Masturbation (how much is too much?)

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  • @lucassocci1760
    @lucassocci1760 2 роки тому +15

    This is amazing. For a very long time I’ve felt completely alone dealing with this topic, and to see guys that not only understand these feelings but also experienced them and learned to cope with them is truly freeing. Thank you very much for this content. I wish more guys could reach it.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you Lucas, it's a big reason I wanted to have this discussion in the first place. Please share this podcast with anyone who you think would benefit. We aren't all alone out there.

  • @gw6482
    @gw6482 2 роки тому +16

    Such a fun and important topic! Most of us do it, so it is very important to talk openly about it, like grown ups and without taboos. Cheers, xoxo.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +3

      If adults had modelled open, healthy, taboo-less conversations about masturbation, it would have saved me from a lot of shame in my adolescent years. Thanks for watching, Gabe!

  • @bpekim1
    @bpekim1 9 місяців тому

    The best discussion on this subject matter and the place it has in peoples’ lives that I have ever heard. And I’ve heard a lot of it. Thank you guys for your fine collaboration.

  • @spectroman71
    @spectroman71 2 роки тому +49

    Thanks for this. I've struggled with watching my partner masturbate much more often alone than during sex with me, but this talk helped me understand that it's okay for him to have his own fantasies or his own timeline that is different than when he's with me. I completely agree not to rely on porn - it's desensitizing. I think it's great to use your own brain power to fantasize as much as possible, including remembering experiences that have already happened, as was mentioned. It does work.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +4

      Glad that you found it helpful, Patrick. My imagination runs wild, and it can be really fun. Sometimes I'll start with porn, but then let my imagination take over. Thanks for sharing your comments with us 😊

    • @philiphills4623
      @philiphills4623 Рік тому +1

      ​@Keith Sullivan my old man

    • @Bob-ml1mv
      @Bob-ml1mv 11 місяців тому

      @@WellismoCoaching just my imagination mostly

  • @christopherauretta3438
    @christopherauretta3438 2 роки тому +23

    A brilliant, lucid, enlightening and liberating discussion between the two of you. What an important topic to explore. On a more personal note, your channel helps me to grow in self-understanding and joy. Thank you.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому

      Thank you so much Christopher! Both Craig and I love talking about sex and relationships so we always have lots of fun here. Glad you find it helpful ! Thanks for watching 🙏🏼

  • @dimitriosdaskalakis6127
    @dimitriosdaskalakis6127 Рік тому +10

    When i was in my teens, I used to masturbate up to 4 - 5 times a day. Energy levels (among other things) as a teenager were far greater than say as a man in his 50s or 60s (I just turned 60 and go through phases of masturbating once a day for about 4-5 days, then taking a break). The urge is less now, but using my sexual imagination by choice really helps to get in the mood.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +3

      Sounds very similar to my frequency. I use imagination more now, like I used to back in my teens. It's so much more fun to create situations where I'm the "director" of my own fantasy

    • @reecezirlott9058
      @reecezirlott9058 Рік тому +3

      I'm a 62 year old... and I've been masturbating since way before I actually had sperm/ejaculate.... I was an only child... but had older male cousins stay with my family during summers when I was 7, 8, 9 years old... they taught me the pleasures of masturbation. I've been masturbating at least once a day (even while in relationships) since I can remember. Now that I am in my 60's, I thought that I was 'weird' or ???? Glad to find that other 'older' men do this as well.

