We women short or tall can't get enough of high heels, why do we irk if a guy wants to have shoes to look tall. We girls need to stop judging guys on what makes them happy. We dress provocative or however we like and don't wanna be judged but are so vapid and judgmental in extending that same courtesy to guys. Let's lay off the hypocrisy ladies.
gangliums superficiality is misconstrued to be dominance. It only appears to be something because of someone's perception. Height is all relative, just like beauty or attractiveness. It's interesting how if a guy appears authoritative due to his appearance he is considered authoritative, however if he is authoritative towards his significant other immediately we label him as a misogynistic pig. We only make a case for appearances because we lack some qualities or maybe it is low self esteem and come up with traits we feel encompass some godly being. It's all comic book nonsense where heroes who display all these superficial characteristics and this false appearance is subconsciously applied to our daily lives. Bottom line is this ladies, we cannot judge guys for doing things they do to feel happy, sexy, attractive or whatever and then judge them on the same things we hate to be judged on. A 7 ft tall person will think a 6 ft tall individual to be short, while a 5 ft tall person might see a 4 ft tall person as tiny. None of this matters and it is all perception. There is more to life, we all need to grow up.
TheTraffic247 it shpuldnt matter, I agree. But when youre ashort guy or a fat woman or w.e. life is harder for you. You gets way less dates, people take you less seriously, etc.... It shouldnt be, i eish it wasnt, i want to be around people who arent shallow, but this is still true.
These things become a problem when you yourself perceive them as such. Focus on self improvement and your strengths. Believe me if someone doesn't want to date you because you are not tall enough or don't fit in a size zero outfit. It is their problem, not yours. As a girl who has traveled and seen much, I know as women (every culture) we are much more judgmental towards our own gender and towards everyone else. Our insecurities always get the best of us. Men tend to be more visual, that's just their genetic makeup. If someone doesn't think you are attractive, that's perfectly ok. It does not mean you are not desirable. So stop beating yourself down because some ludicrous society rule made by shallow and insecure people tells you to. People who believe in these stupid perceptions are imperfect and insecure themselves, trust me. Actions speak louder than words, so go out and be yourself and do great things and be happy. The crowd will follow.
TheTraffic247 I see what you're saying, but not all women dress provocatively or even wear high heels. I know I don't. You shouldn't generalize. There's also plenty of women who date short men and are okay with men wearing elevator shoes. It's probably a problem for some if the guy doesn't tell them he's wearing elevator shoes. Then it's like dishonest. If a woman wears heels or make up you already know she doesn't look like that/isn't that tall.
I've noticed it before but I gotta say...this guy is an AMAZING speaker! Staying calm, cool, and collected regardless of being one on one with a hotty or in a 360deg interview with a bunch of style professionals, some of which are ultra butch... staying casual and yet very focused, not rambling. Concise. Poised. Impressive
Women can see 1/4 inch difference from a mile away. Yes they will realize and notice a full 2 inches. A full 2 inches is a big big difference in height. Height ya the number 1 feature that attracts women
Many thanks, I've been looking for "the high life 1 inch shoe lift" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Piyackson Dignified Preponderance - (do a google search ) ? It is a great one of a kind product for discovering how to increase your physical height fast without the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my colleague got amazing results with it.
Good vid brah. I’ll be honest tho brother, even in the picture you did look a little short in that double breasted suit and u weren’t even standing next to anyone. To me, you looked small in that pic and I guess it was the suit. I don’t know 🤷🏿♂️
I went to go see Black Panther this past Friday night, and while this was not the first time, I did notice at the theater that a lot of guys my own height, and others barely an inch taller or shorter than me, all had beautiful dates (also taller, shorter, or the same height as them) and families of their own. This is not the first time I have noticed this, having seen plenty of short guys with girlfriends/wives, and just made me feel disappointed for feeling sorry for myself standing tall at 5'5. I still would like to try shoe lifts, just to see how they will work, but honestly, I will never feel bad about my height ever again and prefer to improve what I can about myself.
Blue-Eyed Dreamer yes, I live in Los Angeles and every day I’m out I see couples where the woman is the same height as or taller than the man. I’d estimate it’s 5 to 10% of all couples-not a small number at all. I wouldn’t mind a few more inches (I’m about 5’7) but it’s really not that big a deal. Take care of your health, feed your mind, love yourself, work hard, and you’ll slay it.
If you´re going to wear lifts try to pick 6FEETCLUB or LiftKits, those are the best brands. And also, don´t wear more than 1 inch in real height gain 'cause the shoes start to look weird and people will notice.
