or maybe even thrive a lifetime, you mutilate or abuse it it will cut down the years, but eventually we leave our bodies behind. Your body is not you, so why care what it looks like, care how it functions so it will last.
Thank you so much for sharing!! You did good, now he's passed away I am sure he/she wouldn't mind for you to tell us who they really were and it seemed like a lovely sweet person!!! Really really really sad we lost him like this and for all the suffering he endured and the sadness and betrayal he went through..I am heartbroken really 💔 😢
This sweet boy paid just under 3/4 of a million dollars for systemic inflammation, adhesions, blood clots, kidney failure, scars covering his entire body, varying degrees of sepsis and finally, death. Nobody from the Healthcare community stepped in to save this child and our New England trans community didn't advocate for him. In the very least, people, learn from his story so his suffering won't have been in vain. ❤️
Ya’ll are really gonna focus on the OP deciding to be kind enough to use the person’s preferred pronouns rather than the empathetic and valid point that they made… 🤦🏻♀️ You’re part of the problem.
PLEASE ANYONE READING THIS, DON’T HAVE SURGERY IN THE “BOTTOM AREA”! Hey look! Anyone having vaginal or penile basically a surgery near the areas of URINATION 💦 OR DEFECATION 💩 is at such a tremendous risk of massive FATAL infection. I’m a really experienced REGISTERED NURSE with CRITICAL & SURGICAL INTENSIVE CARE INTENSIVE CARE UNIT with “HANDS-ON” PATIENT CARE EXPERIENCE. I’ve cared for many thousands of patients who’ve had surgeries in this area of the human body. It’s an area which needs major anti-infection care. This kid must’ve had a simple Staph, Salmonella, Shigella, Clostridium Difficile, YOU NAME IT bacterial infection. Once any bacterial infection that ultimately STOPS RESPONDING TO ANTI-BIOTIC is in danger of death. Just SAY NO TO UNNECESSARY SURGERIES…. PLEASE 🙏🏼
I have a question for you. What is your experience with hystorectemies? I am an older transman and I don't have plans for a hystorectemy. Topsurgery and testosterone is enough for me. But when you are long enough on the testo you often NEED a hystorectemy. That's why I ask you this question
As a cis gender woman who has had multiple UTIs and related issues, I am horrified that people choose to go through these surgeries, and that doctors will perform them. I don't pretend to understand the mental and emotional anguish of gender dysphoria, but if people knew what this type of pain feels like, how much it costs to manage, how much it detracts from your opportunities and quality of life... It cannot be the right option :/
@@gretas6794 Cis gender? You mean you are a woman, wombman, biogical woman, female, so only need to state WOMAN. We must not let the crazies change words in the dictionary that WE identify ourselves as! The trans-men who dress lilke a woman and still keep their beards are making a mockery out of us women. We are WOMEN, not ciswomen!
Just 10-15 years ago, when I would get questions from family or friends about my trans men friends I would always have to relay “oh god no, there basically is no bottom surgery for trans men. It’s not something people do because it’s just a Frankenstein thing that could end up killing you or ruining your life.” …. To this today. When did all logic leave humanity?
@@myplaylist7007 it goes a lot deeper than that. *Today’s* trans activists are a different animal. And there were none of them around back when we saw so many of our butch women started transitioning. I hear you about today’s activists doing a lot to brainwash and manipulate things. I guess I wish I could go back and better understand what was happening in our community about 13 years ago. Where did we go wrong with each other? There was a moment when things shifted back then where one day you could ask someone about if they were sure about transitioning, then another day, it was just wrong to question anyone.
Personally, I think "Bottom surgery" as a whole (no pun intended) isn't worth doing/risking with the medical skills/technology we currently have for trans men/women. Keep up the good work Buck! 👍
Thank you Buck and PLEASE cry if that's what you feel like doing. Maybe your tears will penetrate and get through. I think sometimes that's what people need to see, to SEE the gravity of all this. So very sorry this tragedy had to happen to this young man. May he rest in peace and find the happiness and wholeness in heaven that he NEVER got to have when he was still here on Earth...😇😌🎉🎉🎉.
My vaginoplasty was absolutely worth doing. It's done wonders for my dysphoria. This December 12th is the 7th year anniversary of my bottom surgery. I still find myself saying "I love not having a penis". I ended up developing a urethral stricture. Those SUCK. It was first diagnosed when I went to the ER because I couldn't urinate. If I could go back in time, knowing what I know now. I would still get bottom surgery. Dealing with a urethral stricture is less bad than having a penis. So despite complications, I am incredibly grateful that I was able to get bottom surgery.
This is absolutely tragic. As an ex nurse I am totally shocked that these surgeons are hurting our young ones so much. I hope this young person is at peace.
I'm a hardliner with conservatism and my views but thank God you exist Buck and your message of sanity is amazing. I'm really happy to have heard your message and I wish you all the best.
It's not for everyone. I am REALLY glad that I was able to get a vaginoplasty. It did wonders for my dysphoria. This December 12th is the 7th year anniversary of my bottom surgery. I still find myself saying "I love not having a penis".
@@jennoscura2381 I hope you will never regret it and will live happy I also hope for your sake you don’t have any complications that happen later post op.
@@jennoscura2381 being a woman is a lot more than just ''not having a penis'' and any disgusting butchered and disguised guy will be a woman in any way.
Back in 2022 someone I'd known in college got a double mastectomy as part of a "non-binary" surgery. I was talking to my mom about it, who's a doctor, and she was absolutely horrified. She asked me "Who are these doctors and what the hell do they think they're doing?!" and my reply was "Well they're making a ton of money is what they're doing." She started to cry.
I KNOW SHES CONTOVERSIAL, but Exulansic covered this young trans person years ago, and she was completely right when she warned it will end being fatal. I fully understand now why Exulansic had to be chased off of UA-cam. She can still be found on Rumble and Odysee, and even if her attitude and humor can be too much at time, it is so vital that she made these compillations that have really illuminated how absolutelly diffcult and lethal these surgeries can become.
Yes! I used to watch all of her content. She was constantly being banned bc she had a very abrasive way of telling people what they didn't want to hear ....which was the TRUTH! I miss her videos.
As a ftm trans person, this is one of the most riskiest surgery I have ever heard and I will never be getting it. It isn’t worth destroying your physical health. Thank you Buck for bringing attention to this!
I'm a health insurance agent, and I can tell you who's paying the other $650k...US! Everyone is paying for these horrific experiments with our 10-20% insurance premium increases every year.
@@KD-rs6xx I usually avoid making mistakes by watching OTHER people screw up, thinking, "Okay, I'm not going to do what HE did". Why won't people take the hint from situations like this? Think it can't happen?
I remember in my 40’s suffering every month with nearly uncontrollable bleeding. Drs just performed painful uterine biopsies and ultra sounds all while I just pled for them to remove my uterus. They never would. The bills just kept piling up for me and nothing was ever done to actually help me. So for a good decade, once a month, I literally suffered. It really infuriates me see people like this that can get hysterectomies at what, 18 years of age, no problem. Screw our medical/healthcare system. I’ll only use them now if I have a catastrophic event.
I'm trans. I couldn't afford the surgery when I thought I wanted it 15 years ago. I am so glad I couldn't because I went to therapy and did tons of research and even though I'm extremely dysphoric and I've been in a binder for 20 years, long enough to have done damage to my spine, I learned to love myself and adapt to life. I'm a good husband and father and that's all the confirmation I need. I'm so sad this trend is taking so many lives.
I think gender affirming (I still remember a time when it was called "gender re-assignment, BTW) surgery is a multi-billion dollar industry in the making. An erection implant costs 20k, for example. When I stumbled upon the word "nullo surgery", I had to look it up, and not only was I shocked to the marrow by what it is, but also that there are clinics advertising it. "If you identify as non-binary, nullo surgery might be for you." While I'm not trans, I can understand the desire to have other genitals than the ones you have, but having everything removed and turned into a non-anatomically correct doll? I don't get why anyone would want that, and I don't think this should be encouraged.
I feel the same way as a desisted woman. I was all-in for a few years thinking I would inevitably off myself if I didn't go full steam ahead. But I'm older than her, there was no accessing these things if you couldn't pay out of pocket, and I always said that if I'm had been born when she was, I 100% would've gone down that road before coming to the age where reason won over peer pressure and propaganda.
I can't understand why people are being recommended to use binders either when it's very well known that compressing breast tissue can cause breast cancer and other issues. Be careful out there and it's great that you avoided these horrific surgeries.
I just want to go back to where you had to socially transition for 2 years as an adult before anything medical was done. After the two years of you were “yes this is right, this is me” then off you went. If you were still miserable, then obviously this wasn’t your issue. But back then there were less hospitals doing this nationally than there are in major cities today.
"... should ever be offered until they can get it done perfectly" Devil's advocate here: How will they get it done perfectly if they can't practice on people? These young adults are practically offering themselves up as guinea pigs and the health industry is taking advantage of their inexperience, boldness and naivity. Such surgeries shouldn't be done at all. They are unnecessary and risky. Tampering with a healthy body shouldn't be an option at all.
He was the same age as my son. Yes. A *CHILD.* Someone's *child.* Where were the adults in his life!? Were they bullied by the medical establishment into thinking that he would self-delete if they didn't allow this? My heart is absolutely broken for the loss of promise of this young person's life. May God be with their loved ones.
@@annamossity8879 “self-delete” as in their choice re the hormones / op etc the effects of which took 7 years and half a million $$$. Enough horrific info on the web and yet many still go ahead thinking “it won’t happen to me” whilst being groomed into the delusion.
Over half a million dollars for one procedure = why the U.S. medical establishment will not self-correct on this issue. It's going to take lots of lawsuits and acts of government. Thanks for your work, Buck.
@@madtabby66 Possibly. Even if it wasn't, it certainly is the "business model" they and the other clinics are operating. Even if some practitioners have misgivings, they'll all take the cash with one hand while wiping their tears with the other.
@@St4rTr3v1Ut10n I would say politicians want it, and they only want it when it benefits them politically, meaning they will get re-elected by supporting it. Once the public makes it clear they don’t want it, which threatens politicians’ chances of re-election, watch them suddenly reverse course. Happens all the time.
@@rlb983 That is so incredibly shortsighted I don't even know where to begin. Academia. Entertainment. The medical industrial complex. There are so many interests that control that influence in government, it is so deeply entrenched in contemporary mainstream liberal thought, that it cannot be excised. The Democratic Party needs to start over if they're to get rid of wokeism, and everyone is too afraid to vote Republican because they don't want to "vote for the mean Orange Man."
There was a woman on UA-cam who once shared a video of trans women talking about the complications they experienced after getting bottom surgeries, but these same trans women would refused to discourage others trans women from getting the surgery done because - despite all the pain they were going through and the ridiculous amount of money they were spending in the attempt to fix the ever present issues - they felt the aesthetics were more important, thus worth all the pain/money. It's rather disturbing that people can hear the horror stores these trans women go through (and likewise, trans males - who not only end up with similar complication; but left with some hideous scars, to boot!); and still support/encourage these surgeries to take place.
One of the problems is if they admit they made a mistake, they will be cancelled. They will get hate (that is approved by the social media platforms) they’ll lose their “friends”
I ended up with a urethral stricture after getting a vaginoplasty. I don't regret getting bottom surgery. It's done wonders for my dysphoria. I have ended up in the ER multiple times because I couldn't urinate. Dealing with that is less bad than having a penis. That's how bad my genital dysphoria was. Most people aren't going to be able to full understand this.