    • @johnholden3907
      @johnholden3907 Рік тому

      ​@@reecezirlott9058good on ya

    • @ulicesortega3271
      @ulicesortega3271 Рік тому

      @@reecezirlott9058 I love your story I also started before i has ny first ejaculation and since then I am 41 it feels great

    • @Patrick.Brackett.
      @Patrick.Brackett. 8 місяців тому

      😊​@@reecezirlott9058

  • @dbisamazing84
    @dbisamazing84 2 роки тому +18

    This is a very interesting topic indeed. There's no shame, whether you're single or already in a relationship or marriage. As long as people practice responsibly without hurting themselves or other people, all is fine. I do wonder what your thoughts are on "Edging" ?, which has really caught on as a more advanced, but highly addictive form of masturbation. Would make for an interesting video in future.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +8

      Edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink (or "edge") of ejaculation, but then to stop for a few seconds or minutes until the climax cools down a bit- then start again. Basically it's about delaying the orgasm. There are many reasons people may do this such as orgasm control, prolonging ejaculation, or simply because it feels good. It would make for a nice "part 2" if we ever decided to re-visit this one. Thanks for the suggestion!

    • @jackmason4029
      @jackmason4029 Рік тому +1

      An edging video? Sounds like an Andy Warhol event.

  • @lelandhurtjr6308
    @lelandhurtjr6308 Рік тому +6

    An excellent discussion and educational. Much positive energy to consider.
    Thank both of you for your input and excellent advice regarding masturbation!
    I will be following your vlog as this was initial discovery of your channel.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      Great! Glad to have you here :) Thanks for joining us

  • @MM-co4lf
    @MM-co4lf 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this thoughtful discussion. I really learned a lot.

    • @GayMenGoingDeeper
      @GayMenGoingDeeper  7 місяців тому +1

      You're very welcome! We're glad you found the discussion valuable. Welcome to our podcast.😊

  • @70mmgomp
    @70mmgomp Рік тому +4

    Hey Guys thanks for your podcast! My impression as an active 67 year old gay man is people at any age are scared of their sexuality! Hugs Keith xxx

    • @ulicesortega3271
      @ulicesortega3271 Рік тому

      your absolutely right 🤝🏻🛌🏼✊🏻💦💦

    • @Bob-ml1mv
      @Bob-ml1mv 11 місяців тому

      When I first started I couldn’t stop now down to two days in a row
      Wearing loose boxers help.?.

  • @nandoism
    @nandoism 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for creating this episode...fab topic!

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому

      Thanks Nando! It's be a long time cumming... (sorry couldn't resist!😅) Glad you enjoyed.

  • @joshedwards1493
    @joshedwards1493 Рік тому +8

    I can edge for hours and hours and it feels just amazing 🤩

    • @ShawnBaker-q3f
      @ShawnBaker-q3f 4 місяці тому +1

      Masterbate together with another live 6:44 6:49 6:50 6:52 6:53 6:54 6:55 6:56

    • @timmogreen6849
      @timmogreen6849 2 місяці тому

      Edging is the best - its next level. I can't get enough!
      🌟💪😃🌟

  • @datatwo7405
    @datatwo7405 Рік тому +5

    Having grown up in a conservative, low educated, religious town the most if not only damage inflicted upon me during puberty was the horrendous guilt and shame laid on me by the church. It was torture. Yet, I still did it roughly every day, trying hard not to. Sometimes I managed to go a day, but then the next day that thang hanging down there just had more power over me than anything else. I didn't get over all that until I was in my early 20s.

    • @dontran998
      @dontran998 Рік тому

      Same here
      I did feel guilty each time I masturbated

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      Check out this episode as well: ua-cam.com/video/t89QYN4fcqI/v-deo.html

  • @jackmason4029
    @jackmason4029 Рік тому +4

    That's why I'm here. I hope they discuss the health benefits of extreme edging.

  • @fraichot
    @fraichot Рік тому

    Merci!

  • @charlesteague7658
    @charlesteague7658 Рік тому +4

    Thank you SO much for a much needed topic, on a personal level. I needed reassurance about approaching self pleasure and rediscovering how to take time to enjoy myself and how I can reap the benefits of self pleasure. Once again, thank you!

  • @mikstirr3117
    @mikstirr3117 Рік тому +3

    What are they wearing below the camera ?