I remember being very self conscious about my height in high school. Then I went to another school where the most popular guy in school was shorter than I was. And this girl I had a crush on but thought wouldn’t be into me because of my height, ended up dating him! So at that point I realized it was all about confidence. I started walking straight. And my wife now is (of course I’m biased) but she’s beautiful man she’s a 10. I also had a crush on her for years. I was in the fried zone. She has always dated tall men. In fact the guy she was talking to who she broke off with for me was 6’5. A whole foot taller than me! She to this day says she finds height attractive. But that after she started dating me she found me so attractive that she started finding other shorter skinny celebrities attractive. Like that became her preference because of me. And I think any women should be entitled to a preference. Some women just find height attractive and that’s perfectly fine. But I also think that preferences can and do change. So yeah it’s just about confidence, personality, maturity, humor etc.
I must admit as well that these interviews are on point. I think I "like" Ashley now. I will check more of her videos. Today's topic was on point!! Well done!!
@@cloroxbleach3936 Yeah women shorter than you are insecure so they always want to compensate and taller ones won't be interested in you. Sucks to be that height. I am not that tall myself (5'7) but I have found that shorter women are the ones who judge me than the ones who are around my height.
I think women will immediately notice how short a man is if they are taller than him. I don't believe that it's the last thing women notice because as a 5'6 guy, there are a lot of women taller than me in my country. Sad.
Well yes she has to love you because she's not going to find many men taller then her. Joking aside though a lot of women do have a personal preference to not date men shorter than them, which is fine, that's their preference. There are women who don't really mind shorter men either too.
Short ladies wear high heels daily so as to get the needed height, that's why elevator shoes have been brought into the market so as to help the short men get the extra inches to their height. It's obvious that the elevator shoes should have the natural ability to add a few inches to one's height, and that's why they are the best fashion option. Chamaripa shoes that make men taller 2~5 inches, the best elevator shoes online.
Soothsayer You're right. It's definitely not the last thing. I used to work with these two guys who were around your height and they were very handsome and dressed well. Then the new manager was a guy even shorter. He was also handsome and muscular and the women didn't care. They would always say, "He's cute but he's short." They said that about all 3 of them. So women notice that right away. It's pretty messed up because they were decent people and smart. I guess you just have to be yourself and the right women will find you and not care. Those women were superficial assholes.
I know this is an old video but I feel like this needs to be said. Your confidence and physique level are the 1st forms of communication as a man. I stand at a healthy 5'7 And I manage to catch the interests of gorgeous women in the 6 ft range. I was initially taken away by the attention that I would get by these tall, beautiful women, but in reality I needed to acknowledge that all the years that I've put in the gym and all the internal work that I have put into myself to be the best version of myself has allowed my sexual prowess to reach a level that speaks for itself. Quite literally, so guys I highly suggest you get your butt in the gym and you work on yourself internally and everything else will fall into place.
Ronnie Corbett, one of the best comedy actors ever, was a little guy and made jokes about his own lack of height, as did Ronnie Barker. The first thing I noticed about Ronnie Corbett however, was how very smartly dressed he always looked. His suits fitted him perfectly. I know, they would be bespoke and so were bound to fit perfectly, but it still showed how important correctly fitting clothes are. Plus he always “walked tall” and confidently.
good collab brock! I don't always agree with ashley weston, but these were some good tips for us shorter dudes. Love your vids and keep up the good working!
100% agree on wearing stuff that fits. I'm a thinner guy, only 5'7" and I pretty much only buy Ralph Lauren because they actually have an XS in men's. Their XS T's and Polos fit me perfectly. It makes a world of difference from other brands that are loose. Loose clothes scream skinny and small. Any other suggestions on brands that run small?
antiDestroyer waist to shoulder ratio differs for different people. They go below my belt but not by much. There certainly is more length desired when I’m reaching for anything.
The Modest Man woa!! thanks for the reply, I also believe that dressing properly and having a good physique can make you appear much taller, im a solid 174cm which is about 5'8.5 I believe, but I always claim 5'8, and it just feels more reassuring when someone thinks I'm 5'9 or some people have even mistaken me for being 5'10 😆 it definitely is a small confidence booster!👍👌
I just want to say that I have been enjoying your videos. I am not short in stature. In fact, I am slightly over 6-feet tall and of an average-to-slim-athletic build. However, I am learning an enormous amount via your tips for men. Thank you!
Ashley is just being nice here and doesn't want to offend anybody who is a little bit on the short side. Girls notice if a guy is shorter than she is, and they don't like it. I once had a blind date with a girl and we met at a restaurant We proceeded to sit down and have a drink before we ordered. We both engaged in a conversation and the first thing she said to me was, I thought you would be taller. Whereby, I almost said I thought you would be prettier. Guys remember, girls want guys that are taller than they are. C'mon Ashly you know this.
I won't lie it's true a lot of the times which is why being short can be a disadvantage but it doesn't mean you're doomed. My brother is about 5'6 and his wife is 5'9, and you can tell she loves him. I won't lie my brother had to work on himself a lot but it can happen, but it does suck short dues have to work so hard for what tall guys can get easier.
I'm liking the collaboration/interviews. The exchange is enlightening and gives a more full perspective on what to do/not do, but also naturally incorporates why and reactions. I also like the occasional cut to visual examples. Oh, and care to share what you two were discussing shortly before the video started? What caused her to use bad language and needed the started edited? I cant help but be curious.