I've had a few doctors in the past where when something went wrong ( I had a severe medication adverse reaction)they just turned tail and refused my calls. I can't even imagine having a doctor do that about a life threatening situation. Sadly no doubt they do.
I've had a similar experience recently with a doctor and all of their friends closed ranks and lied about me to discredit me. Doctors can be monsters. They have way too much power
Yep. Just simple weight loss. I’ve lost 70 pounds. My doctor says “oh you must feel so much better!” I replied “no the pain is just as bad if not worse. I still don’t have any energy and nothing has improved. He just looked at me and changed the subject.
My daughter became my son in the last month. I saw it coming. I'm here for him ❤ I absolutely am against bottom surgery. I'll be introducing him to your channel
Sorry but I don't agree. This person underwent all of this with full knowledge of what they were getting into. I think when someone volunteers to go through something that has widely been known to not be effective, then suing anyone who gave you the procedure shouldn't be a thing. I'm not trying to be unsympathetic, but there is so much information out about how absolutely awful phalloplasties are. They are a butcher job. They are an un-healing wound for almost all of the people who undergo it. If anyone should be sued, it's the people pushing the trans agenda. Telling these people that these operations will be the absolute answer to all of their problems. Totally ignoring reality.
No, I don't think so. The transgender community hold our society hostage by threatening that they'd commit suicide if they don't get gender affirming "care". They were willing to die over this, so this outcome is what they desired. They choose this surgery despite the many warnings from others
@@anastasiae.5338 Someone who wants their arm skin to be cut off and turned into a fake penis is obviously not in a mentally healthy place to give consent.
Since the transition began when Griffin was 14, surgeries began at 17, the parents might bear some of the responsibility. Did they even take their child to a mental health counselor before beginning down the transition trail?
I'm a woman, in my 30's, living in the UK and I was born with Poland's Syndrome - a deformity. In women it generally manifests as having one breast being much smaller than the other. I struggled throughout puberty, and early adulthood. I was told I would need to be at least 20 before any kind of intervention or surgery could occur. I approached the NHS after my 21st birthday and was denied the surgery on the basis of it being "unnecessary". I'm 32 now, still unable to get the surgery on the NHS for an actual deformity, but I've known people who have gotten top surgery under the age of 20.
It's not the surgeons (even though they are all butchers), it's the surgery itself that is riddled with life threatening complications. It's painfully obvious that no matter if it's mtf or ftm the urethra especially can't tolerate these surgeries. They need to stop doing them period!
there's a MtF from my country who was & is very aggressive with pushing his agenda & fought tooth & claw for it. He finally had his bottotom surgery & was full of praise. Raved about how he stretched his neovag in the hospital room & so on. All of a sudden he talked about a necrosis at his new formed "labia", but hey, that's nothing concerning that might happen, ya know. Well, because necrosis is nothing to worry about 🙄 He even babbled about his labia is actually growing back🙄🙄🙄 Now, a couple of months later, he suddenly says, being honest, things have gone wrong, the GAS has been hell ,his neovag has closed. Poor him needs to live with life long complications like pain & colon bag. But everyone who says, he has been warned still got his hate. He wasn't a kid anymore as he had his surgery (30yrs as far as I know) but he was & still is very much fantazising about being trans. What has changed is that now he recommends testicel removing for testing out if you like how it looks & feels before "cutting off the whole thing"🙄🙄 Beyond words, really, beyond words! Yes, you may be right Buck, maybe really some kind of sunk cost fallacy. & maybe still the ongong brain wash & cultish thin, they're in.
If you went to a plastic surgeon asking for a nose job with the fantasy that it would change your life and you would finally feel good about yourself they'd suggest you might have BDD. Somehow this is ok though when it comes to much more drastic surgeries as long as they are "gender affirming"
Oof! Ugh! Vaginal necrorsis! And he let his vag close! He didn't sound like he wasn't totally dedicated to being a trans! Big Oof! I need to go lay done after reading this.
I'm speechless! Some people don't even deserve to feel sorry for them! How is it possible to have been throuhg it yourself and then still keep pushing other people towards the same horror?!?!
I had a non cosmetic rhinoplasty procedure done about 20 years ago due to a deviated septum.. a procedure that I was told would take maybe an hour to an hour and half tops ended up being over 3 hours. I haven't been right since, suffering. And from highly regarded surgeon at that.@@MagpieAnnie73
I am a retired ICU RN In 1996 I was taking care of a patient who’d undergone M to F surgery. The genital region on both male and females is very vascular. This patient had terrible bleeding and swelling requiring multiple units of blood and blood products. Trying to control the bleeding was difficult. They slept all night seemingly unaware of all the treatments they required. First thing they did upon awakening was to check out their new breasts. I’d be freaking out wondering WTF I was in the ICU for Edit; with all the problems with TG surgery problems arising I wonder what ever happened to this patient
Thank you my friend for your bravery and the love you show our children. Sending much to you and holding you up through all this difficult time in history. God bless you and may He keep you strong.❤🙏❤️
I’m in anesthetist. When I was a student, I saw some of the gender surgeries done and most of them do not look like human genitals. There was even a young FTM redhead who died in ICU after his phallo. Any elective surgery has major risks not only with anesthesia, but intraoperative and postop complications. Obviously some surgeries are more risky than others, but I will say plastic surgeons do not give a crap about their patients! they are constantly treating mentally ill people with the body dysmorphia. They see trans people as mentally ill people who can make money for them.
You're so right, I've seen a few pictures and none of them look real or functional, let alone good, and that's the least of the patients' worries. By the way, I'm such a dumbass, I read "I'm an atheist" and I didn't understand how that related to your comment. Sorry, I'm tired and hungry lol.
The surgeon who did my vaginoplasty is salaried. So he makes the same regardless of how many surgeries he does. He did a great job. I am really happy with it. Your average person wouldn't be able to tell that my vulva is surgically constructed.
@@user-is7xs1mr9yhow long after the surgery were those pictures? I know with vaginoplasty it takes a full year for the swelling to be completely gone. Right after I got mine done it didn't look great because of all the swelling and everything. Bur now that it's been almost 7 years, the average person would be able to tell that it's surgically constructed.
All those health complications holy shit. Similar happened to my 78 year old grandpa. Lung cancer, got treatment for lung cancer, then did surgery for the heart, died on the surgery table due to stroke but was brought back, woke up from surgery half blind due to the stroke. Could not drive anymore just after he had bought a brand new car, then he could barely walk and fell over, had to re-learn how to walk with help. All of that happened over a 2-3 year span, before that he was relatively healthy for his age. But this should never happen to a healthy 22 year old wtf!!!!!! If my grandpa was feeling depressed over losing his health, imagine a 22 year old who has barely even started his life already dealing with such bullshit... Rest in piece.
This is a tragedy. This social contagion has effected my family and we were terrified. Fortunately, my family member woke up before damage was done. You helped keep me sane during those months. Your videos helped bring a confused young person to their senses. Thanks so much.
Thank you, Buck, for this VERY important post. I am crying as I write this. Such a tragedy! I am a retired gynecologist who cared for many trans-men before it was socially accepted (1990s-2000s). My work was mostly supporting patients along their journeys, managing adverse effects of testosterone, & guiding them to a point when they could get a hysterectomy-oophorectomy for medical indications (this was before hysterectomies were done like nose jobs). Phalloplasties are very difficult surgeries with a high complication rate, and the result often does not live up to the patient's dreams -- yes, techniques have improved over the years but the phallus is not going to be cosmetically or functionally normal. Still, for some people, bringing their physical manifestation into alignment with their sense of self is worth the pain. One note: this patient had lupus, which may have been the underlying cause of all these severe and ultimately lethal complications. Lupus is an autoimmune disorder that makes any procedure more dangerous, let alone such a complex & traumatizing surgery as phalloplasty.
Thank you for sharing this story. Truly, the saddest part for me is how much he held out hope, but then I'm sure he felt he had to keep going forward. My transdaughter is planning bottom surgery, possibly next year. She is 32 years old. My husband and I are terrified. We don't want her to have complications, regrets, or to become suicidal over her decision. But, she's an adult and has to make her choices.
I think the saddest part is the kid thought he would have had a different experience if he went to another doctor. At the end of the day, it's still experimental surgery.
Buck I keep hearing nobody regrets surgery. Satisfaction is so much higher than knee surgery. Complete bladder incontinence. Sounds wonderful. Griffin Sivert is like Yarden Silveira. Yarden died at 23 and came to regret transistion and the surgeries, despite at one time claiming it was crucial. Griffin went to the grave at 24 never doubting the surgeries were essential and life saving. Two transgender patients, two people committed to essential life saving transistion. Neither will see 25.
Oh man, TT Exulansic did several videos on him and she said there were going to be severe medical issues due to his bottom surgery, she even laid out the likely issues one by one. She's been banned from UA-cam for a long time due to her similar videos, and Griffin responded to her multiple times saying that she was lying and a transphobe. Looks like she was right 😬
Yes people started pushing back against this finally it was the big platforms like daily wire. That was back in the beginning of 2023. But Exulansic was still banned. She spoke out against the trans ideology that she was exposed to at Berkeley. I wonder if that could play a factor.
I was severely gender dysphoric through most of my childhood and young adulthood. Gender dysphoria doesn't cause self-hatred...it's a symptom of self-hatred. If you truly loved and accepted yourself, you would accept the body you were born into. You only THINK your body would stop disgusting you if you were a different gender...but only because you haven't realistically explored the idea that people wouldn't magically treat you better and that you hate a lot more about yourself than just what's in your pants. Remember that shpeal about the 'gender spectrum'? Yeah, it's okay to be a masculine woman. You don't have to literally become a man just because you don't feel feminine. It's okay to just not be feminine. Loving yourself means NOT needing to change.
*What exactly is going on in these people's lives that they find so unbearable that they would get all these surgeries?* Every time they go under the knife, they are risking death. So WHAT ARE THEY LOOKING FOR? Do they just want to look or sound different? With training they can LOOK DIFFERENT, WALK DIFFERENTLY, LOWER or RAISE their VOICES. If they change their minds nothing has been lost. *Their lives remain repairable.*
Trans man surgeries sound so scary I'm glad I stuck with being tomboy and accepting my female body. It may sound weird coming from a woman, but I've found "being a man" is more an attitude and way of being than nature of your body. Honor, stability, stoicism and dad jokes go a long way.
This is heart breaking! No one should have to go through such horrible stuff. I know it was as hard for you to make this video as it was for me to watch. Thank you for doing it. The world needs to know what is really happening.
Putting my political and personal beliefs aside, this is a tragedy. The kid had so much life left to live and it was lost due to medical experimentation and medical negligence. With the current technology, it's not worth it. Dysphoria sounds horrible, but it's not worth playing medical Russian roulette. My deepest condolences to the kids family.
Thank you for alluding to the point that technology is largely what drives social change, not movements, and not "a desire for rights," or any kind of altruistic reasoning, nothing but technology. After the tampon, women wanted to vote. After household appliances, women wanted to work, which was the same time Civil Rights popped up so they were couched together. Robots will want civil rights even though they are inanimate objects. It's all technology and materialism.
This is why it is so important for people to speak up if it didn't go well or if they detrans. With most things these days, you can do research before embarking on something like this but, because the far left silences any "dissent", it's impossible to do proper research and get a balanced viewpoint and, therefore, to make an informed decision. What a tragic state of affairs.