  • @ivanrodriguez268
    @ivanrodriguez268 2 роки тому +26

    the problem is not masturbation but the pornography which makes sex unrealistic and people go around thinking that's how it should be.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +7

      💯 Much of porn amplifies unrealistic standards about body types, performance, etc. HOWEVER, I will also say from my own research ( 😉) there's also porn out there that reflects more "realistic" (whatever that is for you) body types, types of sex, etc. We just gotta do a little extra effort to find it.

    • @jackmason4029
      @jackmason4029 Рік тому

      @@WellismoCoaching Not really. It ain't hard to find the most wonderful disgusting practices on line. Tell me 2ha5 you want And I will find it for you 8n two minutes. Better yet, ask a 12 year old kid which are the best places to find kinky stuff. 11 is the typical age for kids to discover the wonder's of pornography. I was about that age, but had to use my imagination to spot the wall above me. Sadly, real guys have never provided the thrill that I can get from my old friend, my right fist. Covid shutdowns were the perfect times to practice edging. I'm proudly not religious, but "who" gave us that ability to entertain ourselves? Who installed our plumbing in his own image? Way to go entity, burp that thing!

    • @dabigd1860
      @dabigd1860 Рік тому +2

      @Michael @ Wellismo Coaching EXACTLY. I think people GIVE P0RN TOO MUCH POWER nowadays. Like it's always the default excuse for everything that ails human relationships interactions and s8x. I don't it's necessarily a fair or comprehensive excuse or reasoning. People are losing their "people skills" and socialization skills due to all of those other forms of social media and technology. Those are poisoning our social interactions is much more. Changing Gender roles and expectations have also compromised relationships. Even changing family structures as well.

  • @sebastiansauve3752
    @sebastiansauve3752 Рік тому +81

    I may be a naughty, but this talk is getting me boned up, lol

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +21

      There's no shame in that. Arousal is a wonderful thing. Glad you are enjoying the show ❤

    • @Sethrocksalot
      @Sethrocksalot Рік тому +10

      I guess I'm naughty too 😂

    • @believer5917
      @believer5917 Рік тому +14

      I’m hard as a rock listening to this.

    • @Carlos-rp5ei
      @Carlos-rp5ei Рік тому +4

      Hand massage,thats it!

    • @pauldeangelis7481
      @pauldeangelis7481 Рік тому +7

      Sebastian, we’re all naughty… yo

  • @richardh8355
    @richardh8355 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for all this information. I have performance anxiety when with my partner

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +1

      I am working on an episode about that in the future. Stay tuned.

  • @PericlesEmmanuel
    @PericlesEmmanuel Рік тому +3

    Thank You so much for post this very EDUCATIONAL podcast video!! SPECIALLY!! When I notice in many networks, have many videos of religious nuts trying so hard to demonize/criminalize masturbation, spreading fallacies and fear, saying masturbation is evil activity. Making you get way from God. Not masturbating feels better you preserve more energy for yourself, respecting God laws and for the procreation. Masturbation watching porn is the WORSE thing you can do ever in your life and bla bla bla!! I watched the whole video. I learned a lot good and interesting things. And I love in it!! I'm following both guys now at Instagram, Congratulations!! Thank you both, for Educating people saving them for the ignorance. Greetings from Huntington Beach the Brazilian Jazz Singer. 😀👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for the support. We agree that there's definitely a way to enjoy all these things without it becoming "BAD" for you. Thanks for the love!

    • @PericlesEmmanuel
      @PericlesEmmanuel Рік тому

      @@WellismoCoaching You're Welcome!!