Glad you're enjoying this series! We were talking about guys who make fun of other men for dressing well or caring about their appearance. You can probably imagine one or two words that describe those kind of guys...
I'm 6'6 and I can't tell the difference between my friends who are 5'6 and 5'10. Also, taller people can also be a bit self-conscious. It's sometimes awkward to walk into and be the tallest person by 6 inches.
I would say fit comes first, chosing colors comes 2nd and patterns would be 3rd. I can pull off some big patterns with the right fit. I use lifters inside my shoes, when dating a girl taller than me on situation that I know she's probably wearing high heels, so the difference wouldn't be too much (going to the club, attending a wedding for example)
You look like Tom Holland’s dad and it’s awesome, I’ve fallen down a 6 hour rabbit hole of your videos and it’s awesome. You’re real, funny, and you cut the shit. Love the content
Few brands seem to offer short sizes and when they do, they're seldom all in stock but short guys should opt for MTM or even bespoke, better to have one really well made suit than four ill-fitting off the racks.
Custom (MTM) is the way to go in my opinion, at least when it comes to shirts and suits. The price often isn't that much higher than off-the-rack, and it's definitely worth the wait. Actual tailoring, like bespoke, is understandably prohibitedly expensive for the most of us since I'm guessing that your target audience is guys in their twenties and thirties. Anyway, great collab. I'd love to get more suggestions for lesser known brands with appropriate sizing and ok pricing. Thanks!
Agreed that MTM is a great option for many men, especially for shirts. MTM suits are very hit or miss, assuming you're doing it online. If you can get measured in person (by someone who knows what they're doing), that's a better option.
K. Hart is very talented and stylish…'course when you make $87 mill. a year and you have your own personal stylists it's much easier to look good. Great channel Brock!
I'm around 5'7, never really had lack of women in my life. Some flat out rejected me for being too short. But hey, one rule to stick by is: If a girl won't date you because of that. Then move on and find someone who will.
@@sanket677 lol you think it matters?? Stop being so obsessed about height that you have to ask about a millimeter here and there. Nobody is holding a measuring tape 24x7 around you.
I can attest to Don's, sincerely. The build quality is astonishing. Solid heel, great worksmanship overall. I got a 2.5 inch lift option, with regards with your conversation with Ashley above I'd like to think that option falls into the category of "Pshhaw it's not a big deal" . I wouldn't want to go overly large for reasons including comfort and not solely likeliness to be noticed. The ones I'd gotten wear slightly too small and I sold them on, I've since now purchased another two which are to arrive shortly. If you'd be interested I will indeed let you know how my own personal experience with them goes. The new ones are 2.5 inch black double monk strap (I've wanted monk for a while) and the other, getting ready for summer, is a light brown tan brogue oxford, 3.15 inch. Larger than I'd have liked, however it was on sale. Normally the nicer MST (mid sole tech) shoes tend to be £200 I've seen, managed to get these pairs for £100 each. The MST produces less of a slope, where the heel portion up to the midfoot is mostly flat, then dropping more towards the toe. Helps with stopping the foot being on an incline throughout the whole length, unlike women's heels. edit: I'm 176cm, 5'9", 5'10" on a good day. Not short, nor tall.
I'm in conversation with ModestMan discussing shoes until you come along decide "You know what? I'm feeling insecure about being 5'6". Let's make a comment ridiculing this guy, even though it's totally not necessary and the convo beforehand has been completely amicable." It's people like you who ruin UA-cam. At the end of the day you're still a 5'6" shrimpie though and I'll always have that on you. Have fun picking up the scraps I leave behind.
I don't think you read the first reply. It's not a need or a feeling, it's a Machiavellian drive to make use of any and all advantages available. I wouldn't expect you to understand though, it's okay to be hurt. You're a horrible person in general with nothing better to do than shame strangers you don't know online. Such a sad little man. I feel sorry for you. I hope you manage to find a woman who can perhaps look past your ugly personality.
7:50 IMO, it the complete opposite for me. If you're wearing lift for comfort or confidence then that fine. But if you're wearing lift inside of normal shoe just so people think you're taller than that compensating. On the other hand, platform and shoe with heel on the outside is visible to everyone. How is someone wearing shoe with 2 inch platform (which is better for your feet than a 2 inch insole) compensating? But hiding your 2 inch inside normal shoe is fine? If being taller make you more confidence then wear platform of shoe with heel. People can see it and know that you're be shorter bare foot. No one can say that you're insecure or catfishing with your height.
Very good video!! You mentioned a lot of sizes on the video, but I feel like not knowing those numbers and what they mean at all. Could you make another video to introduce the size of tops and bottoms?
Most of the time, it's the good look that's people looking for when going out to meet! Wealth, fashion, height, attitude, or whatever is just a bonus! You can be homeless person but if you have a cute/pretty face?! Ding ding you win their attention! So it's really doesn't matter what you wear or how carry yourself, it's up to the girl if she thinks you look good enough to be with her in the bed! And everything else she puts a side. then later she helps you with the other stuff that you're lacking of!