Thank you for talking about this, Buck. We won't hear about it in the news, and we need to spread it. This really helps us learn that this is not the right decision for anyone.
I stumbled onto your channel and I absolutely applaud you for spreading the word about our children that are just being used and manipulated into thinking these surgery’s will help them. Thank you for spreading the word, thank you for being you and having the courage to stand up.
I'd love to see a study done on the mental and emotional effects of having your natural puberty completely blocked, so you never go through those changes at all. No one mentions those effects much beyond the obvious physical battles they fight. But from a psychiatric perspective I'd love to know how this is also affecting the mind as well, and possibly decision making processes. Glad you're covering this topic, keep diving deeper ❤ And you never spoke any hate, just the sad truth
Thank you for everything you’re doing buck. I don’t agree with everything you do- (I’m extremely anti pron and I’ve been exploited by that industry and trafficked), but besides that I love everything else you are doing. You are saving and changing lives. Plus I can tell you are such a warm, empathetic person and I love to have a friend like you in my life. It would be a blessing. And trust me, I never comment on any UA-camr videos or slobber over any type of influencer. One of the very, very few I praise.. As a person, Not an Internet personality. Thank you again Buck!
I use a Prosthetic and I must say that the options and costs far out way the pain and cost of having my body parts chopped up to create a sausage that looks like a sausage.
@@WendyHardy-wo6gl Stapons don't fix the peeing standing up issue or isn't great for packing. This is why prosthetics are nice. Plus they can look very real.
Thank you for covering these issues, and for your advocacy, Buck. Such a tragic loss of life, while all the medical industry can see are dollar signs. Thanks for lending your voice to the fight against what is taking the voices of others, permanently.
The scariest part about the social media context is that those accounts cheering them on and showing interest with questions could easily have been trolls and bots by majority.
Hearing him talking about the surgeon and blaming himself for these surgeons is just heartbreaking, and seeing the intense list of medical interventions.... I'm chronically ill and that list gave me chills. RIP kid.
This is heartbreaking. Thank you for bringing light to this. Im not trans but as a mother and concerned human being, this is terrifying. We cannot allow this to continue.
LOVE YOU BUCK! Thank you for speaking out, fighting back, and doing what you can to help and protect those who can’t protect themselves, especially children! ❤❤
Buck thank you for all you do. I haven't seen anyone comment on this particular fact ....and it's VERY CONCERNING. In Feb 22 they said that young man relapsed on HEROIN. Meaning that he was addicted to narcotics. I am an addict in recovery. Coming up on 31 months clean and sober so no judgement here. But if he relapses in FEBRUARY ON HEROIN why in earth would they do an ELECTIVE surgical procedure in MARCH?!?! There is no way. He struggled with substance use and they proceeded to operate the hell outta him. You really need significant clean to be able to handle narcotics from surgery ( yes they absolutely have a right to be without pain ) but I have serious concerns about this doctors ethics based on that, as well as everything else. To me it's a huge red flag. That doctor saw dollar signs and nothing else. RIP.
What this kid paid in money is small compared to the big things he paid. He paid with his precious health and priceless life. Thank you Buck for getting this video out about what happened.
I'm a trans man..28, still didn't start HRT yet because well...if I fuck up my one and only chance to get green lit then I may never get the therapy I need.. but my point would be is... *never ever ever* under any circumstance start as early as this guy did. This system.. the system this poor guy went through *failed him.* Everyone in his life failed him! There is absolutely *no reason* for an underaged or even freshly of aged guy to be doing this to their body! *The complication rate is soooo damn high!* Your body doesn't stop developing until you are 24-26...and that should be taken into account. What I wish for any trans person, including anyone reading this.. *patience is a virtue.* Start HRT at earliest 18, then let it do its work then wait until you are like 21-23 to get the top surgery..it will have far less risks when you are a grown adult- the older and longer you are in T or E the better! Your HRT will progressively make you more of the gender you identify with and get far better results. I know its though for trans youth.. been there, experienced that, *fuck that shit...* but what I usher you to do if you are a minor with gender dysphoria.. is to build a support network of people who have you back, go to therapy if you can afford it and *be patient.* You will save yourself and you may achieve even better results.
@@jenscheibner792 Don't mention it. I felt at least bit obligated to do so. It should go without saying that getting HRT before 18 or up is a bad idea.. maybe if the minor was on puberty blockers(having no risks to it) then perhaps- but getting upper surgery before 21 would be.. bad.. 21 is the best age for that imo cuz your body has at least matured enough.
I would like to share my experience with trans children which I think is unique. I am a retired teacher who sub teaches. I usually am at the middle school of our district, which as we all know, is hormonal city for children. In the recent past, at least a few students asked to be called by different or shortened versions of their names. No problem. But one young girl called Jayla asked to be called Jay. OK no problem. Jayla was transitioning. The next school year I saw jayla again in class. I called him Jay. They told me to call her Jayla. She had changed her mind. She was simply lesbian. That taught me sometimes children think they want to transition but it could be a passing fancy. Keep up the good work, Transpa.
It’s heartbreaking to see the depth of suffering caused by this horrific practice. These humans need so much more love and acceptance just as they are. And lots of good counselling. People can be so wonderful but unfortunately, people can also be very cruel and evil. The doctors doing this are psychotic. How do they live with themselves? I’m so sad.
Surgery is always a risk. It's always a percentage that you gamble on. It is largely visual. It is. I'd rather have a healthy PARTNER. I know people who have had complications, and infections...have voiced uncertainty if that had been the right choice. Not coming out as trans, I mean..actually having operations. Thank you Buck, I KNOW you understand. It is NOT always worth it and should be seriously considered. They can't actually MAKE a working penis. When you GET one, you feel that it should WORK like a penis. They can't do that yet. Please consider if you NEED a specific organ to feel like a whole person. You may be focused on the wrong thing. A lot of INSIDE WORK needs to be done; and can't be skipped ahead of. PUT THE KNIFE DOWN. I don't think some people understand....you can't just sew a penis on a woman. Being trans is so much more than that.(I'm preaching to the choir, Buck...I've been a fan of yours for a long...long time.) It's the OTHER people I know struggling with these issues.
Lot's of thoughts here as I saw something posted on X about this: 1. Lifelong Medical Patient. 2. Eventually these surgeries M to Female and Female to Male will kill the persons getting it. 3. I hope this person's family and loved ones SUE the doctor into oblivion. 4. Rest in peace young soul, you were not on this earth long enough. So heartbreaking.
Thank you EVERYONE for watching and caring about this important topic as well as thing young persons tragedy. Sending love Buck
@@BuckAngelOfficial Thank you for all you do to help spread awareness and educate people. You are doing important work in this world. I am grateful for your ability to speak from your unique perspective on these topics, as many of the rest of us would get completely lambasted for speaking the truth. You are very much appreciated!
Does that total cost also include ALLLLL the complications too?! 😮😮 omg who is covering all this? Especially the complications long after the surgery...... ypu could buy a decent home for that amount and work on the inside stuff w a therapist instead of the outside "junk" ....so crazy that people are back to labels and fixing up the outside while the inside is also dying.
Also, didn't ShapeShifter also use a Dr in Boston that botched the surgery and refuses to fix it?!
Thank you @BuckAngelOfficial for making this video. Getting any type of surgery comes with risk of complications. Part of this issue is that elective surgery and procedures to people’s bodies has been heavily advertised through tv and social media normalising it. I hope Griffin is now in peace without all the pain, & their death hasn’t been at least in vain 💔
no wayyyy bro ur on here too? Single handedly Effed up the matrix in more ways than one can phathom 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Buck, I hope you see this. There is a detransitioner I was online friends with called Yarden Silveira (trans name Emily Silveira) who suffered immensely due to vaginoplasty and no one would help him no doctors. He threatened to do himself many times and used to post on Facebook and message me that he was going to commit beep because he couldn’t live with his destroyed body. I tried to help him and along with others, talk him out of it. He then wrote a post on Facebook about saying this is it, he is done,. and he completely disappeared. I found out later he passed away and has an obituary online, I wondered where he went as was so scared after his online words about sewer beep and he just disappeared. I find out he did in fact pass. He wrote in his last message just before about how the surgeons are responsible for his death. Like the recent trans man story, we don’t know if he did in fact take his life, but if you out the pieces together, it sadly seems this way. Please can you talk about him, and give him a voice? I would at least like him to be able to help others, so his passing isn’t in vain.
I'm 62 like Buck. When i was a miserable teenager, my mother used to tell me that in 5 years, everything would be different. She was right. Why aren't we reassuring our youngsters that everything will work itself out? 99% of the time it does. It's part of the maturation process.
A need for instant gratification or solution is being encouraged so much now, I’m in my 30s and the kids 2-3 years younger longer than me where the ones that where showing this effect from social media.
I’m probably still alive because of the premise “this is just for now, things will change” it’s a hard one to live by but it’s inevitably correct, time moves on.
I'm lucky enough to have grown up with old school parents 20 years younger than you but my folks told me the same thing.
We have this expression in French that is called “ la crise d’adolescence” which translates to “teenage crisis” . I’m 20, still changing but I’m finally on the other side of that teenage feeling despair, and I really feel like this is the perfect way to encapsulate this phenomenon. Being a teenager is hard.
Because some of these parents are seeking attention and validation through their kids.
@@sophiacalon3463 It gets even better after 25.
If I am understanding the timeline of this individual's medical transition correctly, they went on testosterone at age 14, got top surgery/double mastectomy at age 17, had a hysterectomy at age 19, and bottom surgery/ phalloplasty at age 21. Tell me again that they aren't medically transitioning minors, that that doesn't happen. This is such a tragedy.
Absolute butchery.
1:18 It looks like it's the year not his age at the time. But I don't know when this guy was born so...
NO DOCTORS can make these treatments a success
@@zebnemma According to his obituary, he was 24 when he passed. So in 2014, he would have been 14. This is insane.
And I couldn't get my tubes tied at 18, b/c I might change my mind.
NOW look what they're doing to teens and kids!!
At 13yrs old my daughter told me and her dad that she wanted to be a boy. We told her she hasnt lived life yet, become an adult and if she still feels the same way we will support her.We stepped back and let her grow into the person she wanted to be. Now she is 21 and happily in a hetrosexual relationship. Kids are very impressionable and they change like the wind. They should not be able to make life changing until they have experienced life.
of course California would have snatched her away from you and started genital mutilation. that's how woke things are getting.
Glad you didn't have shrinks telling you that your choices were either a trans child or a dead child. That's what my sister was told. My 16yo niece has now been on hormones since 14, had top surgery and is the proud first trans athlete at his school. Any friends or family that questioned any of this was pushed away. Worth noting that he has autism and was very active on social media with no parental supervision before age 10. His brother, also autistic, has stated that he is asexual and non binary and has been unable to finish HS or get a driver's license at 19, despite being an A/B student before his sibling began transitioning.
"Kids are very impressionable and they change like the wind" It's that they want to profit from. Kids being impressionable. Kids should NEVER be able or make a decision like this!
@@jawjagrrl as an older sister to an Asperger brother, I am of the opinion that no one classed as ‚neurodivergent‘ should ever be offered my gender related ‚affirmative therapy‘.
My brother couldn‘t even decide he was hot….if he was sent to school on a spring or autumn morning with a 4- 8°C Temperature range at 7 a.m., he returned with his winter jacket still on, even though the temp had risen up to 22°C!
If someone has no internal sensors for his body, how in all heck are they going to claim to be ‚born in the wrong body‘?!