  • @stevenvidale7501
    @stevenvidale7501 Рік тому +9

    I came across this podcast by accident on a bus trip home from visiting my family and (It was ar 330 in the morning) decided to watch it. I'll start off with, I LOVE MY PENIS! I oove the feeling of masterbating. One thing I'm glad you takked about was the affects it can have on a relationship. My ex and I had a totally ooen relationship. We both feel that it is impossible for you to be everything to your partner sexualty. So when you constrain their desires with monogamy, you are setting yourselves up to have one of you ch eww at on the other. We were completely open and honest about who we slept with and has no sexrets. Because of that, sex was never an issue in the relationship. We both enjoyed having sex and talking about the adventures we would have. Sometimes we even acted them out. We had an amazing sex life because sex was never an issue between us.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +2

      That's amazing! Thanks for sharing your story 🌈🍆

  • @Richard-zm6pt
    @Richard-zm6pt Рік тому +1

    This just occurred to me, listening to your scenarios (around 15.20), and that is that when you speak of work, you only address a kind of white-collar, meeting-oriented work. Your discussion seems to exclude the blue-collar or laboring occupations that many people will be in, or even the professions that have people on their feet and physically active most of the work day. That's just an observation and I wonder if you are aware of that or if it matters. Is it a matter of your target audience? I'm enjoying your thoughts on this topic and am learning a lot. I think there is a self-image question with masturbation based on moral questions or doubts about the nature of some fantasies, and there are probably age-related issues also tied to image.

  • @msem6136
    @msem6136 Рік тому +3

    Great discussion guys!! 👍👍
    I've always wondered if gay guys are more comfortable with masturbation, because it can be a big part of our sex lives with partners.
    But obviously not.... looks like guilt, doubt or shame can exist everywhere.
    Me: I've never felt the negatives. To me I've only ever seen masturbation as super fun, amazingly sensual, naturally exciting and totally fulfilling that puts me in touch with my body.
    For example I love being able to just witness and observe how my breathing changes as I get more aroused and closer to the point of no return. Or how I can surprise myself during some quiet time with moans and other noises or words....
    It's awesome. Masturbation for me is best summed up by the jingle. Once you pop.... the fun don't stop! 😉👍

  • @dirk2655
    @dirk2655 Рік тому +2

    I do think there is a limit...because you are burning calories, you must rest (despite of restlessness, so yah, the US has a masterbation soap, joking) and winters in harsh climates are severe. Consequently, nutrition is very important and access to diverse foods otherwise you run into issues like anemia. Take your vitamins, eat well, don't over work your body, clear the pipes and allow your body to rest, them jewels like diamonds need a lot of rest too. Notice that those that workout most masterbate less...not sure that's true but it does sound like working out too is made for relaxing and one is less on the edge. So yes, do maintain a workout routine, a facial routine and take care of you first. Masturbating has nothing to do with cheating it has more to do with self-awareness and safety, checking everything is working normal. Hormones are not blind, they're all over your body. Have you heard that expression, Men are Jane and women are Tarzan. Now we need the Mary Jane Shrine..perhaps in the middle of Hollywood or Tulum.

    • @jackmason4029
      @jackmason4029 Рік тому

      I have never heard about Jane before, but in show business they say "All actress are more than woman, all actors are less than men." That reminds me of that old musical Footsteps on the Ceiling. Now that's entertainment.

  • @dirk2655
    @dirk2655 Рік тому +2

    I would go with the romantic approach, send flowers, chocolate and a bottle of T (joking) and create a starting point...something new or something you both prefer or something different. I would sooner say, be with the moment: each moment and second is different and most expect a positive response when moving along and through the act vs the neutral or the incognizant that might question the moment.

  • @htarceno
    @htarceno Рік тому +1

    Thank you

  • @butchie54
    @butchie54 Рік тому +1

    What happens if you don't masturbate and sexual interest has declined over the past 2 years?

    • @GayMenGoingDeeper
      @GayMenGoingDeeper  Рік тому +1

      Are you going through a big transition in your life? How are you stress levels? Have you had your testosterone checked?

    • @jackmason4029
      @jackmason4029 Рік тому

      Don't masturbate? Your balls turn blue.

  • @dougr.2245
    @dougr.2245 Рік тому +1

    at 73 years old is three times a week too much?