Brock, question about the jacket length. Is the mid-crotch length recommended for all jackets? Are you guys talking casual such as leather and denim? Or more dressy casual and formal like blazers and suit jackets?
Arm length on off-the-peg sports coats etc. are too long even in the short size. They should allow a little bit of shirt cuff to be showing. It’s easy to shorten trouser/pants length, but the buttons on the sleeves, limit how much they can be shortened .
Well from personal experience women do notice when you go from taller than them to shorter than them even by half a inch. 12:30 I would bet a 100 she was gonna say K. Hart. The man looks great!
Bro nobody is holding a fucking measuring tape 24x7 to measure your height. 1 or 2 inches go unnoticed depending on you build, posture, clothes and hairstyles...... especially if you are taller than the girl. Stop being obsessed about a couple cms lol.
The Modest Man I'm talking about the public intellectual by the way, not the singer hehe He's a big jiu-jitsu proponent like you as well. I think I'm totally gonna get into BJJ because of you guys.
Really nice video, I thought it would've been a nice question to ask about modest men wearing women or children's clothing, considering you are in favor of doing so.
We women short or tall can't get enough of high heels, why do we irk if a guy wants to have shoes to look tall. We girls need to stop judging guys on what makes them happy. We dress provocative or however we like and don't wanna be judged but are so vapid and judgmental in extending that same courtesy to guys. Let's lay off the hypocrisy ladies.
it's because a guy's height signifies dominance and false displays of dominance are ridiculed in all of nature.
gangliums superficiality is misconstrued to be dominance. It only appears to be something because of someone's perception. Height is all relative, just like beauty or attractiveness. It's interesting how if a guy appears authoritative due to his appearance he is considered authoritative, however if he is authoritative towards his significant other immediately we label him as a misogynistic pig. We only make a case for appearances because we lack some qualities or maybe it is low self esteem and come up with traits we feel encompass some godly being. It's all comic book nonsense where heroes who display all these superficial characteristics and this false appearance is subconsciously applied to our daily lives. Bottom line is this ladies, we cannot judge guys for doing things they do to feel happy, sexy, attractive or whatever and then judge them on the same things we hate to be judged on. A 7 ft tall person will think a 6 ft tall individual to be short, while a 5 ft tall person might see a 4 ft tall person as tiny. None of this matters and it is all perception. There is more to life, we all need to grow up.
TheTraffic247 it shpuldnt matter, I agree. But when youre ashort guy or a fat woman or w.e. life is harder for you. You gets way less dates, people take you less seriously, etc.... It shouldnt be, i eish it wasnt, i want to be around people who arent shallow, but this is still true.
These things become a problem when you yourself perceive them as such. Focus on self improvement and your strengths. Believe me if someone doesn't want to date you because you are not tall enough or don't fit in a size zero outfit. It is their problem, not yours. As a girl who has traveled and seen much, I know as women (every culture) we are much more judgmental towards our own gender and towards everyone else. Our insecurities always get the best of us. Men tend to be more visual, that's just their genetic makeup. If someone doesn't think you are attractive, that's perfectly ok. It does not mean you are not desirable. So stop beating yourself down because some ludicrous society rule made by shallow and insecure people tells you to. People who believe in these stupid perceptions are imperfect and insecure themselves, trust me. Actions speak louder than words, so go out and be yourself and do great things and be happy. The crowd will follow.
TheTraffic247 I see what you're saying, but not all women dress provocatively or even wear high heels. I know I don't. You shouldn't generalize. There's also plenty of women who date short men and are okay with men wearing elevator shoes. It's probably a problem for some if the guy doesn't tell them he's wearing elevator shoes. Then it's like dishonest. If a woman wears heels or make up you already know she doesn't look like that/isn't that tall.
I've noticed it before but I gotta say...this guy is an AMAZING speaker! Staying calm, cool, and collected regardless of being one on one with a hotty or in a 360deg interview with a bunch of style professionals, some of which are ultra butch... staying casual and yet very focused, not rambling. Concise. Poised. Impressive
"Most Women don't even know a two inch difference" That's what she said.
"Is it in yet" lol
Women can see 1/4 inch difference from a mile away. Yes they will realize and notice a full 2 inches. A full 2 inches is a big big difference in height. Height ya the number 1 feature that attracts women
Many thanks, I've been looking for "the high life 1 inch shoe lift" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Piyackson Dignified Preponderance - (do a google search ) ? It is a great one of a kind product for discovering how to increase your physical height fast without the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my colleague got amazing results with it.
Imagine being 5"2 and hearing her say the shortest man she dressed up was 5"3
Lol
Just grow drink milk
5'1
Thanks to Ashley for sitting down with me and answering some questions about dressing the man of modest height...enjoy!