@@jawjagrrltrying to steal blessings by causing stagnancy in the life of others
I'm 37 and I still can't get my tubes tied because "I might change my mind and want kids", but it's okay for a teenager to make a life altering surgical decision.
It's sad that his life was lost at such an early age. I truly hope he's at peace now.
I feel you! When I was 40 and after 3 miscarriages due to a weakened cervix after laser cone biopsy, my then gyno told me "You'll have to come at me like a lion to convince me you don't want any more children. At that time my two boys were nearly grown and I couldn't take birth control. That was my only visit to that dr, but yea, it's fk'd up!!
I had endometriosis my entire life. Never was given the option of hysterectomy “in case I wanted kids.” I never did want kids. I did have two laparoscopy surgeries which somewhat helped as well as taking birth control, but at 44, it got worse. Still no option for hysterectomy. Only since I went through menopause did I actually get relief. WTF?
@@ariannawiniarski5889 It just doesn't make sense! It's all about money! Also seems like the quality of medical care has vastly declined over the last decade. I'm 56 now & been taking HRT meds for about 2 yrs now. I'm so tired but so glad that I didn't have to grow up in the world as it is today. Absolutely nothing wrong with never wanting kids & I've never understood why some ppl can't understand why some women choose not to have kids.
Thats so wrong that as a 37 year old they won't respect your desicion. But if you'd gone to the Dr and said you wanted to be a man they would have given you any surgery you wanted!
I have male friends that can't even get a vasectomy even though they have a few kids already and are pushing 30
And my niece is fighting with insurance to cover a reconstruction after a double mastectomy fighting breast cancer at 31 to live to raise her children. This world is f'd up.
Big time f'd up!!
I love America, but such is the American health system. It is different in each country maybe elsewhere they have it better
@@lucianac4388 We have a publicly -funded National Health Service in the UK and gender reassignment surgery for minors has been banned.
What A shame
@@Cameraman61we unfortunately have not gotten to this point yet places like Boston children's hospital ruining people's lives putting children on dangerous hormones before puberty it's satanic.
We recently had to put down our beloved cat, Mr. C. He had surgery for a blocked urethra in June and had bladder stones removed. When his blockage returned in August, we were told that really the only course was to basically turn him into a female. They carefully explained the procedure, then cautioned us that it might not heal properly, or that there might be new issues such as infections. We decided the most loving thing we could do for our guy who _hated_ vet visits and being restrained in any way was to put him down. I was a mess, and I’ve never seen my husband cry like he did in the “quiet room.”
Mr. C was a CAT, and he/we were treated with more honesty and integrity than this young _human being._ God, it makes me sick.
I am sorry about you and your husbands loss. Cats are THE best animals!
Sorry for your loss. You obviously loved Mr C very much. I believe you did the best kindest thing to not make him go thru a big surgery. It is devastating to loose him but the suffering would have been worse.
@@windturbinesyndrome1067 thank you.
Making money at the cost of a kid’s life is demonic
And the fact that insurance is covering it just seems horrible...giving doctors and patients an incentive to do this. And why?
@@watcher235711exactly, it’s plastic surgery, if any one should qualify for free plastic surgery why Not women who have children who suffer from post partum depression due to our bodies changing
They certainly are not interested in mental health.
What do you think the entire structure is built on? It's all about money. From the meds, to procedures, to therapy, more meds, reverse procedures. On and on, lifelong patients. The ones pushing this from the top clearly know how many billions are possible through the industry. The ones falling for it are braindead pawns in one, if not the, biggest money making scheme the planet has ever seen. To think these institutions truly care about your feelings, and just want to be "nice"...naive doesn't even begin to describe it.
We are just goyim to them
I am a retired clinical microbiologist. Never have an invasive procedure unless absolutely necessary. Bottom surgeries are NOT necessary.
Do you know of a more effective treatment for gender dysphoria? Because bottom surgery got rid of most of my gender dysphoria. Yea it's a serious surgery. My vaginoplasty took 8 hours. But worked wonders for my dysphoria. I am really glad that I was able to get it done.
@@jennoscura2381 You said it got rid of *MOST* of it. Can you speculate where the issue lies for that which remains? Asking in earnest.
@@wildwaning9427 I can't talk for her but gender dysphori is a disorder that is chronic... like we can have all the hormones and surgerys but we can never become the other gender. We can't change our biological... dysphori can only be managed by transition and make the life better...
@@jennoscura2381*but were you an adult??* Because THIS young person was 14 when he started clinical FTM transition...that is unacceptable. In my mind, you should have to wait till a minimum of 21 YO to be able to do this, ideally 25, when brain is done developing. Many countries have reassigned adult age to 21 because 18 is still so immature in physiological and behavioral aspects. But 14?!
If *YOU* were legally an adult, that is totally different. *The point of this video is that this young person was put on the medical conveyor belt from 14* ... that's 8th grade age, btw. That's obscene. I'm all for 21+ doing whatever they want, with medical and psychiatric clearance. Live your life. But don't butcher young people who literally do not have the ability to see many long term consequences!
*There have been kids EVEN YOUNGER put on hormones and getting double mastectomies...as young as 12-13. Even pubertal blockers have HUGE risks, developmentally, both in the brain and physiologically* ...And anatomically. It's so wrong. There really needs to be a minimal age limit of 21 imo. I think really it should be 25, but likely there'd be push back on that.
*It is just fact that the younger you are, the less able you are to be able to see long-term ramifications, same with old age. Children and the elderly have difficulty healing and are more prone to infections and complications than adults for a multitude of reasons. With kids and very young "adults", it's a concern due to physical & brain development, physiological & hormonal development and health, & the ability or INability to understand the permanency of this & the long-term potential consequences. I'm not saying no one should get it. Just no one under the age of 21, for developmental reasons.*
I'm glad it worked out for you but people like Shape Shifter and many others like Jazz Jennings were botched and can't even orgasm...ever. How sad is that? Also... *No pubertal blockers because puberty is CRUCIAL for creating the neovagina* .. Poor baby...Jazz was botched because she had a micro p from blockers & not enough vascular tissue. My heart breaks for her.
21 & over. Period. No younger. I'm glad my state of FL has banned it for minors, including blockers.
Dude right
As a nurse I have taken care of 20+ patients who have had this surgery. None of them were happy with the results. All wished they had never done it.
Is this something they express fairly soon after the surgery? That’s so heartbreaking.
I am not transgender, but I had bladder surgery as a young woman and nearly bled out. Please, please be careful.
“Please, Please be careful.” What does that even mean?? From this video I’ve learned that “being careful “ is only a catch phrase. “Rethink” is a better observation. Just saying. 🤷♀️
I almost died from removing my breast implants. I had sepsis and a MRSA infection. There are so many risks. 😬
I’m a biological woman who had multiple natural breast deformities. No insurance would cover my reconstruction surgery as a WOMAN with a PHYSICAL DEFORMITY and they wouldn’t cover my $13,000 reconstruction. I hate the world.
I am so sorry. 💔
don't feel bad, you aren't alone. my insurance wouldn't cover a kidney transplant, because they told me i could just live on dialysis for the next 20 years- i didn't NEED KIDNEYS to live. so i'm currently on my 18th year of dialysis.
@@RobbinGraham oh good grief! That's awful.😑
there are a lot of procedures they will not cover for young hetrosexual women, but jump to preform on a person who claims they are transgender. I knew very early in life that I did not want to be a mother and began seeking permanent solutions at the age of 16.. It was not until I was well past prime child bearing years, and experiencing nonstop heavy bleeding for a year solid that I was "allowed" to have laser ablation but I still can't have a hysterectomy no matter how much I can pay out of my own pocket because there is "nothing wrong" with me. Yeah the medical community is broken at best.
This is what i think is weird too, they will do hysterectomy or more on these teenagers and young adults and often cover it w/ insurance through gender care clinics but biological cis women can't get the same care for legitimate painful medical problems.
But senior citizens can’t get dental, vision or hearing care covered with basic medicare
Yes. It is pathethic. Insurance does cover some of this aberrations. I am not sure I feel sorry for these surgeries going drastically wrong. They want to put the blame solely on doctors performing these surgeries but they are performing these surgeries because these people are SEARCHING FOR AND WANTING THESE SURGERIES.
Not just seniors.......... a young couple who is paying monthly for insurance is going to pay more than $5,000 for the birth of their child and the average birth isn't more than a half a million. It's sad than young people are rushed into these surgeries so the doctors & hospitals can make money.
Your Medicare is being taken over by insurance companies. What do you think all those Medicare Advantage plans are about? They’re currently at the “Reel Them In” phase.
Yes, surely it is the fault of the miniscule population of 13,000 trans patients who get surgery and not the people in power who refuse to fight for your rights, of which healthcare should be prioritized.
@@valeriedahl Well we wouldn't want poor people to get paid to have children right? If the democrats did what they wanted, the parent(s) might get as much as $6,000 per newborn in child tax credits.
They will never “get it down perfectly”. You cannot fight nature and win. Very sad that this young person died in the pursuit of the impossible. RIP.
I think that might be what Buck is implying.
I do not care how talented a surgeon is- They can't replicate the creators design, or have normal biological function with their Frankenstein surgeries.
@@cathy-70
Post-op expectations: Puppies, rainbows, lollipops and cute little kittens!
Post-op reality: Inability to urinate/urinary incontinence, infections, 24/7 pain, catheters and urine bags!
We can't fight gravity.
EXACTLY, they could NEVER get that down perfectly...
"Bottom surgery" has been off limits for many, many years. Insurance companies all of a sudden started paying for it after the community 's push for it to be done. Even thought it has always been E&I (experimental and investigational) now it's standard practice. Thanks to TikTok, many people will just keep doctor shopping until they find a doctor who will do it. Those surgeons want to be the first to make it work so they can further their careers and teach the procedure. That's where the $ is.
I think it’s completely abhorrent. It’s a non functional tube, it rarely even resembles the real thing let alone functions like one. You are pretty much guaranteed to have complications. It shouldn’t be legal. Same with M t F. Just a dry, usually very shallow hole that smells and is prone to infection.
It should be completely illegal, both kinds.
The ideology should be banned off of all platforms and platforms that don’t comply should be shut down or be made to pay fines. They are knowingly promoting ideologies to children (who don’t understand sh!t yet) that are dangerous.
And the cost burden for these surgeries are shared by ALL of us through increased taxes (Medicaid), increased cost of insurance (employer), increased copays/coinsurance/deductible.
It's aaaalllll about the money. Nothing else. Is doctors and big Pharma they don't give a shit about gay people trans people or anyone's health. All they see is that green
As a gay man, I want to say God bless you Buck for brining these stories. The mainstream media won't show this. That poor young person had their life stolen from them. This insanity MUST stop.
Thank God that you didn't "decide " that you're trans.
Repent! God bless!
No one STOLE this individual’s (life). This individual sought out the various surgeons and lead to her (own) death. It is sad, that people choose to try to change God’s creations, because they aren’t thinking rationally.
@@davidadausuel4537the frontal lobe(which is responsible for rational thinking, risk assessment and logic) matures towards 25 years of age. You really think that this person would have made their decisions like they were if more grown up people weren't pushing them towards it? Mkay
@@dalekayataiga I don’t disagree with you, I just simply stated, that (no one stole) this individual’s life as it was indicated. This is (not) an attack nor is it an argument, it is FACT.
The whole "gender affirming surgery has a regret rate of less than 1%" irks me so much because those studies did not include de-transitioners and relied upon questionnaires given to trans identifying individuals!