    • @Bob-ml1mv
      @Bob-ml1mv 11 місяців тому

      @mstrsims2 what about 58years old.?.

  • @src3360
    @src3360 Рік тому +9

    My bf masturbates every morning. He does it in the shower. I tried to help or surprise him and jump in the shower to give a helping hand but he never enjoyed that. It used to kinda bother me, I thought I was doing something wrong but he just simply enjoyed his alone time in the morning! He gets up early for work {i hate getting up early} he works out then showers, so im not even awake usually when he masturbates. We also have sex often so it isnt slowing him down in libido.
    Bcuz we have sex so much I dont need to masturbate. Hardly ever. We have talked about my lack of masturbation a few times. Since we are having sex so often I just dont need to, id rub myself raw lol Weve ben together 8 years, Im 38 he is 45. So we have learned what each other enjoys and gets off to. I dont think you brought up testosterone levels and their role in libido but weve had our hormone levels checked and we are both on the high end of the spectrum. It can dip as we age...

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +2

      I'll be putting together an episode on that topic in the coming months so stay tuned!

    • @veemurk2304
      @veemurk2304 Рік тому

      This is also important! I finally talked to my physician and asked to have my hormone levels checked, mostly due to low energy constantly and weight gain. Turns out my testosterone levels were HALF of the acceptable low end of the chart!!

    • @src3360
      @src3360 Рік тому +1

      @@veemurk2304
      So glad you got checked! Many MDs don't talk about "andropause" with men but our levels naturally decline with age, for various reasons. My bf is an MD and he has to jump thru hoops with insurance to cover labs and other testing.
      Are you feeling better and losing weight since you started? What is your T at now? Are you doing weekly shots or a pellet?

    • @veemurk2304
      @veemurk2304 Рік тому +1

      @src3360 I'm glad I did too. It's only been roughly 4wks with injections q 14 days. Seems to help, but my body is definitely still adjusting and I have lost some weight nothing significant but it's a progression. I lucked out my insurance covered it!

  • @imeanithonest5704
    @imeanithonest5704 Рік тому +4

    Woody Allen was right.
    it's sex with somebody I love.😁

  • @carlorizzo827
    @carlorizzo827 Рік тому +2

    Shucks i need sex therapy😖 I'll share one factoid, totally mechanical: After ejaculation, the prostate is depleted. It takes 3 days to restock the seminal fluid. Some recommend waiting 3 days for a more vigorous climax. As anyone learns from operating a turkey baster, we get a more vigorous squirt when the bulb is full. If it's partially full, the muscles have to work harder to achieve a comparable squirt. Repetitive overuse might not be a problem in youth. Long run could lead to burn out. Not that i adhere to that! The compulsion is too strong. Insomnia is my primary incentive

  • @emmanuelawitin4290
    @emmanuelawitin4290 Рік тому +3

    I do it twice a day.

  • @InTeCredo
    @InTeCredo Рік тому +1

    Well, 50-minute length is too much for me to sit and listen to all of discussions. Best to break it into the separate topics...

  • @philmcdonald6088
    @philmcdonald6088 Рік тому +7

    sex pleasure is a human right.

  • @aveuch
    @aveuch 2 роки тому +1

    12:48 how would one reverse this conditioning?... Asking for a friend.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching 2 роки тому +4

      Practice other techniques. Try different content if you're only using the same one repeatedly. Or challenge yourself to use your imagination instead. Think up wild fantasies in your mind or even recall some of your sexiest moments and use your imagination to relive it. Your brain wants to do what is easy, so you'll have to override that programming if you want to diversify your portfolio.

    • @WhatsUporDown
      @WhatsUporDown Рік тому

      @@WellismoCoaching yes, well said!