@@rhaeghartargaryen871 you have the name of a third world dog
Good vid brah. I’ll be honest tho brother, even in the picture you did look a little short in that double breasted suit and u weren’t even standing next to anyone. To me, you looked small in that pic and I guess it was the suit. I don’t know 🤷🏿♂️
I went to go see Black Panther this past Friday night, and while this was not the first time, I did notice at the theater that a lot of guys my own height, and others barely an inch taller or shorter than me, all had beautiful dates (also taller, shorter, or the same height as them) and families of their own. This is not the first time I have noticed this, having seen plenty of short guys with girlfriends/wives, and just made me feel disappointed for feeling sorry for myself standing tall at 5'5. I still would like to try shoe lifts, just to see how they will work, but honestly, I will never feel bad about my height ever again and prefer to improve what I can about myself.
Blue-Eyed Dreamer yes, I live in Los Angeles and every day I’m out I see couples where the woman is the same height as or taller than the man. I’d estimate it’s 5 to 10% of all couples-not a small number at all.
I wouldn’t mind a few more inches (I’m about 5’7) but it’s really not that big a deal. Take care of your health, feed your mind, love yourself, work hard, and you’ll slay it.
If you´re going to wear lifts try to pick 6FEETCLUB or LiftKits, those are the best brands. And also, don´t wear more than 1 inch in real height gain 'cause the shoes start to look weird and people will notice.
Just dont ever ask women on their opinion on height and you can continue to feel happy and confident
I remember being very self conscious about my height in high school. Then I went to another school where the most popular guy in school was shorter than I was. And this girl I had a crush on but thought wouldn’t be into me because of my height, ended up dating him! So at that point I realized it was all about confidence. I started walking straight. And my wife now is (of course I’m biased) but she’s beautiful man she’s a 10. I also had a crush on her for years. I was in the fried zone. She has always dated tall men. In fact the guy she was talking to who she broke off with for me was 6’5. A whole foot taller than me! She to this day says she finds height attractive. But that after she started dating me she found me so attractive that she started finding other shorter skinny celebrities attractive. Like that became her preference because of me. And I think any women should be entitled to a preference. Some women just find height attractive and that’s perfectly fine. But I also think that preferences can and do change. So yeah it’s just about confidence, personality, maturity, humor etc.
I must admit as well that these interviews are on point. I think I "like" Ashley now. I will check more of her videos. Today's topic was on point!! Well done!!
Thanks man!
Oh, yeah! I def agr--waiiiit a minute...
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My boy looks like Tom Holland /spider-man
He's actually Tom Holland.
Wow awesome video collaboration, two youtubers i watch everyday. Nice one bro.
Thank you, sir!
Keep up the amazing work! A day with a new "the modest man" video is always a good day.
Thanks for the support!
I have no problem with my height (5'6") but I appreciated the fashion advice. Thanks for both of your time!
Try my height 5'3. I'd kill to be 5'6.
@@cloroxbleach3936 same
@@cloroxbleach3936 Yeah women shorter than you are insecure so they always want to compensate and taller ones won't be interested in you. Sucks to be that height. I am not that tall myself (5'7) but I have found that shorter women are the ones who judge me than the ones who are around my height.
@@youtubesucks2755 true
I think women will immediately notice how short a man is if they are taller than him. I don't believe that it's the last thing women notice because as a 5'6 guy, there are a lot of women taller than me in my country. Sad.
So what I am about 5'11 and my gf is almost 6'3 so she is noticably taller than me. We still love each other so much.
Well yes she has to love you because she's not going to find many men taller then her. Joking aside though a lot of women do have a personal preference to not date men shorter than them, which is fine, that's their preference. There are women who don't really mind shorter men either too.
Short ladies wear high heels daily so as to get the needed height, that's why elevator shoes have been brought into the market so as to help the short men get the extra inches to their height. It's obvious that the elevator shoes should have the natural ability to add a few inches to one's height, and that's why they are the best fashion option. Chamaripa shoes that make men taller 2~5 inches, the best elevator shoes online.
Soothsayer You're right. It's definitely not the last thing. I used to work with these two guys who were around your height and they were very handsome and dressed well. Then the new manager was a guy even shorter. He was also handsome and muscular and the women didn't care. They would always say, "He's cute but he's short." They said that about all 3 of them. So women notice that right away. It's pretty messed up because they were decent people and smart. I guess you just have to be yourself and the right women will find you and not care. Those women were superficial assholes.
You from England?
Brock, this conversation series rocks. Full stop. Please do more and congrats.
Best regards,
F.
I know this is an old video but I feel like this needs to be said. Your confidence and physique level are the 1st forms of communication as a man. I stand at a healthy 5'7 And I manage to catch the interests of gorgeous women in the 6 ft range. I was initially taken away by the attention that I would get by these tall, beautiful women, but in reality I needed to acknowledge that all the years that I've put in the gym and all the internal work that I have put into myself to be the best version of myself has allowed my sexual prowess to reach a level that speaks for itself. Quite literally, so guys I highly suggest you get your butt in the gym and you work on yourself internally and everything else will fall into place.