Also the fact that most of it is done pretty recent so even among those questionnaires I imagine that there is gonna be way more regrets later down the line.
Studies and questionnaires on regret can't be done with those who have died
The latest research on this say’s at 2-4 year mark it’s 30%. It get’s highest at around 7 to 10 year mark, but they are still doing the proper research on it.
In addition to the other comments here, I think also that people don't tell the truth. How many will actually say they regret having top or bottom surgery? There is no coming back so why admit you made a mistake. That is the saddest part.
All surgery has risk. Risk inherited in the procedure and risk specific to your individual situation. This is true of the routine and mundane procedures. Having your wisdom teeth removed has a risk. The more experimental the procedures, the higher the risk. Walk away from anyone who candy coated the risk. Get a second or third opinion. Do not be afraid to question. Surgery may be a group effort but as the patient you assume all the risk. Act as if your life depends on it because it does. So sorry this kid made the ultimate sacrifice for someone else's ego.
Wow, death finally came for this poor person. I watched this case for a few years, and he had horrific complications, and was at death's door multiple times. It's so sad. And he's 100% right about these surgeons. They only pretend to care so long as they get your money. They're monsters, and we NEED to finally hold them accountable!
Seeing how he lived in the last few years and all those horrific complications. This is crazy. I couldn't get my tubes tied "in case i change my mind" but they're happy to mutilate this poor guy.
This is just so sad. He lived in horrifically and in pain after this surgery. After this butchery. And now he's dead
There's no way we're gonna look back on this time in history as anything but insane and barbaric
And some of us, in fact a lot of us, are saying that NOW. But if we say that we're transphobic.
This is just depressing
Sue them massively
"he had horrific (...) hold them accountable!"
You're right about that. And yet you contribute to the sham by using an incorrect pronoun.
@@knrdvmmlbkknthe very least you could do to respect someone’s life is to call them the pronoun they strived to be for ten years.
@@Beserious795"the very least (...) for ten years."
That's a big no! I'm not going to lie.
Meanwhile I have a friend who was hit by a car as a child and crippled. During his 20’s he became wheelchair bound. Fast forward to his 60’s. His shoulder needs replacement due to continuous wear and tear but his insurance company refused to cover the surgery even though he has to have his shoulders to lift himself out of his chair to get into bed, go to the bathroom, shower and get in his car. After 3 denials he tried getting state help but again was refused. Finally his doctor told him to stop because his shoulder was so far gone, surgery was not an option. Unbelievable!
I am truly sorry for your friend and sincerely hope that they are able to find another viable option to improve their quality of life and that they have a good support circle (I say that as someone who has been the full time carer for their mum who has multiple sclerosis for the last twenty years and as such understands the physical demands of both disability and the care of someone who is) to help them with the tasks that are liable to put them at risk.
Respect and admiration from the UK, Bill.
Omg this comment is so heartbreaking.. I am handicapped myself and knows the struggle that comes with it and believe me it is a hard life.. I hope he is well and that he has gotten some kind of help.. plz tell him that a girl in Denmark is wishing him the best👍❤️
Oh man, what? That's terrible!
I am so sorry about your friend but not surprised! I knew someone who was pretty much fully paralyzed from the neck down. She broke her foot and was in horrible pain. the doctors told her they could not reset her foot because she did not walk on it. But they could give her a lifetime subscription of pain meds to keep her from feeling the pain. Reset the foot and done - versus addiction to pain meds. Where is the logic any more? The medical profession & insurance CLEARLY needs an overhaul. (And by the way that wasn’t her worst medical horror story.) Really sorry about your friend!
The medical industry needs to be held accountable. Are they even taking the Hippocratic oath anymore?
No
@@marcodarko6941 figures
The Hippocratic Oath goes out the window once you convince yourself you're doing the right thing. The monetary incentive doesn't hurt either.
No they haven’t since the 80s. They now swear loyalty to their licensing board.
@@EuroMIX2 It's true. "Do no harm" is totally subjective now that reality means nothing
The trans community isn't just letting it happen, they're encouraging it and shaming everyone that even suggests that it might be wrong. That's why what you do is so important as you spread awareness. The world is truely blessed to have you advocating for children everywhere. ❤ I hope that soul finds peace in heaven. It's heartbreaking that he had to suffer like that and worse that he was most likely mislead. 😢
They want everyone to be equally as miserable as them.
Human sacrifice
This is what the trans and now the LGBTQIA+ community is all about now. They rode the coattails of gay rights like a Trojan horse.
That is absolute bullshit. I have a son and friends in the trans community. They absolutely do not advocate for this. Don't generalize. This poor kid who passed away was a sweet kid. I'm broken hearted he is gone. My eldest trans friend told my son not to get the bottom surgery, he doesn't want it. It's not anywhere near where it should be. My son is a male and really the only thing that he needs to get done is his top surgery. I don't think any kids should get any permanent surgery or medication. Stopping puberty is one thing taking hormones causes permanent changes.
Rip kid. I'm so sorry that you suffered through so much hell. I hope that Dr gets run off from doing any surgery at all. I hope his family takes that Dr for all he is worth.
@@marycredeur9540This kind of bullshit isn't helping anyone. Get a grip.
In 2013 in Belgium, Nathan Verhelst had his euthanasia done because of secondary effects of phalloplasty. I cryied that day. Knowing important facts from the past helps to live a good present and prevent bad things in the future. Thanks for sharing your videos Buck.
When being politically correct kills our kids. Thank you Buck for speaking up for these poor kids.
Here's a question: the narrative describes a "man" who had a phalloplasty. If he was a man, why would "he" need this done? Hmmmmm?
bottom surgery is just basically making a massive wound and it will never work like God-given bottom organs work at birth. For surgeons to do this at the cost of lives is just hideous.
I'm on a deep dive to learn as much as I can as my friend's eldest is a trans man.
The more I learn the less I can believe these surgeries are legal.
This is why when people ask me why I won't get bottom surgery...this is why. I won't. Top surgery yes I'm working on losing weight ready for the surgery, and planning for T. But I think bottom surgery is so dangerous and I don't recommend it to anyone.
@bicelebi I will be perfectly honest with you, I will be sad if my friend's son has top surgery too.
I don't have dysphoria though, so see it differently than him,who I would say most certainly does and has been binding for about five years.
We're in the UK. I don't know if our health service would cover bottom surgery. I would guess you'd have to wait a long time.
He won't be able to afford to pay privately and I would question whether any company would agree to cover bottom surgery on insurance given it would be quite blatant why a bio female, presenting outwardly as male and on cross sex hormones wants insurance.
I know he currently doesn't have private health insurance.
I haven't even started delving into options to fund surgery, probably in the hope he'll be content to not have it.
Thank you for sharing your situation.
I'm not forcing any opinions on him, but the more I know, the better equipped I'll be if he ever asks.
And it's all rather experimental, isn't it?
@@bicelebi you don't need to give people a reason why you don't want a specific surgery
I HAD CERVICAL CANCER AND STILL HAD TO WAIT AND GO THROUGH SO MUCH RIGAMAROLL TO GET MY HYSTERECTOMY SCHEDULED AND THE DOCTOR WAS SUPPOSEDLY SUPPOSED TO BE “TOTAL” BUT STILL LEFT AN OVARY. THE FACT THAT THEYRE SO QUICK TO TAKE THE HEALTHY ONES… IS MIND BOGGLING! Rest In Paradise gruff you ARE SO LOVED! I’m sorry that this easily avoidable tragedy had to happen, but I hope it opens peoples minds.
You getting your surgery doesn't serve their interests. None of us are people to them we are all just dollar signs.
Edit : for context these procedures make people a lifelong patient. Hormones cost money. Appointments revisions consultations.
And more sinister it is population control - whether intentional or not. Who knows. It makes me sad.
@@evonekky3672 I didn’t know until they were like trying to sell me on freezing my eggs, and they were all just like “ but you’re so so yoooung?! I am 26 and have two kids. its just scary a lil because there is no other hospital in my tiny farm home town… think Pearl 🪓
This is insane & so very extremely sad...
Griffin is from my home city in MA. My step sister was his friend. I met him myself, in my middle school class as the most quiet sweetest kid. I met him as Makayla;before his transition. I won't lie and say i was close to him... with that being said, in our class, it seemed as though he preferred not to engage much socially. Never saw anyone pick on him, but not too many talked to him either. Oh so quiet every single day & would not utter barely a sentence through the whole school day. Despite this was a stellar student and always so polite to teachers and other students, never disruptive ever...
Everytime i looked at him i saw a certain sadness, so occasionally tried to talk to him(her at the time) back then & throw a few jokes & try to get her to laugh... it was always a chuckle back. A very quiet one but then the head would go right back down into school work. Such a quiet & kind & (at this point seemed like) a very misunderstood youth. I truly believe he was trying to find himself & the reason this sickens me & saddens me is because i truly believe he thought that was the way due to it existing in this nature and others allowing it to happen like this when he was still a minor. Griffin was indoctrinated into this.
We ended up at different highschools yet, i still had him on instagram i believe. This is when i began to see transition posts. He ABSOLUTELY was given testosterone & started this as a minor because we were freshman in highschool i believe when he began posting leading up to it, & still in highschool while he was documenting his testosterone progress. Even back then, as a full supporter, and with me being gay myself, & at the time extremely left leaning, I believed still in my heart that he was just trying to find himself & that the people like doctors that should have been helping him with these things, were aiding in the destruction of his physical health instead. I wholeheartedly thought it was wrong, but i was not close to him like i said, nor did i believe it was my place to comment on it. I have literally witnessed this poor kid from a far become social & come out of his shell, which he didn't need to begin with physically transitioning as a child (like he was quite obviously led to believe), he needed true support from these doctors & to be told he is great & surrounded by people that love him & he should love himself without harming himself to do so. Who knows... maybe im wrong but i felt the need to share this because i was so shook & felt a little sick when i saw his face pop up in this video with the caption it had.... i immediately wanted to cry. I didnt have to be close to see how sweet he was & also how lost he was in this world and its always sad to see a familiar face in this context...
They wronged him.
I'll probably get hate from one person or another for this comment, but these are just my opinions, feelings & observations & its just so sad...
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She should have been in counseling and NOT being "affirmed" - and NEVER on testosterone.
I think she/he should have had quite some counseling before any life-changing decision is made, and I believe there should be a quality standard these surgeons need to meet for them to be allowed to do a surgery like that. there should be correct information follow ups and consequences for surgeons that leave damage. Sure there are risks, but this is ridiculous man. I think we are having a generation that is very much focused on how do I look, in a way it is a luxury problem, what I mean is, in any country where peoples main worry to get food on the table nobody would think to have a sex-change operation, it would be just not available and so nobody would think about it.
You get incarnated in a body, it has to function so you can survive or maybe even thrive a lifetime, you mutilate or abuse it it will cut down the years, but eventually we leave our bodies behind. Your body is not you, so why care what it looks like, care how it functions so it will last.
Thank you so much for sharing!! You did good, now he's passed away I am sure he/she wouldn't mind for you to tell us who they really were and it seemed like a lovely sweet person!!! Really really really sad we lost him like this and for all the suffering he endured and the sadness and betrayal he went through..I am heartbroken really 💔 😢
What a tragic waste of a young life .
There's so much I'd like to say .. but won't ..
All that needs to be said is Rest in Peace 🌹
This sweet boy paid just under 3/4 of a million dollars for systemic inflammation, adhesions, blood clots, kidney failure, scars covering his entire body, varying degrees of sepsis and finally, death.