  • @vaughnwebb8704
    @vaughnwebb8704 Рік тому

    Masturbation on the whole always get negative views all because it's never a conversation being brought up among friends or just as a simple way of expressing ourselves as sexual beings,many times some look at u strange wen I mention the word masturbate,whatever means u choose to pleasure yourself is entirely up to u,we are in the age of technologies and new ideas,it's time to throw out the old taboo of discussing sex.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      And yet the vast majority of us do it.... It seems natural to talk about something we all do.

  • @dalemettee1147
    @dalemettee1147 Рік тому

    First off, I think that Craig is really cute. Second, do both of you guys practice what you preach. As a senior (80), I do this practice at least once a day. Me and porn scenes are very familiar with each other.

  • @FranciscoRaquiza
    @FranciscoRaquiza Рік тому +5

    I love it, I do it whenever I want it 😂

  • @kennethhoffman2511
    @kennethhoffman2511 Рік тому

    I came out Sept '99 and I have not dated at all because I am ugly and I don't like myself however I am a hopeless romantic and I don't one night stand and I live in a small town. I am hopeless 😞

    • @GayMenGoingDeeper
      @GayMenGoingDeeper  Рік тому +4

      Sending you a hug and some extra love Kenneth. What your feeling sounds really hard and you deserve to feel better than that ❤️

    • @glennsepulveda4856
      @glennsepulveda4856 Рік тому

      Painting keeps the horny bugs at bay..🤔

    • @dougr.2245
      @dougr.2245 Рік тому +1

      There's someone out there for everyone. Don't give up. Try online & make a well thought out profile. One guy's ugly is someone else's manly & hot.

    • @carlorizzo827
      @carlorizzo827 Рік тому

      That's poignant. I have massive sex issues, my body has malfunctions, and emotional probs as well. I don't "pair bond". But i live in a big city. I found relief with sex workers, found some healing. I learned i was "sexual anorexic". Brrr.....

    • @ulicesortega3271
      @ulicesortega3271 Рік тому

      @@carlorizzo827 hello

  • @cityguyusa
    @cityguyusa Рік тому +6

    You younger generations really worry too much about everything. If you're body is willing and you have an opportune moment by all means have at it. If your skin is coming off your dick and your hand is bleeding you've gone too far. But from all the statistics out there you'll probably never have a partner so enjoy it while you can. When you get older you will find you'll probably want it more than your body will allow so again enjoy it while you can.

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      Thanks for that reminder!

    • @cityguyusa
      @cityguyusa Рік тому

      @@WellismoCoaching You're very welcome. Afterall if you get rid of all the work/corp crap we're forced to do what else is there?

  • @alejandrojr.albarracin4432
    @alejandrojr.albarracin4432 Рік тому +1

    Charming❤❤❤

  • @Oldman808
    @Oldman808 Рік тому +4

    Was raised in conservative church. Was taught it violated the 6th commandment! Stopped being religious .

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      Conservative-minded religions have a way of shaming the very thing that makes us human. And I won't even get into the hypocrisy of it all.

  • @shafisheikh7527
    @shafisheikh7527 Рік тому +3

    I'm boned up ❤❤❤❤

  • @JohnWocken
    @JohnWocken Рік тому +2

    No such thing as too much

  • @ernesteinstein9619
    @ernesteinstein9619 Рік тому +3

    So 3% is lying. I’m in the 28% group 😊

  • @davidmezainis7814
    @davidmezainis7814 Рік тому

    Is foreskin a plus to masterbation?

  • @waynemclaughlin96
    @waynemclaughlin96 Рік тому

    Why is it so easier for gay men to talk about masterbation like it's a normalcy to talk about it, but when it comes to straight men its like a taboo subject for them to talk about masterbation among themselves?

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +1

      Right? I have found that strange. My guess is there's a discomfort about talking about it because they'll think it's "gay". I think straight women are much better about talking about their sexuality.

  • @mikstirr3117
    @mikstirr3117 Рік тому +1

    Ask Jeffrey Toobin?

  • @xx5386
    @xx5386 Рік тому

    20 / DAY :)

  • @thealexandarful
    @thealexandarful 10 місяців тому

    Majku vam vasu!