5'10", decent looking, a year in the gym with
@@cwill6491 He's lying, and you're being honest, that's what's different.
Lmao 😂
Ronnie Corbett, one of the best comedy actors ever, was a little guy and made jokes about his own lack of height, as did Ronnie Barker. The first thing I noticed about Ronnie Corbett however, was how very smartly dressed he always looked. His suits fitted him perfectly. I know, they would be bespoke and so were bound to fit perfectly, but it still showed how important correctly fitting clothes are. Plus he always “walked tall” and confidently.
good collab brock! I don't always agree with ashley weston, but these were some good tips for us shorter dudes. Love your vids and keep up the good working!
Thanks, Jesse! Yeah, there are some gems in this convo.
love the genuine discussion and lack of disrespect in the video
100% agree on wearing stuff that fits. I'm a thinner guy, only 5'7" and I pretty much only buy Ralph Lauren because they actually have an XS in men's. Their XS T's and Polos fit me perfectly. It makes a world of difference from other brands that are loose. Loose clothes scream skinny and small. Any other suggestions on brands that run small?
Your not 5'7 if your wearing xs I'm 5'7 and a size small stops at exactly at my waist
antiDestroyer waist to shoulder ratio differs for different people. They go below my belt but not by much. There certainly is more length desired when I’m reaching for anything.
Yes Ralph Lauren shirts are perfect
“How tall is Shaq again?” THAT NAME DROP THOUGH DAMN ASHLEY
You've just got a new subscriber! Thanks for the collab Brock, Ashley great as usual, great quality videos my man!
ModestMan and AshleyWeston colab,
two of my top youtubers~
awsome work both of you!!!
Thanks!
The Modest Man woa!! thanks for the reply, I also believe that dressing properly and having a good physique can make you appear much taller,
im a solid 174cm which is about 5'8.5 I believe, but I always claim 5'8, and it just feels more reassuring when someone thinks I'm 5'9 or some people have even mistaken me for being 5'10 😆 it definitely is a small confidence booster!👍👌
These videos make me so happy and hopeful
I just want to say that I have been enjoying your videos. I am not short in stature. In fact, I am slightly over 6-feet tall and of an average-to-slim-athletic build. However, I am learning an enormous amount via your tips for men. Thank you!
Glad to hear that, and thanks for watching!
So glad to see two of my favorite UA-camrs together!
as 5'5 why didnt i know this channel before! subbed.
Good interview Brock! Ashley is fun... ☺
The only problem with being small is finding clothes that fit. You can wear anything, if you find your fit.
Fit trumps all, but I'd argue that color and proportion are very important too.
Why do I listen to this girl? Oh yes it’s because she knows what she’s talking about. Thanks always for your advices!
Great chat! Love seeing these interviews.
Ashley is just being nice here and doesn't want to offend anybody who is a little bit on the short side. Girls notice if a guy is shorter than she is, and they don't like it. I once
had a blind date with a girl and we met at a restaurant We proceeded to sit down and have a drink before we ordered. We both engaged in a conversation and the first thing she said to
me was, I thought you would be taller. Whereby, I almost said I thought you would be prettier. Guys remember, girls want guys that are taller than they are. C'mon Ashly you know this.
I won't lie it's true a lot of the times which is why being short can be a disadvantage but it doesn't mean you're doomed. My brother is about 5'6 and his wife is 5'9, and you can tell she loves him. I won't lie my brother had to work on himself a lot but it can happen, but it does suck short dues have to work so hard for what tall guys can get easier.
I'm liking the collaboration/interviews. The exchange is enlightening and gives a more full perspective on what to do/not do, but also naturally incorporates why and reactions. I also like the occasional cut to visual examples.
Oh, and care to share what you two were discussing shortly before the video started? What caused her to use bad language and needed the started edited? I cant help but be curious.
Glad you're enjoying this series! We were talking about guys who make fun of other men for dressing well or caring about their appearance. You can probably imagine one or two words that describe those kind of guys...
I'm 6'6 and I can't tell the difference between my friends who are 5'6 and 5'10. Also, taller people can also be a bit self-conscious. It's sometimes awkward to walk into and be the tallest person by 6 inches.
respect bro
@@pranjalshelar3830 for what
The best outfit you can wear is confidence!
oh i wanna see you collab with alpha m
+Reder Blue would love to! Gotta make it out to Atlanta again...
@@BrockMcGoff Uhm no alpha m is all about content spamming
@@mochithemaltese fax
@@mochithemaltese no
I would say fit comes first, chosing colors comes 2nd and patterns would be 3rd.
I can pull off some big patterns with the right fit.