Nobody from the Healthcare community stepped in to save this child and our New England trans community didn't advocate for him.
In the very least, people, learn from his story so his suffering won't have been in vain.
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Girl*
*Her
What’s with all the obvious transphobes in the comments?
Her
Ya’ll are really gonna focus on the OP deciding to be kind enough to use the person’s preferred pronouns rather than the empathetic and valid point that they made… 🤦🏻♀️ You’re part of the problem.
PLEASE ANYONE READING THIS, DON’T HAVE SURGERY IN THE “BOTTOM AREA”!
Hey look! Anyone having vaginal or penile basically a surgery near the areas of URINATION 💦 OR DEFECATION 💩 is at such a tremendous risk of massive FATAL infection.
I’m a really experienced REGISTERED NURSE with CRITICAL & SURGICAL INTENSIVE CARE INTENSIVE CARE UNIT with “HANDS-ON” PATIENT CARE EXPERIENCE.
I’ve cared for many thousands of patients who’ve had surgeries in this area of the human body. It’s an area which needs major anti-infection care.
This kid must’ve had a simple Staph, Salmonella, Shigella, Clostridium Difficile, YOU NAME IT bacterial infection. Once any bacterial infection that ultimately STOPS RESPONDING TO ANTI-BIOTIC is in danger of death.
Just SAY NO TO UNNECESSARY SURGERIES…. PLEASE 🙏🏼
I have a question for you. What is your experience with hystorectemies? I am an older transman and I don't have plans for a hystorectemy. Topsurgery and testosterone is enough for me. But when you are long enough on the testo you often NEED a hystorectemy. That's why I ask you this question
As a cis gender woman who has had multiple UTIs and related issues, I am horrified that people choose to go through these surgeries, and that doctors will perform them. I don't pretend to understand the mental and emotional anguish of gender dysphoria, but if people knew what this type of pain feels like, how much it costs to manage, how much it detracts from your opportunities and quality of life... It cannot be the right option :/
@@gretas6794 Cis gender? You mean you are a woman, wombman, biogical woman, female, so only need to state WOMAN. We must not let the crazies change words in the dictionary that WE identify ourselves as! The trans-men who dress lilke a woman and still keep their beards are making a mockery out of us women. We are WOMEN, not ciswomen!
Just 10-15 years ago, when I would get questions from family or friends about my trans men friends I would always have to relay “oh god no, there basically is no bottom surgery for trans men. It’s not something people do because it’s just a Frankenstein thing that could end up killing you or ruining your life.” …. To this today. When did all logic leave humanity?
They’re lied to. It’s sad how much doctors lie these days.
I blame the trans activist they should be punished somehow as they are the ones causing this.
@@myplaylist7007 it goes a lot deeper than that. *Today’s* trans activists are a different animal. And there were none of them around back when we saw so many of our butch women started transitioning.
I hear you about today’s activists doing a lot to brainwash and manipulate things. I guess I wish I could go back and better understand what was happening in our community about 13 years ago. Where did we go wrong with each other? There was a moment when things shifted back then where one day you could ask someone about if they were sure about transitioning, then another day, it was just wrong to question anyone.
@@myplaylist7007and the doctors who went along with them
I blame the people in power, because they want it to be this way, and that's why it is this way.
Personally, I think "Bottom surgery" as a whole (no pun intended) isn't worth doing/risking with the medical skills/technology we currently have for trans men/women. Keep up the good work Buck! 👍
Thank you Buck and PLEASE cry if that's what you feel like doing.
Maybe your tears will penetrate and get through.
I think sometimes that's what people need to see, to SEE the gravity of all this.
So very sorry this tragedy had to happen to this young man.
May he rest in peace and find the happiness and wholeness in heaven that he NEVER got to have when he was still here on Earth...😇😌🎉🎉🎉.
Yeah I agree. Bottom surgery is too risky and way overrated!
Taking skin out of your mouth??? Can't imagine how much that hurt.
And starting hormonal transision early actually makes this procedure even more likelly to fail - because there is no tissue to work on.
My vaginoplasty was absolutely worth doing. It's done wonders for my dysphoria. This December 12th is the 7th year anniversary of my bottom surgery. I still find myself saying "I love not having a penis". I ended up developing a urethral stricture. Those SUCK. It was first diagnosed when I went to the ER because I couldn't urinate. If I could go back in time, knowing what I know now. I would still get bottom surgery. Dealing with a urethral stricture is less bad than having a penis. So despite complications, I am incredibly grateful that I was able to get bottom surgery.
This is absolutely tragic. As an ex nurse I am totally shocked that these surgeons are hurting our young ones so much. I hope this young person is at peace.
IF YOU WORK IN THE PROFESSION THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MONEY...SAD! DR'S DON'T CARE ANYMORE
I'm a hardliner with conservatism and my views but thank God you exist Buck and your message of sanity is amazing. I'm really happy to have heard your message and I wish you all the best.
When I was living as a “woman” I thought about the vaginoplasty.. I am SO thankful I DIDNT get that done to myself.
It's not for everyone. I am REALLY glad that I was able to get a vaginoplasty. It did wonders for my dysphoria. This December 12th is the 7th year anniversary of my bottom surgery. I still find myself saying "I love not having a penis".
@@jennoscura2381 I hope you will never regret it and will live happy I also hope for your sake you don’t have any complications that happen later post op.
I'm so happy you didn't do that. I'm proud of you for opening up and don't forget you're important
@@jennoscura2381 being a woman is a lot more than just ''not having a penis'' and any disgusting butchered and disguised guy will be a woman in any way.
@@nocomment5398🙄
Back in 2022 someone I'd known in college got a double mastectomy as part of a "non-binary" surgery. I was talking to my mom about it, who's a doctor, and she was absolutely horrified. She asked me "Who are these doctors and what the hell do they think they're doing?!" and my reply was "Well they're making a ton of money is what they're doing." She started to cry.
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I would cry, too.
That's a very honest reaction to our Dr Frankenstein medical establishment.
Thank you for covering the more obscure stories of the Trans community. We need more people like you in this world.
I KNOW SHES CONTOVERSIAL, but Exulansic covered this young trans person years ago, and she was completely right when she warned it will end being fatal. I fully understand now why Exulansic had to be chased off of UA-cam. She can still be found on Rumble and Odysee, and even if her attitude and humor can be too much at time, it is so vital that she made these compillations that have really illuminated how absolutelly diffcult and lethal these surgeries can become.
Are they not on you tube any more? That's a shame
Yes I remember this its so so sad .
@@GenieLizShe got banned.
Exulansic is very passionate about this cause.
Yes! I used to watch all of her content. She was constantly being banned bc she had a very abrasive way of telling people what they didn't want to hear ....which was the TRUTH! I miss her videos.
As a ftm trans person, this is one of the most riskiest surgery I have ever heard and I will never be getting it. It isn’t worth destroying your physical health.
Thank you Buck for bringing attention to this!
I'm a health insurance agent, and I can tell you who's paying the other $650k...US! Everyone is paying for these horrific experiments with our 10-20% insurance premium increases every year.
Insurance rules the world.....sad story 😯
Thank you, please start informing the public more LOUDLY.
@@KD-rs6xx I usually avoid making mistakes by watching OTHER people screw up, thinking, "Okay, I'm not going to do what HE did". Why won't people take the hint from situations like this? Think it can't happen?
I had to stand on my head to get a uterus full of tumors and constant bleeding removed but this mutilation is allowed
You are correct. Taxpayers are footing the bill for this insanity.
There is blood on so many hands right now, it’s scary. Why are people so eager to do this to CHILDREN? This is disgusting and sad.
All they hear is the narrative. They do not see the results. You see how these things are never on MSM.
depopulation
I remember in my 40’s suffering every month with nearly uncontrollable bleeding. Drs just performed painful uterine biopsies and ultra sounds all while I just pled for them to remove my uterus. They never would. The bills just kept piling up for me and nothing was ever done to actually help me. So for a good decade, once a month, I literally suffered. It really infuriates me see people like this that can get hysterectomies at what, 18 years of age, no problem. Screw our medical/healthcare system. I’ll only use them now if I have a catastrophic event.
I'm trans. I couldn't afford the surgery when I thought I wanted it 15 years ago. I am so glad I couldn't because I went to therapy and did tons of research and even though I'm extremely dysphoric and I've been in a binder for 20 years, long enough to have done damage to my spine, I learned to love myself and adapt to life. I'm a good husband and father and that's all the confirmation I need. I'm so sad this trend is taking so many lives.
I think gender affirming (I still remember a time when it was called "gender re-assignment, BTW) surgery is a multi-billion dollar industry in the making. An erection implant costs 20k, for example. When I stumbled upon the word "nullo surgery", I had to look it up, and not only was I shocked to the marrow by what it is, but also that there are clinics advertising it. "If you identify as non-binary, nullo surgery might be for you." While I'm not trans, I can understand the desire to have other genitals than the ones you have, but having everything removed and turned into a non-anatomically correct doll? I don't get why anyone would want that, and I don't think this should be encouraged.
I feel the same way as a desisted woman. I was all-in for a few years thinking I would inevitably off myself if I didn't go full steam ahead. But I'm older than her, there was no accessing these things if you couldn't pay out of pocket, and I always said that if I'm had been born when she was, I 100% would've gone down that road before coming to the age where reason won over peer pressure and propaganda.
I can't understand why people are being recommended to use binders either when it's very well known that compressing breast tissue can cause breast cancer and other issues. Be careful out there and it's great that you avoided these horrific surgeries.
I'm sorry about your back pain 😭 that sucks... I'm glad you're well-supported & loved. I hope you can find some relief, be it surgery or analgesic.
also I hope this isn't rude or disrespectful but you pass VERY WELL. I would have had no idea! wish you all the best.
You and I both said "survive" out loud.
My friend's adult son, came out at 16, is currently on this trajectory and I'm terrified.
I just want to go back to where you had to socially transition for 2 years as an adult before anything medical was done. After the two years of you were “yes this is right, this is me” then off you went. If you were still miserable, then obviously this wasn’t your issue.
But back then there were less hospitals doing this nationally than there are in major cities today.
@@madtabby66 I agree. I think that's completely sensible.
"... should ever be offered until they can get it done perfectly"
Devil's advocate here: How will they get it done perfectly if they can't practice on people?
These young adults are practically offering themselves up as guinea pigs and the health industry is taking advantage of their inexperience, boldness and naivity.
Such surgeries shouldn't be done at all. They are unnecessary and risky. Tampering with a healthy body shouldn't be an option at all.
They’ll probably be able to make advanced dummies for surgical practice someday
He was the same age as my son. Yes. A *CHILD.* Someone's *child.* Where were the adults in his life!? Were they bullied by the medical establishment into thinking that he would self-delete if they didn't allow this? My heart is absolutely broken for the loss of promise of this young person's life. May God be with their loved ones.
He DID self-delete. It took 7 years and cost over half a billion dollars.
@@theresas740 I didn't know the cause . I am so very sorry to hear that. What a terrible and tragic waste.
@@theresas740million, and how do you know this? Or are you saying he did not knowingly?
The only child of his parents
@@annamossity8879 “self-delete” as in their choice re the hormones / op etc the effects of which took 7 years and half a million $$$.
Enough horrific info on the web and yet many still go ahead thinking “it won’t happen to me” whilst being groomed into the delusion.
Over half a million dollars for one procedure = why the U.S. medical establishment will not self-correct on this issue. It's going to take lots of lawsuits and acts of government. Thanks for your work, Buck.