  • @VitalisV
    @VitalisV Рік тому

    Fanks

  • @janusatthegate6201
    @janusatthegate6201 Рік тому

    You left out that it increases your sperm flow.

  • @dieterkassier7011
    @dieterkassier7011 Рік тому +1

    Being a professional I think it inappropriate the faul language used in this broadcast. Swearwords should not be used it lowers your level of seriousness in my opinion, not very serious.too gay

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +1

      I'm extremely gay 🏳‍🌈 Not sorry about it.

  • @ingelindenau1712
    @ingelindenau1712 Рік тому +2

    It is a sin !!!

    • @Scar-jg4bn
      @Scar-jg4bn Рік тому +1

      No it's not you weirdo.

    • @dougr.2245
      @dougr.2245 Рік тому +2

      "Judge not lest you yourself be judged!" Pride is the sin that sent Lucifer to Hell. Don't be so self righteous & prideful.

    • @ingelindenau1712
      @ingelindenau1712 Рік тому +1

      In Romeo and Juliet masturbation is a theme,too. Romeo does it sitting under a tree.

  • @galenstone9097
    @galenstone9097 Рік тому +3

    There is no too much. life is short.

  • @darrellsmith9001
    @darrellsmith9001 Рік тому +4

    What can make it take a long to reach orgasm when masturbation? Sometimes it can take 30 mins to an hour for me to masturbate. Is that too long or unsafe?

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому +1

      "Too long" is subjective. Masturbation does not have a time limit and you don't even have to ejaculate to "finish". You could masturbate for hours if you like, in different ways.

    • @darrellsmith9001
      @darrellsmith9001 Рік тому

      @@WellismoCoaching thanks then that means that there is probably nothing wrong with me physically. I was thinking there was

    • @dougr.2245
      @dougr.2245 Рік тому

      Darrell, I worry about this too. Sometimes i can go for an hour before fullfillment.

    • @dabigd1860
      @dabigd1860 Рік тому

      @Doug R. I wish it took me as long. I am a 2 minute brother. Never takes me that long to get there. Totally screws me up when i do have a partner

    • @johnholden3907
      @johnholden3907 Рік тому

      ​@@dabigd1860take a long time to carese yourself and when the urge starts just realaxe your mind

  • @10-OSwords
    @10-OSwords Рік тому

    Can you do something with masturbation to INCREASE sensitivity?

    • @WellismoCoaching
      @WellismoCoaching Рік тому

      The way that you masturbate can contribute to penile sensitivity. This would be a good question for your doctor.

    • @smokelovelife3669
      @smokelovelife3669 8 місяців тому +1

      Give your penis a long break. 1 month. The longer you do it,the more sensitized it gets.
      I also think that having an active imagination (without touching yourself) increases the sensitivity too.

  • @cityguyusa
    @cityguyusa Рік тому

    And how do you know that the computer genetated overviews, supposedly pulling out the important info, is accurate? How do you know that something hasn't been missed? Just like Windows 10, 11 or xx if you don't verify the functionality chronically you won't know. How many "forums" are out there trying to resolve MS coding problems and yet you all think AI is going to get it right. Good luck with that. Just have it pronounce geographic titles of countries, streets, etc and then try to get it to explain why stu and other odd combinations of letters that don't make words stilli appear in newspaper headlines. How about the problem of saying ˈau̇(-ə)r and how it is going to translate what it hears verses what your intent is. Ever have SIRI OR Alexa get confused when you say, "Alexa turn the bedroom light blue". Does it mean you are using "bedroom light" as the device or do you want the device to turn the bulb color "light blue"? Will AI be able to resolve this? Unlikely. Do we change our pronounciation to solve the computer problem? Because it seems the only option based on the number of people following suit is causing people to mispronounce words and talking more like the computer because they don't know any better. That still leaves the problem of homonyms.