I use lifters inside my shoes, when dating a girl taller than me on situation that I know she's probably wearing high heels, so the difference wouldn't be too much (going to the club, attending a wedding for example)
You look like Tom Holland’s dad and it’s awesome, I’ve fallen down a 6 hour rabbit hole of your videos and it’s awesome. You’re real, funny, and you cut the shit. Love the content
I love that she is so sensitive to us not so tall guys, not judging us or anything, as a woman and a professional. I'm 5'9.5 in shoes.
@Viking1997 - just bc im a little tan and dark hair color doesn't mean that im italian.
Awesome interview! Two amazing people!
Few brands seem to offer short sizes and when they do, they're seldom all in stock but short guys should opt for MTM or even bespoke, better to have one really well made suit than four ill-fitting off the racks.
I love these segments! Keep up the great work Brock!
Thanks, will do!
Kevin Hart is 5'2! Never would've guessed.
The Joker HES 5’4
@@looksmax4207 He's 5'2, he lied about his height like many other celebs.
@@gj9157 he wears thick shoes so yeah, he lies
Hes a celebrity, you are not. You are doomed
+The Modest Man Just love this new format. #AskTheModestMan. Cheers, m8.
I was about to say Saint Laurent makes some great fitting clothes for shorter men.
what a lovely intelligent woman!
Custom (MTM) is the way to go in my opinion, at least when it comes to shirts and suits. The price often isn't that much higher than off-the-rack, and it's definitely worth the wait. Actual tailoring, like bespoke, is understandably prohibitedly expensive for the most of us since I'm guessing that your target audience is guys in their twenties and thirties. Anyway, great collab. I'd love to get more suggestions for lesser known brands with appropriate sizing and ok pricing. Thanks!
Agreed that MTM is a great option for many men, especially for shirts. MTM suits are very hit or miss, assuming you're doing it online. If you can get measured in person (by someone who knows what they're doing), that's a better option.
Wow you're celebrity of men's stylist, Ashley!
Omg what a surprise collaboration video. Hopefully their will more videos between you two together.
That would be awesome...gotta make it out to LA more often. Where are you located btw?
Thank you for the video sir!!!
You're very welcome!
K. Hart is very talented and stylish…'course when you make $87 mill. a year and you have your own personal stylists it's much easier to look good. Great channel Brock!
love these collabs
Such a fantastic duo. I've gotten such good advice from both of you. Do this colab again. =)
she’s definitely pretty
This guy is an alpha male...even though he's shorter (like me) he has tons of confidence.
I'm around 5'7, never really had lack of women in my life. Some flat out rejected me for being too short. But hey, one rule to stick by is: If a girl won't date you because of that. Then move on and find someone who will.
By AROUND 5'7 . You mean SHORTER than 5'7 or TALLER ?
@@sanket677 I was 5'7 in the army. Who cares anyway. If one woman rejects a guy, NEXT!
@@sanket677 lol you think it matters?? Stop being so obsessed about height that you have to ask about a millimeter here and there. Nobody is holding a measuring tape 24x7 around you.
Wow. She is fantastic.
Good advice on choosing small instead of regular
I've been looking forward to more elevator shoes content, eager to watch.
Nice... do you wear them? Any favorite brands?
I can attest to Don's, sincerely. The build quality is astonishing. Solid heel, great worksmanship overall.
I got a 2.5 inch lift option, with regards with your conversation with Ashley above I'd like to think that option falls into the category of "Pshhaw it's not a big deal" . I wouldn't want to go overly large for reasons including comfort and not solely likeliness to be noticed.
The ones I'd gotten wear slightly too small and I sold them on, I've since now purchased another two which are to arrive shortly. If you'd be interested I will indeed let you know how my own personal experience with them goes.
The new ones are 2.5 inch black double monk strap (I've wanted monk for a while) and the other, getting ready for summer, is a light brown tan brogue oxford, 3.15 inch. Larger than I'd have liked, however it was on sale.
Normally the nicer MST (mid sole tech) shoes tend to be £200 I've seen, managed to get these pairs for £100 each. The MST produces less of a slope, where the heel portion up to the midfoot is mostly flat, then dropping more towards the toe. Helps with stopping the foot being on an incline throughout the whole length, unlike women's heels.
edit: I'm 176cm, 5'9", 5'10" on a good day. Not short, nor tall.
Larry King I wear these to get an even larger height advantage over losers such as yourself.
I'm in conversation with ModestMan discussing shoes until you come along decide "You know what? I'm feeling insecure about being 5'6". Let's make a comment ridiculing this guy, even though it's totally not necessary and the convo beforehand has been completely amicable."
It's people like you who ruin UA-cam.
At the end of the day you're still a 5'6" shrimpie though and I'll always have that on you. Have fun picking up the scraps I leave behind.
I don't think you read the first reply. It's not a need or a feeling, it's a Machiavellian drive to make use of any and all advantages available. I wouldn't expect you to understand though, it's okay to be hurt. You're a horrible person in general with nothing better to do than shame strangers you don't know online. Such a sad little man. I feel sorry for you. I hope you manage to find a woman who can perhaps look past your ugly personality.