Wasn’t this the same hospital basically gleeful about making “customers for life”?
@@madtabby66 Possibly. Even if it wasn't, it certainly is the "business model" they and the other clinics are operating. Even if some practitioners have misgivings, they'll all take the cash with one hand while wiping their tears with the other.
"Acts of government." Child, the government WANTS this. They'd do it to everyone if they could.
@@St4rTr3v1Ut10n I would say politicians want it, and they only want it when it benefits them politically, meaning they will get re-elected by supporting it. Once the public makes it clear they don’t want it, which threatens politicians’ chances of re-election, watch them suddenly reverse course. Happens all the time.
@@rlb983 That is so incredibly shortsighted I don't even know where to begin. Academia. Entertainment. The medical industrial complex. There are so many interests that control that influence in government, it is so deeply entrenched in contemporary mainstream liberal thought, that it cannot be excised. The Democratic Party needs to start over if they're to get rid of wokeism, and everyone is too afraid to vote Republican because they don't want to "vote for the mean Orange Man."
I am a born again Spriti filled Christian and I 100% agree that we all need to come together as one voice to save our children from this great evil.
There was a woman on UA-cam who once shared a video of trans women talking about the complications they experienced after getting bottom surgeries, but these same trans women would refused to discourage others trans women from getting the surgery done because - despite all the pain they were going through and the ridiculous amount of money they were spending in the attempt to fix the ever present issues - they felt the aesthetics were more important, thus worth all the pain/money.
It's rather disturbing that people can hear the horror stores these trans women go through (and likewise, trans males - who not only end up with similar complication; but left with some hideous scars, to boot!); and still support/encourage these surgeries to take place.
All to end up with a snuffleupagus trunk
@@GenieLiz That doesn't remotely function like the real deal (likewise with the pseudo vagina).
One of the problems is if they admit they made a mistake, they will be cancelled. They will get hate (that is approved by the social media platforms) they’ll lose their “friends”
They are insane. We need to address that.
I ended up with a urethral stricture after getting a vaginoplasty. I don't regret getting bottom surgery. It's done wonders for my dysphoria. I have ended up in the ER multiple times because I couldn't urinate. Dealing with that is less bad than having a penis. That's how bad my genital dysphoria was. Most people aren't going to be able to full understand this.
I've had a few doctors in the past where when something went wrong ( I had a severe medication adverse reaction)they just turned tail and refused my calls. I can't even imagine having a doctor do that about a life threatening situation. Sadly no doubt they do.
I've had a similar experience recently with a doctor and all of their friends closed ranks and lied about me to discredit me. Doctors can be monsters. They have way too much power
and the worst part is, it's highly likely that they're abusing the fact that dead people cant sue
Yep. Just simple weight loss. I’ve lost 70 pounds. My doctor says “oh you must feel so much better!” I replied “no the pain is just as bad if not worse. I still don’t have any energy and nothing has improved. He just looked at me and changed the subject.
My daughter became my son in the last month. I saw it coming. I'm here for him ❤ I absolutely am against bottom surgery. I'll be introducing him to your channel
I’m not even religious but I pray for everyone caught up in this. You are whole, perfect and complete exactly as you are.
When you said he passed…. I cried so hard… the doctors who did this to him should be sued for wrongful death!
Sorry but I don't agree. This person underwent all of this with full knowledge of what they were getting into. I think when someone volunteers to go through something that has widely been known to not be effective, then suing anyone who gave you the procedure shouldn't be a thing.
I'm not trying to be unsympathetic, but there is so much information out about how absolutely awful phalloplasties are. They are a butcher job. They are an un-healing wound for almost all of the people who undergo it.
If anyone should be sued, it's the people pushing the trans agenda. Telling these people that these operations will be the absolute answer to all of their problems. Totally ignoring reality.
No, I don't think so. The transgender community hold our society hostage by threatening that they'd commit suicide if they don't get gender affirming "care". They were willing to die over this, so this outcome is what they desired. They choose this surgery despite the many warnings from others
@@anastasiae.5338 Someone who wants their arm skin to be cut off and turned into a fake penis is obviously not in a mentally healthy place to give consent.
we need to start going beyond lawsuits, and start moving to criminal charges & license removal.
Since the transition began when Griffin was 14, surgeries began at 17, the parents might bear some of the responsibility. Did they even take their child to a mental health counselor before beginning down the transition trail?
I'm a woman, in my 30's, living in the UK and I was born with Poland's Syndrome - a deformity. In women it generally manifests as having one breast being much smaller than the other.
I struggled throughout puberty, and early adulthood. I was told I would need to be at least 20 before any kind of intervention or surgery could occur. I approached the NHS after my 21st birthday and was denied the surgery on the basis of it being "unnecessary".
I'm 32 now, still unable to get the surgery on the NHS for an actual deformity, but I've known people who have gotten top surgery under the age of 20.
It's not the surgeons (even though they are all butchers), it's the surgery itself that is riddled with life threatening complications. It's painfully obvious that no matter if it's mtf or ftm the urethra especially can't tolerate these surgeries. They need to stop doing them period!
This is criminal. Lock this doctor up and any doctor that performs these surgeries. They know it is a failure.
There will eventually be a class action suit, but this kid will still be dead.
@@madtabby66I suspect that there may be many coming.
Why?
They won't do it if people were not seeking it
Stop asking for it and people won't suffer
It's really that simple
@@WendyHardy-wo6gl
Because people are being lied to
Thank you for spreading the news on how dangerous these surgeries are
there's a MtF from my country who was & is very aggressive with pushing his agenda & fought tooth & claw for it.
He finally had his bottotom surgery & was full of praise. Raved about how he stretched his neovag in the hospital room & so on.
All of a sudden he talked about a necrosis at his new formed "labia", but hey, that's nothing concerning that might happen, ya know.
Well, because necrosis is nothing to worry about 🙄
He even babbled about his labia is actually growing back🙄🙄🙄
Now, a couple of months later, he suddenly says, being honest, things have gone wrong, the GAS has been hell ,his neovag has closed. Poor him needs to live with life long complications like pain & colon bag.
But everyone who says, he has been warned still got his hate.
He wasn't a kid anymore as he had his surgery (30yrs as far as I know) but he was & still is very much fantazising about being trans.
What has changed is that now he recommends testicel removing for testing out if you like how it looks & feels before "cutting off the whole thing"🙄🙄
Beyond words, really, beyond words!
Yes, you may be right Buck, maybe really some kind of sunk cost fallacy.
& maybe still the ongong brain wash & cultish thin, they're in.
If you went to a plastic surgeon asking for a nose job with the fantasy that it would change your life and you would finally feel good about yourself they'd suggest you might have BDD. Somehow this is ok though when it comes to much more drastic surgeries as long as they are "gender affirming"
Oof! Ugh!
Vaginal necrorsis! And he let his vag close!
He didn't sound like he wasn't totally dedicated to being a trans!
Big Oof! I need to go lay done after reading this.
I'm speechless! Some people don't even deserve to feel sorry for them! How is it possible to have been throuhg it yourself and then still keep pushing other people towards the same horror?!?!
I have questions that I’m not sure I want the answer to.
I had a non cosmetic rhinoplasty procedure done about 20 years ago due to a deviated septum.. a procedure that I was told would take maybe an hour to an hour and half tops ended up being over 3 hours.
I haven't been right since, suffering. And from highly regarded surgeon at that.@@MagpieAnnie73
I am a retired ICU RN In 1996 I was taking care of a patient who’d undergone M to F surgery. The genital region on both male and females is very vascular. This patient had terrible bleeding and swelling requiring multiple units of blood and blood products. Trying to control the bleeding was difficult. They slept all night seemingly unaware of all the treatments they required. First thing they did upon awakening was to check out their new breasts. I’d be freaking out wondering WTF I was in the ICU for
Edit; with all the problems with TG surgery problems arising I wonder what ever happened to this patient
It should not be allowed for them to consume medical resources like that - "units of blood". Someone had to donate that.
@@victoriapowell6318 what
Thank you my friend for your bravery and the love you show our children.
Sending much to you and holding you up through all this difficult time in history.
God bless you and may He keep you strong.❤🙏❤️
I’m in anesthetist. When I was a student, I saw some of the gender surgeries done and most of them do not look like human genitals. There was even a young FTM redhead who died in ICU after his phallo.
Any elective surgery has major risks not only with anesthesia, but intraoperative and postop complications. Obviously some surgeries are more risky than others, but I will say plastic surgeons do not give a crap about their patients! they are constantly treating mentally ill people with the body dysmorphia. They see trans people as mentally ill people who can make money for them.
Did the red head have complications due to needing more sedatives than the average person? Combined with the heavy body truma for the procedures?
You're so right, I've seen a few pictures and none of them look real or functional, let alone good, and that's the least of the patients' worries.
By the way, I'm such a dumbass, I read "I'm an atheist" and I didn't understand how that related to your comment. Sorry, I'm tired and hungry lol.
The surgeon who did my vaginoplasty is salaried. So he makes the same regardless of how many surgeries he does. He did a great job. I am really happy with it. Your average person wouldn't be able to tell that my vulva is surgically constructed.
@@user-is7xs1mr9yhow long after the surgery were those pictures? I know with vaginoplasty it takes a full year for the swelling to be completely gone. Right after I got mine done it didn't look great because of all the swelling and everything. Bur now that it's been almost 7 years, the average person would be able to tell that it's surgically constructed.
@@jennoscura2381😂😂😂 Keep telling yourself that.
All those health complications holy shit. Similar happened to my 78 year old grandpa. Lung cancer, got treatment for lung cancer, then did surgery for the heart, died on the surgery table due to stroke but was brought back, woke up from surgery half blind due to the stroke. Could not drive anymore just after he had bought a brand new car, then he could barely walk and fell over, had to re-learn how to walk with help. All of that happened over a 2-3 year span, before that he was relatively healthy for his age. But this should never happen to a healthy 22 year old wtf!!!!!! If my grandpa was feeling depressed over losing his health, imagine a 22 year old who has barely even started his life already dealing with such bullshit... Rest in piece.
Big difference in a cancer surgery vs a not needed surgery.
Anything can go wrong in any surgery and you sign a paper with that awareness
This is a tragedy. This social contagion has effected my family and we were terrified. Fortunately, my family member woke up before damage was done. You helped keep me sane during those months. Your videos helped bring a confused young person to their senses. Thanks so much.
Thank you, Buck, for this VERY important post. I am crying as I write this. Such a tragedy!
I am a retired gynecologist who cared for many trans-men before it was socially accepted (1990s-2000s). My work was mostly supporting patients along their journeys, managing adverse effects of testosterone, & guiding them to a point when they could get a hysterectomy-oophorectomy for medical indications (this was before hysterectomies were done like nose jobs).
Phalloplasties are very difficult surgeries with a high complication rate, and the result often does not live up to the patient's dreams -- yes, techniques have improved over the years but the phallus is not going to be cosmetically or functionally normal. Still, for some people, bringing their physical manifestation into alignment with their sense of self is worth the pain.
One note: this patient had lupus, which may have been the underlying cause of all these severe and ultimately lethal complications. Lupus is an autoimmune disorder that makes any procedure more dangerous, let alone such a complex & traumatizing surgery as phalloplasty.
Thank you for sharing this story. Truly, the saddest part for me is how much he held out hope, but then I'm sure he felt he had to keep going forward. My transdaughter is planning bottom surgery, possibly next year. She is 32 years old. My husband and I are terrified. We don't want her to have complications, regrets, or to become suicidal over her decision. But, she's an adult and has to make her choices.
I think the saddest part is the kid thought he would have had a different experience if he went to another doctor. At the end of the day, it's still experimental surgery.
Buck I keep hearing nobody regrets surgery. Satisfaction is so much higher than knee surgery. Complete bladder incontinence. Sounds wonderful. Griffin Sivert is like Yarden Silveira. Yarden died at 23 and came to regret transistion and the surgeries, despite at one time claiming it was crucial. Griffin went to the grave at 24 never doubting the surgeries were essential and life saving. Two transgender patients, two people committed to essential life saving transistion. Neither will see 25.
Oh man, TT Exulansic did several videos on him and she said there were going to be severe medical issues due to his bottom surgery, she even laid out the likely issues one by one. She's been banned from UA-cam for a long time due to her similar videos, and Griffin responded to her multiple times saying that she was lying and a transphobe.
Looks like she was right 😬
Yes people started pushing back against this finally it was the big platforms like daily wire. That was back in the beginning of 2023. But Exulansic was still banned. She spoke out against the trans ideology that she was exposed to at Berkeley. I wonder if that could play a factor.
I was severely gender dysphoric through most of my childhood and young adulthood. Gender dysphoria doesn't cause self-hatred...it's a symptom of self-hatred. If you truly loved and accepted yourself, you would accept the body you were born into. You only THINK your body would stop disgusting you if you were a different gender...but only because you haven't realistically explored the idea that people wouldn't magically treat you better and that you hate a lot more about yourself than just what's in your pants. Remember that shpeal about the 'gender spectrum'? Yeah, it's okay to be a masculine woman. You don't have to literally become a man just because you don't feel feminine. It's okay to just not be feminine. Loving yourself means NOT needing to change.
*What exactly is going on in these people's lives that they find so unbearable that they would get all these surgeries?* Every time they go under the knife, they are risking death. So WHAT ARE THEY LOOKING FOR? Do they just want to look or sound different? With training they can LOOK DIFFERENT, WALK DIFFERENTLY, LOWER or RAISE their VOICES. If they change their minds nothing has been lost. *Their lives remain repairable.*
Trans man surgeries sound so scary I'm glad I stuck with being tomboy and accepting my female body.
It may sound weird coming from a woman, but I've found "being a man" is more an attitude and way of being than nature of your body.
Honor, stability, stoicism and dad jokes go a long way.
This is heart breaking! No one should have to go through such horrible stuff. I know it was as hard for you to make this video as it was for me to watch. Thank you for doing it. The world needs to know what is really happening.
Putting my political and personal beliefs aside, this is a tragedy. The kid had so much life left to live and it was lost due to medical experimentation and medical negligence. With the current technology, it's not worth it. Dysphoria sounds horrible, but it's not worth playing medical Russian roulette. My deepest condolences to the kids family.
Thank you for alluding to the point that technology is largely what drives social change, not movements, and not "a desire for rights," or any kind of altruistic reasoning, nothing but technology. After the tampon, women wanted to vote. After household appliances, women wanted to work, which was the same time Civil Rights popped up so they were couched together. Robots will want civil rights even though they are inanimate objects. It's all technology and materialism.
God bless you, Buck. Thank you for helping these young people it's so heartbreaking.
This is why it is so important for people to speak up if it didn't go well or if they detrans. With most things these days, you can do research before embarking on something like this but, because the far left silences any "dissent", it's impossible to do proper research and get a balanced viewpoint and, therefore, to make an informed decision. What a tragic state of affairs.
Sadly they’re silenced.
Thank you for talking about this, Buck. We won't hear about it in the news, and we need to spread it. This really helps us learn that this is not the right decision for anyone.
yes, unfortunately, according to mainstream media, transpeople die only when we misgender them
I stumbled onto your channel and I absolutely applaud you for spreading the word about our children that are just being used and manipulated into thinking these surgery’s will help them. Thank you for spreading the word, thank you for being you and having the courage to stand up.
As sad as this is it’s so important to highlight these issues. Thank you Buck ❤️🙏
No hate at all for this poor kiddo and his family. I wish them peace.
It's a victim
The parents are responsible
I'd love to see a study done on the mental and emotional effects of having your natural puberty completely blocked, so you never go through those changes at all. No one mentions those effects much beyond the obvious physical battles they fight. But from a psychiatric perspective I'd love to know how this is also affecting the mind as well, and possibly decision making processes. Glad you're covering this topic, keep diving deeper ❤ And you never spoke any hate, just the sad truth
Keep spreading the word. You're doing God's work! 💕
How come we dont hear about these cases in media?
Goes against the current narrative.
Because the media is not interested in the truth
Thank you for highlighting these tragic victims
Thank you for everything you’re doing buck. I don’t agree with everything you do- (I’m extremely anti pron and I’ve been exploited by that industry and trafficked), but besides that I love everything else you are doing. You are saving and changing lives.
Plus I can tell you are such a warm, empathetic person and I love to have a friend like you in my life. It would be a blessing. And trust me, I never comment on any UA-camr videos or slobber over any type of influencer. One of the very, very few I praise.. As a person, Not an Internet personality.
Thank you again Buck!
I don't understand why there isn't more people talking about prosthetics as a viable option, instead of getting bottom surgery.
Good question! Especially when the outcome is that you, more than likely, won’t have sensation only discomfort. Not to mention the risks.
I use a Prosthetic and I must say that the options and costs far out way the pain and cost of having my body parts chopped up to create a sausage that looks like a sausage.
I'm pretty sure we have strap on's! 🤔
@@WendyHardy-wo6gl Stapons don't fix the peeing standing up issue or isn't great for packing. This is why prosthetics are nice. Plus they can look very real.
@@fellowshipofgaming847
I was only talking about them for sex instead of doing surgery to change anatomy
Thank you for covering these issues, and for your advocacy, Buck. Such a tragic loss of life, while all the medical industry can see are dollar signs. Thanks for lending your voice to the fight against what is taking the voices of others, permanently.
And we're wondering why this is being pushed on children? These surgeons are making millions...
I believe this is the hospital where they were gleeful about how much money they can make off of their lifetime patients.
The scariest part about the social media context is that those accounts cheering them on and showing interest with questions could easily have been trolls and bots by majority.
Hearing him talking about the surgeon and blaming himself for these surgeons is just heartbreaking, and seeing the intense list of medical interventions.... I'm chronically ill and that list gave me chills. RIP kid.
This is heartbreaking. Thank you for bringing light to this. Im not trans but as a mother and concerned human being, this is terrifying. We cannot allow this to continue.
I wish more trans people speak up against the maleficent man inviting trans and female Spaces.
@@vegaanisliveupdates-u7s , what?
@@smullis6836 invading is what she means to say
LOVE YOU BUCK! Thank you for speaking out, fighting back, and doing what you can to help and protect those who can’t protect themselves, especially children! ❤❤
Buck thank you for all you do. I haven't seen anyone comment on this particular fact ....and it's VERY CONCERNING. In Feb 22 they said that young man relapsed on HEROIN. Meaning that he was addicted to narcotics. I am an addict in recovery. Coming up on 31 months clean and sober so no judgement here. But if he relapses in FEBRUARY ON HEROIN why in earth would they do an ELECTIVE surgical procedure in MARCH?!?! There is no way. He struggled with substance use and they proceeded to operate the hell outta him. You really need significant clean to be able to handle narcotics from surgery ( yes they absolutely have a right to be without pain ) but I have serious concerns about this doctors ethics based on that, as well as everything else. To me it's a huge red flag. That doctor saw dollar signs and nothing else. RIP.
They have no ethics! I agree also about being sober they should have never done the surgery
What this kid paid in money is small compared to the big things he paid. He paid with his precious health and priceless life. Thank you Buck for getting this video out about what happened.
Thank you so very much for your channel. I hope young people (and parents) watch it
I'm a trans man..28, still didn't start HRT yet because well...if I fuck up my one and only chance to get green lit then I may never get the therapy I need.. but my point would be is... *never ever ever* under any circumstance start as early as this guy did. This system.. the system this poor guy went through *failed him.* Everyone in his life failed him! There is absolutely *no reason* for an underaged or even freshly of aged guy to be doing this to their body! *The complication rate is soooo damn high!* Your body doesn't stop developing until you are 24-26...and that should be taken into account. What I wish for any trans person, including anyone reading this.. *patience is a virtue.* Start HRT at earliest 18, then let it do its work then wait until you are like 21-23 to get the top surgery..it will have far less risks when you are a grown adult- the older and longer you are in T or E the better! Your HRT will progressively make you more of the gender you identify with and get far better results. I know its though for trans youth.. been there, experienced that, *fuck that shit...* but what I usher you to do if you are a minor with gender dysphoria.. is to build a support network of people who have you back, go to therapy if you can afford it and *be patient.* You will save yourself and you may achieve even better results.
Thank you for warning others...
@@jenscheibner792 Don't mention it. I felt at least bit obligated to do so. It should go without saying that getting HRT before 18 or up is a bad idea.. maybe if the minor was on puberty blockers(having no risks to it) then perhaps- but getting upper surgery before 21 would be.. bad.. 21 is the best age for that imo cuz your body has at least matured enough.
Absolutely tragic.
I would like to share my experience with trans children which I think is unique. I am a retired teacher who sub teaches. I usually am at the middle school of our district, which as we all know, is hormonal city for children. In the recent past, at least a few students asked to be called by different or shortened versions of their names. No problem. But one young girl called Jayla asked to be called Jay. OK no problem. Jayla was transitioning. The next school year I saw jayla again in class. I called him Jay. They told me to call her Jayla. She had changed her mind. She was simply lesbian. That taught me sometimes children think they want to transition but it could be a passing fancy. Keep up the good work, Transpa.
It’s heartbreaking to see the depth of suffering caused by this horrific practice. These humans need so much more love and acceptance just as they are. And lots of good counselling.
People can be so wonderful but unfortunately, people can also be very cruel and evil. The doctors doing this are psychotic. How do they live with themselves? I’m so sad.
Surgery is always a risk. It's always a percentage that you gamble on. It is largely visual. It is. I'd rather have a healthy PARTNER. I know people who have had complications, and infections...have voiced uncertainty if that had been the right choice. Not coming out as trans, I mean..actually having operations. Thank you Buck, I KNOW you understand. It is NOT always worth it and should be seriously considered. They can't actually MAKE a working penis. When you GET one, you feel that it should WORK like a penis. They can't do that yet. Please consider if you NEED a specific organ to feel like a whole person. You may be focused on the wrong thing. A lot of INSIDE WORK needs to be done; and can't be skipped ahead of. PUT THE KNIFE DOWN. I don't think some people understand....you can't just sew a penis on a woman. Being trans is so much more than that.(I'm preaching to the choir, Buck...I've been a fan of yours for a long...long time.) It's the OTHER people I know struggling with these issues.
As always, a human being cannot fight nature, and no amount of surgery can magically change a person's sex.
This was so heart breaking. Thank you for spreading the word and your love to these confused young people.
Lot's of thoughts here as I saw something posted on X about this: 1. Lifelong Medical Patient. 2. Eventually these surgeries M to Female and Female to Male will kill the persons getting it. 3. I hope this person's family and loved ones SUE the doctor into oblivion. 4. Rest in peace young soul, you were not on this earth long enough. So heartbreaking.
I believe this is the same hospital that was gleeful about the life long patients.
Pharmaceutical companies also milking these people who are on lifelong hormones