I'm short but not in height
Rip
Dick joke?
But what if your short and jacked?
+sophisticatedswanson same principles apply!
Awesome collab
7:50 IMO, it the complete opposite for me. If you're wearing lift for comfort or confidence then that fine. But if you're wearing lift inside of normal shoe just so people think you're taller than that compensating. On the other hand, platform and shoe with heel on the outside is visible to everyone. How is someone wearing shoe with 2 inch platform (which is better for your feet than a 2 inch insole) compensating? But hiding your 2 inch inside normal shoe is fine? If being taller make you more confidence then wear platform of shoe with heel. People can see it and know that you're be shorter bare foot. No one can say that you're insecure or catfishing with your height.
It's seeing a celebrity in person that you have the person in life they look taller when you see 1-1 the is a lot
shorter.
Loved this!
Excellent video y'all
Very good video!! You mentioned a lot of sizes on the video, but I feel like not knowing those numbers and what they mean at all. Could you make another video to introduce the size of tops and bottoms?
I am a small framed guy but 6 feet tall. Not so much fun sometimes.
Outstanding video. Ashley is so much fun!
The collab we wanted ✔
Before she said Kevin Heart I was crossing my fingers hoping she was going to say Danny Devito haha.
Danny Devito yeah right she would never say his name
2-3” elevator shoes can make a huge difference in height without looking awkward when you wearing it.
And straight posture and more volumed hairstyle combine that with elevator shoe you instantly gained 5 inches atleast
You can tell she's a youtube personality herself by the way she looks into the camera.
Do most guys really lie about their height?
Most of the time, it's the good look that's people looking for when going out to meet! Wealth, fashion, height, attitude, or whatever is just a bonus! You can be homeless person but if you have a cute/pretty face?! Ding ding you win their attention! So it's really doesn't matter what you wear or how carry yourself, it's up to the girl if she thinks you look good enough to be with her in the bed! And everything else she puts a side. then later she helps you with the other stuff that you're lacking of!
great video brotha
this video help me, thank you sir!
keep up the good video bro!
Thanks, will do!
Brock, question about the jacket length. Is the mid-crotch length recommended for all jackets? Are you guys talking casual such as leather and denim? Or more dressy casual and formal like blazers and suit jackets?
We were talking about sportcoats, blazers and suit jackets, not casual jackets like leather jackets or denim.
Arm length on off-the-peg sports coats etc. are too long even in the short size. They should allow a little bit of shirt cuff to be showing. It’s easy to shorten trouser/pants length, but the buttons on the sleeves, limit how much they can be shortened .
Glad I found your channel bud 👍🏼 nice interview.
Darker colors talk up more space to your eyes. Think of say a counter top one dark granite and one white marble.
Once a taller girl told me... most guys worry about the wrong inches if you know what I mean
Make more video, it really helps us ..awesome thanks!
Quick questions, how long have you been letting your grow?
+The king about 4 months with two cleanups.
She's the best.
Well from personal experience women do notice when you go from taller than them to shorter than them even by half a inch.
12:30 I would bet a 100 she was gonna say K. Hart. The man looks great!
HI Modest Man, what is your favorite brand of dress shoes? What is your favorite color for dress shoes?
What the hell is a size 2 man ? I’ve never heard men referred to as numbers like this.
When did they mention Kevin hart, can y'all help a brother out with a time stamp. Thanks in advance
how about 5`3. im 24 lol
i bet im better looking than you. lel
Just banned that jerk from the channel. Thanks for responding!
Same bro.
You're not that shorter than me at 5'5
We are practically the same lol
Short men gotta stick together
Sup man......u're good looking
love the casual Shaq namedrop
Should short guys even wear banyans? For some reason capes are OK but banyans aren't.
Should you avoid overcoats if you are 5"8?
Nah, just make sure they don't go past the knee. Mid-thigh is ideal.
She was amazing.
Im a legit 5ft 8 3/4 (174cm) and i feel shortish, alot of people class under 5 ft 8 as short would you agree?
no, ur avarege, people are dumb !
I'm 173 get down there you fucking giant
Bro nobody is holding a fucking measuring tape 24x7 to measure your height. 1 or 2 inches go unnoticed depending on you build, posture, clothes and hairstyles...... especially if you are taller than the girl. Stop being obsessed about a couple cms lol.
Doe elevator shoe make you look taller? Does any hope for me
My god she does waffle on a bit!! But eventually gets to the point .... But its an informative video.
Im also 5'6 i would be happy being 5'8 but my dream height is 6ft
You have the swag of a fashionable Sam Harris.
That’s the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to me ☺️
The Modest Man I'm talking about the public intellectual by the way, not the singer hehe He's a big jiu-jitsu proponent like you as well.
I think I'm totally gonna get into BJJ because of you guys.
Really nice video, I thought it would've been a nice question to ask about modest men wearing women or children's clothing, considering you are in favor of doing so.
I knew she was gonna say Kevin heart lmao